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My grandmothers mantras run through my head, "have a place for everything and everything in it's place" and "don't put it down put it away", Love the calmness of this video.
I have a place but its over the other side of the room so if im cooking because everything is in weird places and no counter space beside the cooker it makes it very chaotic... id love a kitchen island i have só little storage in my rental but i cant afford it so chaos it is. My herbs are all the way on the other sside of my table my table gets used as a counter and i have a tiny soace in front of the micorwave which then I end up putting things there but then I have to use the micorwave and have to move things onto the freezer and then ive to get in the freezer so move everything in front of the microwave again. And nothing is acsessible. Everything can be put away at the end of cooking but during cooking it gets everywhere and then theres nowhere to put most dishes and pots they get lobbed onto a stove near the dogs and the dog is always off her bed in the middle of the room. Its so annoying.
@@serendipidus8482 my Kitchen was 3,5 year long, 1,20x60. No table space. Had everything very compact. I had made between shelves in the cupboards. All air was a no go. portable containers with, for example, all spices, all stirring and cutting supplies. 6 containers that I could stack and place next to each other on the floor if necessary while cooking.
@@hermaklok-dijk8286 i have nó idea what you're saying sorry. Maybe this was google translated? If you just write in you're own language i might understand better.
I have two adult children and four grandchildren. While looking after them, from age 2 onwards, I taught them to put their toys away in a basket, and then take a look around the room, ‘Does it look nice?’ Then clapping. This encouraged them to tidy up without my asking later on as they were growing up. Training to become a tidy person starts from the beginning.
Also, just make a small commitment. "I will clean for 10 minutes" is a lot less intimidating than "I will clean this room". Then once you get momentum going you can keep cleaning past the original time commitment, but if you aren't feeling it after 10 minutes you can stop and still call it a win. 🎉 This was one of the best ADHD tips & tricks that significantly improved my regularity in cleaning/organizing, but it's helpful to anyone to make things easier to start. Oh, and if you do have ADHD you may want to set a max time limit (and use a timer) to avoid getting stuck in a hyperfocus. The "task inertia" works both ways. I also find time commitments easier than focusing on a small area or room, because the second I leave that area to take those dishes to the sink or take the laundry to the washer I am a lost cause, lol. I still end up cleaning, but I might get pulled into doing the dishes or starting a load of laundry instead of what I committed to, and then it feels like a loss even though I was productive.
@@neniugrava yes that’s a great method… That’s actually how I get myself to the gym most days.. I’ll just tell myself go and do 15 minutes and it always turns into an hour. But the 15 minutes tricks my brain into believing it’s doable. It’s definitely a great strategy for most things in your life.
I tend to deal with the things that make my house messy so I keep putting my kids in their room but they keep coming out 😂 I agree with these points, compartmentalizing helps a lot. My paper work needs a better solution.
Amidst what must be hundreds if not thousands of RUclips videos on organizing, decluttering, simplifying, or minimizing one's possessions, this is one of the clearest, most concise, and realistic guides to having a genuinely clutter free home that I have yet come across. I can't say that every concept is novel and revolutionary, but you set things out so clearly and in such a calm & sequential format that there is minimal risk of feeling overwhelmed. Yet another success in your inventory of very practical and useful guides to home decorating, configuring, and maintaining ... thank you.
This! I was about to comment when I saw yours, lol. My brain likes to inflate all cleaning and organizing tasks into massive days-long efforts in my head, but this video is so well done it cuts through that nonsense and makes it feel like I can achieve a clean and organized home (without hyperfocus cleaning everything once every few months, lol).
As a youngster, I frequently visited my older neighbor who was an early retiree because of her deteriorating health. Her home always looked perfectly tidy, modern, and welcoming, and I loved it. When I look back, I realize that she was very strict with the rule - place for everything and everything in its place. I swear, I never saw a thing that didn't have a place! She either decluttered regularly and very rigorously or never purchased anything she couldn't properly house. IDK what was her method, but her home always looked like AD could come and film over there any day/night hour. Now, when I have my own space, I agree with that rule even more. My small house is an open plan which I love, but I have to be extremely careful what I bring home because everything has to have its place, otherwise, one small messy part visually clutters the entire house and makes me feel that I have to tidy it up immediately.
If anything is going to help me tidy up and declutter it is you and your soothing voice and realistic expectations. Most decluttering videos seem aimed at making you feel guilty and I feel worn out just watching them! I’ve stopped watching most of them and I’m not sure what drew me to yours, but I’m glad that I did decide to watch it. Sadly, I lost my mum last year and I’ve not been able to deal with her things but I know I must if I am to move forward. Taking things slowly as you suggest is helpful because if you do not make the progress you expect to it is easy just to give up. At least two of my rooms are a testament to this. If I get despondent about what I need to do then I will watch your video again and again if necessary until I have made my house functional again. Thank you ❤
The tip about putting similar items on a tray makes such a big difference. I have one in my kitchen next to the stove for olive oil, salt and pepper etc. One in my bathroom for perfumes and one on the bathroom vanity for my husband's shaving gear. It really helps it to look more organised and intentional and more high end as well. And definitely put things away in their designated place, this is a sticky point in our home, my husband and daughter are totally useless at this, i no longer put things away for them, i call them and get them to put items where they belong.
I started this process several years ago. It requires some discipline, but is so beneficial. My life has changed drastically. I’m so much more productive and happy. Biggest challenge was letting go of STUFF. It was necessary for me to cognitively select what I should keep and what I could let go. Why live in a muddled mess when clarity is available. ❤
Same! I do it since 2021 and I can say I follow all of these rules today. But I really have learned how good it is to let go of Things and this took so long for me. But now I know good Things are coming / the future is bright
I havw a set of fine china & crystsl and a set of stoneware with glassware. We haven't used them much in 37 years because hubby breaks them. They are stored away in boxes. I just can't part with them. They are taking up a lot of space in a large closet. .
