“ I think I might have overreacted, can we go back to the old babysitting schedule” is not an apology. Sarah never apologized. That sentence is disgustingly disrespectful
OPs mom isn't Kind or nice. She's a enabling, people pleasing pushover whose daughter grew a backbone early for the both of them and had to defend her because she, the mom, wouldn't and is paying for it in her old age.
The SIL stopped working to care for her kids . Yet , she dropped her kids off to her MIL . That's just pure dee laziness . Plus , it's not HER actual Mom , so she probably doesn't care about her health. 🙄 Why can't a grown woman SAHM handle two kids 😒??
Nahh, just normal person that ain't letting people walk over her I'd say. She had cops called on her for "dumping the kids" so she said, okay, we will play your game then, and just matched their energy and protected her mum
Finally someone with a spine!! How many of these people go through entire sagas before they decide enough is enough? It gets so predictable that it’s absolutely revolting. “I just want to keep the peace” “be the bigger person” “am I the ahole for having this perfectly normal reaction to an entitled brat” “I forgive my wife/husband for cheating but am absolutely shocked when she does it repeatedly” 🤮
I LOVE that someone in these stories finally has a backbone & doesnt get walked all over & guilted into shit. It blows my mind how often family/friends involve themselves via texts/phone/opinions into others business, my answer would always be THEN YOU DO IT THEN. A lot more of these reddit OPs need to take note of how its done!! When the aunty/uncle/cousin/friend texts or calls & says "but faaaaamily" thats when you reply - good, ill let them know that since im not doing it anymore that YOU are willing to help/take them in/give them money. Watch them come up with every excuse!!
If only all OP’s had the shiny spine this one exhibited. She didn’t bring down the hammer until her sister-in-law called the cops on her. But then she acted rightly to protect herself and her mother from these entitled overgrown children. If you produce offspring, they are your rodeo nobody else’s.
Mine did Because of an inheritance So basically, I was left with the highest share of my parents property, because, idk, I took care of them every time they were sick when my sisters never even helped one bit. So they decided to call the cops on me because in their entitled minds, I stole what was rightfully theirs and since they believed I stole it, and since stealing is a crime, therefore they called the cops to arrest me for stealing their inheritance Idk who was laughing more Me Or the cops
This is a little off topic but are these kids like total monsters? Their own mom wants to ditch them to do things around the house and watching them three days a week made grandma's blood pressure spike to dangerous levels.
Pretty sure the kids are indeed uncontrollable monsters 😂. Thats why grandma was about to die of a heart attack, and mom and dad don't care, they just want to pawn them off on anyone dumb enough to watch them. Hell, if the husband's mom refuses next, the mom and dad will probably just start leaving them with strangers. 😂
well if it isn't the consequences of SIL's own actions let's look at what she did here: 1: got prissy over an argument and took it out on kids who weren't involved 2: called the police when OP dropped off her kids like usual which could have threatened OP's job 3: quit her own job yet still had someone else watching the kids 4: sending her own MIL to the hospital multiple times 5: started getting everyone up in arms against OP for stopping her from abusing OP's mom 6: still blamed OP for everything even after she had to move back in with her own parents
Op needed to stop pointing at her career being the main issue. A much better reson that would have shut everyone up is that you don't trust her anymore to watch your kids since they were so shook up after the experience. And you arent going to look after her children for free going forward. Not to mention if you ever weren't exactly on time giving her kids back, you dont trust her to not call the coos on some kidnapping charge
Part of the problem is some stories either have no ending and/or are mixed with others thus confusing the watcher/listener. There are also grammatical errors that do not help and a few stories are either reposts or very similar with just genders and names changed.
amazing how P's that simp about 'how you should have kiiiidz'.. and then sit back and watch train wrecks like this. I observed this all my life. have kids? you could not pay me enough.
Your sister was awful in calling the cops on you. And your family for coming after you was terrible. But what does it mean that you just dropped the kids off without checking to see if your sister or a grownup was there? And how could anyone reach you if there was a emergency regarding the kids if your phone is on silent? You as a parent who has some responsibility too.
She keeps saying that SIL could’ve ruined her career but what about the fact that the children could’ve been completely traumatized?? 🥺 other than that, NTA!!
I kept waiting to hear that Sarah was having an affair. Happy to know that they just need to learn how to manage their time & put their home & family first.
