Tus viv ncaus qhia rau koj paub tias yog koj lub neej zoo li no txoj kev chawm dim tseem muaj yog los ntawm tswv yesxus tus uas tau tuag saum tus ntoo khaublig thiab tau peb hnub nws tau yeej txoj kev tuag sawv rov los lawm yog koj tus txiv neb los lees lub txim kom vajtswv zam txim rau nej yawg rau nej tsev neeg es cia li ntseeg yesxus mus es ua dua lub neej tshiab mus ces koj thiaj yuav tau txais kev kaj siab los ntawm kev txais yuav yesxus los nyob hauv koj lub siab ntxiv mus koj kuj mus mhloog niam kws xibfwb xeev ntxawg Xoom cov lus devotion yuav pab tau koj
Vim koj tus txiv tsev neeg muaj kev txhaum ne ces lawv yuav tsum hlub koj koj kawg es koj thiaj kam yuav lawv tus tub ne. Yog nws tsis hlub koj ces tag tiam no nws yuav tsis nrog luag muaj poj niam.
God don't play when you killed this many people. Even God ain't gonna forgive him cause if he was forgiven for his sins. He wouldn't be doing his time.
Evil deeds never go unpunished, not even in death. Your father in law used black magic to kill people for his greed and selfish needs, likes, wants, and materialistic obsessions. Instead of going out and working for it, he chose the lesser road to evilness. He's willing to use black magic to kill. He can not repent, and he can not undone or give life back or repay for his sins. He has killed many people, and all those deaths come calling. He'll burn in hell for eternity where he belongs. Unfortunately, his sins carried unto his children and bloodline. Your parents' decision in ghosting you and deciding in cutting of contacts and ghosting you. You can not blame. We all make our choices and decisions
I would’ve cut her off too after I told her and she already know what she getting herself into yet still chose to be married to that curse family. Sorry, not sorry.
Can you blame your parents for disowning you? I wouldn’t want to be associated with someone like your husband’s grandfather. It is scary and evil. I don’t mind being disowned by the relatives, but not by my parents and siblings. Sounds like a lonely life. Not only does your side cut you out but even his own relatives cut you guys out. Anyways, I hope it is all worth it. Good luck!
I don't feel bad for your dad cutting you off. Your husbands grandpa killed his brother. It's okay you made your own decision, now you have to live with no love from your parents. As long as your husband loves you. It may have nothing to do with you and your husband- I understand but what your husbands grandpa did was a big deal. Just do better for your kids and the next generation.
Koj tus txiv tsev neeg, koj tsev neeg nej sawv daws cov ntshav muaj dab phim pauj muaj dab noj nyoog hauv ntshav. Koj tus txiv thiab koj cov menyuam ces muaj kev txhaum txhua tus Yuav tau mus teem txim saum tuab tsob rooj vag. Leej twg muaj tub muaj ntxhais txhob cia mus yuav tsev hmoob phim pauj no nawb.
That’s I feel too but the Christians thinks they can do whatever and only god can forgive them ahaha by the comments in this story. I feel even god can’t help him.
I understand your dad why he disowned you. But I'm glad your husband loved you and you both made a good life. May this be a new beginning of forgiveness and moving forward. Let the past die with your grandfather in-law. He sinned really big.
Hnov tej laus hais tias niam/txiv txawj tso dab tom neeg ces menyuam yeej paub thiaj txawj me ntsis thiab. Yog li zejzog thiaj txav deb tas nro tsev neeg ntawd.
Hais li koj Mas kuv tsis xav Tua gaib noj lawm laiv ! Koj txhob txawj nawb ram Sim no muaj vaj tswv ntuj pab tau lub txim no lawd , tswv yes xus Los tuag theej peb lub txim lawm os yog peb ntseeg vaj tswv hnoob no cais dim plaws lub txim hnoob lawmov !
Kev tua tibneeg tsi txhaum tuag, yuav npam 4 txug 7 tim neeg thiaj tag. PER THE BIBLE. Tua tshiaj noj tsi npam, tiamsis tua tsiaj povtseg ces npam. Saib puas paab tau koj os tug vivncaus. Yog koj mus nrhiav Yexus cawm koj tsevneeg ces koj yuav dlim lug txim ntawd.
tus yawg tso dab ntawv yeej tsis txhaum li, rau txim rau hmoob lub ntuj thiab cov dab Vaj dab tsev ntawv xwb vim lawv twb pom los lawv tsis quav ntsej es cov neeg ntawv thiaj li tuag ne
We all know where this Grandpa went since he never repented to those he did wrong & to God. Only God can forgive those who have committed a sin as big as this!