I have watched hundreds of these shows and videos. They all say the message in their own way, in different ways, but the same sentiments. I really enjoy his conversational calm demeanor. And the lovely backdrop. I was wondering about the bonsai tree if it is real. I recently saw a feng shui video saying that bonsai trees represent stagnant energy because their growth rate is glacier-slow. Then I noticed the lovely round-leafed plant on the other side. Def. good feng shui energy... do they cancel each other out? Hmmmm.... in any case, very pleasing to the eyes. ;)
As I grow older I am aware of short term memory loss. So my decluttering and organization projects have revolved around establishing simple and better habits to help my future self. The most logical and likely place where things should go must include asking "where would I look for this first?" Also, "can this be put away as easily as it is to leave out?" which helps me to have fewer drop zones. Most times I get it right but sometimes it is still a hunt!
My husband is different after his strokes. Mobility isn’t an issue but memory can be. I’ve switched to visible storage for frequent items and baskets of groups of things that are related- like remotes. Easy for him to put away so it’s more likely to happen. I think your approach is both practical and wise.
Marie Kondo motivated me.. problem is everything I own brings me joy. I subscribed to your channel because your voice is so calm without sounding judgemental. My clutter is causing me shame.
Reality is that if a item is not used you don’t love it!.= it don’t bring you Joy. If a item is not used in 12 months= you can let it go. My advice is maby not political correct but, trow the item in the trash. Don’t use energy on selling, giveing away and so on. Yes even if it was expencive. With exposure you train your brain one item at the time to « let things go». It will go faster and faster To deal with discomfortable emotions like anxiety, guilt. Follow the KonMari method STRICTLY. That is thank the items for what they have done for you in the past. Even if it was never used and only served to sooth your emotions or give you a good feeling when you bought it. And again. ALL item should 1: be used every day. Or every season ( like skiing equipment). If not used after 12 months= you can safely let it go. Be honest with your self!. And have empathy self-care with your self. Don’t beat your self up! 2: use the « spark joy» method secondary after rule nr 1. If the item is not used. If done correctly 1: all items are used regularly or seasonly over a 1 years peroid 2: items may or may not spark joy. This is more optional. But it will help you to decide. Fear of loseing the past. And trauma is often the reason for not letting go items. Don’t fear these feelings. Instead confront the feelings when doing the method. One item at the time. And in the correct order 1: Cloths 2: Books 3: Diverse items 4: pictures 5: sentimental items Visualize how you want it to be if it. And how you want your life to be if the « junk items» where gone. That is the items that are obviously junk. This first step will get you started. You are not a child. You have 100% control of your actions. And reactions to your environment. Even if you feel crippeled by shame/trauma, under these emotions there is a adult human. By going on one item at the time. Step by step. You can realize this goal!.
Living in a small apartment I realize that any item (no matter how small) out of place makes the whole place seem disorganized and invites more items. There is no extra space to obscure or distract the eye. I feel I am constantly organizing or tidying up. I have found that organizing like any other endeavour (weight loss or fitness routine for example) is about changing your habitat, not your habits, to suit you.
I live in a small apartment too. One of the best things I've done to make my place look uncluttered is to put everything that I don't use multiple times a day into cupboards and cabinets. My kitchen has only a small tray next to the sink with hand and dish wash, and surface spray. Everything else is inside cupboards, including my toaster and large utensil jar. It's become a habit to put those things away after use and it makes the space so much easier to keep clean and much easier on the eye.
@fancynancy2888 Could you please expand a bit more on, "... organizing like any other endeavour... is about changing your habitat, not your habits, to suit you.?"
I’m renting and storage was the LAST thing the builder considered. I hate that floor plans are designed by men who clearly have NO idea what it takes to keep a home neat.
Organization rules: 1-designated place for everything, and everything in it's place 2 put things away not down 4-5x unused should be in storage, utilize dead zones, Make things accessible - lazy susan, rolling tray, 3 coral/group things in a tray 4 function first over form 5 leave /drop zone -keys, sunglasses, wallet, bag, coat 6 containers later 7 storage 80% storage, 20% out/visible 8 simple effective organization system that works for you 9 avoid hoarding 10 organize things/declutter in weekends - trash, dishes, laundry, without a home, with a home donate ...
I really appreciate the delivery of all of this. It didn't feel shamey -- just, matter-of-fact. Also, a lot of these tips were extremely realistic and accessible. Thanks! Subscribing!
I loved the questions to ask yourself, in case you holding on to things you don’t need. No, no and no again 😊 Thank you so much for creating these amazing videos with great tips in the most calming voice😊
I got some great advice from an old book called Clutter’s Last Stand. Avoid the “clutter bunker”. That is a larger basket or box used to organize clutter but ends up being a place you have to clean out because it gathers things that don’t have a specific place. I started them because my husband has ADD and leaves recites, batteries, and other stuff around. It gets full and then I have to ask him to clean it out. By giving him special places to put things and lots of wastebaskets, he does better.
An Automatic vacuum helps against that. We had one once and never has our apartment been that tidy. Since it would drive into the clutter or suck in stuff, we always tidied up properly:D
You basically have to clear up as you go along …which requires time and effort -sometimes I have those things-but most of the time I don’t! Sometimes we have to abandon the mess and go out and do stuff ! But giving everything a place is definitely a good start.
I recently found your videos and love them. Currently trying to organize an entire house in a month. No garage, no basement & no spare room. So, I ordered a storage shed (making an organization plan for it!) for camping gear & outdoor stuff which will make available indoor spaces. Yes, I've donated loads! I eventually will have an organized house, less clutter in the house & my brain!!
What hit me is if something simple works for you, then stick to it. Don't be swayed with what you see on Instagram or RUclips! Thanks, this video makes sense.
I love your examples of confining items to a bowl or tray. Visually, that provides the order most of us crave. It can be hard to get at those hidden areas. I read a book once that suggested to use a notebook to write the name of each room on a separate page. Then go through each room and write down the disorganized spots. For example, in the kitchen; junk drawer, pantry, cabinets next to the fridge. In the bedroom: under the bed, nightstand drawer…you get the idea. Then a day or two later, commit to organize one spot on the list a day, such as after work or in the morning before work. After I got going a couple of days, I could actually do more than one a night because the momentum felt good. This really helped me.
This video is very helpful. I have just one point to make: The shoes that you just used do not belong in a closed cupboard. Bah! That‘s the problem, it doesn’t look nice when they are visible, but they need air and to get rid of the moisture. I myself have a little open rack for the shoes that were /are in frequent use directly besides the closed shoe cupboard. So once a pair is aired and dried out sufficiently it moves from the rack to the cupboard.
