No problem with waiting at all. Why would you want to risk your sanity, body with possible STDs and pregnancy when your not ready! Currently in my early 20s and have not been in a relationship. Not inviting souls into the bed before marriage. Jesus makes it clear that following him is the narrow way as proved by these comments, even by lukewarm Christians. Following him is so freeing from what this world offers me. He gives us free will. God bless!
@@AudraT I've realised that there needs to be a real conversation about how Christian women evaluate potential spouses. We've typically been given very strict rules about who is marriageable, then I meet Christian women who married guys when they weren't believers and tell me that God sent them their spouses.. who eventually got saved.
So is marriage a committed relationship or is marriage every day following when you sign a paper for the government? I don’t remember reading about Adam and Eve having a wedding day 😂
Nicole Anna so that can also mean that if a long time girlfriend and boyfriend say that they are commited to the Lord that they are married. I dont remember it stating in the Bible that you need a document from the Church to be considered married
Native Hebrew speaker here - what the Ladies mentioned about the word "Yadah" is TRUE!!! In Hebrew we have the word yadah (know) and another word that's also "know" but it's used specifically. For example, when I was a young teen I was told to not use the word "yadah" in order to say "I know him (a man)" because it was the same as saying "I SLEPT with him". So, we have another word for knowing someone (as in a casual oh yeah, I know him or of him or her) and that's "Mekir" (for male) and "Mekira" (for female). I'm saying all this to say that the word yadah is serious and it's not taken lightly and so everything the Ladies shared is VERY spot on in regards to that! It's to the point where you would *never* hear a native Hebrew speaker say "I yadah him" ect (in Hebrew)
@@dryad14 Sad to see you judge a person by their username. I've had this username for 10 years or so 🤷♀️ It has absolutely nothing to do with the context of my post nor does it have anything to do with the original video itself. Do not delude yourself. Dip deeper into why you feel the need to make fun of a stranger - I think that's the real issue at hand with you.
@@angeldream1 Oh I see you! I'm sorry to dissapoint but I personally do not, no 🙏 You could say I also didn't grow up celebrating them so for me it's still not that familiar so that pull isn't there. That being said, I've known ppl & friends who aren't religious per se but do celebrate them. Some non-religious ppl who are still traditionalists, do seem to keep the Sabbeth though. Hope that helps! :)
Yeah, this absolutely did not answer any question I need the flash to die. I am a Christian I run after God the desires don’t go away they don’t stop and there’s absolutely no Christian women in my age group anywhere that aren’t already married. And if they say they’re Christian, they’re really not. I just need the flash to die. This is just torture. Rubbing it in how wonderful it is to be married when there’s absolutely no prospects.
Wow! I see a lot of criticism to this channel, but as far as I know, what they are saying is Scripturally accurate and is actual truth. Everything in this world is geared towards pointing us towards something greater.
Thank you ladies for being raw and transparent with your own experiences! The church needs to talk more openly about topics like this and educate believers thoroughly and not just say "this is sin, don't do it.."
Thank you so much for this information. I definitely need help with this issue in order to honor God. I desire to be married but to do it the right way until I’m married. I felt shake and guilt and it’s nice to know that I’m not alone.
If only you even knew what these females felt you would never ever ever and I mean ever make this statement ever again if you were able to live for an eternity knowing what I know and they know make light of this situation... it’s the sole purpose of what you were created for... 💯
Thank you so much for this video! I needed this today. I think you guys are right, this is definitely something we need to talk about more in Christian circles. I'm 22 years old, raised in a Christian family, and I've never heard this topic addressed. So it's great to hear you talk about this.
If this thing is healthy for you so you don't know about yourself truly because masturbation is sin and if you don't know about this so must read the Bible....I am not doing judging by myself because every one do that but nobody's else confess the sins....and its biggest sins in the eyes of the lord..
