@@andorianthomas2145 yeah.. he said she's the love of his life. I know Elena doesn't deserve that but idk why it felt good to hear that❤ and when she tells Damon she loves him and he was all teary eyed.. I liked Delena but felt bad for him
@@andorianthomas2145 it might be a lie everyone knows he loves Elena even when he was with Caroline but it just feels good to hear him man up and say "you don't know what I look like when am not in love with you" because throughout the show everything they did was to protect elena so it's good too Stephan stick up for himself ya no😘
@@stellaaa4762 but ikr Bc when Stefan lost his humanity instead of saying u will lose everyone u ever loved she said you will lose be like bih NObODY CaRes bout U
He only started doing it after she started seeing Damon out of anger. When he was with her he would cosign her self-absorbtion that the reason i liked her with Damon because half the time he didn't care how Elena wanted him to solve the problem he did the way he wanted to. Stefan only acted that way was when we was trying to turn her human again because he didn't like her as vampire.
@@lstarsabb girl he liked there for who she was yes he would have wanted her as human but he did care what she was and Mabey He corrected her because it wasn’t always about her like it’s OK for them to stand up to her without y’all always saying he only did it because he felt mad like he did it because not everything is about her
She sleeps with his brother and leaves Stefan for Damon and then says to Stefan “aRe yOu tRying to punish meeee🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️” when she noticed he finally stops paying attention to her
Bronte Lee Exactly the way they wrote Elena was terrible..she’s constantly contradicting herself..she claims to care so much about her friends and family but falls in love with the dude who’s attempted murder on her brother TWICE
The fact she refused to apologize to caroline because she didn’t want to feel bad makes her the worst. Caroline should’ve stopped being her friend after that.
No she shouldn’t Caroline is a judge mental hypocrite. She says hurtful things to Elena all the time and tells all of her Business. Like when Matt said something to Caroline she said I’ve Already been through enough and I don’t need your judgement clouding all over me.But Elena never told any of her secrets yes Elena is self centered and things everything’s about her But Caroline is a terrible friend and I’m surprised they made it that far tbh.
Sometimes I honestly feel like they just feel bad for her because every time someone say they don't like they be like,"ShE LoSt EvEryOnE".. okay the entire marvel universe lost a lot and you don't see people liking them based of their trama,just who this person acts like.
I think most of us, hell the majority of us watched TVD at a time when we were really young. So yeah the targeted demographic didn’t understand the hidden plots and just realizing it years later.
i don't get it. she demonstrated several times that she was willing to sacrifice herself for others, . yes her character has flaws but that makes her so much more interesting then if she would just always think the right thing. This goody two shoes characters are boring and unrelatable as hell
@@nadinefeiler9204 Yeah but sometimes the self sacrifice was totally not necessary, it was just her ignoring the advice of others that were trying to make sure she survives and getting them into deeper trouble.
@@nadinefeiler9204 she was willing, but she never did, she killed so many vampires when she killed kol, she is a self centered manipulative hypocrite girl, katherine suffered so much which made her evil(and connects to the real world), bonnie is selfless and sacrifices everything she had, and caroline, she cares more than anyone, she is def the most relatable character in the show alongside bonnie
I just realized how SELFISH of a decision Elena made by having Jeremy kill Kol. She had no idea what went on in the lives of the vampires Kol turned. She was just ok with having all of them desiccate.
and the fact everyone always said she wa sso compassionate and selfless pls there is so much blood on her hands but she only cares when it’s human blood. all that just for a cure for herself
@@estherisgone she cares only about her family and friends, as does everybody for their own, she is not selfless nor compassionate, i really started getting hella annoyed by elena in early sessions, i mean its the writers mistake because truth is absolutely everything ever was about elena, and I don't understand how most people feel like Elena is sooo compassionate and good and pure and I don't even know what anymore, its so disrespectful towards all the other characters that have suffered just the same as elena and yet made way better and selfless decisions through the show, like there is soo much wrong things with elena im not even going to start
@@srihari1577 yes she’s the Main character but she fucking makes everything about her. I’m fucking tired of the fucking people saying bullshit like “but she’s the main character” 😑🙄 such a shitty excuse. I’ve seen so many shows with main characters which bye the way don’t make everything about them. Elena is by the the most annoying character I’ve ever seen. When she talks the words that always leave her mouth are always “Me!Me! Me!”
@@perlagonzalez2734 one she never makes it baout her this video just put subtitles in such a way it makes it look like it she only thinks its about her when damon and stefan dates rebekah thats purely because they had there heart broken by her so she is trying to make things right and her being the amin character is not an excuse but a clear fact why everything is about her every villan wants to eighter kil her pr use her and unlike the rest she is actually smart she never underestimates anyone she is always ready to kill herself for others and would never kill a large amount of people just to save someone.She is the least manipulative character in this show and behind bonnie in the most innocent.
Bro they just hated her character, even kat said they kept trying to kill her off. And homegirl didn’t even get a happy ending w Enzo, Stefan came and killed him.
@@Val-uz3jf Actually, Stefan is the main character bc it’s his story. Plus, Grams was killed bc Damon wanted to see Katherine. That wasn’t for Elena, it was for him. They all came to Bonnie when they wanted help + then screw her over.
The part where Damon calls Stefan out for sleeping with Rebecca and they all stand silently until Jeremy just starts screaming and tears his shirt open all dramatically will never not be funny to me
Seriously she did nothing but broke everyone's hearts and she got the happy ending. I can't even with the writers of this show. Show was good till season 3
@@shirleylisanna seriously poor Bonnie can never catch a break, idek how she gets up in the mornings. Also Caroline lost Stefan legit on her wedding day 😭😭
@@KoolKukumber it's all bcoz Julie plecs obsession with damon and delena . She ruined the show . If Kevin Williamson was there tvd will be the successful show ever
“I compelled a student to do surgery on Stefan’s niece and you found a way to make this about you God you truly have a gift Elena” couldn’t have said it better myself
She was relating to Caroline. If Elena was simply telling Caroline to not make horrible decisions, the same people claiming Elena was "making it all about herself" would instead be saying that "Elena doesn't know what she's talking about". People respond better to other's who have gone through the same thing and made the same mistakes, than someone who hasn't. Anyone with clear eyes and a non-bias point of view would see that Elena was simply trying to relate to Caroline to help Caroline see that what she was doing was a bad idea, and not "making it about herself".
Right! When I first watched it, it took me atleast a season to get use to Delena. I was actually disgusted by it fr. But now it's Hella relief seeing him put her in her place lol like the girl was really not a good person 🤣 Never noticed it when I was younger
@@leedavies2997 Her presence is,her body,the toll she still has on the characters. Just because she isn't talking or Nina is really there. That character still stinks of a bad smell in season 7.
She was annoyed at Stefan and Damon for liking Rebekah because ‘she tried to kill her.’ But she can be with Damon after he abused Bonnie and Caroline. Like.... Whaa
@@meeresperle6878 plus he killed Bonnie’s mom, threatened to kill Jeremy if Bonnie didn’t pull a witch out of her ass to find Max whatever-field- which Bonnie probably would’ve been fine helping with anyway- and I’m pretty sure threatens to hurt her on multiple occasions if she doesn’t do what he wants
Exactly!! She is always whining about she needs to make choices about how she will live but took away choice of his brother not once but twice!! She's a real hypocrite
@@ElysianLilith seriously I don't get why the brothers even like her, she was no different or special than any of the girls , she didn't have any talent or anything on the other hand Caroline did everything in school , atleast she had a personality...
"Look I know he abused you but I'M HAPPY." I'm dead. My favorite one is the season finale when Stefan is talking to her about something important before he straight up sacrifices himself to save everyone and she's like "but is Damon okay???"
Look jeremy ik damon killed you , and look caroline and Bonnie I also know he abused and tried to kill u both but atleast I'm happy and also let's forget the fact that he tried to turn me into a vampire , acted like he owned me , killed my friend aaron but still I'm happy and idgaf about u all so please don't say anything
@@kezewill5883I mean, it makes sense considering Damon was both her boyfriend and the man she loved, so it makes sense she’d be most concerned about him at the moment
Stefan was still in love with elena...his feelings were back on... You cant just stop loving someone from 1 sec to another... He was just hurt and very, very, very angry...rightfully so... So he probably didnt want to show her he still feels for her... He knew that if she would know that she would use that to her advantage just like she always did
@@JS-lo5pf he wasn’t dealing with her bullshit tho he loved her but he new she was manipulative and Damon didn’t know so technically he wasn’t inlove with her that much at the time cuz he was done with her bullshit
@@deadpooldan9862 It's understandable why Elena did it but it's also understandable why Rebekah tried to kill her the moment she got undaggered. I mean Elena never apologised to her for betraying her trust and literally and figuratively stabbing her in the back. That's the least Elena could have done
@@anyabajaj07 Elena did apologize, while Rebekah was desiccating. Rebekah also tried to kill her the first time they met, if you remember, so it’s not like she didn’t have that coming, especially because they wanted Klaus dead at the time. I get why Rebekah wanted to kill her, but it’s not like she’s innocent, it’s purely revenge while Elena did it to kill Klaus Edit: also, that scene where Elena tells Stefan Rebekah tried to kill her? That’s completely understandable why she’d be so hurt and worried because Rebekah literally killed her, and Stefan should have the decency to not sleep with her the same day she tried to kill all of them. Idc that Elena slept with Damon, she fell for him, while Stefan did it to spite her. There’s no possible world where Stefan would actually sleep with the woman who killed the girl he loved. Even when he slept with Katherine, that’s out of character too, not because he loved Elena, but because it’s just not who he is, that’s more a Damon thing to do. Keep in mind, she wasn’t jealous at all when Stefan started dating Caroline, because Caroline never did anything like what Rebekah and Katherine did, so it was more hurt about the people rather than the act
@@deadpooldan9862 If Elena daggered Rebekah before that episode, it would have been valid because Rebekah did attack Elena when they first met. But in that episode, Elena literally pretended to be her friend. Rebekah was sharing her deepest thoughts and was vulnerable and Elena chose to stab her. The betrayal wasn't just stabbing her, it was pretending to be her friend while doing it.
