Girl Chat: What’s Up with One-Uppers?
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- In this emotional Girl Chat, the hosts of “The Real” the ladies reveal how they deal with one-uppers. Have you ever been one-upped by a one-upper? You can vent to us in the comments.
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Tamara is so sweet when she reminded Loni that miscarriages are not a woman's fault!
When you and ya man praying for different things, you know it’s a PROBLEM
Lmaoo deadass
J Renee That’s the main red flag....
Which is why they’re divorced 😐
We know that now for her
He cheated in her and she is divorced
I love that Loni was vulnerable in this Girl Chat... that’s one of the reasons I love this show and consider it different from the other ones... they are just regular people having a conversation and wearing their hearts on their sleeve and put it out on that table and hopefully can help someone out there that can relate
Me too, I cried.
I can relate to Loni and I cried too❤️
Amen! This made me cry as well. 💜
I am crying so hard. These women are so beautiful and open with sharing their lives. It takes courage and bravery bless them.
Adrienne: “ I took a test and I was disappointed because I wasn’t pregnant and I was just gaining weight.”
Lol
Me too 😂😂😂😔😔
😂😂😂😂😂
ME2 Adrienne God i was excited and very happy before test but after test ohhhhh
i actually appreciate the channel not using Loni's moment as clickbait. what i love about this channel
Omg I feel so bad for Loni. I hope she will have a happily ever after with James 🤗
Onur Bb same
Me too
Adrienne is MEEEEEEE. You be thinking your body is changing due to pregnancy but it’s really the carbs staying and not leaving LOL
Adrienne is so funny cause you don't gain weight till like you 2-3 months
Tamera has such a soothing voice, she's just so nurturing naturally.
i get so insecure and think im pregnant even tho im a virgin..
Xheta yes me too lol
Me too. Im like so this is how the lord wants to use me? Through immaculate conception? Nahhh
I'm late but im innocent I'm 16 and still freak out and be like what if I just get pregnant why is it late is God sending me a signal
Xheta same. I’m waiting till marriage but I still get scared
@@tanaka-kunthelazy4995 innocent?
Every time I rewatch this I see Loni’s pain in her eyes! You want to know something every mother that has suffered a miscarriage just know YOU ARE A MOTHER because that baby went to heaven and finished growing with the Lord ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Amen 💖
Armenta Blessed. Awwwee...that's sad but you put it so beautifully....
I understand and get but that's not comforting for all women who have miscarriages.
Or not. At 8 weeks it is not a baby. Stop assigning life to a sac of cells. It will keep you from acting like you have a dead baby.
I never knew this… i must have missed this episode.. I can relate. Twice… I’m single and no kids…. Never getting married if I do I might adopt 🙂
One time i thought i was the next virgin mary and started panicking
Derica Barnor 😂😂😂😂😂😂 omg I use to panic about that too!!!!!
You can get pregnant without sex you know
Me too girl lol 😂
@@dlcapone ...literally how 🤥
Sandra B if someone nut in a pool there’s a chance u can get pregnant
Loni was Holding it in long. It’s good she let it out. She story is related
Loni: “ well now these eggs are scramble so I cant have non no more” 😂😂😂
Black Girl With A Camera I laughed when she said that’s 😂😂😂Loni is funny when she doesn’t try too hard
Adrianne a fool. " but have you walked on water?" 😂😂😂
Loni is so REAL. She’s always talking about traumatic moments in her life to help others even though it’s hard for her.
I know the feeling Loni, as soon as i accepted I was having a baby and was a week away from finding out the gender, I went into labor & miscarried.
I'm terrified to be pregnant again....
Dridri1212 I miscarried 6 days after finding out that I was pregnant. I was completely devastated and depressed but God will give you a baby in his timing. I couldn’t wait to get pregnant again cus I wanted a baby so bad after my loss. I just wanna say, it’s gonna be okay and I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏾💜
Oh wow! I'm sorry to hear of your loss😢
Dridri1212 Everything happens in God’s timing. I got married in 2008 and finally got pregnant in 2012. We had waited so long and were both so excited. One week after finding out, I miscarried....but 7 years later ( 7 means complete) I got pregnant and I’m sitting here with my 7 week old baby girl as I type this. Wait on the LORD! He will come through! My baby girl is proof of that!!!!
