I've struggled with this when going through puberty in the church and again when returning to Christ as a grown woman. Being naturally curvy, every Sunday is a small panic attack and I ask "is it possible that this regular dress I'm wearing will distract someone from worship? Will this keep someone from receiving the Word today?". I try to minimize and neutralize outward signs of beauty when preparing for church, so I can focus on God- but I can't change or neutralize my natural body shape. I'm grateful for your message today, it made me feel seen and heard. Thank you❤
This is relatable! We can’t pretend like our bodies don’t exist, even though others who sexualize us would prefer for our bodies to not exist. You’re allowed to take up space and be BEAUTIFUL in the body that God gave you! It sounds as if you’re already considering others and stewarding it with care. So shake the shame off of you sis!!! 🥰🤍
It's very easy to be decent in dressing. If your clothing are not projecting seduction you can know. Making your clothing tight fitting is where the issue is. You can't just say it's their fault to look when you are displaying it in a way that calls for them to look. Scripture talks about the attire of a harlot and modesty in dressing. If you are modest then you have nothing to worry about
I always say that lust is the corruption of the perception of beauty. It makes you think you have to consume or covet something (or someone) because of it’s beauty for your own pleasure instead of just appreciate it as the beauty that it is. Think about art sculptures. It’s built for admiration and attraction. It would be wrong to sexualize it. The same goes for God’s creations. I’ve always been curvy and people tend to over sexualize me, shame me, or pretend I don’t exist in an attempt to not look at me lustfully, and it made me feel unsafe in my own body for almost my whole life. I’m only now getting to this place of accepting God telling me that my body is nothing to be ashamed of. We are his masterpieces! Thanks for this video.
Wow wow WOOOOWWWWWW!!!!! I’ve never heard this before and you’ve masterfully articulated the TRUTH! “Lust is the corruption of the perception of beauty” … 🤯🤯🤯 I’m so glad that you’re feeling confident in your own skin and no longer taking on the shame that others have placed upon you for being YOU. 🤍
@@christinacottrell6505 in a perfect world, I agree. I only want my husband to see me as sexy, and my husband will see way more of me than the rest of the world ever will! It’s definitely exclusive over here 😂😂😂 my heart in this video was to highlight that women can’t control when they don’t want men to lust after them or find them “sexy” … because even if women aren’t seductive or immodest, there are men that find them sexy. So the point is for women to find freedom from shame when they’re not intentionally sexualizing themselves yet others are still find them appealing. Being SEDUCTIVE is SINFUL. But we can’t assume false responsibility and shame when others find us attractive. Our beauty has been given to us by God!
@@Buttergirla who say slim women can't be sexy? A super model is sexy to most men Whether a woman slim, she will always have some poor excuse to be sexy
I honor you for sharing this with such intentionality and kindness-- watching this truly felt like a warm hug from God himself. iono no but I think you made God BIG proud by your method and presentation of this topic. Curvy girl here, still journeying the lines of sexy, intent and stewardship. I paused many times during this video repenting about my perspective and inviting God's help and his sight.. Thank you so much.
I’m so happy to hear this 🥹 God is still teaching me so much about this topic because the world has distorted this so much! Thanks for watching and sharing this 🤍🤍🤍
I honestly believe that sexiness is just purely attraction, and you can't help who's attracted to you 😅 Like for example, plenty of times I have tried ministering to men or been around men in church who found me attractive. The men I tried ministering to would instantly try to flirt with me 😂 I usually had to straighten them out and let them know that I am a married woman. Honestly some cared and some didn't, but I had to learn that wasn't my issue. And I dress very modest so I wasn't trying to entice anyone, but I remember being bothered by that for a long time and I completely stopped ministering to men.
There is a difference between being attractive and sexually attractive. I don’t believe we should aim to be sexy except for our husband. After all it does have the word sex in it… God bless!❤😊
I absolutely LOVE this video. I have always agreed with everything you said in this video but I don't think I did a great job at expressing my thoughts clearly to my husband and you have said everything perfectly. I love how you define "sexy", "attraction", "seduction" and really explain how they are different. I will keep all these things in mind as I go on to walk with and mentor other women. I thank God for using you to clearly express this message!! ❤❤❤
I can't thank you enough addressing this and explaining to us what it means to be intentionally sexualizing yourself vs naturally being sexy in the skin God made you. Growing up I always wanted acceptance and validation from the opposite sex so i would purposefully dress inappropriately not realizing at the time how I was compromising myself and my relationship with God this also resulted in me lusting after men also . I didn't understand at the time why was behaving in that manner but now that i have developed a relationship with God I can look back and admit that i was broken. I no longer crave the desire to be accepted or lusted after by these men cause I AM a child God and his acceptance of me is enough.
Thanks Amanda! This is a needful conversation and I believe you addressed it well. I have a different view on one of your points though. You mentioned that if one body type can wear something then all should be able to etc. Modesty is so nuanced, but we see biblically that God distributes gifts differently. As a bustier women there are outfits that won’t be as appropriate for me to wear compared to someone less endowed. And I’m okay with that. We have to steward what we have well. The rules aren’t hard and fast, but require sensitive to the spirit of God and the times we are in. Love x
Yep. Some things look more modest on certain types of body types than it does on others. She said that isn't fair if a double aa cup can wear something and it's okay eith everyone, but a g cup can't. Well, ife isn't fair at all though.
Thank you, I never saw your channel before and this popped up in my recommended. It validated me with the way some men treated me in the church when I was a late teenager. It was horrible because I didn’t even sexualize myself at the time and after that I did. I’m glad God has redeemed me. Thanks for sharing it helped me a lot.
I struggled with dressing sexy then I stopped. Now my friends think i look like a granny😂, but im happy. When i look beautiful without being sexy women dont like me. I think i will be updating my wardrobe. I can cover my lady parts and still look good. Women, should be careful of how they carry themselves as well. Men do need to learn to control their lusts.
I am so glad I found you. I am 51 yrs olds and so grateful that I am still open to learning. I can’t wait to introduce you to the women in my family! I have seen mother videos too, just didn’t have time to comment. And I just wan to say Hi to Av!❤❤
I struggle with this a lot. If I wear pants my shape is more enhanced than other women in the church who wear pants. I at no means want to be looked at as “immodest” but sometimes I just want to dress normal without men and women trying to label me as something I’m not.
I know this feeling! If you’re wearing what others in the church are freely wearing, then you’re likely in “modest” and “appropriate” territory… whether or not others notice your body.
thank you so much for beautifully expounding this! we truly do need God's Truth to shed more light on such sensitive and stigmatized topics such as this one.
