Some people are suitable to be in a marriage while some may not be. You can be happy or sad either way. But to be able to find someone whom you can spend the rest of your life with, is a wonderful thing and it really depends on fate. 随缘吧。
Well done :) We should have more of such videos for females above 30s, above 40s and males above 30s and males above 40s singles and married asking them for their opinions :) Please have more of such videos and if possible please go to the different Singapore Buddhist and Taoist temples to interview the devotees during Chinese New Year what are some of their traditions and customs while praying at Buddhist and Taoist temples of Singapore :)
Many people don't know that you can still have freedom when you are in a relationship or when you are married. Dunt let this misconception stop you from marriage or going into a relationship
Is your life you decide Anyway, what so great about marriage life!? You are tied down instead. You can't travel as you like, you have to ask your children, your husband, or your parents-in-law, etc. We came into this world alone, leave the world alone too. So married or not, does it matter lor!? 😂
Aiyo, this girl so not manner. Not wonder not boyfriend leh. Said the host I not boyfriend non of your's business. Actually is very rude. For this sentence
hello! haha I was the one interviewed, and that line was edited pretty much out of context! Before the camera started rolling, the interviewer suggested that I say that line "it's none of your business", so I suspect they wanted it in the video from the beginning for laughs (and seeing how its their title, it's a sort of reverse engineering). Also, I think I said it not in response to his question on whether I have a boyfriend or not, but after he persisted on asking whether I had relationship troubles. Then he suggested that some of these questions make people uncomfortable, so I took it as my cue to use the line they wanted. You can see how they cropped the video so we weren't clear on what he asked. I also agree with @Buttercookies0 and @choy2l that it's a way to set clear boundaries in intrusive conversations. Hope that clarifies and clears any bad vibes, cheers!
Media corporation must have a matching show. Like China got one Chinese matching show. The girl girl guest or boy boy guest parents or grandparents or siblings coming to the show to helping their precious son / daughter finding their Mrs right and Mr right 👍❤
那位大哥非常开明。时代不同因此不能把过去与当下做比较😂
對👍
Some people are suitable to be in a marriage while some may not be. You can be happy or sad either way. But to be able to find someone whom you can spend the rest of your life with, is a wonderful thing and it really depends on fate. 随缘吧。
0:35 她说得很对！! 结婚是自己的事!
先別说LGBT及经济的考量。如果只是為了完了父母、同辈、亲朋戚友的压力去找一个混蛋或自己不喜欢的人去一同走人生將来未知的路，究竟是聪明还是智障？！
單身的人生一樣是未知，
不要以為人生可完全掌控。
那些大齡女搞到想結婚沒人要而後悔或抱怨，
在這之前她們如此自信時也沒想到是如此下場。
單身或結婚本身沒有一定的好壞，
而你們卻總篤定結婚生子者大多不幸福與後悔，
單身必定更好，實則沒有一定。
我女兒說要單身，我也慢慢接受了，我自己瞭解到結婚不是最好的選澤。
请问你女儿几岁？我是1995的孩子 你的女儿我猜和我应该差不远 你女儿这样想是好事 她不是随便的女孩 我一直以来都觉得我不想结婚 过去两年我是觉得我没有机会结婚 直到我遇到这一个男人 我觉得他就是我愿意嫁的人 我满意他的条件 他不介意我的条件不如他 他觉得我风趣可爱
应该不是很美😂😂😂😂😂。没办法啦。
Uncle 人间清醒！时代真的不同。现今生活压力真的很大。
自己吃自己饱，自己玩自己爽
有哪個不想被愛呢？單身好處多，有了婚姻愛情就變複雜了，如果愛情是真愛那為何，疫情時那麼多人離婚，這證明很多人的愛都是自我為主而不，都在不了解狀況下結婚，太了解也就離婚，new world 關係越來越複雜，以前的人腦簡單所以開心😅
2:15 sad story of many, getting married for the sake of getting a place to live, so wrong.
