How To Appear Hotter As A Guy (From A Woman's Perspective)

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Комментарии • 855

  • @Dydreth
    @Dydreth День назад +297

    That girl just _screams_ red flags.

  • @chrishaugh1655
    @chrishaugh1655 День назад +244

    The girl in the TikTok video is the exact reason I don't have TikTok. The sheer amount of stupidity circulating on that platform is mind-numbing.

    • @Chyronn
      @Chyronn День назад +14

      It's dragging humanity down

    • @robertcalkjr.8325
      @robertcalkjr.8325 День назад +6

      I'm so glad that I'm not young in this time. But I'll bet that if the guy was reading The Holy Bible, they would all run like a vampire from the sun.

    • @jethrojacinto2798
      @jethrojacinto2798 23 часа назад

      All social media is filled with brain rot now.

    • @JJsProductionx
      @JJsProductionx 22 часа назад +7

      Never going on that app

    • @AlexGomez-ur5eb
      @AlexGomez-ur5eb 22 часа назад

      300%

  • @trueconspiracies7945
    @trueconspiracies7945 День назад +266

    As someone in their 60s, if I did this, people would think I should be placed in a mental institution.

    • @socas_nic
      @socas_nic День назад +28

      As someone in their early 20s if i did these things I would appear like a complete douchebag

    • @raymondsmith2154
      @raymondsmith2154 День назад +12

      late 60s and my thoughts exactly.

    • @ABCDE710
      @ABCDE710 День назад +4

      😂

    • @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470
      @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470 День назад

      @@trueconspiracies7945late 30s and the same

    • @thossi09
      @thossi09 День назад +2

      As someone in my 40s, I don't wear hats unless it's very cold outside, and then it's the typical "tea cozy" hat that doesn't have "front" and "back". Or a knitted wool hood, sometimes. Those are nice.
      On the other hand! The one in the video is probably in her early 20s. I don't think guys 30+ aren't the target demographic, here.

  • @iamjacquesbarjon
    @iamjacquesbarjon День назад +218

    She's basically describing a drug dealer.

  • @frenchfan3368
    @frenchfan3368 День назад +200

    As pointed out, the advice given by the girl is pretty much for boys still in high school or university. Courtney's advice is so much better than this high school girl.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk День назад +12

      Not even high school or university -- maybe guys who hang out at skate parks and girls who like those guys.

    • @emilschneider9974
      @emilschneider9974 День назад +4

      That's exactly what I was thinking!

    • @spike5499
      @spike5499 14 часов назад +1

      @@Billy-bc8pk W pfp

  • @ben_spiller
    @ben_spiller День назад +203

    Got my backwards cap, got my chain, my hoodie. I feel like I'm going to a Limp Bizkit concert.

    • @andresgraziano7475
      @andresgraziano7475 День назад +19

      rollin rollin rollin!!!

    • @ben_spiller
      @ben_spiller День назад +7

      @@andresgraziano7475 I still listen to them. Fuck the haters.

    • @DDD11239
      @DDD11239 День назад +5

      ​@@andresgraziano7475 Undertaker!!!!

    • @i.q.1979
      @i.q.1979 День назад +2

      😅😅🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @popurm
      @popurm День назад +7

      It's just one of those days!!!

  • @jaynunya5136
    @jaynunya5136 День назад +76

    waste of time reacting to an air head.

  • @ppsh43
    @ppsh43 День назад +45

    When I was in my 30s, my wife pointed out that guys who are wearing baseball hats are probably going bald. If you have a good head of hair, and are at an age where guys might be losing their hair, do not wear a hat if it is not necessary.

    • @no.no.4680
      @no.no.4680 День назад +2

      This, so much. I know I’m going to go bald at some point and I wanna show off my hair for as long as I have left 😂

    • @zeku3531
      @zeku3531 День назад +5

      I like wearing a hat to make them think I'm bald and then I take it off and show my full head of hair lol

    • @Novaximus
      @Novaximus 23 часа назад

      My first job required you to wear a hat as part of the uniform... So now having the "privillage" of not being forced to wear a hat I see it as a luxury. Sort of like how back in the 1700's if you had a tan it made people think you were a laborer vs a more pale person that would be more well to do. So hat's to me are like dirty farmer jeans. No thanks. I'll only wear one if I have really bad bed head and I'm going to step out real quick.
      Another thing I don't like about them is there are a ton of guys who are weird about always having to wear one. When I was house shopping and looking through some homes some had like a wall of caps just hung by the door like they were important must have car keys before you left the house. It's very rednecky, insecure, stubborn to change,... odd.
      If you're butt naked but still have to have a hat on...there's something going on with that. lol Like...why. It's weird. Like wearing socks to go swimming kind of weird.

    • @byanymeansnecessary398
      @byanymeansnecessary398 21 час назад +4

      I wear a hat as it makes me feel comfortable, somewhat. Oh, and it protects me from the sun.

