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I came out to people wayyyyy to many ways, and most of it I accidentally hurt myself doing :> 1. Straight face contest Have a contest where you have to keep a straight face, then smile immediately! And then say: “How can I keep a straight face if I’m not straight?” 2. “I’m like a noodle. I used to be straight, now I’m not.” Need I say more? 3. Ask someone straight “You like (insert gender)? Me too.” Make sure they like the correct gender for this one! 4. I drew a picture I challenged myself and put the asexual panromantic flag as the background, and followed the colors on the character I drew. 5. I made bread but dyed the bread rainbow :^ Be careful with this one, I burned myself twice and got rainbow dye on my hands for three weeks and then had to go to a wedding. 6. Come out of the closet! ..Literally Also be careful with this one, I couldn’t get into my closet so I came out of the pantry and stubbed my toe Hope this helps anyone! Also sorry trans fam! Again, before you come out to *anyone* , please make sure you’re safe! Know you’re loved here! Mwah! 💖
I wish I had seen it yesterday (because yesterday I came out of the closet with my parents, they accepted me but this video would have helped me a lot: c)
Sorry but I'm glad your parents accepted you! Seriously, go hug them again and take in every moment of their acceptance. You have no idea how lucky you are to be accepted. Some of the comments I read everyday from people who aren't accepted make me cry and it makes me even happier when someone says they are accepted so enjoy every minute of their love. HAppy Pride Month and go celebrate!
6:06 me, a gender fluid: *pulling wheelies, doing jumps, going in circles and driving so far past the speed limit I don't even know where I am anymore*
Alright bois, let me say this again It’s okay to be straight It’s okay to be gay It’s okay to be trans It’s okay to be non binary It’s okay to be bi It’s okay to be gender fluid It’s okay to be LGBTQ+ It’s not okay to be homophobic, heterophobic, or transphobic. Happy pride month 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
You probably won't see this right away, but I subscribed. Im never coming out, cause my family have shown signs of being homophobic my whole life. I'm planning on getting a house or saving enough money to get a place to stay, in case they tell me to get out of their lives and kick me out.
I think the next episode in this series is going to help you a lot. It's "coming out" next week so hang in there but know you're loved and accepted by so many. Happy pride Month
I am a genderfluid bisexual panromantic senior in highschool back in 7th grade I came out as bisexual to my friends and soon after my dad found out and was pretty accepting I'm scared to tell him/my family that I'm genderfluid because hes already shown signs of being transphobic and so it scares me a lot although in january he did ask me if I wanted to get males deodorant instead of females deodorant and he's been buying me males deodorant since then which I wasn't sure was a sign of him knowing or not
I'm out as gay (not nonbinary though) to my direct family, but not my extended family or (more scarily) my church. Widh me luck my dudes, dudettes, and other defining words!
I always thought I was bisexual but I just found out I am polysexual but idk what gender identity I was because I didn't mind being called by different pronouns so then did my research and I found out I am gender apathetic it is when you don't mind being called by different pronouns or you just don't care and after I found that out I sorta felt whole so I think I hit the nail right on the head😊
If someone is not being nice about you or someone you know being trans or something similar and they bring up “ it’s Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve “ just say this: “ your right, Steve is Eves deadname, so it is Adam and Eve, glad your addressing her correctly! “. Your welcome
I want to come out as nonbinary, but my parents are really transphobic. I have really different views than my parents. And I'm scared they will kick me out. I was friends with a trans boy a couple years ago, and my mom said, and I quote "you better not tell us your trans, you've been a girl all your life."
Uh, I'm bi and wanna say I'm lesbian, but some kids at school already bully me at school for being bi and I haven't come out to my parents yet. But Imma watch these videos and wait to come out until next Pride Month.
I'm asexual/aromantic and haven't come out publically. I have a history of mental health issues like depression and social anxiety. What should I say if people tell me I'm only ace/aro because of my mental health issues?
