It seems like this guy is seeing women as objects rather than people. One of the best indicators of a strong and long lasting relationship is the ability to overcome problems and hardships together and the willingness to grow and change for one another. Only building yourself up first so you can attract "better material" probably isn't the healthiest way to think about it.
You know what's crazy, I hear older women giving this advice to younger girls 'oh go out and get some more experience'. That's basically what this guy is saying in a nutshell, but you've some how thrown the 'he sees women as objects' at him. No, he is telling the young man that as he ages, gets more experience and knuckles down, he will get women throwing themselves at him, so he should have 'experiences' with them and have fun. Then when he's ready to settle down he should take the ONE, serious. Had a woman said this to a young girl there'd be no 'oh she is objectifying men'. Like how do people always fall for this?
You are misinterpreting the state of the world we live in today and what his “advice” really means. People are getting married later and having children much later on in life because it’s not economically, financially and socially feasible anymore for an 18 year old teen to start building a big family right out of high school. This has happened many times throughout history where if the social conditions aren’t right; there will be great delays in marriage. Also, the majority of men and women don’t view romantic relationships anymore as “high society building.” It’s viewed as something which is disposable. If you’re a more modest man/woman, it’s tough navigating such minefields out there today.
@@saintmte5076You also have to take into account that the average male doesn’t gain any real life education/skills/experience anymore until his early 20s; well after high school. So what ends up happening is that a lot of dudes start playing “catch up” in their 20s and then maybe have something good to offer in their early 30s. Modern day women, regardless of whether they’re modest or not, have many options and good economic prospects today than ever before. Either you as a man can opt out or build a lot of status/money in order to “find yourself a wife.” At the end of the day, many young to middle aged men are falling out of work, education, home buying, businesses, etc. because there are little to no incentives to “be a masculine man” anymore. So guys out there that have things figured out and/or have found their “life purpose” get an easier time dating/marrying such a large pool of women.
The problem with all these chad manosphere men online is, they are getting rich off all their male followers all while having multiple women on the go, while most of the average guys watching them are single. That's kind of how it works in polygamous societies also, all the rich men have a hareem of women they can afford and all the poor men are bachelors. The truth is the vast majority of men are never going to make as much money as them or be as successful as they are. The older middle aged gurus want younger men to stay off the dating market by telling them the promise land is coming in middle age because that's their biggest competition for younger women. Most heterosexual couples there's a 2.5 year age gap though. All you have to do is look all around you, most women in their 20s are choosing and dating other men in their 20s. It's a minority of women in their 20s who date men in their thirties and even smaller percentage who are dating men in their 40s or 50s. I don't know any couples with huge age gaps, and I know a lot of people. It's not a common thing to see a woman dating a man old enough to be her dad, it's much more common to see a woman dating a man around her own age or a few years older and certainly less than ten years older.. There's a reason a lot of the dating apps and dating agencies have age ranges for people wanting to meet other people in their own age range. It's usually only the very rich and good looking men who might get younger women in their 40s and 50s and most men do not fall into that category. Our ancestors weren't waiting until they were nearly middle aged men to have children, they had them when they were young fit and healthy and that's what signs women would be looking for and attracted to.
If you live in a close knit community, then good on you. But for most guys living in this time period where the American Empire is in decline. We’re forced to figure out alternative, but practical solutions. It’s no longer just “date this girl in high school and then you two will be married for the rest of your lives.” Most relationships nowadays happen online, from social media platforms. People are no longer meeting each other through family, friends, church, school, college, at a cafe etc. Add that social decline with economic hardships and stuff such as looks, money, status etc. become even more important than it once was.
Advice from a woman: Don't wait until you're bald or showing signs of balding to look for a mate. Also, young women are creeped out by men over 30. I had a very wealthy man in his 30s after me in college. He was handsome too, but I was totally creeped out. I married my broke young husband instead and we created a wonderful life together. Age is still a thing, even with men.
Horrendous and facetious advice. You say 'Do not wait until you are balding to look for a mate' but women are perfectly happy to overlook a man's looks if he is kind, ambitious, experienced and wise etc I mean, you would be the same person saying 'love is love', so why when it comes to age is it a problem? Would you say young women are also not creeped out by ugly looking men? Btw, not every girl will meet their 'one' in college but you're telling 'handsome men' to not go for younger women because *YOU* (a minority might I add) are 'creeped out by them'. Ever thought you were just too immature to have a grown man court you? Most young girls actually prefer older men because older men are more likely to 'know what they want'. Your logic is absolutely nonsensical and before you try and reply to me, read back what you said first - because you even edited too so I know I'm not taking it out of context. Last but not least you said 'I married my broke young husband instead' and most likely stayed with him because he became what *you* deem as successful (pay attention - I said *you* before you come back with, 'oh but he's not rich now, he is average'). Had he stayed 'broke' (like you so aptly put) you wouldn't had stayed with him, and I know this because using the words 'balding' and 'men over 30' lets me know there are things that are deal breakers for you, and a *balding man* over a *certain age* that was *broke* would have been automatically rejected by you. You're not fooling anyone smh
This guy is describing nihilism to a tee. “The end might be better so let’s just party till then” is a sad way of living and thinking. Take a chance on someone today. Maybe it won’t work out in 5 years! But the point was the experience and the journey. Not the end. This man should realize that life is always fleeting, and is one big journey of letting go.