    • @supernotnatural
      @supernotnatural 17 часов назад

      Not necessarily. That's pointless. I shave my head to zero, but need hat to protect it in the sun. I dont wear in winter etc. Regardless, you need hat to protect from yourself from sun

  • @grondhero
    @grondhero День назад +65

    When mentioned guys wearing a chain and her response was "please literally marry me," I was done. She doesn't sound like she has any wisdom I could use. I do appreciate Courtney's opinions _much_ more.

    • @popurm
      @popurm День назад +6

      She's describing Fred Durst. But Fred Durst is pretty successful lol.
      Also this girls seems toxic

    • @nicholaschacon7785
      @nicholaschacon7785 6 часов назад +1

      ​@@popurm Yes it does sound like she's describing Fred Durst but he is definitely the exception.lol

  • @donaldbiden9492
    @donaldbiden9492 День назад +152

    So a bunch of infantile adults that want us to dress like we're still in high school. Got it

    • @CoachSteveJandS
      @CoachSteveJandS День назад +5

      Right?!??!

    • @biernut8408
      @biernut8408 День назад +17

      I told AI to draw me a douchebag, it brought back a guy in a hoodie with a chain and a backwards baseball hat...

    • @1Know1tHurts
      @1Know1tHurts День назад

      @@biernut8408

    • @Cavallo_nero
      @Cavallo_nero День назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @drbjr8223
      @drbjr8223 День назад +1

      well they are mostly just young ppl pushing out this mind rot so it makes sense.

  • @jharrelson
    @jharrelson День назад +26

    Courtney's facial responses to this rando Tik Tok scene kid are hilarious.

  • @BryJovi17
    @BryJovi17 День назад +23

    1. Be attractive.
    2. Don't be unattractive.
    3. In conjunction with 1 and 2, wear baseball caps backwards, wear chains, wear hoodies with strings tied up, read books in public, have a dog and wear a watch.
    Follow these steps and you'll be able to bag any woman on planet earth... 🙄
    Basically - it's still all about looks. None of these things matter if the girl initially doesn't like you physically either by your face or your physique.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 20 часов назад

      Yup, it's like that old Tomb Brady skit on SNL.

    • @youtubsuck
      @youtubsuck 19 часов назад

      And a iphone😂

    • @davidmajor1508
      @davidmajor1508 18 часов назад

      No, it’s NOT “all about looks”. Some average looking guys are MUCH more successful with women than good-looking men, because they are more normal, outgoing, have more interesting traits, and know how to interact with women better than the “good-looking guy”.

    • @niccolopaganini1782
      @niccolopaganini1782 18 часов назад

      Definitely not any woman

    • @davidmajor1508
      @davidmajor1508 16 часов назад

      @@niccolopaganini1782
      Not even “most” women, heck, not even a significant minority of women.

  • @richardlaszcz762
    @richardlaszcz762 День назад +42

    Man, why am I even watching these videos? None of these tips will help unless they already find you attractive. "Wow, at first I just thought he was nothing special, but then I noticed he tied the strings on his hoodie, and now I can't take my eyes off him!" Be so for real. Eat well, exercise, keep a positive attitude. Clearly I'm doing a poor job at the latter. Everything else is just window dressing. Anyone else have it drilled into their head that men are the ones focused on visual details? Most of Courtney's videos seem to counteract that. If minor accessories are what ends up drawing a woman to you, what substance could she possibly have?

    • @matthewzumbo9868
      @matthewzumbo9868 День назад +1

      Took the words right out of my mouth

    • @Swearengen1980
      @Swearengen1980 День назад +6

      Because most of her videos and takes are just pandering to the 5's because she makes money off of this. It's basic grifting and doesn't apply to the real world.

    • @davidfryer4353
      @davidfryer4353 День назад +1

      Yeah, also I think it's telling that she said "from a 6 to a 10" instead of something like "from a 3 to a 7" because women pretty routinely rate ~80% of men as below average attractiveness. She isn't talking about guys who are in the 60th percentile, she's talking about guys in the 85th percentile.

    • @richardlaszcz762
      @richardlaszcz762 День назад +5

      @@Swearengen1980 I get what you're saying. Obviously it's the job of anyone on this platform to get views. That being said, I think ultimately she has good intentions. She does give a lot of practical advice that, however elementary it may seem, (keep up hygiene, put in effort, etc) a lot of men and women could benefit from. There's clearly a growing disconnect between her bitter audience and the relatively surface level tips she continues to give. Personally I think it'd be nice to feature more of a dialogue with other people as frankly, a married woman doesn't have the perspective of a single man struggling to date.

    • @theadmiral4625
      @theadmiral4625 День назад

      No cap 💪🤣💪

  • @haroldfarquad6886
    @haroldfarquad6886 День назад +23

    Guys who wear backwards hats are NOT reading books. There's a high chance he's borderline illiterate.

    • @supernotnatural
      @supernotnatural 17 часов назад +1

      I wear backwards hat. I'm a doctor and I've read books that you wouldn't even recognise the language of it. I rent a BMW, go vacations, wear yellow shirt with backwards hat. All the time.

    • @OfficialCourtneyRyanT_eIegram
      @OfficialCourtneyRyanT_eIegram 17 часов назад

      PM LES'T DISCUSS PRIVATELY..

