A man's respect should not be contingent on your self-respect. That's a faulty saying to put all guilt on a woman for men who don't treat them right. Yes, everyone should have self-respect. But, that shouldn't change someone else's treatment of you.
No relationship is perfect but I think if the happy moments together outweigh the bad ones then sure, you can be happily ever after. Like Tamera said, it’s all how you make it out to be.
ehhhh thats not a fairy tale ending thats moving on stradegy you got to take life how it comes and not for what we as a people want it to be. would u content knowing ur life ended without a happily ever after knowing u could of had it but u were to busy maken out life to go ur way. u arent allowing destiny and fate to take the wheel at times as u should. ino im smart but life makes me look stupid and sound stupid and it always will unless i become so important to someone life dare not cross there path.
The reason so many marriages fall apart if because people aren't willing to do the work they have this fantasy in their head that everything should work itself out or that if it was meant to be it wouldn't be this hard. Now obviously we all have our dealbreakers and what we are not willing to put up with but regardless of that life is not a fantasy and everything takes work, sometimes it is hard, sometimes you might feel like giving up but you have to push through and remember why you are there in the first place because you fell in love because you believed that you could be with that person for the rest of your life but humans aren't perfect we grow we change we make mistakes we can be selfish and irritating. Dont get married for the wrong reasons and really understand what you getting into and it can be a beautiful thing, because even though there is hard things about marriage there are also really great things too.
Lol I was floored when Loni said why can't it be the prince and the frog faced b-word. 😂 But this is so true. People romanticize happily ever after and get into relationships with that in mind and they sort of box themselves into that idea and if their partner shows them love in a different way, they are unable to receive love because they have fallen in love with an idea of what kind of love they think they ought to be presented with which is based on fantasy from either movies, Ideology, etc.. And it's sad because sometimes people find their soul mates but aren't able to recognize them because they are packaged differently from what they "ideally" want.
I honestly think that ' Happily Ever After ' doesn't have to be marriage. It could be adoption or a life with just puppies. Happily ever after is happiness and love for yourself and others.
I think the ladies "like" a certain manscape simply because she loves him and loves everything the way that HE is. I would think that if it was NOT love, all those things would somehow become annoyances. True love does exist for some........ :-)
I honestly think if you got what you wanted and you deserve what u wanted in a relationship / marriage then HECK YEAH Happily Ever After does exist ! But regarding the " Prince and frog faced b" comment let's remember Princess Fiona and Shrek were BOTH ugly and got together and lived a very happy yet crazy life as she was a full on ogre after she had been cast a spell on ( I believe , I haven't seen the movie in awhile 😂😂 )
My parents have been together for over 50 years. Happily ever after exists but it takes allot of work. You have to be strong enough to bend, and be willing to defer to your partners experience or knowledge that you might not have. Other wise, in the long run it won't work.
9:52 lmao, my boyfriend 's south asian so he has all those things; hairy everywhere and grows fast. His unibrow is the only thing he fixes and pays close attention to, but that's it. I think those quotas are extreme tbh, I used to be that way, but once I got with someone who has hair everywhere, I learned that forcing him to would be such a hassle every time. It also puts me in a great position, not being shamed about my own body hair and that's such a relief tbh
I feel like fairy tales are there to encourage young girls to realize what they deserve when they are older so they don't think they should put up with anything less. Marriage is the bond between 2 people who love each other and CHOOSE to put in the effort when they are grown. Love you ladies!! Nene you crack me up.
Funny that this question that Tam asked is similar to what’s happening now cuz Nene feels like she’s the queen and nobody can dethrone her or get her off the show cuz “ she the one” 😂
Exactly. When you put God first he will then be in the marriage also. Now that is a true blessing. And also forgiveness is a huge must in marriage. I don't know why people go on and on about 'self' love and 'self' respect.. That's too selfish based whereas marriage based on God is about dieing to one's self and putting the other first. Having said that you also get that back too, from your partner. From that respect is a given.