Marsha Jackson awww congrats!!!!!
@@marshajackson84 thank you for your kind words, this happened recently in December so I'm still processing everything
This is in fact an old episode, but that being said, I’m glad Jeanie didn’t have babies with that cheater, Freddie! She knew all along he wasn’t the right one. He cheated and had a baby with the mistress 🥴! Jeanie deserves someone better
She just didn't wanna have kids period
Jeannie had already filed for divorce but okay. And what idiot would stay with someone fro 14 years if they knew they weren't the right one?
Cakeandsum Rosesplease girl shut up, you don’t know the entire situation you weren’t there in the relationship. So shut up and eat your damn food.
Jeannie doesn't want children because she was sexually abused and molested for years by a family member. She told her mother and she didn't believe her and did nothing. Not everything about women and wanting or not wanting kids doesn't necessarily have ALL to do with their men.
I love Loni♥️ she’s a real one ♥️
I know right, that was sad.
Yes she is 💖
Totally Fashion Barbie Wdum?
Rilley Griffin yes
Oh Loni, I love you so much. Now we know why she's so serious when she says she "doesn't want any kids". I felt that on such a deep level.
I love this testimony I miscarried at 8 1/2 weeks, I was completely devastated! The pain never goes away, but it does get better. Thanks for your testimony Loni!
Adrienne and Tam giving the example for one uppers had me rolling 😂😂😂
Isn’t this video old?!🧐
Eliza Lozandezal Yes it is.
Eliza Lozandezal yes they are on summer vacation
Yes, but they only showed the first half on RUclips
funnyhour101 oh yea 😂
Yep
I’ve seen this video already
It’s old
But Loni sharing her story still got to me 💔
Yah I saw it too some time ago
Cali Q yeah I teared up
2:12-2:18 Jeannie's prayer has ne dying! "Not today not today!" 😂😂😂
But I deeply felt for Loni upon her testimony of her miscarriage... 😢😭😪😥
Not really funny it’s sad she felt that way
In that moment u start being the best Christian out, praying and making those promises wit God like neva before 😭😭😭😭
"Two heads are better than one but not in y'all's case" 😂😂🤣🤣🤣
From @04:00 I really didn’t know which direction the conversation was going to, I wanted to cry but Loni looked like she was handling it well. When she did cry I cried too, you’re strong Loni I’m so proud of you💜
Loni you're such a good natured person. My heart broke for you. So sorry for your loss. Stay beautiful and kind. 🌹
Lol! Tamera, "Two heads are better than one, but not in y'all's case"🤣
My mum at least 3 miscarriages before having my old sister myself and my younger sister. And my older sister is almost forty am 34 and our younger sister will be 31 in 2 and half weeks. So what am saying is, Loni, what doesn’t kill only makes you stronger, that my life motto.
😰SWEETIE...NOT TRUE FOR EVERYONE!!
Phillips Watson first off am not your sweetie and secondly where did I mention “what doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger” was for everyone, and if you are the type of person, that let life get to you, then I feel for you. And beside I was speaking from experience......
Adetunde Babs’s your grammar and spelling here just ain’t it, sweetie
Clo Wynn if that the case...... why you butting in. Not even talking to you.
Adetunde Babs’s that’s* lol also you commented anyone can reply to ur comment sis😊😊😊😊😊
Loni, you are definitely not alone. Bless you.
Loni you are absolutely right, God knows exactly what he's doing!! It wasn't your fault! You show a lot of strength there! Blessings 💖💖💖💖💖
Sometimes people judge these women without knowing their inner most deep struggles. Thank you Loni
I am infatuated with Tameras makeup and hair versatility! I simply love her!!!
“And look what happens to her” ADRIENNE HAD ME GONEEEEEEEEE
Awww, Loni. I’m so sorry. We love you Loni.
Y’all for the last time 🤦🏾♀️... videos with the blue/purple theme are old and videos with the silver/modern theme are recent 😘
I had a “1 upper” as a friend . 🙄🙄🙄 lets just say me and her are no longer friends 🥳
Sarah I have friend like that. Bitch drives me insane
When my periods late I tell my boyfriend so he can freak out as well 😂
Oh Loni, this broke my heart.
