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Been living in my own house 2,800 square foot house 4 of land. Back when I was living at home from 18-27 I had 4 different relationships and dozens of hook ups. From. 27-31 I've only had 2 hook ups and no relationships. While a few of my couch surfing bum buddies have girlfriends. Modern broads are attracted to trash. End of story
Get your money right, lmao! When the FEDERAL RESERVE and WASHINGTON POLITITIANS control the money supply and the economy so that it benefits no one but the elite, that is kind of hard to get your money right!
Being single does have some benefits. Here's the summary folks: 1) Enjoy your hobbies (or try out new ones) 2) Prioritize physical fitness (staying healthy is good, but it's better to become healthier) 3) Join a club and meet new people (don't forget about the friendships you currently have) 4) Learn something new (skills, musical instruments, languages, etc.) 5) Get your money right (financial independence and stability are key because inflation is a pain these days) 6) Establish goals, priorities, and healthy habits (This allows you to better focus on who you want to be, and process the qualities you look for someone when you choose to enter the dating scene) Here are a few items that I will add to the list: 1) Travel (It's cheaper to pay for one ticket than two) 2) Improve your mental health and personal attitude (Life can be emotionally draining at times, so make sure you keep emotions in check) 3) Take care of your skin 4) Take care of your hair (sorry if you are bald)
This is not just for the dating scene... it's basically life. If you hold your ducks together in a row, you're good. Another topic might be good to ask, "What qualities do other people say about you?"
Courtney is slowly restoring my faith in humanity. So refreshing to hear a logical, level-headed person give advice on personal character rather than what we see in the majority in regards to accountability. Great info.
I beg to differ- for me she is the complete opposite. If you listen very carefully, and read between the lines, in her videos, there are soooo many small posined arrows pointed at men.
I am proud to realize I am already prioritizing all of these things. If I had any additional suggestion it would be to use the period of life in which you feel alone to engage in spiritual seeking, whether religious, philosophical, or strictly personal. I think being single is the easiest time to cultivate awareness in regards to your world view and that ends up being important when finding a partner. Loneliness itself can actually be the catalyst for self realization if you embrace it.
Yes but what if you already know that path about yourself, your logos and meaning in life and have a route plan of what to do. I discovered my virtues and values through philosophy. But I want someone to make my life easier so I can make theirs too. I feel I’ve been doing this thing “working on yourself” since 17 and I am 20 now but I think that is enough. That said working on yourself is not a guarantee you’ll get a partner but it gets you “closer” but not too me lmao
I would add: Live to impress yourself; do not expect anything in return just because "you're doing everything right" "It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life."
And there are folks who make lots of mistakes and still manage to get away with it. Rich people can get away with crime to some extent as they can afford to hire a slick talking lawyer to talk down the charges to a judge.
A big part of the reason I have chosen to prioritize the pursuit of accomplishments, goals, and purpose, rather than people. People are much too fickle. Women in particular are much too flaky
@@gracerules2008Most crime is committed by poor people and they get away with it most of the time because it's not wirth investigating. You can't get rich or stay rich if you don't play by the rules because you're under constant scrutiny by accounting and taxmen.
Courtney, if I listened too all the women in my life about where I can or can't approach women I would only be left with bars, clubs, and dating apps -- funnily enough it's where women receive the most attention. So there's nothing wrong with meeting women at the gym, grocery store, retail store, etc.
My suggestions: 1. Please stay away from alcohol, tobacco or any other addictive substances. 2. Prioritize physical fitness (no excuses) 3. Stay away from sugar, sweets and soft drinks. 4. Be financially independent (live within your means) 5. Take care of your teeth and skin. 6. Bath daily and manscape. 7. Keep your wardrobe simple yet stylish. 8. Learn proper table manners. 9. Stop using foul language even if it's warranted. 10. Make your bed, keep your kitchen and bathroom clean.
@@gracerules2008 True that! Over the years most of the single women I’ve been around are very liberal with the alcohol. The ones that do drink responsively are almost always taken.
All good. #3 also applies to all sugar equivalents, like anything made from flour. Another good one is to build valuable skills in your career, and grow your network.
Single 34 year old male. Been through the ups and downs of dating for years Courtney. Really want to thank you for this specific video and helping met set some clear mindsets when it comes to growing as an individual and becoming a full individual that will in turn bring so much more joy in a relationship. Appreciate the great words always!
6 things all single men need to do: 1. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze. 2. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze. 3. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze. 4. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze. 5. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze. 6. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
Important things: 0:47 First Thing - Enjoy Your Hobbies; 1:11 First reason for having a hobby; 1:22 Second reason for having a hobby; 1:30 Third reason for having a hobby; 1:42 Fourth reason for having a hobby; 3:22 Second Thing - Prioritizing Physical Fitness; 5:06 Third Thing - Join The Club / Meet New People; 6:07 Fourth Thing - Learn; 8:02 Fifth Thing - Get Your Money Right; 10:18 Sixth Thing - Set Goals, Priorities, And Healthy Habits; and 11:25 to summarize all the told here. What a coincidence that we post videos on the same day, each on our own channel as well 😉😊🙃🙂. I agree with what you have told there Courtney, cause all of these things are true, and like you have told it can apply to either men, and women. I can share some of my experiences when meeting new people. I had a chance to meet one person from Japan that was making one model kit. And that model kit (or mock up; call it whatever you want) what that person assembled I have liked, and I also like the way how he putted that much details, and effort on doing that model kit. We have done the meeting via You Tube, a couple of years ago. The person had a struggle to find the decals (the decals are some kind of stickers, for those who don't know what are decals), and I said I have them. In return the person asked me what I want in return. I asked for one little model kit that I don't have in my collection. And we help each other. Also we have subscribed to each others channels. The best anti stress therapy is doing model kits. It can really solve those 4 reasons that you have mentioned. Also playing music instruments can be good hobby as well. I like playing guitar (acoustical, and electric guitar as well), and doing model kits (and my channel is dedicated to the model kits hobby; you can visit it if you are interested), like I have mentioned it a couple of times. Also that person from Japan taught me some techniques about the model kits. Beside's meeting the person from Japan (in this case man), I had a chance to meet on social media some women that are enjoying doing model kits. All of these things can mostly help you two things. And those are: 1. To be yourselves in a healthy way; 2. And to be with the person and with people who give you support. I remember that I saw one quote that goes like this (someone can correct me if I made a mistake): "Don't give up on your goals. You have no idea who are you inspiring."