Life goes on, it might be the end of one chapter or the book, but a new beginning is about to happen with new threats and conflicts arise. I don't manscape to my partner's desires I manscape to my comfortably, as should they.
As far as manscaping goes I like to have a very clean shave with a little bit of a shadow beard left for effect... and I need my smell goods, I like to consider my cologne a love potion... it’s nothing like wearing something that blends in with your natural( I said natural not funky ) body chemistry !
Marriage is what you make of it, that includes keeping GOD FIRST!! True, no one is perfect, but we're striving unto perfection. Let LOVE like Mr. Common said have the final answer!!
Speak on it Loni! I’m always mindful with what my young nieces watch because I’ve noticed the same thing about these cartoons out here... 💓🦋 love the real!
Just because it looks/feels/tastes like ‘happily ever after’ doesn’t mean it will be that way in 2 years or 20 years time. People whose spouses wanted a divorce after 20 years of marriage thought they had it good at some point. My advice: Focus on the now. There is no “happily ever after” coz the journey never ends. Just be thankful for today.
I don’t know why women were asked what a man should look like but I am happy that some of the hosts like hairy men because hair is natural. I also don’t understand why they like to remove their own hair but they prefer their men hairy.
Awww Tamera loves her husband..when they showed his picture and she said look at that 🤣🤣 and we looked at him but we didn't see the sexy she saw. I love that she is so turned on by him and the way Adrienne talks about her husband.. I love that they find their men so attractive. I do think Adam is attractive though if I'm honest
Tip if the real post full girl chats 10/10 chances are in is very old episodes. I think they are afraid that people will stop watch live shows if they post current episodes.
I think its hilarious that they're saying "Halle Berry is wrong, and likely bitter" when they're actually agreeing with her. Well, no. Actually, I don't find it hilarious. I find it terrible. Stop tearing a woman down because you happen to (currently) be in a relationship and she isn't.
to answer the question. i really hope so or else why are so many sacrificing themsleves for everyday. when it comes to me i am the type who does everything backwards dnt ask me why thats another story for another day but my happily ever after has come and gone. It really makes sense when i say im trying to reach once apon a time in life. Now i cant speak for everyone else and i am not saying my way of life comes with less sacrifice becuz it doenst and until i die i will always sacrifice whatever it is i can so those who believe in happly ever after can one day reach it. like i said it has to exist or else why do we loose the best people and or the best things about areselves. we loose it for better or for the better. happily ever after has to be believed in cuz if its not things like this question wouldnt exist.
Loni has helped tamera bring another side of her. I love it.
The reality is if your don’t have self respect for yourself no man will respect you
Lydia B maybe 🤔
MEANWHILE YOU'RE A SPINSTER
A man's respect should not be contingent on your self-respect. That's a faulty saying to put all guilt on a woman for men who don't treat them right. Yes, everyone should have self-respect. But, that shouldn't change someone else's treatment of you.
La_Trolette who is that 🤷🏾♀️
LovelyTranquility ok I see your point of view
Gotta respect and love yourself first before expecting anyone else to. And that’s a fact.
Tamera is right
You need to choose happiness
Choosing happiness is also not choosing the effboys and expecting him to be prince charming
No relationship is perfect but I think if the happy moments together outweigh the bad ones then sure, you can be happily ever after. Like Tamera said, it’s all how you make it out to be.
Derie102 truee
You couldn't have said it better.
ehhhh thats not a fairy tale ending thats moving on stradegy you got to take life how it comes and not for what we as a people want it to be. would u content knowing ur life ended without a happily ever after knowing u could of had it but u were to busy maken out life to go ur way. u arent allowing destiny and fate to take the wheel at times as u should. ino im smart but life makes me look stupid and sound stupid and it always will unless i become so important to someone life dare not cross there path.
Nene was cracking up the entire sow 😭😭😭
Loni is happy to have Nene on the show you can tell, they have the same banter lol
I love how nene is always laughing... 😂😂❤
Loni looks so beautiful in red!! Red in general really suits black women.
