Riches and regrets- the hidden struggles of a Millionaire's wife | Tuko TV

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  • Опубликовано: 22 янв 2025

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  • @Tuko
    @Tuko  3 месяца назад +25

    Have you heard, witnessed, or relate to such confessions? Let's talk about it in the comments section. If you would like to share your story with us please text a summary on Tuko Video Team Whatsapp via 0115 106407
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    • @PatienceSenior
      @PatienceSenior 3 месяца назад +1

      You can saythat again.

    • @anneferguson1158
      @anneferguson1158 3 месяца назад

      He's probably gay or both. Why is the other man buying him clothes? She should count herself lucky and move on.

    • @imranbasy4022
      @imranbasy4022 3 месяца назад +4

      Tuko, please finya sauti za watu wasiotaka kujulikana. Sababu hivi hata afiche sura, bado atajulikana kwa Sauti tu.

    • @reine924
      @reine924 3 месяца назад +1

      This lady's identity is evident. You shouldn't have exposed her face. If we can recognize people we know even in hijabs, sembuse huyu mwenye tunaona from the chest downwards akiongea?
      I'm worried about her safety now that this video is in the public domain 😢😢
      Please take it down!!

    • @mutanug.17
      @mutanug.17 3 месяца назад

      Tuko you have not protected this woman, you should have altered the voice and pixelated her image, if it was a beginner company I would understand, you should know better, shame on you!

  • @mimsbaibe6mimsgul737
    @mimsbaibe6mimsgul737 3 месяца назад +48

    I need peace najipenda ill never stay in a toxic relationship or marriage theca nja unagojea upate depression 😢am happy single now 17yrs n ka mwili kamenona 😅

    • @grayceegracie5050
      @grayceegracie5050 3 месяца назад +1

      I will not sit in such a place for a minute, no no nooop

    • @MuneneArnolds
      @MuneneArnolds 3 месяца назад +1

      You are not happy, you know that. Anyway, naeza kugonga but usizoee sana😂

    • @irenemukumu
      @irenemukumu 2 месяца назад +1

      I concur💯Happiness doesn’t come from being with someone else. It comes from within

  • @annemyke
    @annemyke 3 месяца назад +43

    I don't have any problem with English but hiyo story inge flow vizuri na kiswahili anyway too much bumps

  • @nyabsmary6449
    @nyabsmary6449 3 месяца назад +60

    Why are people complaining about her language.inaeleweka.nimeelewa from the beginning to the end.pole sana mama she's going through a lot.l wish she can get some help

    • @almahnjambi
      @almahnjambi 3 месяца назад +1

      True

    • @TKKMI-f4s
      @TKKMI-f4s 3 месяца назад +3

      Angeongea tu kiswahili, she's straining too much anafanya mtu a strain kuskiza

    • @tiananzisa
      @tiananzisa 3 месяца назад +1

      Her language barrier is what makes her husband intimidate her.... Education is the key..

    • @joynyambura9715
      @joynyambura9715 3 месяца назад

      ​@@TKKMI-f4sExactly. Mtu anastruggle kuskiliza

    • @lucynjuguna9653
      @lucynjuguna9653 Месяц назад +1

      As if the husband is better 😂😂😂​@@tiananzisa

  • @maggiem8869
    @maggiem8869 3 месяца назад +26

    I understand this woman clearly,was a victim for 9yrs until something happened to him and God humbled him.The worst part is none of the family members can understand you not even your parents because of money.

    • @KaruguruSandra
      @KaruguruSandra 3 месяца назад

      Me presence is only for God holy spirit Jesus, mimi itachukua hizo pesa na kujengea kwangu then naenda kujitafutia furaha huyu naye aty presence of man

  • @Kairatukamami-6137
    @Kairatukamami-6137 3 месяца назад +12

    I understand woman 💯. My mama stayed couz she had no choice and knew we would have suffered without her there. I left mine because I had a choice. Don’t judge until you have walked a mile in her shoes. ❤

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 месяца назад +87

    Sometimes when you go through mental and physical abuse even if you have a degree in Grammer it always evaporates.

    • @mercyk2672
      @mercyk2672 3 месяца назад +17

      You're right, when you're stressed, you can't express yourself eloquently in any language. I've been in a situation where I was so emotionally stressed, I couldn't speak in English, kikuyu or Swahili 😅😅

    • @veronicawanjiru3223
      @veronicawanjiru3223 3 месяца назад +2

      I concur with you

    • @jecintawanjuhi2413
      @jecintawanjuhi2413 3 месяца назад

      You are right

    • @mercyber3269
      @mercyber3269 3 месяца назад

      ​@@mercyk2672 Me too, even my mother tongue was a problem . Men are evil may be three or four in whole universe are a little better😭😭😭

    • @elsaaketch658
      @elsaaketch658 3 месяца назад

      Add volume

  • @Freedomfighter-fizz
    @Freedomfighter-fizz 3 месяца назад +70

    Narcissist men are always charming and friendly to strangers and other people outside of family.. only those who are close like family and close friends know them.. otherwise ukiambia watu outside they'll say ni uongo