So on time! Thanks for sharing! I have felt shame for being good looking and have for a while now dimmed that area because I don’t want to make a man be “lustful” . Sign what a relief!
Yes it’s your responsibility to steward the beauty that God has given you, but you cannot control someone else’s lust! That burden isn’t yours to carry. So glad you’ll walk in that freedom!
This video is SO good! So glad you spoke about this from a Christian perspective! This blessed me because in the past I have been told I was sexy but in a demeaning way that made me seem as if I was less Christian because they perceived me as sexy 😅 And to this day it still affects my ability to accept compliments that are purely appearance based. Thank you for speaking on this!
Hey Amanda! Love your heart to share the word and recently have been watching your talks on confidence/insecurities as I can relate so thank you! Subscribed to your channel recently. ❤ I think in this video, the part about Song of Solomon and who it’s written by and who it’s written to, it’s important to note the progression/nature of their relationship for people who may apply this in the wrong context as in a worldly “situationship” lol. Solomon is writing it about/to his soon to be bride and then she becomes his bride (chapters 4 & 5 say it specifically). Song of Solomon 4:8-12 NIV “Come with me from Lebanon, my bride, come with me from Lebanon. Descend from the crest of Amana, from the top of Senir, the summit of Hermon, from the lions' dens and the mountain haunts of leopards. [9] You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride; you have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace. [10] How delightful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much more pleasing is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your perfume more than any spice! [11] Your lips drop sweetness as the honeycomb, my bride; milk and honey are under your tongue. The fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon. [12] You are a garden locked up, my sister, my bride; you are a spring enclosed, a sealed fountain.”
@@AmandaPittman also I have to say, your example of humility in your responses to these comments is noteworthy. It’s difficult to unpack such a topic and not be misunderstood in heart. I think your heart came through about people taking responsibility for their own lust, etc. and not blame shifting, etc. I remember having to examine my own ways after my conversion and going back through old provocative photos to remove them. Initially I had a hard time and had the pride of “well they shouldn’t look at my page”. 🤦🏾♀️ God corrected me real quick lol.
This is also a heart issue. What are your "intentions"? you can't control how others perceive you but you can also present yourself in a way that you "know" will draw attention. Is that vanity? What is the intention?
I'm a man who came to christ. This video is,to me, real and confronting. Lust has been my biggest sin, I struggle with it everyday. You frame the issue with humility, and love. Tha you for this vid, it's helped me see clearly what I do.im embarrassed to say this, but I cl I cked on thus vidcause you are gorgeous. Pray 4me.
This was an incredible breakdown. I’ve been had a body but I’m a late bloomer in accepting my sexiness. I’m naturally humble about myself but I’m going through struggling with seduction. 😅 I mean the world keeps trying to put me in a “instagram” type of girl box and they disregard my heart and mind. I’m 31 now and never had a boyfriend nor male friends because they always end up liking me but feel like they’re not worthy enough for me especially when they see I’m very kind and intelligent. So suppressing my sensuality this long has made me into a monster with only teasing to get the attention I want 😢. I know it’s wrong because I get attention either way but the control I possess is not good and I like it. It scares me when I turn to God’s eyes and view myself. It will get me nowhere even if it is only teasing but I’ve been controlled for so long, I feel abandoned by God in the Romantic department and I told him I don’t understand and I’m confused on him giving me attractive qualities but every guy is too scared to approach. It hurts knowing I’m getting older and I’m clueless of what God wants from me. I prayed for years to remain faithful to him and his will but something in me is corrupted so please pray for me. I will always continue to express myself to the Lord and keep my heart open to him but it seems all avenues end with me being hurt that I’m alone lol. *sigh* Yes, I try to push my desire away and try to remember to put God first but time and healthy birthing rates have my human nature in a chokehold.
If God made us in His own image and likeness then we are made perfect in his eyes.However some women have a sexy appearance than others based on our hair, skin and how we look when wearing our clothes.This can be a very tricky subject.However if we are naturally sexy we should not be ashamed of this just give God His glory and the rest will fall in line.We should feel happy in our skin and loving our natural attributes and not having other women hating us.
First thank you for your courage in posting this! I love how you ended the video and I think there’s a lot of wisdom there and I can truly feel your heart’s desire however I can’t agree with the approach. I noticed that you read definitions for other words but not for “sexy”. The definition of sexy as well as synonyms for the word are specifically talking about arousal and I think the heart of the video could have avoided unnecessary confusion just using different terminology. As a naturally curvaceous woman I have been sexualized my entire life and it’s been terrible. I’ve been accused of being promiscuous and even had rumors about me started in churches and I don’t even wear form fitting clothes. So I want to acknowledge and thank you for your heart in defending the honor of those of us who are naturally shaped in a way most consider “attractive”. Here’s what I’ve learned through healing (because I did have a short season where I was vain only because I felt that was the limitation of my value after years of sexualization and God delivered me and is still reconciling me regarding demonization of my natural self): 1. as ambassadors of Christ we are called to be in the world but not of it. Certain clothes I will not wear. I can’t hide my lower half and I don’t even try anymore lol, but I also don’t wear clothes that tightly crease around the sexual areas of my body. Especially being in ministry, the word tells us that we will be judged more and that much more is required of us. I can’t wear the same shorts as a skinnier woman just because we aren’t built the same lol. Just like I can’t wear most regular pants because my legs are long. We should dress comfortably according to our figures outside of sexuality. We’ve also been instructed not to take this much thought in what we wear because life is more than clothes which always alleviates me from any mental attacks of the enemy when I get ready to get dressed. 2. Men are sexualized by women and raped but no one defends them and then we criminalize them for being sexualized at a young age and the conversations are generally very one sided as I feel this one is. The accountability should be even. 3. The enemy is a perverter so he wants to pervert period. We are always warring for the deliverance of our minds. With this in mind, trying too hard to marry worldly language to the Christian walk is dangerous. Thank you for this it’s a necessary discussion. I could say a ton more but I’m sure this comment is already mad long lol ❤❤❤❤
I hear what you’re trying to say but I feel it’s a bit more layered. 1 Cor 8:9 says “but you must be careful so that your freedom does not cause others with a weaker conscience to stumble”. So even if it’s not your intention you need to be mindful of the environment and who’s in that environment. So it’s not as simple as if it’s not your intention to be lustful or luster it’s fine to be sexy. And guess what, you can ask God “hey what would you have me wear today?” using the Holy Spirit to guide what you wear. We should include Him in every aspect of our daily lives💗
In the last 10 minute you spoke about being provocative, in pursuit, flattery, and intentionality. And what I am saying is that your motive does not always determine if something is OK to be worn ma’am. That’s a slippery slope…just bc you have no ill intent does not mean it’s necessarily OK to wear it. I’ve seen women dressed inappropriately especially in church and they may have had pure motives… that doesn’t make it OK.
