You were my favorite on the show . As I embarked in my own journey to find myself while navigating my marriage. Knowing that I need to let go of my marriage because I have decided to no longer be the thermometer of my marriage while silencing my own needs. I was taught to be passive and keep the peace at the detriment of my own emotional needs. Thank you for sharing your journey.
@@brizarddelices5522 please read Ephesians 5 - this is who we are called to be as wives and who our husbands are called to be as husbands. God does not tell us to “trust ourselves”. That is erroneous. God says our hearts are wicked and deceptive. If you are a true believer you will trust in Gods word and follow his example. Yes it’s hard but if you trust God and follow his guidance it will work out for your good.
Your transparency has been a light, inspiration and also confirmation. I have had to face some hard truths yet have been slow to move. I’m still listening and waiting on God to speak and move however I am confident no matter the outcome, I will be ok! Thank you Best Friend! I think you’re amazing and know your best is yet to come! Keep shining✨✨
Divorce can be like a death; whether you wanted the divorce or not. People should be open to their own healing and grieving timeline. Not everyone will be where you are at in a year. Having said that, good for you for getting to this place.
You are right it is like a death even that I wanted the divorce. My marriage was long way gone but it still sad and hard. I’m doing good every day. The Lord has been good to me. He has giving me His peace and joy. Bless to you all ❤
I have prospered and flourished more since my divorce from a marriage of 18 years. I love my life, and being single has worked out very well for me. I'm not against getting married again because the next time I am confident of who I am.
@@yoyowright07 What does it profit a man to gain the world but lose his soul? Divorce is a sin that if unrepented of can and will keep you from inheriting the kingdom of God. I pray you seek counsel and read Gods word on this.
Thank you Myesha for sharing your journey so transparently, it is very helpful. May God bless you for being a blessing....you prove that, with God, nothing is wasted....He uses all parts of our lives that we submit to Him for His Kingdom...
Therapy, exercise and of course PRAYER was my saving grace! I hire a Christian Therapist and a Secular Male Therapist! I saw one on Tuesday and another on Friday. Therapy helped me mentally, correcting my thinking. Skating and Traveling.
Divorce is not “a new chapter” when it’s done outside of Gods will. When you divorce for reasons outside of Gods will you commit adultery. If you carry on in that lifestyle unrepented you commit sin. If you can reconcile with your husband you should do so. There is more power and testimony in fixing a broken marriage then talking about your new life as a “single woman”. You are not single…God still sees you as married. I pray you seek counsel to sort this out.
@@RealEvespeaks I haven’t concluded anymore then what’s been presented. She herself says there was no infidelity or abuse or any danger. On the Pastors of LA Reunion show that her husband did he also confirms the same thing, because the host asked him and he confirmed that no one broke their vows. Praise God for that. We should know that there is no such thing as “irreconcilable differences” in the Kingdom of Heaven and if they can reconcile then they should which will bring glory to God. Her living “her truth” does not equal out to Gods Truth which is clearly identified in His word. As “Christians”, and especially a pastors wife, shouldn’t we be obedient to Gods Word and to His teachings? But when you buy into the worldly narrative you will get confused. That’s why He calls us to come out and be ye separate. Because we are called to live our lives to a higher standard than that of the world. But praise God neither of them have remarried so there still remains an opportunity for God to be glorified in and through their union. And I pray that they seek counsel and consider this an option.
@@somethintru1you are so out of touch with reality. Myesha is ministering to so many of us who are going through this. She is living her most authentic life right now and it is a sweet fragrance for so many of us going through what she has gone through. She is definitely in God’s zone. Jesus said we judge a tree by its fruits, and the fruits from this woman’s divorce are a ministry to so many women, including myself, a 42 year old woman in South Africa.
My young beautiful niece is going through a divorce after 10 years. I came here to forward some of your inspirational videos to here. ..thank you for being authentic
I needed another person lol. I needed to learn boundaries, understand what real/true love is, get comfortable in who I was, heal my childhood trauma, go to therapy because of said trauma and I likely would have attracted someone else.
On the reunion show recently he mentioned that he wasn’t going to marry someone for the church “this time” do you feel like that was a part of the problem with your relationship?
@@HerAuthenticCandleCo I went to the same church my entire life. I loved God and followed what the Bible asked of me. Not a perfect person but definitely did what I thought was right. I am not particularly interested in dating a “Pastor” either 🤷🏽♀️
@MyeshaChaney I get that I’m married to the pastors son (and future pastor) We’re not in the same place as your previous relationship BUT i wholeheartedly get where you are coming from! Blessings to you and happy to see you on this path💪🏾❤️😊. This is a ministry in itself, I don’t think we particularly do this side (divorce) of ministry well as a church as a whole glad to have your voice out in the earth.