Watching her cry made me cry. Cyber 🤗 Love 💗 and solidarity 💐 from a stranger.
Lonnie just broke my heart.
When I was younger, my nick name was chatterbox because I loveddddddd talking! But as I got older that trait followed me and sometimes idk how to shut up. I noticed this and I am working on it.
Im not a one upper but I am a conversational narcissist I never heard of it but looked it up and was like 😱 do I do that?
I know in the Bible silence is powerful so is listening. I believe what happens in my brain I have so many stories that can relate to whatever someone says and once I get excited bc I can relate, I just keep going and take up the whole time on the phone & when its time to go, I pretty much took over. I struggle with this because Im a good story teller (in person anyway) & I always give so many details and give the side stories too lol. I do notice too I always try to make a better point in a debate situation not comparing lives cuz I dont do that.
So yeah, Im working on it 😆
Jeannie’s story was HILARIOUS OMG that was me when i first got married 😂😂😂😂 KEEP KEEPIN IT REAL JEANNIE! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yes !!😂😂✨
Periods late:
Me: Act like a baby to hubby and hold my stomach area like “I am pregnant”!
PMS: Bish you bugging, give me a goddamn minute.
🤣😂🤣
Molika Men-Thlang I make my babe listen to our imaginary child 😂 we’re not ready just yet but its so funny
I’m done. 😂
I feel for Loni. But knowing this, she shouldn’t pressure Jeannie so much to have children when it’s her choice not to have them, especially coming from a broken place.
Kathy Keaton so true, but maybe Loni regrets not having a baby, and doesn’t want Jeanine to feel the same way. I know she shouldn’t, but I’m sure it’s coming from a place of love.
im not the only one im not ALONE... this is such a powerful statement
Loni ❤❤❤❤ I appreciate her vulnerability. I just wanted to reach through the screen and give her the biggest hug 😢
When i miss my miss my period i start thinking of baby names. 🙋
You must be planning to get pregnant 😂
Carolyn Brihm not really, but if it happens i wouldn't mind. 😋
Lmao at the one uppers skit between tamera and addriene....
I’ve watched this so many times and every time I’ve cried with Loni 😔
My cycle was irregular until I got on birth control so I've never really had to go through this
Aww sorry Loni that you experience that!! I’m happy that you were transparent because your story helps others!!! We are not alone!! We love you!!
People in my family always try to act like they are so perfect and I agree with Adrienne I’ll tease them and they hate it lol
You all are so helpful! You all are so beautiful!
I can’t imagine the show without Tamera 😭😭
Loni, thank you for sharing. I sympathize with you deeply. I pray for the day Adrienne has a child.
Fluent mama fluent...... lmboooo
"Two heads are better than one, not in y'all case...were's my phone? Tamara, you talking on it!" Been there, done the can't find my phone in my hand or my glasses on my head! 🙄
I'm so sorry Lonni! Thanks for sharing!
The most authentic loni ❤❤❤❤ now on the one up topic i knew someone who kept doing that later we stopped being friends bc they were secretly jealous and they used to try one up me all the time
The worst type of one-uppers are the ones who have a misery contest.
Me: I'm so sleepy, man I only got four hours of sleep.
Them: oh yeah? I slept for two hours.
Me: God, this customer was so difficult, everytime I tried to give them the right product they told me why it wouldn't work.
Them: Well, I had this customer who was determined to have this thing and they yelled at me for fifteen minutes until I had to get the manager.
Like dude, no one cares I didn't want to have contest.
Same here Jeannie✋I’m a teacher and at the end of the day I don’t want to talk to anyone or be talked to.
I identify with you Loni. The pain of loosing a baby never eases, we adjust in life again. I have 1 daughter and Im proud to be her mom. I was afraid to get pregnant again. I didnt want feel that pain again.
I can relate to Loni's vulnerability. I have lost a child before and know that feeling of never wanting to be pregnant again. This last December my husband and I conceived and I was so scared because for so long I didn't feel worthy of motherhood, but I now understand that God has that plan for me. I can't wait to meet my little girl.