Scientifically speaking, a lot of depression in the LGBTQ community is caused by not being able to come out and be our authentic selves right away like everyone else. We talk a lot about that in this episode linked below but if people think you're only ace/aro because of your mental health issues, tell them that it's not how science works. Being anywhere on the sexuality or gender spectrum is in your DNA from the moment you are born and depression is caused by the environment you live in. So one does not cause the other. But that's if you even want to give them an answer when you don't owe them any explanation at all for being who you are. Those who matter you're ace/aro don't need to be in your life and those who should matter to you, won't mind that you're ace/aro. So just be you and if they have any problem with that, kick them out of your party because they weren't cool enough to stay anyway. ruclips.net/video/OtSvzLFf-XQ/видео.html
I'm Ale/Ash, from Asunción, Paraguay. I will be open to experiment with my gender identity. I knew I was bisexual since 11 yrs old. I'm turning 16 in october, and I am proud 💖💜💙.
I always thought I was just a girl, who likes girls. But for a year, I've felt more uncomfortable as a girl. But, I dont wanna be a guy or a girl. Am I nonbinary? I'm really not sure of who I am yet, which is ok. Sometimes I feel more like a guy, or a girl. But idk..? But, thank you for the video! It helps alot.
My family is pretty excepting with me being lesbian, which was really hard to make them understand. My dad hates it still but my mom protects only to that extent. She doesn’t understand that some lesbians want to look a little more masc than others, she tells me “why would a girl want another girl that looks like a guy, just date a guy” which really bothers me. I’m not sure if I should tell her I’m agenderflux because she doesn’t even let me cut my hair since the whole thing about it looking like a boy. Kinda funny tho cuz I don’t want to look like a boy or a girl, I just want to look like me. BUT I’m almost an adult and I can just do the things I want then, until then I’ll just keep quiet, I don’t want to come out to her about it because over already gone through hell and back with trying to get my sexuality right and my parents giving me crap about it, so I’ll just wait.
I've never understood what factors determine what pronouns a non binary person would choose. For example, why would you feel more comfortable with ve/ver rather than xe/xem or ze/zie?
I love your videos! Highly informational! So, I can identify as a nonbinary Genderfluid lesbian? Also, coming out to a few friends felt good. Coming out to my family is really scary, and I'm trying to figure out what I should do. Do I stay married because I don't want to break my husband's heart? A family member is going through divorce right now, and it's not something I would wish on anybody. Also, even though I'm an adult, I worry my parents will disown me. I wish I had've known I wasn't straight earlier in life. Being 37, and figuring all of this out now, it's hard to know how I should handle this.
I'm not completely sure of my identity yet, I just know I'm cisgender but not straight :/ I'm honestly most worried about something similar to a recent(?) incident concerning phobias to my parents if I were to come out. Upon thinking over this comment, this is my first "debut," per se, in regards to coming out, even if it's online.
You're completely valid. Self discovery is a journey. Even if you come to think you are one thing, and later realize you were something else - that's perfectly fine and valid too. Make sure to stay safe, don't come out if it would put you in danger. We love, support, and accept you here. ^u^
You are you. Admitting to yourself that you've LGBT is the first step. And being LGBT doesn't turn you into some mutant monster frog. You are and always have been LGBT you just are now admitting to it. I hope in the 7 months since you wrote this episode you found yourself.
Jackson Sanders not me I have Ben livening with anxiety and depression for my whole life! Also I’m really scared to come out to my mom and dad but I already came out to my 2 friends yes I olny have 2 friends ALSO I think I have a crush on one of them! Why? You may ask well she can be a pit of an asshole sometimes but I still don’t care I care for her ALOT more then a friend does but I mean at least she is bi if I had a crush on my other friend then I would explode with anxiety because she barely even knows what LGBTQ+ is so ya the olny upside to this is that my crush is bi so mabey she will fall in love with my gay ass one day Wow my life is a mess I should see a therapist I hope my crush does not see this
That happened with me. It weighed on me for 11 years. My internalized homophobia came from my dad and the people around me. They all shoved their opinions on me and growing up I didn't have access to the internet to figure out otherwise. Over the course of the past 2 years I met people of different sexuality's and gender identitys mostly online. It's hard to let go of ideology you've had your entire life. Getting rid of your internalized homophobia doesn't happen over night. I slowly got rid of mine but being an asset to the LGBTQIA community. I was a friend and Ally to those who needed it. I gave kind words to people's who's parents rejected them. I helped people figure out who they were. I took away some of the pain I've caused by doing these things. Maybe doing something similar will help you.
