How to Deal With Toxic Parents as Adults
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- Опубликовано: 1 окт 2024
- Looking for tips on how to deal with toxic parents as adults? Look no further! In this video, we'll give you advice on how to deal with toxic parents and how to heal from the emotional damage they've caused.
Toxic parents can do a lot of damage over time, and it can be tough to recover from their abuse. But don't worry, we're here to help! In this video, we'll share advice on how to deal with toxic parents and help you heal from the emotional damage they've caused. We hope this video can be helpful to you on your road to recovery!
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The problem is that not everyone takes responsibility for themselves. People will preach to us that we’re responsible for our own actions, but they don’t take responsibility for THEIR actions. Instead, they blame all their negative behaviors on us. I agree in terms of parenting, HOWEVER we should NOT have to PROVE to our OWN parents that we’re adults when we are ALREADY ADULTS !! Oh we’re adults but our parents continue to treat us like infants even when we are FORTY just because our parents feel that we’re not ready to be an adult yet ?? That’s nonsense !! I can accept my parents for what they are but I also MUST be ESTRANGED from them. They can live how they want, but I moved on from them and so now they can’t control me. However, No Contact is a condition so they can’t control me. Just imagine being FIFTY and your EIGHTY year old parents are trying to RUN and CONTROL your life ! Yeah it’s SAD. It’s also quite DISGUSTING !
I see that comments are just for complements. Good to know.
Thank you for making this video Kenny. Currently, while being 18, I am struggling with feeling stressed, annoyed and angered with my parents. This is because I notice all their 'bad habits' and how their days are routinely the same everyday and how they treat each other. And I think it is because I expect them to hold themselves and their lives to the same standard as me. However, I can't fix this for them, I am not responsible for them fixing their own lives and I should accept that they are perfectly imperfect the way they are. It is on them to fix their own imperfections, even though they are always trying to portray themselves as perfect. I often try to escape their imperfections by putting on headphones, being away from home the whole day, and wanting to move out. But I guess it is now time to take responsibility, and to become my own parent and develop in ways that my parents haven't been able to teach.
I also asked my dead beat father to contibute to my education when i was 15...he stopped all communication..😂😂😂😂😂he had never laid eyes on me till i was 15.....my mother was pregnant when they separated
I figured some this out awhile back! When I stopped attacking my parents and forgave them. I got the most beautiful card from them telling me how much they love and appreciate me for that. They have both since passed, however I am so grateful that we were able to work through that together. However the work of healing is ongoing and I am grateful for finding your platform to help me move forward with the process of recovery. Thank you Mr Kenny❤
Merry Christmas 🎅 🎄 the Commercial fairytale ✨ Applied throughout adult life
Are you implying that Christmas is another opportunity to put on "The 'Family!" facade? 🤔
You lost me at government. We have a representative democracy for the purpose of it fixing the trauma caused by Capitalism
I know this will come off as strange timing for a joke, but as soon as I heard: "Metaphor..." Drax, came to heart 😁.
(To be fair, Drax was hurting from the PTSD of losing his Family 😊)
I know you asked your biological Dad for money, but did you ask him for intangible things from him as well and did he react the same way and block you? The parental figures, like your Grandma, were there for you and that's a good thing.
Kenny appreciate your honesty.
You're welcome
Parents deserve to be blamed. Doesn’t matter if they abused us consciously or not. Blame means to assign responsibility for a fault, and therefore it IS fair to blame parents who abused their children regardless of the circumstance. Kenny I think you are sensitive to the word blame because you don’t want to be blamed. I think it is children of abusers would be much for receptive to parents if they accepted the blame of failing their divine responsibilities , and expressed a desire to right those wrongs
Thank you for sharing your reality. We just have different definitions for words, but in essence, we believe the same things. I choose to define blame as a conscious choice to do wrong. If a parent knows they are doing wrong and chooses not to change or make amends, I would blame them. In my experience working with parents, most had no idea what they were doing was hurtful. When they did find out, some chose not to change, learn, grow, and take responsibility. At that point, since they are now able to make a new choice and are choosing not to, I believe they could be blamed.
I also believe that whether or not it was conscious, every parent is responsible for the pain and hurt they cause their children, and it is their job to learn about what they did wrong and make amends. Therefore, those parents are not to blame AND they are still responsible. So, it is a question of semantics. You are assigning blame; I am assigning responsibility.
As for your inventory of me as a parent and person, our realities are very different. If there is one thing I have done in my life, it is to take complete responsibility and make amends for the pain I have caused my children. Even as I was hurting my children, I was taking responsibility by learning how to be a better parent, so every time I was hurtful, I sat my kids down, owned my imperfections, and made amends.
If it feels better for you to define that as blame, I am fine with that.
Blaming means telling someone they are wrong. Majority of our parents grew up in environments where abuse was normalised and they had no reference point to anything healthy. So you cant tell them they were wrong when they had no idea what was right. They did what was done to them. Once you expose them to the knowledge you are in a better position to hold them accountable for their actions as they have been informed of what a healthy way of being looks like. If they still refuse to open their minds and change their ways, blaming them often becomes the itch you cant scratch. Communicating to them through your behaviour that you no longer going to be around this energy provides them with an opportunity to make their choice, which in essence will show you if they have actualy capacity to take your feelings into consideration.
Our toxic culture lends itself to child abuse unintentionally and trauma is part of every child. The only way around is to become an adult and no longer participate in this dynamic. Monkey see monkey do.