@@Bloodcurling You stop with the hating comments, and stop insulting him. If you are so lazy to read what he has written, or to do any of these things, then that is your problem. It's not the problem of this person who write's these comments, and it's not the problem of other people to listen to you. He gives support to either men, and women, and also he is giving a hope to people that are behaving normal. Also he thinks before typing any comments at all. If you consider that you have a problem that you want to share with writing down hate comments. Otherwise find a psychiatrist, or one person that can help you with your problems, and issues. OK? And also one other thing. If you attend to back off or not support him, or even to put dislikes, well I'll have to say one thing. You're doing quite the opposite. You're giving him suggestions, and you're giving him even better views, etc.
I practice martial arts twice a week and with the exception of two women, my dojo has only male students. It's a great way to clear your mind while at the same time finding mental and physical balance 👊🏻🥋
My youth minister told me "you can be content where you are, AND strive for what you want". Workouts make me feel much better about myself. We should fear complacency, which is the theme of this video.
I also want to say I subscribed! This is so wonderful you are doing this. I have relationship trauma and I let it get really toxic in the last one. Done everything I could before we finally separated forever. Of course I have ADHD depression and stomach trouble, but I used to be a chain smoker in stress.[now I've been 1 in a half year without a cigarette] I used to be in that bad crowd until I woke up to the insanity. I became a born again christian. Have been repenting for pornography use and lustful temptation just being so lost with why I crumbled in it for so long. Why couldn't I ever find a women that has faith in Jesus? A women that is not narcissistic and gives into the evil pride! Some men really do fall into a trap and that is for sure how I feel at times. I'm alone but I have god #1 first thing, and I have the gift of creating with sound(My Hobby). With these things I do not fear anything but am aware there is probably a 1% out there that is dying to be with me and understands me. But I don't force it, I just wait for it to come in god's time, and if there is no woman for me. So be it. I just believe I can't change myself for someone else. I'm not going to get in a relationship until I am fully healed and ready. Which could be in a few years. We really shouldn't rush it. But women don't pop up to me like they used to, mainly because most of them come off as sexually immoral, all of the good women are already taken.. SO that leaves me with the hope in my 27 year old life, I still have plenty of time to find her 🙏
ProTip: Tell yourself "I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life", get happy and comfortable with that, live like that for a while, and THEN see about dating. It does wonders for you if you can handle it.
Great video C. Having hobbies is huge. Staying busy/ having healthy habits in general is super important. Don't piss away your time! Watching TV, playing video games, etc can still have their place, but in moderation. Use your time wisely. At some point you'll look back at your life with regret. Take the initiative and push through wtv is holding you back! Godspeed!
Don’t worry about women! I’m single and I ain’t worried about women because I’m trying to become the best version of myself. I’ll be going to the gym soon to get bigger, I’m trying to get a part time job because I’ll be entering my first year of college in September. I’m focusing on myself first to level up as a man.
I love being single. Meeting women is a by product of my life. I could care less if one girl isn’t into me, there’s always others who feel the same way.
What I have been doing since my divorce has been reconnecting with family. My exwife really kept me isolated from my family and thankfully they haven't held it against me for getting out of touch. I have also been working on my career a lot. And I have been enjoying my hobbies without derision from my exwife. So I guess my advice is to do what you weren't allowed to do easily when you were stuck.
As someone who's still single, thank you for this video. I sometimes focus on my hobbies, passions and interests. For workout, I always try to keep myself and I have no problem approaching anybody at the gym, as long as I'm being respectful. People at my work are kinda like my 2nd family because I'm currently feeling connected around them. But it doesn't hurt to meet anybody. Learning I have no problem, since I'm somewhat knowledgeable. Now money? I always make sure it's safe. And when the time is right, I know what to do with it. Lastly, for goals, I'm gonna do whatever it takes to make sure they're complete.
I think this is the problem for a lot of people. I may need to stop being so rigid on some of my personal rules, like "don't date coworkers. Do not pursue coworkers under any circumstances. Be wary about making friends with coworkers." I am realizing for most people in their 30s probably their coworkers are majority of the people they even are around other than family. There's almost something dystopian to that and I am realizing why people are isolating and alienated. I think that all the protected language crap has been making workplaces even more covertly hostile and alienated than ever before though.
You hit it right on the head with the hammer... I enjoy and am pursuing all of these things. Staying on point with ones self will possibly attract the right partner. But from my experience there too many women that believe themselves to be said partner and once a man has ran into or interacted with enough of these women they tend to remain focused on themselves and living their lives. Not completely leaving women out of the picture but not taking anything serious and just focusing on the most basic needs when it comes to women. I'm no player by no means, I'm actually somewhat conservative but not unwilling to be free if you get me, and for some reason I've been told that I am really handsome. I personally don't agree, I'm not ugly or anything but there's just another factor when trying to let some one in your life. These modern day societal adjustments that men have to make to not be single kind of make it not worth the effort.
What I would add is that it's good to go by yourself to new restaurants, music venues, comedy clubs, movie theatres and theatres where plays are performed. This will lead to men getting to know the city they live in, and the ability to propose a lot of dates when you do meet a woman you'd like to ask out
Gents, one thing that I have learned in my life is that friendship for us, true friendship (not the guy who you chat with at the bar every time you see him, or spot each other at the gym), TRUE friendship for us only comes through mutually shared adversity/accomplishment/shared triumph or failure. Your true friends don't always need words, but they always will know your insinuations. Guys in the military, sports teams, high competitive environments, brutal workloads, physically punishing jobs all know exactly what I'm talking about
Nice video! Thankfully I feel like I have all of these traits and activities present in my life. Might add something like traveling or therapy or learning to be alone for long periods of time. Has made little to no difference in my dating prospects but I am as happy as a 35 year old single guy facing large amounts of rejection in dating can be. Hopefully some day I can reach that full potential of happiness so I do not have lingering regret at not having a family
Good luck to all single men who are covering all these tips like myself, but living in a small area with barely to non single women either being single mothers or too cocky an immature. Even if uve tried all u could and still remain single,just keep focus on urself despite how hard it is while looking other people being happy.
6 things all single women need ot do: 1-leave men alone. 2- live with the fact men dont want you. 3- think about the men you treated like garbage, and now it is payback-time 4-stay single 5-leave men alone 6-live with it.
1. Dont worry about what women thinks/feels/complains. You are not her therapist, or problem solver 2. Live with abundance mindset 3. Use fabric softener and dryer sheets. Seriously guys
Dryer sheets, yes, but I'm not a huge exponent of fabric softener, and if people are going to use it then it needs to be at the appropriate point in the washing cycle or it's just a waste.
Just good, solid, all-around reminders to be responsible and hold oneself accountable for all one's actions, realizing that everything done or not done affects you and others.
