"THE SITUATION " REGARDING MY BROTHERS | " MUMMY FABULOUS "
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- Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
- Many Jamaicans mothers are like this it’s just not spoken about a lot of us suffer in silent and it damages us if your watching this video and you have experience this or gone through this I’m sorry you had to but stand up for yourself and never let your parents make you think you have to be the responsibility of your family
This video is to close this chapter with my mother
She has posted videos about me she has spoken about me many times on different occasions bashing me on the internet I have decided to be completely done with her for my mental health state I have to let go of her because she has caused me so much pain.
This video is to let go everything I feel and to stand up for myself I have watched and seen everything my mother has said about me and the lies she has told everyone on social media about me regarding my brothers
I have been dealing with so much with her and my brothers for years and it’s got to the point I can no longer take anymore.
Many people do not understand until you are going through the same thing.
Seeing your mother continue to speak about you in such a disgusting way which allows others to attack you hurts me so much.
I hope one day in the future I can forgive her for what she has done and the pain she has caused me
But right now I wish her and my sisters the best
Many of you might think no Renee that’s your mum but why is it okay for her to speak about me on social media every single time ? And BASH ME ? and I should stay quite and let people troll me and drag me every time she talks on me ?
Im not disrespecting her in my video I’m speaking my mind in the most respectful way possible
Im hurt and I don’t know when I will ever feel better regarding this situation
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The biggest lesson my own mother taught me was how I would never treat my own children, your probably learning the same thing.
Your mental health and happiness comes before everything and anything!
Sending you love and healing 💛
I can relate, I’ve decided to take a step back from my relationship with my parents because I refuse to spend my money on them and other family members who does nothing but disrespect me.
this is a generational curse that stops with me. I’ve made peace with the fact that in order for me to live a life of peace and be an amazing person, wife and future mother for my kids I owe them nothing but the best version of everything. The best version of me and the best family members to surround them with nothing but pure love not people who are going to take take take from them and be ungrateful when they can’t take no more. I’m a subscriber who unsubscribed when the chopper Wayne thing was going on and I just want to wish you nothing but peace and prosperity on this your journey to self love. Strong strong and more love to you.
Nah that voice note to pinky revealed her true colours. I had to unsubscribe from mommy fabulous cause this whole dynamic brings back ptsd & trauma for me. Being first born, girl child, an a Caribbean household is a crazy role. Its heavy spiritual warfare and we allllll need to rise up, wake up and speak out. I spent this year distancing from family for my mental health and I’ve never been better! Literally! Society doesn’t normalize cutting off family and it’s sad. If anyone is negatively affecting you then forget their title and role in your life just like how they forgot who you were to them when they chose to hurt you.
@@nomsantuli6023 right! Sweet pretty eye pinky!!! Oh helllll no!
Literally I couldn’t believe it 😢
Unfortunately this is the behaviour of a lot of Jamaican mothers, it just not spoken about! I rate you Ren for talking up. This storm shall pass 💚
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I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY YOUR MOM CANT JUST GO TO JAMAICA & HANDLE THIS SITUATION PROPER! For HER OWN KIDS sake, it’s unfair for her to depend on you to see about them.
My heart actually broke listening to this because everything now makes sense. You have a dad that hasn’t been present in your life, and a mother that was there physically but emotionally and mentally neglectful. It has to be really painful when the two people that brought you into this world neglect and treat you the way your parents do. That’s why you always try to over play your part in the lives of the men that come into your life, it’s because you are constantly trying to do for people what was not done for you by the two most important people in any child’s life but you so desperately need. One thing I’ve noticed with you is that God is parenting and protecting you, sometimes you fall short but God is a patient parent and the favour that he has over your life will forever reign. He gave your parents a responsibility to parent and for whatever reason they aren’t able to care for you the way you and your brothers deserve to, but when God sends someone to do something and they fall short, he doesn’t abort mission he will show himself through so many other people that he sends into your life to help you until you are able to carry your own weight. Regardless of who loves or doesn’t love you. Please continue to chose yourself and rebuild and fall inlove with yourself. That way all the blessings that God ALREADY has for you will start to follow you. You have an amazing heart, just continue doing the inner work mama ❤️🩹🫂 ! God bless you Ren. 🇿🇦
That made me tear😢 I felt that
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@@rurufiestyI did to 😢
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This is powerful, and I felt every word. Thank you
There’s a saying “you’re only as sick as your secrets”. Blk families say and do things to their kids in private that destroy them and if they say anything they’re crucified as if they’re the problem in the family.