Hey Karolina, thanks for sharing your thoughts. :) God is more pro-sex than any one of us because He is the designed and creator of it. He is all for it...but in the right context. Masturbation might seem like a harmless act, but as Christian women, we need to ask ourselves if masturbation is a God-honoring expression of His design for sex. To dig into that question, we've written a few articles that might be interesting to check out: Is Masturbation Wrong for Christian Girls? www.girldefined.com/masturbation-wrong-christian-girls-part-1 Is Masturbation a God-Honoring Expression of Sex? www.girldefined.com/is-masturbation-a-god-honoring-expression-sex
I really needed this. Understanding that my longings come from a deep desire to be completely understood and completely loved and that this is something so many people struggle with. Thank you for this video
Katelyn McHugh I don’t know what you’re going through but I hope no one tries to tear you down when you decide to better yourself. Your time could be spent in better ways because I haven’t done anything to you. I’ll pray for you ☺️
Hi girls! I have been following you for a couple of months and I love your content. I am from Argentina and there are no videos in Spanish like this. I would love for your videos to be subtitled, so I can share them with my friends. I am sure that like me, there are many followers who would be willing to do it. Blessings!
You will be hated by everyone because of me, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved MATTHEW 10:22 Keep going Guys! The Bible never said the world will agree
I’m not single, but I love this anyway. It can be difficult to handle this issue at times, and I am not perfect, but I would hope that the Lord would give me wisdom in this.
So my boyfriend and I are saving ourselves until marriage and usually sleep in the same bed but doing this brings so much temptation and I worry at some point we will give in if we keep doing this, but we’re both young students with no money, how can we spend time together without laying together when his whole bedroom is filled by a bed!! What else can we do?? Ps your videos have helped me through some of my hardest times, thank you !! Xx
You could spend time together out side. Or not be by yourselves so often Go on picnics etc. a channel I recommend for you on people who really did this and succeeded is Nate and Sutton. I hope this helps
Why are y'all here if you are not Christian? Gosh you "people should do what they want" are so annoying. Y'all are only prochoice to prochoicers( if that's a word). There are still people who want to practice purity, let them. Thank you beautiful ladies for this video ❤️
@@nongshimrizzforce people’s opinions doesn't trump the word of God. Opposing opinions does not help those who want to live a saved and sanctified life. It's not your job or anyone else to discourage others from doing what God called us to do. It's basically atheist trolling.
Usually I find videos like these quite distasteful but I clicked it anyway out of pure curiosity. Te way they speak about it now feels more mature than the tone they've taken previously, althought many of their critics have been particularly vile it has definetly forced them to reveiw the way they create their narrative. This was a very satisfying video to watch.
I'm Onto Something Thank you. The way it’s written is confusing as to which video she’s speaking about at which point in her comment. Is mr Atheists video satisfying to watch or is it girls defined video?
Thank you both for sharing your insights and helping single women (and men) to understand their sexual urges. Do take care (especially the expectant mother).
@@abhilashaa2799 yeah no religion is perfect but my religion does not expect me to do things like this at least. Things which don't make sense whatsoever.
All the work and wisdom you guys share.. this channel needs to be monetized. You guys are obviously doing this out of love and it is genuine. I think it’s time! Love you’ll!💜💖
You are more than welcome to believe what you like. What many people have a problem with are the harmful messages that these girls are spreading; particularly being aimed at impressionable young women.
Thank you for this video it helped me understand more about this topic. May the Lord Jesus Christ be with y'all and continue to bless your ministry in Jesus name Amen💙
No problem with waiting at all. Why would you want to risk your sanity, body with possible STDs and pregnancy when your not ready! Currently in my early 20s and have not been in a relationship. Not inviting souls into the bed before marriage. Jesus makes it clear that following him is the narrow way as proved by these comments, even by lukewarm Christians. Following him is so freeing from what this world offers me. He gives us free will. God bless!
I think the issue isn't waiting but feeling tormentted after waiting for so many years. As you get older the more difficult lonliness becomes.