1 Timothy 2:9-10 Instructions to Women 9 Likewise, I want the women to adorn themselves with respectable apparel, with modesty, and with self-control, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, 10 but with good deeds, as is proper for women who profess to worship God.
There’s a ‘secular’ song I love called Mariella by Leon bridges and I love it it’s like the song of Solomon’s. The artist is Christian too, I don’t think God doesn’t want me to listen to it. It’s a beautiful song have a listen.
Thank you for sharing. This is a sensitive topic for me due to my insecurities & betrayal/ cheating from significant other. I love how you addressed the topic
Wow seriously God Bless you with this video you made because you hit this to the T- am I sexualizing the person 😮wow, an meanwhile the person has no idea what is in my heart that is causing me to “Sexualize” the individual in the first place. Hope a lot of people are viewing this to give everyone a wake up call about how they interpret an individual wrongly, because the person is attractive and dress nice without enticing any sexual/lust move on anyone❤🌹👍🌈
I don’t usually comment on videos but this particular one I found myself praying for discernment throughout. I truly believe that people should not be sexualized… especially women given the destruction throughout history, however I strongly believe it is not godly to “identify” certain attributes as anything other than Gods creation. By stating “if you are a women with a sexier body” you are attached to the worldly views of what makes someone beautiful in this current culture meaning curves, perfect hair, long eyelashes or dramatic facial features and clear skin. It sadly makes people question ‘God, why didn’t you make me as beautiful as that girl that has the larger behind and breasts’. Men that are “attracted” to women with certain attributes are again, attached to worldly views and quite honestly trends. In my opinion I believe that women were created exactly how god intended. Eve most certainly did not have makeup or push up bras, or surgeons and I believe we were created to live as such it is sin that has brought all of the beauty standards into our world today.
This girl is projecting her insecurity and “guilt” from the churches about being pretty onto other people.. saying “being sexy is praised in the Bible” that’s just wrong. The Bible says everyone is made in gods image. I don’t know why she is acting like being unattractive isn’t ok
I'm sorry but me being a very tall skinny straight athletic built woman, I don't want to be walking around with movies on. I like to wear dresses and tops that are at my waistline
I like these topics for us women but tbh I have a problem with the use of the word sexy to describe a godly woman. Maybe it’s the langage barrier but in French the definition of sexy is « sexually attracting / which awaken sexual desire / seducting / enhancing features to create lust » I never liked being called sexy even before coming to Christ and it very rarely happened to me. I want people to see purity in me not sexiness specially since I’m not sexually active and not trying to seduce anyone . I truly think God created sexual attraction between husband and wife (your exemple with Adam and Eve = they were husband and wife so sexual partners) men and women can be sexually attracted to each other but we can control that and appreciate someone’s beauty without feeling sexually attracted to them. As fearfully and wonderfully made creature, made in the image of God, we can not say that the image of God is « sexy » but rather beautiful and pure so that’s what should comes out of us. I believe women can be beautiful and attractive (not in a sexual way but beauty can attract the eyes of people just like a mind blowing landscape) without being perceived as sexy in other eyes. I think it’s possible to hide our sexiness and reveal only to our husband (like when I realized that my curves could be seen as sexy when I wear tight jeans but go unoticed when I wear à pleated skirt while someone else could were a tight jean without making it sexy, we have to learn our attribute and be modest. But I totally agree that the person who is looking should examine their heart and remove any lust that is true but we should also learn to present ourself as pure as a dove. 🕊️😊 It goes both ways for sure, we are to be the guardian of our brothers, I don’t want to awaken a brother sexual attraction to me and they shouldn’t try to see where is my sexiness hidden because it’s reserved for intimacy with the person God has chosen for me, and women shouldn’t try to tear each other apart and judge each other but we can discuss and give advice to each other to be the most beautiful godly woman
Hi Amanda! Thank you for this video! I wonder what you would think about being an amateur photo model for delicate and sensual (but not "sexy") photographs, that just show the natural beauty of a woman's body ? I just love those types oh photographs, and loved being a model until now, and it makes me sad to think that it could be a sinful activity and that I shouldn't like it. If you don't do that for your pride, but rather for your love for art and beauty, I can't see how it could be considered as something bad.
I guess you don't understand what being sexy means. See the dictionary meaning below. adjective,sex·i·er, sex·i·est. concerned predominantly or excessively with sex; risqué: a sexy novel. sexually interesting or exciting; radiating sexuality: the sexy supermodel on the cover of a magazine. A Christian woman is to be sexy only in the presence of her husband.
Matthews 5:28 “But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart” You can’t pick or choose which verse to fallow, all in or all out, godly or ungodly, no in-between
Such a relevant word! I’ve had many discussions within different Christian circles expressing many of the points you made, without the biblical reference and clarity that you brought. You articulated it in a way that I wish I could’ve. Thank you! We need to have more of these kinds of discussions in our communities. 🫶🏽d
I personally don’t think it’s best to wear pants like that, but I’m just a human with an opinion! Ask God about the clothes you should wear and be sensitive to the way He is leading you!
@@AmandaPittman "King Solomon made himself a carriage from the wood of Lebanon. He made its posts of silver, its back of gold, its seat of purple; its interior was inlaid with love by the daughters of Jerusalem. Go out, O daughters of Zion, and look upon King Solomon, with the crown with which his mother crowned him on the day of his wedding, on the day of the gladness of his heart." Song of Solomon 3:9-11 ESV Chapter 4 then describes their consummation.
@@thingsilove18 hey we could debate, but I don’t think it’s a worthy pursuit. I’ll just paste here what ChatGPT says on the disputed matter: The question of whether the Beloved in the Song of Songs is married is a matter of interpretation and is subject to debate among scholars and readers of the text. Some scholars believe that the Beloved is unmarried, while others argue that she is married. Those who argue that the Beloved is unmarried often point to the fact that the text never explicitly mentions her being married, and that her relationship with the male lover seems to be characterized by a sense of newness and excitement. Additionally, some have noted that the Beloved's lack of social status and her ability to move about freely without a male escort suggest that she is not married. On the other hand, those who argue that the Beloved is married point to the fact that the text describes her as having a physical relationship with her lover, which would be considered inappropriate for an unmarried woman in ancient Israelite society. Additionally, some have noted that the language used to describe the Beloved's physical attributes, such as her breasts and her hair, suggest that she is a mature woman who has already gone through puberty, which would be more likely for a married woman than an unmarried one. Ultimately, the question of whether the Beloved in the Song of Songs is married is a matter of interpretation, and different readers may come to different conclusions based on their reading of the text.