@@anyabajaj07 meh, Rebekah’s no innocent, and Elena wasn’t pretending, she just didn’t want to risk Klaus not dying, which Rebekah should understand but instead acts all petty
@@CelesteSinger1 and in legacies we've seen him be an extremely good hunter. He protected both rafael and Landon from a werewolf hunter. Even without his hunter strength he is brave enough to stand in front of a 140 year old vampire and trash talk to him. Plus he died 2 or 3 times In the show and he was okay. He deserved much more screen time. At least we know that he spent time as a teacher in the salvators school so that's something but still a show about his life after the events of tvd it would be very interesting
Bonnie and Caroline were literally the charm, strength and attraction of the show.. they were the one to carry 8 seasons on their shoulders.. and Elena was busy looking around for things which were not about her.. and still so many people manage to love her more than Caroline
she truly is the worst friend. like your friends mother just died and yet you STILL find a way to make it about you. not to mention she knew damon abused caroline in s1 and she still chose to date him like girl what
Omgg yes she annoyed me in that scene. "Ik you guys have issues but im happy" she really thinks that everything that happened are jus "issues" that's so inconsiderate especially because she was judging caroline when her and damon first went out. She truly was a horrible friend. And I still can't believe she told caroline that she wasn't getting an apology like what... You did and said horrible things to your friends and suddenly you don't thing you owe them an apology....😬 She is so hypocritical and that's really what pisses me off
At first Caroline was against Elena being in love with Damon but later on she just wanted Elena to be happy and let her do what she wanted . If Elena is a bad friend for that , then is Blair a bad friend for dating Chuck when he tried to rape Serena in the first episode of season 1 ?
I love it when Rebeca says, “it’s really annoying how everyone wants to bend over backwards to save your life, but it makes you the perfect hostage” Thx for all the likes ❤️
And ppl still don't understand why I don't like Elena. Yes she lost a lot of ppl and went thru things but so did everyone else yet they don't act the way she did. Losing ppl doesn't give you the right to act a certain way. She was the only character who could truly grieve while her friends suffered ALL THE TIME. (And no it isn’t entirely Elena’s fault but she even has her moments where she treated her friends so poorly.)
She lost people but was always allowed to grieve. When we first saw her she was going through a grieving period and she was allowed to before school started back. But only Elena was allowed to be sad when Caroline turned off her humanity she tried to have some sort of control still so she wouldn’t regret much when she turned it back on. Bonnie didn’t get to grieve when she lost people she always had to save them and Elena never really cared about others
@@allegraanegra455 I didn’t like Bonnie the first time I watched because she always complained but she never got to fully grieve her nana and other people. it was always « we need a witch » like everything is not about you. I just hated how everyone dropped everything to save and help Elena. Katherine was the first to say how weird and annoying that was. other people have lives too and other shit going on.
I don’t have a problem with Elena crying every one has a certain they act after losing someone it’s just that when ever someone is hurting or going through something she finds a way to make it about herself that’s why I don’t like her I loathe her
bro ikrrr like you're not gonna apologize to your FRIEND who you have HURT just because you're gonna feel bad? You should feel bad, in fact you should feel like shit for being such a bad friend. istg she pisses me off
@@nizjahsmith5730 no, when someone tries to save her, someone dies, like bonnie’s mom when stefan & damon tried to save her before rebekah tried to kill her.
@@nizjahsmith5730 how? she inconsiderate & a hypocrite. one min it’s “yea let’s kill kol 😃” then it’s “no cause many will die 🥺" & then still end up killing kol anyways- same w/ the rebekah situation she stabbed rebekah multiple times but when rebekah does it back she evil... 💀 & the show itself makes elena the center of attention as well w/ having caroline MOTHER die just to turn around have have an happy scene with elena right after.
elena has bella from twilight energy except i can actually put up with bella and i want to throw my phone across the room every time elena opens her damn mouth
EXACTLY! Bella actually respects peoples differences, knows how to stop talking and sometimes tries to fight her own battles, Elena always opens her mouth, she doesn’t respect peoples differences and she relies on people to do stuff for her
LITEEALLY. Bella hated it when Edward and Jacob fought over her and wanted to fight against the newborns. Elena expects people to fight over her and save her. I actually like Bella even though people think Kristen can’t act but she wasn’t this whiny. she might’ve acted awkward and wanted to be a vampire lol but bitch never wanted people to fight over her.
I love how without knowing it, the writers read themselves to filth by trying to play down Bonnie and at the same time made her the most loved character. Bahahaha
“She almost died in my arms Damon. She almost died in my arms.” When you’re not getting enough attention so you make some else’s mum’s death about yourself also when you just saw your best friend hugging her mum’s corpse sobbing then go to the corridors to kiss your boyfriend. Yeah, Elena was the true villain of this show
“Omg why aren’t you obsessing over ME? Even though I dumped you and am sleeping with your brother you should still make your life revolve around ME and not you.”
@@azoloma9647 you do realise that it was stefan that broke up with elena, and she’s genuinely concerned that stefan is sleeping with her actual murderer
@@azoloma9647 damon hurting her brother in a season when he’s still supposed to be the villain for something he literally paid the price for by loosing elena’s friendship and has actually redeemed himself for, is not comparable to stefan sleeping with a powerful 1000 year old original vampire that can easily kill them, and is literally the reason that elena is a vampire.
@@leinaleilani OMG ! I totally forgot about Jo. YES, even after her death,Elena still managed to steal the bloody spotlights with Kai's sudden ultimatum
I love how Elena was so sure about stefan's personality when she only knew him for 1-2 years and he's a hundred years old, like girl, you DONT know him stop
I stopped watching when they killed Kol. I was already losing patience and he was my favorite character. So it was just like 'Nope, fuck this, I'm out.'
It was actually disgusting. Like a pack would've maybe been okay but they looked like they were about to bang. Not something you do when you're feeling sick from someone almost dying in your arms. She's the worst friend lol
@@samanthamatz5300 erm bye it wasnt about her, hr bestie was literally crying on her mothers corspe and shes bolting out like a dummy. please i cant stand her ugh ew
Damon abused,compelled,and feed on carlione and when stefan broke up with elena the first thing she thought of was sleeping with his borther (damon) She is a bad friend, makes everything about herself, and doesn't know anything.
Caroline forced Liam to do open heart surgery on her future bfs niece , Stefan forced Damon to become a vampire and killed thousands (with his humanity on lol) , Klaus killed Elena’s aunt , Enzo tortured the friend group and killed Peeps, yet Bonnie loved him , Caroline slept with Klaus after Klaus had murdered Tyler’s mom. Bonnie hated Caroline once she became a vampire even tho it want Caroline’s choice and Bonnie was the one who made Damon give her his blood. Lol none of these characters are perfect that’s kinda the point 😃👍
@@lailaisyourmomhaha1127 in caroline's defense she flipped the switch bc of vampires bonnie lost one of the most important people in her life she had an excuse to hate vampires
Yeah, because she LITERALLY killed her, and that day tried to kill all of them. At least Damon became a better person. Keep in mind STEFAN never once blamed her for falling for Damon, he blamed himself for pushing her away
@@4eversya not on TVD, she literally never even apologized for what she did to Elena, just that Matt was in the truck. Stefan was wrong for sleeping with her, and she had every right to be upset about it
@@ccvv1119 no she didn’t, Kol was gonna kill her and Jeremy, and threatened them before. Rebekah didn’t kill Elena as revenge, she did it because she was afraid of Alaric, Elena didn’t deserve to die
ok why is no one talking about how she turned caroline’s mother DYING into something about her??????? if you want to show how elena is narcissistic than all you need is that episode.
@@samsampleman2439 yeah but it wasn’t really selfish since she spent the whole day preparing for her mom to be there and she was with Stefan since her mother ASKED him too, since he could help her with the grief, it’s not really the same with Elena though.
@@drstumpy8069 how is it any different? Caroline should've spent the entire time with her preparations instead of finding time to snog Stefan. It wasn't like Elena looked at Liz and then decided to just go and kiss Damon. If you want me to bring context into it, fine. As I recall, Elena went to talk to Damon and after what happened she realized how short life can be (even for an immortal) and that you should appreciate all the time you get with your loved ones. Then they kissed. And kissing someone is never selfish. If Caroline kissing Stefan while her mom is in hospital, no matter what she's been doing in between, it's not selfish for Elena to do the same! Also wasn't it Elena who brought Liz to the hospital after she collapsed, since Caroline wasn't with her? Man she's such a selfish bitch...srsly, you people want to hate on Elena, fine. But don't be a hypocrite about it.
Frrr and they weren’t even broken up for a whole day yet She literally couldn’t wait to sleep with Damon or even just talk about their relationship first Naw straight to sex
Caroline’s mom just died and Caroline is crying in a hospital room by herself. Elena makes it about herself and makes out with the person that abused Caroline after her mom just died. That’s LOW
Klaus tortured and abused everybody in their group, almost did kill Elena, killed Tyler’s mom, and Caroline slept with him. Stefan is the one who turned Damon and made him abusive and made him kill people yet she married him. Guess no one is perfect
The problem isn't that she's self-centered, the problem is that the show is trying to portray her as this sweet down to earth girl next door, whilst also portraying her as the most selfish person in the show with it not even being truly addressed besides a few moments where the writers seem to have a temporary self-awareness of the character they're writing before getting hit with the stupid again and insisting she's some sort of pure soul. There are a lot of great things about this show and universe, Elena ironically isn't one of them, I was fine with her character initially but as I'm watching more of it, her nasty side is becoming more and more apparent. I was flabbergasted when she mentioned committing Vampire genocide on Kol's line as flippantly as one would discuss the daily errands they're about to run, all for her own gain. Christ. With characters like Klaus on the other hand, you know he's bad, but that's not all he is. As you learn more about him in this show and in The Originals you realize that deep down he's just a broken soul who's been hurt severely by the people who were supposed to love and cherish him, and so it has led him to develop a paranoid, ruthless, and cold hearted outlook on the world. While you hate what he does at times, you understand him, even sympathize with him, many others like myself grow to love him, because you know there is good in there, it's just been almost swallowed by a thousand years of heartache, betrayal, survival, grief, anger, and hatred. In the end, his last act of sacrificing himself for the sake of his daughter and anyone else who would potentially share the same fate as her proves what a good heart he ultimately had, buried under the darkness. It'll never cease to befuddle me how on one hand they could write a contradicting mess of a character like Elena, yet also write a brilliant and well executed character like Klaus Mikaelson.
Bonnie should have been the center of this show. She contributes so much more and literally holds everything and everybody together. Always saving the day.
I agree. I didn’t like her at first but she did a lot more than Elena did. All Elena did was complain and make herself seem like the victim. Like I get she went through a lot and I sympathise for her for that but so did everyone else. She acts as though she’s the only one who lost people. She makes her wrongdoings seem justified but when anyone else does something bad she gets angry. Mostly everyone else who went through something still thought of others. ESPECIALLY BONNIE. Like yeah, I found her a bit annoying at first but she went through so much and still put everyone before herself (even someone like Damon) literally none of them would be alive without Bonnie lmao sorry for the rant 😂
I agree but I won't lie it was so fucking annoying in season 1 when she blamed Damon for everything bad when some of it legitimately had nothing to do with him🤣
I already didn’t like Elena but this really just proves how SELFISH she is. And what’s worse is she plays it off with the whole “I’m innocent” “I lost my parents so everyone should feel bad sorry for me forever” act. Like they ALL lost people they ALL went through hardships it wasn’t just her. I don’t think people realize how self-centred and egotistical she really is
Funny how she got her brother back like a month after he died and Matt never got his sister back and she was the only one in his life and when she came back Elena and Bonnie (I think it was them I can’t remember) killed her the same day.