我对孩子说、结婚是你个人的选择、我沒有任何意見、但是、如果婚后过的不好、你可以选择离婚、你自己做主、我也不会管。🍀🍀
最重要是遇到對的才結婚，遇不到就不要因為別人結也急著結。本身就看到身邊一些朋友為了跟別人一樣，結果草草做了人身最大的決定，有的申請了BTO，還沒結婚就要退定，有的結了婚的又離婚，有的甚至有了孩子離婚後獨自帶孩子。讀了那麼多書，結果做決定還是那麼草率。看了就心疼。結婚啊，不是找工作啊。結婚可不是說你不開心，就可以像工作一樣去辭職。所以不要草率做決定。遇到對的，定下心了，想清楚才結婚。不要因為別人有自己也要有。
幸好自己是單身，也樂於單身。也讓我有更多時間陪伴父母。
单身真的是很好，相信我吧，我非常后悔
Many of my friends told me they regret getting married
墙外的人要进去，墙里的人要出来😅
@@tancm4995 正解
that's is your friend problem. Not everyone find a right partner and ready to share her life to live with someone@@BobbyWang-rp1lm
说明现在的新加坡年轻人都非常没有家庭责任心。
一个人就好了，不想找多个人气你到吐血
我没问题，单身也挺好的。
在新加坡，看到周围的人，没钱还要学别人结婚，生子。结果两人又要工作，又要照顾小孩，又要连累父母出钱资助买房子，又要连累父母照顾小孩。累！听说一个老人邻居说：他30岁结婚的儿子的HDB五房要卖...，原因是儿子的妻子工作压力，得癌症死...,所以现在那间五房留着没用。
人家外貌美啦。没问题的。以后孩子也美。你看自己啦。丑的不要啦。后代惨😂
单身太爽，才不要多个人麻烦😂😂
当大伙在炫耀自己的孩子有多优秀时，我只能说说我到处旅行，商务舱里飞来飞去，机场贵宾室里好吃好喝。为何只有我会替他们的生活开心呢？
主持人风格活泼，挺好的
最美好的婚姻是在对的时间遇到对的人。
如果你覺得別人單身是個問題，先問問你自己（不單身的）是不是萬事如意。
我覺得一個人活著已經夠煩惱，生活裡還要多容納一個人甚至以後小的也跟著出現。何苦呢？？
与生俱来不明白为什么要恋爱结婚
单身在现阶段是很好，但一旦老了，就需要有个伴，共度晚年，所谓‘少年夫妻老来伴’。
时代不同了，现在的人都喜欢自由自在。
现代的价值观交自我，但普遍的婚姻是需要付出的，所以就会常遇到问题导致婚变。这些婚变成常事就会让单身人对婚姻没信心。别想太多，喜欢就在一起，时机对了自然会到结婚的阶段。
我覺得婚姻沒有意義。沒有人有義務永遠遷就誰。大家合得來就解決各自的需求就好。生一堆韭菜來養新移民好像也沒有意義。我傢的小孩若不想結婚，我會支持。不必去伺候公主或太子。開開心心一輩子。同性戀，我也可以接受，至少沒有性別衝突。
你就是个傻逼，政府先把你这种人清除
Ayiooooooo, whatever, just do what you want.....lah.😂😂😂
结婚是场赌注，这次我相信，如果有的给我选，我另原赚钱存钱来过下辈子
有小孩之后压力一来就很多吵架了。
Well done :) We should have more of such videos for females above 30s, above 40s and males above 30s and males above 40s singles and married asking them for their opinions :) Please have more of such videos and if possible please go to the different Singapore Buddhist and Taoist temples to interview the devotees during Chinese New Year what are some of their traditions and customs while praying at Buddhist and Taoist temples of Singapore :)
你是华人你不会华语？
单身 没有问题 ✍ 因缘各异 ✍ 命中 是说因缘的 ( 男女 ) 譬如 来的对方 都是 已经有婚姻 或者是 离过婚姻的 或者是❓❓❓🤣🤣🤣
Single is great!