Thank you for Such a Great a video this was so essential ☺️so true that women who are more busty feel as though they need to be covered from head to toe it’s not the same for both different types of body shape !!! Growing up in the church even pants are not allowed on stage and you will be looked and scowled for wearing jeans and pants to the church not only on stage . As long as you are covered from the behind and not to low of v cut and not cropped I don’t see the issue .
Hi, I agree with you. Every congregation has their traditions and norms with reference to what’s appropriate for being on stage, etc. My concern has been that some women allow the clothing designers of the day to dictate the direction of their wardrobe. For example, some of us would wear whatever is in. And while our intention is not to seduce, we may be contributing to the situation by just not considering others. Wearing a plunging neckline, and skin tight clothing, revealing all of our curves is reckless. It doesn’t matter our size. We must steward everything about our lives properly. It’s not okay to be wearing mini-skirts just because someone decided that’s the look for the praise teams these days 🤦🏽♀️. Our men’s clothing is also of concern….a lot of the pants are designed to drop off of them. While there is a heart check needed with both the one who wears and the one who sees, there is also the issue of the child of God not dressing themselves as if they’re living in a bubble. We do not dress just to please ourselves. Whatever we do….let it be to the glory of God.
@@cocogirl6971 yes, such wisdom! It’s tricky when there are two extremes of “the world” and the types of churches that believe that women can only wear skirts down to their ankles and no makeup. But I agree… we can’t be led by the world! We must consult with the Holy Spirit ☺️
Every Christian of the ability to look but we don't we must look modest Marcus doesn't mean you're not appealing what's sexy trying to look sexy it's a deliberate act and why do you have a deliberate act it's the intention if I'm lying a prostitute always try to look sexy it's a word that belong to people who are living in the world because the Bible said my people are peculiar people we are set apart
Could you make a video of Christian women summer attire? I struggle with this. I want to still feel beautiful and be comfortable but not feel to revealing.
I know you said that isn't fair if a double AA cup can wear something and it's okay with everyone, but a G cup can't. Life isn't fair though. Some things just look more modest on certain body types. I think God has even been trying to convict me on dressing modestly. 🤔 I don't even wear things that provocative. I wear fitted tops and pants, and maybe show a little cleavage from time to time. That's it. Anyway, if you are larger chested like me, certain kinds of tops & clothing just doesn't look so modest...it looks more provocative. We're supposed to be modest......1 Timothy 2:9 [9]In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with braided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; With that said, just to be on the safe side, it's best to ask God if He thinks what you're wearing is modest. If He says it's okay, you're good. 😊
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A woman of live for God is to live holy woman of God keep your self for married not lust cause it is a sin cover your self dont show skin to another man a they wonr lust after you you know what a man will do when you put nother on your body walk in the spirir of God and you will be even more Beautiful in the lord Amen🙏
@@AmandaPittman You did, I just commented when I saw the title before watching. I'm just first gonna say that I love your content so there is absolutely no rudeness in what I was laughing about here, it was more the timing of things; I had just seen you comment on another creators recent post about this exact thing and thought this had inspired you to make the video (or you were already going to). This conversation is actually something I would talk about with fellow guy friends that struggle with this idea
I've struggled with this when going through puberty in the church and again when returning to Christ as a grown woman. Being naturally curvy, every Sunday is a small panic attack and I ask "is it possible that this regular dress I'm wearing will distract someone from worship? Will this keep someone from receiving the Word today?". I try to minimize and neutralize outward signs of beauty when preparing for church, so I can focus on God- but I can't change or neutralize my natural body shape. I'm grateful for your message today, it made me feel seen and heard. Thank you❤
This is relatable! We can’t pretend like our bodies don’t exist, even though others who sexualize us would prefer for our bodies to not exist. You’re allowed to take up space and be BEAUTIFUL in the body that God gave you! It sounds as if you’re already considering others and stewarding it with care. So shake the shame off of you sis!!! 🥰🤍
If they get distracted that’s on them ! We control our eyes ! We make ourselves sin not others !
I struggle with this too, even if I wear some sweats. I wanted to lose weight to minimize the curves
It's very easy to be decent in dressing. If your clothing are not projecting seduction you can know. Making your clothing tight fitting is where the issue is. You can't just say it's their fault to look when you are displaying it in a way that calls for them to look. Scripture talks about the attire of a harlot and modesty in dressing. If you are modest then you have nothing to worry about
You can wear A-line dresses. That will flow over your curves. 😊
I always say that lust is the corruption of the perception of beauty. It makes you think you have to consume or covet something (or someone) because of it’s beauty for your own pleasure instead of just appreciate it as the beauty that it is.
Think about art sculptures. It’s built for admiration and attraction. It would be wrong to sexualize it.
The same goes for God’s creations.
I’ve always been curvy and people tend to over sexualize me, shame me, or pretend I don’t exist in an attempt to not look at me lustfully, and it made me feel unsafe in my own body for almost my whole life. I’m only now getting to this place of accepting God telling me that my body is nothing to be ashamed of. We are his masterpieces!
Thanks for this video.
Wow wow WOOOOWWWWWW!!!!! I’ve never heard this before and you’ve masterfully articulated the TRUTH! “Lust is the corruption of the perception of beauty” … 🤯🤯🤯 I’m so glad that you’re feeling confident in your own skin and no longer taking on the shame that others have placed upon you for being YOU. 🤍
We can be sexy for our husbands but not for every man out there. That’s my take at least lol
Well we can’t control if someone other than an our husband thinks we are sexy.
@@AmandaPittman to me when I find someone sexy it means I want to have sex with them. So the only person I allow myself to see as sexy is my hubby.
@@christinacottrell6505 in a perfect world, I agree. I only want my husband to see me as sexy, and my husband will see way more of me than the rest of the world ever will! It’s definitely exclusive over here 😂😂😂 my heart in this video was to highlight that women can’t control when they don’t want men to lust after them or find them “sexy” … because even if women aren’t seductive or immodest, there are men that find them sexy. So the point is for women to find freedom from shame when they’re not intentionally sexualizing themselves yet others are still find them appealing. Being SEDUCTIVE is SINFUL. But we can’t assume false responsibility and shame when others find us attractive. Our beauty has been given to us by God!
@@AmandaPittman true. The kings of other nations wanted Sarah, Abraham’s wife, even when she was 80!
@@debbypeace2167 Yes, the Bible sldoes say she was beautiful, and Abraham also knew they would want her.