Yes a place for everything. I have owned wonderful homes I seriously clarified and renovated into light airy beautiful and ful of love. And miminalist by having places for everything. Easy to look stunning. Wonderful timber floors, high ceilings with moulding, paint I mixed with artist colour to get what I wanted.
I love trays big and small. I use them to hold items in kitchen, on coffee/side tables, bathroom counters, and top of chest (jewelry etc.). I organize my clothing items based on seasons and types. If i want a pair of shorts I know exactly where to find it. My mom is my opposite. She never organizes after laundry. She just put things away into empty space. She always complains about not having enough to wear or cannot find something. I organize her clothing items based on types and seasons. A few months later it’s chaos again.
We are in the process of organising our two separate apartments before finally moving into a bigger house together in the next few months. Clutter was the order of the day in both. I recently fell in love with kallax cube units and a cube has never made me so happy. Both apartments are literally covered in cubes units but the amount of extra space thos jas created is unbelievable. Our daughter doesn't have to throw her toys away anymore and every single room is organised. Decluttering even cures you mentally if you're prone to depression, which I am. I feel light and clear and free to enjoy the summer. Finding a system that works for you can change your entire outlook on life and it doesn't have to be expensive. In the bedrooms, I've used the wire and faux leather cube units which are cheaper than kallax, along with foldable fabric cubes. Loving it! Oh, the wire cube units are from amazon. So are the foldable cube baskets.
You make some really good points. If I have a pile (or piles) somewhere and, uh, A Lot of time has passed, (1.) do I even remember what’s in the pile?! (2.) If I still like it, I TAKE A PHOTO OF IT then, it’s easier to give away.
❤ THANK YOU ❤ I'm just over halfway thru and you've literally organized my mindset about very specific issues my family's household has about the clutter. You mention things we've tried and they didn't work, and then you really really hit me with a feeling of relief from the general guilt of a messy cluttered house with your logical and inspiring perspective. Now I've gotta start paying attention to everybody's spots after I deal with all my own mistakes, and I actually like the thought of this being a learning process instead of a shameful chore, lol
Love this video, and by a man! Nice! I will say that putting things in a tray on 1 surface does look nicer, AND you can pick it up to dust or clean so easily. And I like the idea of a "time will tell" bin. Learned that from the Minimal Mom. Great job. Virginia in southern CA.
This is so helpful! I've just moved into an unfurnished apartment with only kitchen cupboards (no wardrobes or shelves). So everything feels chaotic. The idea of gathering everything that doesn't have a home yet into containers is a wonderful tip. Thank you!
The thing that made a difference for me was making labels for every box and drawer so everyone in the family knows where things are and where to return them after use! Otherwise it’s just me maintaining the whole system and no one could find anything since things are all in close compartments.
Making things accessible is a lesson that I learned while dealing with a shoulder injury. I could not reach up so more frequently used items had to be in lower locations. It didn't matter that it wasn't the usual kitchen arrangement.
Some people use open storage because they literally will not remember the things the own unless they can see them... not because they are rarely used, but because their brains work differently and they have executive function and working memory problems. I know this is hard to understand for people who do not have this struggle. For many neurodivergent people out of sight is completely out of mind and labelling everything externally is not as effective as being able to immediately see and access things 😮💨 Any clever transparent or vertical storage ideas, products or tips you'd recommend?Opaque closed or stackable/hidden storage is cute but makes everything invisible and unaccessible.
Oh wow your voice is so soothing. And the advice I heard was good but I think I need to watch it again because I definitely missed some parts when I fell asleep to your soothing voice.
You randomly turned up on my thread! I watched becos you didn't open with the rant n your voice was soothing and not irritating, like most which I allocate to the delete bin. You raise some good points n I like your tips, thank you I've subscribed 🤩
Wow. Thank you for the test questions to reduce "saving for future use", and the other solutions that recognize it's not cold logic and 1-day solutions that will solve the clutter problem, it's the bit-by-bit careful long-term effort that will help the most.
this video was great! i started after watching this and it helped me with sorting out things that i had lay around for a long time. now i have abit more space and i feel better at home
Think quantity of stuff problem and lack of designated places to store my problem. So my attempts at tidying much more stressful and time consuming that they need to be. These tips are worth following. I like video showing us storage solutions and tips.
@ReynardLowell ❤ Going vertical in a tiny place helped so much! Turntables for spices, vitamins, refrigerator bottles made it easier to find things quickly. Many thanks!
I appreciate your conversational tone. You are so calm. I have to do my whole house (that's why I watch these videos... it's easier to get excited about cleaning and tidying than actually doing it! Probably most of our problem who watch videos like this. I'm working on it though.) But in all the information you gave, the empty cell phone boxed hit a cord! They are SO sturdy and well made it's very hard to toss them out. I would like to find a recycle effort to repurpose them or something.
Depending on their size....I use smaller boxes in a slightly larger on to use as dividers. Especially with bathroom things...chapsticks, band-aids, etx
excellent video, need to watch it several times, basic and non-judgemental, I like that you point out not to try "fads" because if they're not for you, they wont' work. AMEN!
My place always looked neat and clean until I had kids. But this phase shall pass. I also love teaching them how to organize things. May be I can show them your video and practice one thing at a time :)
Look up clutter bug. And find out what type you are. Kids are usually butterfly clutter type. She has loads on how different style / bug of clutter works and how to comprise with other types in your home. I am a lady bug, I need large baskets of broad categories. My kids are butterfly, they get hooks and clear basket so while they see it visually, it's still contained. Yes this will pass too, but helping them learn how to be organised reduces their stress and increases their independence which makes them ( and us ) feel good. Good luck, you can do it. (( hugs))
Thanks you so much for this video! Some really good tips. Over the years I have read so many organising books and wondered why my home still felt messy. Finally, the penny dropped and I realised unless I decluttered first, all I was really doing was organising my clutter and my home still somehow looked messy. Decluttering has made all the difference. I loved the tip you shared about consolidating several items in one place. I found that the coffee table in our lounge always looked messy so I bought a nice tray and put the remote, the candle and the coasters on the tray. It looks so much better.Thanks for sharing your ideas. They make me feel like I’m on the right track in my home.😊
My husband was constantly putting spatuals on the kitchen counter instead of back in the drawer so I got a big jar and now all the spatuals go in there. It's def useful to pay attention to where things naturally end up.