Your in everyone comments you have so much to see girl go away.
Your right it’s not needed but she brought it to social media
@@trinapreteens5144 her mom defamed her publicly so she can defend herself publicly. Renee is not just a regular person on the internet it’s her brand it’s how she makes her money. Her mom’s statement can have a negative impact on her making a living.
@@trinapreteens5144 you’re a dummy because where else is she going to do it? Time square with a bullhorn. Think before you type.
Honestly I'm so glad you're standing your ground this time. I hope this wakes her up before it's too late cause you can only do so much Renee. God got you x
I will always stand up for myself I don’t care who is up against me imma always defend myself to the fullest all I got is me at the end of the day
I have a sister that takes care of me and this video really made me appreciate her because she herself is struggling but she makes SURE I’m good and I will pay her back
LETS NORMALIZE EXPOSING TOXIC FAMILY MEMBERS WITHOUT BEING JUDGED💯💯!!!!!!!
The hug part I can definitely relate too… 😩
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Thisss….💕
I’m with you on that one SISSSS!!!
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Renee, despite all the difficulties you've encountered in your life, I respect you for developing yourself and getting to where you are now. Some Caribbean born parents can be quite toxic and they wonder why we turn out the way we do but it takes a lot to progress out of those situations.
As a Mother myself....I would NEVER sit on my arse, knowing my Children are in such a condition overseas and not reach out to them. I would have to give up my job as they are my belly pain. The boys are NOT your responsibility👈🏾 Your Mother is in self denial and should STOP blaming younfor her failures. My God mon.....we need to PRAY FOR YOU as your going through hell having your Mother treat you like this in addition to all youve been through😥
This also happens in most African homes too, so sad. Can’t believe she called you a prostitute, but goes on like she’s a God fearing woman. God fearing women do not use such words, to make it worst call their daughter that.
Ren , am the girl that was crying on snap the other day because her life was shit . You just came back from club that day . Ren . I’m with you I believe everything you say ! Keep fighting for yourself a lot of people can’t be strong like you girl you are somebody ❤️
I hope your okay 💙
Im better sis thanks a lot you are wonderful ❤️
As fucked up as it is. They are here to teach us how NOT to be! Continue to do YOU Ren! ❤
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I know exactly how you feel.. my brother has psychosis and it was heartbreaking to see him break down he was unrecognisable, I think a lot of older generations just don’t understand the true depths of mental health.
Great video.Clear concise and to the point.
Well done. Continue to Evolve and grow.
You got this! Stay focus and continue to heal! 🙏🏾
I remember being in a bad situation when I lived with someone who didn't want me to be there. The stress alone from that is heavy as hell. I can't imagine being in that situation for years! May God bless his soul. Hopefully your mother gets them a new place to live asap
What your uncle did to your brother is ABUSE!! This is terrible!!!
Right
The generation of Jamaican mothers before us are manipulative, emotinally, physically and financially abusive. It's great when you can recognize the behaviour and not become like them.
Her mum is a narcissist. Just like my mum.
Why is your own mother cussing out your cousin just because she stood up for you ????