@@theswaggalicious but yeah you right I don’t think a lot of people realized Elena still had Alaric and Jeremy and was the reason Aunt Jenna and her bio parents. Then she got over their deaths quick. Bonnie lost her family and only had her mom who abandoned her and got turned into a vampire because of Elena. Stefan and Damon lost everyone in their family basically bc of Damon and then Damon lost Stefan. Caroline only had her dad. Matt lost his sister because they killed her. Like she wasn’t the only person who lost people and she didn’t even loose that much. Everyone never made it about her but only her safety but she found a way to become a self centered asshole for no reason.
@@Chxrrion same the first time I watched it I hated matt and didn’t focus of Elena. Second and third time I loved Bonnie understood matt and hated elena
I always imagine an alternate TVD universe where there's only 1 season and at the end Stefan and Damon get sick of Elena's shit so they just kill her and then try and work on their problems together and be there for each other. And Bonnie get's a happy ending too because she deserves better.
@@tapititytap This is why Bamon is my number one ship in TVD asides from Klaroline. Bonnie would never have forgiven Damon for killing Aaron if she were in Elena’s position (being Damon’s girlfriend). Damon would have to work for it but stupid Elena forgave him in the blink of an eye. Damon deserved someone with his passion and fire not some girl with a white bread personality. Someone who challenged him to become better, not to hold all his darkness because he wants you with him but because he actually wants to change. Someone who actually understood the complexity that is Damon Salvatore. Damon never wanted to change until he met Bonnie. He truly deserved better. Kindly remind me how Stefan and Damon fell in love with this girl again?
The fact that Elena made the decision to “live a normal life” for Jeremy in order to “protect” him but when Stefan tried to protect her innumerable times she said you can’t make decisions for me these are my choices to make! Hypocrite self centered “main character”
@@annushankar3032 girl he doesn't need her protection he literally only one year younger than her💀 she still took his choice away which makes her a hypocrite
@@annushankar3032 exactly and she the legal guardian for Jeremy it’s literally her job to protect him and make choices for him that will benefit his life
I love how rebekah is literally the reason why anyone knows about the cure as she told stefan and klaus and yet everyone wanted to dagger her so she couldn't get to it. Plus out of everyone Rebekah deserves it as she's centuries older than any of them and has suffered countless times in the past. Like being daggered for decades, her childhood (Mikael), losing the one she loved, watching him burn, runing jer entire life with Klaus and Elijah. She has suffered more than Damon, Elena or Stefan.
And shes the only one who wanted it for a good reason. Stephan only wanted it to get back elena when she's already made it clear she'd still choose damon, elena changed her mind last minute, and Klaus wanted to create an army. Rebeckah is the only one who wanted it for herself, and to be happy. Im still mad about it
well no she hasnt suffered as much as elena all of elena suffereing is because she was a victim of circumstance and never asked to be a doppelganger and the fact that ervery villain always comes for her,whereas rebekah is just a lovestruck fool loving everyone she meets following klaus like a dog and killing eveyone just because she can the only time rebekah was a "good character" was in the orignials where she actually showed human qualities in tvd those human qualities rarely apperaed or appeared after she has done something stupid so ye she iis THE MOST OVERRATED CHARACTER IN ALL OF TVD in TO she is the best
@@srihari1577 how has Elena suffered more than Rebeckah? Rebeckah lost her parents, like 50% of her brothers, and the other 50% are assholes who abandon her everytime she stops being useful. She's had to live lifetimes losing people she loved all while being treated like a dog by her family. All she wanted was to take the cure and live and die as a human. Not to mention she is also a victim of circumstance, she didn't want to be a vampire, thay decision was made for her by klause
Well everything did revolve around her for a long time. And do you even understand the meaning of self centered and pick me?? She wouldn't have asked them hundreds of times to save others instead of her if she was self centered. She wouldn't have died to save her friends life, she wouldn't have told the hybrids to torture her instead of Caroline neither she would have gone to the prison world to save Bonnie and she wouldn't have gone to sleep for 60 years so that her friend could live her life if she was self centered. You all would just speak rubbish to keep up with this Elena hate trend. I know saying any of this wouldn't make you understand anything unless you try to keep a neutral perspective and then watch the series again...
Honestly 8:15 scene not only made it clear that Elena is a self centered person but she is also a pick me like literally she told Caroline that even if he abused her, he always treated me right so there's no problem. Elena reminds me of those "bestfriends" who will be friends with your bullies in highschool just because they didn't treat her like garbage like they did to you and be like "well they are nice to me so idc"
Actually the viewers were supposed to love Elena and hate Katherine because no one wants their show's main female lead to be so widely hated. I don't think it says anything about her acting because it did exactly the opposite of what it was supposed to do which isn't a good thing.
@@sociopath3237 no they just mean that: 2 characters played by the same person, and they love one and hate the other, shows how amazing of an actor she is. despite what the show was supposed to do, nina was able to act out 2 different characters and cause 2 completely different affects on how the audience feels on them :)
Elena is literally the definition of pick me, selfish and self-centered... she’s the worst main character on a show ever. She was tolerable in the first few seasons, but once she became a vampire she annoyed me so much. I was hoping they’ll just kill her off, but nooo they really brought her back AND gave her a happy ending, when no one else got one. (Bonnie was the one who deserved the happy ending, not elena’s selfish ass)
Right!!!! For the most part everyone got screwed on that show at the end and many people died for Elena. I loved Bonnie. She did everything for her friends, died for her friends even, and at the end she got no love- like i think at the last episode she goes exploring? lol. Theres another video that showed how the writers like were throwing shade at Kat Graham- apparently they didn't like her or were racist,etc- who really knows. Now, i look back at Vampire Diaries and wonder why I loved it so much. When it was on it was my fav. The Originals was better in so many ways, but sadly the rushed the last season. As for Legacies- i don't like that show and can't figure out why it's still on- but thats just me
@@elenasalvatore3224 I agree, I don’t understand why everyone hates Elena, because even if she is self centered, she still cares about other people and she literally sacrificed herself to save Matt, that’s how she became a vampire in the first place
The fact that she didn’t want to apologise to Caroline because she didn’t wanna feel bad is a joke. How dare she do such a thing! She always tries to make things about her..
“i compelled a student to perform surgery on Stefan’s niece and you found a way to make this about you??? HAHAHAH GOD you truly have a gift Elena” 💀 CAROLINE GO OFF
……. so stefan did the exact same thing by making every vampire’s experience about his ripper self, and he’s a great guy to you. but elena tries to get caroline’s humanity on, she’s a bad friend and self centered to you, right? and guess who was the first person that caroline apologised to when she turned on her humanity again? that’s right, elena.
@@iluvcupid1009 but even stefan and caroline are more self centered to elena. yet elena gets hate for the exact same thing other characters are praised for. elena simply made caroline’s current experience about her no-humanity experience, to try and turn caroline’s humanity back on. so i don’t see the hate😭
@@gm.8805 foreal does everybody notice elena is self centered bc everyone makes her think she is.. like everyone is always talking abt elena even when shes in a coffin, goodbye shes the main character
Can we talk about how she kissed damon and said Caroline's mom almost died in her arms while she left Caroline sobbing and heartbroken in the next room...what friend she is 😑
@@alishalungeli7785 how did she make it about herself? Other than tell Caroline to learn from elenas mistake- all that the bitch was doing was giving advice.
@@noitsbecky.4291 then what is this whole video about 🤔 and sweetie caroline is one of the best charcter in TVD and she is not that whatever you said . please give more sense in that thing it is strange as your name 😚
And even after all if this, I can’t believe the writers wanted to kill Bonnie off the show so many time because they didn’t like Kat... it’s just crazy to me bc we ALL love Bonnie
I KNOW RIGHT. Also it was mainly Julie Plec who wanted Bonnie off the show. She didn't want to hire her in the first place because she was black, and there was a time she was to be killed off and fired but Ian threatened to leave the show if they did so Julie had to keep her on. If you watch the interviews with both Kat and Julie, you'll see if anyone asks a question about Bonnie, Julie tries to change the subject. She's so bitter that Kat freaking carries the show. No wonder she kept disappearing off the show for some time then coming back smfh.
Whenever someone turns to the 'bad side' or turns their emotions off, it's really just the character realizing that Elena isn't worth dying for and they realize just how narcissistic, egotistical, selfish, and bitchy Elena really is. We saw this with Caroline, Stefan, Damon, etc.
@@Wduck_ Or maybe 95% selfish and 5% selfless. No scratch that. I changed my mind. She's 99.9999% selfish and 0.1 smh % selfless. *shrugging. I hated her from the first ep.
@@Wduck_ it’s easy for her to say she’s so selfless since when it comes down to it she very rarely actually has to sacrifice herself and the things she has and loves It’s always Bonnie and everyone else who ends up hurt, sacrificing something, and saving the day Pretty much every sacrifice Elena made/things she lost and gave up she ends up getting it all back!! She gets her brother back, gets her true love, gets TO BE A HUMAN AGAIN, and the list goes on and on and on
All jokes aside, when Stefan said “You don’t know what I look like when I’m not in love with you” really hit
I know right Elena deserves that, she wants everyone and everything to be about her like girl fuck off
And it was a lie. With her humanity off at the end of season 4, he said he'd take her back in a heartbeat if it was him she truly wanted lol
@@andorianthomas2145 yeah.. he said she's the love of his life. I know Elena doesn't deserve that but idk why it felt good to hear that❤ and when she tells Damon she loves him and he was all teary eyed.. I liked Delena but felt bad for him
@@andorianthomas2145 it might be a lie everyone knows he loves Elena even when he was with Caroline but it just feels good to hear him man up and say "you don't know what I look like when am not in love with you" because throughout the show everything they did was to protect elena so it's good too Stephan stick up for himself ya no😘
@@stellaaa4762 but ikr Bc when Stefan lost his humanity instead of saying u will lose everyone u ever loved she said you will lose be like bih NObODY CaRes bout U
I never noticed how many times characters corrected her “this isn’t about you” went over my head so many times
It pisses me off every time I watch it again but I watch the tvd for Caroline, Damon and bonnie so
Like when Caroline flips her switch, and Elena makes it all about her and Caroline literally calls her out on it lol! I love it
@@darkwitch8648 "i try so hard and i am never the one" still hurts
SAME UNTIL I WATCHED THIS VIDEO WHATTTT
Right
STEFAN ALWAYS CORRECTS HER AND ITS FUNNY
He only started doing it after she started seeing Damon out of anger. When he was with her he would cosign her self-absorbtion that the reason i liked her with Damon because half the time he didn't care how Elena wanted him to solve the problem he did the way he wanted to. Stefan only acted that way was when we was trying to turn her human again because he didn't like her as vampire.
