It felt like she was doing a scene but it was just genuinely her being Tamera. Does anyone remember the molasses comment she made? Her mom said she was as slow as molasses and then she realized what molasses was 🤣
Lily Sanchez I wouldn’t mind part 1 & 2 if each part was like 8-10 mins. It’s hella annoying when part 1 is 4 mins and part 2 is 2 mins. That drives me craaazyy
It's crazy to me to see that Adrienne was willing to give her eggs , and to see the trouble she is having conceiving makes me sad... so hopefully there will be a point in time she will need those eggs and another woman will come through to help her with that !
She might be having trouble conceiving but if she still has good eggs (most women with trouble conceiving still have good eggs) then she won't need another person's eggs. She should try IVF. That works really well once the eggs are good and the sperm is there. The biggest setback is the expense....but Adrienne doesn't have to worry about that
This may be a problem in the future if she ends up not having babies of her own or if the child later discovers that her momma is a public figure. It’s very nice of her but you never know till you see the baby, and you simply cannot predict the future. I wish them the best
@@LeaEspinoza12345 she said in a previous girl talk that she doesn't want to do IVF, she said she doesn't want to force it, she wants it in God's time. She might change her mind tho.
@@zineb8494 she'll most likely change her mind when everything else just isn't working. It was the same for my sister. Didn't want any assistance at first. But after 5 or so years passed, desperation and longing started to keep in. She started with natural sex positions, then natural herbs, then chemical (the normal fertilization pills), then IVF, then adoption. It's something that slowly progresses. You barely ever start off with the most extreme first (unless you're crazy like Octomom or something)
@@nicoleavery7238 so that should prevent other people from having kids? yes adoption is an option to which people do, however people want kids of their own bloodline
I feel like people who ask “are you gay?” loudly in front of others are just trying to be messy. It’s not a question you just ask when you first meet someone lol Imagine being asked “is that your real hair or a wig?” in front of others. Adrienne is right, that’s none of my business, just share what you feel comfortable sharing 🤷♀️
Clorox Bleach People asked me once if that was my hair when I had long thick hair and I said yes, because I don’t wear wigs. I don’t ask people if they are gay.
Yeah, they were playing up the "people want to know because they have a friend interested in you" angle way too much. That's NOT usually why people ask that question. Many times it's just a busybody who just wants to see if their "hunch" is right or some gossip queen looking for a story and it isn't cute. That's why people get "offended" or put off by the question.
Honestly I never knew that this was a offensive question until now ... why not just ask? I do feel like there are some people who yell it out to embarass people but just a friend asking isnt really harmful, and if youd rather not say then that should just be respected. I mean as long as theyre not rude or insulting about it and are respectful i assumed people wont mind? at least in my experience of asking. but i guess in there case her being interested in the guy makes it more awkward lolol
I personally ask when I like a guy or want to be friends with someone & I want to know them better. But I never say “R u gay?” I just ask “So do u have a gf or a bf?” Then I get my answer. They’ll either say “No I’m single.” “No I’m not gay.” “Yeah I have a gf.” “Yeah I have a bf.” then I’ll just laugh it off & be like “Hey u gotta ask theses days.” or “Do u boo” I never judge I’m just honest & straight forward.
@Jaye Kisses: That's what I don't get about the "dilemma" the girls talked about. Why can't they just tell him they know a girl that they think he might really like and if he's interested, he'll ask questions. If he's not, he can say he's not interested in friends hooking him up or whatever. If he's gay and he wants to say that, it's a good time to do so, but you don't have to ask if he's gay or even know if he's gay to get an answer from him about his interest in your friend. Alternatively, this "friend" could make some moves herself. It just seems like a non-issue.
Jeannie: Why are you whispering Tam: I don't know Jeannie: What team are you on Tam: Wait i asked that wrong See i'm confused again .😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Tam and jeannie chemistry on fleak
I’m gay and i remember as a kid before i came out my heart would drop every time I heard the words “can i ask you a question” so i would say don’t ask if that person is gay and he trusts you he will tell you!
There's actually at least 11 different places (aldo, nordstrom, asos etc.) that carry shoes for women with small feet. As low as size 3 and 4. Chances are, she just can't find shoes that she actually likes. The selection is probably small so she buys bigger ones. Instead of jewelry she should have invested in the shoe line. A wide selection of shoes for women with small feet.
This is when Jeannie was very slim, and now she is super strong and looks 10 years younger! And when Adrianne assumed she was super fertile. I'm living for the day she has an adorable healthy little baby❤. We really don't know what the future holds, but I'm one of them people who always hopes/believes that what is to come is better than what has passed. Peace and love to u all🌺
k Kahin 😎 SWEETIE...ANDRI ASSUMED IF SHE DROPPED IT LIKE IT WAS HOT 🍳🍳🍳SHE WOULD HAVE NO PROBLEM 💃🍆🍆🍆🏃 ISREAL COULD BE SHOOTING BLANKS NOW!?!? PERHAPS IT'S A DRY SEASON!?!?
k Kahin ion think her not getting pregnant right away means she has fertility problems, Sometimes it just doesn’t happen your eggs and things can be healthy as can be. It’s all about timing and god 🤷🏾♀️💯
Phillips Watson that’s not what she said lmao I watched it her doctor told her everything looks healthy it just takes some women alil longer to conceive that’s WHY I SAID WHAT TF I SAID
Maitha Ali - Same here...I feel the same way. Plus, there are SOOO many children who are born everyday who need a loving family. Motherhood isn’t just all about carrying a child for 9 months, it’s about the love and care you show raising that child.
@@JohnThreeSixteen7373 carrying a child for 9 months is part of motherhood, from start to finish, it's all included in being a mother. When you carry a child that is growing inside of you, you form a special bond with the baby. If you've never been pregnant then you'll never understand. It's something God given.