The mum is angry that her daughter has support and strength. Sad!! Cos she wants to break her
honestly Ren im so proud of you. So happy you are sticking up for yourself. African/Caribbean parents will never appreciate the good things their older children do, especially first borns. When you stick up for yourself, you are seen as bad because you are finally challenging her for her wrong doings. Black sheeps always break generational curses and i hope you break that by not copying what shes doing and transfer that to your children
Everything I have experienced my children will never feel that pain 💔
Some African/Caribbean parents … please say this to not cause offence. Thank you 👏🏾
I have been disappointed in some of your actions of course as I’m someone who genuinely roots for you but with that said I know that you are going through alot and I know it goes deeper than social media, I am proud of you for stick up for yourself ren even if your branded as the black sheep …life ain’t easy and as humans much less family and friends we should be trying to make eachother lives easier not harder . I really hope you can repair the relationship with you mom and you both can heal together for a better future
@@badbabes4128 well if you know your parents are not like that then you know your parents are not like that. Simple. I dont need to correct anything! Its obvious ppl kno what im talking about. Obviously not all duh
@@wendyondemand well clearly from how you wrote it it’s not obvious DUHH. You’re just ignorant and can’t take criticism but try learn from this and be clearer next time . 🤡
I'm not surprised.
Unfortunately.
For a mother to come on line and speak ill of her child speaks volumes, kinda feels competitive in energy for me.
Mummy fabulous never ever fooled me.Big up yourself younger Empress, flaws and all💜
She's like one of them mother that think giving your kids material things is love. They have no maternal instinct , she's a bearer, not a mother. Girl, take care of yourself, I believe you.
Ngl, this situation has really made me look at your mother differently. In the video of her defending herself, she was trying to play nice and make you look like a villain and a liar. However, based on that voice note she left to Pinky in the beginning, it’s obvious that she knows how to hurt, provoke people, and then play innocent afterward. Clearly, she’s the real villain in this situation.
The way I used to cheer fi Maureen ...I feel shame
Still support her 🙏🏾
Why doesn't your mom rent a place for your brothers until she can buy a house?or why can't they live with your mom's husband?
U only heard one side. That's her child.
@@snsn7251 then go hear her side love
ATP your mom needs to appreciate what you’ve done for her kids. Don’t worry bout it rennnnn get lit live life sisss
Time to Peru para
i'm so sorry this is happening to you and especially to your vulnerable brothers. i'm praying that you and your brothers receive the strength, stability and peace you need in your lives ♥♥♥♥
That woman doesn't care about her kids, if she did care why doesn't she go and look after them, she wants to run away from her responsibility. RENE didn't birth them and she shouldn't have to put her life on hold even if it's her brother. Especially when their mum is still alive
I also have a toxic mom. Bitter, manipulative, delusional, looks in your 2 eyes and lies and when you call her out she shakes her head and says she doesn't know what I am talking about without blinking.
To top it of she has groomed 2 of my siblings against me. She blatantly has me as the outcast and they endorse it. She spends time and money on my sister and her kids and does not look at me and mine however the few times we are at the same event she spreads out her arms wide to kiss and hug them so that the crowd can naturally assume she is a loving Grandma but what they don't know is she hasn't seen them for years and we live less then 2 miles from her! What grieve me for years, as I am the oldest I was the one running up and down before and after school when I was 10+ dropping of my siblings to daycare like I was the one that bring them come. When I mentioned that a few years ago my mum told me that that was my job as I am the oldest, lol.
The other day Ren I saw a look in your face when you were talking outside that Ihave never seen on you no matter the stort time, genuine stress. People need to understand parental mental abuse is one of the most stressful situations to be in because you put up with it for a long time as we are taught to honour our parents then one day you realise if you don't tek weh yourself you will put yourself in an early grave.
This too shall pass. Concentrate on you and you only. It is hard but you can do it.
Look into narcissistic mothers
Aww babe. I completely feel the pain of your mother slagging you off to your family. It hurts and makes you trust nobody. Only real reason I have contact with mine is because I had a baby, I wanted my child to know grandma. Something to think about for the future babe. It hurts but you do learn to put up boundaries, so they can no longer hurt you.
