Stylist here. I've heard of stylists sneaking in a tiny bit of relaxer during a press to make it easier for them to smooth the hair. It's lazy, damaging and totally ruins the texture.
You know what's ridiculous?? You having to say "i was upset about being upset about my hair...cause its just hair" Except you only said that to avoid the "i can't even pay my rent and you're crying over HAIR??" listen....dont apologize for the things that are important to you. You're a woman and even if you were a man....ITS OKAY FOR HOW YOU LOOK TO BE IMPORTANT TO YOU. Everyone else's issues are not your issues. And remember not to dim your shine to make others feel better.
I think I understand why she said that. I'm a hairstylist and I see people all the time with hair loss thats out of their hands. So I try to remind myself that hair is just an accessory and you do whatever you can/want to do.
I agree. Even though it’s not the worst issue in the world I would be devestated if my hair got damaged and I had to cut it all off and then couldn’t find a way to make it work. I’m white so I have a different hair texture but I went to get a hair cut one time, my hair was very long like halfway down my back and I asked the stylists to cut off 5 inches. I walked out of there with over 12 inches gone! My hair didn’t even touch my shoulder and was to short to put in a ponytail. I was so pissed.
People don’t realize: it’s not the hair, it’s the *time* that goes into the hair vs how little time it takes to destroy it and live without it until/if it grows back.
I do my own hair . I learned how to do my own sew ins, braids, and quick weaves. I’m not good at knotless braids , but I’ll learn like I did everything else. Saves me a lot of money too. All I have to do is worry about buying the hair. If you go to a stylist , only go to one that specializes in natural hair if you’re natural.
girl that is talent that you can do that on yourself self! i went to cosmetology school and that stuff isn’t necessarily easy to do so good for you girl!
I totally agree. Just being a woman your hair is so important, and plays a huge part in my self confidence. I’m not black, but it seems like it’s even more important to black women because of history, and all the stuff that comes with that history. I hope I’m not overstepping the mark saying that.
Cosmetologist here, yes flat irons can do that. Most of the time we can tell though. Especially if it's an older one. That's why I always reccomend the ones where you can see the temp digitally. Mistakes happen though unfortunately.
Yeah this exact thing happened to me. And she kept mentioning that my hair was so hot to the touch and smoking. However did not stop or change irons. I didn’t know what was going on but now I’m left to deal with the heat damage..😩. I’m going to cosmetology school soon and I will definitely caution against this
Wow!!! This happened to my cousin, she had got a sew in and she was complaining that it was way too tight. A few days later she still said it was way too tight and hurting so bad. She took it out a week later and had a huge patch of skin flaking off and dry blood in her braids.
It happened to me,and now I have a permanent scar on the front of my edges,It's annoying and to hide it I have to put cover the front of my face,I am skeptical about hairdressers from yanking my edges out to cutting my hair and shortening it to leaving a scar ...I do it on my own and my edges have grown but the scar won't go away
Your hairstylist tried to use the heat memory excuse saying that was the issue. But your curls come back after a few washes. She put perm in the shampoo a lot of Dominican salons do that to avoid do the extra work for coarse hair
That’s why it’s good to go to trusted Dominican shops because my aunt would never do that to anyone. Because we have 4c hair and recognize how important hair texture is.
Thats kinda unfair. She should be able to trust certified stylist at least. She's just trusting the wrong people, lesson don't find your stylist on insta lol.
So true. I bought a wig from this girl basically with all the looks and sales and when I purchased a wig from her a few years ago for almost 400 dollars I got worried when the games started. I stayed patient... when I got the wig she used old hair for the lace and the lace was bad like coarse, rip your edges just from touching bad . I learned how to do the lace frontal myself and just took the l.
omgg sis you went THROUGH IT 😭😭😩 getting my hair done always comes with som inconvenience in many aspects but literally every one of my hair fears happened to you in a ROW! 😫💀💀
OMG, I’m so sorry this happened to you! This made me realize that I don’t need weave! I have a head full of beautiful shoulder length hair and a lot of weave irritates my scalp as if I’m allergic but I still wear them from time to time.. however, as I watch this video I feel like I’m taking a huge risk wearing them.. soooo I’m going to enjoy the hair that god gave me. Thanks for sharing!
When that picture popped up of that wig girl I busted out laughing. That wig looked so sad and she was super wrong for that. I am sorry that happened to you.
Hey loved your story time as a hair stylist I specialize in natural hair care. I hear stories like this all the time. In my personal experience what I’ve learnt is a few things can cause heat damage or your curl to not revert....I believe if you use titanium plate flat irons (bc the heat is similar to volcanic heat) or continuous use of flat iron on dirty hair. And if you’re texture is fine your stylist should understand your hair doesn’t require a lot of direct heat.
I'm a stylist and I have a friend stylist who buys her hot tools from Amazon vs. going to the official site because the price is so inexpensive. Unfortunately, many times those items are bootleg and have been known to tweak out and not be calibrated. If you've gone to her numerous times and that was the first time you lost your curls, it *may* not be her fault- genuinely.