I am gay and the reason why it’s so hard coming out is cas people make me feel embarrassed to be gay, but I am coming out I believe once I am out the feeling of embarrassment will go away . I am attractive to white guys , I want a relationship with a white dude , my type of white guy , slim, petite, blond . Wat turn me on about a white guy is his masculinity. How I know I am attractive to guys cas when I tried to have sec with a woman I couldn’t, I had to think about a guy I like to have sex with a woman. I have no sexual desire for a woman.so I came out
//DarkStar\\ I would say pansexual but If you don’t know it yet take your time do some research and experiment You don’t necessarily have to have a Label to define yourself.. 🏳️🌈
I don't mean to be panphobic or bigoted here, but I feel specifically attracted to women but sexually attracted to men, and just attracted any gender mostly based in any of the other attraction types. But women just... hit different to me. So, would it be bad if I said I was pansexual just so I dont have to explain to everyone the explicit details of my life? I do experience attraction not based on sex or gender, but I do prefer women in some fields, men in others, and others in, well, others. Is this pansexuality, or is there another term that would suit this? Or maybe I'm confused, and just have different tastes *down there* and just want a woman. This is all veeeery confusing.
They're different types of what you want as a person. For example, someone could like boys and girls but only are sexually attracted to boys. I would think it would be Pansexual, but you also might be (depending on your gender) hetrosexual or homosexual. I would say Pansexual, but it's always the person's decision.
Pansexual is when you love all genders, but you don't have to be attracted to ALL equally. Its like your own flavor of icecream. Yeah, i love all icecream flavors but i like chocolate the most.
If I'm understanding you correctly, you might be omnisexual. That means you are attracted to all genders but you feel attracted to (a) certain gender(s) more than others.
So introduction I identify as a Cis Male and believe in only two biological/genetic sexes (m/f) and that will always remain even after transitioning but feel that gender identity can be fluidly expressed or not at all. Anyways I have been struggling with my sexual orientation/identity. For the most part I present as a heterosexual but in reality I am gynosexual (Attraction to feminine expression regardless of sex assigned at birth). Being attracted to trans women. by some definition that would mean that I am gay and by my own belief that a trans woman is still biologically male. However I do not feel gay or identify as such. I recognize trans women based on their gender expression not their sex. I am not attracted to "men" per say. Gynosexuality feels so adjacent to Heterosexuality that I am questioning should I even bother coming out and yet I feel like I am hiding the full truth about myself. There is also the issue of identity politics within the lgbtq community due to Marxist influences. Because people think I am 100 straight that I am somewhat scorned for it. As the Straight cis male oppressor. secondly does my sexuality even matter in the grander scheme or is it just all "pride".
Ha Y'all saying you guys are coming out to your parents 😂 children I'm gay af and my parents are 1000000% homophobic, good luck guys gals and captain others ❤💛💚💙💜 imma stay in the closet till I move out Edit: oop I changed the swear word so no 5 year olds minds are cursed
So this didn't actually happen, I just thought it up in my head, but this is what happened: Mom "Hi **deadname**, how was school today?!" Me "Good, there's a trans boy at school." Mom "Honey, I want you to stay away from her, ok?" Me " I'm sorry mom but I'm not sure if I can stay away from *him*" Mom "And why not?" Me "because I'm him... 🌈🕺"
I'm bisexual and while my dad isn't homophobic he's made it clear that he loves them for who they are and has never officially said they're going to hell I've never told him. But that isn't to say he's not stupid he knew my Gay friend growing up he knew of the multiple things he tried with me (nothing sexually) over the years. My mom even told him of my "boyfriend" but didn't flat out say it because even she didn't even know he was my actual boyfriend. Because of this I don't feel the need to tell my dad. My dad doesn't call himself a Christan he is simply someone who follows the bible as is. A lot of LGBTQIA people he knows of are atheist and reject Jesus. As someone who is bisexual myself and who doesn't I'm that one in a million. My dad flat out believes that as long as you believe in Jesus you're end up in heaven. He even believes people he knew weren't Christan in life are up there like his brother and my step grandpa. I wouldn't call him an ally I know for a fact if I bought a bi flag for my room he would freak out but he's not completely against us either. Knowing all of this do any of y'all think I should tell him just flat out that I'm bisexual? The only people who know are the internet and some of my childhood friends.