    • @gww-px8vc
      @gww-px8vc 3 месяца назад +3

      True narcissists are real devils and they put up a great show to the outside people, na ni kweli utaonekana wewe ndio mbaya, I have dealt with a Narcissistic father of my child na I have dealt with a narssist mother weeeeh ni mashetani na ukiwaambia ukweli wanakusi tena sana, narcs hate truth especially when they see they can't manipulate you anymore

    • @ruthannelove3370
      @ruthannelove3370 3 месяца назад

      I can relate to this 😢

    • @Pamzy88
      @Pamzy88 3 месяца назад

      My current situation 😢

    • @josephinechege-i2p
      @josephinechege-i2p 3 месяца назад

      My situation too...😢

    • @eunicebarasa1436
      @eunicebarasa1436 3 месяца назад

      My situation 😭😭😭😭

  • @carolshiku461
    @carolshiku461 3 месяца назад +6

    We should all pray to God when it comes to a life partner.
    I am not in her shoes but I pray God shows her the way.

  • @alicewangoi9512
    @alicewangoi9512 3 месяца назад +5

    Pole sana my sister lived with a narcissist and she died of cancer rileted stress be careful money is nothing your health is your millions 😮😮😮

  • @Jenny20005
    @Jenny20005 3 месяца назад +15

    I slept in the sitting room for more than 10yrs and now I moved out, it's not easy, am happy better start from ascratch, keep praying your day of freedom will come

    • @tommillia7816
      @tommillia7816 3 месяца назад

      I love sleeping on the Couch 🛋️ myself.. with or without Domestic problems am just happy on the Couch 🛋️

  • @wanjamariga9187
    @wanjamariga9187 3 месяца назад +72

    This lady is really bound to trauma and mistreatment, she does not even want to leave a man she feels like a stranger to 😢 but still calls him" my husband".God help her

    • @Sylvia20-cl7
      @Sylvia20-cl7 3 месяца назад +6

      Nī mbeca the evil that drives the world

    • @23568982
      @23568982 3 месяца назад

      That man is a LGBTQ and that's why he is rich.he has to keep his wife in fear to avoid been know n​@@Sylvia20-cl7

    • @Sindi63084
      @Sindi63084 3 месяца назад +1

      Really very sad.. those people in cults want a partner who is in it too. I hope she can find a way out; may the Lord protect her...

    • @planetI911
      @planetI911 3 месяца назад +1

      She has suffered a lot , at least she is speaking out

  • @MutuaLoyd
    @MutuaLoyd 3 месяца назад +202

    The sound shd have been altered. Anaweza julikana bado

    • @setapartforhisglory1925
      @setapartforhisglory1925 3 месяца назад +37

      I think she should've faced away from the camera as well. Anyone who knows her will recognise her

    • @judynzuki5183
      @judynzuki5183 3 месяца назад +12

      ​@setapartforhisglory1925 why? Actually she should not hide if she really wants to give her story

    • @Eunice-lefty
      @Eunice-lefty 3 месяца назад +18

      Even the hands and body can be a sell out to people that know her,I think facing the opposite direction would have been better

    • @maryamash6019
      @maryamash6019 3 месяца назад +14

      So true If someone knows her in person they will recognise her immediately. I hope she is safe 😢

    • @Leira6267
      @Leira6267 3 месяца назад

      @@judynzuki5183 For the safety of herself and kids.

  • @annetheuri607
    @annetheuri607 3 месяца назад +7

    This lady is going through what I had been through for many year's, only last year I came to know what the problem is, I wish I can meet her and tell her 2 three things,about this people and their relatives too.

    • @jkkim3848
      @jkkim3848 3 месяца назад +2

      Si umwambie hapa inaweza saidia mtu mwingine

  • @ceciliakioria3357
    @ceciliakioria3357 3 месяца назад +4

    Counseling and loving yourself unconditionally are the starting point
    No one else can help you unless you are ready to be helped

  • @sleeprelaxation8431
    @sleeprelaxation8431 3 месяца назад +28

    This woman has been living in her prison for so long that she believes every millionaire's wife in Kenya and wives on her streets are going through the same.

    • @bensongutu
      @bensongutu 3 месяца назад

      Most wealthy husbands treat their wives like trash. Wealth makes 70% men change or come out to their true sexual prefences. And its also true some of those millionares are bisexuals - but the bigger percentage is towards the homexuality. They marry to hide their true identities. For women who are better exposed, they get to know their husbands sexual prefences within 1 year after marriage. One can decided to give a blind eye if the woman is not financial stable. Its very important for a women to try her best to be financial independent because it gives her freedom to chose.

    • @Kakwasi
      @Kakwasi 3 месяца назад +1

      Exactly..Ile stori ya it rains everywhere

  • @catecute.mimorr
    @catecute.mimorr 3 месяца назад +10

    Lemm make money build my future buy everything for myself and live single life with no regrets and pressure

  • @GabriellaDeLaRosa-t3d
    @GabriellaDeLaRosa-t3d 3 месяца назад +28

    Please stop complaining about lack of subtitles in the comments. To get English subtitles just press the cc button on your screen.