@@Jadaxx look like a fan or ac is blowing something on the door. Showing the reflection of a towel or sheet ( whatever is on that door) blowing in the mirror
I promise I can never get a good stylist, it’s literally always something. I’m scared to wash my hair now because I just got a silk press and trim, and I’m terrified of heat damage. I’m praying I don’t have any
I had this happen from a quick weave. I was only able to wear it for a week and it was so painful. My hair did grow back, but I never got another quick weave again. Sending love from Newport News VA.
The stylist actually sent me olaplex products to use. I feel like it’s not doing much tbh 😬 I think my hair has just grown out at this point so about half of it is natural and the other half is still heat damaged.
Ugh jada I’m so sorry this happened to you!!! As a stylist, I can tell that your original stylist (heat damage) is most likely as traumatized (and very guilty too) about this situation as you are. I know I would never trust myself with natural hair again. I am glad to see she is acting professionally and trying to compensate with buying the wig and the olaplex. Def doesn’t make it right, but I am glad to see that she cares about your hair and your happiness. Basically all I’m saying is I can tell that she means well, maybe if you can find it in your heart to continue going to her for cuts or other services I’m sure it would heal her heart a lot.
Oh sweetheart, I'm so sorry you want through that! Don't feel bad about being upset about it, almost anyone would feel the same way. Hair is your crown, your armour, and it feels awful when something happens to it. If it is any consolation at all I think you're beautiful, and your scalp looks like it's healing, and your hair looks pretty in the simple style you have in this video. Give it a few months and you'll look in the mirror and say "I'm back!" Lots of love and good vibrations for you! ❤
I'm not sure how I got here, but I really enjoyed your story time and I'm really Glad you're ok. BTW I CAN'T STOP LOOKING IN YOUR MIRROR DID YOU HAVE a FAN ON I'M LIKE I KNOW IT'S NOT YOUR T.V THAT'S BEHIND YOU.
that actually looks really weird 😶 it could be that she has a fan on and that's a moving shadow, like from curtains or so...or it is a portal to a different world 🤫
Omg girl I'm so sorry, I'm not african american but I know how much you ladies take such good care of your hair and take so much pride in your hair im so sorry this happened to you I truly am.
Yes flat irons 100% can do that. It happened to me when I was in middle school. But it’s not common for it to be that drastic. I wouldn’t put it past a stylish to sneak in a perm.
I literally never knew what some women go through with their hair. Until I developed Alopecia. I was traumatized by my hair falling out and all of the bald patches that I had. But as this was happening to me and I had to start wearing wigs, all the black women in my life helped me to understand wigs. Lace fronts Plucking the part Applying foundation Washing and styling I’m so appreciative of their kindness and taking the time to educate me and help me to not be embarrassed. I really learned to appreciate the black woman’s journey with hair. ❤️
I would suggest checking on the Better Business Bureau's website and you can usually find a group on Reddit or FB that is about the "Bad Apples" of whatever county your in! It has helped me immensely!!!
Your beautiful and natural hair is gorgeous on you. What do you use on your hair to lay it so flat please. I have 4b hair but it doesn't lay easily at all
I'm going to make an assumption based on what was happening to me years and I mean years ago. You may have eczema in your scalp. When the hair, string, glue and other are applied the eczema causes a flare up.
Heat damage is very possible especially with Titanium, best to keep it at around 410, 450 is HIGH.! And how often you straighten it matters as well. On another note, the damage done to your scalp is insane & why stylist are required to have insurance. You need to sue her (her insurance). There needs to be something done because she can do that to someone else & you should be compensated for pain & suffering & services. Sorry that happened, glad it's healing well.
Girl I have no clue about wigs and dealing with curly hair types. but I agree, any beauty service I get I’m like ... I could’ve done a better job my damn self...
This is why I didn’t like the elastic band method for full closures when I wore weaves. It can cause serious issues with edges due to abrasion and constant friction. Sorry you went through all of this.
i’m an electronics engineer (not a lawyer or anything), but there is no way a heat tool would be ul listed for sale in north america if it didn’t have some capacity of overheat protection. sorry, but that hairdresser was either lying about making a mistake or bought a cheap flat iron that wasn’t officially approved for sale in the united states. always look for the UL or CE icons when shopping for electronics so you know the item has been safety tested by someone not influenced by the company profiting from being allowed to sell it. that being said, i’m really sorry this happened to you and glad you’re doing so much better! i’m also sorry that the medical professionals you saw were not equipped to deal with problems like this that disproportionally affect bipoc. yuck. congrats on your graduation!
Once your scalp is healed, pure sage oil applied every day should bring the hair back. I suffered a chemical burn all around my hair line from a bad relaxer application. I thought my hair would NEVER come back but the sage worked. It smells bad though but the smell was worth the results. Good Luck on your hair journey.
This story is so sad. I hear it, I hear you and I hope you're beginning to realize how you can look cute-er by applying the same styles in different ways. I can relate to you and it may be that you have very sensitive skin. I've had 2 sew-ins in my life both were painful and the first bled. Eventually I used fullwigs and then to half wigs and most ppl don't know when it's in. I don't braid my hair either. It's too itchy and painful. I'm sorry to hear about the failed wig purchase too. But there are good brands out there like Outre, and Sensationnel. Keep hanging in there 🙂
Yea flat irons can definitely mess up your curls if the heat is up too high it can fry up your hair and some of my cousins even used to have wavy/curly hair they straightened their hair so much it’s straight now. So her flat iron probably overheated or she maybe snuck in relaxer
Girl I got a silk press done and my curl pattern changed. I am Lucky because I love the new curl pattern, but I still had to cut some of my ends that wont curl anymore. I am NEVER doing a silk press again! Idc.