And this is exactly why I don't believe in god. If I kill so many people but if God can take it all, then I can just be a bad person my whole life and believe in God. Funny jokes 🤣🤣
I remember my sister going through the same situation. The only difference is she did not marry the son of the guy who murder my uncle back in Laos. When she was told to not date the guy who’s dad murder our uncle. Though my sister loved the guy she respected my parents wish. I too wouldn’t want to marry into a family that murdered someone in my family. Yes that’s from back in the old days, but still the pain is there. Don’t hold any grudges against your parents or family. You chose to marry the family that hurt your family. Let this story free any pain you hold.
I could understand how your dad feels about you marrying to the enemy's grandson. It just that your husband is innocent as you so you just have to do what you can. It is your husband and your life. Let the killing ends at your grandfather in law. All those people that he hurt in the past came to get him and he was being punished. He knew it that no one is going to come to his funeral because he was too evil.
Qhov tseeb tiag lawv txawm ua txhaum npaum cas los lawv tuag lawm ces lawv lub txim twb tas lawm os the dead knows nothing at all, lawv lub txim twb yog txoj kev tuag xwb don’t worry about them they’re not suffering.
Cas yuav muaj tej tus niag neeg siab phem ua luaj li...tsis tau luag nrog nws nyob ...li o...nyob tuav siav rawv ...tsis paub hnub twg nws yuav Tua yus li ...tsis tau luag nrog nws nyob gauv tsev niag neeg txaus ntshai ntawd li o
To end all of this, go to church. I do not understand why your in laws went through all of that. Get baptized and move forward. Ask God for forgiveness and believe with all your heart.
Nyob zoo os Me vaj niam ntsuab teev kuv Xav nug Koj thov koj teb los Seb koj Xav li cas xwb txog ntawv peb hmoob tej rog quav dev na 1 yog sunisa Lee peb hmoob thawj tug ntxhais hmoob sib tw txuj ci nrog lub ntiajteb peb txua tus twb support yeej zeeg 1 peb hmoob thoob ntuj twb zoo2 siab tias nws yog ib tug ntxhais hmoob xwb. 2 yog payengxa lor mus nrog lub ntiajteb sib tw Miss Univers. twb tsi paub tias tau los tseem tsi tau cas peb hmoob ho tsis nrog zoo siab los yog ho tsi support Dhau tsawg tiam tsawg txheej los lm ua peb hmoob tsi muaj suab npe los yog vam meej muaj teb muaj ncaw nom tswv Luag muaj txoj cai voté txhawb siab rau nws peb tug ntxhais hmoob cas peb hmoob tseem Muaj lub siab qaim2 ua tsi kam mu vote support rau peb tus ntxhais hmoob Miss Univers ua yog peb ib tug pob txa hmoob tiag2 no thiab koj Xav peb ua no puas tsim nyog lm Cov ho tsi Xav ntxhawb peb tus ntxhais hmoob los ho tsi nyob twj ywm es ho los mu tawm tsam kom peb hmoob meka ho txhob voté thiab koj Xav li cas xwb thov koj teb vim koj yog tu peb hmoob mekas caum coob dua ua tsaug
Oh!!! Puas muaj tseeb txog qhov tso dab tom es tuag taus ma !! Yog muaj no koj yawg tsis tau tuag xav tuaj kawm es tso rau cov nai miskas es phem2 rau yus tom hauj lwm na !! 😃😃😃
Neng Xiong tus kwv tij zam txim rau tus neeg tau ua phem rau koj es txhob xav txoj kev yuav tua tus neeg ntawv txoj sia kom tuag mus los nrog peb ntseeg VAJTSWV lawm hnub koj thiaj yuav tau txoj ntev dhawv mus ib txhis
Sister I feel bad that Hmong people ostracize children eneration after generation for their wrong doing to carry the weight. There are evil people out there whose children and grandchildren are like them evil. But your story saddens me how you have to suffer and your husband and his parents for what your husband grandfather committed. Evil is real but to make good people suffer is not right. Hmong people need to stop judging the newer generation they need to live too. Don't be ashamed. It is the grandparents not you or your husband. Good luck stay strong. Hmong people are evil in general it doesn't always have to be black magic. Listen to all those Hmong stories no difference.