    • @Plakubwayo
      @Plakubwayo 3 месяца назад

      Thank u,I didn’t know this

  • @trizanjeri3609
    @trizanjeri3609 2 месяца назад

    The kind of interview i watch and my pressure increases, narcissist, not handsome, proud calling himself the lion, first wife may the Lord give you strength to know what's best for you

  • @JemimmahJemi
    @JemimmahJemi 3 месяца назад +6

    This is exactly my husband. He has chased me out of our room and am now sleeping with my househelp and two children.

  • @sawara1071
    @sawara1071 3 месяца назад +18

    So when the children leave, what will happen? Will she then depend on the kids for sustainance? What's her plan? Will he support his kids to university, especially the girl? If she was not leaving, I think she should not have done this story. That man sounds vindictive.

  • @mariashaduma4414
    @mariashaduma4414 3 месяца назад +35

    I know of such marriages most of these men are narcissist and behave exact same way, you will live under his mercy

    • @iankamau5711
      @iankamau5711 3 месяца назад +8

      rich narcissists are dangerous

    • @JosephinePendo-j2y
      @JosephinePendo-j2y 3 месяца назад

      The man is not even a narcissist he's into a cult a man sleeping around with other men isn't narcissism

    • @JosephinePendo-j2y
      @JosephinePendo-j2y 3 месяца назад

      The man is not even a narcissist he's into a cult a man sleeping around with other men isn't narcissism

  • @lynetpriscilla5842
    @lynetpriscilla5842 3 месяца назад +47

    Just listen to her story guys
    Instead of focusing on how bad her English is

  • @Siralie
    @Siralie 3 месяца назад +2

    I'm rooting for mama, she sounds like she's knows she should be planning to leave..I can only imagine how many woman go through this abuse.
    Also, the police failed her bad. She's speaking up so that's a good step towards freedom.

  • @reverendarchitectchristoph8384
    @reverendarchitectchristoph8384 3 месяца назад +7

    Thank you for sharing your experience, the man should also explain his side of story. May The LORD intervene in marriage today’s otherwise it’s very sad.

    • @trixieke8462
      @trixieke8462 3 месяца назад +2

      The man is gay. Seriously which man keeps a picture of a man holding him in his room

  • @BellaLeonis-gb6lf
    @BellaLeonis-gb6lf 3 месяца назад +31

    If this woman realised the type of trauma her kids are going through, she'd be out of that marriage in a second. But Kenyan women, wakijengewa hawawezi toka hapo, hata na dawa.

    • @grayceegracie5050
      @grayceegracie5050 3 месяца назад +1

      Imagine how sad that is. CHILD TRAUMA CAUSES A VERY TROUBLED ADULT LIFE. 😢😢😢

    • @nashryans7727
      @nashryans7727 3 месяца назад

      Watanyanganywa magari.their fear

  • @annmacharia9069
    @annmacharia9069 3 месяца назад +30

    What about having her narrate her story to Wambui Wa Mwangi in Kikuyu

    • @velma798.
      @velma798. 3 месяца назад +7

      Wacha ukabila

    • @VirginiahMburu
      @VirginiahMburu 3 месяца назад +8

      Ndio ifanyike nini?? nonsense

    • @Lady_Naomi
      @Lady_Naomi 3 месяца назад +6

      Na wenye hatuelewi kikuyu?

    • @truthbetold3102
      @truthbetold3102 3 месяца назад +6

      Si mmeiskia hapa. But in kikuyu kuna vitu ataweza kuelezea zenye maybe alishindwa kuongea na kizungu/swahili. kuna watu huelewa kikuyu tu and its okay waskie pia.​@Lady_Naomi

    • @jecintawanjuhi2413
      @jecintawanjuhi2413 3 месяца назад

      Depression is real 😢she is not okay her grammar has evaporated

  • @rosewairimu5305
    @rosewairimu5305 3 месяца назад +22

    Go on your knees n tell God to take away these riches,cheza na Mungu zitaisha phuuu😊

    • @Mr.Kenya2310
      @Mr.Kenya2310 3 месяца назад

      Kwenda huko, there's nothing like that.
      God can never take away what you've worked for with your own hands

    • @mimsbaibe6mimsgul737
      @mimsbaibe6mimsgul737 3 месяца назад +1

      Mungu husaidia mwenye amejisaidia watoto ndo wanaumia n that's a trauma ajitoe tu

    • @christineombalombalo2365
      @christineombalombalo2365 3 месяца назад

      Huyo mwanaume ni gay ​@@mimsbaibe6mimsgul737

    • @JosephinePendo-j2y
      @JosephinePendo-j2y 3 месяца назад +1

      It's not God who gave them the riches coz Gods blessings add no sorrow whoever gave him the riches will come for them soon

    • @user-un5ts6tk2d
      @user-un5ts6tk2d 3 месяца назад

      Totally agree. Ask God to remove all that wealth and to bring him down to his knees in every way until he makes his ways right with God.