The reason so many marriages fall apart if because people aren't willing to do the work they have this fantasy in their head that everything should work itself out or that if it was meant to be it wouldn't be this hard. Now obviously we all have our dealbreakers and what we are not willing to put up with but regardless of that life is not a fantasy and everything takes work, sometimes it is hard, sometimes you might feel like giving up but you have to push through and remember why you are there in the first place because you fell in love because you believed that you could be with that person for the rest of your life but humans aren't perfect we grow we change we make mistakes we can be selfish and irritating. Dont get married for the wrong reasons and really understand what you getting into and it can be a beautiful thing, because even though there is hard things about marriage there are also really great things too.
Lol I was floored when Loni said why can't it be the prince and the frog faced b-word. 😂
But this is so true. People romanticize happily ever after and get into relationships with that in mind and they sort of box themselves into that idea and if their partner shows them love in a different way, they are unable to receive love because they have fallen in love with an idea of what kind of love they think they ought to be presented with which is based on fantasy from either movies, Ideology, etc.. And it's sad because sometimes people find their soul mates but aren't able to recognize them because they are packaged differently from what they "ideally" want.
I honestly think that ' Happily Ever After ' doesn't have to be marriage. It could be adoption or a life with just puppies. Happily ever after is happiness and love for yourself and others.
jeannie could have nailed this topic also. she has a lot of good insights too.
“He can ride up in a white Rolls Royce” 😂
Yes, it does exist because I’m living it. You get what you wish for. 🙏🏼
*pray for
And act on
"I wanna have.... I don't know."😂😂😂😂😂😂
That is a very pretty color on Loni
I think the ladies "like" a certain manscape simply because she loves him and loves everything the way that HE is. I would think that if it was NOT love, all those things would somehow become annoyances. True love does exist for some........ :-)
WOW 14 MINS ? What did we do to deserve 14mins
its an old clip from 2 seasons ago lol
I honestly think if you got what you wanted and you deserve what u wanted in a relationship / marriage then HECK YEAH Happily Ever After does exist ! But regarding the " Prince and frog faced b" comment let's remember Princess Fiona and Shrek were BOTH ugly and got together and lived a very happy yet crazy life as she was a full on ogre after she had been cast a spell on ( I believe , I haven't seen the movie in awhile 😂😂 )
Yes Shrek is the only realistic story 😂
My parents have been together for over 50 years. Happily ever after exists but it takes allot of work. You have to be strong enough to bend, and be willing to defer to your partners experience or knowledge that you might not have. Other wise, in the long run it won't work.
Nene voice is heavy, you can hear the eco ♥️♥️😂
9:52 lmao, my boyfriend 's south asian so he has all those things; hairy everywhere and grows fast. His unibrow is the only thing he fixes and pays close attention to, but that's it. I think those quotas are extreme tbh, I used to be that way, but once I got with someone who has hair everywhere, I learned that forcing him to would be such a hassle every time. It also puts me in a great position, not being shamed about my own body hair and that's such a relief tbh
Nene was preaching in this.....Amen .
I feel like fairy tales are there to encourage young girls to realize what they deserve when they are older so they don't think they should put up with anything less. Marriage is the bond between 2 people who love each other and CHOOSE to put in the effort when they are grown. Love you ladies!! Nene you crack me up.
Funny that this question that Tam asked is similar to what’s happening now cuz Nene feels like she’s the queen and nobody can dethrone her or get her off the show cuz “ she the one” 😂
A 14-minute video? This must not be real! Thank you whoever is posting RUclips videos for The Real 😍
I love that black women laugh 😂 it’s the best😂
Loni’s expression with the bite on the tongue with her slip up at 3:25 was like... whoops!!
i agree. because a relationship is all a part teamwork and what you and your partner make it. life isn't perfect.
A biblical based marriage will last a lifetime.
Okay? You better preach!
Anita M. Nah
Not necessarily.. Christian marriages have a high divorce rate also
@@Krfran14 I didn't say Christian marriage, I said biblical marriage.
