Imagine the "karens" we saw on videos everyday were just people who suffer severe PMS or PMDD than the average women. Or it just the severe PMS or PMDD of some women experienced, thinking they are underpriveleged in life to become entitled for retribution? Because not every women has the same bad level of PMS.
Women who truly have these issues are not doing it on purpose. I have pmdd and with that comes fatigue, depression, and intense anger. I have learned to control it better but sometimes I will snap at my husband and it feels like an out of body experience. I feel so bad that I yelled at him afterwards, it is hurtful to the people around me and sucks because I can't always control it
THANK YOU! I’m the sweetest to my partner I call him my honey (peep the account name❤) but when it’s around that time ooohhhwweeeee I’m soooo short tempered I feel awful then when it subsides I feel like a monster picking up my destruction till next month rolls around 🙄💃🏾
@@Ohhhoneyyymy wife is the same way and we literally argue over the most trivial things such as her not liking the smell of coffee and being so angry and then trying to stop me from making it, that's when I get angry and stand my ground on letting her know that it's not going like this today and then she gets mad because I challenged her 🙄 and I also don't like the unpredictable behavior during that time, any advice?
@@ignoranceisnotatrend4669 Oh boy my partner probably feels like you do tbh. Just try to make sure you tell her she’s being unkind but say it in a nice way. I used to think I could act/say whatever I wanted bc I was miserable but that’s not okay. You guys aren’t our punching bags and she should try her best to be kind even though it’s sometimes hard when it’s that time . Does she argue over every little thing constantly around this time ? I know I do 😫 it’s almost like pregnancy 😒 moody, cravings, smells are more annoying lol but her telling you to not even make coffee? That’s a bit much….you shouldn’t be uncomfortable in your own home …
@@Ohhhoneyyy exactly, yes pretty much during that time she acts out the same way, sometimes she does well but most of the time its "DIARY OF A MAD BLACK WOLF " LOL 😄😄😄😄
I need to learn how to deal with my wife when she does that. I'm a very emotional person and I understand that she doesn't mean to disrespect me in a way and say things like "I WISH I CAN JUST BACK UP IN THE CAR AND KILL YOU" Any pointers?
the first time i heard someone asking me "are you on period" because i got angry to someone else. since then I assumed it can be PMS or my period is coming. But looking back, it was because of that person was pissed me off, but it's true in some ways i should not be rude. it can PMS is a distributing factor but again, you cannot always blaming women or period (which only happens on women body). I know man who got angry from period of time, and we made a joke that he may be on his period, but again, we blame on period. it's true Period changes hormone and women do feel tired (because of cramps and uncomfortable), but it is the environment, people around who are not caring about women's feelings and emotions,
Such crap! How do you get mad when someone asks if you're PMSing if that's the case?! No accountability, good thing it's acceptable for y'all to joke about it later thoughtl right? So many arguments in my life because of PMS
No but apparently it's an excuse for women PMSing to dismiss the feelings of those around them.. Can't even ask a woman if she is Pmsing but it's perfectly acceptable for her to blame her poor actions/communication on it later right? Just because it's a natural thing doesn't mean you get to act how you want to everyone. If you know you get irrational then think ahead and try to not act out
Sweetheart it's easy for you to say trust me there is absolutely nothing u can do about it u can control it. I am not sure uve experienced this before. You wouldn't have made this comment. Because after all doing things u don't mean to do, you also end up hurting ur self so please is a situation u have to understand. And the most annoying part is there no cure so far as your period is concerned, it will keep happening every single month and i hate that we have to go through that because it really heartbreaking for me. If we can only periods without going through all these bullshit
I’m very supportive and help all of the time at home. When my wife is about to start her period though, up until about a week after, her tone becomes very harsh, she yells a lot, is sarcastic about evrything, and treats us like she hates us (the kids and I).
This is a vary bad logic. Expecting mood swings at that time is not bringing judgement but understanding. Acknowledging PMS is not the same as saying that ther are no things to be irritated about 24/7/365. But saying PMS doesn't bring irritability is just an anti-scientific rubbish.
nobody said it didn't bring irritability, what's being said is act as an adult and don't use it as an excuse to lash out. We all feel moody at times, testosterone levels affect mood as well, it doesn't excuse one to act out.
@@LuminousSuperstar I now re-watched only briefly, but I don't think this video was primarily focused on lashing out or acting out. I wouldn't defend that for a moment. What I hear is polemic with / relativisation of the fact that PMS is a major cause of mood swings.
This is so pathetic to watch. As if women are not shamed and embarrassed enough by suffering. Unless you suffer from this you have no idea. I have pmdd and it is exhausting and mentally debilitating. I try my best to control the symptoms but this is the biggest pile of bs ive ever watched. Ever.
it makes you feel worse but it doesn't make you behave worse, actions are a choice. even when drunk I can control myself to behave civil, maybe I feel moody drunk but I'm not going to take it out on others.