Well the channel is losing traction due to things your subscribers warned you about and you completely ignored their warnings The stories without updates The stories where you repeat the same thing multiple times The 40m long stories where you retell everything all over again You didn't listen
The change in voice actor without a "this is temporary!" tag or a "We're trying this experiment." tag/words may have lost you a bunch of followers. The other voice is... not great. This voice is great!
Losing traction because your stories have way too inaccuracies, repeat sentences, slightly tweaked repeat stories and way too many mystery aunts, uncles and cousins.
I enjoyed this story 2 tell u the truth. It's sad when u 2 narcastic adults who r terrible parents and sorry excuses as human beings. The mother was 2 soft 4 me,Until it almost costed her health . I would've called not only the police 4 child abandonment. But I would have called CPS. People like that. Shouldn't even have children
in the real world saying "Sorry" does not fix things. even if you are forgiven, things are not that easily forgotten. you. show someone who you are, expect them to treat you like it in the future
Every time i listen to one of these it's the same sort of thing. Responsible person gets screwed over by lazy entitled relative, usually sister or sister in law. Then responsible one tells lazy one to piss off, which screws over lazy one considerably more, then entire family backs the lazy one and everyone tries to guilt trip responsible one into letting the grudge go. I use to think at least some of these were real but looking back at them, i doubt any of them are.
Its losing traction because you play to many ads, why not read the story in your real voice so that you've actually earned the money you gain from the ads.
have children, they are a bweeesssing. they will improve your marriage/relationship. having kiddies makes you soooo matuuure. hahahahahahaaaaaa. what a crock..
"What about the kids", they have their lazy arse mother at home, there is no reason for her to leave their kids with anyone else. Sarah was being a lazy B, other mothers managed to take care of their households with the children around. You should not have children if you can't take care of them, you should only be having them with the expectation that you can take care of them without outside help. It looks like they kept breeding children expecting other people to help and that ended badly.
Not that I believe that the story is real. But it is still worrying that never in this story the OP considered how this affected Sarah's kids. Not that I think the OP or his mom should have acted differently in this hypothetical situation. But at least he could have shown at least a minimum concern, like writing "I'm sad that this situation hurts innocent kids but I can't sacrifice the wellbeing of my mom or my own family for them."
To br fair op should have checked her phone even just a sec to make sure shit hasn't hit the fan. I make it habit to atleast check my text in the morning
You tell stories with no end. People start to not watch anymore because there is no conclusion to anything at all. Youre channel will die if you keep that going
Your channel might be losing traction because your stories aren’t up to scratch. Your habit of repeating whole paragraphs, the repetitive background video. Maybe you need a makeover.
Finding original stories would work better rather than just changing the character names and occupations. It's basically the same thing over and over again
Fyra states channel is struggling Stories are already typed out and good to go. A.I. Voice ready to read them Same Minecraft looped footage throughout. I can't be alone in this when I state that the moment I find a low-effort channel like this I click off. However the audacity to say "views are dropping" - Use your own voice to avoid stupid things like when a user types "no." in their story, specifically with a full-stop being read by your A.I. Auto-Reader as "Number". Doesn't happen if you're the one putting the effort in.
I'm sorry. Someone who's mad at you and left you a million text messages and voicemails to come get your kids or they're calling the cops and you try to call their bluff or something and decide to go to work and work for a while and then turn around and go get your kids and now you're all shocked that you pull up in cops are there. I don't care how crazy she is, I know that you are entitled.
No, they are moving to HIS mother's house, several hours away. Ashley, the narrator of the story, is a fricken shark who took care of business and saved her mother. Hopefully, this will be a painful lesson to learn for gross ass Sarah and her husband...QUIT HAVING KIDS YOU CAN'T TAKE CARE OF! Vasectomy, tubes tied, stop having sex, something!
This Op is a real one. Was kind when needed. Then had nothing against switching it up and going hard in the paint.
“ I think I might have overreacted, can we go back to the old babysitting schedule” is not an apology. Sarah never apologized. That sentence is disgustingly disrespectful
"Tearing this family apart." The sentence I always hear in every family story.
And said by either the actual persons who are tearing the family apart or their supporters.
don't have kids you can't afford. I have no sympathy for people like this
They should of went to a food pantry to help and other sources to relieve the $ burden.
I am BLINDED by OP's BEAUTIFUL SHINY SPINE!! 😎😎😎😎
I know right? Such a change from the usual doormat/soft OP stories.
Channel is probably losing traction because you sometimes have multiple stories without updates.