  • @loco871
    @loco871 3 месяца назад +4

    Life will humble him with time one day

  • @leahmuthoni9576
    @leahmuthoni9576 3 месяца назад +10

    All the best mammaa...Nakumbuka siku moja nilienda interview I was really depressed and all English vanish, I took 1 hour trying to explain who I am in English ...after the interview my English came back 😢😢😢

    • @mercyber3269
      @mercyber3269 3 месяца назад +1

      I experienced the same in a embassy interview. You can imagine how strict those pple are, my English was englishing, 😮 i was not able to answer a simple question as to where my bank acc was allocated and the name of my bank, my kneels were sweating 😅😅 my limbs were shaking. I was stupid, when I came out of embassy I narrated all the answers like a poem ooh God

    • @leahmuthoni9576
      @leahmuthoni9576 3 месяца назад

      @@mercyber3269 🤣🤣🤣

    • @maryndighila6231
      @maryndighila6231 3 месяца назад

      😂😂😂😂😂 pole ​@@mercyber3269

    • @julianwangari4779
      @julianwangari4779 3 месяца назад

      ​@@mercyber3269😂😂😂😂😂

    • @teresiamaina9573
      @teresiamaina9573 3 месяца назад

      Wengine interview ya kazi hivyo hivyo na tukitoka English is back with a bhang

  • @suzziealys
    @suzziealys 3 месяца назад +13

    I can relate. Better kucheka kwa bike than kulia juu ya range

    • @terrencesamnjoroge1842
      @terrencesamnjoroge1842 3 месяца назад +1

      ❤ i wish all women can reason like you.. Women end up with bad men coz they are married to his money not the person

    • @teresiamaina9573
      @teresiamaina9573 3 месяца назад

      Kila mahali unaeza lia

    • @MuneneArnolds
      @MuneneArnolds 3 месяца назад

      Suzzie kuja nikue nakuchekesha kwa bedsitter😂😂

  • @angelngendo3071
    @angelngendo3071 3 месяца назад +10

    This is exactly my case I know exactly what she's going through

    • @mercyk2672
      @mercyk2672 3 месяца назад +3

      Please, don't wait another minute. Think about the kids. I stayed in a bad relationship until I decided to leave when my daughter was 7. The damage was already done. She's now 14 and really struggling emotionally. She's very articulate and isn't afraid to talk about her feelings, just like most kids born in America. I feel so helpless since I know everything She's saying is true. I'm looking for a therapist for her and praying that it may help a little 🙏

  • @ruthn9381
    @ruthn9381 3 месяца назад +111

    Wish us Kenyans can understand thst it's alright to speak in a language which we are fluent in to make the story flow easily. Other countries don't have a problem putting captions ( subtitles). Tuko tafadhali work on that.

    • @nancyelazia1860
      @nancyelazia1860 3 месяца назад +12

      Maybe she's hiding identity with broken English

    • @Cleanfreak254
      @Cleanfreak254 3 месяца назад +11

      ​@@nancyelazia1860kwenda kabisaa😂😂😂😂😂

    • @monienjeri3042
      @monienjeri3042 3 месяца назад +2

      Don't include,... am understanding her...

    • @clarabanduka2979
      @clarabanduka2979 3 месяца назад +16

      Like wa Tz we r soooo proud of our kiswahili. Lakini ni a lot of pressure kwa some countries waongee English matokeo yake ndio haya

    • @rukam3
      @rukam3 3 месяца назад +3

      This is very true especially when traumatic. Anyways, it’s only problem if it’s a Kikuyu. Bet if it’s Luo or other Lake languages or Coast, no one would bat an eye. Discrimination towards Kikuyu needs to stop. I am learning the language… and when I master it,that’s all I will speak when in Central region.

  • @Blessedmum-m3x
    @Blessedmum-m3x 3 месяца назад +42

    I totally relate with her, gained courage to leave after 30+ years after lacking anymore excuses about growing children. But without nothing except the clothes on my back. Am at a better place now with a lot peace. I regret not leaving early because the children l was giving excuses not to leave succumbed to drug abuse because of all that has been happening. I had to surrender everything to God to do his work.

    • @joskyshams4758
      @joskyshams4758 3 месяца назад +5

      May the Lord remember your children.

    • @Blessedmum-m3x
      @Blessedmum-m3x 3 месяца назад

      @@joskyshams4758 Thank you.. 🙏

    • @Banimsh
      @Banimsh 3 месяца назад +6

      On my thirteenth year but praying God next year I will be free.i can't do it any longer God will come through for us huko mbelembele

    • @salomeorina3579
      @salomeorina3579 3 месяца назад +1

      10 years I saw,see,I left and I will never look back

    • @rebeccawanjiku1002
      @rebeccawanjiku1002 3 месяца назад

      I'm on this journey right now I ain't waiting for my kids mental wellbeing to be messed further

  • @mamageorge8289
    @mamageorge8289 3 месяца назад +13

    Get out and go hustle like anyone. Why do you stay where you are not needed? Truth be told, you are being treated the way you are treating yourself. Wacha kusingizia watoto-kids do not thrive in violent environment.