The problem with the Dr scenario is, the week before the wife was fine doing those tasks, the week during her pms, those sames tasks are now a HUGE problem. She needs help managing her mood.
That's bcz during PM's she becomes more insightful about her life and situations. The issues that haven't been resolved become unmasked during her PMS. Reality hits her during PMS
One of the emotions of PMS is feeling overwhelmed and your a bit slower at doing normal tasks which why they seem a huge problem during that time..energy levels are low too due to physical symptoms so they become harder to complete. The lack of support and love is what makes PMS worse not just low caffeine and a good diet
Why would you gaslightt women that what they expirience is not real, I mean I'm the happiest person ever, but when the pain kicks in I have to isolate myself to not me impulsive in communication, and now you want to tell me that what I'm experiencing is not really what I expirience comme on
I thought she was about to push back the women's rights movement but I listened. You have to let it out some times. The time when it most hurts is when you realize it was already there and needs to be dealt with.
The brainwashing of society when it comes to women and PMS, i grew up with 4 brothers and 4 sisters, i watched my sisters and mother turn their emotions on and off like a light switch whenever it suited them. My father, brothers and i lived in hell because of this, it's s 100% a choice
I'm PMSING today and my brother Said to me that I used it as an excuse😭 no I'm not this is my PMS week so don't piss me off bro you've been warned so don't make me mad next weekend
Wow crazy that I was literally dealing with this and then came across this video. This is a very real issue and I feel like it’s hard for people to understand. I hope we can get more videos on this topic ! Thank you for spreading awareness, because you do feel alone, but it’s comforting to know alot of us are feeling the same.
@@consciousreverie4696 I don’t think you’ve actually watched the video. PMS is something women cannot control but can maintained (like exercise and healthy eating) some months are worse than others and some may have PMDD. I personally think that people need to be aware of this so they don’t take emotional outbursts from woman so seriously.
This woman is absolutely right. During my periods all I think about is wonder woman and destruction of all men. Quite dramatic. But even without Pms I hate men. I know it's wrong but when you live in patriarchal society where women are swept under the rug and that rug is placed at front door, it doesn't sound so bad. While pmsing these thoughts amplify. And considering my lovely patriarchal family, I can't rage or yell or even voice these thoughts. The unfairness of it and everything catches up and builds up. Whenever I look at my father or brothers or male friends, even when I am smiling and truly happy there is always that bitterness and hate in me. I hate to look at any man. Because I have seen my father beat my mom because food was not up to his expectations. I have stayed outside, trembling in fear with a finger above child helpline as I heard my father rage and hit my mother all night before my science exam. And when my mom tried to fight back, I have seen my whole fucking family turn against her. I know it is unfair and wrong and not all men are like that, but I still hate them and I refuse to apologize for it.
I wouldn't tolerate a woman with PMS anger issues. If she has anger issues send her down the road. Men let this be a warning. Get you multiple women friends. You are the Alpha male. You do not have to put up with a woman with PMS anger issues. Just leave her and go on to the next. With billions of women out there you can do better
@@DehaniWani funny you say that. I've been in a relationship for over 10 years now and we straight as i put her in her place like a real man. Women don't want a beta "bro" u check that drama at the door.
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Imagine the "karens" we saw on videos everyday were just people who suffer severe PMS or PMDD than the average women.
Or it just the severe PMS or PMDD of some women experienced, thinking they are underpriveleged in life to become entitled for retribution?
Because not every women has the same bad level of PMS.
Women who truly have these issues are not doing it on purpose. I have pmdd and with that comes fatigue, depression, and intense anger. I have learned to control it better but sometimes I will snap at my husband and it feels like an out of body experience. I feel so bad that I yelled at him afterwards, it is hurtful to the people around me and sucks because I can't always control it
THANK YOU! I’m the sweetest to my partner I call him my honey (peep the account name❤) but when it’s around that time ooohhhwweeeee I’m soooo short tempered I feel awful then when it subsides I feel like a monster picking up my destruction till next month rolls around 🙄💃🏾
@@Ohhhoneyyymy wife is the same way and we literally argue over the most trivial things such as her not liking the smell of coffee and being so angry and then trying to stop me from making it, that's when I get angry and stand my ground on letting her know that it's not going like this today and then she gets mad because I challenged her 🙄 and I also don't like the unpredictable behavior during that time, any advice?