This is a sensitive topic! People definitely sexualize curvier bodies more than they do slimmer body types.
Not always skinny girls look better in dresses her them faces are sexy
I mean.. who wants to mate with slim bodies🤷🏾♀️
Really?
So you mean slim women can dress anything
Always some poor excuse
@@BrunoFreitasdePaivaBen-H-gl6ds it's just because they don't have as much to show they are not as fleshy
@@Buttergirla who say slim women can't be sexy? A super model is sexy to most men
Whether a woman slim, she will always have some poor excuse to be sexy
I honor you for sharing this with such intentionality and kindness-- watching this truly felt like a warm hug from God himself. iono no but I think you made God BIG proud by your method and presentation of this topic. Curvy girl here, still journeying the lines of sexy, intent and stewardship. I paused many times during this video repenting about my perspective and inviting God's help and his sight.. Thank you so much.
I’m so happy to hear this 🥹 God is still teaching me so much about this topic because the world has distorted this so much! Thanks for watching and sharing this 🤍🤍🤍
I honestly believe that sexiness is just purely attraction, and you can't help who's attracted to you 😅 Like for example, plenty of times I have tried ministering to men or been around men in church who found me attractive. The men I tried ministering to would instantly try to flirt with me 😂 I usually had to straighten them out and let them know that I am a married woman. Honestly some cared and some didn't, but I had to learn that wasn't my issue. And I dress very modest so I wasn't trying to entice anyone, but I remember being bothered by that for a long time and I completely stopped ministering to men.
@@zdaniel7106 what you "honestly" believe don't matter
Take a bíble and read it
There is a difference between being attractive and sexually attractive.
I don’t believe we should aim to be sexy except for our husband.
After all it does have the word sex in it…
God bless!❤😊
I absolutely LOVE this video. I have always agreed with everything you said in this video but I don't think I did a great job at expressing my thoughts clearly to my husband and you have said everything perfectly. I love how you define "sexy", "attraction", "seduction" and really explain how they are different. I will keep all these things in mind as I go on to walk with and mentor other women. I thank God for using you to clearly express this message!! ❤❤❤
I’m so glad you watched!
I can't thank you enough addressing this and explaining to us what it means to be intentionally sexualizing yourself vs naturally being sexy in the skin God made you. Growing up I always wanted acceptance and validation from the opposite sex so i would purposefully dress inappropriately not realizing at the time how I was compromising myself and my relationship with God this also resulted in me lusting after men also . I didn't understand at the time why was behaving in that manner but now that i have developed a relationship with God I can look back and admit that i was broken. I no longer crave the desire to be accepted or lusted after by these men cause I AM a child God and his acceptance of me is enough.
I love this!!! Thank you for sharing your testimony!!!!
@@kiaisavibe so, if i "naturally" am fornicator or something is it ok?
Thanks Amanda! This is a needful conversation and I believe you addressed it well. I have a different view on one of your points though. You mentioned that if one body type can wear something then all should be able to etc. Modesty is so nuanced, but we see biblically that God distributes gifts differently. As a bustier women there are outfits that won’t be as appropriate for me to wear compared to someone less endowed. And I’m okay with that. We have to steward what we have well. The rules aren’t hard and fast, but require sensitive to the spirit of God and the times we are in. Love x
Reference at 18:40
Yep. Some things look more modest on certain types of body types than it does on others.
She said that isn't fair if a double aa cup can wear something and it's okay eith everyone, but a g cup can't. Well, ife isn't fair at all though.
Thank you, I never saw your channel before and this popped up in my recommended. It validated me with the way some men treated me in the church when I was a late teenager. It was horrible because I didn’t even sexualize myself at the time and after that I did. I’m glad God has redeemed me. Thanks for sharing it helped me a lot.
I struggled with dressing sexy then I stopped. Now my friends think i look like a granny😂, but im happy. When i look beautiful without being sexy women dont like me. I think i will be updating my wardrobe. I can cover my lady parts and still look good. Women, should be careful of how they carry themselves as well. Men do need to learn to control their lusts.
It's interesting that most women find about modesty - or Christianity in general - when they come to a certain age, when the beauty fade away
I am so glad I found you. I am 51 yrs olds and so grateful that I am still open to learning. I can’t wait to introduce you to the women in my family! I have seen mother videos too, just didn’t have time to comment. And I just wan to say Hi to Av!❤❤
I love your unique topics.
And I agree…God created us to be sexy! Humankind is FINE!🙌🏻
We FINE 😂😂😂
@@AmandaPittman Yass!🙌🏻😆
@@JuliaShalomJordan ok, I gotcha
This channel is a joke
I struggle with this a lot. If I wear pants my shape is more enhanced than other women in the church who wear pants. I at no means want to be looked at as “immodest” but sometimes I just want to dress normal without men and women trying to label me as something I’m not.
I know this feeling! If you’re wearing what others in the church are freely wearing, then you’re likely in “modest” and “appropriate” territory… whether or not others notice your body.
"to dress normal" as the standards of the society, right?
They call a bimbo* with a bible
*or baddie
😂 silly explanation. My bf dont go to church with his tight pink trowsers...
@@raveningrammartinez7784 they call bible-bashing bimbo/baddie or trad thirst trapper
@@Noname-ni8qm women will deflect about any issue... "But men too!' "What about the men?"
On point! Yes love it! Some people at church look at me that way & it makes me feel insecure. Thank you for this video! God bless you
thank you so much for beautifully expounding this! we truly do need God's Truth to shed more light on such sensitive and stigmatized topics such as this one.
This was such a good word! Yes, I agree that sexiness must be stewarded.
So on time! Thanks for sharing! I have felt shame for being good looking and have for a while now dimmed that area because I don’t want to make a man be “lustful” . Sign what a relief!
Yes it’s your responsibility to steward the beauty that God has given you, but you cannot control someone else’s lust! That burden isn’t yours to carry. So glad you’ll walk in that freedom!
God sent me to this message! Thank you! Now I know with what I’m still dealing that I didn’t knowledge 🙏🏻❤️
This was such a good video and all the points and verses you listed out too were just so good. Thank you for this discussion 👏🏾
This video is SO good! So glad you spoke about this from a Christian perspective! This blessed me because in the past I have been told I was sexy but in a demeaning way that made me seem as if I was less Christian because they perceived me as sexy 😅 And to this day it still affects my ability to accept compliments that are purely appearance based. Thank you for speaking on this!
You are SUCH a beautiful woman. I get it. I hate that someone else made you feel bad for your appearance because you don’t deserve it. I love you!!!!