Sis is ok, new generation ces everything change lawm, live for ur husband and kids, nobody pay ur bill, by the end of the day u pay ur own bill so love yourself xm
It's easy to blame the outcast poor family for any sickness and death in village. Just because your grandfather in law doesn't want a big funeral, it doesn't confirm that he was evil or a bad person. And that shaman lady is a scam and just wants money.
Maybe you should go be a bad person and start taking other's lives, I would like to see how you will end up, lol, better not come on here to share your story too
Core beliefs have profound impact in life. Take the bloodline belief that blood of the father, different from the mother, is pure, unchangeable, and transcends generations. This idea favors men and is integrated to all of social structures and the economy. Since a belief is a simple acceptance of the mind, supernatural beliefs are no different. However, the spirit world is imaginary, and so imaginary rules/ethics need to be defined for reasonable acceptance. Important is the consequences of misuse which is to deter the malice intent of usage, and true believers will hold themselves accountable as accordance to the rules. Beliefs are human(mostly men) made, human accepted, and human used. What is import is that everyone has the right to choose and accept, and even more important is that you(the self) must make the acceptance; no one else can make it or force you. So, before you firmly believe, think about it, understand it, and make sure that is good for you. To the sister of the story, I'm very sorry that the circumstances have limited your potential for happiness and joy with all of your kinship. It is very unfortune that some choose the darker side of life and makes it very hard for all to get along. But, at least, you found some love in your husband. Please take care and I hope that you find much more joy and happiness.
Tus viv ncaus kuv nrog koj tu siab ntau os tab sis yog koj txaus siab thov tswv yes xus zam txim rau koj qhia koj txoj kev nyuaj siab tag nrho kom nws zam koj lub txim tswv yesxus yuav zam rau koj es taug nws txoj kev koj thiaj yuav muaj kev kaj siab kuv hlub koj vajtswv haj yam hlub koj tshaj
Tus viv ncaus qhia rau koj paub tias yog koj lub neej zoo li no txoj kev chawm dim tseem muaj yog los ntawm tswv yesxus tus uas tau tuag saum tus ntoo khaublig thiab tau peb hnub nws tau yeej txoj kev tuag sawv rov los lawm yog koj tus txiv neb los lees lub txim kom vajtswv zam txim rau nej yawg rau nej tsev neeg es cia li ntseeg yesxus mus es ua dua lub neej tshiab mus ces koj thiaj yuav tau txais kev kaj siab los ntawm kev txais yuav yesxus los nyob hauv koj lub siab ntxiv mus koj kuj mus mhloog niam kws xibfwb xeev ntxawg Xoom cov lus devotion yuav pab tau koj
Maum dev liam. Tsim nyog muab koj muag tuag lawm
Yus nrog yus tsi mloog lus ces Txhob tu siab nawb nej lub txim tseem yuav mag rau koj tus txiv neb hos Txhob npau suav nej yuav sim nawj
Vim koj tus txiv tsev neeg muaj kev txhaum ne ces lawv yuav tsum hlub koj koj kawg es koj thiaj kam yuav lawv tus tub ne. Yog nws tsis hlub koj ces tag tiam no nws yuav tsis nrog luag muaj poj niam.
God don't play when you killed this many people. Even God ain't gonna forgive him cause if he was forgiven for his sins. He wouldn't be doing his time.
Evil deeds never go unpunished, not even in death. Your father in law used black magic to kill people for his greed and selfish needs, likes, wants, and materialistic obsessions. Instead of going out and working for it, he chose the lesser road to evilness. He's willing to use black magic to kill. He can not repent, and he can not undone or give life back or repay for his sins. He has killed many people, and all those deaths come calling. He'll burn in hell for eternity where he belongs. Unfortunately, his sins carried unto his children and bloodline.
Your parents' decision in ghosting you and deciding in cutting of contacts and ghosting you. You can not blame. We all make our choices and decisions
Even God can't forgive your husband's grandpa. His first kill was his wife too.
New title to this one...Karma.
I don't blame your father for cutting you off. Don't be too sad. Be understanding of your father's feelings.
I would’ve cut her off too after I told her and she already know what she getting herself into yet still chose to be married to that curse family. Sorry, not sorry.
