You say “family” when referring to the baby mama as if you and her are still together and are a family. The kids are their family but the baby mama is not. She is simply the mother of his children and needs to be respected (as any human being). I think is important to get the terms right because then if you are dating a single dad, what are you doing? Getting yourself in the middle of a family? That would be a mistress, not a woman who is in love with a loyal man and living a wholesome righteous relationship.
I see your point, but I think you can still have a loving relationship with your relatives (even the woman with whom you’ve had a baby) and be in a relationship or marriage with someone else. I don’t see any evidence that you have to consider the woman as just the ‘mother of your child’ in order to enjoy a committed relationship with another woman. And for the woman or ‘mistress’, if she knows you are loyal to her, and that you love her, she can understand that you have a good relationship with the mother. The same for a woman in the same position (as far as I can see)
When you date a man with children, you really are getting yourself in the middle of a family. It’s best to start on a clean slate and date a man without kids.
Honestly I think most men are scared about having children. They search for happiness by getting laid and wonder why they still feel empty at the end of each one. Meaning and purpose is a more effective pursuit than happiness. We are not wired for happiness, we are wired for meaning
My advice, be honest with yourself if you actually want a relationship with a woman you are dating as a single dad and have space and time for that. If not be really up front with that person because that is fair and respectful to that woman
Ello Sambo. Interesting video. I've seen way too many couples who stay together because it's convenient (and some have kids) and they lead miserable lives - I don't want that to be me. On the flip side, for me personally I do want a couple of kids, but I know that relationships (un)fortunately do die when they need to. Do we just have to accept that it's extremely difficult to have a nuclear family AND be happy within that relationship with the mother for a long period of time? I don't know what parents being split up psychologically does to a child as they grow up, but I feel like it's much better for them if the parents stay together and they grow up in a household as such. I haven't researched it but from various things I've heard over the course of my life, that's led me to believe that's the case. What's your take on it?
Three things a child needs: 1) A feeling of unconditional love 2) A feeling of unquestioned security 3) A Feeling of freedom to act and express themselves It happens that it usually makes these three needs more simple if the parents are in a loving and committed relationship, but really all it requires is that the man is a rock, and he demonstrates every day that he will unconditionally support the family, and that the woman is emotionally mature, intelligent, and courageous enough to understand and respect the importance of the man's value in the child's life. If this is the case, and the parents do not stay together (or even like each other, personally), that child can still have a happy and stable upbringing, even if the parents are separated, dating other people, or whatever else.
Thanks for shedding a healthy light on a topic that isn't normally covered (other than by hateful, bitter MGTOW/rEdPiLL types). All the best with your journey Sam!
Your reaction to the event tells you this, not the child itself. Your responsibility to your child is that they never read or hear anything like this comment.
Men need to ask decent W o m e n how to find a partner as we’ve seen and heard firsthand just how vulgarl and disparagingly other women talk about men behind your backs. Top of the year dudes: don’t expose your children to any woman who has not e v i d e n c e d how much she is willing to priorities the children over and above the contents of her wardrobe ☝️ BTW. please drop the phrase “baby mama/ muvva/ daddy” unless you want to attract women of that ilk 😷 I personally would never again date a man who is not also a parent, regardless of their appealing looks/intelligence because men without children do not understand what it means to be a parent and childless men are often too desperate to get their partner pregnant 🚫
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You say “family” when referring to the baby mama as if you and her are still together and are a family. The kids are their family but the baby mama is not. She is simply the mother of his children and needs to be respected (as any human being). I think is important to get the terms right because then if you are dating a single dad, what are you doing? Getting yourself in the middle of a family? That would be a mistress, not a woman who is in love with a loyal man and living a wholesome righteous relationship.
I see your point, but I think you can still have a loving relationship with your relatives (even the woman with whom you’ve had a baby) and be in a relationship or marriage with someone else. I don’t see any evidence that you have to consider the woman as just the ‘mother of your child’ in order to enjoy a committed relationship with another woman. And for the woman or ‘mistress’, if she knows you are loyal to her, and that you love her, she can understand that you have a good relationship with the mother. The same for a woman in the same position (as far as I can see)
When you date a man with children, you really are getting yourself in the middle of a family. It’s best to start on a clean slate and date a man without kids.
You cant be bare backin these girls once you get good at daygame and start pullin them back to the crib frequently. I learned my lesson
Honestly I think most men are scared about having children. They search for happiness by getting laid and wonder why they still feel empty at the end of each one. Meaning and purpose is a more effective pursuit than happiness. We are not wired for happiness, we are wired for meaning
Fluid Social Amen brother
My advice, be honest with yourself if you actually want a relationship with a woman you are dating as a single dad and have space and time for that. If not be really up front with that person because that is fair and respectful to that woman
Ello Sambo. Interesting video. I've seen way too many couples who stay together because it's convenient (and some have kids) and they lead miserable lives - I don't want that to be me. On the flip side, for me personally I do want a couple of kids, but I know that relationships (un)fortunately do die when they need to. Do we just have to accept that it's extremely difficult to have a nuclear family AND be happy within that relationship with the mother for a long period of time? I don't know what parents being split up psychologically does to a child as they grow up, but I feel like it's much better for them if the parents stay together and they grow up in a household as such. I haven't researched it but from various things I've heard over the course of my life, that's led me to believe that's the case. What's your take on it?
Three things a child needs:
1) A feeling of unconditional love
2) A feeling of unquestioned security
3) A Feeling of freedom to act and express themselves
It happens that it usually makes these three needs more simple if the parents are in a loving and committed relationship, but really all it requires is that the man is a rock, and he demonstrates every day that he will unconditionally support the family, and that the woman is emotionally mature, intelligent, and courageous enough to understand and respect the importance of the man's value in the child's life. If this is the case, and the parents do not stay together (or even like each other, personally), that child can still have a happy and stable upbringing, even if the parents are separated, dating other people, or whatever else.
Thanks for shedding a healthy light on a topic that isn't normally covered (other than by hateful, bitter MGTOW/rEdPiLL types). All the best with your journey Sam!
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you dont need music with this. I want to concentrate on what youre saying as its important, but Im distracted. sorry.
Sorry for distracting you, hope you could understand the message even under the music
@@FluidSocial Yes, it was really good. Thanks for spending the time to do this vid. you have some important points to share.
@@rachelmoss1967 Very welcome. if you have any other questions, please message me at admin@fluid.social
I should’ve worn a condom...😬
Your reaction to the event tells you this, not the child itself. Your responsibility to your child is that they never read or hear anything like this comment.
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Men need to ask decent W o m e n how to find a partner as we’ve seen and heard firsthand just how vulgarl and disparagingly other women talk about men behind your backs.
Top of the year dudes: don’t expose your children to any woman who has not e v i d e n c e d how much she is willing to priorities the children over and above the contents of her wardrobe ☝️
BTW. please drop the phrase “baby mama/ muvva/ daddy” unless you want to attract women of that ilk 😷
I personally would never again date a man who is not also a parent, regardless of their appealing looks/intelligence because men without children do not understand what it means to be a parent and childless men are often too desperate to get their partner pregnant 🚫