Hardeep Bhambra - Actually, my husband and I have 3 children. I had natural births with all 3, so yes, I have had that experience. Any female can get pregnant and push out a baby...but only a true mother can shape and mold a child. A mother is there when that child is sick all night...she’s there to feed, bathe, clothe, and sacrifice to raise that child to be a good person. It’s being there through thick and thin. That is what motherhood is about. There are millions of women who can’t physically give birth to a baby for one reason or another, but they still have the potential to make wonderful mothers by other means such as adoption.
One of my teachers when I went to school to be a CMA said that if you plan to have kids yourself you should wait until after to donate eggs. Since we are born with certain amount of eggs and then only a few may be good.
Here's the thing... if you rely too many times on what-ifs then the situation isn't going anywhere. Sometimes it is good to take risks and at the same time too it sometimes can depend on the time and place of discussion as well.
commenting to the how to ask someone if their gay - I think the best way is to just ask if their dating anyone at the moment or any celebrities they find attractive.This generally gives you a better understanding and can even answer your question :)
Right! Especially when you don't kids of your own and that you're struggling to have one...... It's generous but in my opinion it's not the best idea when you're never been a mom...
kolby champ oh wow that’s awesome thanks for letting me know me I’ll look into that and my boyfriend have always wanted to bless a family with a child we’ve talked about me being a surrogate and we’ve also been wanting to foster kids too
Tbh, it’s a gay thing. You grow up constantly denying who you are, so when people ask, you’re hesitant. You don’t know how they’re gonna react, you don’t know what they’ll say. You don’t know if you’re about to lose a friend.
I did 3 cycles of egg donations and was anonymous. In the contract you have to sign, they ask you if it would be okay if the children could reach out to you in the future if they’d like. I said yes. The weight gain side effect was absolutely true. I would never regret it though cause I was able to help couples start their families. An incredible gift.
Young Queen why is it up to infertile couples to adopt kids ? Practice what you preach you go adopt the kids yourself. It’s not only up to infertile couples to help them.
I reads an article long time along. Written by a white young lady with blue eyes. She talked about how she donated her eggs. She didn’t know until a long time after, that the clinic took more than they should had. That the clinic mis-represented themselves. Then figured out afterwards that her eggs were #1 requests. Blonde with blue eyes. She mentioned how her body was never the same after. Back pain, muscle pain and sharpe headaches etc....I’m not saying anything, just remembering an article I read a while back.
For anyone wondering: yes this clip is from season 3. It’s part of the Girl Chat Vault playlist. They cannot give us season 5 entire girl chat clips because they do not count as ratings to keep the show on air. Also of course it’s old, the studio is different ahahah
Are you dating anyone? What's your type? Do you have a type? What are you attracted to? JUST KEEP IT BROAD I never directly ask "are you gay?" I've Quite offensive and I dont want anyone uncomfortable with me
See, I don't get WHY is that offensive? What's offensive about asking someone if they're gay or straight or bi or whatever else? Is it that they might be in the closet still or? I just wanna know what makes that question offensive, ya know? Because I've been asked that before and I'm straight but I didn't find it offensive that someone thought I was gay or bi. But when I ask that question I usually do it in a joking tone(to not make anyone uncomfortable) and just ask "so you want me to hook you up w someone? What should I look for? A guy a girl a Johnny Depp lookalike?"
@@anitaposa9164 1) yes they could be in the closet or just not want it known in that specific area of thier lives (e.g. work). 2) in some cases how you answer changes the way people perceive you or the fact they are asking might affect how you perceive yourself. Example if you are gay the fact they are asking may be alarming to you depending on how you want to be percieved. "Are they asking because I am presenting as "too feminine, butch, etc." I mean there is not wrong way to present yourself and express your sexuality but depending on your personal feelings on it it can be offensive. Then on the opposite end if you are homophobic or really straight that could be a blow to your ego and sense of self and worth. 3) stigma. Yes maybe you have good intentions in asking, but for all I know you are asking to figure out how you are going to treat me. A lot of times after finding out someone's sexual orientation people change how they interact. So it can be offensive because it can come off as you fishing for information/excuses to use against that person. 4) it isnt your (as in the general your) business and it can put people on guard. People will tell you on thier own time when they feel comfortable with you (if they are not heterosexual). While times have changed to a certain extent being anything other than heterosexual can be hard to navigate in terms of how people (even allies) treat you and even within the community people struggle with having thier sexuality and sexual preferences validated. Some lesbians condemn bi women and think they are bad people if they date men. Many people don't recognize asexuals and put them down. So when you ask for our sexuality it can put some of us on our guard because it may mean preparing ourselves to be insulted or assaulted with questions we don't want to answer. You say your straight and aren't uncomfortable with the question, and that makes sense because your livelihood has never been tied to it. There are still places in the USA where people harrass and beat you up if you arent straight. There are states that until recently had laws that said jobs could fire you for being homosexual. It isnt so much the the question is offensive as in rude by nature, but that the answer actually can effect the person's life. Homophobes are offended because being gay (in thier minds) is offensive. But for some (not all, because i can't speak for everyone) lgbtq+ members answeting could have consequences or put us in uncomfortable situations that absolutely didn't need to happen
These are really great topics!! Right now we're dealing with a situation about not knowing if one of my husbands friends is gay or not but dont want to assume he is and then he's not and vice versa.
I’m not a fan of the idea of sperm or egg donation. I personally would feel like a part of me would always be missing...that child would have my DNA because they would be my biological offspring. I think about my 3 kids...I couldn’t imagine. I feel like there are hundreds of thousands of kids in the system who are desperately in need of love. The foster care system is overflowing with babies/kids.