You must protect and love on yourself first and foremost. Sending lots of love and hugs sis xx
Some Jamaican mothers weren't raised with love. You can't even pay them no mind at all. Just focus on urself and pray for everyone.
Washed my hands and moving on I have nothing else to say to her about anything or to the world about anything
Focusing on me now
Financial and emotional abuse. Everything makes sense Renee. You are growing up beautiful soul, that’s a tremendous amount of healing you have done. Good on you. You will NEVER do this to your babies 👌🏽. I wish you love & abundance. I see you ❤️
I can relate sis, love you back ❤ Thank you for being brave enough and using your platform to talk about what many Jamaican daughters go through ❤ side note a discussion with others who have been through this would be great… I don’t think people in our community realise how common, yet devastating this type of situation is x
You’re a real sweetheart and I applaud you for taking the steps necessary to preserve your wellbeing. This is undoubtedly emotional blackmail/abuse and I’m both shocked and appalled at the amount of comments that agree and/or support your mums warped perspective.
Not gonna lie I have tears in my eyes watching this ..
Renee please look after your mental health my darling, because if your not okay you won’t be able to help anyone much less yourself your brother’s are in my prays this is so sad Queen ♥️🥰♥️🥰
By the way I love you, fuck the haters ♥️🥰♥️🥰
Not all mothers deserve respect. People need to stop with the ‘she’s your mother’ so therefore you can’t speak on her. Can we not flip the ideology on her mother? The fact her mum came on social media like say she’s one random lady to even speak about her daughter being scammed by Wayne, that just says a lot in itself. Let go of this ‘no matter what respect your mother’ this is how people end up staying in these stupid household where they are abused, simply because it’s ‘family’. Think about the repercussions people, SUICIDE ! It’s okay to cut people out of your life. Your mental health is not something to be played with. All I’m saying is this rhetoric you people are spewing on here is harmful and I believe the cause of a lot of deaths within toxic households
Facts! 👏🏾
That first part!!!💯💯💯
Ren has a good heart ❤ I know the feeling of being responsible for your siblings. You did your part, and that's all that matters 💯. It comes a point in life when trying to reason with "Narcissistic Individuals" you just have to let go because you will go crazy.
The thing is, if they were in the UK they'd have access to some kind of supported living but over there it's not happening and this situation stands no chance of getting resolved especially being in that home....which really is no home for them. Its sad. They should not have been left in that hostile and abusive environment for so long
Well done Renee. Please look after yourself now, allow NOBODY to use you, give little away and bank your money. Do not wait to be flat out with no means of making money, bank your money whilst you’re earning.
Guuurl....God knows if we could choose our family. Mi just cut them all off cause mi can go mad all by miself....no need no help....2much complexities and grudgefullness only when dem want something dem want fi know you.....all I can think is what was the point of your mums wedding spending money that would be more useful to channel elsewhere...!!!
I feel your pain.....Love and light✌🏿
We believe you Ren. There is something wrong with that generation and it normally stems from their upbringing. Just continue to do YOU. They will just learn how to deal with it. You are a good person, we see what is going on here x
Ren I believe everything you said. Jamaicans are like that, when they see you have earnings they all want to live off of you. This is why there is so much poverty as they dont give you an opportunity to build.
Can you say some Jamaicans and not put us all in one category as there are poverty bruk stricken Jamaicans and also extremely wealthy ones too .
Thank you
@@badbabes4128 I am pretty sure everyone is aware it is 'SOME JAMAICANS'. Please dont take offence to a statement that was not directed at you. Thank you
Stay strong Renee! You will never go astray for speaking your truth and breaking generational chains 👏 God will strenghten you on your journey of peace, thank you for sharing your story 🙏
People dont understand how getting deported to a country far away from your immediate family can affect you. Those boys should be surrounded by a family that love them. I pray that they get better and God protects them🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. Renee continue being there for your brothers, if you can't provide financially be their support system.