Can you blame your parents for disowning you? I wouldn’t want to be associated with someone like your husband’s grandfather. It is scary and evil. I don’t mind being disowned by the relatives, but not by my parents and siblings. Sounds like a lonely life. Not only does your side cut you out but even his own relatives cut you guys out. Anyways, I hope it is all worth it. Good luck!
Agreed
I don't feel bad for your dad cutting you off. Your husbands grandpa killed his brother. It's okay you made your own decision, now you have to live with no love from your parents. As long as your husband loves you. It may have nothing to do with you and your husband- I understand but what your husbands grandpa did was a big deal. Just do better for your kids and the next generation.
Koj tus txiv tsev neeg, koj tsev neeg nej sawv daws cov ntshav muaj dab phim pauj muaj dab noj nyoog hauv ntshav. Koj tus txiv thiab koj cov menyuam ces muaj kev txhaum txhua tus Yuav tau mus teem txim saum tuab tsob rooj vag. Leej twg muaj tub muaj ntxhais txhob cia mus yuav tsev hmoob phim pauj no nawb.
Wow raug kev npam loj tiag os.. cov laus thaum mas siab nyoos thiab lim hiam tshaj plaws li os!
Nej yuav tau mus ntseeg Vajtswv es thov tswv ntuj zam txim rau nej tsev neeg. They said curses can last for 10 generations.
You can’t be sad bc you chose your path! What did you expect when you married into your family’s enemy (murderer)
not all sins a forgivable
That’s I feel too but the Christians thinks they can do whatever and only god can forgive them ahaha by the comments in this story. I feel even god can’t help him.
I guess the whole family is cursed. Kev npam tsuav ntau tiam yeej tsis dim li.
Thaum ua neej nyob mas zoo ua kawg, tabsi thaum txog caij them txim mas kuj ntxawj ntshais kawg li thiab
I understand your dad why he disowned you. But I'm glad your husband loved you and you both made a good life. May this be a new beginning of forgiveness and moving forward. Let the past die with your grandfather in-law. He sinned really big.
Qhov nco koj niam koj txiv tsis npaum qhov koj sib tsoob zoo nyob tshaj lawm os pog khaus pim aw
Nyuj ua nyuj thauj. Neeg ua neeg ris. Ces yog zoo li zaj no ntag-
Hnov tej laus hais tias niam/txiv txawj tso dab tom neeg ces menyuam yeej paub thiaj txawj me ntsis thiab. Yog li zejzog thiaj txav deb tas nro tsev neeg ntawd.
Become a Christian. God forgives. The children are innocent. That's the only way to get out of this generational curse.
Damn what a crazy story but I don’t blame your father for doing what he did. The grandpa of your husband killed his blood brother.
Niam laus aw kuv nyiam Kj cov neej meeg tshaj os ua tsaug Kj lub sij hawm Los hais neej meeg os
Hais li koj Mas kuv tsis xav Tua gaib noj lawm laiv !
Koj txhob txawj nawb ram Sim no muaj vaj tswv ntuj pab tau lub txim no lawd , tswv yes xus Los tuag theej peb lub txim lawm os yog peb ntseeg vaj tswv hnoob no cais dim plaws lub txim hnoob lawmov !
Koj khsus PIM tiag tiag khaus dhaus qhov khaus li lawm yeeb ncuab tuas neeg tuag es tseem yuav thiab khaus pim tiag tiag li laub
Kev tua tibneeg tsi txhaum tuag, yuav npam 4 txug 7 tim neeg thiaj tag. PER THE BIBLE.
Tua tshiaj noj tsi npam, tiamsis tua tsiaj povtseg ces npam. Saib puas paab tau koj os tug vivncaus.
Yog koj mus nrhiav Yexus cawm koj tsevneeg ces koj yuav dlim lug txim ntawd.
Koj tus txiv tseem yuav tuag sai sai mus nrog koj 2 niag yawg lim hiam ev nra ua zog them nqi hauv dab nawv
Tua tsiaj noj xwb twb ntshai npaum ko lawm ntag, ntuj yeej tsim lawv los rau neeg noj na, ruam dhau lawm os
Cov neeg phem2 li cov ko twb tuag yuav tag os tej zaum kuj yuav tshuav tus puas tab sis xyov ua puas taus lawm Yog tias Tsi qhia rau cov hlub
This is why different race have different religions. Must have a lot of hatred to go and learn this dark magic.
tus yawg tso dab ntawv yeej tsis txhaum li, rau txim rau hmoob lub ntuj thiab cov dab Vaj dab tsev ntawv xwb vim lawv twb pom los lawv tsis quav ntsej es cov neeg ntawv thiaj li tuag ne
We all know where this Grandpa went since he never repented to those he did wrong & to God. Only God can forgive those who have committed a sin as big as this!