great videos! I find that I must have a drop zone; when I come home whatever I have in my hands I must put them in my drop zone so I can organize them from there. Except for groceries Let’s say I have some mail, some new clothes, makeup, etc. I will put them on this dropzone piece of furniture. currently this drop zone furniture is a piece of furniture from IKEA that has 12 bins in it sometimes I’ll divide the stuff and put it in the bins sometimes I’ll just leave it right on top but for me that helps my ADD brains overwhelmed and help. Keep me organized, go back later and I put the things in its proper home right now. I am moving and I’m kind of jumbled up again but I’m gonna give myself time to get reorganized and right now. It’s figuring out the best way to organize my pantry in my new kitchen also a good tip. I need to keep one area in my kitchen and dining room are combined so I need to keep that area clutter free so I don’t feel overwhelmed what I’ll do at the end of the night is it there’s messiness for maybe me going over some bills or paperwork? I will just take a basket and gather up all that stuff, and put that in my drop zone area. But it really takes an effort almost every day and like someone else said just own less stuff I found that helps too.😊
Always looking forward to see, which topic you´ve picked for your video. Amazing how you keep coming up with great ideas. And you deliver them so well!!
I am really enjoying your videos. Your presentation is very soothing and supportive, I don't feel massive guilt that I am doing a thing or not doing a thing. Which is especially nice since I am very unwell and can't do much of anything except lie in bed and watch youtube. :D But your ideas I will save and do when I can. (And I am subscribed to learn more)
Thanks, great video! Some of those ideas make sense if we think about what we should do. Others are not so obvious. Your video is a 10min summary of all of this. Great! I am sure I will watch it again and again and again maybe once a month or whenever I need a reminder.
I put my keys on a nail, on the wall right next to my apt door, just to above left of the doorknob. Never have to look for my keys-just grab them when I leave, and put them back there after I come back.
The "holding onto things you don't use" is a hard one, but I've used similar logic. I think "If I saw this at a garage sale for $1, would I buy it?" Often no, I wouldn't or 'maybe I would buy it later' and then the answer should be 'then buy it later, get rid of it now and you may actually never buy it'
Really great video. I've been following you since the beginning of your channel and always enjoy what you post.😊 Thank you for sharing your expertise with us. (Also, it's nice to see that you seem to be more comfortable on camera. I had a channel for a while and really struggled with that aspect. Kudos on your hard work!)
After watching this I put a wooden container on my table so my husband can put his reading glasses and crossword pens in it. Worked a charm and I am no longer frustrated having to pick them up all the time.
I’m saving this video for the helpful tips you’ve provided. I love ❤️ your common sense approach to organization and declutterring rooms and surfaces. Thanks so much for sharing 😊🎉🎉!
Marvellous video!!! This was the best video about this subject that I have ever seen. Good job! 💪 I did save it to watch again and subscribed immeaditely! ❤
Yes!! If you have no space, no storage and too many things to think off, it doesn’t matter how often you clean or tidy, you will always end up either a clutter.
I've watched a number of your videos and have found all of them helpful. Your delivery is paced well and is organized so that it's easy to follow. Thank you for all the tips!
While I enjoy and benefit from all of your videos, I think this is your best. Each point resonated but #2 was a direct hit. I’m just finishing a primary bathroom reno and midway through installing hardwood floors. It’s going to change how my home feels and I’m excited to use your framework to decide what I allow back in from storage. Thank you!
I agree. I try to be minimalist. I do not buy things that I don't need. My daughters house is a mess, and it's a bad idea to keep on buying from TEMU & SHIEN. These stores lured young people, and they didn't realize they were buying waste junks. These accumulate a lot of money.
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My home is always messy because I spend to much time watching you tube videos about things rather than doing them.
I started to have these types of videos on while I start cleaning/organizing. It helps 😂
Me too!!!!!
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That's our collective way of life, thanks to social media.
Yes! Watching other people do the things I’m supposed to be doing
My grandmothers mantras run through my head, "have a place for everything and everything in it's place" and "don't put it down put it away", Love the calmness of this video.
I have a place but its over the other side of the room so if im cooking because everything is in weird places and no counter space beside the cooker it makes it very chaotic... id love a kitchen island i have só little storage in my rental but i cant afford it so chaos it is. My herbs are all the way on the other sside of my table my table gets used as a counter and i have a tiny soace in front of the micorwave which then I end up putting things there but then I have to use the micorwave and have to move things onto the freezer and then ive to get in the freezer so move everything in front of the microwave again. And nothing is acsessible. Everything can be put away at the end of cooking but during cooking it gets everywhere and then theres nowhere to put most dishes and pots they get lobbed onto a stove near the dogs and the dog is always off her bed in the middle of the room. Its so annoying.
I can organize my home for a while but my kids are there to remind me that I can not do it alone
Best video I've seen...and I've watched a lot of videos.
@@serendipidus8482 my Kitchen was 3,5 year long, 1,20x60. No table space. Had everything very compact. I had made between shelves in the cupboards. All air was a no go. portable containers with, for example, all spices, all stirring and cutting supplies. 6 containers that I could stack and place next to each other on the floor if necessary while cooking.
@@hermaklok-dijk8286 i have nó idea what you're saying sorry. Maybe this was google translated? If you just write in you're own language i might understand better.
I have two adult children and four grandchildren. While looking after them, from age 2 onwards, I taught them to put their toys away in a basket, and then take a look around the room, ‘Does it look nice?’ Then clapping. This encouraged them to tidy up without my asking later on as they were growing up. Training to become a tidy person starts from the beginning.
Children are like puppies or dogs. Training requires repetition, positive re-inforcement and lots of patience.
I was raised the same way.
I find when you’re not motivated get up and get started anyways.. just starting is very motivating.
A body in motion, stays in motion
Newton's first law
Also, just make a small commitment. "I will clean for 10 minutes" is a lot less intimidating than "I will clean this room". Then once you get momentum going you can keep cleaning past the original time commitment, but if you aren't feeling it after 10 minutes you can stop and still call it a win. 🎉
This was one of the best ADHD tips & tricks that significantly improved my regularity in cleaning/organizing, but it's helpful to anyone to make things easier to start.