Exactly. When you put God first he will then be in the marriage also. Now that is a true blessing. And also forgiveness is a huge must in marriage. I don't know why people go on and on about 'self' love and 'self' respect.. That's too selfish based whereas marriage based on God is about dieing to one's self and putting the other first. Having said that you also get that back too, from your partner. From that respect is a given.
wow a video over 10 minutes???
somebody hold my drink!
Before I even watch this I gotta mentally prepare myself for what Adrienne and Tamera gonna say🙄
Why does loni bully Tamara always regarding Adam 🤦🏻♀️😳🙄🤔🙄
I wouldn't call it bullying. She's just joking with her. Tamera is used to it and true friends do that to each other all the time.
NornaFrancis she’s teasing because she knows it gets under Tamera’s skin
She's just pulling her leg ☺
Because Loni’s jealous.
anditspaganpoetry ...and other people’s nerves.
Tamera said it right the first time 🙄
She did.....I'm like, but what she said made sense....sighh
Bruh when Tamera talks about Adam omfg....she goes on and on about that man like he's Jesus
lmao she's very family-oriented. which is great. would love to see more of HER as a person though.
It’s her husband she’s suppose to feel that way or why marry him?
bsbgirl85 why does it have to be about race? How about she just loves her husband that much?
Nene seems to be really smart woman and open minded! 👏🏻
I love Tamera's gothic librarian look 🦇
I am angry because I was supposed to be "Happily Married" with a home and 2 cars!😤
Ladies... Just set standards and maintain YOUR standards ... Thats the real fairy tail... YOU welcome😂
The shade Loni threw when Adam and Tamera’s picture came up 🤣
Applepie6 I don’t blame her ....Temmare always talks about her marriage it’s too much to handle sometimes
They shld invite veteran/senior ladies to talk abt this...
🎶I don’t want to be like Cinderella🎶
Banger!😂
🎶Sittin' in a dark cold dusty cellar🎶
“Prince and the Frog-face Bitch” 😂😂 Funny but sooo true!
I love having nene on the show
Adrienne best look as that side part 🔥
Nene is suuuuch a strong, beautiful soul ♥️
Nene's wig thou🤔😅
Life goes on, it might be the end of one chapter or the book, but a new beginning is about to happen with new threats and conflicts arise. I don't manscape to my partner's desires I manscape to my comfortably, as should they.
As far as manscaping goes I like to have a very clean shave with a little bit of a shadow beard left for effect... and I need my smell goods, I like to consider my cologne a love potion... it’s nothing like wearing something that blends in with your natural( I said natural not funky ) body chemistry !
Absolutely! Big turn on for me!
Marriage is what you make of it, that includes keeping GOD FIRST!! True, no one is perfect, but we're striving unto perfection. Let LOVE like Mr. Common said have the final answer!!
Speak on it Loni! I’m always mindful with what my young nieces watch because I’ve noticed the same thing about these cartoons out here... 💓🦋 love the real!
Also, Tamera looks amaaaazing!! Is this video recent??
No it's an old video
I'm with Halle! She is too Black for Black Men and too Black for White Men! Halle is my Queen and if Men don't appreciate her, that is their loss!😤
I like bald with a beard lol I never liked hairy guys either til my old boo.. I used to get the clippers for his back lmao
Adrienne look like the new girl in this segment lol
I definitely agree with Adrienne.
thats one girl chat i wanted to hear Jeannie´s view on ...cuz u know she would have given us the REAL tea
What about Penelope?
The new addition is gorgeous, love her
Her story is good too, her comments and opinions are wow. Watching from Africa
Tamera!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
How I wish I could choose to be sad .how I wish I could choose to be depressed 😭😭😢😢😢☹☹☹
I love a hairy man, I love a manly looking man! Hairy legs, groomed facial hair, strong hands, large shoulders...Let me call my husband.
YES ! Absolutely ! So sexy on a man 👌🏽
Tamar at the end🤣🤣🤣😜calm down.