Rooting for you! I'm happy you are doing well post divorce. Maybe God has another husband for you if that's what you want. Also please don't do yoga or medidate outside on meditating on biblical scripture. Yoga and Meditation have demonic roots. God bless you❤
Something I never could understand how two saved,sacrifice, Holy Ghost filled, fire baptism saints can not get a long in a covenant marriage! I’ve been married for 31 years and many days me n my husband wanted to leave our marriage but thanks b to God we worked it out! When we stood before God we promise him (God) and each other for better or worse, rich or poor sickness n health until death do us part we stay in our marriage.Jesus said it best people with hard hearts divorce. We make so many excuses why we leave the marriage, but one thing to remember u made a vow to God n he takes those vows very serious. There’s nothing my husband can do or say to make me divorce him! Nothing! If my husband come home n said he love animals in a sexual way I still would not divorce him separate most definitely but not divorce! U c how serious I take my vows! I just don’t believe in divorce period. Let God be true and every man a liar.
Amen! My sister at times you're killing yourself for what is no more. When love is gone there's no reason to stay you will only end up in a mental and unstable lifestyle, Good on you, Breath 🫁 again, What is your will always be your, Live and like in peace, 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿👑
Marriage is an idol to so many. It’s unfortunate. It takes courage to leave a broken marriage and also takes courage to stay in a broken marriage. I salute you on your commitment to your vows. I do not share that same ideology.
You were my favorite on the show . As I embarked in my own journey to find myself while navigating my marriage. Knowing that I need to let go of my marriage because I have decided to no longer be the thermometer of my marriage while silencing my own needs. I was taught to be passive and keep the peace at the detriment of my own emotional needs. Thank you for sharing your journey.
I am rooting for you. Keep trusting yourself.
@@MyeshaChaney Thank you 🙏🏿
@@brizarddelices5522 please read Ephesians 5 - this is who we are called to be as wives and who our husbands are called to be as husbands. God does not tell us to “trust ourselves”. That is erroneous. God says our hearts are wicked and deceptive. If you are a true believer you will trust in Gods word and follow his example. Yes it’s hard but if you trust God and follow his guidance it will work out for your good.
Your transparency has been a light, inspiration and also confirmation. I have had to face some hard truths yet have been slow to move. I’m still listening and waiting on God to speak and move however I am confident no matter the outcome, I will be ok! Thank you Best Friend! I think you’re amazing and know your best is yet to come! Keep shining✨✨
You are so welcome
Divorce can be like a death; whether you wanted the divorce or not.
People should be open to their own healing and grieving timeline. Not everyone will be where you are at in a year.
Having said that, good for you for getting to this place.
I couldn’t agree more. Healing is highly individualized.
You are right it is like a death even that I wanted the divorce. My marriage was long way gone but it still sad and hard. I’m doing good every day. The Lord has been good to me. He has giving me His peace and joy. Bless to you all ❤
One day I woke up and it just didn’t hurt anymore! Amen🙏🏾
Glad u are doing well and co-parenting with your older kids
Yes thank you
Congratulations on your journey. Blessings 💕✌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Thank you! You too!
I have prospered and flourished more since my divorce from a marriage of 18 years. I love my life, and being single has worked out very well for me. I'm not against getting married again because the next time I am confident of who I am.
Exactly! You just said it all.
@@yoyowright07 What does it profit a man to gain the world but lose his soul?
Divorce is a sin that if unrepented of can and will keep you from inheriting the kingdom of God. I pray you seek counsel and read Gods word on this.
Its been growth and healing, but that healing is still painful
Yes I understand
I celebrate you Myesha. May God continue to strengthen you ❤
Thank you
Thank you Myesha for sharing your journey so transparently, it is very helpful. May God bless you for being a blessing....you prove that, with God, nothing is wasted....He uses all parts of our lives that we submit to Him for His Kingdom...
Thank you so much!
Therapy, exercise and of course PRAYER was my saving grace! I hire a Christian Therapist and a Secular Male Therapist! I saw one on Tuesday and another on Friday. Therapy helped me mentally, correcting my thinking. Skating and Traveling.
I completely understand. Thanks for sharing.
"I will pray for your continuous healing " Amen.
Thank you
Happy to hear you are doing well….thriving! 💪🏾💖🥰
Yes! Thank you!
I am praying that God will give me strength to ease the pain, and hurt I am going through, it’s almost a year.
Hang in there. It will hurt as much tomorrow as it does today.
I really appreciate these videos. Thank you. Sending love! 💖💖
You are so welcome!
Divorce is not “a new chapter” when it’s done outside of Gods will. When you divorce for reasons outside of Gods will you commit adultery. If you carry on in that lifestyle unrepented you commit sin. If you can reconcile with your husband you should do so. There is more power and testimony in fixing a broken marriage then talking about your new life as a “single woman”. You are not single…God still sees you as married. I pray you seek counsel to sort this out.