Awww Lonnie! I never knew this and I was over here crying.
ik this i an only video but Adrienne really said “ i do that on a daily basis” in such a calm voice , i had to stop and laugh 😂
😥😭😭😭.... this explains a lot. This just brought me closer to Loni
Just to be clear, it was not God's will for Loni to miscarry nor for her baby to die. Just saying cuz that's a common misconception. Thanks y'all!❤
These old episodes are the tea
Poor Loni. She’s telling a story so many women go through everyday 🥺
Awwww Loni we love you. I’m sorry that happened.
Freddie will miss Jeannie always but he'll always love his child with what's her name
Speaking of one-uppers, one of my oldest friend is like this! When she can’t one up me she starts naming other people’s accomplishments, whether I know them or not.
If my husband and I had the money that we have spend on pregnancy test lol wow !! Thank you Lonni for being so open!!
Adrienne has gotten hilarious over the seasons.. maybe that or just comfortable
nah she's been hilarious lol Love Adrienne
Aw Loni, I know exactly how you feel. That happened to me 3 years ago. It was an unexpected pregnancy and miscarried at 6 weeks. We really wanted that baby and now i don't want to go through all that pain again.
I had a miscarriage last month. At 5 weeks. It’s so hard to share this with anyone. I just wanna feel normal again. Why can’t we normalize this?
100% Handstand Club Right Here! I was 35 and said to my husband "If we wanna have this last baby, this is the time. I don't wanna be 40 carrying a baby". He just asked "Are you sure?" I said "Of course I am, that's why I'm telling you this". We did the deed, and I jumped up and did a hand stand on my bed for about 5 minutes and prayed to God this would be our lil boy. Well fam, Bobby will be 6 on August 7th. FYI, he was a month early, he's supposed to be a Sep 7th baby.
Lots of love for Loni! Super strong for her to talk about it!
I had a one-upper that was a friend. Key word is was... The funny thing is she would one-up on the negative aspects of things as well. Everything had to be about her, regardless. Those types of people a r e so annoying. 😒😑
I had a friend like that too. When I stopped taking to her, it was like a weight off my shoulders.
Wheeeeew!! Lonnie sending you LOTS of love!😭😭😭💕💕💕💕💕
I think I'm a one-upper sometimes😭😭😭😭
I need to change, thanks yal. Now I know!
😆
i somtimes one up people in conversion to add to the conversation. i will bring up my personal experience relating to the topic. I dont do it to talk about myself . in groups i often feel ostracized in conversion and want to join in. I hate to look like an akward person just standing at the side.
"I need my glasses to find my glasses."
the one upper convo was too funny
Loni you would make a Great Mom!!! You could always adopt!!! Hoda adopted 2 babies after age 50!!!
😂 I’ve done this all. One time my friends and I went Christmas shopping at a mall. Well we lost the car call the police and reported it stolen 🤦🏽♀️ and it was just on the other side of the mall. 🤦🏽♀️😂 we still laugh about it till this day.
One-Uppers are truly some of the worlds most irritating people, My mother has a "friend" who upon hearing my mother and her second husband were getting married rushed out and got married herself to beat my mother, The "friends" marriage lasts a little over a year while my mother's lasted 14 years until he passed. Also my uncle was in a relationship with a pathological One-Upper she would swear she had every illness you did.
I've gone through the EXACT same thing Loni went through... 8 weeks I miscarried. Now I'm COMPLETELY afraid to ever get pregnant again.
The way Tamera said it that's how I am now 😂 I'm team one and done! Lol
I always cry when loni cry’s
My heart goes out to women who have suffered miscarriages. Having had two healthy pregnancies that resulted in two healthy babies myself - I've never had to contend (personally) with that kind of heartbreak. The fact that there is no rhyme or reason for it happening, trying to find a way to accept that it was simply "God's plan" has to be one of the most unfair circumstances a woman could go through.
Dude I went to Disney & the park closed I was still looking for the stupid car 🥴😂now I always take a picture lol
A always does a good job of lightening the mood :-)
2:55 same💀
I’m at the point where I look on AD’s finger for the second band so I can know how old these videos are.
Oh my God loniiiiiii 😤 i feel like theres sooooo much to her that we havent seen
I can’t even remember where I parked coming out of Walmart 🤦🏽♀️
Hey Lonnie I can relate to your situation because I had a stillborn so I can relate even though I recently came out and talking about it so I can relate