Renee your uncle is absolutely vile. I truly wish him the worst and want something to happen to him. I’m rooting for you renee you’re a GEM we’re same age and I have my own struggles but we will be fine.
Renee I couldn't help but tear up as I listened to everything you went through and currently going through cause I can relate!!! I ask God to give you strength and believe in him because he will get you through...he sees everything you do for everyone and he knows you have such an amazing heart!! My prayers goes out to you🙏🏾
Many Caribbean mothers like Mummy Fabulous believe because they carried, gave birth and raised their children that they therefore own them; own the right to say, do and behave any which way they want and that their children owe them.
To mothers that think like this, your children are Yahuah's first before they are yours, he blessed men and women as parents, to raise their children in honour and reverence of Him first and it is Yahuah's son: Yahushah Hamashiach who made the ultimate sacrifice for them [and you] to exist in the first place, long before any of your effort. We all therefore owe Yahuah and Yashushah everything.
Our daughters deserve so much more respect than what they receive and sadly, being raised by prideful, egotistical, bitter and woefully grudgeful women cant feel like a blessing to many females when those same 'mothers' hurt and damage their daughters and sometimes to the point that their daughters are permanently affected. These mothers need Yahuah/Yahushah Hamashiach in their lives and must do better.
Yahuah doesn't sleep.
Lord God. this is out of hand! None of this should be on the internet 😢. Praying for you and family honestly
You deserve Your Peace Renee....The Path to a better life start with Your decisions to learn how to say NO & mean Hell NO...😘❤💙💜...
🥂 Heres to you Ren😘🎉
Wishing you well on your healing journey Renee.🙏🏽
It's sad you went through all of that parentification and financial abuse. that trauma that your brother's experienced is probably one of the direct reason of their mental illness. I don't understand how people can come for you for when the last time you had seen your brothers.... like when is the last time she's seen them in person. they needed their mother. the abandonment they must have experienced is so sad. I'm sorry that it has come to this but sometimes you have to make hard decisions. God can be a Parent you now.
Well done this is real growth so proud of you
Hello ranei.I’ve listened to your strong and I can assure you your not the only one going through this .Unfortunately a lot of black parents do this and make it seems like it’s a okay .It’s time for us to break the generation mindset.It’s heartbreaking
Carribean parents to be specific
There's many different kinds of blacks so don't generalise
@@AbdullahHashi-kw3qj💯
This is unfortunate that you and your mum cannot see eye to eye because from what I can see you guys have so much potential to have such a good mother and daughter relationship. African/Caribbean parents don’t know that their actions and some of the things they say really have a toll on Their children and then turn around when you defend yourself because they believe That they can’t do any wrong, they believe that their ‘tough’ love is helping us as individuals. That’s so wrong and It only pushes us further away from them; this is an unfortunate generational curse . Ren please continue to stick up for yourself ! Mum or not you don’t deserve to be treated this way or spoken on so poorly regardless of you and mums relationship
We love you Pinky 💗 so sad you have to be involved with this drama for just protecting your cousin.
This is real, in my home have the same thing but the African version but in UK....5 bedroom house three toilet, 1 bath 1 small shower room. 1 evil sibling has taken the full bathroom as his own. I was heavily pregnant and having to go to the top or bottom toilet. This has inspired me to talk myown situation just to sayi believe you ❤❤❤❤❤ stay strong. ❤❤❤❤ Your good to still be calling him uncle
That voice note really open my eyes, i cant believe what i heard...My God!!!!!
Tbh the whola unu ah liad at this point cha just somebody go ah check pon yuh bredda yh 👏🏽👏🏽
Well I don’t need to lie to anyone
Regarding my siblings that is nothing to lie about
And just like I have said many times it’s like you people want me to record myself going to see him every single time.
And that’s not going to happen. So I don’t give a fuck who things I’m lying or telling the truth.
