are you satisfied? - the high achiever characters in fiction

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  • Опубликовано: 25 авг 2024
  • yes i feel strongly identified with all these people
    characters in the video:
    Rory Gilmore - Gilmore girls
    Paris Geller - Gilmore girls
    Daenerys Targaryen - Game of Thrones
    Jonathan Larson - Tick tick BOOM
    Andrew Neiman - Whiplash
    Nina Sayers - Black Swan
    Hermione Granger - Harry Potter
    Kat Stratford - 10 things I hate about you
    Katara - Avatar: The Last Airbender
    Amy Santiago - Brooklyn 99
    Jo March - Little Women (2019)
    Beth Harmon - Queen's Gambit

Комментарии • 398

  • @boriszunyog8971
    @boriszunyog8971 2 года назад +6826

    I really love how not only academic achievements are represented. Success is so diverse. Great video!! ❤️

    • @malenaparnetti9792
      @malenaparnetti9792  2 года назад +112

      thank you!

    • @laramcguire7520
      @laramcguire7520 2 года назад +62

      i want to ask though, you do know most of these people went a little mad from their overachieving goals? (beth harmon, the one from black swan and the drum movie). sorry i dont remember their names. i mean i love the edit but they pushed themselves too far for success

    • @malenaparnetti9792
      @malenaparnetti9792  2 года назад +184

      @@laramcguire7520 yes, that's the point of the edit, i think the song represents the thoughts of people that are obsessed with academic validation and success, and even if they don't go mad, they somehow end up failing because of the pressure, like rory gilmore did. i used to be like this but i learned that i don't have to be the best at everything i do and i just have to enjoy it. but the song is really fun hahaha

    • @laramcguire7520
      @laramcguire7520 2 года назад +38

      @@malenaparnetti9792 yeah the song is great, honestly i used to be like all of them, i was obsessed with ballet, music, chess and academics, although i know theres other characters there as well ahaha but now well gifted kid burnout i guess but yeah your edit was fantastic i keep on coming back to it for motivation so i can be just as obsessive as i used to hehe

    • @malenaparnetti9792
      @malenaparnetti9792  2 года назад +19

      @@laramcguire7520 hahahaha me too i watch it once in a while for motivation. I also watch gilmore girls season 1 for motivation lol

  • @Blue_3987
    @Blue_3987 11 месяцев назад +584

    My parents never pressurized me but I did, and now I'm trapped in expectations i built for myself

    • @user-qx1dg7uu4z
      @user-qx1dg7uu4z 10 месяцев назад +18

      I feel the same. I got a b on my last test and I cried and freaked out

    • @d1sha88
      @d1sha88 10 месяцев назад

      @@user-qx1dg7uu4z same here ... throughout my school life till now i never got a b suddenly when i saw that b in my results i was soo demotivated bec i actually worked hard for that exam

    • @sumaiyaaktermonisha817
      @sumaiyaaktermonisha817 9 месяцев назад +6

      Same🙂

    • @d3tiny550
      @d3tiny550 5 месяцев назад +5

      Girl we are same .. I do that too..

    • @camilap829
      @camilap829 3 месяца назад

      Same

  • @chipmunkpark8826
    @chipmunkpark8826 Год назад +5239

    I was an overachiever at school and hated how Rory turned out...💀 but let me tell you, now that i'm older I understand why she did it. Burn out is real guys, please take care of your body and mind while you achieve your dreams because when you finally achieve what you wanted...it can feel empty😬

    • @oleempia
      @oleempia Год назад +23

      can you elaborate?

    • @JljJj-
      @JljJj- Год назад +21

      Burn out
      Write this in youtube i think you will find people explaining so much

    • @lazyfattyunicorn7683
      @lazyfattyunicorn7683 Год назад +161

      But regret that you didn't work hard enough is way worse than feeling empty. Atleast you still achieved something. Meanwhile me on the other hand is left with nothing other than regret for not doing well.

    • @lazynight5331
      @lazynight5331 Год назад +68

      I hated how Rory turned out as well ,and when I hit my twenties I ended up just like her (except for the crime situation). Burned out... In need of therapy..
      You're so right about taking care of oneself

    • @onceanarmytwiceanexo-lthri6126
      @onceanarmytwiceanexo-lthri6126 Год назад +18

      @@lazynight5331 as an high Schooler, I'm currently suffering from a burn out while my finals are going on TwT

  • @pandorabox5532
    @pandorabox5532 Год назад +2397

    This hits right in my "I don't work hard because I want praise, I work hard because I hate myself" motto in life, thanks for this edit 😂

    • @Isabia_
      @Isabia_ Год назад +28

      I deeply recommend Brené Brown books. It can help you to learn how to love yourself and find your own peace. I also truly recommend doing therapy, it helped me to understand my insecurities and fears better. Anyway, start loving yourself isn’t a easy or quick journey, but I can say that it’s really a more peaceful way of life. ❤💗
      I hope this was helpful! 🥰

    • @Evortless
      @Evortless Год назад +7

      HAHA, me

    • @janinkriziaformaran1313
      @janinkriziaformaran1313 Год назад +2

      Me as well 😂😅

    • @a.r.7885
      @a.r.7885 Год назад +23

      Similarly, I don't work hard because I am ambitious, I work hard because I am not 'gifted' enough to be successful otherwise. And I've been conditioned by my parents to think one has to earn the privilege of life through accomplishment.

    • @ameebhardwaj9061
      @ameebhardwaj9061 Год назад

      where u found these lines

  • @blueflamingo4526
    @blueflamingo4526 Год назад +1962

    "Obsessed Artist" is by far, one of the best tropes.