@@lstarsabb girl he liked there for who she was yes he would have wanted her as human but he did care what she was and Mabey He corrected her because it wasn’t always about her like it’s OK for them to stand up to her without y’all always saying he only did it because he felt mad like he did it because not everything is about her
@@lstarsabb true but it wasn't anger he just wasn't blinded by love anymore
LMAO OMG Right
PLSS IM REWATCHING TAHT SHOW BC OF THIS EXACT REASON
Elena: Sleeps, falls in love with Damon and breaks Stefan’s heart
Stefan: I’m not in love with you anymore
Elena: surprise pikachu face
💀
She sleeps with his brother and leaves Stefan for Damon and then says to Stefan “aRe yOu tRying to punish meeee🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️” when she noticed he finally stops paying attention to her
@@Neeya-23 attention seeker at its finest lmao
makes me wish he had said were you trying to punish me by cheating cause you didn't like how i was "treating you"
@@Neeya-23 exacly, how do people not despise that line
“And this will be the second time Damon’s tried to kill Jeremy” Stefans best moment tbh and I’m glad he said it
Right
I don’t understand how she could overlook that. If someone tried to kill my brother twice I would be itching to run them over with my car.
Bronte Lee Exactly the way they wrote Elena was terrible..she’s constantly contradicting herself..she claims to care so much about her friends and family but falls in love with the dude who’s attempted murder on her brother TWICE
@@Naomi_Spencer agree 💯
@@Naomi_Spencer and abuse her best friend
shout out to nina because she really made me hate elena but love katherine so much lmao
Agreed. That shows how skilled of an actress she is.
Facts, she's a good actor.
I love Katherine
@@Fatima-hl2qg same
Lmao yess
The fact she refused to apologize to caroline because she didn’t want to feel bad makes her the worst. Caroline should’ve stopped being her friend after that.
Honestly
So true. Caroline was hurt and wanted answers and all Elena cared about was herself.
@@Ambidextr0uss not to mention she could've killed Bonnie during her fight with Katherine
exactly- like elena tried killing her multiple times with her humanity off
No she shouldn’t Caroline is a judge mental hypocrite. She says hurtful things to Elena all the time and tells all of her Business. Like when Matt said something to Caroline she said I’ve Already been through enough and I don’t need your judgement clouding all over me.But Elena never told any of her secrets yes Elena is self centered and things everything’s about her But Caroline is a terrible friend and I’m surprised they made it that far tbh.
The fact Elena never apologized to anyone for her behavior when she turned off her humanity speaks measures about her personality
Lol she has the audacity to tell Caroline she wouldn't apologize to her because of how it would make HER feel 😭😭. Like wtf who does that?
@Writing-vu4mz unreal man. Elena was scum 😂
@Writing-vu4mz didn't she ?
exacly, she just cries for hours and then goes to her hubby again
EXACTLY
when she didn't apologize to caroline because she didnt wanna feel bad about herself BYE- HOW DO PEOPLE LIKE HER
Sometimes I honestly feel like they just feel bad for her because every time someone say they don't like they be like,"ShE LoSt EvEryOnE".. okay the entire marvel universe lost a lot and you don't see people liking them based of their trama,just who this person acts like.
I think most of us, hell the majority of us watched TVD at a time when we were really young. So yeah the targeted demographic didn’t understand the hidden plots and just realizing it years later.
i don't get it. she demonstrated several times that she was willing to sacrifice herself for others, . yes her character has flaws but that makes her so much more interesting then if she would just always think the right thing. This goody two shoes characters are boring and unrelatable as hell
@@nadinefeiler9204 Yeah but sometimes the self sacrifice was totally not necessary, it was just her ignoring the advice of others that were trying to make sure she survives and getting them into deeper trouble.
@@nadinefeiler9204 she was willing, but she never did, she killed so many vampires when she killed kol, she is a self centered manipulative hypocrite girl, katherine suffered so much which made her evil(and connects to the real world), bonnie is selfless and sacrifices everything she had, and caroline, she cares more than anyone, she is def the most relatable character in the show alongside bonnie
I just realized how SELFISH of a decision Elena made by having Jeremy kill Kol. She had no idea what went on in the lives of the vampires Kol turned. She was just ok with having all of them desiccate.
Exactly
and the fact everyone always said she wa sso compassionate and selfless pls there is so much blood on her hands but she only cares when it’s human blood. all that just for a cure for herself
@@estherisgone fr
@@estherisgone she might have even killed more than the villains in the show...
@@estherisgone she cares only about her family and friends, as does everybody for their own, she is not selfless nor compassionate, i really started getting hella annoyed by elena in early sessions, i mean its the writers mistake because truth is absolutely everything ever was about elena, and I don't understand how most people feel like Elena is sooo compassionate and good and pure and I don't even know what anymore, its so disrespectful towards all the other characters that have suffered just the same as elena and yet made way better and selfless decisions through the show, like there is soo much wrong things with elena im not even going to start
i can’t tell you how much i love no humanity caroline. “god you still find a way to make this about you you truly have a gift”
YESS OMGG NO HUMANITY CAROLINEEE>NO HUMANITY ELENAA ,ELENA SUCKS ANYWAYS BUT..
YES
@@aaniaax8018 FACTS
That’s literally all Caroline did, don’t see why y’all praise her but then hate Elena when literally things were about her. Just dumb hypocrites
@@jayyveonn i hate elena sm she’s so winey but i like nina i think the writers just did her really dirty
"oh, get over it elena. It's not all about you" ~Rebekah Mikaelson
I’m dead at the amount of times the other characters are basically like “not everything is about you” 😭
Everything should be tho....like with you....Everything should be about you! I'd be the 1st to defend you if someone said otherwise!
And she never listens, I don't know how many times she has to hear that til it finally starts syncing in
but it is she is the main character and everything happens to her
@@srihari1577 yes she’s the Main character but she fucking makes everything about her. I’m fucking tired of the fucking people saying bullshit like “but she’s the main character” 😑🙄 such a shitty excuse. I’ve seen so many shows with main characters which bye the way don’t make everything about them. Elena is by the the most annoying character I’ve ever seen. When she talks the words that always leave her mouth are always “Me!Me! Me!”
@@perlagonzalez2734 one she never makes it baout her this video just put subtitles in such a way it makes it look like it she only thinks its about her when damon and stefan dates rebekah thats purely because they had there heart broken by her so she is trying to make things right and her being the amin character is not an excuse but a clear fact why everything is about her every villan wants to eighter kil her pr use her and unlike the rest she is actually smart she never underestimates anyone she is always ready to kill herself for others and would never kill a large amount of people just to save someone.She is the least manipulative character in this show and behind bonnie in the most innocent.
Bonnie is literally the perfect of example of being of being an amazing and selfless person and it still meaning nothing in the end like...
Bro they just hated her character, even kat said they kept trying to kill her off. And homegirl didn’t even get a happy ending w Enzo, Stefan came and killed him.
@@kaithlynobando7432 literally, they killed off any character who made Bonnie happy. And turned her mom into a vampire just to save Elena. 🙄
@@Elleuminated well uh she is the main character-
@@Val-uz3jf Actually, Stefan is the main character bc it’s his story. Plus, Grams was killed bc Damon wanted to see Katherine. That wasn’t for Elena, it was for him. They all came to Bonnie when they wanted help + then screw her over.
@@Elleuminated yup
I love how the fandom collectively thinks Elena is annoying but loves Nina Dobrev.
really
😂😂😂
Because nina Dobrev is beautiful 😍😍😍😍
nah i love elena
@@kaysieonno1137 me too
The part where Damon calls Stefan out for sleeping with Rebecca and they all stand silently until Jeremy just starts screaming and tears his shirt open all dramatically will never not be funny to me
RIGHT
Katherine stuffing her handbag full of sandwiches will never not be funny to me
I'd like to think he screamed on purpose to change the subject 😂
@@hanniballecter5383I love that 😂😂
She was the only one who got a happy ending, if that isn’t a joke idk what is
fr tho i cant even
Seriously she did nothing but broke everyone's hearts and she got the happy ending. I can't even with the writers of this show. Show was good till season 3
RIGHT LIKE WTF BRO BONNIE SHOULDVE GOTTEN HER HAPPY ENDING WITH ENZO UGHHH
@@shirleylisanna seriously poor Bonnie can never catch a break, idek how she gets up in the mornings. Also Caroline lost Stefan legit on her wedding day 😭😭
@@KoolKukumber it's all bcoz Julie plecs obsession with damon and delena . She ruined the show . If Kevin Williamson was there tvd will be the successful show ever
Jo died pregnant at her own wedding and things were still about elena...
facts
@@isamaria3356 alaric was literally destroying and screaming for help and nobody even try to help him it was like only Elena was important
@@isamaria3356 vc é br?
@@Prettylittlebites Sou kk
@@isamaria3356 jkkkkk
"Why didn't you tell me?"
*"because it had nothing to do with you."*
Periodt
oh dang I just came back to watch someone else who agrees with me abt how shitty Elena is and saw this comment-
“I compelled a student to do surgery on Stefan’s niece and you found a way to make this about you God you truly have a gift Elena” couldn’t have said it better myself
She was relating to Caroline. If Elena was simply telling Caroline to not make horrible decisions, the same people claiming Elena was "making it all about herself" would instead be saying that "Elena doesn't know what she's talking about". People respond better to other's who have gone through the same thing and made the same mistakes, than someone who hasn't. Anyone with clear eyes and a non-bias point of view would see that Elena was simply trying to relate to Caroline to help Caroline see that what she was doing was a bad idea, and not "making it about herself".
@@elistari1050someone with a brain
Elena literally slept with Damon the second she broke up with Stefan
@@elistari1050 Yes she is making it about herself
She cares about Stefan sleeping with Rebekah but she’s sleeping with the person who tried to kill her brother 🤦🏾♀️
exactly
Dont forget he actually did kill him lmao he was lucky Jeremy had his ring
Let’s not forget that Damon and Stefan are brothers and she slept wit both 🤦🏾♀️ like she juss keeping it in da family
@@Camarievo so Katherine did too ahahaha
but we love Katherine more ahaha
I need the episode when Elena says, “Rebekah tried to kill me wah wah” and Stefan says, Damon has killed Jeremy twice”
This deserves more likes lol.
I thought I was the only one who hated her character. At least Katherine didn't pretend to be something she's not
Darn idk the excact episode but its season 4
I think it's 4x11
Season 4 episode 11
Fr
There is nothing more perfect than Stefan who is not in love with Elena and is just constantly putting her in her place, I love it
lmaooo and yet he sobs over elena not loving him anymore and cried when elena chose damon. you see stefan’s hypocrisy?