My mother shouldn’t of brought that to the internet in the first place
@@missrfabulousxRene I check fi yuh again still but uno need fi do more for the bwoy man fr 🤷🏽♀️
@@missellz7630 no his mother needs to not me. I will always help I will still be there for him I will never turn my back on family no matter how bad they do me but I will not do more for the boys than my mother because I’m not there mum.
Goodbye to this man. We don’t know this man Ren, say no more. Because who is in JA right now nearest to your vulnerable brothers… YOU. Case closed.
I mean woman. Sorry
This is mad. Renee this situation has got u out of ur Devine feminine energy and has got you in fight or flight mode, there is strong spiritual warfare here, keep yourself protected my love. Peace and guidance ❤
I hope you and your family find peace. This is a hard situation.
This internet can bring fortune or create havoc SMH 🤦♀️
People are actually fucked and the internet is scary. This girl is talking a whole load of vulnerable personal traumas and family situations and people are so disgustingly negative it’s actually vile
This lady is strong , gotta read her ❤️ that’s more deeper
Some ppl are givers in life and some ppl are takers babe. When you stop giving the takers don’t like it when u find the right ppl in ur life u will see they won’t expect nothing from u but u as a person and when u find them keep them around. It’s not always family that are good for you. Your a grown woman so if nobody is taking care of you why shud u take care of other people. Live ur best life and spend your money how u please to and don’t let nobody tell u any different . Much love ❤
I’ve realized that Jamaican parents with foreign children do not understand us and forget that we aren’t raised the way that they were. And they need to understand how to parent based on each child’s personality.
It is just so unfortunate that this situation has went to social media and became this battle of mother vs. daughter.
I can’t blame Renee for taking a step back because she has her life to live too. Mummy Fab can’t except her to do EVERYTHING and then have nothing for herself later.
But i also can see why Mummy Fab doesn’t want to leave her job/life like that and depend on her child to pay her. I wouldn’t like that either tbh.
I’m so conflicted because i remember watching old videos and i loved y’all’s videos together.
I encourage you Renee to continue to seek peace, healing and happiness in your life because the drama and stuff ain’t cute at 27 anymore.
Life is too short and i hope one day when you BOTH are in better head space and grown from this situation that you can both sit down and work through your relationship.
Can you say from my experience or some Jamaican parents as there’s also some of us who do not experience this difficulties or trauma.
Thank you
She born in Jamaica she is not foreigner.
@@maxinew7201but she wasn’t raised there so it’s very different to being raised there.
Your mom needs to rent an apartment for them to live because the environment is whats causing your brother to lose his mind.
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I believe if your mother left the Uk and went to Jamaica and vlogged how the healthcare system is in Jamaica she would get so much support. She wouldn't even need your help . Especially since her husband has two houses close by, it would make the most sense for her to do so.
Can relate 💯 blessings for you in your healing ❤ stay strong ❤
Ren just focus on yourself and make yourself happy I must say whenever you do speak I rather to listen to you because you always have your evidence base and I like that about you no one can say this or that because you always been that girl who shows evidence. Please be you and enjoy your life the best is yet to come. Girl am coming to Jamaica hopefully I'll randomly see you to put a smile in your face ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This is heartbreaking Ren 😔 by speaking on this you are doing so much to help break generational curses for your own children in the future.
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I can’t lie, I did find it hugely shocking that your mum didn’t go back to Jamaica for so many years despite her sons being deported & then sick because she claimed she was afraid of flying. It seems like she’s been back a few times since meeting her husband.
Thank you for not crying Renee, I love you baby girl ❤❤
Had to keep it together mamas 💙
I know 🫂🫂
Your the STRONGEST person in this RUclips channel I have ever seen and STILL went through the PAIN of your LIFE and STILL LIVING THE TRUTH OF YOUR OWN LIFE n DON’T YOU EVER of GIVING UP YOUR OWN LIFE when GOD got U through the PROCESS YOU got FUTURE ahead of YOU to be BETTER n GREATER MOTHER to your CHILDREN mentally emotionally financially socially physically and spiritually than your experience to CUT OFF TOXICITY it takes pain to do it but even if no one got you or love you remember GOD GOT YOU Keep praying keep believing the hope in yourself keep being strong keep being yourself keep loving yourself
So proud of you Ren,you did your best,and still are but you can only do so much. Your brothers are siblings just like you, not your responsibility. Its so unfair when some mothers allow another child to take on responsibility for another child, no way.Think its time you take care of Ren,be selfish 🙏😍
As a born Jamaican they are very ignorant. And I could agree they are stubborn . So glad I know better so when I have kids I would raise them soooo different.