Actually, this is advice being pushed to young women right now, when in fact it's young men that 'could' operate in this manner. But are we under the videos of women posting this message to young girls, telling them to stop the nihilism?
Justin is giving very horrible and degrading dating advice. Imagine if you told your girlfriend that your relationship with her was only a "practice" relationship leading up to an eventual serious relationship. You weren't intending to have a serious relationship with her or other "practice" girlfriends. Justin also does not take physical intimacy as seriously as he should; physical intimacy is extremely powerful. It should not be taken lightly.
i found a plenty of videos in which women in their late 30s complain that they are getting hitted by some " loosers" while only the best guys used to chase them. They used to be "models" ( used to be -that is crucial!!!) 😃 😃 😃 😃 😃 Well, they are aging and lose their attractiveness. Some of them notice on time and start to recalibrate their demands. I recall some video by Adam Socnick where he was talking about men and women in 40 and differences. He mentioned when women aged 40 and still clildless and single people start to pity them. When a guy is 40 , but still in great shape , succesfull and single he is a "catch". LOL to whom ??? To the same women of his age decribed above. Not to some college girl!!! Sadly, that is the only category of women who will increase their interest in later stage of your life!! Beeing unattractive in youth does not magically vanish.
*To the same women of his age described above. Not to some college girl* When it comes to men in their 40s, what about women between 25 to 35, who do you think they're after? Let's be real, you and I are not the ones to open our 'average', 'not millionaires', 'can only get women our age' mouths and leave it to the Leonardo Di Caprio's, Toby Maguire's and Justin Waller's to speak. We're simply not qualified.
Here in America, we’ve basically returned back to the “30 years war” or the economic hardships of theMiddle Ages; where marriages happened at age 29, and people weren’t having children until 31 years old. As society further crumbles, men with valuable skillsets will be highly sought after, and women who know how to build families will be as valuable too.
It seems like this guy is seeing women as objects rather than people. One of the best indicators of a strong and long lasting relationship is the ability to overcome problems and hardships together and the willingness to grow and change for one another. Only building yourself up first so you can attract "better material" probably isn't the healthiest way to think about it.
They made themselves sex dolls so they are objects , they talk about sexual leberation the fck
You know what's crazy, I hear older women giving this advice to younger girls 'oh go out and get some more experience'.
That's basically what this guy is saying in a nutshell, but you've some how thrown the 'he sees women as objects' at him.
No, he is telling the young man that as he ages, gets more experience and knuckles down, he will get women throwing themselves at him, so he should have 'experiences' with them and have fun. Then when he's ready to settle down he should take the ONE, serious.
Had a woman said this to a young girl there'd be no 'oh she is objectifying men'.
Like how do people always fall for this?
You are misinterpreting the state of the world we live in today and what his “advice” really means.
People are getting married later and having children much later on in life because it’s not economically, financially and socially feasible anymore for an 18 year old teen to start building a big family right out of high school. This has happened many times throughout history where if the social conditions aren’t right; there will be great delays in marriage.
Also, the majority of men and women don’t view romantic relationships anymore as “high society building.” It’s viewed as something which is disposable. If you’re a more modest man/woman, it’s tough navigating such minefields out there today.
@@saintmte5076You also have to take into account that the average male doesn’t gain any real life education/skills/experience anymore until his early 20s; well after high school.
So what ends up happening is that a lot of dudes start playing “catch up” in their 20s and then maybe have something good to offer in their early 30s.
Modern day women, regardless of whether they’re modest or not, have many options and good economic prospects today than ever before. Either you as a man can opt out or build a lot of status/money in order to “find yourself a wife.”
At the end of the day, many young to middle aged men are falling out of work, education, home buying, businesses, etc. because there are little to no incentives to “be a masculine man” anymore. So guys out there that have things figured out and/or have found their “life purpose” get an easier time dating/marrying such a large pool of women.
Concordo plenamente! Me casei aos 19, sem fitness, sem dinheiro ou profissão, fiz tudo errado, até hoje não me acertei na vida!
Now thats a man a true G justin waller
The exact opposite kind of man to take advice from
Porque veio ouvir então?
The problem with all these chad manosphere men online is, they are getting rich off all their male followers all while having multiple women on the go, while most of the average guys watching them are single. That's kind of how it works in polygamous societies also, all the rich men have a hareem of women they can afford and all the poor men are bachelors. The truth is the vast majority of men are never going to make as much money as them or be as successful as they are. The older middle aged gurus want younger men to stay off the dating market by telling them the promise land is coming in middle age because that's their biggest competition for younger women. Most heterosexual couples there's a 2.5 year age gap though. All you have to do is look all around you, most women in their 20s are choosing and dating other men in their 20s. It's a minority of women in their 20s who date men in their thirties and even smaller percentage who are dating men in their 40s or 50s. I don't know any couples with huge age gaps, and I know a lot of people. It's not a common thing to see a woman dating a man old enough to be her dad, it's much more common to see a woman dating a man around her own age or a few years older and certainly less than ten years older.. There's a reason a lot of the dating apps and dating agencies have age ranges for people wanting to meet other people in their own age range. It's usually only the very rich and good looking men who might get younger women in their 40s and 50s and most men do not fall into that category. Our ancestors weren't waiting until they were nearly middle aged men to have children, they had them when they were young fit and healthy and that's what signs women would be looking for and attracted to.