  • @chrishaugh1655
    @chrishaugh1655 День назад +17

    0:58 the moment Courtney's soul left her body.

  • @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470
    @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470 День назад +54

    No one in their late thirties and beyond should ever wear a backwards hat

    • @nektulosnewbie
      @nektulosnewbie День назад +8

      What are you talking about? You're too old for it when you reach your late teens.

    • @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470
      @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470 День назад +1

      @@nektulosnewbie I get that but I'm in my late thirties so I related it to my age

    • @haroldfarquad6886
      @haroldfarquad6886 День назад

      If I saw anyone over the age of 18 wearing a backwards hat, I assume they're permanently stunted as a teenager.

    • @christopherevans2801
      @christopherevans2801 5 часов назад

      If I'm riding my ATV I turn my hat backwards to keep it from blowing off.

    • @christopherevans2801
      @christopherevans2801 5 часов назад

      If I'm riding my ATV I turn my hat backwards to keep it from blowing off.

  • @michaelmaleta4512
    @michaelmaleta4512 День назад +12

    I love the cringe face you gave when she said "Wear a backwards baseball cap." lol

  • @markemerson98
    @markemerson98 День назад +34

    Oh lord why are you reacting to a girl that looks like she’s still in school. You can do better Cortney than try to justify someone else’s subjective opinions…

    • @armandodelacruz3794
      @armandodelacruz3794 День назад +1

      Exactly!

    • @DDD11239
      @DDD11239 День назад

      True. The women she interviewed were young. She didn't think far ahead.

  • @ghostsofwargow2511
    @ghostsofwargow2511 День назад +11

    Im 26, in good shape, women are too much effort these days. Not worth it anymore. Tired of being ghosted, left on read, or rejected. Let them rot.

    • @DDD11239
      @DDD11239 День назад

      Eh. If a very attractive women were to approach you, you would talk to her.

    • @ghostsofwargow2511
      @ghostsofwargow2511 День назад +1

      @@DDD11239 Nah, you’re just a moron.

    • @karami8844
      @karami8844 16 часов назад +1

      The same with guys. Unless you’re a female that ‘gives it up’ easily, you’re dumped and called boring. The dating culture is just toxic.

    • @Cooliam950
      @Cooliam950 7 часов назад

      All women are so lost and rotted in this age. They have no possibility of improving not even being born again.

  • @southeastswell
    @southeastswell День назад +5

    tiktok girl neglects to mention this is relevant for guys she's already attracted to

  • @defnotteek
    @defnotteek День назад +19

    She's definitely still under 25. No way women in my age range like that young F-boy stuff. The book reading is valid though for bookworm girls.

  • @devondanklin1808
    @devondanklin1808 День назад +53

    Guys who wear baseball caps:
    1. Teenagers
    2. Fucc bois
    3. Men who are balding

    • @kurtisroberts9744
      @kurtisroberts9744 День назад +9

      4. Guys out of the military
      5. Guys with to much hair and use it to keep it out of his face.

    • @dontletyourdreamsbememes
      @dontletyourdreamsbememes День назад +1

      3 was the only reason I used baseball caps for a time. Then I accepted I was going bald but a few years later had a hair transplant.

    • @SkuzzelB8
      @SkuzzelB8 День назад +5

      Keep the sun out of your eyes? 🤷‍♂️

    • @thatguy6054
      @thatguy6054 День назад

      3. Men who are balding - We don't wear them backwards. That just makes you look like an idiot.
      And yeah, I look like an old bald guy in a baseball cap. It's better than looking like an old bald guy with heat stroke and a horrible sunburn.

    • @tienkami
      @tienkami День назад

      That is not even true. Most guys wear their hats backwards, no matter their age.

  • @koolandblue
    @koolandblue День назад +5

    The more I see of these reaction videos the more I'm inclined to just say disregard *anything* from a woman if she's on tiktok. Seriously, that platform is total trash.

  • @Sara-jd4gi
    @Sara-jd4gi День назад +8

    The most attractive men , I've seen, are those who play to their own aesthetic strengths. So maybe he wears a tailored jacket that highlights his great posture and shoulders (this one always gets me). Or maybe he styles his hair in a way to draw attention to his beautiful eyes. Play to your strengths and style yourself in a way that makes you feel great. In this way you radiate a unique essence that draws just about anyone in. I remember seeing a man who wore this pretty average looking blue shirt but when you looked at him, but you saw his brilliant blue eyes 👀 💙 . Very smart approach, the shirt highlighted his eyes. PS: Can we please not go down that tired old rabbit hole about "double standards", this is a video specifically about some womens thoughts. People are allowed to like what they like. If it's not for you, that's absolutely fine, just keep it moving. Just like shopping, take what you want and leave what you don't.

  • @justins4274
    @justins4274 День назад +217

    How to appear hotter.
    1. Money
    2. More money
    3. Even more money.