Well, I'm trying to do some of this. After years of not working out, and it kinda shows lol, I'm finally getting myself back into it. Its been a month and a half now and am definitely starting to get stronger again but haven't really lost any weight yet. I'm trying to go out more in my free time with friends, because I don't like going out alone. Though I prefer being alone when I'm at home. Also struggling to be stable financially still after losing all of what little money i had after the breakup with baby mama a few years ago. So I've been living with my parents since then. My laid back loner personality makes it very hard to meet people and at 27 everything has been seeming hopeless so far.
Hang in there, and don't be so hard on yourself - it sounds like you've had a challenging stretch in your life over the last few years. It also sounds like you're an introvert and that you're feeling a lot of pressure to socialize against your own wishes, embrace your love of being home alone and enjoying the peace & quiet, and the freedom to chase any interest you have the means for. If you aren't interested in going out, then don't, and don't let anyone make you feel like a worse person for it. If by chance you're worried about being interesting to others, lean into your hobbies and interests, and any judgment towards them be damned. Our extrovert-crazy society creates a lot of unnecessary pressure, when those of us who prefer enjoying the space we have at home creates more contentment for us. I think it's perfectly normal that making friends gets more difficult as we age. We get set in our ways. The opportunities are fewer because we're no longer in school, and for many of us, we work remotely, so our exposure to strangers is rarer. Our interests start to diverge and solidify. Find peace in the friends you already have, and invest in those friendships first.
If your starting to get stronger, the weight will maintain due to the fat turning into muscle. Muscle does weigh more than fat so that could be why you haven’t lost weight.
Agree with you, walked away from someone last year. Started going to concerts, traveling and learning new things. Like to add having a dog helps to meet new people.
Very true taking the time to be alone CAN does not mean it will but CAN Help you learn to be more emotionally stable. Think about it a lot of people hate being alone because it honestly plays with your emotion's. But it can teach you to be stronger mentally. How to deal with having nothing. How to learn how to create different hobbies and passions or learn new things. etc.
Yeah remember in college talking about getting married, one guy’s like, “It is easy just go out with a girl and ask her to marry you and she’ll say yes.” And I’m here like, “How the hell do you get a girl to go out with you?”
As someone in their 30s I often feel its too late for me to embark on this journey of discovering one self. However this was really informative and reassuring. Thank you!
@@toomanymodz Yeah, that sounds like an excuse to be content with being a piece of shit. I didn't truly grow and get my shit together mentally until my late 30s.
Dude, as long as you're starting it before you're dead then it's never too late to begin becoming a happier, more fulfilled person, it will benefit you every day for however long you remain breathing. It's also a dynamic and on going process that again only really ends when you do, so begin today and keep going and growing.
The main difference between a single man and a married man is that one spends his nights alone watching porn, being miserable ... And the other one's single ... - Moscow, Russia
I agree with her exercise routine/ gym / health club being social and being fit detoxing the body, remember relationships are a double standard, anything else like ugly person with a beautiful girl, is a fake superficial lie. They have money or status in life otherwise it's a double standard. I'm thinking about subscribing to this channel.
I could listen to Courtney all day her voice is so soothing 😍 she's spot on tho. Also when you're focused on yourself and your hobbies it opens the chance to meet someone who shares one of them and that could be the beginning of something great, go out there and enjoy life fellas 🙌🤘
While this may be great information many of us have been doing these things for years and are wealthy yet we still go years single to the point it's really concerning and I especially worry for my son and the future of society. Its to the point many guys are so frustrated they snap doing things nobody should ever do. Many have taken thier own life from the loneliness. i do appreciate your efforts to help men. God help us please. 🙏
Best advice i can give , Take an evening class at college ! Learn a new skill or improve existing one , added bonus is that you meet like minded people !
I got some home exercise equipment and this video helped motivate the 15 minutes of exercise to be healthy and happy person, I also gained the courage to talk to a lady I was liking. Thanks Courtney
Learn a language , women love when you put effort into speaking their native language , i live in europe and my dating history is all women from different european countries, latvia , i lived with 2 polish girls , a french woman and now ive met this portuguese waitress where i have my lunch , everytime i go in ive memorised new phrases , she thinks that great , try it !!
Great video with helpful tips. Would love to see a video about single dads and dating. Being newly single as a dad is extremely challenging. And it seems like every time I meet someone and we have a connection, the moment she finds out I have kids, it’s like bam 💥 Ghosted.
Always keep In mind that there is nothing wrong with singleness. If you aren’t content with being single for a season, you won’t be content in a relationship.
I've never agreed with that, you're completely different single than you are in a relationship, and some people legitimately like being in a couple. What I will submit tho is people should be aware of where they are in life and figure out what it is they want: When you're single, you're in perpetual opportunity. When you're in a relationship, you're in perpetual security. It's one, or the other. Your girlfriend isn't an opportunity anymore, you have her, but people like opportunities in and of themselves, even when they have things that they want already. And opportunity is obviously great, it's exciting, you don't know that's going to happen next, but you're not secure in anything. And if you want to *feel* safe in that way, an opportunity won't provide that In my observation, unhappy people are A.) not aware where they are on that binary, B.) not aware that binary exists, and C.) don't like where they are and want to be in the other. Ie., people in relationships want to look around, and single people wish they were in relationships. And they're perpetually in one phase and wanting to be in the other one
@@PaperRainesokay so what’s your point then? Quit jumping around, we get it, when I was dating my ex she caught guys always staring at her or other girls who were already married while out with their wives and even kids, people already have what they want yet want more, while those who struggle to find a girl have to be “content being alone”? I also don’t agree with that crap, that’s more mentally taxing than anything and when you say fuck it I’ll take it into my own hands and try, then you get rejected and a guy can only take so many of those before he just loses himself entirely.
Good video Courtney. I think you covered many important points. Single men (and women) should focus on developing interesting/remarkable lives and not worry so much about dating. Date yourself. Take care of yourself. Develop yourself. Go on your own adventures. Just have fun! Chances are…. If you are busy enjoying life, you’ll eventually meet someone that vibes with you. And if not….. so what. Life is short. Enjoy it while you have it.
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Yep got it Nope no people yuck!!!! Yep always work out at home no gyms Nope no people yuck friendship will just use you Yes always learn everything and anything !!! Got what I need. Yep.
I didn't watch the video so I am going to guess. 1. Start making at least 250k a year 2. If you are not 6' tall, look into surgery to make you so. 3. Read " The 5 love Languages " and learn how to apply all of them at the same time. 4. Throw all of existing clothes away and spend at least 5k on a new wardrobe. 5. Consult with a sex therapist to learn how to please a woman in bed. 6. Start saving for a G-Wagon so it can be a birthday present for your next LTR. How did I do? Comment below!