Exactly right. Doctors playing God is gonna come back to bite them. Potentially there are thousands of half brothers & sisters out there who are gonna meet their siblings, be strongly drawn to them not knowing who they are & then start romantic relationships with them. Exactly right that the adoption/foster care system is overflowing with babies/kids that people should consider that instead. And the friend Adrienne's talking about, I think is the gay guy who's been on her RUclips channel.
It’s the way your tone is when speaking to people. If you have great tone then I think you will get an nice answer if not then you get what you get🤷🏿♀️
You know, if you wanna know someone's sexuality, the only real reason that isn't just curiosity, is if you're interested in them. Ask them out! On a date, and use the word date. That's that!
I think there are a lot of factors when it comes to mother hood and father hood, more than just DNA. It’s kind of a nature vs Nurture thing and is different for all people and families
Its not just donating eggs and injecting etc But you also have to take an educational test, have a resume and someone would have to pick your eggs in order for you to get paid and you have to see if you even get approved to donate your eggs so its actually a longer process than most people think.
Nobody should be asking about sexuality because like Adrienne and Jeannie says, it's no one's business! And some people consider it rude, I have seen experiences where people were like "Why does it matter?" or "Do I ask if you're straight", so just don't worry about it and like the person for who they are and it WILL come up, trust me. It's not mandatory to be said.
This is a super touchy subject for me, I feel like I couldn’t do it, not for someone I knew definitely. And as the woman who’s raising the child, knowing that baby does not really come from you but comes from there father, so now a close family member has a kid by my man. It’s so much to ut
Adrienne is brave for wanting to donate her eggs; I couldn’t let my bio kids live without me. I’m a surrogate right now, and I feel it’s emotionally easier because I already know it’s not actually my baby.
As a gay man, I think the best thing to do is some how bring up the topic of relationships/love and respectfully ask something along the lines of "just so I know, do you like men or women?" Don't do what Loni does because that's assuming and if your assumptions happen to be wrong, you're going to offend the hell out of someone. Especially men. And even you're right, some sensitive gay person might still get offended because you use stereotypes. 🤷♂️
As another gay man here, no, do not do this. If that man is actually gay, how would you know if he is closeted or not? The amount of planning and courage it takes to come out is a pivotal moment in a gay man’s life that straight people will never understand, and to take that away from him all because you felt entitled to an answer isn’t okay. At all.
As a lesbian who goes by “don’t ask don’t tell” (if you ask me I’ll tell you if you don’t ask me I won’t) 9 times out of 10 I’ll answer the question according to my comfortability with you and the environment we’re in. If I feel you’re asking with no malice intent then I’ll answer truthfully and follow it with a “why”? If I feel uncomfortable around you then I won’t answer the question. I’ll most likely ask the question back to you like, “are you gay”.
I think a straight man or a man questioning his sexuality might be offended by this question because a lot of men are worried about their masculinity being questioned.
To clarify I’m not saying gay men are not masculine but from my personal experience they are more secure in their own masculinity or in some cases femininity
You get the person involved in a conversation about celebrities you think are fine. Then they’ll chime in and joke around. The lighter the mood the easer it’ll be to ask awkward questions. Also you could just be honest and say that you have a friend that likes them but you aren’t sure if they would like them back. In my experience they’ll ask you straight up if you’re gay 🤷🏽♀️. Just depends on how you say it. Don’t be all weird and make it awkward, especially if they are your friend they shouldn’t get upset.
Girls you also have to be careful, bc even if someone IS gay/bi, they may not be out. So you also risk outing them and completely either ruining or changing their lives. So if the person in question is a close friend, just ask. If the person in question is an acquaintance or stranger, don't worry about it.
The trick is to ask, if it’s a guy “Are you into guys?” Or if it’s a girl, “ Are you into girls?”....it lessens the blow but is still asking the same question. Because implied in the question is that they are still attracted to the opposite sex
the issue here is that of privilege. Heterosexual people have the privilege of their sexuality not needing to be asked. Nonheterosexual people do not have that privilege. We need to get rid of this hegemonic heterosexual culture where straight people don't need to be asked but nonstraight people do. But how often does a straight person have to say they are straight? vs the expectation for a nonheterosexual gay/bisexual/orSomethingElse to disclose their sexuality. The power balance is not equal.
YOU COULD LITERALLY ADOPT, what’s up with everyone obsessing over not being able to conceive kids and claim to really want one to experience the “bond” yet choose not to adopt??? Adopting saves lives, why bring more lives into the world when others are currently suffering and in need a loving home?
Most bathrooms I’ve been to though at restaurants with the nice lightings & mirrors every time I go in there’s a huge line & barely a lot of room to walk so they could be hard & frustrating if you wanted to take a selfie! A good place I think is probably a fitting room with the mirrors different angles because it’s just you! Macy’s usually has mirrors like that!
What if you told your friend that you wanted to set them up on a date, an asked the friend what they look for in a partner? Then that might be a good lead into the person's partner preference.
You tell the person directly, hey I know someone who’s interested in you, what I don’t know is whether you’re looking, what your taste in a potential mate would be, or if you’d be interested in meeting this person.. and let them tell you. It might just be that the reason you can’t figure it out is cuz they haven’t figured it out yet either. If they look like they might be offended, you always got “hey, in today’s world, I’m not assuming or judging nothin!”
Aye ! Finallyyyy, I love that you guys talked about some LGBTQ stuff. I've been curious and even though it was mostly referring to gay men, it was a nice and very welcome switch up. Thanks y'all
Brah i literally say “I got someone that likes you, what your sexual orientation?” Then they tell me and I hook them up or not and move on! Normalize the conversation
A friend of mine has a male friend that she thought was gay until he started doing things that made it seem like he was maybe interested in her and she found herself catching feelings. Man... we worked out a whole strategy for how she was gonna ask him if he's into girls or not and she finally just let it all out to him via text and he completely ignored the whole thing for 2 days then started talking to her again like nothing happened 😂. To this day, we ain't got the answers Sway!