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The verse that was something like “the most beautiful about a woman should be their good deeds” really helped me. :)
Extremely gracefully spoken on
Hey Amanda! Love your heart to share the word and recently have been watching your talks on confidence/insecurities as I can relate so thank you! Subscribed to your channel recently. ❤
I think in this video, the part about Song of Solomon and who it’s written by and who it’s written to, it’s important to note the progression/nature of their relationship for people who may apply this in the wrong context as in a worldly “situationship” lol. Solomon is writing it about/to his soon to be bride and then she becomes his bride (chapters 4 & 5 say it specifically).
Song of Solomon 4:8-12 NIV
“Come with me from Lebanon, my bride, come with me from Lebanon. Descend from the crest of Amana, from the top of Senir, the summit of Hermon, from the lions' dens and the mountain haunts of leopards. [9] You have stolen my heart, my sister, my bride; you have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes, with one jewel of your necklace. [10] How delightful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much more pleasing is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your perfume more than any spice! [11] Your lips drop sweetness as the honeycomb, my bride; milk and honey are under your tongue. The fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon. [12] You are a garden locked up, my sister, my bride; you are a spring enclosed, a sealed fountain.”
Yes yes! I said “unmarried” and thought “engaged” in my head! You’re absolutely right! 🤍
@@AmandaPittman also I have to say, your example of humility in your responses to these comments is noteworthy. It’s difficult to unpack such a topic and not be misunderstood in heart. I think your heart came through about people taking responsibility for their own lust, etc. and not blame shifting, etc. I remember having to examine my own ways after my conversion and going back through old provocative photos to remove them. Initially I had a hard time and had the pride of “well they shouldn’t look at my page”. 🤦🏾♀️ God corrected me real quick lol.
@@sparkleboea thank you so much! You are so kind with your comments and gentle, too! 🤍🤍🤍
@@AmandaPittman thank you! I try to be. 💖🙏🏾
This is also a heart issue. What are your "intentions"? you can't control how others perceive you but you can also present yourself in a way that you "know" will draw attention. Is that vanity? What is the intention?
@@ninobk196 so can women dress booty short or thong bikini with pure intentions?
OK bible-bashing baddie / trad thirst trapper
Amanda, this was beyond beautiful. Thank you for sharing.
I'm a man who came to christ. This video is,to me, real and confronting. Lust has been my biggest sin, I struggle with it everyday. You frame the issue with humility, and love. Tha you for this vid, it's helped me see clearly what I do.im embarrassed to say this, but I cl I cked on thus vidcause you are gorgeous. Pray 4me.
I enjoyed & needed this video! For multiple reasons ❤ thank you! So on time
This was an incredible breakdown. I’ve been had a body but I’m a late bloomer in accepting my sexiness. I’m naturally humble about myself but I’m going through struggling with seduction. 😅 I mean the world keeps trying to put me in a “instagram” type of girl box and they disregard my heart and mind. I’m 31 now and never had a boyfriend nor male friends because they always end up liking me but feel like they’re not worthy enough for me especially when they see I’m very kind and intelligent. So suppressing my sensuality this long has made me into a monster with only teasing to get the attention I want 😢. I know it’s wrong because I get attention either way but the control I possess is not good and I like it. It scares me when I turn to God’s eyes and view myself. It will get me nowhere even if it is only teasing but I’ve been controlled for so long, I feel abandoned by God in the Romantic department and I told him I don’t understand and I’m confused on him giving me attractive qualities but every guy is too scared to approach. It hurts knowing I’m getting older and I’m clueless of what God wants from me. I prayed for years to remain faithful to him and his will but something in me is corrupted so please pray for me. I will always continue to express myself to the Lord and keep my heart open to him but it seems all avenues end with me being hurt that I’m alone lol. *sigh* Yes, I try to push my desire away and try to remember to put God first but time and healthy birthing rates have my human nature in a chokehold.
If God made us in His own image and likeness then we are made perfect in his eyes.However some women have a sexy appearance than others based on our hair, skin and how we look when wearing our clothes.This can be a very tricky subject.However if we are naturally sexy we should not be ashamed of this just give God His glory and the rest will fall in line.We should feel happy in our skin and loving our natural attributes and not having other women hating us.
First thank you for your courage in posting this! I love how you ended the video and I think there’s a lot of wisdom there and I can truly feel your heart’s desire however I can’t agree with the approach.
I noticed that you read definitions for other words but not for “sexy”. The definition of sexy as well as synonyms for the word are specifically talking about arousal and I think the heart of the video could have avoided unnecessary confusion just using different terminology.
As a naturally curvaceous woman I have been sexualized my entire life and it’s been terrible. I’ve been accused of being promiscuous and even had rumors about me started in churches and I don’t even wear form fitting clothes. So I want to acknowledge and thank you for your heart in defending the honor of those of us who are naturally shaped in a way most consider “attractive”.
Here’s what I’ve learned through healing (because I did have a short season where I was vain only because I felt that was the limitation of my value after years of sexualization and God delivered me and is still reconciling me regarding demonization of my natural self):
1. as ambassadors of Christ we are called to be in the world but not of it. Certain clothes I will not wear. I can’t hide my lower half and I don’t even try anymore lol, but I also don’t wear clothes that tightly crease around the sexual areas of my body. Especially being in ministry, the word tells us that we will be judged more and that much more is required of us.
I can’t wear the same shorts as a skinnier woman just because we aren’t built the same lol. Just like I can’t wear most regular pants because my legs are long. We should dress comfortably according to our figures outside of sexuality. We’ve also been instructed not to take this much thought in what we wear because life is more than clothes which always alleviates me from any mental attacks of the enemy when I get ready to get dressed.
2. Men are sexualized by women and raped but no one defends them and then we criminalize them for being sexualized at a young age and the conversations are generally very one sided as I feel this one is. The accountability should be even.
3. The enemy is a perverter so he wants to pervert period. We are always warring for the deliverance of our minds. With this in mind, trying too hard to marry worldly language to the Christian walk is dangerous.
Thank you for this it’s a necessary discussion. I could say a ton more but I’m sure this comment is already mad long lol ❤❤❤❤
Thanks for your comment! The first word that I defined was “sexy.”
@@AmandaPittman I would like to know your thoughts on the other points I made. I’d love to talk in person! We belong to the same church ❤
I hear what you’re trying to say but I feel it’s a bit more layered. 1 Cor 8:9 says “but you must be careful so that your freedom does not cause others with a weaker conscience to stumble”. So even if it’s not your intention you need to be mindful of the environment and who’s in that environment.