My daughter went to the mall and allowed this lady selling the newest flat iron to run the flat iron over a section of her hair. That section stayed straight for one year!! My daughter has the same texture hair as you. When the iron is so hot it can sometimes revert the curl pattern, I talked to a professional stylist and she told me that my daughters curl pattern was damaged. It is now all curly again but it's been a few years.
That happened to my sister when we went to the mall one day. A lady was displaying this flat iron and tried it on a section of my sisters hair and my sister liked how it looked, but we didn’t realize how damage d I hair was until she washed her hair and that section didn’t curl back like it should have. My mom had to tell her no on purchasing the iron because she thought that it was fine her hair was like that. It’s been years since that incident do her hair is back to normal.
Hi, it’s so hard to lose hair and you have every right to be upset. I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid arthritis and lupus recently. Well the RA showed up a couple of years ago. I started losing my hair and I couldn’t figure out why. I’m Hispanic and have had hair past my rear all my life. So about 2 months ago they ran tests and it came back that I have lupus also. That’s why I’m losing my hair. I’m only 41 and I’m just devastated about my hair. It’s coming out above my ears on both sides. There isn’t a way to comb it to cover the bald spots.. I’m trying to wear head wraps but I can’t seem to keep them on my head. I did discover the spray color that ppl use to cover up their roots. That’s been super helpful. But ya, it’s so hard to lose ur hair. It hurts my self-esteem it makes me sad every time I look in the mirror. I really hope yours grows back beautiful and grows back soon. Sorry this happened to you.
for the Instagram thing, it is possible to unsend something. so she might have sent it then unsent it, which makes it disappear. either that or she sent as a photo similar to how snap works, there’s an option to send something and u can only see it like once. either way she should’ve made sure it was gonna be there
Dude I completely relate to this video. I havent been to a stylist since 2012 after a stylist fucked my shit up. I went into the salon with mid-back length 3b/c curls and about 5 inches of relaxed ends. Went in to have them cut off. Well the stylist tyrned the chair around the entire time and when she was done with everything I ENDED UP WIH NECK LENGTH STRAIGHT HAIR THAT WAS FRIED. I went home and cried to my bf cause I knew something was wrong. I washed it and my hair was coming out and looked bine straight relaxed. I had a panic attack because I was a supervisor at Target at the time. TRAUMATIZED, this was before wigs were as big as they are now. I showed up to work like I whole different person. I noticed that you’re soft spoken and really feminine, with a babyface as well. When you’re that people tend to take advantage, thats been my case...especially with black stylist. I will not name the salon nor stylist. After that I went natural again. and yes I have messed my own hair up several times after this, but its my own doing, I’ve grown, cut, damaged, and coloured my hair as well. My hair went from mid-back to shoulder length. But I tong care anymore because as long as we are healthy hair is abundant. HEALTHY HAIR ITS JUST ISN’T ABOUT HAVING LONG HAIR. Use some fenugreek, collagen, and biotin drops. Use some rice water, and essential oils if your goal is growth and make sure you eat healthy foods, for a healthy body. I’m mixed race i Know the struggle of dealing with texture hair and how much work it could be. Sometimes it feels like an emotionally abuse relationship and other times its beautiful and amazing.
Start taking a prenatal vitamin. They sell them OC. It will work wonders for thicker fuller hair and for growing back them spots... trust me!!! Also use all natural products in ur head! Btw.... u r absolutely gorgeous!!!!💕
Why do you have to travel so far for a hair store? Killeen and Austin have hair stores. Noone is driving bro Houston or Dallas for hair. There is no hair store in Waco or Temple?
Oh my goodness this happened to me too 😭 But at the top of my head, I have a phobia of sew ins now. 😩 ever since I had that sew in I’m afraid of getting a new hair style
Not everyone knows how to do hair also your a very pretty girl... some people have envy and they super eager to do your hair. That used to happen to me too and I’m cute too I know how I’m perceived and I know my own beauty but I never understood it... I never understood why my hair would always be done and be done bad . Besides the evil eye... your hair type is a big factor. The finer the hair the more your not supposed to put too much tension on the hair so a sew in with your hair type has to be done properly because even the thread could brake the hair and make it shorter ... then you gotta worry about if it’s being cut out properly. If you ever get a weave again you should sew it in yourself .. cuz when it’s time to cut it out all you need is a fine pair of scissors and feel for the thread which is thick enough to feel and cut. I had to learn because even taking it out people would cut too much of my hair but it always is thick and grows fast but still... I noticed no hair came out when I did it myself. You should learn how to do a glueless wig. I learned to make one after paying 400 dollars for a horrible unit that didn’t even fit and I couldn’t deal with sticking that shit to my forehead so learning how t do a glueless and buying the bundles myself was the best thing
I've head so many bad stories about lace closures in sew ins and lace frontals on wigs. Im terrified of lace. I just have my own hair left out at the top
Lol yall my fan was on! That's why you can see the tapestry moving in the mirror behind me 😂 Also, thank yall for all the encouraging words on this video - we're healing over here
Man that is freaking crazy, all of this honestly. I have some heat damage myself and I know how stressful it is when you wash your hair and don't see the curls snap back. Luckily mine isn't like super duper straight, most of it curls but some curls aren't as 4b as they should be and some parts are damaged in the middle of the strands, it looks crazy lol. Anyway, that sew in fiasco is crazy af tho. I'd sue honestly.