@@AudraT I've realised that there needs to be a real conversation about how Christian women evaluate potential spouses. We've typically been given very strict rules about who is marriageable, then I meet Christian women who married guys when they weren't believers and tell me that God sent them their spouses.. who eventually got saved.
@@utamu777not worth the risk
Christians should speak of sex beautifully like this instead of making it look like a forbidden thing.. I feel much more confident in my drive now..
So is marriage a committed relationship or is marriage every day following when you sign a paper for the government?
I don’t remember reading about Adam and Eve having a wedding day 😂
Plank Eyed Saint Adam was eve husband.
Plank Eyed Saint Genesis 2: 23-25 states that Adam and Eve we’re husband and wife.
@@biancasanchez6393 who presided over their marriage? Who made the license? We're they not the only humans on Earth.
mpowe123 it isn’t a legal document. It’s a commitment in front of the Lord, so Adam and Eve had that
Nicole Anna so that can also mean that if a long time girlfriend and boyfriend say that they are commited to the Lord that they are married. I dont remember it stating in the Bible that you need a document from the Church to be considered married
Native Hebrew speaker here - what the Ladies mentioned about the word "Yadah" is TRUE!!! In Hebrew we have the word yadah (know) and another word that's also "know" but it's used specifically. For example, when I was a young teen I was told to not use the word "yadah" in order to say "I know him (a man)" because it was the same as saying "I SLEPT with him". So, we have another word for knowing someone (as in a casual oh yeah, I know him or of him or her) and that's "Mekir" (for male) and "Mekira" (for female). I'm saying all this to say that the word yadah is serious and it's not taken lightly and so everything the Ladies shared is VERY spot on in regards to that! It's to the point where you would *never* hear a native Hebrew speaker say "I yadah him" ect (in Hebrew)
MissAdamLambert888 honestly you’re username taken into consideration with the context of the post and the video is too funny
@@angeldream1 Hey Aubrey! I personally do not, no :) In regards to the holy days, did you have any in mind?
@@dryad14 Sad to see you judge a person by their username. I've had this username for 10 years or so 🤷♀️ It has absolutely nothing to do with the context of my post nor does it have anything to do with the original video itself. Do not delude yourself. Dip deeper into why you feel the need to make fun of a stranger - I think that's the real issue at hand with you.
@@angeldream1 Oh I see you! I'm sorry to dissapoint but I personally do not, no 🙏 You could say I also didn't grow up celebrating them so for me it's still not that familiar so that pull isn't there. That being said, I've known ppl & friends who aren't religious per se but do celebrate them. Some non-religious ppl who are still traditionalists, do seem to keep the Sabbeth though. Hope that helps! :)
Yeah, this absolutely did not answer any question I need the flash to die. I am a Christian I run after God the desires don’t go away they don’t stop and there’s absolutely no Christian women in my age group anywhere that aren’t already married. And if they say they’re Christian, they’re really not. I just need the flash to die. This is just torture. Rubbing it in how wonderful it is to be married when there’s absolutely no prospects.
Can you move? Pray about it. Maybe you meet someone on RUclips? My friend met her spouse on it. Both strong believers.
Wow! I see a lot of criticism to this channel, but as far as I know, what they are saying is Scripturally accurate and is actual truth. Everything in this world is geared towards pointing us towards something greater.
I know right!❣
I love your comedy show it’s so funny !! Keep it up 🥰😘
I'm so grateful that you guys were open enough to talk about this, it's truly so helpful.
Thank you ladies for being raw and transparent with your own experiences! The church needs to talk more openly about topics like this and educate believers thoroughly and not just say "this is sin, don't do it.."
I absolutely agree.
Thank you so much for this information. I definitely need help with this issue in order to honor God. I desire to be married but to do it the right way until I’m married. I felt shake and guilt and it’s nice to know that I’m not alone.
So hard to find Christian WOMEN talking about this. TY 🙏
No it's not. They are all over the place!
This is great! Thank you for being willing to have this difficult conversations!