I think asking specifically men about their sexuality, if gay, can be offensive at times b/c many of us grew up in time periods where gayness/femininity in men was labeled as disgusting/sick by culture and medical books. So at times it’s kind of a “trigger”, but it really depends on the relationship dynamic and much more.
It would depend on the reason you're asking. If you're asking just to be nosey then don't ask. If you're asking because you want to set the person up, then yes ask. The person who is gay will let you know eventually if they want you to know. They won't tell you if you're not someone they're comfortable with being open that way, for whatever reason but most likely (negative). This doesn't mean they're ashamed but just like any straight person, there's thing you are comfortable sharing with people and there's things that you aren't with certain people.
The whole part about the right way to ask if someone’s gay instantly made me think of Friends and that episode with Chandelier when his coworkers thought he was gay and tried to set him up on a blind date with a guy 😂😂😂😂
Regarding the situation of rather someone is gay or not. Please let that person come out on their own. And be open enough to give them the comfort of being themselves around you. They come out to people that they can trust and who won't judge them. This is coming from a person who's been in the closet for over 20 years.
I died when tam realized she’s been bathing in front of her window this whole time
Jackie Abernathy LMAO ME TOO HAHAHAHA
Me too😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
It felt like she was doing a scene but it was just genuinely her being Tamera. Does anyone remember the molasses comment she made? Her mom said she was as slow as molasses and then she realized what molasses was 🤣
lmaooo the genuine like oh damn 🤣🤣🤣
That’s really generous of Adrienne, but I’m like Tamara😭
Zeynaba Kadir 👍
me too
I can’t go out with my day knowing I got a baby out their
@@user-qx5zm7kg4z Same. No way. 🤔
Same, I would lowkey stalk my child
Btw the longer video clip is WAYYY nicer than all the short clips, the part ones and part two's were hella annoying.
Lily Sanchez I wouldn’t mind part 1 & 2 if each part was like 8-10 mins. It’s hella annoying when part 1 is 4 mins and part 2 is 2 mins. That drives me craaazyy
Lily Sanchez Yes, but they are older clips.
Exactly girl I hate watching all the small clips. This is so much better
It's crazy to me to see that Adrienne was willing to give her eggs , and to see the trouble she is having conceiving makes me sad... so hopefully there will be a point in time she will need those eggs and another woman will come through to help her with that !
She might be having trouble conceiving but if she still has good eggs (most women with trouble conceiving still have good eggs) then she won't need another person's eggs. She should try IVF. That works really well once the eggs are good and the sperm is there. The biggest setback is the expense....but Adrienne doesn't have to worry about that
This may be a problem in the future if she ends up not having babies of her own or if the child later discovers that her momma is a public figure. It’s very nice of her but you never know till you see the baby, and you simply cannot predict the future. I wish them the best
@@LeaEspinoza12345 she said in a previous girl talk that she doesn't want to do IVF, she said she doesn't want to force it, she wants it in God's time. She might change her mind tho.
@@zineb8494 she'll most likely change her mind when everything else just isn't working. It was the same for my sister. Didn't want any assistance at first. But after 5 or so years passed, desperation and longing started to keep in. She started with natural sex positions, then natural herbs, then chemical (the normal fertilization pills), then IVF, then adoption. It's something that slowly progresses. You barely ever start off with the most extreme first (unless you're crazy like Octomom or something)
yeaahhh
Any woman that donates her eggs is a hero in my book!
Hero is male.
thats dumb
It’s a nice deed but a hero is a stretch..the world is already overly populated
@@nicoleavery7238 so that should prevent other people from having kids? yes adoption is an option to which people do, however people want kids of their own bloodline
Only an option for family members.
I love Tamera 😂 "I have a big window by my tub 😦😧" 😂 😂
Autumn Tarpkins “window” 😂
Lol
“ oh I just thought of that, I have a big window by my tub “ 😂
I'm here today because of egg donation and I'm incredibly grateful that I am :) ❣❣
I feel like people who ask “are you gay?” loudly in front of others are just trying to be messy. It’s not a question you just ask when you first meet someone lol Imagine being asked “is that your real hair or a wig?” in front of others. Adrienne is right, that’s none of my business, just share what you feel comfortable sharing 🤷♀️
Clorox Bleach People asked me once if that was my hair when I had long thick hair and I said yes, because I don’t wear wigs. I don’t ask people if they are gay.
Yeah, they were playing up the "people want to know because they have a friend interested in you" angle way too much. That's NOT usually why people ask that question. Many times it's just a busybody who just wants to see if their "hunch" is right or some gossip queen looking for a story and it isn't cute. That's why people get "offended" or put off by the question.
Honestly I never knew that this was a offensive question until now ... why not just ask? I do feel like there are some people who yell it out to embarass people but just a friend asking isnt really harmful, and if youd rather not say then that should just be respected. I mean as long as theyre not rude or insulting about it and are respectful i assumed people wont mind? at least in my experience of asking. but i guess in there case her being interested in the guy makes it more awkward lolol
I personally ask when I like a guy or want to be friends with someone & I want to know them better. But I never say “R u gay?” I just ask “So do u have a gf or a bf?” Then I get my answer. They’ll either say “No I’m single.” “No I’m not gay.” “Yeah I have a gf.” “Yeah I have a bf.” then I’ll just laugh it off & be like “Hey u gotta ask theses days.” or “Do u boo” I never judge I’m just honest & straight forward.