Hi Courtney! Just want to say that I’ve watching your videos for a month now. I follow your advice but honestly my biggest problem is that I’m a major introvert. I really want to talk to women but the fear of rejection and humiliation is always there. It’s been like that my whole life. I’m getting older and I don’t want to be alone. Sometimes I do lose sleep over it.
Where do you work? If you have a good number of co-workers, try talking to them. Build on that. If you are at a store, restaurant, etc. Try making small talk with the employees. Ask questions that can't be answered with a single word! Hope this helps
@dgwaters I see. It's a good place to practice talking to people, even if it's just work related talk. Just keep trying to talk to more people, step by step. I am an introvert myself. I work as a security guard. At first, I had a hard time talking with someone. Many years later, it's not a problem for me. Been there man! It's definitely one of those things, practice makes perfect!
I've been unable to figure out what benefit a man gets from marriage over a regular relationship. I'd be interested in your perspective on what if any benefits are for men and marriage.
Basically what she is saying is that all single men should stay busy. Well not everyone is a type A personality. This is not for me. The money thing is subjective. It depends on what kind of lifestyle you want to live. As for friends I think buying a friend lunch every 6 months is good enough. I'm not willing to contribute more than that. I also don't believe in making friends in the workplace.
Courtney does explain that "the money thing" doesn't simply mean being rich, it means being independent and responsible with your finances. If you have enough to meet your needs, then you have enough, but it's good advice to make a point of being in control of your finances, not constantly be in debt or dependent on others to fund our chosen lifestyle, not spend recklessly in a way we can't really afford etc, that's all just sensible advice that applies equally to men and women, single or couples.
It's true, you should always be learning new things constantly, it's really good for the brain and it sure does impress the women. One of my girls often jokes about how she learns something new everyday
Boys, take it from someone older: NEVER let anyone talk down on your hobbies, because they're much greater than the sum. Example, WH40K players are super nerdy, sure.....but I also see people who have the time and money to dedicate to what they love (believe me, it can be EXPENSIVE). You have people who know the stories behind their armies, the lore, they paint each single one by HAND. Tell me that isnt a person who doesn't enjoy their hobby.
I’ve spent decades getting to know myself, I see no evidence that it attracts anyone. There are plenty of dolts out there with zero interest in knowing themselves that have no problems with dating. If you’re not an object of desire no one cares about how well you know yourself.
(Man has deep appreciation for the art and science behind video games, building PCs, fine-tuning performance, having fun discussions within a community of local friends & fellow online gamers, etc.) Women: No, not like that. Me: I think I'll stick with singlehood.
Exercise,hobbies, learning,and friendships are great for everyone single or not.if you want any woman just have money,or find a wealthy girl and give her tons of attention..you can honestly get any woman if you have more $ than she already has access to..only 2 options men have.sooner guys learn that the better..i promise the guy with the higher income is gonna get the girl though,unless she's independently wealthy.than she will go by other factors
Also to add suggestions: 1. Prioritize on transforming the way you dress to stand out differently. 2. Invest on products that work for you to boost your confidence level, especially your personal hygiene. 3. Find a lifestyle that not only works for you but also benefits your health. Remember, Health Is Wealth 💪👌
Im 25 but I'm not really mature. I don't know how to cook, plunge a toilet, or grill for example. I also have been too lazy/disinterested to work out, as much as I know I should. I know if I'm looking for an ideal partner, I have to be someone attractive to a woman, so I should get on it.
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Been living in my own house 2,800 square foot house 4 of land. Back when I was living at home from 18-27 I had 4 different relationships and dozens of hook ups. From. 27-31 I've only had 2 hook ups and no relationships. While a few of my couch surfing bum buddies have girlfriends. Modern broads are attracted to trash. End of story
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Get your money right, lmao!
When the FEDERAL RESERVE and WASHINGTON POLITITIANS control the money supply and the economy so that it benefits no one but the elite, that is kind of hard to get your money right!
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One thing all single men need to do: STOP WORRYING ABOUT WOMEN.
What is a woman?
Amen! Take that red pill brothers! 💪
Aren't we all here only for that ??...
Facts, tho! There is no pressure on me, so there's no need for me to worry. 😊
Focus on your goals not on holes
Being single does have some benefits. Here's the summary folks:
1) Enjoy your hobbies (or try out new ones)
2) Prioritize physical fitness (staying healthy is good, but it's better to become healthier)
3) Join a club and meet new people (don't forget about the friendships you currently have)
4) Learn something new (skills, musical instruments, languages, etc.)
5) Get your money right (financial independence and stability are key because inflation is a pain these days)
6) Establish goals, priorities, and healthy habits (This allows you to better focus on who you want to be, and process the qualities you look for someone when you choose to enter the dating scene)
Here are a few items that I will add to the list:
1) Travel (It's cheaper to pay for one ticket than two)
2) Improve your mental health and personal attitude (Life can be emotionally draining at times, so make sure you keep emotions in check)
3) Take care of your skin
4) Take care of your hair (sorry if you are bald)
Thanks brother
@@briar35981 anytime, good luck bro!
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Dude, she mentioned literally all of your extra points in the video 😂
This is not just for the dating scene... it's basically life. If you hold your ducks together in a row, you're good. Another topic might be good to ask, "What qualities do other people say about you?"
Courtney is slowly restoring my faith in humanity. So refreshing to hear a logical, level-headed person give advice on personal character rather than what we see in the majority in regards to accountability. Great info.
🥹🤍 you’re so kind, thank you.
I beg to differ- for me she is the complete opposite. If you listen very carefully, and read between the lines, in her videos, there are soooo many small posined arrows pointed at men.
@@kongvolmerii2683 very true
As I listen, most of this list is common sense. Thanks for making a video like this.
I am proud to realize I am already prioritizing all of these things. If I had any additional suggestion it would be to use the period of life in which you feel alone to engage in spiritual seeking, whether religious, philosophical, or strictly personal. I think being single is the easiest time to cultivate awareness in regards to your world view and that ends up being important when finding a partner. Loneliness itself can actually be the catalyst for self realization if you embrace it.
Well said. I would suggest labeling it as “solitude” as opposed to “loneliness”.