    • @drip369
      @drip369 День назад +19

      Tell me you don't get women which is why you don't understand women without telling me these things

    • @jasonbored8319
      @jasonbored8319 День назад

      Shup nerd ​@@drip369

    • @annamarihiljanen5221
      @annamarihiljanen5221 День назад +6

      I've met plenty very well off men who I don't find attractive AT ALLL

    • @TheSaiyanKing
      @TheSaiyanKing День назад +11

      You're just sabotaging yourself with that mentality.

    • @grill_1702
      @grill_1702 День назад +7

      1. cope
      2. more cope
      3. even more cope
      you'll just end up being his betabux for money while she cheats on you for attractive guys , face frame and height is everything

  • @mmcgreg5044
    @mmcgreg5044 День назад +5

    I’m 29 and still do not understand the backwards hat. The function of a hat is to have the bill provide shade. If I wear a hat (which is not often) I feel better wearing it properly. I guess I’m in the minority.

  • @x-man5056
    @x-man5056 День назад +14

    Backwards hat only if you are under 25. It is kid stuff. I got to the "tie the hoodie strings up"WHAT? Is she serious? I think this must be a prank video.
    Guys; make sure if you are "reading in public view" for this intended effect, hold the book right side up.

  • @daveblackman816
    @daveblackman816 День назад +23

    She basically wants a guy who dresses like it’s 2001 and in the band Sum 41…

  • @mikeknowles8017
    @mikeknowles8017 День назад +4

    As a recently single older guy I can confirm the whole reading thing. I'll go to a bookstore because I'm always reading least 2 books and much younger women come up and start conversations with me. The other suggestions in the TikTok sound like nonsense to me. Good luck with all that.

  • @banquo60615
    @banquo60615 День назад +2

    Just remember, that whole reading thing only works for guys who are already attractive.

  • @AakashKumar-tn6yh
    @AakashKumar-tn6yh День назад +124

    Unrealistic standards...... I'm tired.......

    • @sullybully
      @sullybully День назад +22

      We all are

    • @kyle_sibley
      @kyle_sibley День назад +26

      Waring a hat backwards and reading a book are unrealistic standards to you ? 😂

    • @jackmorris1068
      @jackmorris1068 День назад +11

      Stop crying

    • @eyeinsee
      @eyeinsee День назад

      Fam get off the internet unless you want to date an idiot that talks to herself with her phone in front of her face.

    • @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470
      @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470 День назад +7

      Everything she brings up is so superficial

  • @williamturner1441
    @williamturner1441 День назад +6

    If that girl was standing near Courtney. Courtney wins every time.

  • @WilliamSwartzendruber
    @WilliamSwartzendruber День назад +2

    "Wear a backwards hat."
    - NO. I'm dying single before I do that.

  • @Gumblethebear
    @Gumblethebear 3 часа назад +1

    As a rule that never fails, NEVER listen to what any woman says. Woman lie like they breath. Only believe their actions. Actions never lie.
    Watch what they do, that is your answer, always.
    Any man OR woman taking advice from a woman is doomed to failure.

  • @MoshJunkie426
    @MoshJunkie426 День назад +1

    The arrested development of young women these days is actually scary. I swear these girls will be almost 30 and act like they're still in hs

  • @robsmith2347
    @robsmith2347 День назад +4

    I always wear my hat backwards and I know how to read! Yes!

    • @Chyronn
      @Chyronn День назад

      You'll be swatting them off in no time

  • @zeku3531
    @zeku3531 День назад +2

    "backwards hat" laughed my ass off 😂

  • @johngonzalez4298
    @johngonzalez4298 День назад +1

    Happy hump day 🐪 Courtney! I'm 37 and I barely wear jewelry nowadays because I don't go out as much so the most I wear for jewelry is my watch, which I have 2 watches with one being a black Emporio Armani watch and a stainless stell Fossil Blue watch. A humble woman like you is what alot of men want to have for a relationship and I hope all will go well with your marriage to your husband. I don't really wear hats nowadays but I did because I used to play baseball when I was a kid. I am someone who is calm and mature even when I'm in complex situations so I have that advantage in me. I don't care for status in women, and I like to see women who are humble and good people

  • @Hartwell10
    @Hartwell10 День назад +14

    i think its weird how many dudes come to this comment section just to scream out "THIS ONLY WORKS IF YOU ARE ALREADY GOOD LOOKING OR 6FT TALL! OTHERWISE NONE OF THESE THINGS WORK!!" Like chill bros... This pity party behavior is so embarrassing, and annoying lol

    • @Sara-jd4gi
      @Sara-jd4gi День назад +1

      Yeah it honestly baffles me. If a piece of information shared does not apply to someone, they are not forced to adopt it. So I don't understand it.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk День назад

      @@Sara-jd4gi Because they are looking for advice to help them, not advice that only helps guys who don't need the help.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk День назад +1

      It's not a pity party if the advice does not work. If a guy is a sub-5, wearing a backwards cap and a gold chain would just make him look like that Steve Buscemi meme that says, "How do you do, fellow kids?"