Oh, and if you do have ADHD you may want to set a max time limit (and use a timer) to avoid getting stuck in a hyperfocus. The "task inertia" works both ways.
I also find time commitments easier than focusing on a small area or room, because the second I leave that area to take those dishes to the sink or take the laundry to the washer I am a lost cause, lol. I still end up cleaning, but I might get pulled into doing the dishes or starting a load of laundry instead of what I committed to, and then it feels like a loss even though I was productive.
@@neniugrava yes that’s a great method… That’s actually how I get myself to the gym most days.. I’ll just tell myself go and do 15 minutes and it always turns into an hour. But the 15 minutes tricks my brain into believing it’s doable. It’s definitely a great strategy for most things in your life.
I tend to deal with the things that make my house messy so I keep putting my kids in their room but they keep coming out 😂
I agree with these points, compartmentalizing helps a lot. My paper work needs a better solution.
Kids are another Level. Cas from Clutterbug has a good Video on paperclutter
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you should read what the grandmother taught her grandkids in the comments above. Loved it.
Amidst what must be hundreds if not thousands of RUclips videos on organizing, decluttering, simplifying, or minimizing one's possessions, this is one of the clearest, most concise, and realistic guides to having a genuinely clutter free home that I have yet come across.
I can't say that every concept is novel and revolutionary, but you set things out so clearly and in such a calm & sequential format that there is minimal risk of feeling overwhelmed.
Yet another success in your inventory of very practical and useful guides to home decorating, configuring, and maintaining ... thank you.
This! I was about to comment when I saw yours, lol. My brain likes to inflate all cleaning and organizing tasks into massive days-long efforts in my head, but this video is so well done it cuts through that nonsense and makes it feel like I can achieve a clean and organized home (without hyperfocus cleaning everything once every few months, lol).
As a youngster, I frequently visited my older neighbor who was an early retiree because of her deteriorating health. Her home always looked perfectly tidy, modern, and welcoming, and I loved it.
When I look back, I realize that she was very strict with the rule - place for everything and everything in its place. I swear, I never saw a thing that didn't have a place! She either decluttered regularly and very rigorously or never purchased anything she couldn't properly house. IDK what was her method, but her home always looked like AD could come and film over there any day/night hour.
Now, when I have my own space, I agree with that rule even more. My small house is an open plan which I love, but I have to be extremely careful what I bring home because everything has to have its place, otherwise, one small messy part visually clutters the entire house and makes me feel that I have to tidy it up immediately.
If anything is going to help me tidy up and declutter it is you and your soothing voice and realistic expectations. Most decluttering videos seem aimed at making you feel guilty and I feel worn out just watching them! I’ve stopped watching most of them and I’m not sure what drew me to yours, but I’m glad that I did decide to watch it. Sadly, I lost my mum last year and I’ve not been able to deal with her things but I know I must if I am to move forward. Taking things slowly as you suggest is helpful because if you do not make the progress you expect to it is easy just to give up. At least two of my rooms are a testament to this. If I get despondent about what I need to do then I will watch your video again and again if necessary until I have made my house functional again. Thank you ❤
The tip about putting similar items on a tray makes such a big difference. I have one in my kitchen next to the stove for olive oil, salt and pepper etc. One in my bathroom for perfumes and one on the bathroom vanity for my husband's shaving gear. It really helps it to look more organised and intentional and more high end as well. And definitely put things away in their designated place, this is a sticky point in our home, my husband and daughter are totally useless at this, i no longer put things away for them, i call them and get them to put items where they belong.
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Put things out of place put in a box and put. box in the garage or out of way closete
I did a simple tray in my kitchen for dish soap, hand soap and sponges. Made a huge difference in making the space more organized.
I started this process several years ago. It requires some discipline, but is so beneficial. My life has changed drastically. I’m so much more productive and happy. Biggest challenge was letting go of STUFF. It was necessary for me to cognitively select what I should keep and what I could let go. Why live in a muddled mess when clarity is available. ❤
Same! I do it since 2021 and I can say I follow all of these rules today. But I really have learned how good it is to let go of Things and this took so long for me. But now I know good Things are coming / the future is bright
I havw a set of fine china & crystsl and a set of stoneware with glassware. We haven't used them much in 37 years because hubby breaks them. They are stored away in boxes. I just can't part with them. They are taking up a lot of space in a large closet.
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love that "putting things away instead of just putting them down"
I sometimes forget where I have put a thing. Listening to you, gets me thinking more clearly about getting organized. Thank you.
This is the best video I’ve ever watched about home organising (and I’ve watched hundreds!)
I don't know if this guy has anything new wisdom to impart, but I find his calm voice very soothing.
Actually we already know all these things. But it's good to have nice reminders to organise ourselves😊
I have watched hundreds of these shows and videos. They all say the message in their own way, in different ways, but the same sentiments. I really enjoy his conversational calm demeanor. And the lovely backdrop. I was wondering about the bonsai tree if it is real. I recently saw a feng shui video saying that bonsai trees represent stagnant energy because their growth rate is glacier-slow. Then I noticed the lovely round-leafed plant on the other side. Def. good feng shui energy... do they cancel each other out? Hmmmm.... in any case, very pleasing to the eyes. ;)
Me too 👏🏾
As I grow older I am aware of short term memory loss. So my decluttering and organization projects have revolved around establishing simple and better habits to help my future self. The most logical and likely place where things should go must include asking "where would I look for this first?" Also, "can this be put away as easily as it is to leave out?" which helps me to have fewer drop zones. Most times I get it right but sometimes it is still a hunt!
My motivation for a neater home, is so I can invite people over without feeling embarrassed or embarrassing them...
@@ilax4244 Yeah that too...
My husband is different after his strokes. Mobility isn’t an issue but memory can be. I’ve switched to visible storage for frequent items and baskets of groups of things that are related- like remotes. Easy for him to put away so it’s more likely to happen. I think your approach is both practical and wise.
I'm a 23 year old with 2 babies under 2 and I can relate to this 😅
@@SalitGoldblatt That I can remember!
Marie Kondo motivated me.. problem is everything I own brings me joy. I subscribed to your channel because your voice is so calm without sounding judgemental. My clutter is causing me shame.