I’m going through the same thing with heat damage. I was so devastated because I had just cut off a lot of my hair and revived my curls... I had the same attitude as you and was just like you know what, I’m not even going to stress. So I’ve been transitioning for a couple months doing my own protective styles. I’m also a marketing student and right after I graduate this year I will be going to cosmetology school. So I will not be using heat until I’m the one who can do it! But I loved your story time, I have had so many fails with heat and wigs but I don’t want this comment to go on too much 😂
That’s horrible.I don’t know why our stylist can’t be trusted with our hair. We do have to learn to do our own hair because these stylist ain’t worth it.
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Stylist here. I've heard of stylists sneaking in a tiny bit of relaxer during a press to make it easier for them to smooth the hair. It's lazy, damaging and totally ruins the texture.
I was told the same thing, didn't want to believe it.
Please tell me how a stylist sneaks in a tiny bit of relaxer without the client knowing?
I came here to say that
Whatttt how is that even possible, like at what point do they do it 😩
Yes, sometimes stylists will sneak relaxer into the rinse out conditioner. It's tragic... and they deserve to be sued.
You know what's ridiculous?? You having to say "i was upset about being upset about my hair...cause its just hair"
Except you only said that to avoid the "i can't even pay my rent and you're crying over HAIR??"
listen....dont apologize for the things that are important to you. You're a woman and even if you were a man....ITS OKAY FOR HOW YOU LOOK TO BE IMPORTANT TO YOU. Everyone else's issues are not your issues. And remember not to dim your shine to make others feel better.
Amen
I think I understand why she said that. I'm a hairstylist and I see people all the time with hair loss thats out of their hands. So I try to remind myself that hair is just an accessory and you do whatever you can/want to do.
I agree. Even though it’s not the worst issue in the world I would be devestated if my hair got damaged and I had to cut it all off and then couldn’t find a way to make it work. I’m white so I have a different hair texture but I went to get a hair cut one time, my hair was very long like halfway down my back and I asked the stylists to cut off 5 inches. I walked out of there with over 12 inches gone! My hair didn’t even touch my shoulder and was to short to put in a ponytail. I was so pissed.
People don’t realize: it’s not the hair, it’s the *time* that goes into the hair vs how little time it takes to destroy it and live without it until/if it grows back.
🙌🏾well said❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍
I’m crying at those picture with the wig 😭 she’s so bogus for that
like what?? she took my $ and was just like enjoy sis lol
😭😭
As hell 🤣🤣🤣 that’s why I don’t trust mfs on instagram
Agreed. I don’t even wear wigs and I was thinking wtf is that
I do my own hair . I learned how to do my own sew ins, braids, and quick weaves. I’m not good at knotless braids , but I’ll learn like I did everything else. Saves me a lot of money too. All I have to do is worry about buying the hair. If you go to a stylist , only go to one that specializes in natural hair if you’re natural.
I’ve been practicing how to do knotless braids on my sister 🤞🏾🤞🏾
I’ve seen a few videos where they crochet the hair in to make it look like knotless braids.
girl that is talent that you can do that on yourself self! i went to cosmetology school and that stuff isn’t necessarily easy to do so good for you girl!
Yes girl, only worried about buying the air 👍
This video is the main reason why I do my own hair so if I Eff it up it’s on me
Fax !!
same here, just w hair dye tho
Period 😂
🙌🙌🙌
Same
it’s okay to be upset about hair, i don’t care what people say, there’s symbolism is hair
exactly, hair can be different things to different people.
I totally agree. Just being a woman your hair is so important, and plays a huge part in my self confidence. I’m not black, but it seems like it’s even more important to black women because of history, and all the stuff that comes with that history. I hope I’m not overstepping the mark saying that.
Hair boosts confidence it’s reasonable to be upset
Cosmetologist here, yes flat irons can do that. Most of the time we can tell though. Especially if it's an older one. That's why I always reccomend the ones where you can see the temp digitally. Mistakes happen though unfortunately.
Yeah this exact thing happened to me. And she kept mentioning that my hair was so hot to the touch and smoking. However did not stop or change irons. I didn’t know what was going on but now I’m left to deal with the heat damage..😩. I’m going to cosmetology school soon and I will definitely caution against this
“Three times is a charm, let’s just do this again” 😂
😂 😂 😂
Wow!!! This happened to my cousin, she had got a sew in and she was complaining that it was way too tight. A few days later she still said it was way too tight and hurting so bad. She took it out a week later and had a huge patch of skin flaking off and dry blood in her braids.