Yes but what if you already know that path about yourself, your logos and meaning in life and have a route plan of what to do. I discovered my virtues and values through philosophy. But I want someone to make my life easier so I can make theirs too. I feel I’ve been doing this thing “working on yourself” since 17 and I am 20 now but I think that is enough. That said working on yourself is not a guarantee you’ll get a partner but it gets you “closer” but not too me lmao
Amen. Absolutely true
I would add: Live to impress yourself; do not expect anything in return just because "you're doing everything right"
"It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness. That is life."
And there are folks who make lots of mistakes and still manage to get away with it. Rich people can get away with crime to some extent as they can afford to hire a slick talking lawyer to talk down the charges to a judge.
A big part of the reason I have chosen to prioritize the pursuit of accomplishments, goals, and purpose, rather than people. People are much too fickle. Women in particular are much too flaky
@@gracerules2008Most crime is committed by poor people and they get away with it most of the time because it's not wirth investigating.
You can't get rich or stay rich if you don't play by the rules because you're under constant scrutiny by accounting and taxmen.
Courtney, if I listened too all the women in my life about where I can or can't approach women I would only be left with bars, clubs, and dating apps -- funnily enough it's where women receive the most attention. So there's nothing wrong with meeting women at the gym, grocery store, retail store, etc.
Fully agree here. If you need a dating app to find you women - you have already lost it.
My suggestions:
1. Please stay away from alcohol, tobacco or any other addictive substances.
2. Prioritize physical fitness (no excuses)
3. Stay away from sugar, sweets and soft drinks.
4. Be financially independent (live within your means)
5. Take care of your teeth and skin.
6. Bath daily and manscape.
7. Keep your wardrobe simple yet stylish.
8. Learn proper table manners.
9. Stop using foul language even if it's warranted.
10. Make your bed, keep your kitchen and bathroom clean.
Another tip is don't do any of the above if it results in a boring life for oneself.
Amazing advice bro
@@gracerules2008 True that! Over the years most of the single women I’ve been around are very liberal with the alcohol. The ones that do drink responsively are almost always taken.
Alcohol in moderation can make life more lively. So being healthy ALL THE TIME can bring you down. It can make life feel dull.
All good. #3 also applies to all sugar equivalents, like anything made from flour. Another good one is to build valuable skills in your career, and grow your network.
This video should be titled “6 Reasons Why Men Should Stay Single” absolutely love it
lol, I pray for the young men today. Glad I'm old with a partner. Idk credit to her because I still find these interesting.
@@badshard09 I genuinely wish I grew up in whatever generation you grew up in.
Single 34 year old male. Been through the ups and downs of dating for years Courtney. Really want to thank you for this specific video and helping met set some clear mindsets when it comes to growing as an individual and becoming a full individual that will in turn bring so much more joy in a relationship. Appreciate the great words always!
6 things all single men need to do:
1. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
2. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
3. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
4. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
5. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
6. Ignore all women who do not approach you, the juice is not worth the squeeze.
Do unto them as they do, or don't do unto you.
Important things: 0:47 First Thing - Enjoy Your Hobbies; 1:11 First reason for having a hobby; 1:22 Second reason for having a hobby; 1:30 Third reason for having a hobby; 1:42 Fourth reason for having a hobby; 3:22 Second Thing - Prioritizing Physical Fitness; 5:06 Third Thing - Join The Club / Meet New People; 6:07 Fourth Thing - Learn; 8:02 Fifth Thing - Get Your Money Right; 10:18 Sixth Thing - Set Goals, Priorities, And Healthy Habits; and 11:25 to summarize all the told here.
What a coincidence that we post videos on the same day, each on our own channel as well 😉😊🙃🙂.
I agree with what you have told there Courtney, cause all of these things are true, and like you have told it can apply to either men, and women.
I can share some of my experiences when meeting new people. I had a chance to meet one person from Japan that was making one model kit. And that model kit (or mock up; call it whatever you want) what that person assembled I have liked, and I also like the way how he putted that much details, and effort on doing that model kit. We have done the meeting via You Tube, a couple of years ago. The person had a struggle to find the decals (the decals are some kind of stickers, for those who don't know what are decals), and I said I have them. In return the person asked me what I want in return. I asked for one little model kit that I don't have in my collection. And we help each other. Also we have subscribed to each others channels.
The best anti stress therapy is doing model kits. It can really solve those 4 reasons that you have mentioned. Also playing music instruments can be good hobby as well. I like playing guitar (acoustical, and electric guitar as well), and doing model kits (and my channel is dedicated to the model kits hobby; you can visit it if you are interested), like I have mentioned it a couple of times. Also that person from Japan taught me some techniques about the model kits. Beside's meeting the person from Japan (in this case man), I had a chance to meet on social media some women that are enjoying doing model kits.
All of these things can mostly help you two things. And those are:
1. To be yourselves in a healthy way;
2. And to be with the person and with people who give you support.
I remember that I saw one quote that goes like this (someone can correct me if I made a mistake): "Don't give up on your goals. You have no idea who are you inspiring."
Just Stop
@@Bloodcurling I beg your pardon?!
@@Bloodcurling You stop with the hating comments, and stop insulting him. If you are so lazy to read what he has written, or to do any of these things, then that is your problem. It's not the problem of this person who write's these comments, and it's not the problem of other people to listen to you. He gives support to either men, and women, and also he is giving a hope to people that are behaving normal. Also he thinks before typing any comments at all. If you consider that you have a problem that you want to share with writing down hate comments. Otherwise find a psychiatrist, or one person that can help you with your problems, and issues. OK?
And also one other thing. If you attend to back off or not support him, or even to put dislikes, well I'll have to say one thing. You're doing quite the opposite. You're giving him suggestions, and you're giving him even better views, etc.
I practice martial arts twice a week and with the exception of two women, my dojo has only male students.
It's a great way to clear your mind while at the same time finding mental and physical balance 👊🏻🥋
My youth minister told me "you can be content where you are, AND strive for what you want". Workouts make me feel much better about myself.
We should fear complacency, which is the theme of this video.
I also want to say I subscribed! This is so wonderful you are doing this. I have relationship trauma and I let it get really toxic in the last one. Done everything I could before we finally separated forever. Of course I have ADHD depression and stomach trouble, but I used to be a chain smoker in stress.[now I've been 1 in a half year without a cigarette] I used to be in that bad crowd until I woke up to the insanity. I became a born again christian. Have been repenting for pornography use and lustful temptation just being so lost with why I crumbled in it for so long. Why couldn't I ever find a women that has faith in Jesus? A women that is not narcissistic and gives into the evil pride! Some men really do fall into a trap and that is for sure how I feel at times. I'm alone but I have god #1 first thing, and I have the gift of creating with sound(My Hobby). With these things I do not fear anything but am aware there is probably a 1% out there that is dying to be with me and understands me. But I don't force it, I just wait for it to come in god's time, and if there is no woman for me. So be it. I just believe I can't change myself for someone else. I'm not going to get in a relationship until I am fully healed and ready. Which could be in a few years. We really shouldn't rush it. But women don't pop up to me like they used to, mainly because most of them come off as sexually immoral, all of the good women are already taken.. SO that leaves me with the hope in my 27 year old life, I still have plenty of time to find her 🙏
@Courtney_Ryan1_ fake account? Let's talk about what?