"Constantly putting her in her place" lol try harder. Stefan is a douche to everybody when his humanity is off.
Right! When I first watched it, it took me atleast a season to get use to Delena. I was actually disgusted by it fr. But now it's Hella relief seeing him put her in her place lol like the girl was really not a good person 🤣 Never noticed it when I was younger
Stefan cried when Elena chose Damon over him 😑
@@gm.8805 welp. He got with Caroline and that crying was over, last time I checked Caroline got the ring. And Elena didn’t, stay mad at that🥰
The amount of times Stefan and other characters had to tell her “we’re not here for you” when she would thank them is ridiculous😂
She doesn't need 9 minutes she got a whole 8 season show
6*
@@milena1627 7*
@@leedavies2997 8*
@@dareloldicksin3982 She is not in Season 7.
@@leedavies2997 Her presence is,her body,the toll she still has on the characters. Just because she isn't talking or Nina is really there. That character still stinks of a bad smell in season 7.
She was annoyed at Stefan and Damon for liking Rebekah because ‘she tried to kill her.’ But she can be with Damon after he abused Bonnie and Caroline. Like.... Whaa
Fr and trued to kill her brother 2 times
Exactly !!! She's a hypocrite .
Yeah right but when did he abuse Bonnie ?
@@meeresperle6878 he just kind of manipulated her in the start and he tried to kill her one time but it was more Caroline than Bonnie
@@meeresperle6878 plus he killed Bonnie’s mom, threatened to kill Jeremy if Bonnie didn’t pull a witch out of her ass to find Max whatever-field- which Bonnie probably would’ve been fine helping with anyway- and I’m pretty sure threatens to hurt her on multiple occasions if she doesn’t do what he wants
“give her a break elena you can’t control what everyone does all the time” ~ bonnie
PERIOD QUEEN YOU TELL EM💅🏽😫
Truee ....Elena selfish and only self concerned 😏...and Rebekah was released right to Stefan :)))) the girl who always thinks about herself😏😏
Exactly!! She is always whining about she needs to make choices about how she will live but took away choice of his brother not once but twice!! She's a real hypocrite
Bonnie is the Best!!! And Rebekah too!! They literally called out on her selfishness. I stan those queens 👑👸👸
Bonnie, Caroline, and Rebekah are the captains of the anti- Elena ship
@@chloebrown9106 katherine and rebekah**
the joy i felt when stefan said “you don’t know what i look like when i’m not in love with you” GO OFF STEFAN
if Stefan and Damon stopped putting up with her shit the show would be over before the end of season 1
Omg yes lmao. Seriously. Why the hell were the both of them fighting over this one damn girl for so long istg.
@@ElysianLilith FR!!
@@prettypixie8053 nahhhhhhh she was a bishh and you do realise most people in this show turned when they were teenagers or early adults
@@ElysianLilith They BOTH deserve better damnit
@@ElysianLilith seriously I don't get why the brothers even like her, she was no different or special than any of the girls , she didn't have any talent or anything on the other hand Caroline did everything in school , atleast she had a personality...
I feel like as the series went on she became more selfish and annoying. Especially when she became a vampire.
Everything about your personality is amplified - Stefan 😂
@@Elizaqeth Lol🤣🤣
especially without her humanity😭 she thought she was all that
I honestly liked her before she become a vampire and became 'damondamondamon' and became super selfish
@@alexa1707 YEESSS. I just got to that part n her “im so tough and cool and emotion-less” act is really making me annoyed 😑
Jeremy ripping off his shirt is the most funniest and over dramatic thing ever lmao
LMAO AND BONNIES FACE WHILE DOING IT😂
It was funny asf 😂😂😂😂
Yo, that was so random. Everyone just stares. LMAO
LMAOOO!!! Nahhh, I had to run that back. 😂
PLSS
"Look I know he abused you but I'M HAPPY." I'm dead.
My favorite one is the season finale when Stefan is talking to her about something important before he straight up sacrifices himself to save everyone and she's like "but is Damon okay???"
The season when Bonnie and Damon were stock in 1994, Bonnie brought ppl back from the dead but all Elena cared about was Damon.
Look jeremy ik damon killed you , and look caroline and Bonnie I also know he abused and tried to kill u both but atleast I'm happy and also let's forget the fact that he tried to turn me into a vampire , acted like he owned me , killed my friend aaron but still I'm happy and idgaf about u all so please don't say anything
@@jishajawa9045 is that a real line? Sorry I haven't watched it for a while
@@mira_solunaterra nah nah
I was just trying to sarcastically tell how damon and Elena's relationship was based
@@kezewill5883I mean, it makes sense considering Damon was both her boyfriend and the man she loved, so it makes sense she’d be most concerned about him at the moment
elena getting a happy ending and not bonnie and caroline was the shittiest thing.
Fr
well surprise... she's the main character
@@viviane3723 lmaoo noo this is stefan's story
@@lanasaab1473 PERIOD
Agreed man
the best thing that happened to this show was stefan being mean to elena when he wasn’t in love with her anymore 😭✌🏻💀
Yaa he rlly pulled the uno reverse card on her😭😂
@@jt03336 yes 💀💀💀
Stefan was still in love with elena...his feelings were back on...
You cant just stop loving someone from 1 sec to another...
He was just hurt and very, very, very angry...rightfully so...
So he probably didnt want to show her he still feels for her...
He knew that if she would know that she would use that to her advantage just like she always did
@@JS-lo5pf he wasn’t dealing with her bullshit tho he loved her but he new she was manipulative and Damon didn’t know so technically he wasn’t inlove with her that much at the time cuz he was done with her bullshit
@@yalikejazz2328 yeah i get what you mean...but just because youre done with someone doesnt mean you lose feelings...but i do get what you mean
there's a longer version of this video and it's called "the vampire diaries"
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Elena about rebekkah: "She tried to kill me"
Also Elena: *Backstabs Rebekkah when she thought her as a friend*
Yeah, because she wanted to kill Klaus and feared Rebekah would ruin that. She didn’t want to risk all their freedoms on a chance, especially Stefan’s
@@deadpooldan9862 It's understandable why Elena did it but it's also understandable why Rebekah tried to kill her the moment she got undaggered. I mean Elena never apologised to her for betraying her trust and literally and figuratively stabbing her in the back. That's the least Elena could have done
@@anyabajaj07 Elena did apologize, while Rebekah was desiccating. Rebekah also tried to kill her the first time they met, if you remember, so it’s not like she didn’t have that coming, especially because they wanted Klaus dead at the time. I get why Rebekah wanted to kill her, but it’s not like she’s innocent, it’s purely revenge while Elena did it to kill Klaus
Edit: also, that scene where Elena tells Stefan Rebekah tried to kill her? That’s completely understandable why she’d be so hurt and worried because Rebekah literally killed her, and Stefan should have the decency to not sleep with her the same day she tried to kill all of them. Idc that Elena slept with Damon, she fell for him, while Stefan did it to spite her. There’s no possible world where Stefan would actually sleep with the woman who killed the girl he loved. Even when he slept with Katherine, that’s out of character too, not because he loved Elena, but because it’s just not who he is, that’s more a Damon thing to do. Keep in mind, she wasn’t jealous at all when Stefan started dating Caroline, because Caroline never did anything like what Rebekah and Katherine did, so it was more hurt about the people rather than the act
@@deadpooldan9862 If Elena daggered Rebekah before that episode, it would have been valid because Rebekah did attack Elena when they first met. But in that episode, Elena literally pretended to be her friend. Rebekah was sharing her deepest thoughts and was vulnerable and Elena chose to stab her. The betrayal wasn't just stabbing her, it was pretending to be her friend while doing it.
@@anyabajaj07 meh, Rebekah’s no innocent, and Elena wasn’t pretending, she just didn’t want to risk Klaus not dying, which Rebekah should understand but instead acts all petty
Elena literally treats Jeremy as if he's five, he's only a year younger than her and can probably last longer out in the field then she can.
Jeremy developed a higher emotional maturity than Elena by season 3 😥😥
Right💀
And he’s a whole ass hunter later on in the series 😭😭
Fr and she literally drinks and parties in front of him all the time while being underage but expects him not to???
@@CelesteSinger1 and in legacies we've seen him be an extremely good hunter. He protected both rafael and Landon from a werewolf hunter. Even without his hunter strength he is brave enough to stand in front of a 140 year old vampire and trash talk to him. Plus he died 2 or 3 times In the show and he was okay. He deserved much more screen time. At least we know that he spent time as a teacher in the salvators school so that's something but still a show about his life after the events of tvd it would be very interesting
I noticed that Elena deadass told Stefan “this isn’t like you” when he didn’t do what she wanted. That’s manipulative
She says that when he goes rogue. U do realize Stefan goes off the rails like 10 times right? 💀😭
They are acting😂
i also think that gaslighting.
@@ItsHer808 we are obviously talking about the characters. It's a movie, we can critique it
when stefan lied and gaslighted elena in season 1, what about that?
Bonnie and Caroline were literally the charm, strength and attraction of the show.. they were the one to carry 8 seasons on their shoulders.. and Elena was busy looking around for things which were not about her.. and still so many people manage to love her more than Caroline
I agree literally Elena was the most selfish character in that show
right!! loved katherine tho
Elena literally slept with damon and still expected stefan to be in love w her 😐
She is such a bivh
@@TytyandChelsea Vampires can't procreate.
@@-SPECTRE- I literally said IF she was still human lol
@@TytyandChelsea lol even if she was, Stefan and Damon cannot procreate.
Learn to read and understand the difference between humans and vampires.
and then she says she’s different from kathrine and does the same thing . 😭
she truly is the worst friend. like your friends mother just died and yet you STILL find a way to make it about you. not to mention she knew damon abused caroline in s1 and she still chose to date him like girl what
that last scene truly showed how bad of a person elena rly is. like she literally started making out with damon even though her friends mom died
Omgg yes she annoyed me in that scene. "Ik you guys have issues but im happy" she really thinks that everything that happened are jus "issues" that's so inconsiderate especially because she was judging caroline when her and damon first went out. She truly was a horrible friend. And I still can't believe she told caroline that she wasn't getting an apology like what... You did and said horrible things to your friends and suddenly you don't thing you owe them an apology....😬 She is so hypocritical and that's really what pisses me off
@@wspvee i know she’s so annoying
At first Caroline was against Elena being in love with Damon but later on she just wanted Elena to be happy and let her do what she wanted . If Elena is a bad friend for that , then is Blair a bad friend for dating Chuck when he tried to rape Serena in the first episode of season 1 ?
@@azzz7279 it’s not about elena being in love with damon. it’s about the fact that she starting making out with him while her friend was in pain.
I love it when Rebeca says, “it’s really annoying how everyone wants to bend over backwards to save your life, but it makes you the perfect hostage”
Thx for all the likes ❤️
Why is there no replies
Rebekah always points out true things.