    • @carolinecampbell4040
      @carolinecampbell4040 3 месяца назад +4

      Well said you are a grown and know that this is not a safe environment especially for your kids emotional growth. Go and work am a mum of 5 and have done it and 2 of my kids have graduated as a single mum.

    • @theresaelizabethelijah117
      @theresaelizabethelijah117 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@carolinecampbell4040standing ovation 👏 ❤️ 🙌 everything is possible

  • @irenemukumu
    @irenemukumu 2 месяца назад

    I wish the interviewer would have asked the questions sequentially, in a chronological manner.

  • @njerimureithi6924
    @njerimureithi6924 3 месяца назад +45

    Only a person who knows life is spiritual will understand the deeper meaning of this story

    • @rosemarynzwili984
      @rosemarynzwili984 3 месяца назад +2

      I was looking for this comment

    • @peach5860
      @peach5860 3 месяца назад +1

      Please explain to me the meaning 😢

    • @keepitreal335
      @keepitreal335 3 месяца назад +7

      Life is all about common sense ,nothing like spiritual 😅😅

    • @mw6175
      @mw6175 3 месяца назад +8

      ​@@keepitreal335life is very much spiritual even witches knows that too so don't be ignorant

    • @BoboMugo-pz2uk
      @BoboMugo-pz2uk 3 месяца назад +2

      Ephesians 6
      Yet all power and authority of the word is with, it is near In our mouth..Colosians 2:13-15
      2 corinthians 10 3-5....please pray and ask for prayers the lord Jesus christ wants to win the battle for you

  • @janetwaambo9559
    @janetwaambo9559 3 месяца назад +1

    This lady can be recognized so easily by people who know her ...why not blurre her imagine or change her voice

  • @lucym3085
    @lucym3085 3 месяца назад +2

    She still has the wedding ring on ...I have a lot to say but 🥺

  • @SofiaJuma-md8ej
    @SofiaJuma-md8ej 3 месяца назад +5

    Wee mware ongea kiswahili achana na kzungu 😮

  • @janesmithe3578
    @janesmithe3578 3 месяца назад +1

    Narcissist man. I went through the same but left him am now very happy.

  • @TrizaRexIan
    @TrizaRexIan 3 месяца назад +38

    I would rather sleep in a single mabati house on a mattress n have peace of mind than live in a mansion hell. Ningekuwa mimi ningekuwa ninekanyanga kubwa kubwa

    • @carolinewanjiru9733
      @carolinewanjiru9733 3 месяца назад +4

      Aki ... nowadays I pray for a simple life with God of joy ,peace and love ❤

    • @mimsbaibe6mimsgul737
      @mimsbaibe6mimsgul737 3 месяца назад

      Nima me now 17yrs am happy I started from 0 mtu ajifunze kilujipenda coz the kids are suffering 😢watu wataambiwa mara gapi wakanyange kubwa kubwa if unaona hakuna place mnapelekana😮

    • @marytomas-x4b
      @marytomas-x4b 3 месяца назад +1

      To go leave the millions 😢😢😢😢

    • @mercilinewanjala9905
      @mercilinewanjala9905 3 месяца назад

      What's important of those millions you can't have access even to a single penny, peace is paramount​@@marytomas-x4b

    • @Irriswhartirris
      @Irriswhartirris 3 месяца назад

      I'd rather have my own alone with my peace of mind than poverty again... 😢

  • @dorismakena5467
    @dorismakena5467 3 месяца назад +1

    She must be from Nyeri. May God give her and her kids peace.

  • @hanifajuma6121
    @hanifajuma6121 3 месяца назад +9

    I heard a story like this before in runda a lady had 2 kids and everyweek there was a guy who used to visit and she was told it's a business partner. She used to be made cook nice meals serve every and then she was told not to go to the living room until the visitor leaves, one day she got suspicious and went to the room she was shocked to see her the visitor was P Diddy to her husband, she left him after that.

  • @sylviaotieno1264
    @sylviaotieno1264 3 месяца назад +3

    The first step to save this woman would be to introduce her to a therapist

    • @amerudi111
      @amerudi111 3 месяца назад +1

      Totally agree, she is seriously traumatised. It would help her leave and start again with peace and her children wouldn't care about leaving the hell hole. Praying for her to be able to jump and trust God.

  • @dadychaps7527
    @dadychaps7527 3 месяца назад

    Story yake inaeleweka but haija flow step by step ieleweke zaidi. But may God guide her🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @carolinewanjiru9733
    @carolinewanjiru9733 3 месяца назад +6

    This is spiritual... Very Sad .She should plan herself...leave for some time .Get counseling and psychological help ,heal and then she can make the Right decision

  • @evansonyancha5688
    @evansonyancha5688 3 месяца назад +1

    Hugs mama😢..... it's such a traumatic experience....

