This is so heart breaking I knew Sis Phumeza from downtown Christian church in East London while I was living there between 2017 and 2018 I was not that close to her in particular but every time she would see anyone whether she knew you or not she would greet you with a smile, giving you all the attention like you were the only person in the room The first close encounter I had with her was when she was facilitating our young adult camp at church. She was so sweet Well spoken Calm Intelligent Smart Humble I can go on and on After spending 3 days with her at the camp I was rejuvenated, I felt like I could conquer the world And to say the least she didn’t mention much about the “husband “ which made me think she was either divorced or she was never married. So I was very shocked when they said she was killed by her husband It’s so crazy that she was going through so much but she still exuded positive May her lovely soul rest in peace
25 years damn. our legal system needs to be revisited, on top of that they don't even serve 60% of the sentence. may her soul continue to Rest in Peace
You don't say that's why the ppl that plotted or covered up Senzo Meyiwas death thought they could get away with it. They didn't count on his family fighting so hard and ensuring it doesn't just go away.
This happened in my home town. We were so shocked at this incident, the audacity he had to go through disguising as a woman and taking her life the day she buried her own father. Thank God the other men acted swiftly to catch him. This family was robbed by the justice as we know these years aren't enough for the pain they endured. May her soul rest in eternal peace😢
Its sad that a woman is killed like this at her father's because of a sick, obsessive and heinous individual and government gives this individual (not a man in my eyes) years to live out his life. I pray for her children her family to find strength knowing that she's with her dad. So many women are killed unnecessarily and it's not right man. Justice system is compromised in this country. God bless the family. Happy holidays sisi enjoy the festive season.
@@zukozuko9690 Hence I said partner and not gender specific. Jealousy brings out insecurities. Which makes that person your enemy. The most dangerous type of person.
This should serve as a cautionary tale to women. Being in a relationship with someone who is beneath you (in this case, someone of significantly lower social & financial standing) NEVER benefits women. These men become resentful, insufferable and abusive.
@@lebohangntlamelle7218 "A hit dog will holler". The answer to your question will be found in my original comment. If I wanted to talk about men and their options, I would've done that. Right now, I still say, "this should serve as a cautionary tale to WOMEN". I stand behind that statement.
@@lebohangntlamelle7218 You chose to misunderstand her comment. A lot of the time men will become resentful of you because it starts to seem emasculating to them.
It’s been a minute 😭😭 If it was for me ngabe you drop every day or after 2 days nyana coz your Chanel is out of this WORLD🔥🔥 keep up the great work goat 🐐
Sometimes as a woman i just wish this monster ther were written in their foreheads what they are cause trust me they really know how to be the sweetest and the most honorable man u ever meet..until the true monster they ar comes out to play..mxmm I hate monsters
Especially when we dste men below our status/level, you know there will be issues of insecurities. I learned the hard way with my ex-husband. Luckily, I got out the minute he slapped me, after accusing me of cheating. Meanwhile, he had a string of young girls, speaking disrespectfully about me in his whatsapp
25 years 😢😢 NO!! with parole he might go out early not only did he kill the ex wife he endangered everyone else who was there our legal system has failed us 😢😢😢
I say this with outmost respect to the deceased and her family & friends. However, this is a tale as old as time. Ladies do not ever date down. Such men are extremely insecure and dangerous, they will try and 'humble' you in ways unimaginable!!!!
An abuser will always be an abuser, a narcissist will always be regardless of what he holds, I have seen so many incidents done by men with high profile. Abukho ubuchule shame. I am a living testimony of this believe me.
This has me thinking...I met a guy at my new work, we are at the getting to know each other stage but I’ve already picked up obsession tendencies. He is also showing signs of insecurities. I like the guy but this has me worried.
Totally agree, with the dating down issue. It always doesn't end so well. And the sad part is that they approach strong , intellectuals e.t.c knowing very well they can't handle them
Thank you so much for being a voice piece for the victims and their families. You are telling their stories in a dignified manner. I would really love to see and hear stories of people that have survived these attacks as well. That would be interesting as well. People who were attacked but survived and managed to put the perpetrators behind bars
I will never understand men that date/marry women who are more accomplished with the intent of dragging them down. I pray for myself and any other lady on this thread that we will never get involved with such mad men regardless of how much they try to hide their horrible behaviour.
Thanks again and keep up the good work, oh and please look into a story of three people who took an innocent girl's life, somewhere between Hennenman and Winburg Free State...