And this is exactly why I don't believe in god. If I kill so many people but if God can take it all, then I can just be a bad person my whole life and believe in God.
Funny jokes 🤣🤣
I remember my sister going through the same situation. The only difference is she did not marry the son of the guy who murder my uncle back in Laos. When she was told to not date the guy who’s dad murder our uncle. Though my sister loved the guy she respected my parents wish. I too wouldn’t want to marry into a family that murdered someone in my family. Yes that’s from back in the old days, but still the pain is there. Don’t hold any grudges against your parents or family. You chose to marry the family that hurt your family. Let this story free any pain you hold.
I could understand how your dad feels about you marrying to the enemy's grandson. It just that your husband is innocent as you so you just have to do what you can. It is your husband and your life. Let the killing ends at your grandfather in law. All those people that he hurt in the past came to get him and he was being punished. He knew it that no one is going to come to his funeral because he was too evil.
May nej cov nkauj M👀b Vang hu?…👏👏👏👏👏👏
Dag li dag!!!
I don’t blame tus yawg tso dab, vim thaum ub cov neeg muaj mas yeej saib tsis taus thiab qia qia dub tsi pab cov pluag.
Koj npaj lawm. Yog tub nkeeg mus khwv noj ces Cia tuag tshaib xwb.
Qhov tseeb tiag lawv txawm ua txhaum npaum cas los lawv tuag lawm ces lawv lub txim twb tas lawm os the dead knows nothing at all, lawv lub txim twb yog txoj kev tuag xwb don’t worry about them they’re not suffering.
Hmoob tej laus ib txwm ntseeg ib tug txiv neej yawg twg tso dab tom ib tug tib neeg twg tuag ces zoo tib yam nkaus li txoj kev xam phaj 1 + 1 = 2, tab sis tsis muaj leej twg prove tau qhov tseeb. Nov tsuas yog txoj kev ntseeg nkaus xwb. Yog muab txoj kev tso dab no tham, tus tham hem ib tsoom mloog txaus ntshai heev vim nws ntseeg li ntawv.
Cas yuav muaj tej tus niag neeg siab phem ua luaj li...tsis tau luag nrog nws nyob ...li o...nyob tuav siav rawv ...tsis paub hnub twg nws yuav Tua yus li ...tsis tau luag nrog nws nyob gauv tsev niag neeg txaus ntshai ntawd li o
To end all of this, go to church. I do not understand why your in laws went through all of that. Get baptized and move forward. Ask God for forgiveness and believe with all your heart.
Vim nws tua neeg coob tus ces lawv los tsim nws nws mus txog dab teb los plaub hais tsis tag.neeg siab phem ces ntuj yuav lem
lub txim no ntshe nej tseem yuav npam mus ntxiv pe tsawg tiam ntxiv thiab
Tsis yog tim neb tim tej laus Kevin yeeb ncuab xwb thov kom koj tus txiv hub y koj xwb
You are good youare bad
Nyob zoo os Me vaj niam ntsuab teev kuv Xav nug Koj thov koj teb los Seb koj Xav li cas xwb txog ntawv peb hmoob tej rog quav dev na
1 yog sunisa Lee peb hmoob thawj tug ntxhais hmoob sib tw txuj ci nrog lub ntiajteb peb txua tus twb support yeej zeeg 1 peb hmoob thoob ntuj twb zoo2 siab tias nws yog ib tug ntxhais hmoob xwb.