  • @liliankarimi8021
    @liliankarimi8021 3 месяца назад +18

    Gayism. Riches from hell. Run my sister. He's covering himself in the name of marriage n children. To fit in the society. Rotten world😢🤦

    • @BethMwangi-uk1pl
      @BethMwangi-uk1pl 3 месяца назад +1

      Yeah the man is in the cult ni vny hataki bibi ajue

  • @dianangethe7839
    @dianangethe7839 3 месяца назад +20

    But mngemgeuza sura aonekane from the back, again let guest express themselves in a language they can speak fluently

    • @Joe-tr2vk
      @Joe-tr2vk 3 месяца назад

      Or at least pixelate her face,I am afraid she is recognisable for those familiar with her.

  • @pastorjoycenjiirisministry4966
    @pastorjoycenjiirisministry4966 3 месяца назад

    Agree with that woman it's very true even me have witnessed. May God give you peace and protect you.

  • @imanilukellalovehopefaith1355
    @imanilukellalovehopefaith1355 3 месяца назад +7

    💔💔😡😡🙏🏾..hiyo pesa ni blood money , wealth from God comes with joy and more goodness from God

    • @eunicenjeri6125
      @eunicenjeri6125 3 месяца назад

      Well said.

    • @wanjafaith
      @wanjafaith 2 месяца назад

      So true, follow Erica and Bamboo (Life is Spiritual) you will learn the way he treats his wife could be a condition from some evil covenants for wealth he has made. They de-sensitise you to treat family members like that in exchange for money, power, fame etc

  • @Esther_254
    @Esther_254 3 месяца назад +9

    Sad state of living with a narcissist but I wish you strength people also don't know yellow maize is the only one with additional vitamin A

  • @grayceegracie5050
    @grayceegracie5050 3 месяца назад

    @26:00 min into this, the interviewer asked a question.
    MY ANSWER: She's just a caretaker/ house help in that home. 😢😢😢😢

  • @Sarah-f4d
    @Sarah-f4d 3 месяца назад +13

    This lady atajulicana tu she's not hiding her face 😊

    • @MuneneArnolds
      @MuneneArnolds 3 месяца назад +1

      Sarah, ukijaribu kumsema, nitakupea mimba ya tripplets😂😂just try

    • @RoseMary-xf3pt
      @RoseMary-xf3pt 2 месяца назад +1

      ati wanamficha and the cameraman is trying everything to expose her face...humans are hypocrites😅😅

    • @lucynjuguna9653
      @lucynjuguna9653 Месяц назад +2

      Tushamjua😅

    • @Sarah-f4d
      @Sarah-f4d Месяц назад

      @lucynjuguna9653 😃 😀 😄

  • @loiseochido9146
    @loiseochido9146 3 месяца назад +18

    Could we have her number, personally I want to give her financial support .

  • @giddyakali27
    @giddyakali27 3 месяца назад +2

    That husband provides for kids, pays school fees, amewajengea, etc. Huyu anadanganya

  • @MercyWanjala-zn7oy
    @MercyWanjala-zn7oy 3 месяца назад +6

    Si tuongee tu kiswahili 😅😅😅 kizungu inakuzunguusha😂😂

  • @TBECTC20243NC
    @TBECTC20243NC 3 месяца назад

    Faith you just said you won't consider quitting? Theen your tribulation is your own choice ama? Umechagua mwenyewe✅
    Ladies consider your mental health over money or title " married"

  • @doricahkerubo7906
    @doricahkerubo7906 3 месяца назад +7

    😂 niniii,,mummy move out start from scratch mungu atakuona

  • @mercywachira602
    @mercywachira602 3 месяца назад +1

    @metha ya kagoni please bring us this story

  • @judynzuki5183
    @judynzuki5183 3 месяца назад +13

    She should first know what she wants in life......which children is she talking about...? Ukikufa watakaa na nani? Ati akienda bwana ataleta bibi mwingine?....really

    • @njokindungu1370
      @njokindungu1370 3 месяца назад +3

      This is what is killing us women.

    • @keepitreal335
      @keepitreal335 3 месяца назад

      ​@njokindungu1370 African women not all women

    • @veronicahnyambura1696
      @veronicahnyambura1696 3 месяца назад +2

      Woooooi, the kind of treatment n things Women do Coz of Love🙆😥

    • @user-cg3vf2bl6b
      @user-cg3vf2bl6b 3 месяца назад +1

      Hawa wamama uteseka pia wanaogopa kutoka Kwa ndio ,Mimi macho Tu ilinitoa Kwa nyumba Kofi ikanipata Kwa stage Ady Leo , unathani unakaa hapo juunya watoto badae unakufa watoto wanabaki pekee Yao hapa mbele kuzuri,hii tabia iko Sana western,atii nitamchekwa sina bwana

    • @theresaelizabethelijah117
      @theresaelizabethelijah117 3 месяца назад +1

      I wonder ni uvivu unamsumbua

  • @michellegrace3366
    @michellegrace3366 3 месяца назад

    How can you and your kids suffer and put your life in danger yet you can get out and start afresh hata mkisema Mungu nisaidie help yourself first amenikasirisha sana

  • @Cateleon
    @Cateleon 3 месяца назад +5

    Please please some interviews ni za kufanya na the language yenye iko fluent Swahili could do better in this coz English is hard for her