Reality is that if a item is not used you don’t love it!.= it don’t bring you Joy.
If a item is not used in 12 months= you can let it go.
My advice is maby not political correct but, trow the item in the trash. Don’t use energy on selling, giveing away and so on. Yes even if it was expencive.
With exposure you train your brain one item at the time to « let things go». It will go faster and faster
To deal with discomfortable emotions like anxiety, guilt. Follow the KonMari method STRICTLY. That is thank the items for what they have done for you in the past. Even if it was never used and only served to sooth your emotions or give you a good feeling when you bought it.
And again. ALL item should
1: be used every day. Or every season ( like skiing equipment). If not used after 12 months= you can safely let it go. Be honest with your self!. And have empathy self-care with your self. Don’t beat your self up!
2: use the « spark joy» method secondary after rule nr 1. If the item is not used.
If done correctly
1: all items are used regularly or seasonly over a 1 years peroid
2: items may or may not spark joy. This is more optional. But it will help you to decide.
Fear of loseing the past. And trauma is often the reason for not letting go items. Don’t fear these feelings. Instead confront the feelings when doing the method. One item at the time. And in the correct order
1: Cloths
2: Books
3: Diverse items
4: pictures
5: sentimental items
Visualize how you want it to be if it. And how you want your life to be if the « junk items» where gone. That is the items that are obviously junk. This first step will get you started.
You are not a child. You have 100% control of your actions. And reactions to your environment. Even if you feel crippeled by shame/trauma, under these emotions there is a adult human. By going on one item at the time. Step by step. You can realize this goal!.
Living in a small apartment I realize that any item (no matter how small) out of place makes the whole place seem disorganized and invites more items. There is no extra space to obscure or distract the eye. I feel I am constantly organizing or tidying up.
I have found that organizing like any other endeavour (weight loss or fitness routine for example) is about changing your habitat, not your habits, to suit you.
I live in a small apartment too. One of the best things I've done to make my place look uncluttered is to put everything that I don't use multiple times a day into cupboards and cabinets. My kitchen has only a small tray next to the sink with hand and dish wash, and surface spray. Everything else is inside cupboards, including my toaster and large utensil jar. It's become a habit to put those things away after use and it makes the space so much easier to keep clean and much easier on the eye.
@fancynancy2888 Could you please expand a bit more on, "... organizing like any other endeavour... is about changing your habitat, not your habits, to suit you.?"
I’m renting and storage was the LAST thing the builder considered. I hate that floor plans are designed by men who clearly have NO idea what it takes to keep a home neat.
In european apartments there's generally almost no storage space at all. Crazy
In European place you are expected to bring your own furniture
Organization rules:
1-designated place for everything, and everything in it's place
2 put things away not down
4-5x unused should be in storage, utilize dead zones,
Make things accessible - lazy susan, rolling tray,
3 coral/group things in a tray
4 function first over form
5 leave /drop zone -keys, sunglasses, wallet, bag, coat
6 containers later
7 storage
80% storage, 20% out/visible
8 simple effective organization system that works for you
9 avoid hoarding
10 organize things/declutter in weekends -
trash, dishes, laundry, without a home, with a home
donate ...
Thank you!❤😊
I really appreciate the delivery of all of this. It didn't feel shamey -- just, matter-of-fact. Also, a lot of these tips were extremely realistic and accessible. Thanks! Subscribing!
I loved the questions to ask yourself, in case you holding on to things you don’t need. No, no and no again 😊 Thank you so much for creating these amazing videos with great tips in the most calming voice😊
I got some great advice from an old book called Clutter’s Last Stand. Avoid the “clutter bunker”. That is a larger basket or box used to organize clutter but ends up being a place you have to clean out because it gathers things that don’t have a specific place. I started them because my husband has ADD and leaves recites, batteries, and other stuff around. It gets full and then I have to ask him to clean it out. By giving him special places to put things and lots of wastebaskets, he does better.
I picked up that book yesterday from my bookcase
When getting cabinets, spend the extra money and get drawers. Items in the back of a swing door cabinet is good as gone.
I like the idea of active and passive zones.
The tip I've seen for organizing and keep your home clean is to limit the amount of horizontal surfaces. They are magnets for clutter.
Yeah we place them on the floor instead 😢
@@ichatwithcats I just came here to say well my floor is the largest horizontal space in my home sooo…lol
An Automatic vacuum helps against that. We had one once and never has our apartment been that tidy. Since it would drive into the clutter or suck in stuff, we always tidied up properly:D
@@annesmith6582 The operative word was limit. not ELIMINATE.
If everything has a place then there us no clutter
This video is a lovely reminder to me to get back to decluttering, organizing, and simplifying my life! Thank you 🌸
You basically have to clear up as you go along …which requires time and effort -sometimes I have those things-but most of the time I don’t! Sometimes we have to abandon the mess and go out and do stuff ! But giving everything a place is definitely a good start.
I recently found your videos and love them. Currently trying to organize an entire house in a month. No garage, no basement & no spare room. So, I ordered a storage shed (making an organization plan for it!) for camping gear & outdoor stuff which will make available indoor spaces. Yes, I've donated loads! I eventually will have an organized house, less clutter in the house & my brain!!
Always put it back where you got it from!
What hit me is if something simple works for you, then stick to it. Don't be swayed with what you see on Instagram or RUclips! Thanks, this video makes sense.
I love your examples of confining items to a bowl or tray. Visually, that provides the order most of us crave.
It can be hard to get at those hidden areas. I read a book once that suggested to use a notebook to write the name of each room on a separate page. Then go through each room and write down the disorganized spots. For example, in the kitchen; junk drawer, pantry, cabinets next to the fridge. In the bedroom: under the bed, nightstand drawer…you get the idea. Then a day or two later, commit to organize one spot on the list a day, such as after work or in the morning before work. After I got going a couple of days, I could actually do more than one a night because the momentum felt good. This really helped me.
This video is very helpful.
I have just one point to make: The shoes that you just used do not belong in a closed cupboard. Bah! That‘s the problem, it doesn’t look nice when they are visible, but they need air and to get rid of the moisture. I myself have a little open rack for the shoes that were /are in frequent use directly besides the closed shoe cupboard. So once a pair is aired and dried out sufficiently it moves from the rack to the cupboard.
