Good grief, these commenters need to get their heads examined. The OP got traumatized and they tell him to think about the kid!! He needs to think about himself first. It's a shame what happened to this poor child, but even if he wanted to help, he can't do it when he himself has is own healing to do.
I'd tell her to promptly GET BENT. DO NOT EVER CONTACT ME EVER AGAIN! The damn kid should have told the truth in the first place! At his age he should damn well KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG!
@@lashunelillie9896 It happened to us, except ours lasted 2 1/2 years. I wish it would have only lasted 12 hours.. Forgive? Nope! Forget? NEVER! And it started in 1999, STILL NOT over it.
Whatever man you act like this happens all the time dated and married a single mother and not one time have I had to face anything like this, so don't go acting like all single mothers are trash. If you don't want to that is up to you but don't use this as an excuse not to.
Yes the kid was hurt but the lie could have destroyed this man’s life. Even with no charges or convictions, the court of public opinion is ruthless. Hard on the kid but he needs significant punishment for this. Idc the reason, you can’t falsely accuse someone of this at any age. Under no circumstance should the woman be given another chance, it’s not worth OP’s life getting wrecked.
Really? really? people are begging this man to forgive a lying little piece of crap child who ruined his life. No, there is never any forgiveness for cheating, and there is never any forgiveness for being falsely accused of such a horrendous act, regardless of how old the victim might be.
Poor guy, he’s traumatized. This goes to show that what Chris Rock said about how only women children and pets have unconditional love and men are only loved by what they can provide. None of the commenters gave a flying F about the guy. It was all about the kid.
They are toxic. They don’t respect you. Even a child who love someone won’t intentionally hurt someone with lies. He didn’t blame his mother he chose you because you’re were/are expendable even more than his cousin. Run, run and run! You can’t save everyone even if they are minors.
Story 1..... I'd nope right out of there and that would teach the kid that if you lie about someone close to you then they will ghost you as they should. Its not worth it to stay cause that betrayal will always be on your mind....this is one reason why you don't get involved with single moms fellas!
Lol reddit sure is unusually optimistic about a broken relationship, and have no compassion for a man who had hos life destroyed. Reddit is complete garbage at personal advice. He may never recover. But reddit is like only the kid matters. Insane and stupid
Only the kid matters if it affects the vvoman. I’ve seen stories where most of the reddit advice would’ve ruined the kid’s life all because the man would benefit from a specific decision.
The child is more than 5years old so he can tell truth not lie and jeopardise life of other person. Sue the child and his mother for wronful accusation. Ask a doctor not people on his level of brain development
No no. The kid and mom can get their own therapy. HE deserves better and understanding from the naysayers. His own therapy and a life away from all that bull$hit. God, I wish him well.
Cannot believe the comments about staying with this woman. Her child jeopardized his freedom. There are men serving decades due to false allegations. Sad part is most child molesters don't live that long in prison. Can you imagine being innocent and going through that?
The mother sure did show her true colors in the end of story 1. Then the mask came off, as soon as she realized she wouldn't be able to manipulate OP and cry her way back into his life and to his resources. As soon as OP made it clear to her that their relationship was over she instantly took to social media to libel him. Bullet dodged. She didn't actually love him, not truly. She just loved his resources and that he was willing to be a stepdad, which most guys aren't.
OP: gets together with a single mom with a baby daddy in and out of prison. Something bad happens and OP has a surprised Pikachu face 😂 Reddit is crazy saying this can be fixed 😮
Nah it's over. Too much risk, it ain't worth it. You can forgive but you don't have to get back with her and her lying kid who should know better than tell lies. Move on and never ever deal with single m0ms again.
S1: The kid is at fault for all of this not telling the truth. He needs a letter from the court to have on hand about the wrongful accusations and defamation from the accuser (the kid). Because if that gets out with what happened gossip can run wild.
I don't blame her for believing her son and reporting when he told her this but for you to stay in this situation is ridiculously naive. It is not a smart choice. I wouldn't be showing compassion and saying its ok for him to destroy your life, compassion for what happened to him is fine but I'd cut contact absolutely. Your life has been absolutely destroyed. Yeah, he is a kid but his actions literally destroyed OPs life. Once a statement is made there is no walking that back. The consequences are forever.
Let me tell you something, you clueless person: YOU DIDN'T LOSE FRIENDS, BECAUSE THEY WERE NEVER YOUR FRIENDS!!!! If they were your friends, they would have come to you, to find out what was going on! COLLEAGUES, NOT FRIENDS, UNDERSTAND?
Good grief, these commenters need to get their heads examined. The OP got traumatized and they tell him to think about the kid!! He needs to think about himself first. It's a shame what happened to this poor child, but even if he wanted to help, he can't do it when he himself has is own healing to do.
I'd tell her to promptly GET BENT. DO NOT EVER CONTACT ME EVER AGAIN! The damn kid should have told the truth in the first place! At his age he should damn well KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG!