    • @Kakwasi
      @Kakwasi 3 месяца назад +1

      Let her practice ata iva pole pole

    • @crazykids5779
      @crazykids5779 3 месяца назад

      Ajalazimishwa

  • @rosemarykariithi5701
    @rosemarykariithi5701 3 месяца назад

    She has problems but shida ni hajakubali na hatàki kusaindia please please please mama there's a lady in metha ya kagoni called Connie listen to her story go to her face book page you will get help you are depressed or go to fida mama you need help anyway pole sana may these family get justice

  • @jceekim7243
    @jceekim7243 3 месяца назад

    Coming out and letting the world know your story its not easy, The talk is on behalf of many married women who have suffered through their marriages either poor or rich. May God heal all marriages.

    • @Kakwasi
      @Kakwasi 3 месяца назад

      Please get out of such marriages

  • @CarolyneAnota
    @CarolyneAnota 3 месяца назад +2

    May God fulfill your heart desires 🙏🙏

  • @markmwaghogho9226
    @markmwaghogho9226 3 месяца назад +4

    Have struggled to listen but nimeachia hapo 10 minutes because of poor story flow, next time have a small meeting b4 the main story to discuss which language the interviewer is capable to use in expressing themselves

  • @Milkybluecow
    @Milkybluecow 3 месяца назад +2

    Sasa hizi ndio zinaitwa choices. Amesema she is going through all this because the man is providing for the kids. Ain't the kids your responsibility too? Why don't you get out, challenge what you have never done before, get a job, take care of your kids! When women say 'he is not allowing me to work' how? Its not like he's holding a g$n to your head. You are simply there because you are comfortable. So how does she justify her daughter being treated this way because she 'wants the man to provide'? Jameni, we have choices as adults- this is not a great example you are setting for your children...

  • @dorryk3933
    @dorryk3933 3 месяца назад +2

    King'ori hii nayo umeuma nje, the story would av flowed so fluently if u advised ur guest to speak the language she knows how😢she is struggling to construct the grammar 😞😞

  • @BeatriceNkere
    @BeatriceNkere 3 месяца назад

    I'm single ,bt I appreciate,coz we had everything,bt peace,,money was nt a problem,bt bt,

  • @JedidahWathua
    @JedidahWathua 3 месяца назад +1

    Woiye I can relate so sorry. Wish it was in Swahili though

  • @wanguiqariukiqariuki3797
    @wanguiqariukiqariuki3797 3 месяца назад

    Do u have to live like a hostage just to remain married???? being single is far much better 💔💔💔💔💔

  • @jacintangila69
    @jacintangila69 19 дней назад

    With English it sounds like a nosy woman,kwa Kiswahili ni genuine story

  • @nancynjeri7737
    @nancynjeri7737 3 месяца назад

    I can relate but I'm glad I'm out of that misery may God help her

  • @favoredh
    @favoredh 3 месяца назад +13

    Imagine struggling with your marriage and still struggle with English😢💔💔... I feel you mamaa pole.... Can i refer you to a psychologist at chiromo breaside?

    • @lucyanekeya4912
      @lucyanekeya4912 3 месяца назад +1

      Eh yawa

    • @mimomuiruri1552
      @mimomuiruri1552 3 месяца назад

      Clearly she can speak English. She just has an accent and there's nothing with that .
      Typical Africans with an inferiority mindset.

    • @PetroOsoro
      @PetroOsoro 3 месяца назад

      Unless,Mama accept herself to help herself first,hata ukiona he is still their because of basic needs of his children and also to continue living in a manson and being called millionaire wife,this man is very toxic, watoto wako traumatized, may God have mercy on Mama and help her

    • @gracekuria4767
      @gracekuria4767 3 месяца назад +1

      Bullshit...

    • @kadzo6614
      @kadzo6614 3 месяца назад +3

      Was the English part necessary? 😂😂🫢

  • @Chano56
    @Chano56 3 месяца назад +1

    Huyu ni mchawi she lives In nyeri I know him well

  • @joziebush
    @joziebush 3 месяца назад

    I don't know if she is all covered up to protect her identity or why. If she for identity then Tuko you have failed her coz her voice will always be recognized by someone who knows her well.

  • @maryjones3523
    @maryjones3523 3 месяца назад +5

    'Ghai' wooi..... this man in mental health case... He needs to go to hospital.... For mental evaluation.......hmmm pole sana my sister... It shall be well.....

    • @kadzo6614
      @kadzo6614 3 месяца назад

      Naa, the man is simply bisexual. He needs to just disclose that to his wife.

  • @marykigathi5789
    @marykigathi5789 3 месяца назад +2

    It's so traumatizing 😢 the best thing to do is just walk away instead of getting some lifetime illnesses if you can ruuuuuunnnn

  • @wambui8
    @wambui8 3 месяца назад +2

    Ati kuolewa na millionaire 😂na huna amani...think twice... peace is paramount my dear.