I will never understand the minds of this kind of monsters..she was burieng her father for god sake don't u feel anything for another human being who is in so much pain and the one u once claim to love wow
Its so scary being a Woman living in Sth Africa. Why are the Men there so insecure and unafraid to kill?Why not just move on?So so many cases like this OMG. SICKENNING!!
The men here are coddled from birth. No accountability from them whatsoever. On top of that, South Africa is conservative and a religious stupid state.
Will upload more now during the holidays, however it becomes difficult when I’m more busy because researching the videos takes long unfortunately, so when things are hectic it becomes impossible to find time for researching …making the actual video doesn’t take long. Will try my best though I hear you. ❤️
There is nothing worse than marrying a broken and damaged partner, you literally pay the price. I so wish partners attend therapy and go through healing. Men especially never talk about their traumas.....so heartbroken by these stories. Rest easy girl 💔💕🇿🇦
Maybe us women, we should marry men who are on the same level as us financially and socially. Because if you marry a man who is below your financial bracket, they get jealous and intimidated. If you marry a man who is higher than your financial bracket, they mistreat you, cheat and belittle you. Maybe we should find men who are in the same level. But i doubt that would make a difference.
This clown was obsessed with her. He really had nothing to offer her, so he decided to make her life hell. To dress in a wig and dress, trying to walk with high heels would make people laugh despite the very sad event. Very unhinged to say the least. R.I.P ✝️ 🙏.
Im at a point where I’ve watched LITERALLY all the videos on this channel😩😩🙇🏾♀️
Same here 😂always looking out for a notification that a new one is out
i have watched all videos and have repeated thag three times
And she takes too long to update 😢
Siyafana
Siyafana sisi wam
This is so heart breaking
I knew Sis Phumeza from downtown Christian church in East London while I was living there between 2017 and 2018
I was not that close to her in particular but every time she would see anyone whether she knew you or not she would greet you with a smile, giving you all the attention like you were the only person in the room
The first close encounter I had with her was when she was facilitating our young adult camp at church.
She was so sweet
Well spoken
Calm
Intelligent
Smart
Humble
I can go on and on
After spending 3 days with her at the camp I was rejuvenated, I felt like I could conquer the world
And to say the least she didn’t mention much about the “husband “ which made me think she was either divorced or she was never married. So I was very shocked when they said she was killed by her husband
It’s so crazy that she was going through so much but she still exuded positive
May her lovely soul rest in peace
25 years damn. our legal system needs to be revisited, on top of that they don't even serve 60% of the sentence. may her soul continue to Rest in Peace
You don't say that's why the ppl that plotted or covered up Senzo Meyiwas death thought they could get away with it. They didn't count on his family fighting so hard and ensuring it doesn't just go away.
Mhmmm
This happened in my home town. We were so shocked at this incident, the audacity he had to go through disguising as a woman and taking her life the day she buried her own father. Thank God the other men acted swiftly to catch him. This family was robbed by the justice as we know these years aren't enough for the pain they endured. May her soul rest in eternal peace😢
My sister was so broken by her passing, they were friends since high-school.. it's so sad she passed away like this..
What!!! He wore a dress and a wig. Damn he was unhinged!! Thats somethings i wouldn't have expected
We’ve been been waiting 🥺 I’m so glad you posted ✨📍😊
I know research takes time but we missed these
Its sad that a woman is killed like this at her father's because of a sick, obsessive and heinous individual and government gives this individual (not a man in my eyes) years to live out his life. I pray for her children her family to find strength knowing that she's with her dad. So many women are killed unnecessarily and it's not right man. Justice system is compromised in this country. God bless the family.
Happy holidays sisi enjoy the festive season.
I love True Crime
And you are def the best True crime South African RUclipsr
And this ladies and gentlemen is why you don’t settle for anyone. Imagine having a partner who’s jealous of you because you’re growing. WTH
Eish even ladies partners are scary these days
@@zukozuko9690 Hence I said partner and not gender specific. Jealousy brings out insecurities. Which makes that person your enemy. The most dangerous type of person.
This should serve as a cautionary tale to women. Being in a relationship with someone who is beneath you (in this case, someone of significantly lower social & financial standing) NEVER benefits women. These men become resentful, insufferable and abusive.
Only men should do this neh?
@@lebohangntlamelle7218 "A hit dog will holler". The answer to your question will be found in my original comment. If I wanted to talk about men and their options, I would've done that. Right now, I still say, "this should serve as a cautionary tale to WOMEN". I stand behind that statement.
we share same sentiments...no women should date/ marry a man beneath her.....its nothing but a time ticking bomb... .....
@@lebohangntlamelle7218 You chose to misunderstand her comment. A lot of the time men will become resentful of you because it starts to seem emasculating to them.