Can you say some Jamaicans not to cause offence . Thank you
@@badbabes4128👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Many of them old school Jamaican women only care about man 😢
Like she said she will pick her husband over her kids
Not me…my children always comes first…and I am definitely old school…
@@missrfabulousx That is so sad!
Wow ren 💔💔💔 Jamaican parents are something else!!! All the stuff she said got me looking at her differently!
NOT ALL PLEASE!!
@@queenieny4654 I said what I said, if it don’t apply to Your parents then move around PLEASE!
Wow! Just WoW!!! That voicemail to Pinky is absolute disgusting. She sent that to a relative... Not a stranger a bloody relative.
And Rene is absolutely right... How can she be looking after someone having a mental health crisis and her mental health isn't ok. I'm glad Ren didn't go to the hospital to see her brother as that might of just pushed her over the edge.
I find what your mother did very disgusting almost horrifying. She knows you and your cousin were very very close. Its no reason for her to come in between you guys. I do hope you guys will have a relationship again💗
I’m praying for your emotional and mental wellbeing. I can see how this situation is affecting you and it’s so unfortunate. I’m sorry that you’re dealing with this situation. You deserve all the peace and happiness in the world.
Praying God helps you and keeps you from depression and suicidal thoughts. Unfortunately, when family intentionally go out of their way to repeatedly hurt you all you can do is love them from a distance. I hope you see this comment, and know that God sees your pain and will see you through this situation. Always remember your mental health and getting on your feet is more important than trying to do everything for everybody. Continue to pray for your family and just ask God to give you the strength to overcome this situation and get back to the place you used to be when you were better. My heart really goes out to you and I pray you stay strong. Your true supporters appreciate you and want to see you do good so don’t give up the fight because God is going to see you through. ❤
I’m so proud of you Renee , it’s obvious that you really love and care for your brothers. You have a good heart and you are a great person.I know one day you are going to be a great mom❤️
So your mom says her husband does more but you have given your family a platform ‼️💯 Definitely a slap in the face but it just open your eyes when you at your lowest you see everything a little clearer I don’t even know you but I can tell you would give anything to make your mom an family happy but Renee you are chosen everyone will throw stones pick on you start false narratives whatever they have to do to make others believe otherwise about you smh keep pushing stay focused pray pray pray ⁉️💙
I would give anything in this world for all of them. I’m just hurt deeply how no one has me when I’m at my lowest.
Thanks for seeing it for what it is
@@missrfabulousx You have to realize you are to powerful for anyone to help, chosen people have to go through storms alone unfortunately it is what make that chosen person who they are but one thing fasho god is always there whenever we call him god has your back the most he protects you and give you all the unconditional love so who cares if someone we love don’t love us see people don’t want you happy because they look at you like you have it all so why show her love why have her back this is how these fucd up people think I got you mama 🤞🏽God has you even More
So many black mothers are jealous and evil towards their daughters ! What your mother did is so out of line and quite frankly I won’t be surprised if you never forgive or trust her again because I wouldn’t!
I don’t trust no one
@@missrfabulousx and sadly I see why sis you really can’t in this fucked up world!