Yes a place for everything. I have owned wonderful homes I seriously clarified and renovated into light airy beautiful and ful of love. And miminalist by having places for everything. Easy to look stunning. Wonderful timber floors, high ceilings with moulding, paint I mixed with artist colour to get what I wanted.
This video should pinned at the top of organizational videos list. Very good advices!
I love trays big and small. I use them to hold items in kitchen, on coffee/side tables, bathroom counters, and top of chest (jewelry etc.). I organize my clothing items based on seasons and types. If i want a pair of shorts I know exactly where to find it. My mom is my opposite. She never organizes after laundry. She just put things away into empty space. She always complains about not having enough to wear or cannot find something. I organize her clothing items based on types and seasons. A few months later it’s chaos again.
Sounds like my family🙄
We are in the process of organising our two separate apartments before finally moving into a bigger house together in the next few months. Clutter was the order of the day in both. I recently fell in love with kallax cube units and a cube has never made me so happy. Both apartments are literally covered in cubes units but the amount of extra space thos jas created is unbelievable. Our daughter doesn't have to throw her toys away anymore and every single room is organised. Decluttering even cures you mentally if you're prone to depression, which I am. I feel light and clear and free to enjoy the summer. Finding a system that works for you can change your entire outlook on life and it doesn't have to be expensive. In the bedrooms, I've used the wire and faux leather cube units which are cheaper than kallax, along with foldable fabric cubes. Loving it!
Oh, the wire cube units are from amazon. So are the foldable cube baskets.
The faux leather cube units?
@@emmsue1053she probably means the faux leather pouffes that double up as storage units
You make some really good points. If I have a pile (or piles) somewhere and, uh, A Lot of time has passed, (1.) do I even remember what’s in the pile?! (2.) If I still like it, I TAKE A PHOTO OF IT then, it’s easier to give away.
❤ THANK YOU ❤ I'm just over halfway thru and you've literally organized my mindset about very specific issues my family's household has about the clutter. You mention things we've tried and they didn't work, and then you really really hit me with a feeling of relief from the general guilt of a messy cluttered house with your logical and inspiring perspective. Now I've gotta start paying attention to everybody's spots after I deal with all my own mistakes, and I actually like the thought of this being a learning process instead of a shameful chore, lol
Love this video, and by a man! Nice! I will say that putting things in a tray on 1 surface does look nicer, AND you can pick it up to dust or clean so easily. And I like the idea of a "time will tell" bin. Learned that from the Minimal Mom. Great job. Virginia in southern CA.
This is so helpful! I've just moved into an unfurnished apartment with only kitchen cupboards (no wardrobes or shelves). So everything feels chaotic. The idea of gathering everything that doesn't have a home yet into containers is a wonderful tip. Thank you!
I love your soothing videos. ❤ Even if I’m not in the middle of an organization spree, it’s so nice to hear your calming voice :)
so much wisdom dropped here. it is clear that you got it all sorted out.
The thing that made a difference for me was making labels for every box and drawer so everyone in the family knows where things are and where to return them after use! Otherwise it’s just me maintaining the whole system and no one could find anything since things are all in close compartments.
Agree 100%. All people should follow these rules and be much happier.
Making things accessible is a lesson that I learned while dealing with a shoulder injury. I could not reach up so more frequently used items had to be in lower locations. It didn't matter that it wasn't the usual kitchen arrangement.
I just watched your video, and was very impressed with how you broke it down into simple steps I can take. Thank you.❤❤❤❤❤
Some people use open storage because they literally will not remember the things the own unless they can see them... not because they are rarely used, but because their brains work differently and they have executive function and working memory problems. I know this is hard to understand for people who do not have this struggle. For many neurodivergent people out of sight is completely out of mind and labelling everything externally is not as effective as being able to immediately see and access things 😮💨
Any clever transparent or vertical storage ideas, products or tips you'd recommend?Opaque closed or stackable/hidden storage is cute but makes everything invisible and unaccessible.
Oh wow your voice is so soothing. And the advice I heard was good but I think I need to watch it again because I definitely missed some parts when I fell asleep to your soothing voice.
You randomly turned up on my thread! I watched becos you didn't open with the rant n your voice was soothing and not irritating, like most which I allocate to the delete bin. You raise some good points n I like your tips, thank you I've subscribed 🤩
Wow. Thank you for the test questions to reduce "saving for future use", and the other solutions that recognize it's not cold logic and 1-day solutions that will solve the clutter problem, it's the bit-by-bit careful long-term effort that will help the most.
Videos like this really help motivate me to finish my decluttering projects! Thank you!
this video was great! i started after watching this and it helped me with sorting out things that i had lay around for a long time. now i have abit more space and i feel better at home
Love the advice about using a tray...so true.
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Think quantity of stuff problem and lack of designated places to store my problem. So my attempts at tidying much more stressful and time consuming that they need to be. These tips are worth following. I like video showing us storage solutions and tips.
Thank you - love the suggestion of a tray to gather things in one spot!
@ReynardLowell ❤ Going vertical in a tiny place helped so much! Turntables for spices, vitamins, refrigerator bottles made it easier to find things quickly. Many thanks!
I agree with everything you said. It's common sense but we all need reminders.
I appreciate your conversational tone. You are so calm. I have to do my whole house (that's why I watch these videos... it's easier to get excited about cleaning and tidying than actually doing it! Probably most of our problem who watch videos like this. I'm working on it though.) But in all the information you gave, the empty cell phone boxed hit a cord! They are SO sturdy and well made it's very hard to toss them out. I would like to find a recycle effort to repurpose them or something.
Depending on their size....I use smaller boxes in a slightly larger on to use as dividers. Especially with bathroom things...chapsticks, band-aids, etx
Very good advice. Especially about not buying containers in advance!
excellent video, need to watch it several times, basic and non-judgemental, I like that you point out not to try "fads" because if they're not for you, they wont' work. AMEN!
What a beautiful way to explain 😢organizing . Very helpful.
I love organizing things and it truly helps. It took me time to perfect it the way I feel comfortable.
You are a superstar. Thank you!
This is a really helpful video. A sensible and useful way to think about clutter
The donation box is a very smart idea!