LOL I was about to say the same thing
Stop using the same clichés again and again... 😂
'Family is all that we
have'
'you're tearing the family apart'
Or repeating the same story. Or letting AI edit the video so it just repeats the same sentence multiple times.
That and this channel rewrites the stories and adds 50x some bs and they feel sad or resolute in their decision so it is 30 minutes long instead of 5.
@@vajidali530 For the first time in a long time...
Love how their relationship is falling apart because they actually have to be a family and look after each other
I just love how Ashley dosn't hold back on the cursing and gives Sarah's and Mike's crap right back to them
OPs mom isn't Kind or nice. She's a enabling, people pleasing pushover whose daughter grew a backbone early for the both of them and had to defend her because she, the mom, wouldn't and is paying for it in her old age.
Ashley is a savage 🤣
Damn I really like this op 👍.
No bs and no backing down. But you threaten someone's kids or mother its on!!
Yeah. For once they aren’t a doormat.
Ashley is doing it all without a husband, Sarah has Mike!
The SIL stopped working to care for her kids . Yet , she dropped her kids off to her MIL . That's just pure dee laziness . Plus , it's not HER actual Mom , so she probably doesn't care about her health. 🙄
Why can't a grown woman SAHM handle two kids 😒??
That's what I was thinking. Why in the heck is the grandma watching the kids after Sarah quit her job??? It doesn't make sense at all.
Dude this woman is savage it’s insane
Nahh, just normal person that ain't letting people walk over her I'd say. She had cops called on her for "dumping the kids" so she said, okay, we will play your game then, and just matched their energy and protected her mum
Finally someone with a spine!! How many of these people go through entire sagas before they decide enough is enough? It gets so predictable that it’s absolutely revolting. “I just want to keep the peace” “be the bigger person” “am I the ahole for having this perfectly normal reaction to an entitled brat” “I forgive my wife/husband for cheating but am absolutely shocked when she does it repeatedly” 🤮
Sooooo yeah, OP is exactly how my wife would behave. I love my wife.
Lucky you
I LOVE that someone in these stories finally has a backbone & doesnt get walked all over & guilted into shit. It blows my mind how often family/friends involve themselves via texts/phone/opinions into others business, my answer would always be THEN YOU DO IT THEN.
A lot more of these reddit OPs need to take note of how its done!! When the aunty/uncle/cousin/friend texts or calls & says "but faaaaamily" thats when you reply - good, ill let them know that since im not doing it anymore that YOU are willing to help/take them in/give them money. Watch them come up with every excuse!!
Throwing out the phrase "tearing the family apart" is so similar to nails on chalkboard.😂😮
Code for either your running my life or stop driving the boat and making the family uncomfortable from spoiled brat crying.
If Sarah quit why is mom babysitting 😤?
My thoughts exactly!
Because it’s all made up
I don't understand why the grandma is watching the kids if Sarah quit her job.... It doesn't make sense.
The classic you're tearing the family apart!
They also could have contacted CPS, I’d block anyone who would defend her and make it known. You mention her you’re getting blocked.
I actually like the AI voice and language, it makes it sound real and believable.
Did you just say you find artifice more credible than reality?
That's INSANE!!!
Op has a spine of steel. I love that for her, a strong backbone is hard to find in these stories
If only all OP’s had the shiny spine this one exhibited. She didn’t bring down the hammer until her sister-in-law called the cops on her. But then she acted rightly to protect herself and her mother from these entitled overgrown children. If you produce offspring, they are your rodeo nobody else’s.
Mine did
Because of an inheritance
So basically, I was left with the highest share of my parents property, because, idk, I took care of them every time they were sick when my sisters never even helped one bit.
So they decided to call the cops on me because in their entitled minds, I stole what was rightfully theirs and since they believed I stole it, and since stealing is a crime, therefore they called the cops to arrest me for stealing their inheritance
Idk who was laughing more
Me
Or the cops
Play stupid games win stupid prizes!!!!
I enjoy the full emotion in this reading
Can't be a family if you are dead. :x
Keep your channel going no matter what! It calms me down when I stress out too much over nonsense.❤
This is a little off topic but are these kids like total monsters? Their own mom wants to ditch them to do things around the house and watching them three days a week made grandma's blood pressure spike to dangerous levels.