Had an older woman given this advice to a young lady, would you dare question her?
We need to stop doing this honestly.
If you live in a close knit community, then good on you. But for most guys living in this time period where the American Empire is in decline. We’re forced to figure out alternative, but practical solutions.
It’s no longer just “date this girl in high school and then you two will be married for the rest of your lives.”
Most relationships nowadays happen online, from social media platforms. People are no longer meeting each other through family, friends, church, school, college, at a cafe etc. Add that social decline with economic hardships and stuff such as looks, money, status etc. become even more important than it once was.
Advice from a woman: Don't wait until you're bald or showing signs of balding to look for a mate.
Also, young women are creeped out by men over 30. I had a very wealthy man in his 30s after me in college. He was handsome too, but I was totally creeped out. I married my broke young husband instead and we created a wonderful life together. Age is still a thing, even with men.
Horrendous and facetious advice.
You say 'Do not wait until you are balding to look for a mate' but women are perfectly happy to overlook a man's looks if he is kind, ambitious, experienced and wise etc
I mean, you would be the same person saying 'love is love', so why when it comes to age is it a problem? Would you say young women are also not creeped out by ugly looking men?
Btw, not every girl will meet their 'one' in college but you're telling 'handsome men' to not go for younger women because *YOU* (a minority might I add) are 'creeped out by them'. Ever thought you were just too immature to have a grown man court you? Most young girls actually prefer older men because older men are more likely to 'know what they want'.
Your logic is absolutely nonsensical and before you try and reply to me, read back what you said first - because you even edited too so I know I'm not taking it out of context.
Last but not least you said 'I married my broke young husband instead' and most likely stayed with him because he became what *you* deem as successful (pay attention - I said *you* before you come back with, 'oh but he's not rich now, he is average').
Had he stayed 'broke' (like you so aptly put) you wouldn't had stayed with him, and I know this because using the words 'balding' and 'men over 30' lets me know there are things that are deal breakers for you, and a *balding man* over a *certain age* that was *broke* would have been automatically rejected by you.
You're not fooling anyone smh
This guy is describing nihilism to a tee. “The end might be better so let’s just party till then” is a sad way of living and thinking. Take a chance on someone today. Maybe it won’t work out in 5 years! But the point was the experience and the journey. Not the end. This man should realize that life is always fleeting, and is one big journey of letting go.
Actually, this is advice being pushed to young women right now, when in fact it's young men that 'could' operate in this manner. But are we under the videos of women posting this message to young girls, telling them to stop the nihilism?
It's crazy that all this audio is AI generated.
Yeah but eggs dry up 😳
Justin is giving very horrible and degrading dating advice. Imagine if you told your girlfriend that your relationship with her was only a "practice" relationship leading up to an eventual serious relationship. You weren't intending to have a serious relationship with her or other "practice" girlfriends. Justin also does not take physical intimacy as seriously as he should; physical intimacy is extremely powerful. It should not be taken lightly.
Yeah don’t sight a contract that incentivizes the opposite party to break it
This guy in da white be like honesty and punctuality are more important than wealth and fitness 🤣🤣🤣
Thank God my husband wasn't looking for punctuality in a mate. 😂
@@ED-ub8ei I'm glad it worked out for you.
i found a plenty of videos in which women in their late 30s complain that they are getting hitted by some " loosers" while only the best guys used to chase them. They used to be "models" ( used to be -that is crucial!!!) 😃 😃 😃 😃 😃 Well, they are aging and lose their attractiveness. Some of them notice on time and start to recalibrate their demands. I recall some video by Adam Socnick where he was talking about men and women in 40 and differences.
He mentioned when women aged 40 and still clildless and single people start to pity them. When a guy is 40 , but still in great shape , succesfull and single he is a "catch". LOL to whom ??? To the same women of his age decribed above. Not to some college girl!!!
Sadly, that is the only category of women who will increase their interest in later stage of your life!! Beeing unattractive in youth does not magically vanish.
*To the same women of his age described above. Not to some college girl*
When it comes to men in their 40s, what about women between 25 to 35, who do you think they're after?
Let's be real, you and I are not the ones to open our 'average', 'not millionaires', 'can only get women our age' mouths and leave it to the Leonardo Di Caprio's, Toby Maguire's and Justin Waller's to speak.
We're simply not qualified.
Everything about our society is messed up and out of balance.
Here in America, we’ve basically returned back to the “30 years war” or the economic hardships of theMiddle Ages; where marriages happened at age 29, and people weren’t having children until 31 years old.
As society further crumbles, men with valuable skillsets will be highly sought after, and women who know how to build families will be as valuable too.