2 yog payengxa lor mus nrog lub ntiajteb sib tw Miss Univers.
twb tsi paub tias tau los tseem tsi tau cas peb hmoob ho tsis nrog zoo siab los yog ho tsi support
Dhau tsawg tiam tsawg txheej los lm ua peb hmoob tsi muaj suab npe los yog vam meej muaj teb muaj ncaw
nom tswv Luag muaj txoj cai voté txhawb siab rau nws peb tug ntxhais hmoob cas peb hmoob tseem Muaj lub siab qaim2 ua tsi kam mu vote support rau peb tus ntxhais hmoob Miss Univers ua yog peb ib tug pob txa hmoob tiag2 no thiab koj Xav peb ua no puas tsim nyog lm
Cov ho tsi Xav ntxhawb peb tus ntxhais hmoob los ho tsi nyob twj ywm es ho los mu tawm tsam kom peb hmoob meka ho txhob voté thiab koj Xav li cas xwb thov koj teb vim koj yog tu peb hmoob mekas caum coob dua ua tsaug
Nyob zoo os me Nyab ntsuab teev os Nyob zoo xyoo tsiab rau Neb nrog tsev neeg os
Only eating noodles can save you alot of money for retirement ahahh
Until one day you find yourself in a life and death situation due to your health. Money won’t help you😂
Why is it that some of these people are so evil but also so scare when those souls come back for them.
You don’t believe untill you see in your own eyes I had seen on my eyes
Only the blood of our Lord Jesus Christ can wash away all sins.
Amen! Darkness trembles at the sound of his great name.
Amem
Only the people that put their on faith on God, have to be real and truly believe in god
God isn’t real. You people are crazy.
People like this even God can’t help them. Sab phem tshaaj plawg. You kill people for a living you can’t be helped
Zaj no yuav tsum muab tis lub npe hu tias, tej Laus sib ntxub tej hluas sib hlub no pob🙅🙅
Oh!!! Puas muaj tseeb txog qhov tso dab tom es tuag taus ma !! Yog muaj no koj yawg tsis tau tuag xav tuaj kawm es tso rau cov nai miskas es phem2 rau yus tom hauj lwm na !! 😃😃😃
Lo kawm tim plog no ma lo
Neng Xiong tus kwv tij zam txim rau tus neeg tau ua phem rau koj es txhob xav txoj kev yuav tua tus neeg ntawv txoj sia kom tuag mus los nrog peb ntseeg VAJTSWV lawm hnub koj thiaj yuav tau txoj ntev dhawv mus ib txhis
Sister I feel bad that Hmong people ostracize children eneration after generation for their wrong doing to carry the weight. There are evil people out there whose children and grandchildren are like them evil. But your story saddens me how you have to suffer and your husband and his parents for what your husband grandfather committed. Evil is real but to make good people suffer is not right. Hmong people need to stop judging the newer generation they need to live too. Don't be ashamed. It is the grandparents not you or your husband. Good luck stay strong. Hmong people are evil in general it doesn't always have to be black magic. Listen to all those Hmong stories no difference.
Sis is ok, new generation ces everything change lawm, live for ur husband and kids, nobody pay ur bill, by the end of the day u pay ur own bill so love yourself xm
It's easy to blame the outcast poor family for any sickness and death in village.
Just because your grandfather in law doesn't want a big funeral, it doesn't confirm that he was evil or a bad person.
And that shaman lady is a scam and just wants money.
Maybe you should go be a bad person and start taking other's lives, I would like to see how you will end up, lol, better not come on here to share your story too
Did you not listen to the whole story? The grandpa and the father even admitted their crime. No one can escape nad karma.
Txaus ntshai thiab hos vim muaj cov neeg zoo li no tsis leem cais tsuav nws taus noj taus haus xwb nas. I guess at the end he got his KARMA.
No worries, in the US we have lots of paper money, at the dollar store go get it.😅😅😅😅
Core beliefs have profound impact in life. Take the bloodline belief that blood of the father, different from the mother, is pure, unchangeable, and transcends generations. This idea favors men and is integrated to all of social structures and the economy. Since a belief is a simple acceptance of the mind, supernatural beliefs are no different. However, the spirit world is imaginary, and so imaginary rules/ethics need to be defined for reasonable acceptance. Important is the consequences of misuse which is to deter the malice intent of usage, and true believers will hold themselves accountable as accordance to the rules. Beliefs are human(mostly men) made, human accepted, and human used. What is import is that everyone has the right to choose and accept, and even more important is that you(the self) must make the acceptance; no one else can make it or force you. So, before you firmly believe, think about it, understand it, and make sure that is good for you.
To the sister of the story, I'm very sorry that the circumstances have limited your potential for happiness and joy with all of your kinship. It is very unfortune that some choose the darker side of life and makes it very hard for all to get along. But, at least, you found some love in your husband. Please take care and I hope that you find much more joy and happiness.