That quote really much sums it up.
Yeh elena so selfish i never got why klaus didnt kill her she killed kol for her own means made me so mad
@@national7846 plot armour, dude.
i always found it funny when Elena would say “this isn’t you :((“ as if damon and stefan didn’t live for almost 2 centuries before she met them
😂
Fact 😂
Right and she kept saying to everyone that "I know you better than anyone" i mean seriously 😂
bro it’s funny how we humans have 7 trillion nerves in our bodies and Elena manages to hit every single one I swear
This is fucking golden
LMFAO FR
Wait till you see Ginny in Ginny and Georgie. 💀
@@amritadash8444 Bro she was so freaking annoying and also very selfish
RIGHT
And ppl still don't understand why I don't like Elena. Yes she lost a lot of ppl and went thru things but so did everyone else yet they don't act the way she did. Losing ppl doesn't give you the right to act a certain way. She was the only character who could truly grieve while her friends suffered ALL THE TIME. (And no it isn’t entirely Elena’s fault but she even has her moments where she treated her friends so poorly.)
she complains at damon and stefan for saying her ideas were bad or something, but then constantly takes away everyone else’s choices 😐
She lost people but was always allowed to grieve. When we first saw her she was going through a grieving period and she was allowed to before school started back. But only Elena was allowed to be sad when Caroline turned off her humanity she tried to have some sort of control still so she wouldn’t regret much when she turned it back on. Bonnie didn’t get to grieve when she lost people she always had to save them and Elena never really cared about others
Exactlyyy
@@allegraanegra455 I didn’t like Bonnie the first time I watched because she always complained but she never got to fully grieve her nana and other people. it was always « we need a witch » like everything is not about you. I just hated how everyone dropped everything to save and help Elena. Katherine was the first to say how weird and annoying that was. other people have lives too and other shit going on.
I don’t have a problem with Elena crying every one has a certain they act after losing someone it’s just that when ever someone is hurting or going through something she finds a way to make it about herself that’s why I don’t like her I loathe her
She was the least likeable character...and I'm saying this in a show full of villains
RIGHTTTT
Exactly I love most of the villains
You’re forgetting about mattie boo
@@hanahrose7309 TRUE
@@hanahrose7309 I like matt
Caroline calling her out was the most satisfying THING EVER - 😭🤚
“If you’re waiting for an apology, you’re not going to get one because if i let myself feel bad..”-- wtf elena
bro ikrrr like you're not gonna apologize to your FRIEND who you have HURT just because you're gonna feel bad? You should feel bad, in fact you should feel like shit for being such a bad friend. istg she pisses me off
Well u try turning off ur humanity and say and do horrible things.
If she wasn't going to apologize, she could have told Caroline that she didn't actually mean those things but she couldn't even do that.
Couldn't she just like fake it lol
@@HawaiianGirl808232 FR
SHE MAKES HERSELF THE VICTIM
Because sometimes she is the viticm
Literally
@@nizjahsmith5730 no, when someone tries to save her, someone dies, like bonnie’s mom when stefan & damon tried to save her before rebekah tried to kill her.
@@nizjahsmith5730 how? she inconsiderate & a hypocrite. one min it’s “yea let’s kill kol 😃” then it’s “no cause many will die 🥺" & then still end up killing kol anyways- same w/ the rebekah situation she stabbed rebekah multiple times but when rebekah does it back she evil... 💀 & the show itself makes elena the center of attention as well w/ having caroline MOTHER die just to turn around have have an happy scene with elena right after.
I don’t see Elena as the “center of attention” one
elena has bella from twilight energy except i can actually put up with bella and i want to throw my phone across the room every time elena opens her damn mouth
meow YESS Thank you x
EXACTLY! Bella actually respects peoples differences, knows how to stop talking and sometimes tries to fight her own battles, Elena always opens her mouth, she doesn’t respect peoples differences and she relies on people to do stuff for her
LITEEALLY. Bella hated it when Edward and Jacob fought over her and wanted to fight against the newborns. Elena expects people to fight over her and save her. I actually like Bella even though people think Kristen can’t act but she wasn’t this whiny. she might’ve acted awkward and wanted to be a vampire lol but bitch never wanted people to fight over her.
So you saying she can’t talk now you look dumb , humans and supernatural needs a mouth to talk😘👌🏾
Nizjah Smith huh ?
I love how without knowing it, the writers read themselves to filth by trying to play down Bonnie and at the same time made her the most loved character. Bahahaha
Elena is the kind of woman that’ll make her daughter feel awful for not picking the wedding dress she (Elena) wanted.
She's also probably the kind of woman to wear a fancy white dress to the wedding.
@@Mels0103 yeah like she will act like the bride
🤣🤣🤣
Guys aren't you being a bit obssesed you know it is just a movie and elena is just a character like others(don't wanna sound rude)
@@Alosra-l5f How is making a comment about a character obsessed ??
Aren't you being a bit dramatic.
“ThIs IsN’t YoU yOu’Re AcTiNg OuT,” Not Elena being a pick me- 😐✋🏻
“Stefan this..this isn’t you🥺”
@@alisha1970 «You.. You always follow what i say blindly and care about me above your own life... Whats the matter.....🥺»
LMFAOOOOOOO
PLEASE 🤣
Do you even know what that means?...
“She almost died in my arms Damon. She almost died in my arms.” When you’re not getting enough attention so you make some else’s mum’s death about yourself also when you just saw your best friend hugging her mum’s corpse sobbing then go to the corridors to kiss your boyfriend. Yeah, Elena was the true villain of this show
@Collin Toews They made katherine so dickmatised by stefan even though Katherine would have definitely booked it the minute she got into Elena's body.
Fr i hate this girl so much
Elena wasn’t a villain but she was a 2nd matt
Liz did not die in this scene. look at her hand at 9:15.
she said, "she almost died in my arms"
Stefan putting her in check is the best thing I've ever seen today
Stefan: “You don’t know what I look like when I’m not in love with you.”
Elena: *VISIBLE CONFUSION*
“Omg why aren’t you obsessing over ME? Even though I dumped you and am sleeping with your brother you should still make your life revolve around ME and not you.”
@@azoloma9647 you do realise that it was stefan that broke up with elena, and she’s genuinely concerned that stefan is sleeping with her actual murderer
and yet stefan was crying when elena chose damon over him. you see his hypocrisy?
@@gm.8805 Damon tried to kill her brother more than once but okay-
@@azoloma9647 damon hurting her brother in a season when he’s still supposed to be the villain for something he literally paid the price for by loosing elena’s friendship and has actually redeemed himself for, is not comparable to stefan sleeping with a powerful 1000 year old original vampire that can easily kill them, and is literally the reason that elena is a vampire.
when alarics fiancé who was pregnant with his kids was murdered at the altar and it was STILL all about elena-
BRO FRRRRR like danggggggg
Jenna was preggers ?
@@ferielelloumi113 they mean jo. idk if you’ve gotten there yet
@@leinaleilani OMG ! I totally forgot about Jo. YES, even after her death,Elena still managed to steal the bloody spotlights with Kai's sudden ultimatum
@@ferielelloumi113 exactly! RIP JO 😔
The shows victim : *Elena*
The actual victim : *Bonnie*
THIS
Exactly
We love Bonnie way more than Elena
@@vee9574 Exactly! Bonnie should be the main caracter. She has the personality, looks and is actually interesting. Bonnie>Elena
THIS. BONNIE DESERVED BETTER
I love her. The audacity is UNMATCHED. The Bojack Horseman of teenage girls.
nina is such a good actress, but elena is so self centered 😀
@lol idek no she didn't know she was gonna 'die'
@lol idek SHE DIDNT KNOW SHE WAS GONNA DIE
yessss
@@kinmsheaa that’s kind of the point of their comment-
“NINA is a good actress”
“ELENA is so self centered” lol
nina is an amazing actress. Katherine Pierce is an example of nina's acting istg ♥♥
*Caroline's mom dies *
Elena: "omd u let your mom die how could you do this to me”
Lmaoo it's kinda ironic how this was actually what Damon thought (he blamed Caroline for giving vampire blood to her mom)💀
LITERALLY OMFG
💀💀💀💀
🤣🤣🤣
@@fangirlinneverland6335 (I hate Damon, but) actually, he was upset because Caroline's mother was one of the few people he considered to be a friend
I love how Elena was so sure about stefan's personality when she only knew him for 1-2 years and he's a hundred years old, like girl, you DONT know him stop
Lmaoo I didn't even think about that
@@nectarine1257 yeah me neither
every time stefan ends elena a part of my soul heals
She gets more and more annoying as the show goes on istg-
I stopped watching when they killed Kol. I was already losing patience and he was my favorite character. So it was just like 'Nope, fuck this, I'm out.'
@@REDridingh00d16 right kol was so go I love the whole family I was pissed when they killed him
fr I actually used to like her in the first season but not anymore
I started to hate her when she was with Damon
@@REDridingh00d16 the worst part is how tf they killed an original like it was so easy😂
THE FACT THAT LIZ DIED AND ELENA WENT OUT TO MAKE OUT WITH DAMON IS SO.... ELENA
She didn’t go out to make out with Damon, she went out because Liz nearly died in her arms, she was freaking out and Damon was comforting her
It was actually disgusting. Like a pack would've maybe been okay but they looked like they were about to bang. Not something you do when you're feeling sick from someone almost dying in your arms. She's the worst friend lol
@@samanthamatz5300 erm bye it wasnt about her, hr bestie was literally crying on her mothers corspe and shes bolting out like a dummy. please i cant stand her ugh ew
@@samanthamatz5300 Why couldn’t she hug him? A hug would have been more powerful! Why was kissing or sex the only thing in her mind?
@@TytyandChelsea damon and elena always make out or have sex when stuff like this happens it’s really annoying
Damon abused,compelled,and feed on carlione and when stefan broke up with elena the first thing she thought of was sleeping with his borther (damon) She is a bad friend, makes everything about herself, and doesn't know anything.
Klaus killed Jenna and almost killed Elena and used her as a blood bag. Stefen killed Enzo and she married him. Guess no one is perfect.
Caroline forced Liam to do open heart surgery on her future bfs niece , Stefan forced Damon to become a vampire and killed thousands (with his humanity on lol) , Klaus killed Elena’s aunt , Enzo tortured the friend group and killed Peeps, yet Bonnie loved him , Caroline slept with Klaus after Klaus had murdered Tyler’s mom. Bonnie hated Caroline once she became a vampire even tho it want Caroline’s choice and Bonnie was the one who made Damon give her his blood. Lol none of these characters are perfect that’s kinda the point 😃👍
@@lailaisyourmomhaha1127 in caroline's defense she flipped the switch bc of vampires bonnie lost one of the most important people in her life she had an excuse to hate vampires
@@lailaisyourmomhaha1127 but Bonnie had every right to hate vampires
@@willow9912 Thank you
Elena: Look I know you two have issues with him, but I'm HAPPY!!