1. Stay single.
2. Stay single.
3. Stay single.
4. Stay single.
5. Stay single.
6. Stay single.
ProTip: Tell yourself "I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life", get happy and comfortable with that, live like that for a while, and THEN see about dating. It does wonders for you if you can handle it.
Yep I’ve come to terms with being single the rest of my life. I’m now focused on completing my car audio build instead of wasting money dating
@@brianwaller7383boring. Material things won’t truly bring fulfillment.
DO NOT DATE with this generation, I REPEAT DO NOT!!
@@VsupportBE you right just smash
@@GabrielXDrums Not even that! Just avoid love and lust and you will be free!
Great video C. Having hobbies is huge. Staying busy/ having healthy habits in general is super important. Don't piss away your time! Watching TV, playing video games, etc can still have their place, but in moderation. Use your time wisely. At some point you'll look back at your life with regret. Take the initiative and push through wtv is holding you back! Godspeed!
Goku!!
Don’t worry about women! I’m single and I ain’t worried about women because I’m trying to become the best version of myself. I’ll be going to the gym soon to get bigger, I’m trying to get a part time job because I’ll be entering my first year of college in September. I’m focusing on myself first to level up as a man.
I love being single. Meeting women is a by product of my life. I could care less if one girl isn’t into me, there’s always others who feel the same way.
What I have been doing since my divorce has been reconnecting with family. My exwife really kept me isolated from my family and thankfully they haven't held it against me for getting out of touch. I have also been working on my career a lot. And I have been enjoying my hobbies without derision from my exwife. So I guess my advice is to do what you weren't allowed to do easily when you were stuck.
As someone who's still single, thank you for this video. I sometimes focus on my hobbies, passions and interests. For workout, I always try to keep myself and I have no problem approaching anybody at the gym, as long as I'm being respectful. People at my work are kinda like my 2nd family because I'm currently feeling connected around them. But it doesn't hurt to meet anybody. Learning I have no problem, since I'm somewhat knowledgeable. Now money? I always make sure it's safe. And when the time is right, I know what to do with it. Lastly, for goals, I'm gonna do whatever it takes to make sure they're complete.
I think this is the problem for a lot of people. I may need to stop being so rigid on some of my personal rules, like "don't date coworkers. Do not pursue coworkers under any circumstances. Be wary about making friends with coworkers." I am realizing for most people in their 30s probably their coworkers are majority of the people they even are around other than family. There's almost something dystopian to that and I am realizing why people are isolating and alienated. I think that all the protected language crap has been making workplaces even more covertly hostile and alienated than ever before though.
@@pandemicneetbux2110 I see.
You hit it right on the head with the hammer... I enjoy and am pursuing all of these things. Staying on point with ones self will possibly attract the right partner. But from my experience there too many women that believe themselves to be said partner and once a man has ran into or interacted with enough of these women they tend to remain focused on themselves and living their lives. Not completely leaving women out of the picture but not taking anything serious and just focusing on the most basic needs when it comes to women. I'm no player by no means, I'm actually somewhat conservative but not unwilling to be free if you get me, and for some reason I've been told that I am really handsome. I personally don't agree, I'm not ugly or anything but there's just another factor when trying to let some one in your life. These modern day societal adjustments that men have to make to not be single kind of make it not worth the effort.
Love your work!
Thank you so much!
Just discovered these videos and absolutely love them! Keep up the great work Courtney! 👍
What I would add is that it's good to go by yourself to new restaurants, music venues, comedy clubs, movie theatres and theatres where plays are performed. This will lead to men getting to know the city they live in, and the ability to propose a lot of dates when you do meet a woman you'd like to ask out
Gents, one thing that I have learned in my life is that friendship for us, true friendship (not the guy who you chat with at the bar every time you see him, or spot each other at the gym), TRUE friendship for us only comes through mutually shared adversity/accomplishment/shared triumph or failure.
Your true friends don't always need words, but they always will know your insinuations. Guys in the military, sports teams, high competitive environments, brutal workloads, physically punishing jobs all know exactly what I'm talking about
Nice video! Thankfully I feel like I have all of these traits and activities present in my life. Might add something like traveling or therapy or learning to be alone for long periods of time. Has made little to no difference in my dating prospects but I am as happy as a 35 year old single guy facing large amounts of rejection in dating can be. Hopefully some day I can reach that full potential of happiness so I do not have lingering regret at not having a family
Good luck to all single men who are covering all these tips like myself, but living in a small area with barely to non single women either being single mothers or too cocky an immature. Even if uve tried all u could and still remain single,just keep focus on urself despite how hard it is while looking other people being happy.
6 things all single women need ot do:
1-leave men alone.
2- live with the fact men dont want you.
3- think about the men you treated like garbage, and now it is payback-time
4-stay single
5-leave men alone
6-live with it.
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Facts
Let's be honest. Focusing on/crushing all these things leaves little time for a relationship 🤷♂️
1. Lift
2. Lift
3. Skin care routine
4. Lift
5. Watch Courtney Ryan
6. Lift
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1. Dont worry about what women thinks/feels/complains. You are not her therapist, or problem solver
2. Live with abundance mindset
3. Use fabric softener and dryer sheets. Seriously guys
Dryer sheets, yes, but I'm not a huge exponent of fabric softener, and if people are going to use it then it needs to be at the appropriate point in the washing cycle or it's just a waste.
Just good, solid, all-around reminders to be responsible and hold oneself accountable for all one's actions, realizing that everything done or not done affects you and others.
I put myself first. I don't care about the others. That to me is the whole point of being single.
Well, I'm trying to do some of this. After years of not working out, and it kinda shows lol, I'm finally getting myself back into it. Its been a month and a half now and am definitely starting to get stronger again but haven't really lost any weight yet. I'm trying to go out more in my free time with friends, because I don't like going out alone. Though I prefer being alone when I'm at home. Also struggling to be stable financially still after losing all of what little money i had after the breakup with baby mama a few years ago. So I've been living with my parents since then. My laid back loner personality makes it very hard to meet people and at 27 everything has been seeming hopeless so far.