I dont really care... Hair or no hair... Just be clean organized and trim...im OCD too.
That’s why Shrek is the best movie👏🏻
Tamera and Adrienne probably wet their chairs lol😂😂
14:01 Tamera's laugh 🤣🤣
What in the J Crew outlet circa 2014 is Nenes necklace?
Just because it looks/feels/tastes like ‘happily ever after’ doesn’t mean it will be that way in 2 years or 20 years time. People whose spouses wanted a divorce after 20 years of marriage thought they had it good at some point. My advice: Focus on the now. There is no “happily ever after” coz the journey never ends. Just be thankful for today.
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Adrianne def. The airhead of the bunch.
No it doesn't, because if it did there wouldn't be any divorces in the world
It just doesn't happen magically. It can take work too.
yes it does otherwise everyone would be divorced
reality: not really.
I don’t know why women were asked what a man should look like but I am happy that some of the hosts like hairy men because hair is natural. I also don’t understand why they like to remove their own hair but they prefer their men hairy.
10:06 THAT'S NOT WHAT "MANSCAPING" MEANS... What is going on here!?!?🙄
Mansplaning...😂🤣😂
Fairytales exist, but they are not gaurenteed, some people make it to the end and others don't.
Apparently only 3% of the world find true love, the rest get divorced, lonely for ever or don’t work out sadly, I have no hope 😂
I miss Ms.Mai’s opinion on this topic
Black women in colourful clothes is such a mood❤❤
I totally agree Loni
I'm Loni's face in the thumbnail😒
hand's raised to who would go see that movie? "The 🤴 and the 🐸 faced *&^# ". I would go see that movie. ✋ 🍿 🎥
5 out of 5 ⭐'s - Lol - Loni
I love this girl chat so funny.
And I Love that black and white Polkadot Ms. Tamera!!
i am not open to ever getting divorced, ever.
i’m one and done, that’s it that’s all. with that said, if you cheat i’m 🚗💨
Nene was just cracking
Awww Tamera loves her husband..when they showed his picture and she said look at that 🤣🤣 and we looked at him but we didn't see the sexy she saw. I love that she is so turned on by him and the way Adrienne talks about her husband.. I love that they find their men so attractive. I do think Adam is attractive though if I'm honest
Halle berry is crazy you go into a marriage with hope not the way she was thinking. Everyone has their version of happily ever after
Yeah, duh!
"BREAKING NEWS "
Loni love seen climbing the Empire state Building..............Trump scrambling jet fighters to the scene...............
My man has almost no body hair just from his genes and I don’t shave/wax my arms so I feel like the hairy one in the relationship ☹️ lol 😂
Are you asking if the ending to a fairytale is real?
I think this is an OLD CLIP
Is Loni still with James? The way shes talking seems like she single?
This is old last year
Tip if the real post full girl chats 10/10 chances are in is very old episodes. I think they are afraid that people will stop watch live shows if they post current episodes.
because adrianne wearing her bra outside her shirton
wow I commented first for the first time
My husband needs me the way I need him always that's happily ever after ❤️💋
I think its hilarious that they're saying "Halle Berry is wrong, and likely bitter" when they're actually agreeing with her. Well, no. Actually, I don't find it hilarious. I find it terrible. Stop tearing a woman down because you happen to (currently) be in a relationship and she isn't.
It is funny, cause Adriene told them she doesn't have a tooth...
to answer the question. i really hope so or else why are so many sacrificing themsleves for everyday. when it comes to me i am the type who does everything backwards dnt ask me why thats another story for another day but my happily ever after has come and gone. It really makes sense when i say im trying to reach once apon a time in life. Now i cant speak for everyone else and i am not saying my way of life comes with less sacrifice becuz it doenst and until i die i will always sacrifice whatever it is i can so those who believe in happly ever after can one day reach it. like i said it has to exist or else why do we loose the best people and or the best things about areselves. we loose it for better or for the better. happily ever after has to be believed in cuz if its not things like this question wouldnt exist.