You’re not done with your mom 😢take a break maybe a long break !! Set up healthy boundaries with your family 🙏🏿🙏🏿
I feel you but its not just Jamaican parents Dominican parents are the same. Keep strong and keep going it only going to make u a better mum when the time come ❤️🤗
One thing I know about Renee is she’s not going to lie she will tell the whole truth regardless of what other people think she keeps it 100% real ❤️❤️🙏🏾
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It’s nice if Renee gives money to her family but it’s not her responsibility. This idea that in black families that your child is a bank account is so harmful. Mummy fabulous doesn’t want to parent which involves providing for your child, she just wants to live off Renee and give the money to her husband
I really hope your mum realises the main priority in this situation, God bless your brother 💕
😢😢😢😢I really feel you pain. Ren do you and stabilise you first and build your empire in silence sis ❤❤❤❤
Renee, I've just read some of the comments and have to agree with what everyone is saying and that is your brothers are not your responsibility they are your MUMS responsibility. She's wiped her hands off them. You are a good sister
Without you only God knows where they would be. It's sad what your mum is doing. God forbids anything happens to them she is going to regret and then talk about them as if she cares about them. Seriously, this is breaking my heart. Your brother with the health issue needs his mum's support and love. It's not good. Renee, we love you ❤❤🇬🇧🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
proud of you renee this is a growth! so sorry this is happening...always praying for you ❤️
Omg just in time , just ordered McDonald’s. Bless you ren x
Mental hospital and medication and rehab won’t help. This is a spiritual situation. He needs a man of God who can deliver him. This is sad.
This was sad to watch but I totally get it. I'm a mother and I encourage my daughter to save so she can have the things she wants later in life. I've felt that way before always doing for others, that what happens when you are a giving person, people don't really appreciate they just expect. I said the same thing your mother should look to remove them from the house by keeping them there you are allowing the abuser to inflict constant pain. I agree with Pinky, go life your life and focus on yourself...People will make you feel selfish for that decision but you need to put yourself first and heal! You are right they are not your responsibility, I commend you for all you have done, I know how quick money done in JA and everyone wants something no matter how little it all adds up. Be the best SISTER you can be and let your mother be a mother to her sons. Praying things work out for you and your family. Keep your head up, God's bought you this far for a reason. Bless up❤
Come like Maureen can’t stand you spending money on anyone but her, if ur not taking care of her responsibilities your a bad person! She knows how socials stay with you so she wrong for putting you on the frontline
That’s what I’m trying to make her understand but she will never understand
Your mother shouldn't fight for the house, she needs to leave her brother with it. Believe me, he won't be any better
She won’t listen. And she won’t listen
Yes, it's true.the injection doesn't work long within a week or two it wears off.He needs to be in the hospital for awhile until his body is familiar to the medication.All you can do is Pray for him.I understand everything your saying im dealing with it first hand.Being in the house is not good for him and it will get only worse if it is not dealt with properly.This is a delicate situation.Your mom should listen to your advice
They have monthly and even twice a year injections available now…I have a daughter with a very serious mental health condition and she gets the monthly injections…
She was hospitalized for about a month and after being discharged she started on the injections the first was making her sick and they changed it to one we researched and suggested and she’s doing much better now…
I don’t know if it’s available in Jamaica 🇯🇲 because we live overseas…
Much love Ren you have really shown growth in your videos 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I don’t know you personally but I’ve been watching you for years am from what I can see is that you are a lovely person I’m so sorry you are going through this Renee God bless you ima pray it all gets better for you some people love to talk shit about you like they know you they just don’t understand you I go through ish like this too I don’t care what anyone says you are a clean hearted good lovely person stay strong please you are not alone I want to see you go go further in life ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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I hope you know that youre really a strong warrior of a person. You have really tried and i feel for you, i hope you can heal from this toxic situation and honestly you are so misunderstood its crazy. I hope you can continue to heal and prosper and grow, will continue to support you ❤️❤️ stay strong Renee
One thing about ren
she be brining out receipts
Your mother is in denial. It's a really sad situation. She is very ignorant and stubborn of the facts. She is going to lose her followers, I believe you, love her at a distance, do what you can for your brothers, let your mother be. I just knew she wasn't genuine long before all this drama.