534你是华人你不会华语？
以我72年人生經驗，有女朋友或男朋友都不好。結婚有丈夫或太太是人生幸福關鍵。換句話說，家庭很重要。但是要選對對象，包括價值觀，性格還有教育孩子的方法需要相同。那就會有幸福。
主持人好可爱，喜欢😍
曾经性骚扰
哈哈哈 记者挺幽默的
婚姻不是买卖，不要为了结婚而结婚。
应该说： 不要为了买BTO而结婚。不要为了赚卖屋所能得到的盈利而结婚。😅
marry because for BTO is so damn sad
So busy…not enough time for myself…how to give time to another person…?
4970你是华人你不会华语？
@@chongemperor7076你看不懂英。好惨啊
这个社会的福利大多是为组织家庭的而设计的。你单身的话，你能买的政府组屋类型地点优会不会比已婚人士好。 公司保险回报已婚的配偶和小孩，但不会保单身的父母。 已婚人士有小孩的有小孩年假，单身的却没有照顾年迈父母的假。
爱情可以隨时找到吗？?两个人想爱才会想去結婚吧!!??当然现代的男女，遇到爱也不一定会結婚，结婚了也不一定会要孩子，也是现代所謂的《丁克》
婚姻不容易，确实（极有可能）是钱钟书的“围城”: 在现代社会尤其又额外有各种艰难，无论从物质层面还是精神层面。 物质层面好理解，精神层面呢？现代人失去传统婚姻的忠贞，男女又都个性太强，容易冲突失和与离异。
地球生态环境污染破坏日益严重，加上无数现代人（特别是年轻人）被电子产品捆绑而生活习惯不健康而病态等，导致对健康地生养儿女都有大担忧、麻烦与困惑。
单身是恩赐。基督徒单身有单身的大福分。
爱情与婚姻原本神圣不可随意，且行且珍惜。
创造主的心意是要人认罪悔改成为圣洁。
单身只怕碰到一厢情愿的人，需要高智商来摆脱。
当传统被抹黑成迷信，崇洋崇科技只因为太闷了，很多人都不在乎结婚了，因为太多阻碍和黑暗面。。。平常心就好❤🎉
可以在这里征友吗😂
singlehood is good....
8:08 請問有租借男友女友服務嗎？
有啊
不管什么时代，每一个人也会压力。而不是单身的借口。只是说这个年代的人很会享受，乱乱花钱，对未来没有计划，不能承受生活压力。
我常对儿子们说. 一旦结婚你的人生与自由就不再100%属于你自己. 孩子更是一辈子的负担与牵挂.
你儿子回答是。老爸你真没本事😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@tankman20064是老妈.
现在有工作，C，P，F有多可買二手房子，身体健康。孩子不好才多。生活不易，怕培养费一
为余破口大骂我跟骂我别管我爱谁的人要负责任说的话。太多没责任感。我们的爱早就2017好散没接安浪费时间。后来不认识更散。没停止害恶我又不管态度又坏。总之我身边的人好得多
单身有罪吗？只能买二手组屋。
35 岁后你也可买新组屋。
单身没有罪，只是让政府头痛而已；那么政府也会让你头痛咯。你努力赚钱买一手condo不就好了。新加坡政府不会给你占便宜的😂
新婚夫妇要生儿育女，需要自己的房子住，政府当然把有限的组屋先分配给有家庭的人因为出生率一直向下。不过还好35岁就可以买了。😅
只可以为爱情结婚。。。不是什么为了什么申请房子或其他理由 不要恶心到我
還有一大堆為了身份嫁來的
什麼公民pr 😂😂😂
可悲 愛情已沒了😂
这个时代男跟男结婚，女和女结婚就没压力吗😅😅
单身很好现在的婚姻不一定保障单身为什么就不可以买新屋三房吗？不公平单身也要有自己基本的三房式
感情问题很复杂很难一概而论。
我们反目成仇严重
來台灣 不用買什麼租屋😂😅
去中國也是不錯 馬來西亞泰國房子都很大😂
Many people don't know that you can still have freedom when you are in a relationship or when you are married. Dunt let this misconception stop you from marriage or going into a relationship
原来今天是情人节
结婚很困难。但是不结婚，就是100%给银行打工❤你死了，银行卡上的钱捐了？我没有办法独立设计生产制造精密游标卡尺，半导体芯片。我永远不会把赚钱作为目标。
人家单身有空就去酒吧沟羊肠😅
羊肠？
最喜欢看到这种道德绑架的观念, 你越想鼓励怂恿人家结婚生子, 越多人就跳出来不吃你这一套, 继续利用传统价值观来忽悠人越令人反感
李显龙单身不
2:48
现在的人一样现实 男人不娶 有个女人愿意倒贴💰看他娶吗 女人不嫁 有男人能养她 每天全部花费他出💰你看她会不嫁吗 各算各的💰 觉得不划算才不结婚的
Marriage is to have kids. So do u want to have kids?