Hang in there, and don't be so hard on yourself - it sounds like you've had a challenging stretch in your life over the last few years. It also sounds like you're an introvert and that you're feeling a lot of pressure to socialize against your own wishes, embrace your love of being home alone and enjoying the peace & quiet, and the freedom to chase any interest you have the means for. If you aren't interested in going out, then don't, and don't let anyone make you feel like a worse person for it. If by chance you're worried about being interesting to others, lean into your hobbies and interests, and any judgment towards them be damned.
Our extrovert-crazy society creates a lot of unnecessary pressure, when those of us who prefer enjoying the space we have at home creates more contentment for us.
I think it's perfectly normal that making friends gets more difficult as we age. We get set in our ways. The opportunities are fewer because we're no longer in school, and for many of us, we work remotely, so our exposure to strangers is rarer. Our interests start to diverge and solidify. Find peace in the friends you already have, and invest in those friendships first.
Similar situation, Im 27. Apart from the having friends and girlfriends. i feel nothing but despair everyday'.
If your starting to get stronger, the weight will maintain due to the fat turning into muscle. Muscle does weigh more than fat so that could be why you haven’t lost weight.
Agree with you, walked away from someone last year. Started going to concerts, traveling and learning new things. Like to add having a dog helps to meet new people.
Very true taking the time to be alone CAN does not mean it will but CAN Help you learn to be more emotionally stable. Think about it a lot of people hate being alone because it honestly plays with your emotion's. But it can teach you to be stronger mentally. How to deal with having nothing. How to learn how to create different hobbies and passions or learn new things. etc.
I find it funny how people act like it is easy to make friends
Yeah remember in college talking about getting married, one guy’s like, “It is easy just go out with a girl and ask her to marry you and she’ll say yes.” And I’m here like, “How the hell do you get a girl to go out with you?”
As someone in their 30s I often feel its too late for me to embark on this journey of discovering one self. However this was really informative and reassuring. Thank you!
I have seen folks in their 50s discovering themselves, so it's never too late.
@@toomanymodz Yeah, that sounds like an excuse to be content with being a piece of shit. I didn't truly grow and get my shit together mentally until my late 30s.
Dude, as long as you're starting it before you're dead then it's never too late to begin becoming a happier, more fulfilled person, it will benefit you every day for however long you remain breathing. It's also a dynamic and on going process that again only really ends when you do, so begin today and keep going and growing.
I started at 38, it's never too late!
your still practically a kid 30 isnt that old in terms of life
According to liberals now though, working out means you're far right
The main difference between a single man and a married man is that one spends his nights alone watching porn, being miserable ...
And the other one's single ...
- Moscow, Russia
A married man derives finds purpose in his life from service to his family. That is satisfactory enough.
I agree with her exercise routine/ gym / health club being social and being fit detoxing the body, remember relationships are a double standard, anything else like ugly person with a beautiful girl, is a fake superficial lie. They have money or status in life otherwise it's a double standard. I'm thinking about subscribing to this channel.
The two things I always do while single are... relax and take it easy.
Easier said than done
I could listen to Courtney all day her voice is so soothing 😍 she's spot on tho. Also when you're focused on yourself and your hobbies it opens the chance to meet someone who shares one of them and that could be the beginning of something great, go out there and enjoy life fellas 🙌🤘
I've been isolated for 62 years, and I might try to go out to listen to music,hope it goes well
While this may be great information many of us have been doing these things for years and are wealthy yet we still go years single to the point it's really concerning and I especially worry for my son and the future of society. Its to the point many guys are so frustrated they snap doing things nobody should ever do. Many have taken thier own life from the loneliness. i do appreciate your efforts to help men. God help us please. 🙏
Best advice i can give , Take an evening class at college ! Learn a new skill or improve existing one , added bonus is that you meet like minded people !
Im lovin the lower cut tops
I got some home exercise equipment and this video helped motivate the 15 minutes of exercise to be healthy and happy person, I also gained the courage to talk to a lady I was liking. Thanks Courtney
Learn a language , women love when you put effort into speaking their native language , i live in europe and my dating history is all women from different european countries, latvia , i lived with 2 polish girls , a french woman and now ive met this portuguese waitress where i have my lunch , everytime i go in ive memorised new phrases , she thinks that great , try it !!
Hey, Courtney and everyone.
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Hey, Yosef
Great video with helpful tips. Would love to see a video about single dads and dating. Being newly single as a dad is extremely challenging. And it seems like every time I meet someone and we have a connection, the moment she finds out I have kids, it’s like bam 💥 Ghosted.
Always keep In mind that there is nothing wrong with singleness. If you aren’t content with being single for a season, you won’t be content in a relationship.
I've never agreed with that, you're completely different single than you are in a relationship, and some people legitimately like being in a couple. What I will submit tho is people should be aware of where they are in life and figure out what it is they want:
When you're single, you're in perpetual opportunity. When you're in a relationship, you're in perpetual security. It's one, or the other. Your girlfriend isn't an opportunity anymore, you have her, but people like opportunities in and of themselves, even when they have things that they want already. And opportunity is obviously great, it's exciting, you don't know that's going to happen next, but you're not secure in anything. And if you want to *feel* safe in that way, an opportunity won't provide that
In my observation, unhappy people are A.) not aware where they are on that binary, B.) not aware that binary exists, and C.) don't like where they are and want to be in the other. Ie., people in relationships want to look around, and single people wish they were in relationships. And they're perpetually in one phase and wanting to be in the other one
Yeah and what if the “season” has lasted years? Fuck that
@@PaperRainesokay so what’s your point then? Quit jumping around, we get it, when I was dating my ex she caught guys always staring at her or other girls who were already married while out with their wives and even kids, people already have what they want yet want more, while those who struggle to find a girl have to be “content being alone”? I also don’t agree with that crap, that’s more mentally taxing than anything and when you say fuck it I’ll take it into my own hands and try, then you get rejected and a guy can only take so many of those before he just loses himself entirely.
Cope
I love being single I don’t put any women before my goals.
Solid points and very well said.
Courtney, please include time stamps in your next videos.
Travel, build wealth, build health ,build a circle , build a lifestyle.
Good video Courtney.
I think you covered many important points. Single men (and women) should focus on developing interesting/remarkable lives and not worry so much about dating.
Date yourself. Take care of yourself. Develop yourself. Go on your own adventures. Just have fun!
Chances are…. If you are busy enjoying life, you’ll eventually meet someone that vibes with you. And if not….. so what. Life is short. Enjoy it while you have it.