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I was recently going to come out but I didn’t know how. This video *came out* at the right time.
*I’m not sorry for that pun*
Eliott Lally you legend
r/madlads
@Aarian Vermey mk
@Aarian Vermey PFFFT
Lmao
LGBT+ people have the best attitude towards life.
Awhh that’s like the nicest thing ever
Awww that’s sweet😊this comment made me smile really big😁
:)
Bird Person has witnessed a lot of narcissism & hypocrisy within the movement.
@@birdperson8078 I would like to thank you for informing me
I am a proud non-binary bisexual person 🖤🤍💜💛 💙💗💜
Edit: I’m gay and transgender male/demiboy
Yay!
omg abro pfp twins🥺
@@lexi_may :D watermelon 🍉
Bi-NB!
I came out to people wayyyyy to many ways, and most of it I accidentally hurt myself doing :>
1. Straight face contest
Have a contest where you have to keep a straight face, then smile immediately! And then say: “How can I keep a straight face if I’m not straight?”
2. “I’m like a noodle. I used to be straight, now I’m not.”
Need I say more?
3. Ask someone straight “You like (insert gender)? Me too.”
Make sure they like the correct gender for this one!
4. I drew a picture
I challenged myself and put the asexual panromantic flag as the background, and followed the colors on the character I drew.
5. I made bread but dyed the bread rainbow :^
Be careful with this one, I burned myself twice and got rainbow dye on my hands for three weeks and then had to go to a wedding.
6. Come out of the closet! ..Literally
Also be careful with this one, I couldn’t get into my closet so I came out of the pantry and stubbed my toe
Hope this helps anyone! Also sorry trans fam! Again, before you come out to *anyone* , please make sure you’re safe! Know you’re loved here! Mwah! 💖
Oh hey! We’re both panromantic ace!
Coming out the closet
I wish I had seen it yesterday (because yesterday I came out of the closet with my parents, they accepted me but this video would have helped me a lot: c)
Sorry but I'm glad your parents accepted you! Seriously, go hug them again and take in every moment of their acceptance. You have no idea how lucky you are to be accepted. Some of the comments I read everyday from people who aren't accepted make me cry and it makes me even happier when someone says they are accepted so enjoy every minute of their love. HAppy Pride Month and go celebrate!
6:06
me, a gender fluid: *pulling wheelies, doing jumps, going in circles and driving so far past the speed limit I don't even know where I am anymore*
LOL
Relatable
I am lesbian and proud.
same and i am too.
Same here! 🏳️🌈
me too!
YES YOU GO GIRLLL
Did you face sexism or homophobia from your parents?
Congrats on the high sub count 👏👏👏
Thank you for being a part of that. I'm so excited!
Hi
@@fishboi6051 Hello!
I'm coming out as nonbinary to my church in 2 days! I'm so excited, hope it goes well :D thanks for the advice!
I hope that your church is filled with actual christians who love all.
How did it go?
Thanks For The Coming out advice! I can't wait for "testing waters" (part 2), that's something I'm having a problem with. thanks!!!
Happy Pride!!!!!!!
:0 it's you!!!