    • @Sara-jd4gi
      @Sara-jd4gi День назад

      @@Billy-bc8pk That is why it's good to have a comment section under the video, so that there can be added information given by the community, that might be more helpful.
      I see many comments here about cologne and basically the power of scent. That comment, I feel, applies more generally. Even just a good laundry fabric softner scent is intoxicating. As a woman myself, I know that scent for me is more important than appearance. But maybe that's just me.

    • @DDD11239
      @DDD11239 День назад

      "Like"

  • @theonetheycallfear8237
    @theonetheycallfear8237 День назад +2

    Something I’ve been finding is a great combination of jeans and cowboy boots will make the ladies go crazy. It does help to have a nice cologne on too.

    • @Sara-jd4gi
      @Sara-jd4gi День назад +1

      Yeah, even just a nice smelling fabric softener used for laundry, is intoxicating. Well, that's my experience.

    • @theonetheycallfear8237
      @theonetheycallfear8237 День назад

      @@Sara-jd4gi yup, my ex said she loved the way I smelled even if I was just wearing a clean shirt.

    • @DDD11239
      @DDD11239 День назад

      ​@@theonetheycallfear8237 She's your ex for a reason.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 20 часов назад

      @@Sara-jd4gi I think everybody loves clean smelling laundry -- especially clean smelling sheets that still radiate a bit of heat after coming out of the dryer. Makes it easy to snuggle up and fall fast asleep that way. It's a universally accepted sense of coziness (I should think).

  • @kc270352
    @kc270352 День назад +2

    why are people still listening to idiots on TikTok for advice? 🙄

  • @L.D.R_yt
    @L.D.R_yt 5 часов назад

    1. Backwards hat (defeating its purpose).
    2. A chain.
    3. Tying the strings on hoodies.
    4. Reading for fun.

  • @haha32599123
    @haha32599123 6 часов назад +1

    Imagine what would a guy with a cat/dog, reading a book with a chain and a backwards hat on do to her? 😮😅

  • @alwaysemployed656
    @alwaysemployed656 День назад +3

    Well, let me ask this then: what do women think of a guy who looks like a real-life male anime character? The ones who are the studs driving the female anime characters wild.

    • @richardlaszcz762
      @richardlaszcz762 День назад

      Don't base your real life off of cartoons. Obviously.

    • @Billy-bc8pk
      @Billy-bc8pk 20 часов назад +1

      @@richardlaszcz762 I get what he's asking, though. Because the real-life equivalent would be a K-Pop star. But I'm curious what women actually think of guys like that who are not celebrities? Do they actually think they are handsome/cool? I don't encircle myself within the channels that cover whether women find those guys attractive or not, so I am actually curious about that myself.

    • @alwaysemployed656
      @alwaysemployed656 18 часов назад +1

      @@Billy-bc8pk Thanks for getting the question. Well, I'm Caucasian, but I still resemble a male anime character. Google image "Young Eric Roberts," and that’s exactly what I look like; he also resembles an anime character in his younger days. Women THINK I’m good-looking but never tell me because they think I’m a little arrogant and feel I don’t deserve to hear it. So, I never get to know what they think.
      I once caught one of my exes dancing by herself while holding up a picture of my face; she didn’t realize I was behind her watching. As soon as she saw me, she immediately tossed the picture on the ground, got into mean mode, and said, "YOU ARE NOT THAT GREAT! I DON'T REALLY LOVE YOU!" I replied, "Okay! Get in bed. It’s getting late."

    • @alwaysemployed656
      @alwaysemployed656 18 часов назад +1

      @@Billy-bc8pk Thanks for getting the question. Well, I'm Caucasian, but I still resemble a male anime character. Google "Young Eric Roberts," and that’s exactly what I look like; he also resembles an anime character in his younger days. Women THINK I’m good-looking but never tell me because they think I’m a little arrogant and feel I don’t deserve to hear it. So, I never get to know what they think.
      I once caught one of my exes dancing by herself while holding up a picture of my face; she didn’t realize I was behind her watching. As soon as she saw me, she immediately tossed the picture on the ground, got into mean mode, and said, "YOU ARE NOT THAT GREAT! I DON'T REALLY LOVE YOU!" I replied, "Okay! Get in bed. It’s getting late."

  • @Outlander-wm9cd
    @Outlander-wm9cd День назад +13

    I'm 6'2" make a third of a million a year, eight inches, Great sense of humor, Above average looks and great build, well traveled etc, the only problem is The women are not making>> ANY

    • @cedric3973
      @cedric3973 День назад +3

      Exactly, I moved to germany and people ask me why I am not married. I explain and they say well all women are like that. No they are not and most are not like that here.

    • @MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou
      @MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou День назад

      Sounds like you're just not attracted to women.

    • @Cavallo_nero
      @Cavallo_nero День назад

      Well from the way you described yourself, maybe you’re a douche and women see thru that.🤣🤣🤣

    • @DDD11239
      @DDD11239 День назад +1

      You did not need to identify yourself.

    • @Outlander-wm9cd
      @Outlander-wm9cd День назад

      @@DDD11239 Fun fact: I didn't.