Good, practical advice. Saving this one to "useful to rewatch."
My place always looked neat and clean until I had kids. But this phase shall pass. I also love teaching them how to organize things. May be I can show them your video and practice one thing at a time :)
Look up clutter bug. And find out what type you are.
Kids are usually butterfly clutter type. She has loads on how different style / bug of clutter works and how to comprise with other types in your home.
I am a lady bug, I need large baskets of broad categories.
My kids are butterfly, they get hooks and clear basket so while they see it visually, it's still contained.
Yes this will pass too, but helping them learn how to be organised reduces their stress and increases their independence which makes them ( and us ) feel good.
Good luck, you can do it. (( hugs))
Thanks you so much for this video! Some really good tips. Over the years I have read so many organising books and wondered why my home still felt messy. Finally, the penny dropped and I realised unless I decluttered first, all I was really doing was organising my clutter and my home still somehow looked messy. Decluttering has made all the difference. I loved the tip you shared about consolidating several items in one place. I found that the coffee table in our lounge always looked messy so I bought a nice tray and put the remote, the candle and the coasters on the tray. It looks so much better.Thanks for sharing your ideas. They make me feel like I’m on the right track in my home.😊
Yes! Yes! Yes!
My husband was constantly putting spatuals on the kitchen counter instead of back in the drawer so I got a big jar and now all the spatuals go in there. It's def useful to pay attention to where things naturally end up.
Thanks so much. Your ideas reinforce what I've been learning and opened up new help for my minimalism journey.
great videos! I find that I must have a drop zone; when I come home whatever I have in my hands I must put them in my drop zone so I can organize them from there.
Except for groceries Let’s say I have some mail, some new clothes, makeup, etc. I will put them on this dropzone piece of furniture. currently this drop zone furniture is a piece of furniture from IKEA that has 12 bins in it sometimes I’ll divide the stuff and put it in the bins sometimes I’ll just leave it right on top but for me that helps my ADD brains overwhelmed and help. Keep me organized, go back later and I put the things in its proper home right now. I am moving and I’m kind of jumbled up again but I’m gonna give myself time to get reorganized and right now. It’s figuring out the best way to organize my pantry in my new kitchen also a good tip. I need to keep one area in my kitchen and dining room are combined so I need to keep that area clutter free so I don’t feel overwhelmed what I’ll do at the end of the night is it there’s messiness for maybe me going over some bills or paperwork? I will just take a basket and gather up all that stuff, and put that in my drop zone area. But it really takes an effort almost every day and like someone else said just own less stuff I found that helps too.😊
Always looking forward to see, which topic you´ve picked for your video. Amazing how you keep coming up with great ideas. And you deliver them so well!!
that was surprisingly calming and informative at the same time. Thank you!
TQ so much Reynard. My home is so messy with all rooms messy as well. Will put into practice some of the advice you have given. Tks again
I am really enjoying your videos. Your presentation is very soothing and supportive, I don't feel massive guilt that I am doing a thing or not doing a thing. Which is especially nice since I am very unwell and can't do much of anything except lie in bed and watch youtube. :D But your ideas I will save and do when I can. (And I am subscribed to learn more)
Thanks, great video! Some of those ideas make sense if we think about what we should do. Others are not so obvious. Your video is a 10min summary of all of this. Great! I am sure I will watch it again and again and again maybe once a month or whenever I need a reminder.
I put my keys on a nail, on the wall right next to my apt door, just to above left of the doorknob. Never have to look for my keys-just grab them when I leave, and put them back there after I come back.
Thanks for your advice. Your calm and downto earth approach is of great value to me.
The "holding onto things you don't use" is a hard one, but I've used similar logic. I think "If I saw this at a garage sale for $1, would I buy it?" Often no, I wouldn't or 'maybe I would buy it later' and then the answer should be 'then buy it later, get rid of it now and you may actually never buy it'
Great suggestions, I am now on my way to use my latest Amazon box as Donation box just like how you have labelled it. Thanks!
Really great video. I've been following you since the beginning of your channel and always enjoy what you post.😊 Thank you for sharing your expertise with us. (Also, it's nice to see that you seem to be more comfortable on camera. I had a channel for a while and really struggled with that aspect. Kudos on your hard work!)
thank you for the down to earth practical advice!
After watching this I put a wooden container on my table so my husband can put his reading glasses and crossword pens in it. Worked a charm and I am no longer frustrated having to pick them up all the time.
I’m saving this video for the helpful tips you’ve provided. I love ❤️ your common sense approach to organization and declutterring rooms and surfaces. Thanks so much for sharing 😊🎉🎉!
I like the not having a drop zone. I will utilize this today. New idea, good idea. 🎉
I highly recommend the book “How Did You Find That? Four Habits From Chaos To Control” by Carrie Kane. I think you’ll love it.
Good that this is backed with some techniques & logics
Awesome video. All rules one kind of knew, but not really, finally explained.
I really like your videos they provide so much good information. Thank you
Thank you for the great inspirations!
Marvellous video!!! This was the best video about this subject that I have ever seen. Good job! 💪
I did save it to watch again and subscribed immeaditely! ❤
Rule no. 1: have less stuff. Declutter!!!
Reduce. Reuse. Recycle.
Exactly !!!!
No bicycles allowed. Lol
this!😊
Yes!! If you have no space, no storage and too many things to think off, it doesn’t matter how often you clean or tidy, you will always end up either a clutter.
Bro binge watching your videos is better than Netflix, great content, you've done a wonderful job.
Thank you so much 😀
The ikea shoe cabinets are excellent.
These are great 'bullseye' suggestions. Thank you, so much!
I've watched a number of your videos and have found all of them helpful. Your delivery is paced well and is organized so that it's easy to follow. Thank you for all the tips!
While I enjoy and benefit from all of your videos, I think this is your best. Each point resonated but #2 was a direct hit. I’m just finishing a primary bathroom reno and midway through installing hardwood floors. It’s going to change how my home feels and I’m excited to use your framework to decide what I allow back in from storage. Thank you!
I agree. I try to be minimalist. I do not buy things that I don't need. My daughters house is a mess, and it's a bad idea to keep on buying from TEMU & SHIEN. These stores lured young people, and they didn't realize they were buying waste junks. These accumulate a lot of money.