@Jaye Kisses: That's what I don't get about the "dilemma" the girls talked about. Why can't they just tell him they know a girl that they think he might really like and if he's interested, he'll ask questions. If he's not, he can say he's not interested in friends hooking him up or whatever. If he's gay and he wants to say that, it's a good time to do so, but you don't have to ask if he's gay or even know if he's gay to get an answer from him about his interest in your friend. Alternatively, this "friend" could make some moves herself. It just seems like a non-issue.
Adrienne much props for being so open. I applaud you!!! So many ethical questions but that Adrienne is open-minded about it, is amazing.
For the gay question, I always just ask who is your celebrity crush/ childhood celebrity crush. ;) Works everytime for me.
movi3srock Great idea
My ex refused to answer that 🤔 and he was dead serious and now I may know why 🤣🤣🤣
That is much better than asking point blank.
im straight and my celebrity crush is a girl.. that don’t really mean something
xarbiestaxxks I have news for you
What lipstick is Adrienne wearing! I’m living for it!
How would any of us know?
It looks like ruby woo by mac 😘
@@nourkadiri9704 it's too light for Ruby Woo!
@@malinasworld mine does the exact same colour, I even use the lip liner still light but looks really good.
@@nourkadiri9704 😳😳 Huh, never seen that happen before. Guess I stand corrected!
"I'll provide the alcohol"
Jeannie😂😂😂
Tam's big window next to her tub... lmao why do ppl not think of these things
Jeannie: Why are you whispering
Tam: I don't know
Jeannie: What team are you on
Tam: Wait i asked that wrong
See i'm confused again
.😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Tam and jeannie chemistry on fleak
I’m gay and i remember as a kid before i came out my heart would drop every time I heard the words “can i ask you a question” so i would say don’t ask if that person is gay and he trusts you he will tell you!
A’s shoes are extra big, she needs to start that tiny heel line ASAP.
I laughed harder than I should have at this!
There's actually at least 11 different places (aldo, nordstrom, asos etc.) that carry shoes for women with small feet. As low as size 3 and 4. Chances are, she just can't find shoes that she actually likes. The selection is probably small so she buys bigger ones. Instead of jewelry she should have invested in the shoe line. A wide selection of shoes for women with small feet.
@@Aishya476 she has stated that her shoe size is a 2 in kids
@@michaelthelen6393 Wow, that's insane. Even more reason for her to have her own line of shoes for women with tiny feet.
im with Adrienne,if I don't even know your sexual orientation why would I be trying to hook u up??obviously we NOT that close!
This is when Jeannie was very slim, and now she is super strong and looks 10 years younger! And when Adrianne assumed she was super fertile. I'm living for the day she has an adorable healthy little baby❤.
We really don't know what the future holds, but I'm one of them people who always hopes/believes that what is to come is better than what has passed.
Peace and love to u all🌺
k Kahin 😎
SWEETIE...ANDRI ASSUMED IF SHE DROPPED IT LIKE IT WAS HOT 🍳🍳🍳SHE WOULD HAVE NO PROBLEM 💃🍆🍆🍆🏃 ISREAL COULD BE SHOOTING BLANKS NOW!?!? PERHAPS IT'S A DRY SEASON!?!?
k Kahin ion think her not getting pregnant right away means she has fertility problems, Sometimes it just doesn’t happen your eggs and things can be healthy as can be. It’s all about timing and god 🤷🏾♀️💯
Selena Bagby 😰
PERHAPS YOU HAVEN'T SEEN THE SEGMENT WHEN SHE SHARED SHES HAVING ISSUES CONCEIVING!?!?
Phillips Watson that’s not what she said lmao I watched it her doctor told her everything looks healthy it just takes some women alil longer to conceive that’s WHY I SAID WHAT TF I SAID
@@phillipswatson3452 she doesn't have fertility issues
I love Adrienne so much, she is such a genuine human being, I want her to be like my mentor. I am grown and I still wanna be here when I grow up dang.
Tamera just realize she giving her neighbors all kind of sister sister twitches!! Lol
Why they give us old episode clips 😂 cause I swear that Tam had locs 🤦🏽♀️🤣
Shanyah Blake it's apart of their girl chat vault playlist
Shanyah Blake for real lol! I swear I never watch the show anyone since they started uploading clips but sometimes they be playing us
Anahis M right 😂 having me watch old clip
you can tell this is old by how jeannie looks lol
Jeannie also aged backwards in this clip! she turned 40 not long ago and says 38 here :')
I couldn't donate my eggs, idk how I feel about another woman being pregnant with my child that I'll never meet...🤦🏻♀️
Maitha Ali - Same here...I feel the same way. Plus, there are SOOO many children who are born everyday who need a loving family. Motherhood isn’t just all about carrying a child for 9 months, it’s about the love and care you show raising that child.
D. Sav I agree.
@@JohnThreeSixteen7373 carrying a child for 9 months is part of motherhood, from start to finish, it's all included in being a mother. When you carry a child that is growing inside of you, you form a special bond with the baby. If you've never been pregnant then you'll never understand. It's something God given.
Hardeep Bhambra - Actually, my husband and I have 3 children. I had natural births with all 3, so yes, I have had that experience. Any female can get pregnant and push out a baby...but only a true mother can shape and mold a child. A mother is there when that child is sick all night...she’s there to feed, bathe, clothe, and sacrifice to raise that child to be a good person. It’s being there through thick and thin. That is what motherhood is about. There are millions of women who can’t physically give birth to a baby for one reason or another, but they still have the potential to make wonderful mothers by other means such as adoption.
@@JohnThreeSixteen7373 yes I agree it's all those things that's required of motherhood didn't say it doesn't.
"Hey man, I want to set you up. What kind of people are you into?" Boom, easy.
I’d love to donate my eggs but I know I’d always be wondering who those children had become and it would eat away at me. Props to the women who do it!