My mum: Why do you have a boys blazer you’re a girl
Me: 👁👄👁
Me: silly mum, the void has no gender
Lol yes
Ikr
I'm gay and trans I hope this will help me
Bird Person identifies as Bird Person
Bird is the word. And you do you, I’ll just sit here and be happy for you. 🏳️🌈
Thank you! I wanted to come out as non-binary to my family but I didn't know how. Thank you once again! 💕
Alright bois, let me say this again
It’s okay to be straight
It’s okay to be gay
It’s okay to be trans
It’s okay to be non binary
It’s okay to be bi
It’s okay to be gender fluid
It’s okay to be LGBTQ+
It’s not okay to be homophobic, heterophobic, or transphobic.
Happy pride month 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈
Heterophobia doesn't exist.
@@Al_Afrah yes, it does. This applies to pretty much everything, but if it exists, there’s a phobia of it
Aw this really made me smile😊 bless you
I am bi and this is how I'm gonna come out to my dad😇
You probably won't see this right away, but I subscribed. Im never coming out, cause my family have shown signs of being homophobic my whole life. I'm planning on getting a house or saving enough money to get a place to stay, in case they tell me to get out of their lives and kick me out.
I think the next episode in this series is going to help you a lot. It's "coming out" next week so hang in there but know you're loved and accepted by so many. Happy pride Month
@@PoweredByRainbows Thank you. Happy pride!
I really wish I had found this channel before I came out of the closet on June third
I found this channel at the right time, I hope the best for you 👍
I am a genderfluid bisexual panromantic senior in highschool back in 7th grade I came out as bisexual to my friends and soon after my dad found out and was pretty accepting I'm scared to tell him/my family that I'm genderfluid because hes already shown signs of being transphobic and so it scares me a lot although in january he did ask me if I wanted to get males deodorant instead of females deodorant and he's been buying me males deodorant since then which I wasn't sure was a sign of him knowing or not
sometimes....i wonder why lgbtq people are awesome...
We are powered by raimbows
So helpful- for coming out- THANKS
I'm out as gay (not nonbinary though) to my direct family, but not my extended family or (more scarily) my church. Widh me luck my dudes, dudettes, and other defining words!
You mean guys gals and non binary pals ? I'm sorry it just sounds better imo
Dude is non gender most of the time
I always thought I was bisexual but I just found out I am polysexual but idk what gender identity I was because I didn't mind being called by different pronouns so then did my research and I found out I am gender apathetic it is when you don't mind being called by different pronouns or you just don't care and after I found that out I sorta felt whole so I think I hit the nail right on the head😊
Since my parents are separated I'm glad I had my uncles to teach bisexual little me.
When i came out and they where not Accepting
I'm so sorry to hear that.. :(
@@Alex-vo5bm At least my friends Accepted me
Well, I accept you anyway you are
@@unitedastro8355 Thanks!
Aww that’s so sad well... It will get better I promise....
If someone is not being nice about you or someone you know being trans or something similar and they bring up “ it’s Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve “ just say this: “ your right, Steve is Eves deadname, so it is Adam and Eve, glad your addressing her correctly! “. Your welcome
So i came out as bi to my mom and uncle(we are really close) and both of them told me they were bi
Bi family!
I want to come out as nonbinary, but my parents are really transphobic. I have really different views than my parents. And I'm scared they will kick me out. I was friends with a trans boy a couple years ago, and my mom said, and I quote
"you better not tell us your trans, you've been a girl all your life."
How’re you doing now?
Hope it goes well
This was very informative and helpful. Thank you. úwù
Uh, I'm bi and wanna say I'm lesbian, but some kids at school already bully me at school for being bi and I haven't come out to my parents yet. But Imma watch these videos and wait to come out until next Pride Month.
This entire series has helped me a lot with my life. I haven’t came out yet but when I watch the last episode I will by then...
I'm asexual/aromantic and haven't come out publically. I have a history of mental health issues like depression and social anxiety. What should I say if people tell me I'm only ace/aro because of my mental health issues?