Thank you guys for every single video, book and Instagram post! 😍
Love, Leyla B
When are you guys gonna make an only fans?
This comment got me dead 🤣☠️
I’m SCREAMING
If only you even knew what these females felt you would never ever ever and I mean ever make this statement ever again if you were able to live for an eternity knowing what I know and they know make light of this situation... it’s the sole purpose of what you were created for... 💯
thats interesting
sexy
Thank you for making this video, you have no idea how helpful this is to me!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽❣️❣️ Keep em coming
Yes. Sexuality is a precious gift but if it causes me to sin, then wouldn't it be better to cut it off and throw away that desire?
Ha ha HAAAAAA!!!! FGM? Idiot
Yes. Cut it off.
Make a coin purse out of it.
Yes do that but what will you do
@@jasonsamuel6601 - I already cut mine off. Made a key chain out of it. Sold it to a mormon bishop.
it's okay to have those feelings IT MAKES YOU HUMAN.
THANK YOU both for speaking God's truth! And Kristen, you being humble and sharing openly has been so special to me! ❤️
Thank you so much for this video! I needed this today. I think you guys are right, this is definitely something we need to talk about more in Christian circles. I'm 22 years old, raised in a Christian family, and I've never heard this topic addressed. So it's great to hear you talk about this.
Speak sisters in the Lord 🙏🏾✝️☮️, Yeah ✊🏾
May I ask, what translation of the Bible do you read?
They read SCM. (Stupid corrupt moron edition)
Don't fool yourself. :) masturbation is a healthy thing. :)
It certainly wasn't healthy for me, but I understand that everyone's circumstances are different.
Karolina Ucholina yes!!
If this thing is healthy for you so you don't know about yourself truly because masturbation is sin and if you don't know about this so must read the Bible....I am not doing judging by myself because every one do that but nobody's else confess the sins....and its biggest sins in the eyes of the lord..
Hey Karolina, thanks for sharing your thoughts. :) God is more pro-sex than any one of us because He is the designed and creator of it. He is all for it...but in the right context. Masturbation might seem like a harmless act, but as Christian women, we need to ask ourselves if masturbation is a God-honoring expression of His design for sex. To dig into that question, we've written a few articles that might be interesting to check out:
Is Masturbation Wrong for Christian Girls?
www.girldefined.com/masturbation-wrong-christian-girls-part-1
Is Masturbation a God-Honoring Expression of Sex?
www.girldefined.com/is-masturbation-a-god-honoring-expression-sex
I’ve never done it. So personally don’t understand the hype lol
I really needed this. Understanding that my longings come from a deep desire to be completely understood and completely loved and that this is something so many people struggle with. Thank you for this video
we have a miss struggle here? woah
Lol , it comes from evolution.
FFS IT'S NOT A SINNNN UGHHHH
Your body sending you signals isn't sinning. Discarding your body is not going to make an imaginary guy be happy with you. Wake up.
Katelyn McHugh I don’t know what you’re going through but I hope no one tries to tear you down when you decide to better yourself. Your time could be spent in better ways because I haven’t done anything to you. I’ll pray for you ☺️
I love you guys so much and you help me through my teens and I look up to you guys
Such a great subject to cover that needs to be talked about more amongst Christian women. Thank you girls!
Love the teaching about Yadah! :)
Hi girls! I have been following you for a couple of months and I love your content. I am from Argentina and there are no videos in Spanish like this. I would love for your videos to be subtitled, so I can share them with my friends. I am sure that like me, there are many followers who would be willing to do it. Blessings!
Totally
Muy cierto casi no hay material de este tipo.
I haven't watched yet but I'm encouraged already that you girls are brave enough to talk about this!
You will be hated by everyone because of me, but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved MATTHEW 10:22
Keep going Guys! The Bible never said the world will agree
AMEN
But what part of their spoken word are from the Bible?
AMEN!