*flashbacks from Bad Hair*
It happened to me,and now I have a permanent scar on the front of my edges,It's annoying and to hide it I have to put cover the front of my face,I am skeptical about hairdressers from yanking my edges out to cutting my hair and shortening it to leaving a scar ...I do it on my own and my edges have grown but the scar won't go away
Your hairstylist tried to use the heat memory excuse saying that was the issue. But your curls come back after a few washes. She put perm in the shampoo a lot of Dominican salons do that to avoid do the extra work for coarse hair
What? They do?
This. I learned this the hard way
Yes!
Wow first time hearing of this that's scary. Is there anyway to know forsure that they used perm
That’s why it’s good to go to trusted Dominican shops because my aunt would never do that to anyone. Because we have 4c hair and recognize how important hair texture is.
See this is why I do my own hair.
Learned this the hard way... I’m still in the ‘learning how to do ponytails’ phase but ima get better lol
Sis this is why you have to take the time and learn how to do some of these styles yourself. Can’t trust too many people with your hair
I agree, also these so called Instagram stylists is a hit or miss
Thats kinda unfair. She should be able to trust certified stylist at least. She's just trusting the wrong people, lesson don't find your stylist on insta lol.
Same thing i told my friend watch yt n learn to do your hair yourself
So true. I bought a wig from this girl basically with all the looks and sales and when I purchased a wig from her a few years ago for almost 400 dollars I got worried when the games started. I stayed patient... when I got the wig she used old hair for the lace and the lace was bad like coarse, rip your edges just from touching bad . I learned how to do the lace frontal myself and just took the l.
Honestlyyyy!!!
She got the nerve to have the fullest most bomb units on her page and then you get sent that. 🥴 Issa scam.
She flippin them $19 Amazon wigs
When you said your scalp had blood on it i immediately thought of the movie "Bad hair" on Netflix.
'I wanna thank September for not being traumatic' lolol
Hope yall enjoyed this 3 part storytime!
Timestamps are in the description
Love your makeup look ! And you’re so pretty Is that your natural eyelashes ? If not where did you purchase ?
Wow I’m sorry this happened to you. I never understood why some hairstylists insist on braiding/sewing soooo tight it makes me so upset
omgg sis you went THROUGH IT 😭😭😩 getting my hair done always comes with som inconvenience in many aspects but literally every one of my hair fears happened to you in a ROW! 😫💀💀
Literally in a row!! Crazy 💀
OMG, I’m so sorry this happened to you! This made me realize that I don’t need weave! I have a head full of beautiful shoulder length hair and a lot of weave irritates my scalp as if I’m allergic but I still wear them from time to time.. however, as I watch this video I feel like I’m taking a huge risk wearing them.. soooo I’m going to enjoy the hair that god gave me. Thanks for sharing!
Yayyy your back, I been Subscribe to you since I was ten so basically 5 years,now I’m 15, I basically grew up watching your channel.
“You not finna have no hair from here to here”
Me: instantly fights hair stylist 😂😂
Flat irons can definitely malfunction but most of the time you can tell when it’s happening
How can they malfunction?
And how can you tell
When that picture popped up of that wig girl I busted out laughing. That wig looked so sad and she was super wrong for that. I am sorry that happened to you.
Evil eye is REAL folks..3rd time ending up in hospital ...wear protection girl...you are very beautiful and draw resentment from plain looking girls
What are you talking about? Wear protection? This is a hair video...
What is evil eye
How do you protect yourself from evil eye?
You're completely correct!
Ugh! We go through too much as women. I’m so sorry this happened to you
Hey loved your story time as a hair stylist I specialize in natural hair care. I hear stories like this all the time. In my personal experience what I’ve learnt is a few things can cause heat damage or your curl to not revert....I believe if you use titanium plate flat irons (bc the heat is similar to volcanic heat) or continuous use of flat iron on dirty hair. And if you’re texture is fine your stylist should understand your hair doesn’t require a lot of direct heat.
I'm a stylist and I have a friend stylist who buys her hot tools from Amazon vs. going to the official site because the price is so inexpensive. Unfortunately, many times those items are bootleg and have been known to tweak out and not be calibrated. If you've gone to her numerous times and that was the first time you lost your curls, it *may* not be her fault- genuinely.
Agreed
Girl wow lol haven’t seen you in years! You look so beautiful! It’s good to see you back ❤️❤️
Its been a minute lol thank you!
What is happening with the mirror in the background?!
Righttt I thought I was trippin but I think it’s a tapestry on the wall moving
Wait what happened???
Windows must be opened, or a fan is on so the curtains is moving.
it’s a tapestry she has on her wall that is moving from a fan/airflow, and you can see it in the mirror. it’s not the mirror itself moving
@@Jadaxx look like a fan or ac is blowing something on the door. Showing the reflection of a towel or sheet ( whatever is on that door) blowing in the mirror
I promise I can never get a good stylist, it’s literally always something. I’m scared to wash my hair now because I just got a silk press and trim, and I’m terrified of heat damage. I’m praying I don’t have any
I feel you on that. I found one and she’s good. But she accidentally burned me with the flat irons and I got a scar. Always something.
My curls always come back and I never ha e heat damage when I use " It's a ten". Prior to using I always had heat damage.