Jaaa neeh
Very well narrated. You balanced this story so that we understand all sides. What a sad story. Kunzima emhlabeni. Let's love our woman Gentleman.
You don’t own anybody.
25 years? The south African legal system is horrendous.
That’s basically life
It’s been a minute 😭😭 If it was for me ngabe you drop every day or after 2 days nyana coz your Chanel is out of this WORLD🔥🔥 keep up the great work goat 🐐
Sho Xolani , what on earth 😮😮!!! This is sad even worse to do this at a funeral, he is evil.
25 years only that’s so sad condolences to the victims family
Sometimes as a woman i just wish this monster ther were written in their foreheads what they are cause trust me they really know how to be the sweetest and the most honorable man u ever meet..until the true monster they ar comes out to play..mxmm I hate monsters
Girl! I missed you!
Thank you!♥️
Mr Pepeta was my teacher at Mthonjeni primary schl what a nice guy Mtsrip
I remember this story. It's so sad. Rest in Peace, Phumeza sisi.
Sometimes falling in love is loke digging your own grave.
Especially when we dste men below our status/level, you know there will be issues of insecurities. I learned the hard way with my ex-husband. Luckily, I got out the minute he slapped me, after accusing me of cheating. Meanwhile, he had a string of young girls, speaking disrespectfully about me in his whatsapp
Eish!
so sad...we live in a crazy world.
@@MsP-0407 True. Independent when it comes to a high earning woman and low earning man relationship, they don't end well in most cases
How did you get out I’m in the same situation.
25 years 😢😢 NO!! with parole he might go out early not only did he kill the ex wife he endangered everyone else who was there our legal system has failed us 😢😢😢
I'm no longer surprise with this so called justice system of this world he will be out soon and do it to another unsuspecting lady 😢😢
I say this with outmost respect to the deceased and her family & friends. However, this is a tale as old as time. Ladies do not ever date down. Such men are extremely insecure and dangerous, they will try and 'humble' you in ways unimaginable!!!!
Thank you
louder please..... LOUDER
An abuser will always be an abuser, a narcissist will always be regardless of what he holds, I have seen so many incidents done by men with high profile. Abukho ubuchule shame. I am a living testimony of this believe me.
This has me thinking...I met a guy at my new work, we are at the getting to know each other stage but I’ve already picked up obsession tendencies. He is also showing signs of insecurities. I like the guy but this has me worried.
Totally agree, with the dating down issue. It always doesn't end so well. And the sad part is that they approach strong , intellectuals e.t.c knowing very well they can't handle them
He was so disrespectful for that 😭this was surely a sad day
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There is no justice in this sentence. The murder was premeditated and he endangered so many ppls lives . Will be out in 12 and a half years or less.😢
Thank my girl you did a good job stay blessed my dear
Thank you so much for being a voice piece for the victims and their families. You are telling their stories in a dignified manner. I would really love to see and hear stories of people that have survived these attacks as well. That would be interesting as well. People who were attacked but survived and managed to put the perpetrators behind bars
When I see an upload from you I 💃💃💃💃. I know story you post are to 💃💃💃, and thank you for the respect you bring this stories through to us 🙏
I've been waiting nkosi yam 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️ I missed you
I will never understand men that date/marry women who are more accomplished with the intent of dragging them down. I pray for myself and any other lady on this thread that we will never get involved with such mad men regardless of how much they try to hide their horrible behaviour.
Truly love your channel it's one of the best channels on RUclips so far. Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦
This is a sad story i cant believe this 25 years in jail he deserve life in prison.Rest in peace beautiful woman
Those man who caught him are way better than me. I wasn't gonna stop. Never!
Missed you so much. Thank you for this video❤
Thank you, I look forward to your posts.
She was my neighbor she was so humble
25 years for pre meditated murder I feel for this family 😢😢😢😢
He'll be out after 10 years if uziphethe kakuhle.
@@siviwekulu6996Imagine yhoo sana 💔💔💔😭😭
I so miss this 😢..thank you dear
Finally where were you 😢got so worried 😅thank God you back l haven’t even watched the video 😂
Omg I've missed your viedoes❤, thank u for this
welcome back! we missed you ❣
I learnt to listen to what a man says during the time we are dating before committing or going any further,discernment is key.
True that. They always give a clue.
Yes. We tend to ignore red flags
This guy was evil...
I'm so glad you post I've been watching all videos and I was so bored siyabonga ubuyile we love your stroys
Do a story about my friend Mamello Thamae
This is upsetting!! Upsetting to the absolute CORE!!! FORK....