  • @MarcxsTheRealist
    @MarcxsTheRealist 14 часов назад +2

    Somebody's gotta make a compilation of your reactions to "backwards hat"

  • @NexWalkthrough
    @NexWalkthrough 5 часов назад +1

    Courtney, how about a video tailored to men who already have their life and goals figured out, on how to actually approach and get the women they want. It seems that you have made multiple videos a year, every year, on what women want, how to dress and style, etc.. but you havent made an approach video in a while. Again, this video would be for the men that are already physically fit, financially stable, and ready to put it altogether.

  • @jethrojacinto2798
    @jethrojacinto2798 23 часа назад +2

    How To Appear Hotter As A Guy: Be Hot.

  • @sirraymondluxuryyacht8131
    @sirraymondluxuryyacht8131 День назад +1

    Guys don't take advice on how to attract women, from women! Seriously.
    Ever heard a woman describe how she just wants a nice guy, then she goes chasing after bad boys? Yep..they say one thing and do another.
    Just be yourself and be VERY choosy who who date and especially who you commit to.
    Also, regarding how to dress..you're not a child - choose your own clothes based on what YOU like to wear. Women who dictate what their men should wear are usually controlling, and will actually try dominate you. If you tolerate her choosing your clothes you'll end up being a cardigan wearing efeminate man who wears deck shoes with no socks and skinny pants that show your ankles...it's not worth it.
    Women respect a man who knows and does what HE wants.

  • @patrickspellman5397
    @patrickspellman5397 День назад +3

    Sit up straight in your gamer chair and have good posture while ignoring said woman all day while you continue playing your video games. We already knew this.

  • @728huey
    @728huey День назад

    About people slouching, I think we have reached an epidemic of people slouching around because of our obsession with screens (cell phones, tablets, etc.). Because most people spend a lot of time looking at their phones, they almost always tend to end their head down which leads to bad posture, not to mention neck and shoulder stiffness. I don't want to say that cell phones lead to less confidence, but people who slouch around tend to be more passive and less assertive in their lives, so it's something to consider.

  • @nadirqg
    @nadirqg 5 часов назад

    Ignore all the tiktok advice, here is a starter list :
    - Get in shape
    - Be confident
    - Dress well
    - Get a nice haircut
    It's basically all you need for a starter, the rest is just whatever your personality leads you to, for example if you like watches, get yourself a nice watch that you like.. etc

  • @JMD1965
    @JMD1965 9 часов назад

    1) The ONLY time by cap is going backwards is if I'm playing catcher behind home plate... 2) NO chain for me. A watch and single ring (maybe cufflinks if the shirt calls for it) is enough for me... 3) Hoodie with the STRING tied up???... What am I ...The Uni-bomber??.... 4) Read a book???... Well, of course... but if I'm in public, same with my phone (hint, hint), I try to stay engaged with my environment... It's called 'situational awareness'... I'll read at home, thank you.

  • @TS-es5xu
    @TS-es5xu День назад +1

    Step 1 be good looking. Step 2 - Ignore the rest of this nonesense, because your good to go.

  • @themore-you-know
    @themore-you-know 7 часов назад

    TLDR: anything EXCEPT substance.
    Now compare that to Matt Walsh' advice to women: "Ask him about his preferred historical period. A question that will rule out the genuinely ignorant men, and simultaneously make you more attractive to the none-ignorant."

  • @nickst0ne
    @nickst0ne 8 часов назад

    How to appear hotter as a guy: "be hot!" hot with a book, hot with a cap, hot with a dog or with a hotdog...
    We're breaking new grounds!

  • @ronaldonogueira74
    @ronaldonogueira74 2 часа назад

    The best and most useful part was definitely Courtney's own point of view by the end of the video

  • @adamspeaking373
    @adamspeaking373 День назад +1

    The girl is literally describing me 😂 and it works, trust me.

  • @socrattt
    @socrattt День назад

    Attitude is the most important thing.
    I wear sandals because I'm not in a rush, and I like the feeling of nature. I'll walk on the grass.
    Let's say a bunch of guys are wearing baseball caps backward. I show up, and I'm confident and polite to the women and men. I don't wear a baseball cap. The women find me sophisticated.
    I go to an event in sandals, and the guys are wearing dress shoes and socks. The women find me casual and confident.
    Let's say a woman says, "You must really love sandals."
    I say, "I do." I look at her calmly, smiling.
    She says, "Aren't your feet cold?"
    I go, "A little."
    She looks at me like I'm stupid.
    I say, "Life has many challenges."
    She'll probably laugh.
    If you have a good reason for doing what you are doing, then you can make it attractive. Women love confidence, and they will test you.

  • @whitecandaceowens
    @whitecandaceowens 17 часов назад +1

    This will make you attractive if you’re a college kid. That’s it 😂

  • @kbeezyk
    @kbeezyk День назад

    Courtney's reaction to the tips are hilarious. I'm sure we all were making the same face lmao

  • @jesusprofessor314
    @jesusprofessor314 День назад +1

    Thanks for the video. The book thing worked well for me after about 20 years old. The teen years were tough, no one wanted to date the "book worm." But once those nesting impulses began to kick in, there's something about a physics major with a book in his hands ...