You know Tamera, they got these things called CURTAINS you can hang up on that window!!! 🤣🤣🤣
One of my teachers when I went to school to be a CMA said that if you plan to have kids yourself you should wait until after to donate eggs. Since we are born with certain amount of eggs and then only a few may be good.
They are truly the REALEST! They said they took selfies in the White House bathroom omg! I love love love it!
I'm clapping right now
The reeeeaaa!allllllll racists
Thank you for the long vid. Its well needed
"I got a huge window by my tub 😧"
"Dang it, now I'm confused AGAIN!!!"
Tamera, you so funny 😂😂😂
This is the best bun Ive seen on Aidrian o.o it doesnt look super snatched ..it looks natural idk but I like the look
90sDRgirl Adrienne 😆
I agree
Here's the thing... if you rely too many times on what-ifs then the situation isn't going anywhere. Sometimes it is good to take risks and at the same time too it sometimes can depend on the time and place of discussion as well.
man why do you guys post when i have an essay to do 😭😂
Go👏do👏your👏eassy👏
Write your essay!
omgg sameeee!!!! ehehe
looool same, i only watch when im eating though.....and i eat like every hour sooooo......i guess i need to throw the whole youtube away :(
@@zaquisha95 I can relate 😄
Tamera "Young Diana Ross" Mowry-Housely. Love the hair when you took your selfie.
Omg I just love Tamara!!😂😂@ 7:15
“I Have This Big Window By My Tub Oh Wait I Just Thought Of That...I Have A Big Window By My Tub ☠️” Tamera Is So Cute
commenting to the how to ask someone if their gay - I think the best way is to just ask if their dating anyone at the moment or any celebrities they find attractive.This generally gives you a better understanding and can even answer your question :)
that is so hard. knowing that's genetically your kid.
Right! Especially when you don't kids of your own and that you're struggling to have one...... It's generous but in my opinion it's not the best idea when you're never been a mom...
ANNA ROSE you can’t be a surrogate until you’ve had atleast one successful pregnancy
Just passing through I think you’d still have to atleast have a successful pregnancy to donate your eggs but I’m not 100% sure on that one
Jackie Abernathy You dont have to have a successful pregnancy but you cant have reproductive disorders.
kolby champ oh wow that’s awesome thanks for letting me know me I’ll look into that and my boyfriend have always wanted to bless a family with a child we’ve talked about me being a surrogate and we’ve also been wanting to foster kids too
Tbh, it’s a gay thing. You grow up constantly denying who you are, so when people ask, you’re hesitant. You don’t know how they’re gonna react, you don’t know what they’ll say. You don’t know if you’re about to lose a friend.
I did 3 cycles of egg donations and was anonymous. In the contract you have to sign, they ask you if it would be okay if the children could reach out to you in the future if they’d like. I said yes. The weight gain side effect was absolutely true. I would never regret it though cause I was able to help couples start their families. An incredible gift.
Why donate to eggs??! If you want to be a mom so bad why not adopt the thousands of babies and kids in foster care and adoption agencies!????
Young Queen I agree.
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Maybe they want the baby to have the same DNA
Young Queen why is it up to infertile couples to adopt kids ? Practice what you preach you go adopt the kids yourself. It’s not only up to infertile couples to help them.
Young Queen I’m saying I’m adopted lol
You could tell loni was on the verge of tears in the beginning 😔
I’m with Tamera on this baby thing...I’d be the same way 😹😹😹
Reana Charles 👍
I reads an article long time along. Written by a white young lady with blue eyes. She talked about how she donated her eggs. She didn’t know until a long time after, that the clinic took more than they should had. That the clinic mis-represented themselves. Then figured out afterwards that her eggs were #1 requests. Blonde with blue eyes. She mentioned how her body was never the same after. Back pain, muscle pain and sharpe headaches etc....I’m not saying anything, just remembering an article I read a while back.
Tamera and Loni together have always been pure comedy since the beginning. Miss you Tamera 😔 I blame the producers of the show lol
For anyone wondering: yes this clip is from season 3. It’s part of the Girl Chat Vault playlist. They cannot give us season 5 entire girl chat clips because they do not count as ratings to keep the show on air. Also of course it’s old, the studio is different ahahah
Are you dating anyone?
What's your type? Do you have a type? What are you attracted to? JUST KEEP IT BROAD I never directly ask "are you gay?" I've Quite offensive and I dont want anyone uncomfortable with me
See, I don't get WHY is that offensive? What's offensive about asking someone if they're gay or straight or bi or whatever else? Is it that they might be in the closet still or?
I just wanna know what makes that question offensive, ya know? Because I've been asked that before and I'm straight but I didn't find it offensive that someone thought I was gay or bi.
But when I ask that question I usually do it in a joking tone(to not make anyone uncomfortable) and just ask "so you want me to hook you up w someone? What should I look for? A guy a girl a Johnny Depp lookalike?"
@@anitaposa9164 1) yes they could be in the closet or just not want it known in that specific area of thier lives (e.g. work). 2) in some cases how you answer changes the way people perceive you or the fact they are asking might affect how you perceive yourself. Example if you are gay the fact they are asking may be alarming to you depending on how you want to be percieved. "Are they asking because I am presenting as "too feminine, butch, etc." I mean there is not wrong way to present yourself and express your sexuality but depending on your personal feelings on it it can be offensive. Then on the opposite end if you are homophobic or really straight that could be a blow to your ego and sense of self and worth.
3) stigma. Yes maybe you have good intentions in asking, but for all I know you are asking to figure out how you are going to treat me. A lot of times after finding out someone's sexual orientation people change how they interact. So it can be offensive because it can come off as you fishing for information/excuses to use against that person.