Scientifically speaking, a lot of depression in the LGBTQ community is caused by not being able to come out and be our authentic selves right away like everyone else. We talk a lot about that in this episode linked below but if people think you're only ace/aro because of your mental health issues, tell them that it's not how science works. Being anywhere on the sexuality or gender spectrum is in your DNA from the moment you are born and depression is caused by the environment you live in. So one does not cause the other. But that's if you even want to give them an answer when you don't owe them any explanation at all for being who you are. Those who matter you're ace/aro don't need to be in your life and those who should matter to you, won't mind that you're ace/aro. So just be you and if they have any problem with that, kick them out of your party because they weren't cool enough to stay anyway. ruclips.net/video/OtSvzLFf-XQ/видео.html
@@PoweredByRainbows Thanks, I needed that :)
Thank you for making this video series.
Thank you
I came out and right after I saw this video and youtube channel.
You don’t know how much I needed this video 😊 🏳️🌈
I'm Ale/Ash, from Asunción, Paraguay. I will be open to experiment with my gender identity.
I knew I was bisexual since 11 yrs old. I'm turning 16 in october, and I am proud 💖💜💙.
I always thought I was just a girl, who likes girls. But for a year, I've felt more uncomfortable as a girl. But, I dont wanna be a guy or a girl. Am I nonbinary? I'm really not sure of who I am yet, which is ok. Sometimes I feel more like a guy, or a girl. But idk..?
But, thank you for the video! It helps alot.
:Jelly Craft: Well, you coukd be like me. Im bigender so i conform to two genders. Mine are female and non binary.
Maybe you are gender fluid or agender
Oh lord, this really helped, I'm actually kinda excited to come out, I just wanna finish the playlist.
Put my sexuality mark on my face, HAH!
I wish I found this chanel while I was figuring myself out lol it would have saved me a lot of dmed questions on discord to my friends
👍🏼
Ace and proud... of this channel :)
I am lesbian and I hope this will help me come out to my dad
I have a unisex name so I can keep it😊
Luckyyyy, I have a really masc name!
Mine sounds REALLY female to me
I just came here from the other video :D
My family is pretty excepting with me being lesbian, which was really hard to make them understand. My dad hates it still but my mom protects only to that extent. She doesn’t understand that some lesbians want to look a little more masc than others, she tells me “why would a girl want another girl that looks like a guy, just date a guy” which really bothers me. I’m not sure if I should tell her I’m agenderflux because she doesn’t even let me cut my hair since the whole thing about it looking like a boy. Kinda funny tho cuz I don’t want to look like a boy or a girl, I just want to look like me. BUT I’m almost an adult and I can just do the things I want then, until then I’ll just keep quiet, I don’t want to come out to her about it because over already gone through hell and back with trying to get my sexuality right and my parents giving me crap about it, so I’ll just wait.
(Out of character)
I am Pansexual, Polyamory, and Gender-Fluid. I use the names Virgil and Sephtis.
I've never understood what factors determine what pronouns a non binary person would choose. For example, why would you feel more comfortable with ve/ver rather than xe/xem or ze/zie?
My father knows im pan but coning out as non binary is N O T happening, but for everyone who does come out, good luck loves 😊❤
Have a cookie 🍪🍪🍪
Awe I love cookies. Also, have a hug and a rainbow because you’re perfect and the fact that you commented about cookies makes me smile. 🤗🏳️🌈
@@PoweredByRainbows yay hugs!! Also, thank you, I really needed to hear that ^^
I love your videos! Highly informational! So, I can identify as a nonbinary Genderfluid lesbian?
Also, coming out to a few friends felt good. Coming out to my family is really scary, and I'm trying to figure out what I should do. Do I stay married because I don't want to break my husband's heart? A family member is going through divorce right now, and it's not something I would wish on anybody. Also, even though I'm an adult, I worry my parents will disown me. I wish I had've known I wasn't straight earlier in life. Being 37, and figuring all of this out now, it's hard to know how I should handle this.
very informative thank you
🏳️🌈
I'm not completely sure of my identity yet, I just know I'm cisgender but not straight :/
I'm honestly most worried about something similar to a recent(?) incident concerning phobias to my parents if I were to come out.