Pretty sure the kids are indeed uncontrollable monsters 😂. Thats why grandma was about to die of a heart attack, and mom and dad don't care, they just want to pawn them off on anyone dumb enough to watch them. Hell, if the husband's mom refuses next, the mom and dad will probably just start leaving them with strangers. 😂
The only adult authority they respect is their aunt. Pretty sure they don't mess with her
well if it isn't the consequences of SIL's own actions let's look at what she did here:
1: got prissy over an argument and took it out on kids who weren't involved
2: called the police when OP dropped off her kids like usual which could have threatened OP's job
3: quit her own job yet still had someone else watching the kids
4: sending her own MIL to the hospital multiple times
5: started getting everyone up in arms against OP for stopping her from abusing OP's mom
6: still blamed OP for everything even after she had to move back in with her own parents
Op needed to stop pointing at her career being the main issue. A much better reson that would have shut everyone up is that you don't trust her anymore to watch your kids since they were so shook up after the experience. And you arent going to look after her children for free going forward. Not to mention if you ever weren't exactly on time giving her kids back, you dont trust her to not call the coos on some kidnapping charge
Part of the problem is some stories either have no ending and/or are mixed with others thus confusing the watcher/listener. There are also grammatical errors that do not help and a few stories are either reposts or very similar with just genders and names changed.
amazing how P's that simp about 'how you should have kiiiidz'.. and then sit back and watch train wrecks like this. I observed this all my life. have kids? you could not pay me enough.
I like Ashley, she reason so much like, you could swear she was reading my mind with her responses
I LOVE ASHLEY!!!! Finally someone with fantastic comebacks!😂
I've heard this story before. BUT I LOVE your narration and updates the best. Best version ever! 👏👏👏
Yes
Do these kids not go to school 😅
Sadly I’ve known people like this so this story could quite well be true. It just shows what society has come to.
U r the correct sil for her useless woman so happy u stood up for your mom.
It's entertaining when OP is not put up with any bullshit.
Your sister was awful in calling the cops on you. And your family for coming after you was terrible.
But what does it mean that you just dropped the kids off without checking to see if your sister or a grownup was there? And how could anyone reach you if there was a emergency regarding the kids if your phone is on silent? You as a parent who has some responsibility too.
I thoroughly enjoyed the story. 🎉
She keeps saying that SIL could’ve ruined her career but what about the fact that the children could’ve been completely traumatized?? 🥺 other than that, NTA!!
I kept waiting to hear that Sarah was having an affair. Happy to know that they just need to learn how to manage their time & put their home & family first.
Without updates the stories feel unfinished. 🤷♀️
Ashley is the OP to be ..😂😂 😎
Well the channel is losing traction due to things your subscribers warned you about and you completely ignored their warnings
The stories without updates
The stories where you repeat the same thing multiple times
The 40m long stories where you retell everything all over again
You didn't listen
Cookie cutter work. Scatter gun approach.
Oh , yep , love this OP 😀. She made me realize that i haven't # let ish fly in a while 😂.
Some stories you put out don't have the complete story or an ending
Its on reddit. Op don't always update their life. Probably just happy after venting on social media.
Might be losing traction because in every damn story you say tearing the family apart 25 freaking times!
All these random family members are saying why she couldn't help and why they can't they?
I can only hope that all AI content regurgitation mills lose traction 🤷
Brother: she was pissed
Me: cool, so am I...
So Mike had his mom watch the kids while his wife chilled at home? What was wrong with these kids that they are that hard to handle?
Don't stop your channel, keep going.
That's the plan!
The change in voice actor without a "this is temporary!" tag or a "We're trying this experiment." tag/words may have lost you a bunch of followers. The other voice is... not great.
This voice is great!
Right . The voice makes the story # come alive 👍🏃♀️
If Sarah quit her job she has all the time in the world to watch her own kids.
Hate the "she apologised, why can't you forgive her" say to the mum, "if someone murdered me cold blood and apologised, you'd just forgive them?"
Losing traction because your stories have way too inaccuracies, repeat sentences, slightly tweaked repeat stories and way too many mystery aunts, uncles and cousins.
Yeah I just realized this tonight. Every story is the same, just with different names
For someone who works with kids, she sure swears a lot.
Mom can say no. Sarah can keep her own kids
I enjoyed this story 2 tell u the truth. It's sad when u 2 narcastic adults who r terrible parents and sorry excuses as human beings. The mother was 2 soft 4 me,Until it almost costed her health . I would've called not only the police 4 child abandonment. But I would have called CPS. People like that. Shouldn't even have children
in the real world saying "Sorry" does not fix things. even if you are forgiven, things are not that easily forgotten. you. show someone who you are, expect them to treat you like it in the future
Every time i listen to one of these it's the same sort of thing. Responsible person gets screwed over by lazy entitled relative, usually sister or sister in law. Then responsible one tells lazy one to piss off, which screws over lazy one considerably more, then entire family backs the lazy one and everyone tries to guilt trip responsible one into letting the grudge go. I use to think at least some of these were real but looking back at them, i doubt any of them are.