Do you want to know the funniest part of this? This girl is soooo beautiful!! Natural beauty!! Don’t need hair to be beautiful!!
She has hair, she just doesn't need any fake hair or additions to be beautiful 🤗
Yep, flatirons cause heat damage if the heat setting is too high.
You are literally so beautiful I’m so sorry you went through that!!! That’s traumatizing! I’m praying for your hair to grow back 🙏🏻🙏🏻
you are totally valid in feeling traumatized by this and to tear up when recalling. So glad you are on the other side! ✨🥺
I'm a professional hairstylist of 21 years and yes this can happen.
You want me to fight the girl who sold you the wig?? Lol , but no thts not kool Smh head I make and sell wigs
Girl then the girl got the nerve to be stuntin on the gram with the coins she scamming ppl out of.
Girl, we can jump dat broad cause UH
I had this happen from a quick weave. I was only able to wear it for a week and it was so painful. My hair did grow back, but I never got another quick weave again. Sending love from Newport News VA.
Hey girl, I was just thinking about you. Glad ti see your back
aww thanks for watching
“Where’s the weave at” I’m cryingggggg 😂
See this is exactly why I do my own hair now. And thanks to you too I can watch tutorials and try out different styles of myself. So far so good.
I was like "its not that bad" but then I read "what I ordered" 😭😂😂
I hope it grows back fully intact! I’m so sorry. I have tons of hair horror stories too I don’t let anyone in my head anymore either.
This is 100% why I do u part wigs or clip ins.
Whew! Scalp on firee. I hate a tight closure, sew-in etc. Glueless wigs you just throw on are so much better 😭
Try to use olaplex. It's great for heat damage
The stylist actually sent me olaplex products to use. I feel like it’s not doing much tbh 😬 I think my hair has just grown out at this point so about half of it is natural and the other half is still heat damaged.
@@Jadaxx she better have sent them for free
Ugh jada I’m so sorry this happened to you!!! As a stylist, I can tell that your original stylist (heat damage) is most likely as traumatized (and very guilty too) about this situation as you are. I know I would never trust myself with natural hair again. I am glad to see she is acting professionally and trying to compensate with buying the wig and the olaplex. Def doesn’t make it right, but I am glad to see that she cares about your hair and your happiness. Basically all I’m saying is I can tell that she means well, maybe if you can find it in your heart to continue going to her for cuts or other services I’m sure it would heal her heart a lot.
LMFAOOOOOO THE WIG PICTURE IS SENDINGGGGG ME😂😂 I would have found her and really served her a sauce bro 😂.
omg I am shocked and horrified for you! I’m sorry you have such bad luck with hair services! 😭 I hope you find a good stylist
This really made my heart break so happy it’s healing and so sorry you even had to go through this.
Sis did you message the girl who did your sew in !?
She deleted the confirmation photo herself. I’m sorry you had to go through that smh 🤦🏾♀️
Oh sweetheart, I'm so sorry you want through that! Don't feel bad about being upset about it, almost anyone would feel the same way. Hair is your crown, your armour, and it feels awful when something happens to it. If it is any consolation at all I think you're beautiful, and your scalp looks like it's healing, and your hair looks pretty in the simple style you have in this video. Give it a few months and you'll look in the mirror and say "I'm back!" Lots of love and good vibrations for you! ❤
I'm not sure how I got here, but I really enjoyed your story time and I'm really Glad you're ok. BTW I CAN'T STOP LOOKING IN YOUR MIRROR DID YOU HAVE a FAN ON I'M LIKE I KNOW IT'S NOT YOUR T.V THAT'S BEHIND YOU.
Thought I was the only one🤪
that actually looks really weird 😶 it could be that she has a fan on and that's a moving shadow, like from curtains or so...or it is a portal to a different world 🤫
You mad observant. 470 intelligence points.
Omg girl I'm so sorry, I'm not african american but I know how much you ladies take such good care of your hair and take so much pride in your hair im so sorry this happened to you I truly am.
Yes flat irons 100% can do that. It happened to me when I was in middle school. But it’s not common for it to be that drastic. I wouldn’t put it past a stylish to sneak in a perm.
I had a bald spot from a tight sew in. I couldn't part my hair in the middle for months.
Welcomee backkkkk💖💖
I had a lot of similar experiences with beauty services, all imma say is the devil works hard but insecure folks work harder 😭
I literally never knew what some women go through with their hair. Until I developed Alopecia. I was traumatized by my hair falling out and all of the bald patches that I had.
But as this was happening to me and I had to start wearing wigs, all the black women in my life helped me to understand wigs.
Lace fronts
Plucking the part
Applying foundation
Washing and styling
I’m so appreciative of their kindness and taking the time to educate me and help me to not be embarrassed.
I really learned to appreciate the black woman’s journey with hair. ❤️
I had blood at the hairline of my sew-in too. I texted a picture to the stylist and she said, "well you must be sensitive."
I would suggest checking on the Better Business Bureau's website and you can usually find a group on Reddit or FB that is about the "Bad Apples" of whatever county your in! It has helped me immensely!!!
It looks like it rubbed your scalp raw and just ate away at the exposed tissue.