Upon thinking over this comment, this is my first "debut," per se, in regards to coming out, even if it's online.
You're completely valid. Self discovery is a journey. Even if you come to think you are one thing, and later realize you were something else - that's perfectly fine and valid too. Make sure to stay safe, don't come out if it would put you in danger. We love, support, and accept you here. ^u^
You are you.
Admitting to yourself that you've LGBT is the first step.
And being LGBT doesn't turn you into some mutant monster frog.
You are and always have been LGBT you just are now admitting to it.
I hope in the 7 months since you wrote this episode you found yourself.
Thank you for this video from your average bi nonbinary sock
Great video
I love this channel and it helps me a lot so thank you!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🏳️🌈
Just a question I’m a 5th grader and worried if I should come out or if I should wait a few more years
do you think about you will change to other gender？after one day？
Wait you guys are coming out ? I've been in the closet for the last decade ! Who needs happiness and good mental health ?
Jackson Sanders not me I have Ben livening with anxiety and depression for my whole life! Also I’m really scared to come out to my mom and dad but I already came out to my 2 friends yes I olny have 2 friends ALSO I think I have a crush on one of them! Why? You may ask well she can be a pit of an asshole sometimes but I still don’t care I care for her ALOT more then a friend does but I mean at least she is bi if I had a crush on my other friend then I would explode with anxiety because she barely even knows what LGBTQ+ is so ya the olny upside to this is that my crush is bi so mabey she will fall in love with my gay ass one day
Wow my life is a mess I should see a therapist
I hope my crush does not see this
I am a gay person struggling fiercely with internalized homophobia, do you have any videos on that?
That happened with me.
It weighed on me for 11 years.
My internalized homophobia came from my dad and the people around me.
They all shoved their opinions on me and growing up I didn't have access to the internet to figure out otherwise.
Over the course of the past 2 years I met people of different sexuality's and gender identitys mostly online.
It's hard to let go of ideology you've had your entire life.
Getting rid of your internalized homophobia doesn't happen over night.
I slowly got rid of mine but being an asset to the LGBTQIA community.
I was a friend and Ally to those who needed it.
I gave kind words to people's who's parents rejected them.
I helped people figure out who they were.
I took away some of the pain I've caused by doing these things.
Maybe doing something similar will help you.
I am gay and the reason why it’s so hard coming out is cas people make me feel embarrassed to be gay, but I am coming out I believe once I am out the feeling of embarrassment will go away . I am attractive to white guys , I want a relationship with a white dude , my type of white guy , slim, petite, blond . Wat turn me on about a white guy is his masculinity. How I know I am attractive to guys cas when I tried to have sec with a woman I couldn’t, I had to think about a guy I like to have sex with a woman. I have no sexual desire for a woman.so I came out
💗💛💙 Pansexual Pride!
its funny to think that this vid made me realize im trans, i wonder how many people have been helped with this, i bet you alot
Good day... I want to ask what is the acronym of x and y from the word sexuality
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Thanks powered by rainbows for helping me to come out as trans 🏳️⚧️
Lol its not about im scared its just i was never taught by my parents so its awkward ik my parents are supportive of the community
I'm the P in plus
Pan
Sooo.... I started to make my lock screen with the colors of the pride flag....I wanna start giving my religious and homophobic mom some hints 😐
Are you going one color at a time, or just all at once?
Cool! Just be careful and good luck!
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Ooh I'm going to try this!!
Wait what am I?? I like girls boys trans ext
//DarkStar\\ I would say pansexual but If you don’t know it yet take your time do some research and experiment
You don’t necessarily have to have a Label to define yourself.. 🏳️🌈
S-tel Mn Ty xx
You are either pan or omni
I really like my name, but I'm non-binary. Do I need to change it?
You don’t need to change it. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do.
@@PoweredByRainbows Okay, thank you.