    • @DDD11239
      @DDD11239 День назад +1

      Read books older than the 20th Century.

    • @jesusprofessor314
      @jesusprofessor314 День назад

      @@DDD11239 Does the Bible count? Other than the assigned readings from courses, most of the reading I did was the Bible. But that was usually at home. While sitting somewhere on campus or nearby or riding the bus, I was usually reading from a class assignment. In English, that was the usual selection from British and Americal lit from Shakespeare to the present. In Philosophy, it included Plato's dialogs as well as Descarte and Heidegger.

  • @TheSaneHatter
    @TheSaneHatter День назад

    I heartily agree that, most often, when people say that they find something attractive, they mean that they want to see someone they already like wearing or doing this thing. I figured that out sometime ago, and it’s one of the most important insights that I’ve ever achieved. Voracious, public reading, I can’t guarantee that they have ever landed me girls, especially this young. On the contrary, I find that it’s usually someone who already likes you that takes notice.

  • @tayntp
    @tayntp 8 часов назад

    1). Baseball Hat/Cap backwards: It is just how men dress casually sometimes, not intentionally. But somehow it seems to be more attractive and we don’t really know why. It doesn’t exclusive to bad boys, normal dudes can easily pull this off, too.
    2). Chain necklace: I think she has dirty minds, I’ll leave it right there.
    3). Tied Hoodie Strings: No idea
    4). (Hot dudes) Reading books: I think this one is so random and she added it just to make her not look so shallow and only attracted to men by how they dressed. Like, I’m into smart men, too. Would she claim the same if it was a normal looking guy reading a book? I highly doubt it.

  • @karami8844
    @karami8844 2 часа назад

    For me, a guy dressed in a nice-fitting suit and a trench coat, like in those old noir Hollywood movies.

  • @Supermateo97
    @Supermateo97 День назад

    THE FACE COURTNEY MADE WHEN SHE SAID TO WEAR A BACKWARDS HAT 😭😭😭

  • @blurrcs15
    @blurrcs15 День назад

    I’ve noticed that a large portion of videos on RUclips talking about this subject tend to give mixed and controversial advice. Some claim you have to stop being a “nice guy” without saying why. Some say you need to be an “alpha male” which basically means being dominant and controlling. Neither of these are who I want to be. Thankfully, Courtney doesn’t give that type of advice, and rather focuses on positive behaviors.
    It might not be easy, but it’s best to just be the best version of yourself, and naturally, women will start to gravitate towards you. Stop putting women on a pedestal, and start treating them like people, and you will eventually find someone special.

  • @robertpaul50n
    @robertpaul50n 11 часов назад

    I'm 41, if I tried this stuff, I'd be like Steve Buschemi saying "hello fellow kids!"

  • @kennygee8600
    @kennygee8600 День назад

    Quiet mysterious wins every time, power of not responding

  • @alwaysemployed656
    @alwaysemployed656 День назад +1

    Fun Fact: I just got a wealthy Dixie Gal's phone number just an hour ago and she won't stop texting me... Wants to hook up 👍
    Not my first time hooking with a wealthy married woman. Maybe I should be the one giving dating advice.

  • @nlytend1
    @nlytend1 22 часа назад

    I stopped listening to what women say they like in a guy a few years ago and I’m just myself, they can vibe or dip, don’t matter. I’m not changing for anyone

  • @OfficerPapi
    @OfficerPapi День назад

    Now ask women how to lock them into a situationship. That’s the one they don’t want to talk about, but every man needs to hear. 😂

  • @philr.2661
    @philr.2661 День назад

    She's probably underaged. Her daddy and mommy shouldn't allow her to put videos of herself on the internet. Most women of any age will dig into a successful man. My aunt is 45, she's married to a 73 year old man and he's a millionaire. This is what we call a sugar daddy.

  • @whiteburr
    @whiteburr 7 часов назад

    im glad i got a lil bit of confirmation bias from this video on a Thursday! Thanks Courtney!

  • @pondfishrancher
    @pondfishrancher День назад

    Remember guys, all women all over the world hate being grouped together in a box

  • @SilveeYT
    @SilveeYT День назад

    Courtney, you're telling me I can cutout my book with a comic hidden inside? 😁 Yay!

  • @CzechShooter
    @CzechShooter День назад +1

    All these things work perfectly well ....for every Chad...

  • @laceyunderall68
    @laceyunderall68 День назад

    I followed her suggestions on "how to appear hotter" and I was arrested on suspicion of burglary. Ironically despite the fact I was dressed like a teenage tool with no idea the hot police officer saw me reading a book in the jail cell and now we're dating.

    • @DDD11239
      @DDD11239 День назад

      Is this supposed to be humor?

