Love this! We’re currently heading towards year 9 of marriage and so many of these resonate with me. I’d love to know about the resources that you’re utilizing to tap into your feminine energy. I feel that a LOT of women, particularly in our culture, struggle with this without even realizing it. I know when you spoke about it, it definitely struck a cord with me. Thanks for sharing 🌺
Thank you. Honestly it's a collection of things I'm learning from interviews and creators, to having some pretty revealing conversations with my hubby lol 😩, and reading my bible for tips on God's intent for a wife. I'm taking all that info and literally applying it to my every day life. For instance, one of the main masculine traits I've always exhibited was the need to plan everything out in order to protect myself from failure. Sometimes, when I realize I'm doing this, I choose instead to look at my tasks at hand and say, "I don't need to get this done I just really want to. So how can I? Do I need help? If it's too much that's ok" These subtle changes in thought allow me to operate strongly in my vulnerabilities and leave space for my husband to operate better in his desire to help me (as opposed to me posing as having it all figured out and not needing any help, when really, I do 😩). I'm working on some visual skits to make for shorts/tiktoks that better exemplify what I'm saying lol. Hope this helps. I'll also upload a video with some specific resources I've used along my journey so far.
Wowww sis, soo relatable. We are 8 months into marriage and the femininity part is spot on. I was born and raised in NY and have a lot of those masculine traits that does not mix well with my masculine husband. But I’m learning too sis. I love this content keep it coming
This was eye opening for me...... many reasons why my last relationship didn't work.... and i believe everything happens for a reason but I am learning alot about me now what I truly want and it may or may not be a relationship but I am learning to love me first and foremost before I can love anyone else... And that will take time.... coming from a single mom of 1 just trying to survive in this crazy world we live in....
Awwww hunny… I feel for you. Love that you’re being positive no matter what. I hope it will encourage you to know that there are SO MANY MEN out there waiting on a feminine woman willing to love & submit in a world full of “independents” so… as you become her, your value only increases along the way.
Thanks. Recently married 4 months. I needed this video. Masculinity is my issue the ALPHA female... I needed this whole video. This makes me want to change my ways...and I will.
I'm truly thankful youu shared this w Us all !!! I needed this as well , I've been w my HS sweetheart for 13 years now and been w him since 16! We've been through a lot of growing pains , and also now evolving into who we are as adults ! He has told me and pushed me as well , to become more feminine, go do my research, I need to be a better version of myself and so much more !! At first , I couldn't hear him..until I seen he was right , I have a lot of trauma that's unhealed and I need to start there. To break free and blossom into the woman he sees potential in !! I don't see her yet , but I will not stop trying !! I will take heed to your every word sis ! Thank youu again for sharing! 🤗💖 BTW, I'm so happy youu and your husband is Aceing this Test & Journey!!! Keep up the LOVE 🤗🖤🤎💪🏾
OMG I'm just reading this in full. Thank you for your commentary. I hope you've been making great progress in this arena cuz baby let me tell you, it hasn't been easy for me this past year. We got pregnant with baby #3 and were met with a host of new challenges. I'm literally coming back to my own video for advice! 😂😩😂
I love this video ❤️ it’s very real and very wise! I think it will help many couples trying to figure this thing called “marriage” out. I’m 17 years in and it’s worth it but the work ain’t neva easy!
Love this! We’re currently heading towards year 9 of marriage and so many of these resonate with me. I’d love to know about the resources that you’re utilizing to tap into your feminine energy. I feel that a LOT of women, particularly in our culture, struggle with this without even realizing it. I know when you spoke about it, it definitely struck a cord with me. Thanks for sharing 🌺
Thank you. Honestly it's a collection of things I'm learning from interviews and creators, to having some pretty revealing conversations with my hubby lol 😩, and reading my bible for tips on God's intent for a wife.
I'm taking all that info and literally applying it to my every day life. For instance, one of the main masculine traits I've always exhibited was the need to plan everything out in order to protect myself from failure. Sometimes, when I realize I'm doing this, I choose instead to look at my tasks at hand and say, "I don't need to get this done I just really want to. So how can I? Do I need help? If it's too much that's ok"
These subtle changes in thought allow me to operate strongly in my vulnerabilities and leave space for my husband to operate better in his desire to help me (as opposed to me posing as having it all figured out and not needing any help, when really, I do 😩).
I'm working on some visual skits to make for shorts/tiktoks that better exemplify what I'm saying lol. Hope this helps. I'll also upload a video with some specific resources I've used along my journey so far.
Wowww sis, soo relatable. We are 8 months into marriage and the femininity part is spot on. I was born and raised in NY and have a lot of those masculine traits that does not mix well with my masculine husband. But I’m learning too sis. I love this content keep it coming
Thank you. I’m STILL working on it girl 😂😩
BEST MARRIAGE ADVICE EVERRRRR♥️♥️8 Years together and almost 4 years married and EVERYTHING you said is on point 💯
Yay! 🎯
This was eye opening for me...... many reasons why my last relationship didn't work.... and i believe everything happens for a reason but I am learning alot about me now what I truly want and it may or may not be a relationship but I am learning to love me first and foremost before I can love anyone else... And that will take time.... coming from a single mom of 1 just trying to survive in this crazy world we live in....
Awwww hunny… I feel for you. Love that you’re being positive no matter what. I hope it will encourage you to know that there are SO MANY MEN out there waiting on a feminine woman willing to love & submit in a world full of “independents” so… as you become her, your value only increases along the way.
Ahhh Ruby, you're so wise! I love to listen to you speak your mind. I love how intellectual you truly are.
Thank you Martha 🥰
Thanks. Recently married 4 months. I needed this video. Masculinity is my issue the ALPHA female... I needed this whole video. This makes me want to change my ways...and I will.
Haha! Listen, I’m RIGHT HERE WITH YOU. Praying these masculine traits away 😂😂😩😩😩
I'm truly thankful youu shared this w Us all !!! I needed this as well , I've been w my HS sweetheart for 13 years now and been w him since 16! We've been through a lot of growing pains , and also now evolving into who we are as adults ! He has told me and pushed me as well , to become more feminine, go do my research, I need to be a better version of myself and so much more !! At first , I couldn't hear him..until I seen he was right , I have a lot of trauma that's unhealed and I need to start there. To break free and blossom into the woman he sees potential in !! I don't see her yet , but I will not stop trying !! I will take heed to your every word sis ! Thank youu again for sharing! 🤗💖 BTW, I'm so happy youu and your husband is Aceing this Test & Journey!!! Keep up the LOVE 🤗🖤🤎💪🏾
OMG I'm just reading this in full. Thank you for your commentary. I hope you've been making great progress in this arena cuz baby let me tell you, it hasn't been easy for me this past year. We got pregnant with baby #3 and were met with a host of new challenges. I'm literally coming back to my own video for advice! 😂😩😂
Definitely enjoyed this video, just made 4 years of marriage (11 years together total).
Awww I LOVE it!
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Thank you
Great information, thank you for sharing!
You’re welcome jackae 🤗
I love this video ❤️ it’s very real and very wise! I think it will help many couples trying to figure this thing called “marriage” out. I’m 17 years in and it’s worth it but the work ain’t neva easy!
Neva hunny! Thank you for your wise insight. 🙏🏽
Right on time! 🤦🏽♀️🙏🏽
won't he do it?! 🙌
Of course he will!! Thank you!!
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Very grateful for this video! Lord sends them signs at the right time!!! Thank you.
You are so welcome. And AMEN to that!
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