对 都不结婚 不生小孩。 我的孩子踢足球，球场上已经找不到华族伙伴了😢
😅结了婚，幸福一族不会看的视频。
你说有没有人说服读音错了
Single is so great....can meet different various Oysters n bananas. Freedom....money in hand not fragnant meh??? Spend on ourselves.
Is your life you decide
Anyway, what so great about marriage life!? You are tied down instead. You can't travel as you like, you have to ask your children, your husband, or your parents-in-law, etc.
We came into this world alone, leave the world alone too. So married or not, does it matter lor!? 😂
无聊
天犯孤星
Many people acted against their will to married just for the BTO. The system is very very wrong. Thanks to our pap govt.
Aiyo, this girl so not manner. Not wonder not boyfriend leh. Said the host I not boyfriend non of your's business. Actually is very rude. For this sentence
If you have been asked numerous times on the same question, that's the only reply. It is rude to ask such question in the first place.
@@Buttercookies0understand but this reply is quite rude although is very tiring in reply
@@pokmerb444 That's probably a good way to shut ppl off in case they think of asking that question.
The best way to keep him from asking more questions
hello! haha I was the one interviewed, and that line was edited pretty much out of context! Before the camera started rolling, the interviewer suggested that I say that line "it's none of your business", so I suspect they wanted it in the video from the beginning for laughs (and seeing how its their title, it's a sort of reverse engineering). Also, I think I said it not in response to his question on whether I have a boyfriend or not, but after he persisted on asking whether I had relationship troubles. Then he suggested that some of these questions make people uncomfortable, so I took it as my cue to use the line they wanted. You can see how they cropped the video so we weren't clear on what he asked.
I also agree with @Buttercookies0 and @choy2l that it's a way to set clear boundaries in intrusive conversations. Hope that clarifies and clears any bad vibes, cheers!
为何年轻人的中文比年老者的中文更好？不是说现在新加坡英文越来越普遍了吗
新加坡人中文说得这么好的吗？还是部分是中国移民？
问题是打手枪而已嘛！kkkkkkk 没事
单身打飞机在Christian上有罪,結婚乱搞无罪。
单身的好处是能停止可怕的轮回，不会面对再有，生老病死，喜怒哀乐，种种苦海。😊
Media corporation must have a matching show. Like China got one Chinese matching show. The girl girl guest or boy boy guest parents or grandparents or siblings coming to the show to helping their precious son / daughter finding their Mrs right and Mr right 👍❤
So interesting 😂❤❤❤
@@pokmerb444 It is not suitable in Sg. No one will want to participate.
新加坡有些人说的英语，实在令人不敢恭维
说美语就是很多人的对到完了不是吗😂
这是我们新加坡式英语，是讲给新加坡人听的 😂😂😂 讲美式英语就很大？？ 😂😂😂😂 不要这样做作，看不起你
不讲给新加坡人听的时候，也是这个味儿（上海就有不少新加坡来的白领）。好好提升下发音吧，毕竟这是门外语，应以母语发音为准。别敏感，大度点。@@crystal8537
不要不装犊子没人说你的。你看看14亿大陆人几个人说普通话？你敢在大陆说河南人为什么不说普通话？你说东北人普通话不标准？
不好意思您呐，14亿中国大陆人很多人说普通话。另外，这说 A，您扯到 B，不要玩 whataboutism! @@peterlee8699