  • @Cleanfreak254
    @Cleanfreak254 3 месяца назад +15

    The lady has a painful story to tell,but unable to express herself..Tuko why don't you let her speak in her language then you translate

  • @annmuchiri3961
    @annmuchiri3961 3 месяца назад +1

    So sad ,,ama hii rusungu ndio hakupenda 😢

  • @florencekinyua5015
    @florencekinyua5015 3 месяца назад

    I like and follow your interview, l am your secret follower. Give women chance to talk the language they know - not ever victim know English- luhga yetu

  • @overseasstories
    @overseasstories 3 месяца назад

    Why would you work so hard for your money yet you can't take care of your family especially the KIDS???? Millionaire yet your kids are sleeping hungry??? Ni ya nini hiyo pesa sasa.....beats logic

  • @Nothwest
    @Nothwest 3 месяца назад +13

    English Barrier is the problem let her just speak Kiswahili or Kikuyu u can translate 😮

    • @janemwangi6932
      @janemwangi6932 3 месяца назад +2

      😂😂 Exactly
      The story is emotional bt hapo kwa grammer heri tu aongee kiswahili

    • @shikukiarie
      @shikukiarie 3 месяца назад +1

      Nmeskia cocoon😅

    • @user-cg3vf2bl6b
      @user-cg3vf2bl6b 3 месяца назад

      ​@@janemwangi6932Ile ya Virginia kamotho,

  • @wacundirangu1661
    @wacundirangu1661 2 месяца назад

    This is messed up, she even has detachment syndrome from the abuse. Ni kama anaadvice someone else.
    Eti millionaire?😂😂😂😂Woi, hata sijawatch yote but I'm here plotting how I could sweep clean that house, find all the log books...and disappear never to be found!
    Jipange mami!You already have some ideas, mengine mbele.

  • @ajjruu5390
    @ajjruu5390 3 месяца назад +1

    How i wish to listen to the other part of the story

  • @rosegitau2373
    @rosegitau2373 3 месяца назад +1

    Kingori. If you really want to assist this lady, advice her to visit a psychotherapist

  • @AshleyElsy
    @AshleyElsy 3 месяца назад +2

    God...from this story make me the millionaire 🙏 Amen

  • @kaibungarose
    @kaibungarose 3 месяца назад +3

    I can never submit i do what i want ,the man can leave at his leisure

  • @muthogaolivia8274
    @muthogaolivia8274 3 месяца назад

    This interview should have been done by Lynn Ngugi... I hope she picks it. This interviewer is all over.

  • @JoyliliLillian
    @JoyliliLillian 15 дней назад

    Now I know why I can't be a journalist 🤣🤣🤣, yani uniambie hii story yote then you still insisting you can't leave the marriage 🤣🤣🤣Mimi ntakuulizia why

  • @WonderfulSeagull-lg1tz
    @WonderfulSeagull-lg1tz 3 месяца назад

    Weee mama nenda kwa #Wamboi wa Mwangi ama
    Kwa Metha ya kagoni ama
    Kwa Cymo K
    Huko kutakua sawa na Wewe.
    #Thank you

  • @philomenamueni30
    @philomenamueni30 3 месяца назад +8

    Siuwachane na hii kisungu mama.unangangana sana.tupee tu kiswahili ur story

  • @stephenotieno.9638
    @stephenotieno.9638 3 месяца назад +2

    We need to hear from both sides before we judge.

  • @lilianadisa4003
    @lilianadisa4003 3 месяца назад

    Yes yes kuna rep cases kwa marriage,I remember mm nilikua navunjwa mkono ndio upeane once mkono imeshikwa na inavunjwa uchungu unaskia inabidi umejiachilia uku unalia na yeye anafanya kazi yake walah be single be happy.na hii tabia ya wanawake wanakaa mahali sababu ya watoi unafanyiwa vituko na uko hapo eti huna kazi iyo ni ujinga uko na mikono miguu na macho na unadhalilishwa😢😢 imefanya ata nahate kua kwa relationship

    • @savensiagreen1910
      @savensiagreen1910 8 дней назад

      Very sad indeed ni rituals zao anakuvunja mkono ndio afanye shuguli ukiwa in pain

  • @LokoKiliu
    @LokoKiliu 3 месяца назад +4

    I think mine its even worse 😢😢women do go through alot

  • @irenemukumu
    @irenemukumu 2 месяца назад

    Narcissists should just marry their fellow narcissists. The worst thing is that they prey on the sweetest and purest hearted people 😢

  • @Elizabeth-no1jx
    @Elizabeth-no1jx 3 месяца назад +3

    Bado ako kwa hio nyumba anapeana ubaya wake😅 like serious 😢 wacha ajulikane😢😢😢

    • @Nashiakoshi-dd5ld
      @Nashiakoshi-dd5ld 3 месяца назад

      Hope hatachichwa akienda home

    • @chelmithmuthui5115
      @chelmithmuthui5115 3 месяца назад +1

      Huyu ashajulikana .nie ma

    • @Ekimcom
      @Ekimcom 3 месяца назад

      Tafadhali wacha kukejeli and laughing at your fellow woman! What a shame.