Also Elena: How could you sleep with her, she just tried to kill me!!
Yeah, because she LITERALLY killed her, and that day tried to kill all of them. At least Damon became a better person. Keep in mind STEFAN never once blamed her for falling for Damon, he blamed himself for pushing her away
@@deadpooldan9862Rebekah also became a better person
@@4eversya not on TVD, she literally never even apologized for what she did to Elena, just that Matt was in the truck. Stefan was wrong for sleeping with her, and she had every right to be upset about it
@@deadpooldan9862Elena deserved what she got she killed Rebekah’s brother lmao she shouldn’t get a free pass it’s her karma
@@ccvv1119 no she didn’t, Kol was gonna kill her and Jeremy, and threatened them before. Rebekah didn’t kill Elena as revenge, she did it because she was afraid of Alaric, Elena didn’t deserve to die
ok why is no one talking about how she turned caroline’s mother DYING into something about her??????? if you want to show how elena is narcissistic than all you need is that episode.
Or how 2 minutes later she kissed Damon while Care was devastated, what an amazing friend
I remember screaming at the tv with that one. I also screamed at the tv when she was like, "bUt Bonnie WaS alwAyS TheRe FoR Me..." 🙄
@@weareone9341 and Caroline was busy making out with Stefan before her mom died. Your point?
@@samsampleman2439 yeah but it wasn’t really selfish since she spent the whole day preparing for her mom to be there and she was with Stefan since her mother ASKED him too, since he could help her with the grief, it’s not really the same with Elena though.
@@drstumpy8069 how is it any different? Caroline should've spent the entire time with her preparations instead of finding time to snog Stefan. It wasn't like Elena looked at Liz and then decided to just go and kiss Damon. If you want me to bring context into it, fine. As I recall, Elena went to talk to Damon and after what happened she realized how short life can be (even for an immortal) and that you should appreciate all the time you get with your loved ones. Then they kissed. And kissing someone is never selfish. If Caroline kissing Stefan while her mom is in hospital, no matter what she's been doing in between, it's not selfish for Elena to do the same! Also wasn't it Elena who brought Liz to the hospital after she collapsed, since Caroline wasn't with her? Man she's such a selfish bitch...srsly, you people want to hate on Elena, fine. But don't be a hypocrite about it.
Elena: “Caroline’s mom almost died in my arms”
Also Elena: *makes out with Damon in front of the room*
I KNOW RIGHT!!!!!!!!!
and she says "immortal or whatever, there's just really less time left to live" or something, i dont remember the exact words
Dude she’s horrible 😂😂😂😂
@@stephflgirl2091 ISTG
I JUST GOT DONE WATCHING THAT EPISODE FOR THE THIRD TIME AND ITS JUST NOW BLOWING MY MIND HOW THEY MADE OUT DURING THAT
@@diamondamora8582 IKR
Bro Kai literally did everyone a favor at the end of s6
Edit: WOW NEVER THOUGHT I’D GET THIS MANY LIKES, TY
Exactly that’s why I personally don’t think season 7 was that bad bc it didn’t revolve around her
@@toriedavis4507 s7 was boring to me, not because elena wasnt there, just because i feel like everyone was over it..
IKR
@@haddiedoesstuff honestly facts, but the more i watched it, the more i liked it
one of the many reasons why i love him he will be missed😭 elena won't (I high key want someone to push her down the stairs)
Can we all agree that we hate Elena
Katherine is literally an icon
Elena is literally surprised that stefans mad at her, but Elena is sleeping with his brother like tf.
Frrr and they weren’t even broken up for a whole day yet
She literally couldn’t wait to sleep with Damon or even just talk about their relationship first
Naw straight to sex
Caroline’s mom just died and Caroline is crying in a hospital room by herself. Elena makes it about herself and makes out with the person that abused Caroline after her mom just died. That’s LOW
AND SHE WALKS OUT OF THE ROOM SAYING SHE NEEDS SOME AIR?????
exactly. I felt cringe . I wondered if anyone else was annoyed by that wtf
@devilishbanshee fr
Klaus tortured and abused everybody in their group, almost did kill Elena, killed Tyler’s mom, and Caroline slept with him. Stefan is the one who turned Damon and made him abusive and made him kill people yet she married him. Guess no one is perfect
@@emeliaroberts470 yea ig but i still dont like elena lol
The show should have been about Bonnie but you didn’t hear it from me
this person is speaking true facts like I literally love you
Yess this is so true, Bonnie truly carried the whole show. Without her they would all be dead by the end of season one lol.
Yeeesss it would have been way more interesting.
FACTS but the writers & Julie Plec are racists & keep giving her shit storylines & keep killing her off
The show should be about Stefan because he is the main character ,but someone forgot.
The problem isn't that she's self-centered, the problem is that the show is trying to portray her as this sweet down to earth girl next door, whilst also portraying her as the most selfish person in the show with it not even being truly addressed besides a few moments where the writers seem to have a temporary self-awareness of the character they're writing before getting hit with the stupid again and insisting she's some sort of pure soul. There are a lot of great things about this show and universe, Elena ironically isn't one of them, I was fine with her character initially but as I'm watching more of it, her nasty side is becoming more and more apparent. I was flabbergasted when she mentioned committing Vampire genocide on Kol's line as flippantly as one would discuss the daily errands they're about to run, all for her own gain. Christ.
With characters like Klaus on the other hand, you know he's bad, but that's not all he is. As you learn more about him in this show and in The Originals you realize that deep down he's just a broken soul who's been hurt severely by the people who were supposed to love and cherish him, and so it has led him to develop a paranoid, ruthless, and cold hearted outlook on the world. While you hate what he does at times, you understand him, even sympathize with him, many others like myself grow to love him, because you know there is good in there, it's just been almost swallowed by a thousand years of heartache, betrayal, survival, grief, anger, and hatred. In the end, his last act of sacrificing himself for the sake of his daughter and anyone else who would potentially share the same fate as her proves what a good heart he ultimately had, buried under the darkness.
It'll never cease to befuddle me how on one hand they could write a contradicting mess of a character like Elena, yet also write a brilliant and well executed character like Klaus Mikaelson.
Bonnie should have been the center of this show. She contributes so much more and literally holds everything and everybody together. Always saving the day.
I agree. I didn’t like her at first but she did a lot more than Elena did. All Elena did was complain and make herself seem like the victim. Like I get she went through a lot and I sympathise for her for that but so did everyone else. She acts as though she’s the only one who lost people. She makes her wrongdoings seem justified but when anyone else does something bad she gets angry. Mostly everyone else who went through something still thought of others. ESPECIALLY BONNIE. Like yeah, I found her a bit annoying at first but she went through so much and still put everyone before herself (even someone like Damon) literally none of them would be alive without Bonnie lmao sorry for the rant 😂
I agree but I won't lie it was so fucking annoying in season 1 when she blamed Damon for everything bad when some of it legitimately had nothing to do with him🤣
@@whitefox2316 I hate Damon but that is so true! She never takes blame for the things she does
Yeah she is
@@azoloma9647 but ended up playing the token black friends for the 1 dimensional nice girl character
I already didn’t like Elena but this really just proves how SELFISH she is. And what’s worse is she plays it off with the whole “I’m innocent” “I lost my parents so everyone should feel bad sorry for me forever” act. Like they ALL lost people they ALL went through hardships it wasn’t just her. I don’t think people realize how self-centred and egotistical she really is
Funny how she got her brother back like a month after he died and Matt never got his sister back and she was the only one in his life and when she came back Elena and Bonnie (I think it was them I can’t remember) killed her the same day.
@@theswaggalicious wait I’m confused
@@theswaggalicious but yeah you right I don’t think a lot of people realized Elena still had Alaric and Jeremy and was the reason Aunt Jenna and her bio parents. Then she got over their deaths quick. Bonnie lost her family and only had her mom who abandoned her and got turned into a vampire because of Elena. Stefan and Damon lost everyone in their family basically bc of Damon and then Damon lost Stefan. Caroline only had her dad. Matt lost his sister because they killed her. Like she wasn’t the only person who lost people and she didn’t even loose that much. Everyone never made it about her but only her safety but she found a way to become a self centered asshole for no reason.
Yea I didn't realize how self-centered she was until i watched this video im just know noticing this stuff 😂
@@Chxrrion same the first time I watched it I hated matt and didn’t focus of Elena. Second and third time I loved Bonnie understood matt and hated elena
I always imagine an alternate TVD universe where there's only 1 season and at the end Stefan and Damon get sick of Elena's shit so they just kill her and then try and work on their problems together and be there for each other. And Bonnie get's a happy ending too because she deserves better.
😂😂😂 damn true
Yes and bonnie is with Damon bc they really had great chemistry and seemed to genuinely like each other.
@@tapititytap This is why Bamon is my number one ship in TVD asides from Klaroline. Bonnie would never have forgiven Damon for killing Aaron if she were in Elena’s position (being Damon’s girlfriend). Damon would have to work for it but stupid Elena forgave him in the blink of an eye. Damon deserved someone with his passion and fire not some girl with a white bread personality. Someone who challenged him to become better, not to hold all his darkness because he wants you with him but because he actually wants to change. Someone who actually understood the complexity that is Damon Salvatore. Damon never wanted to change until he met Bonnie. He truly deserved better.
Kindly remind me how Stefan and Damon fell in love with this girl again?
@@zendayasfruityfrenchfry1784 She has Katherine's. But she's available bc Katherine was running from Klaus whilst Elena was just there.
"I know he abused you, but I'M HAPPY" That comment killed me 😭😭😭🤣🤣
At least she's being honest
I mean to be fair she was sired and her emotions were heightened.
The fact that Elena made the decision to “live a normal life” for Jeremy in order to “protect” him but when Stefan tried to protect her innumerable times she said you can’t make decisions for me these are my choices to make! Hypocrite self centered “main character”
With all due respect it’s a bit different…a sister protecting a brother
@@annushankar3032 girl he doesn't need her protection he literally only one year younger than her💀 she still took his choice away which makes her a hypocrite
@@annushankar3032 exactly and she the legal guardian for Jeremy it’s literally her job to protect him and make choices for him that will benefit his life
@@CobraKai-mj9mh "He doesn't need her protection" Klaus could literally rip him to shreds tf are you on. 🙄
@@alabamarobinson70 Alaric was Jeremy’s legal guardian, not Elena.
I love how rebekah is literally the reason why anyone knows about the cure as she told stefan and klaus and yet everyone wanted to dagger her so she couldn't get to it. Plus out of everyone Rebekah deserves it as she's centuries older than any of them and has suffered countless times in the past. Like being daggered for decades, her childhood (Mikael), losing the one she loved, watching him burn, runing jer entire life with Klaus and Elijah. She has suffered more than Damon, Elena or Stefan.