@@ignoranceisnotatrend4669 Oh boy my partner probably feels like you do tbh. Just try to make sure you tell her she’s being unkind but say it in a nice way. I used to think I could act/say whatever I wanted bc I was miserable but that’s not okay. You guys aren’t our punching bags and she should try her best to be kind even though it’s sometimes hard when it’s that time . Does she argue over every little thing constantly around this time ? I know I do 😫 it’s almost like pregnancy 😒 moody, cravings, smells are more annoying lol but her telling you to not even make coffee? That’s a bit much….you shouldn’t be uncomfortable in your own home …
@@Ohhhoneyyy exactly, yes pretty much during that time she acts out the same way, sometimes she does well but most of the time its "DIARY OF A MAD BLACK WOLF " LOL 😄😄😄😄
I need to learn how to deal with my wife when she does that.
I'm a very emotional person and I understand that she doesn't mean to disrespect me in a way and say things like "I WISH I CAN JUST BACK UP IN THE CAR AND KILL YOU"
Any pointers?
the first time i heard someone asking me "are you on period" because i got angry to someone else. since then I assumed it can be PMS or my period is coming. But looking back, it was because of that person was pissed me off, but it's true in some ways i should not be rude. it can PMS is a distributing factor but again, you cannot always blaming women or period (which only happens on women body). I know man who got angry from period of time, and we made a joke that he may be on his period, but again, we blame on period. it's true Period changes hormone and women do feel tired (because of cramps and uncomfortable), but it is the environment, people around who are not caring about women's feelings and emotions,
I feel sad about all the men who had to gi through this mental abuse .
I hate when I’m genuinely PMSing and someone tells me that I’m PMSing- yoh I get mad. It’s normal to cry if someone took the bigger slice of pizza.
Such crap! How do you get mad when someone asks if you're PMSing if that's the case?! No accountability, good thing it's acceptable for y'all to joke about it later thoughtl right? So many arguments in my life because of PMS
Learn some self control and stop being abusive.
Stop being a big baby
@@Chieffam15 you can’t even handle a period my guy
@@justwiln what’s accountability?😍
No but apparently it's an excuse for women PMSing to dismiss the feelings of those around them.. Can't even ask a woman if she is Pmsing but it's perfectly acceptable for her to blame her poor actions/communication on it later right? Just because it's a natural thing doesn't mean you get to act how you want to everyone. If you know you get irrational then think ahead and try to not act out
Too many women use PMDD and PMS as an excuse to abuse their family, friends, and spouse. They need to learn how to have control over themselves.
Sweetheart it's easy for you to say trust me there is absolutely nothing u can do about it u can control it. I am not sure uve experienced this before. You wouldn't have made this comment. Because after all doing things u don't mean to do, you also end up hurting ur self so please is a situation u have to understand. And the most annoying part is there no cure so far as your period is concerned, it will keep happening every single month and i hate that we have to go through that because it really heartbreaking for me. If we can only periods without going through all these bullshit
I bet your a man 🤣
@@K_DLoverskeep on making them lame ass excuses. you just wanna act like a bitch with no consequences
@@K_DLovers So I can’t control shooting someone? I call bs you can control your self. Especially if you’re an adult
@@K_DLoversbs…
I’m very supportive and help all of the time at home. When my wife is about to start her period though, up until about a week after, her tone becomes very harsh, she yells a lot, is sarcastic about evrything, and treats us like she hates us (the kids and I).
Divorce her. You deserve a better life.
This is a vary bad logic. Expecting mood swings at that time is not bringing judgement but understanding. Acknowledging PMS is not the same as saying that ther are no things to be irritated about 24/7/365. But saying PMS doesn't bring irritability is just an anti-scientific rubbish.
nobody said it didn't bring irritability, what's being said is act as an adult and don't use it as an excuse to lash out. We all feel moody at times, testosterone levels affect mood as well, it doesn't excuse one to act out.
@@LuminousSuperstar I now re-watched only briefly, but I don't think this video was primarily focused on lashing out or acting out. I wouldn't defend that for a moment. What I hear is polemic with / relativisation of the fact that PMS is a major cause of mood swings.
This is so pathetic to watch. As if women are not shamed and embarrassed enough by suffering. Unless you suffer from this you have no idea. I have pmdd and it is exhausting and mentally debilitating. I try my best to control the symptoms but this is the biggest pile of bs ive ever watched. Ever.
cry about it
@@user-hm9ik6xq5n wow you're so edgy. Bullying women online. You're so tough and hard.
@@carriefinding40 no im just tired of bitches using this as an excuse to act like little kids
it makes you feel worse but it doesn't make you behave worse, actions are a choice. even when drunk I can control myself to behave civil, maybe I feel moody drunk but I'm not going to take it out on others.
@@carriefinding40 youre just looking for excuses to behave like a child, your whole comment was a pile of be, cry about it more
The problem with the Dr scenario is, the week before the wife was fine doing those tasks, the week during her pms, those sames tasks are now a HUGE problem. She needs help managing her mood.