It is definitely a new chapter for me and a lot of other people. We are grateful for new beginning and look forward to love in the near future.
Have you concluded that their divorce is outside of God's will?
@@RealEvespeaks I haven’t concluded anymore then what’s been presented. She herself says there was no infidelity or abuse or any danger. On the Pastors of LA Reunion show that her husband did he also confirms the same thing, because the host asked him and he confirmed that no one broke their vows. Praise God for that.
We should know that there is no such thing as “irreconcilable differences” in the Kingdom of Heaven and if they can reconcile then they should which will bring glory to God. Her living “her truth” does not equal out to Gods Truth which is clearly identified in His word. As “Christians”, and especially a pastors wife, shouldn’t we be obedient to Gods Word and to His teachings? But when you buy into the worldly narrative you will get confused. That’s why He calls us to come out and be ye separate. Because we are called to live our lives to a higher standard than that of the world.
But praise God neither of them have remarried so there still remains an opportunity for God to be glorified in and through their union. And I pray that they seek counsel and consider this an option.
@@somethintru1you are so out of touch with reality. Myesha is ministering to so many of us who are going through this. She is living her most authentic life right now and it is a sweet fragrance for so many of us going through what she has gone through. She is definitely in God’s zone. Jesus said we judge a tree by its fruits, and the fruits from this woman’s divorce are a ministry to so many women, including myself, a 42 year old woman in South Africa.
My young beautiful niece is going through a divorce after 10 years. I came here to forward some of your inspirational videos to here. ..thank you for being authentic
I was wondering what it is that you would have needed from your ex to save your marriage? Or was there nothing he could do?
I needed another person lol. I needed to learn boundaries, understand what real/true love is, get comfortable in who I was, heal my childhood trauma, go to therapy because of said trauma and I likely would have attracted someone else.
On the reunion show recently he mentioned that he wasn’t going to marry someone for the church “this time” do you feel like that was a part of the problem with your relationship?
@@HerAuthenticCandleCo I went to the same church my entire life. I loved God and followed what the Bible asked of me. Not a perfect person but definitely did what I thought was right. I am not particularly interested in dating a “Pastor” either 🤷🏽♀️
@MyeshaChaney I get that I’m married to the pastors son (and future pastor) We’re not in the same place as your previous relationship BUT i wholeheartedly get where you are coming from! Blessings to you and happy to see you on this path💪🏾❤️😊. This is a ministry in itself, I don’t think we particularly do this side (divorce) of ministry well as a church as a whole glad to have your voice out in the earth.
Thank you so much!
❣️😊❣️
Good stuff!!
Thanks!
Amazing woman of strength🙌🏽
Thank you
Good good goodt...periodt!
Rooting for you! I'm happy you are doing well post divorce. Maybe God has another husband for you if that's what you want.
Also please don't do yoga or medidate outside on meditating on biblical scripture. Yoga and Meditation have demonic roots. God bless you❤
Thank you so much. God is definitely sending me another partner.
I don't want an answer, but I wonder if you are open to reconciliation.
I am not interested in reconciliation. Not even one bit.
The mental fitness is super important. That helps the other areas align. Gotta do the work.
So good
Christopher Wray
Thank you
You're welcome
Amen🙏🏾👆🏾
Hallelujah ❤❤❤
🙌🏾🙌🏾
🙋🏽♀️ over ten years. Absolutely horrible I had more joy and fulfillment married.
Sorry to hear this. Bless your journey onward.
Something I never could understand how two saved,sacrifice, Holy Ghost filled, fire baptism saints can not get a long in a covenant marriage! I’ve been married for 31 years and many days me n my husband wanted to leave our marriage but thanks b to God we worked it out! When we stood before God we promise him (God) and each other for better or worse, rich or poor sickness n health until death do us part we stay in our marriage.Jesus said it best people with hard hearts divorce. We make so many excuses why we leave the marriage, but one thing to remember u made a vow to God n he takes those vows very serious. There’s nothing my husband can do or say to make me divorce him! Nothing! If my husband come home n said he love animals in a sexual way I still would not divorce him separate most definitely but not divorce! U c how serious I take my vows! I just don’t believe in divorce period. Let God be true and every man a liar.
Self worth and love is a BEAUTIFUL thing……It also helps not to marry too young(preferably not b4 30)imo...
Amen!
My sister at times you're killing yourself for what is no more.
When love is gone there's no reason to stay you will only end up in a mental and unstable lifestyle,
Good on you,
Breath 🫁 again,
What is your will always be your,
Live and like in peace,
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿👑
Marriage is an idol to so many. It’s unfortunate. It takes courage to leave a broken marriage and also takes courage to stay in a broken marriage. I salute you on your commitment to your vows. I do not share that same ideology.