@@ladywilley4725 they gave so many verses! search it up
I’m all honesty guys this video was life changing... thank you! And thank you Jesus 🙌 💯
This was beautiful, thank you
I love your honesty guys, it's so helpful, keep it up! ❤️
I’m not single, but I love this anyway. It can be difficult to handle this issue at times, and I am not perfect, but I would hope that the Lord would give me wisdom in this.
So my boyfriend and I are saving ourselves until marriage and usually sleep in the same bed but doing this brings so much temptation and I worry at some point we will give in if we keep doing this, but we’re both young students with no money, how can we spend time together without laying together when his whole bedroom is filled by a bed!! What else can we do?? Ps your videos have helped me through some of my hardest times, thank you !! Xx
If you're really set on doing that, maybe you could spend more time in common areas?
Just have condoms around and go on birth control.. virginity is not real.
Stay strong girl!
You could spend time together out side. Or not be by yourselves so often Go on picnics etc. a channel I recommend for you on people who really did this and succeeded is Nate and Sutton. I hope this helps
If you both want to do it just do it already(use protection though)
Great video!! And great timing for me. I am getting married in 7 weeks (very small wedding because of the virus).
Congratulations!! 😀♥️🎉
Maya M congratulations and all the best for you and your family 💋💖
Congrats. And be safe ❤
Stay safe, and no shame in getting married now but having a ceremony later if you would prefer a larger wedding.
Or hopefully by 7 weeks the virus is completely gone. Lets all pray that this virus will end already .
Thank you ladies!
The timing of this video for me woahh
esp during this lockdown
I love the two of you and all of your videos :-)
loved it! y'all are awesome! this video is really helpful! keep it up (and love y'alls hair)
Thank you both for another great talk
The timing is perfect!!! Thank you for your works
Single Christian men struggle with the same thing as well
Shane Mcguire did you say they *struggle* with this?
Woah is that a Mr. struggle
Thank you for your ministry
Why are y'all here if you are not Christian? Gosh you "people should do what they want" are so annoying. Y'all are only prochoice to prochoicers( if that's a word). There are still people who want to practice purity, let them.
Thank you beautiful ladies for this video ❤️
As you expect people to respect your point of view, respect others' as well.
These two are transgenders
@@nongshimrizzforce big true
@@nongshimrizzforce people’s opinions doesn't trump the word of God. Opposing opinions does not help those who want to live a saved and sanctified life. It's not your job or anyone else to discourage others from doing what God called us to do. It's basically atheist trolling.
@@shalontehernandez6752 Not to mention it’s disrespectful to purposefully enter an obviously Christian space to disrespect our beliefs.
Love your channel, and the content y'all create. ❤
I love being a Christian
I love being a satanist😎👍🏻🤰🏻😈
Mam it’s like nothing on planet earth but at the same time can be the toughest road you’ll ever endure on as well
@@jaelynnberry4892 Funny joke, tell it to the Lord one day.
Thank you so much, spirit lead video 100%
Usually I find videos like these quite distasteful but I clicked it anyway out of pure curiosity. Te way they speak about it now feels more mature than the tone they've taken previously, althought many of their critics have been particularly vile it has definetly forced them to reveiw the way they create their narrative. This was a very satisfying video to watch.
Sophie Lancaster What does this even mean?
@@rubyjean5102 read
sinnie krowfeather Thanks that was so helpful 🙄
@@rubyjean5102 She's saying their delivery and attitude is much better than how it was in the past.
I'm Onto Something Thank you. The way it’s written is confusing as to which video she’s speaking about at which point in her comment. Is mr Atheists video satisfying to watch or is it girls defined video?
If I were y’all I would mute the comments for awhile
Sophia Rose cult content will always be criticized. That’s why a lot of cults unplug to an extent. They will eventually or they won’t grow.
Why? So they can continue their cult ideas thinking it's ok?
What is the perfect belief to have and the perfect way to live? Are you perfectly happy in your reality?
Needed this. Thank you!