Bless you Coloatno....Thank you so much for another beautiful video...We love you Coloatno, you have so much wisdom and spiritual blessings which help millions of introvert men across the globe...There will never be another Coloatno Ryan in this universe...Thank you and god bless you Coloatno Ryan...😊❤🧡💙👍🤟🙏🍔🍟🧁🍰
As always, great advice from Courtney. This is a GREAT channel.
Very well said.
Thanks for All you do Courtney!
Love this content
Courtney got a new studio. Look at that. Nice and classic
She is just sitting in her walk-in closet 😆
Getting a hobby that you genuinely enjoy and keeps you busy is a big one because it can eliminate the desperation feeling many guys give off
I wanna have a discussion with you ❤️ Above,
Oh hey I've been single for 4 years! I needed this Courtney! Bless you for your intelligent open mind! It is of pure beauty❤
Yep got it
Nope no people yuck!!!!
Yep always work out at home no gyms
Nope no people yuck friendship will just use you
Yes always learn everything and anything !!!
Got what I need.
Yep.
I recommend joining dance classes which potentially may cover the first four points from that list at the same time. ;)
I been getting out of my comfort zone meeting new people made some new friends this new hope church its so far but I made it so still trying...
This is not particulary for single men.. But for ALL men and women to this world. It is basically all about being an adult human being. ;)
Video starts at 00:47. Thank you all for watching. I love the support!
It actually starts at 00:01
Courtney keep the content coming. I love your channel
Social impressions
Is it all necessary.
Eventually dust to dust
Single men don’t need to do shitT!
Courtney, you have added so much value to my life.
I never feel more lonely then when I go out. I try to meet people but I just keep getting ghosted by men and women.
I didn't watch the video so I am going to guess.
1. Start making at least 250k a year
2. If you are not 6' tall, look into surgery to make you so.
3. Read " The 5 love Languages " and learn how to apply all of them at the same time.
4. Throw all of existing clothes away and spend at least 5k on a new wardrobe.
5. Consult with a sex therapist to learn how to please a woman in bed.
6. Start saving for a G-Wagon so it can be a birthday present for your next LTR.
How did I do? Comment below!
A lot of information to take in. I sent a request to join your facebook group. Thanks for being the sister I never asked for. Like repeatedly.
I wanna have a discussion with you ❤️ Above,
Hi Courtney! Just want to say that I’ve watching your videos for a month now. I follow your advice but honestly my biggest problem is that I’m a major introvert. I really want to talk to women but the fear of rejection and humiliation is always there. It’s been like that my whole life. I’m getting older and I don’t want to be alone. Sometimes I do lose sleep over it.
Where do you work? If you have a good number of co-workers, try talking to them. Build on that. If you are at a store, restaurant, etc. Try making small talk with the employees. Ask questions that can't be answered with a single word! Hope this helps
@@TheWedabest I work in retail. I do try to talk to other employees but it isn’t easy. Most are much younger than me.
@dgwaters I see. It's a good place to practice talking to people, even if it's just work related talk. Just keep trying to talk to more people, step by step. I am an introvert myself. I work as a security guard. At first, I had a hard time talking with someone. Many years later, it's not a problem for me. Been there man! It's definitely one of those things, practice makes perfect!
I've been unable to figure out what benefit a man gets from marriage over a regular relationship. I'd be interested in your perspective on what if any benefits are for men and marriage.
Children, family.
Basically what she is saying is that all single men should stay busy. Well not everyone is a type A personality. This is not for me.
The money thing is subjective. It depends on what kind of lifestyle you want to live.
As for friends I think buying a friend lunch every 6 months is good enough. I'm not willing to contribute more than that. I also don't believe in making friends in the workplace.
Courtney does explain that "the money thing" doesn't simply mean being rich, it means being independent and responsible with your finances. If you have enough to meet your needs, then you have enough, but it's good advice to make a point of being in control of your finances, not constantly be in debt or dependent on others to fund our chosen lifestyle, not spend recklessly in a way we can't really afford etc, that's all just sensible advice that applies equally to men and women, single or couples.
Your points and says are comprehensive Courtney and I like your Outfit 🤘🏻
Public comment. Great message to humanity. Thank you so much ms Courtney. ❤
I wanna have a discussion with you ❤️ Above
Okay I am relieved that you didnt tell me something new :) but still like it that you pointed it out!
Courtney there's something about you that is so refreshing. I often just sit and wait for your next video. Keep it going!
It's true, you should always be learning new things constantly, it's really good for the brain and it sure does impress the women. One of my girls often jokes about how she learns something new everyday
Boys, take it from someone older: NEVER let anyone talk down on your hobbies, because they're much greater than the sum. Example, WH40K players are super nerdy, sure.....but I also see people who have the time and money to dedicate to what they love (believe me, it can be EXPENSIVE). You have people who know the stories behind their armies, the lore, they paint each single one by HAND. Tell me that isnt a person who doesn't enjoy their hobby.
keep doing Gods work. thank you
I’ve spent decades getting to know myself, I see no evidence that it attracts anyone. There are plenty of dolts out there with zero interest in knowing themselves that have no problems with dating. If you’re not an object of desire no one cares about how well you know yourself.
(Man has deep appreciation for the art and science behind video games, building PCs, fine-tuning performance, having fun discussions within a community of local friends & fellow online gamers, etc.)
Women: No, not like that.
Me: I think I'll stick with singlehood.
Rule No : 1
Focus on Your Goals not on holes
Courtney Ryan: I thank you for your advice. It’s great.
I wanna have a discussion with you ❤️ Above
A very well informative video, ill keep this in mind Courtney.
Exercise,hobbies, learning,and friendships are great for everyone single or not.if you want any woman just have money,or find a wealthy girl and give her tons of attention..you can honestly get any woman if you have more $ than she already has access to..only 2 options men have.sooner guys learn that the better..i promise the guy with the higher income is gonna get the girl though,unless she's independently wealthy.than she will go by other factors
Imma be real. I don’t need these tips. It’s just nice to hear a beautiful, motherly ,supportive voice every once in a while
Also to add suggestions:
1. Prioritize on transforming the way you dress to stand out differently.
2. Invest on products that work for you to boost your confidence level, especially your personal hygiene.
3. Find a lifestyle that not only works for you but also benefits your health. Remember, Health Is Wealth 💪👌
Good video; really relevant to everyone...even those in a relationship/married... both men & women.
Courtney , thank for you help , great tips
Thanks!
Im 25 but I'm not really mature. I don't know how to cook, plunge a toilet, or grill for example. I also have been too lazy/disinterested to work out, as much as I know I should.
I know if I'm looking for an ideal partner, I have to be someone attractive to a woman, so I should get on it.