That’s why I love Stefan he actually tried standing up for her. But nope it has to be about ELENA
True
And shes the only one who wanted it for a good reason. Stephan only wanted it to get back elena when she's already made it clear she'd still choose damon, elena changed her mind last minute, and Klaus wanted to create an army. Rebeckah is the only one who wanted it for herself, and to be happy. Im still mad about it
well no she hasnt suffered as much as elena all of elena suffereing is because she was a victim of circumstance and never asked to be a doppelganger and the fact that ervery villain always comes for her,whereas rebekah is just a lovestruck fool loving everyone she meets following klaus like a dog and killing eveyone just because she can the only time rebekah was a "good character" was in the orignials where she actually showed human qualities in tvd those human qualities rarely apperaed or appeared after she has done something stupid so ye she iis THE MOST OVERRATED CHARACTER IN ALL OF TVD in TO she is the best
@@srihari1577 how has Elena suffered more than Rebeckah? Rebeckah lost her parents, like 50% of her brothers, and the other 50% are assholes who abandon her everytime she stops being useful. She's had to live lifetimes losing people she loved all while being treated like a dog by her family. All she wanted was to take the cure and live and die as a human. Not to mention she is also a victim of circumstance, she didn't want to be a vampire, thay decision was made for her by klause
That fact that multiple characters had to tell her multiple times that everything doesn't revolve around her is truly hilarious!!
Well everything did revolve around her for a long time. And do you even understand the meaning of self centered and pick me?? She wouldn't have asked them hundreds of times to save others instead of her if she was self centered. She wouldn't have died to save her friends life, she wouldn't have told the hybrids to torture her instead of Caroline neither she would have gone to the prison world to save Bonnie and she wouldn't have gone to sleep for 60 years so that her friend could live her life if she was self centered.
You all would just speak rubbish to keep up with this Elena hate trend. I know saying any of this wouldn't make you understand anything unless you try to keep a neutral perspective and then watch the series again...
My favorite was Caroline when her humanity was off
@@absiuyqwerty7277that’s true, Elena isnt selfish
@@absiuyqwerty7277it didn’t, cry.
@@absiuyqwerty7277shes self centered
Honestly 8:15 scene not only made it clear that Elena is a self centered person but she is also a pick me like literally she told Caroline that even if he abused her, he always treated me right so there's no problem. Elena reminds me of those "bestfriends" who will be friends with your bullies in highschool just because they didn't treat her like garbage like they did to you and be like "well they are nice to me so idc"
"the fact that i hate elena but love katherine says something about nina dobrevs acting."
FR
It does
i think loving katherine says something about your character
Actually the viewers were supposed to love Elena and hate Katherine because no one wants their show's main female lead to be so widely hated. I don't think it says anything about her acting because it did exactly the opposite of what it was supposed to do which isn't a good thing.
@@sociopath3237 no they just mean that: 2 characters played by the same person, and they love one and hate the other, shows how amazing of an actor she is. despite what the show was supposed to do, nina was able to act out 2 different characters and cause 2 completely different affects on how the audience feels on them :)
i hated Elena so much not even gonna lie 😭 she’s the “guys guys, c’mon we’re better than this” girl
EXACTLYYYY
No bc she once said to Bonnie “This isn’t us!” 😂😂
@UCmmmwQOvK_n2jS0kb1ygXcw ikr like she always goes 'cMoN tHiS iSnT lIke yOu' such a pick me
y/n was based on her. except for the blue eyes and blonde hair part
@@thediariesofdes that’s what she looks like in the books
Sheriff Forbes: ⚰️
Caroline: 😭😭
Stefan: 😔
Elenas and Damon: 👩❤️💋👨
HAHA FR
Bonnie is alone too
@@shiphrah5157 so true
I forgot about that wtf
Lmao but honestly stefan goes through to much
I love how after every two minutes, Elena says: Is this about ME?😂😂😂😂😂😂
Elena is literally the definition of pick me, selfish and self-centered... she’s the worst main character on a show ever. She was tolerable in the first few seasons, but once she became a vampire she annoyed me so much. I was hoping they’ll just kill her off, but nooo they really brought her back AND gave her a happy ending, when no one else got one. (Bonnie was the one who deserved the happy ending, not elena’s selfish ass)
Right!!!! For the most part everyone got screwed on that show at the end and many people died for Elena. I loved Bonnie. She did everything for her friends, died for her friends even, and at the end she got no love- like i think at the last episode she goes exploring? lol. Theres another video that showed how the writers like were throwing shade at Kat Graham- apparently they didn't like her or were racist,etc- who really knows. Now, i look back at Vampire Diaries and wonder why I loved it so much. When it was on it was my fav. The Originals was better in so many ways, but sadly the rushed the last season. As for Legacies- i don't like that show and can't figure out why it's still on- but thats just me
The only pick me on this show is Caroline and Katherine. Pack it up
@@jayyveonn hell nah
@@elizabethisa5620 hell yeah. Rewatch the show and stop being hypocritical.
@@jayyveonn care is not a pick me- she just has a little selfish act in season one - you go ahead and pack it up
I like how Elena is always like “YoU cAnT pUt YoUr LiFe In DaNgEr FoR mE” but let’s it happen anyways
Deadass lmao
She was human... how would she stop witches and vampires??? Also she tried and they literally locked her in her house with a spell
I mean how could she stop it anyways all she can do is her words
@@elenasalvatore3224 I agree, I don’t understand why everyone hates Elena, because even if she is self centered, she still cares about other people and she literally sacrificed herself to save Matt, that’s how she became a vampire in the first place
@@icytec1284 true
The fact that she didn’t want to apologise to Caroline because she didn’t wanna feel bad is a joke. How dare she do such a thing! She always tries to make things about her..
when was that
@danmenard so still apologise you tried to kill your friend also you do realise she can still control herself with her humanity off
@danmenard no it wasn’t, she jus got it back on
@@heidijob2243 did u not watch the vid! It was after she turned her humanity on
@danmenard yes
Stefan's remark about Damon killing Jeremy had me dying lol
Rebekah can be trusted more than Elena!
LITERALLY! like elena would always be like rebekah tried to kill and moan about it as if she did nothing to make rebekah want to kill her
Right like you betrayed Her you put a dagger in her back for gods sake
@@ttolulopeogunyemi RIGHT SHE LITERALLY STABBED HER IN THE BACK I-
@@jessicaann1079 YES PLS I WANTED TO YELL AT ELENA WHEN SHE DID THAT I WAS LIKE: GIRL WHY DID YOU DO THAT I HATE YOU GRRR
@@serenity9926 self absorbed and if we’re being honest Caroline,Katherine,Rebekah and Valerie brought the best out of Stefan more than Elena
“i compelled a student to perform surgery on Stefan’s niece and you found a way to make this about you??? HAHAHAH GOD you truly have a gift Elena” 💀 CAROLINE GO OFF
……. so stefan did the exact same thing by making every vampire’s experience about his ripper self, and he’s a great guy to you. but elena tries to get caroline’s humanity on, she’s a bad friend and self centered to you, right?
and guess who was the first person that caroline apologised to when she turned on her humanity again? that’s right, elena.
@@gm.8805 yes she still as self-centered as always😭ur point was??
@@iluvcupid1009 but even stefan and caroline are more self centered to elena. yet elena gets hate for the exact same thing other characters are praised for.
elena simply made caroline’s current experience about her no-humanity experience, to try and turn caroline’s humanity back on. so i don’t see the hate😭
THATS WHAT EVERYONE WANTED TO SAY BUT KEPT GIVING SUBTLE HINTS SAYING "not everything is about you" UNTIL CARE JUST WENT OFFFFF
@@gm.8805 foreal does everybody notice elena is self centered bc everyone makes her think she is.. like everyone is always talking abt elena even when shes in a coffin, goodbye shes the main character
Can we talk about how she kissed damon and said Caroline's mom almost died in her arms while she left Caroline sobbing and heartbroken in the next room...what friend she is 😑
every single time Elena was in danger...she was there because she was exactly where everyone told her not to be
Facts😂
i truly cannot believe caroline's mother was dying and she said SHE needed some air-
fr !!!
Liz almost died in her arms. IF youre best friend's mom almost died in your arms what would you do
@@maliaherrera5941 probably not make things about myself and definately not kiss a person who tried to kill my brother(twice)
@@alishalungeli7785 how did she make it about herself? Other than tell Caroline to learn from elenas mistake- all that the bitch was doing was giving advice.
@@noitsbecky.4291 then what is this whole video about 🤔 and sweetie caroline is one of the best charcter in TVD and she is not that whatever you said . please give more sense in that thing it is strange as your name 😚
And even after all if this, I can’t believe the writers wanted to kill Bonnie off the show so many time because they didn’t like Kat... it’s just crazy to me bc we ALL love Bonnie
I never really liked Bonnie 😅 currently rewatching the show and im in season 3 and that hasnt changed😅
I don’t like Bonnie. I much prefer Elena
It's okay you two, you're allowed to be wrong :)
@@anayad13 I swear to God😂😂😂
I KNOW RIGHT. Also it was mainly Julie Plec who wanted Bonnie off the show. She didn't want to hire her in the first place because she was black, and there was a time she was to be killed off and fired but Ian threatened to leave the show if they did so Julie had to keep her on. If you watch the interviews with both Kat and Julie, you'll see if anyone asks a question about Bonnie, Julie tries to change the subject. She's so bitter that Kat freaking carries the show. No wonder she kept disappearing off the show for some time then coming back smfh.
Whenever someone turns to the 'bad side' or turns their emotions off, it's really just the character realizing that Elena isn't worth dying for and they realize just how narcissistic, egotistical, selfish, and bitchy Elena really is. We saw this with Caroline, Stefan, Damon, etc.
It's like without their humanity they don't care abt spareing her feelings by telling her the truth😂
Elena thinks she is doing good sometimes. She is 50% selfish and 50% selfless
@@Wduck_ Or maybe 95% selfish and 5% selfless. No scratch that. I changed my mind. She's 99.9999% selfish and 0.1 smh % selfless. *shrugging. I hated her from the first ep.
@@Wduck_ it’s easy for her to say she’s so selfless since when it comes down to it she very rarely actually has to sacrifice herself and the things she has and loves
It’s always Bonnie and everyone else who ends up hurt, sacrificing something, and saving the day
Pretty much every sacrifice Elena made/things she lost and gave up she ends up getting it all back!! She gets her brother back, gets her true love, gets TO BE A HUMAN AGAIN, and the list goes on and on and on
@@baileyspeltbeefy1768 absolutely agree
0:16 the „I don’t like u Damon but you tell her!“ is so real
I’ve been hating Elena for years. She’s so selfish. There’s literally no character growth. Like good lord, even Damon admitted she was selfish once.