Yoooooo he planned this 😮😮😮may Phumeza soul rest in peace 🪦
The justice system failed her 😢😢😢😢
Thanks again and keep up the good work, oh and please look into a story of three people who took an innocent girl's life, somewhere between Hennenman and Winburg Free State...
❤😊much love from Swaziland 🇸🇿
❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
SA law is the worst 😢… why not life in prison???
I will never understand the minds of this kind of monsters..she was burieng her father for god sake don't u feel anything for another human being who is in so much pain and the one u once claim to love wow
We missed you ❤
Please come back, it’s been forever now🥺🥺
Worse Phumeza and l were both born on the same date although different years - 2 July and l also majored in Human Resource Management 😭😭😭😭
You working so hard Cc thank for shere your story ❤
Great research and storytelling
🙏
He deserves 100 years in jail😢
SA justice play games
Its so scary being a Woman living in Sth Africa. Why are the Men there so insecure and unafraid to kill?Why not just move on?So so many cases like this OMG. SICKENNING!!
The men here are coddled from birth. No accountability from them whatsoever. On top of that, South Africa is conservative and a religious stupid state.
I press LIKE before even watching 🙂!
😭❤️🥺
@@theplug_truecrime Nkosi Ntombi♥️😔.
Please upload a lot. We have subscribed and you have to make sure our demand is quenched
Oh my God thank you for this episode been waiting for an upload
This is heartbreaking and shocking. Grief on top of grief. I pray the family finds solace somehow ❤🙏🏽
Babe can you try and upload every week hle we miss you all the time.. You're the best story teller.
Will upload more now during the holidays, however it becomes difficult when I’m more busy because researching the videos takes long unfortunately, so when things are hectic it becomes impossible to find time for researching …making the actual video doesn’t take long. Will try my best though I hear you. ❤️
Yhoo! This channel depresses me 😭😭😭
Without even knowing, i just realised i have watched all your videos 😃. I always check to see if u posted some, keep up the good work 🙏😊
There is nothing worse than marrying a broken and damaged partner, you literally pay the price. I so wish partners attend therapy and go through healing. Men especially never talk about their traumas.....so heartbroken by these stories. Rest easy girl 💔💕🇿🇦
So heartless! Ladies if you want to marry, hypergamy is the only way. RIP Phumeza
As I Google hypergamy
100 percent sis wam, especially since she was so accomplished and independent ❤
@@phutiphooko7555 gimme back the definition please...😊
On point as always... Please cover Tinyiko Ngobeni's story
Thank you! Will look into this story, appreciate the suggestion.
Please cover the story of Nadine Terblance and Freddie Stapelberg
I missed you❤❤❤
😭 please come back 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Missed this voice ❤
Gosh 😮😮😮😢😢😢😢what a painful drama ifeel sorry for this family.
Yhoooo what a sad n shocking story
Hayini bethuna,wow 😮im angry
You are doing a good job my sister
❤️🙏
Love you cc❤
Yoh l will never marry or date a guy who earns lesser than me
You doing a good job
Thank you so much Siyavuya!🙏🏽❤️
This is very sad😭what a tragedy.
Maybe us women, we should marry men who are on the same level as us financially and socially. Because if you marry a man who is below your financial bracket, they get jealous and intimidated. If you marry a man who is higher than your financial bracket, they mistreat you, cheat and belittle you. Maybe we should find men who are in the same level. But i doubt that would make a difference.
Thanx babe❤
Thank you so much❤️
We need more 😭😭✋🏾
What a heartless being. He has do much hate in his heart. The child does not need to be around this man. Hes evil
Yaay we are back
i like ur content however the videos are too short
Same tragic story happened last weekend around my hood....it's a fascinating story I wish you could cover it too 😢
35 years osa a little time it should have been a life sentence
I almost ended up on the Plug 😭✋🏾 whuuu nkosi yam
🤭 what happened?
@@tlotley I got kidnapped by people who claimed they run a company 😭But God prevailed mei’skat.
This clown was obsessed with her. He really had nothing to offer her, so he decided to make her life hell. To dress in a wig and dress, trying to walk with high heels would make people laugh despite the very sad event. Very unhinged to say the least. R.I.P ✝️ 🙏.
What a crazy guy, 25 years is so unfair he deserves life in prison
25 years ? Mybe you got those facts wrong
Stay Safe nana 🎉❤
Girl where have you been? 🥺
Ai oXolani abanaXolo ngeze🥲🥲🥲
Do not be in a relationship with a man lower or beneath you
He was obsessed with her, stalking someone for 4 years is too much of an undertaking