I'm so grateful for this video, please make moreeeee
This is beautiful and so helpful and encouraging. Thank you!
Love you girls!! Thanks for the advice !! 💞
Thank you so much for this message. I've been struggling for a while now and this is so timely for me.
Please how can I get the book?
Thank you.
Barfing
Amen!, you beautiful sisters in Christ are Awesome!
This video is amazingg!!
What Bible do you use?
Their "mind bible"
Great revelation, and it's very courageous of you to speak candidly on this topic!
Love this
Thank you x
Thanks for sharing this its very enlightening. Though sometimes it feels as though singleness itself is a burden for me
Tricky subject, thanks for covering this girls :) x
I would like to recieve this book here in Brazil!
Great topic and discussion.
thank you🙏🙏
I needed this ❤️
no you didnt
Oh no honey you didn't ❤
G_real Herandezo dude leave her alone it’s her opinion
Chiara you leave this comment thread
Such an amazing message!
Is Bethany pregnant?
Yes
This is really a good video
What are your guys books called
Girl defined, love defined
Trash
Thank you both for sharing your insights and helping single women (and men) to understand their sexual urges. Do take care (especially the expectant mother).
I got a 15 year old pregnant
@@adamnitz9519 thats rough buddy
This video was so beautiful, thank you so much girl define for clearing things up for me😭❤️
it's not.
I thought Hinduism was hard for me and Christianity was easier hahaha guess I was wrong ;)
From a neutral perspective no religion is perfect
@@abhilashaa2799 yeah no religion is perfect but my religion does not expect me to do things like this at least. Things which don't make sense whatsoever.
Wonderful video!! Thank you so much for sharing!
I love this!! Thanks for much for the video
very relatable. thank you girl defined 🥰
I love you guys
All the work and wisdom you guys share.. this channel needs to be monetized. You guys are obviously doing this out of love and it is genuine. I think it’s time! Love you’ll!💜💖
....
No it shouldn’t be monetized
What wisdom? Supressing normal feelings is not wisdom.
Love this! Thank u!
Thank you for this video !
Thank you girls 🌹💖
I love your shirt Kristen! Little girl I say to you arise!
Oh yeah. Just noticed that. It is such a cute statement made by the Lord😍
Thank you for this video and thank you for talking about topics that people dont talk about that often
Bruh
Bruh
LOVE YALLL!
That’s sad
Skyler Swaine shut up
@Luscious lady wasteman shut up
Raaafi Y YOU SHUT UP! You’re probably boring in bed too
Enjoy being in a sexist cult?
why are people here if they aren’t christians? we believe what we believe, get over it.
Perhaps because there are people trying to understand further?
to laugh at them 🥰
You are more than welcome to believe what you like. What many people have a problem with are the harmful messages that these girls are spreading; particularly being aimed at impressionable young women.
Atheist videos get descended upon by all sorts of Christians. I'll bet you're okay with that.
Because these girls are delusional and it’s hilarious...
I love this video 💝
Kristin Travis of course you don’t consider it a struggle when you embrace it, but sadly that’s when most people become a slave to it.
An F in the chat for your BF unless thats your brother or cousin.
This is so helpful, thank you so much x
lovemusic oh mhm yep
please go to a non religion based video for a better education
Thank you for this video it helped me understand more about this topic. May the Lord Jesus Christ be with y'all and continue to bless your ministry in Jesus name Amen💙
I’m sorry you have such twisted understanding about this topic. May you differentiate the right from the wrong before it’s too late. 😔
Yeah it’s sad
For those who disagree: If you dont have anything nice to say, don't say it at all
Rinjamin Button y though?
Freedom of speech would like to know your location
They didn’t exactly follow that mantra
U sound like my mom after I call my sister stupid
I think one is capable of disagreeing and being polite about their opinion.
🙏💖💖
Thumbs up. Maybe, the Hebrew word translated know is an idiom without special meaning.
Wonderful people like you are why I am proud to be a Christian.