So she quit her job because she didn't have child care then dumped the kids on her mother in law, but still didn't work???
Its losing traction because you play to many ads, why not read the story in your real voice so that you've actually earned the money you gain from the ads.
😅
have children, they are a bweeesssing. they will improve your marriage/relationship. having kiddies makes you soooo matuuure. hahahahahahaaaaaa. what a crock..
Right! 😂 Hopefully, they've smartened up after this disaster, and both get parts tied!
The channel is losing traction because your lazy editing reposts the same story on the same video lol
There's always a Sarah 🦋
Channel lossing traction? Mayabe, just maybe, for the 1st time in a long time, you can post true stories or admit when a story is fiction..
Hahahahahaha! Don't forget about "Family comes first!"
FAFO
Right on!
AI stories are so irritating
"What about the kids", they have their lazy arse mother at home, there is no reason for her to leave their kids with anyone else. Sarah was being a lazy B, other mothers managed to take care of their households with the children around. You should not have children if you can't take care of them, you should only be having them with the expectation that you can take care of them without outside help. It looks like they kept breeding children expecting other people to help and that ended badly.
Sarah stays home and doesn't have a job but drops kids off at grandmas home who is sick? Losers
I'd watch more of your videos if you didn't use that constant motion background. It's distracting and makes it difficult to enjoy the video.
Lose her career & DCF could have taken her kids.
Just see you now. I subscribe and I love your channel plus I love drama.😂
If Sarah quit her job why was Grandmother watching them
Not that I believe that the story is real. But it is still worrying that never in this story the OP considered how this affected Sarah's kids. Not that I think the OP or his mom should have acted differently in this hypothetical situation. But at least he could have shown at least a minimum concern, like writing "I'm sad that this situation hurts innocent kids but I can't sacrifice the wellbeing of my mom or my own family for them."
Yeah no block her out
Why did the doctor leave hypertension untreated?
😊
Even my 10 yo agrees op is nta! And that sil is nuts
This is a rerun.
One question do you trust her not to do it again if the answer is no that's the answer
Nta. Do not watch her kids ever again
Contact social services child endangerment
To br fair op should have checked her phone even just a sec to make sure shit hasn't hit the fan. I make it habit to atleast check my text in the morning
Move your mom in with you. Be her custodian so your bro and SIL can’t get to her.
Mike and Sarah can watch their own kids. There was no miscommunication. Hang up and block. The skqnk called the cops on you
You tell stories with no end. People start to not watch anymore because there is no conclusion to anything at all. Youre channel will die if you keep that going
I have subscribed 🎉
Your channel might be losing traction because your stories aren’t up to scratch. Your habit of repeating whole paragraphs, the repetitive background video. Maybe you need a makeover.
Finding original stories would work better rather than just changing the character names and occupations. It's basically the same thing over and over again
Fyra states channel is struggling
Stories are already typed out and good to go.
A.I. Voice ready to read them
Same Minecraft looped footage throughout.
I can't be alone in this when I state that the moment I find a low-effort channel like this I click off. However the audacity to say "views are dropping" - Use your own voice to avoid stupid things like when a user types "no." in their story, specifically with a full-stop being read by your A.I. Auto-Reader as "Number". Doesn't happen if you're the one putting the effort in.
Not bad
Using foul language!
I'm sorry. Someone who's mad at you and left you a million text messages and voicemails to come get your kids or they're calling the cops and you try to call their bluff or something and decide to go to work and work for a while and then turn around and go get your kids and now you're all shocked that you pull up in cops are there. I don't care how crazy she is, I know that you are entitled.
So Sarah and the kids are moving back to their mothers house🤨 I’m guessing mom died by now 😂😂
😬 Right . I am sure she called # I am ready now 🤦 # let's blow this popsicle stand 😅
No, they are moving to HIS mother's house, several hours away. Ashley, the narrator of the story, is a fricken shark who took care of business and saved her mother. Hopefully, this will be a painful lesson to learn for gross ass Sarah and her husband...QUIT HAVING KIDS YOU CAN'T TAKE CARE OF! Vasectomy, tubes tied, stop having sex, something!