So it’s not as simple as if it’s not your intention to be lustful or luster it’s fine to be sexy. And guess what, you can ask God “hey what would you have me wear today?” using the Holy Spirit to guide what you wear. We should include Him in every aspect of our daily lives💗
That’s what I spent the last 10 minutes of the video talking about 😊
In the last 10 minute you spoke about being provocative, in pursuit, flattery, and intentionality.
And what I am saying is that your motive does not always determine if something is OK to be worn ma’am. That’s a slippery slope…just bc you have no ill intent does not mean it’s necessarily OK to wear it. I’ve seen women dressed inappropriately especially in church and they may have had pure motives… that doesn’t make it OK.
@@charlenelawson8399 around 25 minutes I mention clothing as well ☺️ I’m in full agreement with you, sis!
I have a question. Do you mind explaining the part of being out and about as a single women?
@@KFMServicesshe's nothing but a church baddie / thirst-trapping trad
1 Timothy 2:9-10 Instructions to Women 9 Likewise, I want the women to adorn themselves with respectable apparel, with modesty, and with self-control, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, 10 but with good deeds, as is proper for women who profess to worship God.
There’s a ‘secular’ song I love called Mariella by Leon bridges and I love it it’s like the song of Solomon’s. The artist is Christian too, I don’t think God doesn’t want me to listen to it. It’s a beautiful song have a listen.
The Song of Solomon's was for his bride and not to some random woman down the block
This was great and very well needed. My favorite part is 9:59. Thank you for this!!!!
Thank you for sharing. This is a sensitive topic for me due to my insecurities & betrayal/ cheating from significant other. I love how you addressed the topic
I tried my best to be sensitive! I’m glad you were still able to watch 🤍
Thank you for making this video! It’s so needed.
Ok bible-bashing baddie / trad thirst trapper
Wow seriously God Bless you with this video you made because you hit this to the T- am I sexualizing the person 😮wow, an meanwhile the person has no idea what is in my heart that is causing me to “Sexualize” the individual in the first place. Hope a lot of people are viewing this to give everyone a wake up call about how they interpret an individual wrongly, because the person is attractive and dress nice without enticing any sexual/lust move on anyone❤🌹👍🌈
Truly enjoyed you! Such a good word! ❤
You did a really good job explaining the topic of beauty and our God given features💛
Thank you so much!
I don’t usually comment on videos but this particular one I found myself praying for discernment throughout. I truly believe that people should not be sexualized… especially women given the destruction throughout history, however I strongly believe it is not godly to “identify” certain attributes as anything other than Gods creation. By stating “if you are a women with a sexier body” you are attached to the worldly views of what makes someone beautiful in this current culture meaning curves, perfect hair, long eyelashes or dramatic facial features and clear skin. It sadly makes people question ‘God, why didn’t you make me as beautiful as that girl that has the larger behind and breasts’. Men that are “attracted” to women with certain attributes are again, attached to worldly views and quite honestly trends. In my opinion I believe that women were created exactly how god intended. Eve most certainly did not have makeup or push up bras, or surgeons and I believe we were created to live as such it is sin that has brought all of the beauty standards into our world today.
This girl is projecting her insecurity and “guilt” from the churches about being pretty onto other people.. saying “being sexy is praised in the Bible” that’s just wrong. The Bible says everyone is made in gods image. I don’t know why she is acting like being unattractive isn’t ok
I'm sorry but me being a very tall skinny straight athletic built woman, I don't want to be walking around with movies on. I like to wear dresses and tops that are at my waistline
I like these topics for us women but tbh I have a problem with the use of the word sexy to describe a godly woman. Maybe it’s the langage barrier but in French the definition of sexy is « sexually attracting / which awaken sexual desire / seducting / enhancing features to create lust » I never liked being called sexy even before coming to Christ and it very rarely happened to me. I want people to see purity in me not sexiness specially since I’m not sexually active and not trying to seduce anyone . I truly think God created sexual attraction between husband and wife (your exemple with Adam and Eve = they were husband and wife so sexual partners)
men and women can be sexually attracted to each other but we can control that and appreciate someone’s beauty without feeling sexually attracted to them. As fearfully and wonderfully made creature, made in the image of God, we can not say that the image of God is « sexy » but rather beautiful and pure so that’s what should comes out of us. I believe women can be beautiful and attractive (not in a sexual way but beauty can attract the eyes of people just like a mind blowing landscape) without being perceived as sexy in other eyes. I think it’s possible to hide our sexiness and reveal only to our husband (like when I realized that my curves could be seen as sexy when I wear tight jeans but go unoticed when I wear à pleated skirt while someone else could were a tight jean without making it sexy, we have to learn our attribute and be modest. But I totally agree that the person who is looking should examine their heart and remove any lust that is true but we should also learn to present ourself as pure as a dove. 🕊️😊 It goes both ways for sure, we are to be the guardian of our brothers, I don’t want to awaken a brother sexual attraction to me and they shouldn’t try to see where is my sexiness hidden because it’s reserved for intimacy with the person God has chosen for me, and women shouldn’t try to tear each other apart and judge each other but we can discuss and give advice to each other to be the most beautiful godly woman
Well said!!!! Amen!!
That was beautifully said and very true. I loved every word. 😊
Hi Amanda! Thank you for this video!
I wonder what you would think about being an amateur photo model for delicate and sensual (but not "sexy") photographs, that just show the natural beauty of a woman's body ? I just love those types oh photographs, and loved being a model until now, and it makes me sad to think that it could be a sinful activity and that I shouldn't like it. If you don't do that for your pride, but rather for your love for art and beauty, I can't see how it could be considered as something bad.
THIS IS SO GOOD!
You made me cry. 😊😢
Wow this was so good and full of revelation, I’m sending this to everybody !
This was so good hun! 💛
I guess you don't understand what being sexy means. See the dictionary meaning below.
adjective,sex·i·er, sex·i·est.
concerned predominantly or excessively with sex; risqué:
a sexy novel.
sexually interesting or exciting; radiating sexuality:
the sexy supermodel on the cover of a magazine.
A Christian woman is to be sexy only in the presence of her husband.
Loved this video so much!! Thank you 🫶🏾✨
I’m so glad you watched! ❤
This was really good!
This message is so good ❤
This is a really good video
Yes I believe, Christian women, can be sexy. Being fit, and maximizing, their natural beauty. LIVLIF! 🌷
What you believe don't matters if it isn't bible based
This was soo good
My question is regarding seduction in Marriage. Are you allowed to be seductive for your husband, or is seduction in its entirety a bad thing?
I personally believe that you can be seductive with your husband! There’s nothing wrong with sexual arousal with intent within marriage!