That's bcz during PM's she becomes more insightful about her life and situations. The issues that haven't been resolved become unmasked during her PMS. Reality hits her during PMS
One of the emotions of PMS is feeling overwhelmed and your a bit slower at doing normal tasks which why they seem a huge problem during that time..energy levels are low too due to physical symptoms so they become harder to complete. The lack of support and love is what makes PMS worse not just low caffeine and a good diet
@@xiaomi2152 sorry, it’s no excuse.
Why would you gaslightt women that what they expirience is not real, I mean I'm the happiest person ever, but when the pain kicks in I have to isolate myself to not me impulsive in communication, and now you want to tell me that what I'm experiencing is not really what I expirience comme on
I thought she was about to push back the women's rights movement but I listened. You have to let it out some times. The time when it most hurts is when you realize it was already there and needs to be dealt with.
lmao
Wait I'm confused, is it real or not?
It's real
Very real
It's real for some women, but don't ask a woman if that's why she's upset - We have the right to be angry, no matter what "time of the month" it is.
@@Donnah1979just seems convenient that yall happen to get angry around the same time every month
You are right, household chores have to be shared, how much can a person do morning till night?
The brainwashing of society when it comes to women and PMS, i grew up with 4 brothers and 4 sisters, i watched my sisters and mother turn their emotions on and off like a light switch whenever it suited them. My father, brothers and i lived in hell because of this, it's s 100% a choice
My ex wife suffered from P.M.S. EX WIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
my ex would PMS and make shit up that I did to get mad at me.
I'm PMSING today and my brother Said to me that I used it as an excuse😭 no I'm not this is my PMS week so don't piss me off bro you've been warned so don't make me mad next weekend
Someone can’t handle themselves
@leroysanchino thats true but I do now when I was younger I couldn't but now that I'm an adult I'm okay 💙 for the most part
Wow crazy that I was literally dealing with this and then came across this video. This is a very real issue and I feel like it’s hard for people to understand. I hope we can get more videos on this topic ! Thank you for spreading awareness, because you do feel alone, but it’s comforting to know alot of us are feeling the same.
Do not simply dismiss a woman's feelings because of PMS. During PMS, it is possible to be angry over genuine things l.
Do not simply be an abusive person and use PMS as an excuse.
@@consciousreverie4696 I don’t think you’ve actually watched the video. PMS is something women cannot control but can maintained (like exercise and healthy eating) some months are worse than others and some may have PMDD. I personally think that people need to be aware of this so they don’t take emotional outbursts from woman so seriously.
@@ShadowofArtsstill don’t be mad at anyone control your damn feelings thank god I’m a man
@@Chieffam15 How about don't take it personally?
Pmsing is not funny.
Nope it's honestly hard to control too in my opinion. I hate it 😭
This woman is absolutely right. During my periods all I think about is wonder woman and destruction of all men. Quite dramatic. But even without Pms I hate men. I know it's wrong but when you live in patriarchal society where women are swept under the rug and that rug is placed at front door, it doesn't sound so bad. While pmsing these thoughts amplify. And considering my lovely patriarchal family, I can't rage or yell or even voice these thoughts. The unfairness of it and everything catches up and builds up. Whenever I look at my father or brothers or male friends, even when I am smiling and truly happy there is always that bitterness and hate in me. I hate to look at any man. Because I have seen my father beat my mom because food was not up to his expectations. I have stayed outside, trembling in fear with a finger above child helpline as I heard my father rage and hit my mother all night before my science exam. And when my mom tried to fight back, I have seen my whole fucking family turn against her. I know it is unfair and wrong and not all men are like that, but I still hate them and I refuse to apologize for it.
I'd like to see how you react to a racist using that bullshit reasoning.
Well I'm glad you're suffering in life!
Sounds like you were going through it right then!
Women CHOOSE to act out and be horrifically mean to their husband's and they need to be held accountable
I wouldn't tolerate a woman with PMS anger issues. If she has anger issues send her down the road. Men let this be a warning. Get you multiple women friends. You are the Alpha male. You do not have to put up with a woman with PMS anger issues. Just leave her and go on to the next. With billions of women out there you can do better
Alpha male is a push. Seems very alpha you can’t deal with a women. Most women suffer from it so alright bro 😂
@@DehaniWani funny you say that. I've been in a relationship for over 10 years now and we straight as i put her in her place like a real man. Women don't want a beta "bro" u check that drama at the door.
She deleted her comment immediately... Go figure..
Exactly. Too many men suffer extreme abuse because women use PMS and PMDD as an excuse for their actions.
@@DehaniWani too many women use it as an excuse to abuse and destroy the lives of those around them. His advise is valid.
I think I'm a 1st class arsehole. 😔
Holy fuck! 🎱