Pretty much what the dr said at the ER
Your beautiful and natural hair is gorgeous on you. What do you use on your hair to lay it so flat please. I have 4b hair but it doesn't lay easily at all
I feel so bad for you. I can’t imagine through all of that and having bad experiences all the time
That’s normal for the gram. The sender has to select the keep in chat option
I'm going to make an assumption based on what was happening to me years and I mean years ago. You may have eczema in your scalp. When the hair, string, glue and other are applied the eczema causes a flare up.
Heat damage is very possible especially with Titanium, best to keep it at around 410, 450 is HIGH.! And how often you straighten it matters as well.
On another note, the damage done to your scalp is insane & why stylist are required to have insurance. You need to sue her (her insurance). There needs to be something done because she can do that to someone else & you should be compensated for pain & suffering & services. Sorry that happened, glad it's healing well.
I feel so bad for you! 😢You have THE most kind spirit! May God fully heal you and your scalp...🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
PS..Congratulations on your Graduation!!🤗🤗🤗
Welcome back!
Thanks you siss!
Girl I have no clue about wigs and dealing with curly hair types. but I agree, any beauty service I get I’m like ... I could’ve done a better job my damn self...
This is why I didn’t like the elastic band method for full closures when I wore weaves. It can cause serious issues with edges due to abrasion and constant friction.
Sorry you went through all of this.
Omg, that wig! The audacity of selling something and sending something else
I can’t go to anybody to get my hair done, but other people’s hair look so bomb. Ughh why us
this is exactly how i feel! I don't know why it's like this for us, we just wanna be cute lol
i’m an electronics engineer (not a lawyer or anything), but there is no way a heat tool would be ul listed for sale in north america if it didn’t have some capacity of overheat protection. sorry, but that hairdresser was either lying about making a mistake or bought a cheap flat iron that wasn’t officially approved for sale in the united states. always look for the UL or CE icons when shopping for electronics so you know the item has been safety tested by someone not influenced by the company profiting from being allowed to sell it.
that being said, i’m really sorry this happened to you and glad you’re doing so much better! i’m also sorry that the medical professionals you saw were not equipped to deal with problems like this that disproportionally affect bipoc. yuck. congrats on your graduation!
Once your scalp is healed, pure sage oil applied every day should bring the hair back. I suffered a chemical burn all around my hair line from a bad relaxer application. I thought my hair would NEVER come back but the sage worked. It smells bad though but the smell was worth the results. Good Luck on your hair journey.
Thats why I refuse to let anyone near my head. Your hair looks great now. That pink jacket though....❤
I'm sorry that happened to you. I hope it heals well and your hair regrows in the area. You are such a beautiful girl!
I just found you and you just have such a sweet sounding voice it's adorable 💕
Your eyebrows look so good though
Your friend is so wrong for that “you finna be bald from here 👉🏾 to here 👈🏾” 💀
This story is so sad. I hear it, I hear you and I hope you're beginning to realize how you can look cute-er by applying the same styles in different ways. I can relate to you and it may be that you have very sensitive skin. I've had 2 sew-ins in my life both were painful and the first bled. Eventually I used fullwigs and then to half wigs and most ppl don't know when it's in. I don't braid my hair either. It's too itchy and painful.
I'm sorry to hear about the failed wig purchase too. But there are good brands out there like Outre, and Sensationnel. Keep hanging in there 🙂
This happened to me before with a closure sew in now I just ask them to not put the elastic band because that’s what made my hair rub off like that
Did you ever confronted the stylist who did this
Yea flat irons can definitely mess up your curls if the heat is up too high it can fry up your hair and some of my cousins even used to have wavy/curly hair they straightened their hair so much it’s straight now. So her flat iron probably overheated or she maybe snuck in relaxer
Girl I got a silk press done and my curl pattern changed. I am Lucky because I love the new curl pattern, but I still had to cut some of my ends that wont curl anymore. I am NEVER doing a silk press again! Idc.
I feel traumatized just hearing of this, I'm so sorry you went through this, terrifying ordeal.
My daughter went to the mall and allowed this lady selling the newest flat iron to run the flat iron over a section of her hair. That section stayed straight for one year!! My daughter has the same texture hair as you. When the iron is so hot it can sometimes revert the curl pattern, I talked to a professional stylist and she told me that my daughters curl pattern was damaged. It is now all curly again but it's been a few years.
omg a that exact same thing happened to me! it was so traumatizing honestly! glad her hair eventually reverted back, mines did too
That happened to my sister when we went to the mall one day. A lady was displaying this flat iron and tried it on a section of my sisters hair and my sister liked how it looked, but we didn’t realize how damage d I hair was until she washed her hair and that section didn’t curl back like it should have. My mom had to tell her no on purchasing the iron because she thought that it was fine her hair was like that. It’s been years since that incident do her hair is back to normal.