Matthews 5:28
“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart”
You can’t pick or choose which verse to fallow, all in or all out, godly or ungodly, no in-between
Such a relevant word! I’ve had many discussions within different Christian circles expressing many of the points you made, without the biblical reference and clarity that you brought. You articulated it in a way that I wish I could’ve. Thank you! We need to have more of these kinds of discussions in our communities. 🫶🏽d
I’m so glad you’ve been having these discussions!! All topics regarding sexuality and faith are SO nuanced and need a ton of grace!!!
Amen sometimes some men they want to blame us for their sin and their lust
Sometimes women want to blame men for their masculinity
But if you’re wearing pants with cut outs on the sides showing your whole skin on the side of your body then what would that be?
I personally don’t think it’s best to wear pants like that, but I’m just a human with an opinion! Ask God about the clothes you should wear and be sensitive to the way He is leading you!
That's Solomon's wife, Jackie Hill Perry and other teachers talk about her being black, these people aren't single but married
They’re engaged
@@AmandaPittman but then they got married.
@@AmandaPittman "King Solomon made himself a carriage from the wood of Lebanon. He made its posts of silver, its back of gold, its seat of purple; its interior was inlaid with love by the daughters of Jerusalem. Go out, O daughters of Zion, and look upon King Solomon, with the crown with which his mother crowned him on the day of his wedding, on the day of the gladness of his heart."
Song of Solomon 3:9-11 ESV
Chapter 4 then describes their consummation.
@@thingsilove18 hey we could debate, but I don’t think it’s a worthy pursuit. I’ll just paste here what ChatGPT says on the disputed matter:
The question of whether the Beloved in the Song of Songs is married is a matter of interpretation and is subject to debate among scholars and readers of the text.
Some scholars believe that the Beloved is unmarried, while others argue that she is married. Those who argue that the Beloved is unmarried often point to the fact that the text never explicitly mentions her being married, and that her relationship with the male lover seems to be characterized by a sense of newness and excitement. Additionally, some have noted that the Beloved's lack of social status and her ability to move about freely without a male escort suggest that she is not married.
On the other hand, those who argue that the Beloved is married point to the fact that the text describes her as having a physical relationship with her lover, which would be considered inappropriate for an unmarried woman in ancient Israelite society. Additionally, some have noted that the language used to describe the Beloved's physical attributes, such as her breasts and her hair, suggest that she is a mature woman who has already gone through puberty, which would be more likely for a married woman than an unmarried one.
Ultimately, the question of whether the Beloved in the Song of Songs is married is a matter of interpretation, and different readers may come to different conclusions based on their reading of the text.
@@AmandaPittman the Song of Songs is about Solomons desire and pursuit of God, not a woman.
Too many times the church condemns women for the list of men, spot on !
The churches was took over by manginas and feminists
yup. men need to take responsibility.
Men always take responsibility
Women that don't know what it means
Thank you for Such a Great a video this was so essential ☺️so true that women who are more busty feel as though they need to be covered from head to toe it’s not the same for both different types of body shape !!! Growing up in the church even pants are not allowed on stage and you will be looked and scowled for wearing jeans and pants to the church not only on stage . As long as you are covered from the behind and not to low of v cut and not cropped I don’t see the issue .
Thanks for watching!!
Hi, I agree with you. Every congregation has their traditions and norms with reference to what’s appropriate for being on stage, etc. My concern has been that some women allow the clothing designers of the day to dictate the direction of their wardrobe. For example, some of us would wear whatever is in. And while our intention is not to seduce, we may be contributing to the situation by just not considering others. Wearing a plunging neckline, and skin tight clothing, revealing all of our curves is reckless. It doesn’t matter our size. We must steward everything about our lives properly. It’s not okay to be wearing mini-skirts just because someone decided that’s the look for the praise teams these days 🤦🏽♀️. Our men’s clothing is also of concern….a lot of the pants are designed to drop off of them.
While there is a heart check needed with both the one who wears and the one who sees, there is also the issue of the child of God not dressing themselves as if they’re living in a bubble. We do not dress just to please ourselves. Whatever we do….let it be to the glory of God.
@@cocogirl6971 yes, such wisdom! It’s tricky when there are two extremes of “the world” and the types of churches that believe that women can only wear skirts down to their ankles and no makeup. But I agree… we can’t be led by the world! We must consult with the Holy Spirit ☺️
You "don't see the issue" isn't relevant
Can you input the scriptures in the description that you refer to? Thanks
Every Christian of the ability to look but we don't we must look modest Marcus doesn't mean you're not appealing what's sexy trying to look sexy it's a deliberate act and why do you have a deliberate act it's the intention if I'm lying a prostitute always try to look sexy it's a word that belong to people who are living in the world because the Bible said my people are peculiar people we are set apart
Solomon also wrote Ecclesiastes and it’s important to read both.
Could you make a video of Christian women summer attire? I struggle with this. I want to still feel beautiful and be comfortable but not feel to revealing.
"no feel"?!
It isn't your feelings that determines the standards of modesty
I'm waiting to hear about modesty.
Me too
@@franchiseplaya121 lol
She is nothing but a bible-bashing baddie
Great video xxx
Thank you!
I know you said that isn't fair if a double AA cup can wear something and it's okay with everyone, but a G cup can't.
Life isn't fair though.
Some things just look more modest on certain body types.
I think God has even been trying to convict me on dressing modestly. 🤔
I don't even wear things that provocative.
I wear fitted tops and pants, and maybe show a little cleavage from time to time.
That's it.
Anyway, if you are larger chested like me, certain kinds of tops & clothing just doesn't look so modest...it looks more provocative.
We're supposed to be modest......1 Timothy 2:9
[9]In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with braided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;
With that said, just to be on the safe side, it's best to ask God if He thinks what you're wearing is modest.
If He says it's okay, you're good. 😊
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A woman of live for God is to live holy woman of God keep your self for married not lust cause it is a sin cover your self dont show skin to another man a they wonr lust after you you know what a man will do when you put nother on your body walk in the spirir of God and you will be even more Beautiful in the lord Amen🙏
God bless
Please don't flaunt your good's
Yeah I know exactly why she made this video 😂
….because I explain why I made it in the video?
@@AmandaPittman You did, I just commented when I saw the title before watching. I'm just first gonna say that I love your content so there is absolutely no rudeness in what I was laughing about here, it was more the timing of things; I had just seen you comment on another creators recent post about this exact thing and thought this had inspired you to make the video (or you were already going to). This conversation is actually something I would talk about with fellow guy friends that struggle with this idea
@@elijahperry3454 thanks for sharing this with me! It’s definitely a convo worth having!!
Adam and Eve didn't have TV, so guess what they spent their days doing 💑💑💑💑💑💑💑