  • @Konstantinos143
    @Konstantinos143 День назад

    I am 39
    - backwards baseball hat is just cringe
    -chains and simple bracelets, yes, accompanied by black shirts and pants/jeans
    -hoodie idea, I don't get it all, cringe
    -dress like a rap star, cringe
    -dress like a clown, cringe
    -better posture, yes, for sure
    -sitting with legs crossed like a girl, cringe
    -I read for my fun, but I rarely show it off - usually you are dedicated to it, at a library, and not necessarily out to talk to someone else.
    -I am also stupid myself. I read to learn and invest as well as understand physics and psychology. Reading doesn't necessarily mean intelligence.
    That girl is cringe. Courtney seems to have more of a greater understanding of these things

  • @damirzeric1018
    @damirzeric1018 19 часов назад +1

    Key word: hot dudes readings, hot dude with dog...so the important part is being hot already 😅. I doubt mediocre guy reading or dog is attractive 🎉

  • @369TCC
    @369TCC 23 часа назад

    I rarely wear hats.
    I don’t wear any jewelry not even a watch, pocket watch only.
    I remove the strings on my hoodies.
    Yes, I read.
    😂😂😂

  • @coolnut99
    @coolnut99 Час назад

    Be tall and handsome.
    Everything else is ancillary.
    Edit: The CRAZY EYES on that woman in that video should inform all of you that her advice is worse than worthless.

  • @punishedpinecone4772
    @punishedpinecone4772 День назад

    "wear a hat backwards to instantly become more attractive" oh please

    • @punishedpinecone4772
      @punishedpinecone4772 День назад

      Although I did just assume that a woman who describes clothing choices as "delicious" is using any kind of logic

  • @sebastianquilt
    @sebastianquilt 21 час назад

    30 seconds into her video and the girl contradicted herself -- a baseball is a physical item, which you must adorn. She said her suggestions won't involve changing one's appearance..

  • @cymbergan
    @cymbergan День назад

    I have carried a blue bag with toiletries, wearing a big backpack, wide rimmed hat and mask. I filmed myself on RUclips and it received 1K views in 1 second.

  • @1011skarn
    @1011skarn 8 часов назад

    Money. Money makes every man more attractive

  • @gilbertflores4341
    @gilbertflores4341 День назад

    Khaki's,Stacy Adams and a pressed white Stafford t- shirt standing next to a '47 Bomb = Chicano Style ✊️

  • @ColePhelps61
    @ColePhelps61 День назад +1

    When I heard "Wear a backwards hat" I stopped listening 😂

  • @donharris8846
    @donharris8846 День назад

    She may not even noticed but in every one of these she added the adjective “hot” for the guys doing these things. Kinda like hot women wearing sweatpants are always hot

  • @gemini7726
    @gemini7726 День назад +1

    Courtney, I usually never comment on your videos. However, I watch and like most of them. #1 If the girl is a 4.... not many people are going to listen to her on how to go from a 6 to a 10..... #2 You absolutely are in the minority being high value in comparison. #3 I have to be honest, I think it's beneath you to comment on absolute garbage like that never mind aligning with it. Let's be honest most of your subs aren't the unfortunate boys learning from her and that style of video. Lastly I laughed when she said hat backwards.... I thought you were going to insert a nails on the chalkboard meme. If I can make a suggestion and if I was to guess I would say a majority of your subs would agree with me.... Why don't you comment on more high value women's opinions? And bring more truth to the table for your male subscribers... Unless this was for comedy reasons?

  • @lawrence31415
    @lawrence31415 23 часа назад

    "It's never too late to start reading a book..." - Author Unknown

  • @johns.4351
    @johns.4351 День назад

    I would add ; a guy who is carrying a bouquet of flowers or a flowering plant. It seems to always create warm feelings with people, mostly women , not men. Thats right, buy a bunch of flowers or a flowering plant and carry it around in public. If nothing else, you have flowers or a plant for your home at the end of the day . And if you hit it off with someone, youcan give them the flowers hah And, if not it can be used more than once. 👍

  • @punishedpinecone4772
    @punishedpinecone4772 День назад +3

    If someone is wearing a low-cut top and leaning forward into the camera, you should not listen to them.

  • @donaldleider7382
    @donaldleider7382 19 часов назад

    Guys, just be true to yourself, if she doesn’t like you that’s HER problem!

  • @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470
    @anthonyjordanmoviesandmore2470 День назад

    I guarantee if she seen me reading for fun she wouldn't even ask my name

  • @highlanderknight
    @highlanderknight 11 часов назад

    About the backwards baseball cap, you are in the majority. That girl in the TicToc is just part of the vocal minority and a serious red flag.
    PS - Only Silent Bob gets to wear the backwards cap.

  • @patrick-aka-patski
    @patrick-aka-patski День назад

    Courtney is like 'oh what about guys with cats, let me search for that' xD

  • @mave2k
    @mave2k День назад

    I'm a bit older and it's weird to me that the new generation loves the 90s frat boy styling. Backward hats? Chains dangling outside the shirt? Are we trying to bring back Vanilla Ice or something? 😂

  • @RayRayReddington
    @RayRayReddington День назад

    When I read a book my wife gets mad at me for sitting still and not doing some sort of chore

  • @Quantris
    @Quantris 16 часов назад

    I'm a trendsetter. I wear my backwards hat, but backwards