Hi, it’s so hard to lose hair and you have every right to be upset. I was diagnosed with Rheumatoid arthritis and lupus recently. Well the RA showed up a couple of years ago. I started losing my hair and I couldn’t figure out why. I’m Hispanic and have had hair past my rear all my life. So about 2 months ago they ran tests and it came back that I have lupus also. That’s why I’m losing my hair. I’m only 41 and I’m just devastated about my hair. It’s coming out above my ears on both sides. There isn’t a way to comb it to cover the bald spots.. I’m trying to wear head wraps but I can’t seem to keep them on my head. I did discover the spray color that ppl use to cover up their roots. That’s been super helpful. But ya, it’s so hard to lose ur hair. It hurts my self-esteem it makes me sad every time I look in the mirror.
I really hope yours grows back beautiful and grows back soon. Sorry this happened to you.
for the Instagram thing, it is possible to unsend something. so she might have sent it then unsent it, which makes it disappear. either that or she sent as a photo similar to how snap works, there’s an option to send something and u can only see it like once. either way she should’ve made sure it was gonna be there
Dude I completely relate to this video. I havent been to a stylist since 2012 after a stylist fucked my shit up. I went into the salon with mid-back length 3b/c curls and about 5 inches of relaxed ends. Went in to have them cut off. Well the stylist tyrned the chair around the entire time and when she was done with everything I ENDED UP WIH NECK LENGTH STRAIGHT HAIR THAT WAS FRIED. I went home and cried to my bf cause I knew something was wrong. I washed it and my hair was coming out and looked bine straight relaxed. I had a panic attack because I was a supervisor at Target at the time. TRAUMATIZED, this was before wigs were as big as they are now. I showed up to work like I whole different person. I noticed that you’re soft spoken and really feminine, with a babyface as well. When you’re that people tend to take advantage, thats been my case...especially with black stylist. I will not name the salon nor stylist.
After that I went natural again. and yes I have messed my own hair up several times after this, but its my own doing, I’ve grown, cut, damaged, and coloured my hair as well. My hair went from mid-back to shoulder length. But I tong care anymore because as long as we are healthy hair is abundant. HEALTHY HAIR ITS JUST ISN’T ABOUT HAVING LONG HAIR. Use some fenugreek, collagen, and biotin drops. Use some rice water, and essential oils if your goal is growth and make sure you eat healthy foods, for a healthy body. I’m mixed race i Know the struggle of dealing with texture hair and how much work it could be. Sometimes it feels like an emotionally abuse relationship and other times its beautiful and amazing.
Start taking a prenatal vitamin. They sell them OC. It will work wonders for thicker fuller hair and for growing back them spots... trust me!!! Also use all natural products in ur head! Btw.... u r absolutely gorgeous!!!!💕
You are 100% right I had the best hair while I was pregnant
Why do you have to travel so far for a hair store? Killeen and Austin have hair stores. Noone is driving bro Houston or Dallas for hair. There is no hair store in Waco or Temple?
Oh my goodness this happened to me too 😭 But at the top of my head, I have a phobia of sew ins now. 😩 ever since I had that sew in I’m afraid of getting a new hair style
Not everyone knows how to do hair also your a very pretty girl... some people have envy and they super eager to do your hair. That used to happen to me too and I’m cute too I know how I’m perceived and I know my own beauty but I never understood it... I never understood why my hair would always be done and be done bad . Besides the evil eye... your hair type is a big factor. The finer the hair the more your not supposed to put too much tension on the hair so a sew in with your hair type has to be done properly because even the thread could brake the hair and make it shorter ... then you gotta worry about if it’s being cut out properly. If you ever get a weave again you should sew it in yourself .. cuz when it’s time to cut it out all you need is a fine pair of scissors and feel for the thread which is thick enough to feel and cut. I had to learn because even taking it out people would cut too much of my hair but it always is thick and grows fast but still... I noticed no hair came out when I did it myself. You should learn how to do a glueless wig. I learned to make one after paying 400 dollars for a horrible unit that didn’t even fit and I couldn’t deal with sticking that shit to my forehead so learning how t do a glueless and buying the bundles myself was the best thing
You poor thing. Sorry that you had to go through that. I'm glad that it's getting better. 😌
I've head so many bad stories about lace closures in sew ins and lace frontals on wigs. Im terrified of lace. I just have my own hair left out at the top
Lol yall my fan was on! That's why you can see the tapestry moving in the mirror behind me 😂
Also, thank yall for all the encouraging words on this video - we're healing over here
That is so traumatizing I’m so sorry that happened to you 😭
Man that is freaking crazy, all of this honestly. I have some heat damage myself and I know how stressful it is when you wash your hair and don't see the curls snap back. Luckily mine isn't like super duper straight, most of it curls but some curls aren't as 4b as they should be and some parts are damaged in the middle of the strands, it looks crazy lol. Anyway, that sew in fiasco is crazy af tho. I'd sue honestly.
I’m going through the same thing with heat damage. I was so devastated because I had just cut off a lot of my hair and revived my curls... I had the same attitude as you and was just like you know what, I’m not even going to stress. So I’ve been transitioning for a couple months doing my own protective styles. I’m also a marketing student and right after I graduate this year I will be going to cosmetology school. So I will not be using heat until I’m the one who can do it! But I loved your story time, I have had so many fails with heat and wigs but I don’t want this comment to go on too much 😂
That’s horrible.I don’t know why our stylist can’t be trusted with our hair. We do have to learn to do our own hair because these stylist ain’t worth it.