4) it isnt your (as in the general your) business and it can put people on guard. People will tell you on thier own time when they feel comfortable with you (if they are not heterosexual). While times have changed to a certain extent being anything other than heterosexual can be hard to navigate in terms of how people (even allies) treat you and even within the community people struggle with having thier sexuality and sexual preferences validated. Some lesbians condemn bi women and think they are bad people if they date men. Many people don't recognize asexuals and put them down. So when you ask for our sexuality it can put some of us on our guard because it may mean preparing ourselves to be insulted or assaulted with questions we don't want to answer.
You say your straight and aren't uncomfortable with the question, and that makes sense because your livelihood has never been tied to it. There are still places in the USA where people harrass and beat you up if you arent straight. There are states that until recently had laws that said jobs could fire you for being homosexual.
It isnt so much the the question is offensive as in rude by nature, but that the answer actually can effect the person's life.
Homophobes are offended because being gay (in thier minds) is offensive. But for some (not all, because i can't speak for everyone) lgbtq+ members answeting could have consequences or put us in uncomfortable situations that absolutely didn't need to happen
These are really great topics!! Right now we're dealing with a situation about not knowing if one of my husbands friends is gay or not but dont want to assume he is and then he's not and vice versa.
Tamara selfie is so damn gorgeous
I’m not a fan of the idea of sperm or egg donation. I personally would feel like a part of me would always be missing...that child would have my DNA because they would be my biological offspring. I think about my 3 kids...I couldn’t imagine. I feel like there are hundreds of thousands of kids in the system who are desperately in need of love. The foster care system is overflowing with babies/kids.
This is how I feel as well.
Exactly right. Doctors playing God is gonna come back to bite them. Potentially there are thousands of half brothers & sisters out there who are gonna meet their siblings, be strongly drawn to them not knowing who they are & then start romantic relationships with them. Exactly right that the adoption/foster care system is overflowing with babies/kids that people should consider that instead. And the friend Adrienne's talking about, I think is the gay guy who's been on her RUclips channel.
Vrai • - True!
I agree to all of your points!
Agree
It’s crazy to look back at these videos, Jeannie was very thin. Her arms were so tiny 😬.
StingingwithqueenC Her face too.
She looks weird
She still had her rings on
??? I thought this was new??? It says 2019???
@@faithervin9294this was from 2017 ish
Edit: Definitely 2017, March to be specific.
7:26 Awe cute, Tamera snorted 😂😂
Tamera looks so pretty.
Adrienne: stunning photo *you are still in the running towards becoming America's Next Top Model* ✨
With the eggs...most peoppe would keep it business style and just donate get the money and go. The lucky recipients would just be happy to have them.
“That’s a lot of money” I’m with Adrienne here.... That is whoo.
Can you post full clips of recent videos too? Y'all only post full clips of old videos. 😒
Cool Potato I agree 👍
Truly most annoying.
It’s the way your tone is when speaking to people. If you have great tone then I think you will get an nice answer if not then you get what you get🤷🏿♀️
Shiiiiid...I would definitely give up my eggs for $14,000!
Brittany Jacqueline rigghhtt!!! Like how many you want???
You know, if you wanna know someone's sexuality, the only real reason that isn't just curiosity, is if you're interested in them. Ask them out! On a date, and use the word date. That's that!
I Agree.. Dont Show The Toilet!!!♡♡LOL
Wella Novee I’m the same.
I'm dying to know the brand of lip gloss Jeannie's wearing. It looks so glossy and long lasting! And this coral shade is gorgeous!!!
Lmao! Tamera😂😂😭😭 "Come home"
I'm dying!😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭
I really can't wait for the day when Adrienne has her own little bundle of joy
she finally has 🥺
Lonis face 😂😂 "basically" I love Loni.
I think there are a lot of factors when it comes to mother hood and father hood, more than just DNA. It’s kind of a nature vs Nurture thing and is different for all people and families
Its not just donating eggs and injecting etc But you also have to take an educational test, have a resume and someone would have to pick your eggs in order for you to get paid and you have to see if you even get approved to donate your eggs so its actually a longer process than most people think.
Nobody should be asking about sexuality because like Adrienne and Jeannie says, it's no one's business! And some people consider it rude, I have seen experiences where people were like "Why does it matter?" or "Do I ask if you're straight", so just don't worry about it and like the person for who they are and it WILL come up, trust me. It's not mandatory to be said.
GIRL CHAT SUGGESTION: They should have a girl chat about the James Charles & Tati Westbrook situation.
Yazmin Rubio hell naw😅💀 I’ve had enough
OMG!! Jeannie was sooooooooo skinny here!! And she looks so gorgeous now! 🤩🤩🤩
This is a super touchy subject for me, I feel like I couldn’t do it, not for someone I knew definitely. And as the woman who’s raising the child, knowing that baby does not really come from you but comes from there father, so now a close family member has a kid by my man. It’s so much to ut
“Don’t show the toilet” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Adrienne is brave for wanting to donate her eggs; I couldn’t let my bio kids live without me. I’m a surrogate right now, and I feel it’s emotionally easier because I already know it’s not actually my baby.
I just thought I have a big window by my tub. 😂
As a gay man, I think the best thing to do is some how bring up the topic of relationships/love and respectfully ask something along the lines of "just so I know, do you like men or women?" Don't do what Loni does because that's assuming and if your assumptions happen to be wrong, you're going to offend the hell out of someone. Especially men. And even you're right, some sensitive gay person might still get offended because you use stereotypes. 🤷♂️
As a gay man here’s some advice.
Just ask. Just genuinely ask if he is gay. It’s not a big issue anymore.
Problem solved.
As another gay man here, no, do not do this. If that man is actually gay, how would you know if he is closeted or not? The amount of planning and courage it takes to come out is a pivotal moment in a gay man’s life that straight people will never understand, and to take that away from him all because you felt entitled to an answer isn’t okay. At all.
