Eldest Daughter Syndrome | Struggles + Healing

For all the oldest daughters, or really anyone who grew up having to be the responsible “good kid”… Let’s rant about struggles, and then on how we can heal and break free!
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:16 - Perfectionism & Self-Criticism
3:21 - Conflict Avoidance
5:32 - Self-Oppression & Loss of Identity
7:14 - Being the "good kid" (and how it's not so good)
8:46 - The negative effects of people pleasing
9:53 - Facing pushback when setting boundaries
10:56 - Being "mature for your age"
12:38 - Mindsets to heal & break free!
15:06 - How to stop people pleasing!
17:06 - How this affects our relationships + ending the cycle
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[@JelenaSpehar]

It' s hard to sit in front of the camera and speak up about things like that, but you did it to help people who have the same problem. Thank you so much for doing this! ❤ I will always watch your videos and respect you for what you' re doing.

[@LiciaWang]

Aww thank you so much for your support, it’s always so nice to hear from you, it really means so much ❤ it was definitely scary to make this video, but I felt like it’s important to talk about!

[@LiciaWang]

Timestamps
0:00 - Intro
0:16 - Perfectionism & Self-Criticism
3:21 - Conflict Avoidance
5:32 - Self-Oppression & Loss of Identity
7:14 - Being the "good kid" (and how it's not so good)
8:46 - The negative effects of people pleasing
9:53 - Facing pushback when setting boundaries
10:56 - Being "mature for your age"
12:38 - Mindsets to heal & break free!
15:06 - How to stop people pleasing!
17:06 - How this affects our relationships + ending the cycle

[@vip_izza]

Sorry for sneaking into a daughter's conversation 😅. But I have to tell that as a Asian it is even harder to be the eldest. If our siblings will get f#cked up it'd be an our fault 😢
And I agree with you that we should stay away from useless conversations. I naturally don't like to talk much about useless things.
Great vid again girl ❤

[@LiciaWang]

No don’t apologize at all! So happy to hear from you again :) YES culture is also such a big part in this. I mainly called it “eldest daughter” because that’s what the internet’s been calling this and that was my experience, but I am certain this applies to a whole variety of people (unfortunately)

[@vip_izza]

@@LiciaWang you always bring such interesting topics and things always bothering inside my head. Such a superpower 😁❤️

[@LiciaWang]

@@vip_izza aww I’m so so glad to hear ❤️ your support really helps keep me going, more coming soon!

[@vip_izza]

@@LiciaWang always here to support ! Keep em coming Lici