I don't mean to be panphobic or bigoted here, but I feel specifically attracted to women but sexually attracted to men, and just attracted any gender mostly based in any of the other attraction types. But women just... hit different to me. So, would it be bad if I said I was pansexual just so I dont have to explain to everyone the explicit details of my life? I do experience attraction not based on sex or gender, but I do prefer women in some fields, men in others, and others in, well, others. Is this pansexuality, or is there another term that would suit this? Or maybe I'm confused, and just have different tastes *down there* and just want a woman. This is all veeeery confusing.
They're different types of what you want as a person. For example, someone could like boys and girls but only are sexually attracted to boys. I would think it would be Pansexual, but you also might be (depending on your gender) hetrosexual or homosexual. I would say Pansexual, but it's always the person's decision.
Pansexual is when you love all genders, but you don't have to be attracted to ALL equally. Its like your own flavor of icecream. Yeah, i love all icecream flavors but i like chocolate the most.
@@drwholover69 Oh! I love this analogy, thank you so much!
If I'm understanding you correctly, you might be omnisexual. That means you are attracted to all genders but you feel attracted to (a) certain gender(s) more than others.
So introduction I identify as a Cis Male and believe in only two biological/genetic sexes (m/f) and that will always remain even after transitioning but feel that gender identity can be fluidly expressed or not at all.
Anyways I have been struggling with my sexual orientation/identity. For the most part I present as a heterosexual but in reality I am gynosexual (Attraction to feminine expression regardless of sex assigned at birth). Being attracted to trans women. by some definition that would mean that I am gay and by my own belief that a trans woman is still biologically male. However I do not feel gay or identify as such. I recognize trans women based on their gender expression not their sex.
I am not attracted to "men" per say. Gynosexuality feels so adjacent to Heterosexuality that I am questioning should I even bother coming out and yet I feel like I am hiding the full truth about myself. There is also the issue of identity politics within the lgbtq community due to Marxist influences. Because people think I am 100 straight that I am somewhat scorned for it.
As the Straight cis male oppressor.
secondly does my sexuality even matter in the grander scheme or is it just all "pride".
Is is bad that I'm 10 and a lesbian? *dont answer* 😕
THATS WONDERFUL!
Ahhhhhhh child
same.. °U°
HUN, YOU BE YOU!!! I BELIEVE IN YOU!!! ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
it's fine!
Ha
Y'all saying you guys are coming out to your parents 😂 children I'm gay af and my parents are 1000000% homophobic, good luck guys gals and captain others ❤💛💚💙💜 imma stay in the closet till I move out
Edit: oop I changed the swear word so no 5 year olds minds are cursed
So this didn't actually happen, I just thought it up in my head, but this is what happened: Mom "Hi **deadname**, how was school today?!" Me "Good, there's a trans boy at school." Mom "Honey, I want you to stay away from her, ok?" Me " I'm sorry mom but I'm not sure if I can stay away from *him*" Mom "And why not?" Me "because I'm him... 🌈🕺"
bruh i came out like an hour ago smh youtube algorithm
I'm bisexual and while my dad isn't homophobic he's made it clear that he loves them for who they are and has never officially said they're going to hell I've never told him.
But that isn't to say he's not stupid he knew my Gay friend growing up he knew of the multiple things he tried with me (nothing sexually) over the years.
My mom even told him of my "boyfriend" but didn't flat out say it because even she didn't even know he was my actual boyfriend.
Because of this I don't feel the need to tell my dad.
My dad doesn't call himself a Christan he is simply someone who follows the bible as is.
A lot of LGBTQIA people he knows of are atheist and reject Jesus.
As someone who is bisexual myself and who doesn't I'm that one in a million.
My dad flat out believes that as long as you believe in Jesus you're end up in heaven.
He even believes people he knew weren't Christan in life are up there like his brother and my step grandpa.
I wouldn't call him an ally I know for a fact if I bought a bi flag for my room he would freak out but he's not completely against us either.
Knowing all of this do any of y'all think I should tell him just flat out that I'm bisexual?
The only people who know are the internet and some of my childhood friends.