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@@lashunelillie9896 It happened to us, except ours lasted 2 1/2 years. I wish it would have only lasted 12 hours.. Forgive? Nope! Forget? NEVER! And it started in 1999, STILL NOT over it.
Another example of why you never date a single mother. This accusation can destroy a Man's life. Never put yourself in this situation again.
Major key 🔑
Whatever man you act like this happens all the time dated and married a single mother and not one time have I had to face anything like this, so don't go acting like all single mothers are trash. If you don't want to that is up to you but don't use this as an excuse not to.
Yes the kid was hurt but the lie could have destroyed this man’s life. Even with no charges or convictions, the court of public opinion is ruthless. Hard on the kid but he needs significant punishment for this. Idc the reason, you can’t falsely accuse someone of this at any age. Under no circumstance should the woman be given another chance, it’s not worth OP’s life getting wrecked.
Really? really? people are begging this man to forgive a lying little piece of crap child who ruined his life. No, there is never any forgiveness for cheating, and there is never any forgiveness for being falsely accused of such a horrendous act, regardless of how old the victim might be.
Avoid all contact and ghost them.
Op, keep it moving because relationships will never be the same
Poor guy, he’s traumatized. This goes to show that what Chris Rock said about how only women children and pets have unconditional love and men are only loved by what they can provide. None of the commenters gave a flying F about the guy. It was all about the kid.
They are toxic. They don’t respect you. Even a child who love someone won’t intentionally hurt someone with lies. He didn’t blame his mother he chose you because you’re were/are expendable even more than his cousin. Run, run and run! You can’t save everyone even if they are minors.
Story 1..... I'd nope right out of there and that would teach the kid that if you lie about someone close to you then they will ghost you as they should. Its not worth it to stay cause that betrayal will always be on your mind....this is one reason why you don't get involved with single moms fellas!
Lol reddit sure is unusually optimistic about a broken relationship, and have no compassion for a man who had hos life destroyed. Reddit is complete garbage at personal advice. He may never recover. But reddit is like only the kid matters. Insane and stupid
Only the kid matters if it affects the vvoman. I’ve seen stories where most of the reddit advice would’ve ruined the kid’s life all because the man would benefit from a specific decision.
This platform keeps deleting comments.
Welcome to "free speech".
The child is more than 5years old so he can tell truth not lie and jeopardise life of other person. Sue the child and his mother for wronful accusation. Ask a doctor not people on his level of brain development
Children are not mindless idiots like internet people think
Rule no 1 - no dating with single mom.
No no. The kid and mom can get their own therapy. HE deserves better and understanding from the naysayers. His own therapy and a life away from all that bull$hit. God, I wish him well.
Cannot believe the comments about staying with this woman. Her child jeopardized his freedom. There are men serving decades due to false allegations. Sad part is most child molesters don't live that long in prison. Can you imagine being innocent and going through that?
The mother sure did show her true colors in the end of story 1. Then the mask came off, as soon as she realized she wouldn't be able to manipulate OP and cry her way back into his life and to his resources. As soon as OP made it clear to her that their relationship was over she instantly took to social media to libel him. Bullet dodged. She didn't actually love him, not truly. She just loved his resources and that he was willing to be a stepdad, which most guys aren't.
Bingo! She was only upset that she lost her ATM and babysitter.
You need to sue your parents for that s*** that is stealing
OP: gets together with a single mom with a baby daddy in and out of prison. Something bad happens and OP has a surprised Pikachu face 😂
Reddit is crazy saying this can be fixed 😮
OP is also a victim in this case;and he too deserves compassion from commenters.
Nah it's over. Too much risk, it ain't worth it. You can forgive but you don't have to get back with her and her lying kid who should know better than tell lies. Move on and never ever deal with single m0ms again.
S1: The kid is at fault for all of this not telling the truth. He needs a letter from the court to have on hand about the wrongful accusations and defamation from the accuser (the kid). Because if that gets out with what happened gossip can run wild.
Not your show
Not your problem
Just move on
A whole lot of excuses for what,
S1 What outcome could there have been. Maybe in Disney's Star Wars universe but not irl.
I don't blame her for believing her son and reporting when he told her this but for you to stay in this situation is ridiculously naive. It is not a smart choice. I wouldn't be showing compassion and saying its ok for him to destroy your life, compassion for what happened to him is fine but I'd cut contact absolutely. Your life has been absolutely destroyed. Yeah, he is a kid but his actions literally destroyed OPs life. Once a statement is made there is no walking that back. The consequences are forever.
Let me tell you something, you clueless person: YOU DIDN'T LOSE FRIENDS, BECAUSE THEY WERE NEVER YOUR FRIENDS!!!! If they were your friends, they would have come to you, to find out what was going on! COLLEAGUES, NOT FRIENDS, UNDERSTAND?
You should sue the ex