Interesting. Thanks for sharing both sides.
But now i'm still hella confused. 🙆🏿♀️😂
As a lesbian who goes by “don’t ask don’t tell” (if you ask me I’ll tell you if you don’t ask me I won’t) 9 times out of 10 I’ll answer the question according to my comfortability with you and the environment we’re in. If I feel you’re asking with no malice intent then I’ll answer truthfully and follow it with a “why”? If I feel uncomfortable around you then I won’t answer the question. I’ll most likely ask the question back to you like, “are you gay”.
I think a straight man or a man questioning his sexuality might be offended by this question because a lot of men are worried about their masculinity being questioned.
To clarify I’m not saying gay men are not masculine but from my personal experience they are more secure in their own masculinity or in some cases femininity
You get the person involved in a conversation about celebrities you think are fine. Then they’ll chime in and joke around. The lighter the mood the easer it’ll be to ask awkward questions. Also you could just be honest and say that you have a friend that likes them but you aren’t sure if they would like them back.
In my experience they’ll ask you straight up if you’re gay 🤷🏽♀️. Just depends on how you say it. Don’t be all weird and make it awkward, especially if they are your friend they shouldn’t get upset.
Girls you also have to be careful, bc even if someone IS gay/bi, they may not be out. So you also risk outing them and completely either ruining or changing their lives. So if the person in question is a close friend, just ask. If the person in question is an acquaintance or stranger, don't worry about it.
The trick is to ask, if it’s a guy “Are you into guys?” Or if it’s a girl, “ Are you into girls?”....it lessens the blow but is still asking the same question. Because implied in the question is that they are still attracted to the opposite sex
*06:15* HELP, WHAT DID ADRIENNE SAY
“That was a -“ 😂😂 then jeannie looked at her like bItChh StFu
the issue here is that of privilege. Heterosexual people have the privilege of their sexuality not needing to be asked. Nonheterosexual people do not have that privilege. We need to get rid of this hegemonic heterosexual culture where straight people don't need to be asked but nonstraight people do. But how often does a straight person have to say they are straight? vs the expectation for a nonheterosexual gay/bisexual/orSomethingElse to disclose their sexuality. The power balance is not equal.
YOU COULD LITERALLY ADOPT, what’s up with everyone obsessing over not being able to conceive kids and claim to really want one to experience the “bond” yet choose not to adopt??? Adopting saves lives, why bring more lives into the world when others are currently suffering and in need a loving home?
Most bathrooms I’ve been to though at restaurants with the nice lightings & mirrors every time I go in there’s a huge line & barely a lot of room to walk so they could be hard & frustrating if you wanted to take a selfie! A good place I think is probably a fitting room with the mirrors different angles because it’s just you! Macy’s usually has mirrors like that!
Lol Loni's reaction to Tamera's bathroom window realization
Jeannie was so thin omg, she is so much healthier and more beautiful now
Shes always been drop dead gorgeous . her weight has nothing to do with that.
What if you told your friend that you wanted to set them up on a date, an asked the friend what they look for in a partner? Then that might be a good lead into the person's partner preference.
A's lip and nail matching combo is so pleasing to look at
You tell the person directly, hey I know someone who’s interested in you, what I don’t know is whether you’re looking, what your taste in a potential mate would be, or if you’d be interested in meeting this person.. and let them tell you. It might just be that the reason you can’t figure it out is cuz they haven’t figured it out yet either. If they look like they might be offended, you always got “hey, in today’s world, I’m not assuming or judging nothin!”
Aye ! Finallyyyy, I love that you guys talked about some LGBTQ stuff. I've been curious and even though it was mostly referring to gay men, it was a nice and very welcome switch up. Thanks y'all
Brah i literally say “I got someone that likes you, what your sexual orientation?” Then they tell me and I hook them up or not and move on! Normalize the conversation
Dammmm!!!! Lonnie's make-up was amazing. I want those eyes!
Giving eggs seems like such a selfless thing to do that is so sweet. However I’m with tamera on this one! I’d be like MY BABY in my head 😩💁🏻♀️
A friend of mine has a male friend that she thought was gay until he started doing things that made it seem like he was maybe interested in her and she found herself catching feelings. Man... we worked out a whole strategy for how she was gonna ask him if he's into girls or not and she finally just let it all out to him via text and he completely ignored the whole thing for 2 days then started talking to her again like nothing happened 😂. To this day, we ain't got the answers Sway!
Loni love,u look exceptionally beautiful today!!🥰
I don’t get Jeannie she says she doesn’t want kids but whenever they bring up kids as a topic she seems so invested
I think asking specifically men about their sexuality, if gay, can be offensive at times b/c many of us grew up in time periods where gayness/femininity in men was labeled as disgusting/sick by culture and medical books. So at times it’s kind of a “trigger”, but it really depends on the relationship dynamic and much more.
It would depend on the reason you're asking. If you're asking just to be nosey then don't ask. If you're asking because you want to set the person up, then yes ask. The person who is gay will let you know eventually if they want you to know. They won't tell you if you're not someone they're comfortable with being open that way, for whatever reason but most likely (negative). This doesn't mean they're ashamed but just like any straight person, there's thing you are comfortable sharing with people and there's things that you aren't with certain people.
Tam looks so nice!
The whole part about the right way to ask if someone’s gay instantly made me think of Friends and that episode with Chandelier when his coworkers thought he was gay and tried to set him up on a blind date with a guy 😂😂😂😂
Regarding the situation of rather someone is gay or not. Please let that person come out on their own. And be open enough to give them the comfort of being themselves around you. They come out to people that they can trust and who won't judge them. This is coming from a person who's been in the closet for over 20 years.