    • @returnoftheromans6726
      @returnoftheromans6726 Год назад +8

      Agreed.

    • @bonobobby
      @bonobobby Год назад +3

      I need recs 🙏

    • @blueflamingo4526
      @blueflamingo4526 Год назад +24

      @@bonobobby I'll list out ones that aren't in the video, because I'm pretty sure somebody else has listed these movies so...
      Breaking Bad, Better call Saul, The house that jack built, Night crawler.
      Some of these shows/movies loosely follow this troupe but I think they're neat!! Hope you enjoy 👏👏
      Pls check the movies description before getting into it bc some of these are kinda heavy 👀
      Oh and I recommend listening to mitski "Remember my name" because that song def has High achiever/Obsessed Artist vibes!!

    • @DreyNova
      @DreyNova Год назад +4

      don't use the comma there

    • @chilling_koala
      @chilling_koala Год назад +2

      Wiplash😍😍😍

  • @mermaidklc1390
    @mermaidklc1390 Год назад +478

    I like how this didn’t only include Rory from Gilmore girls but also Paris

  • @60sbabydoll777
    @60sbabydoll777 Год назад +886

    it's not just about over achieving in school. it's also about overachieving in social life, love, career, art etc
    I think that for that reason anyone can relate to this song because we're all chasing after something and never feel satisfied

    • @Mountainenthusiastic
      @Mountainenthusiastic Год назад +1

      That's a good comment 😍

    • @a.r.7885
      @a.r.7885 Год назад +4

      How can one overachieve (or even achieve) in social life or love? One can assess achievement in school or in a career by the level of advancement, especially compared to peers/contemporaries. But what can one accomplish and how can one excel in categories which have nothing to do with excellence?

    • @maryamasomewhathuman.7870
      @maryamasomewhathuman.7870 10 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@a.r.7885creating the best or healthiest version of it maybe. I'm not sure I agree either but pretty sure op just meant that bc we have different goals and do well

    • @kipruto_
      @kipruto_ 10 месяцев назад

      @@a.r.7885being popular

    • @nilobar2603
      @nilobar2603 2 месяца назад

      ​@@a.r.7885in social life as in creating an image of you being always right and perfect you can't ruin that image and in love it's always caring about that you are right in an argument instead of mending and understanding the reason and problems.

  • @karelanneferil5446
    @karelanneferil5446 2 года назад +2168

    My family don't expect much of me. I shouldn't be pressured they say. But I feel like they don't expect as much because I don't give impressive enough results. They want me to be a pretty young lady because my sister already claimed the smart daughter title. Fuck that.

    • @zagamusic.
      @zagamusic. Год назад +131

      Your sister probably is feeling like this song... idk, just saying

    • @StarStar-ec1dd
      @StarStar-ec1dd Год назад +192

      Heyya, I'm an older sister who is supposed to be the 'smart daughter' and I think that perhaps your sister may have it hard as well. I do. Sometimes I even feel jealous of my younger sister as she is free to do what she wants whereas I'm supposed to be this machine that can support the family in the future. I don't mean to compare your sister's life with yours or anything but I guess you guys can look out for eachother. It's always nice to have someone who will understand you.

    • @demonicrin1382
      @demonicrin1382 Год назад +35

      @@StarStar-ec1dd It's the same for me.Except out of 5 kids I'm the smart one and I'm the second youngest.3 out of the 5 kids in our family can do whatever the hell they want,but I'm stuck overworking myself over grades while my older brother is the workhorse that they think has no feelings or opinions.(This isn't my parents doing,but my 2 grandmothers and,sadly,my other siblings.)All because we aren't my dad's biological kids

    • @ellepb1068
      @ellepb1068 Год назад +10

      Si piensas así es obvio que tu hermana es la inteligente jaja. Mil veces mejor no tener expectativas que superar, haz tu propio camino y relájate.

    • @khadijahzzx4736
      @khadijahzzx4736 Год назад +10

      wow did you just take a peek inside my life bc this is hitting wayyy too close to home.

  • @sobsbecauseiwaoi
    @sobsbecauseiwaoi 2 года назад +1221

    Holy crap, I am genuinely so speechless. This is fantastic, the scene and character choice is simply perfect. I can't believe you don't have more likes, this should have a million views! 💛

  • @viceroymarx406
    @viceroymarx406 Год назад +451

    the fact you included miles teller from whiplash makes me really happy. i feel like i should go watch the queens gambit now

  • @hafsanidhi9269
    @hafsanidhi9269 2 года назад +360

    Well, this song never fails to motivate me and this was so fitting 😊

  • @frag1le_ang3l
    @frag1le_ang3l Год назад +126

    This is so good!!
    My Favorite is Hermoine because, well, she totally fits this song. She works hard, and still, everyone criticizes her for being a muggle. She finally finds someone who loves her for her, but he leaves her for another girl! Finally, she gets the right one though, Ron's a lucky guy.

    • @gamerrex5940
      @gamerrex5940 Год назад +5

      Who leaves Hermione for another girl? From what I remember Krum and Hermione broke up mutually and not cause of a girl...

    • @Mei.art18
      @Mei.art18 Год назад +2

      @@gamerrex5940 i think they're talking about Harry IDK 🤷

    • @galacticquasaur2956
      @galacticquasaur2956 Год назад +10

      @@gamerrex5940 I think they meant that both Hermione and Ron knew they were interested in each other but Ron purposely chose to go with Lavender during HBP (Half-Blood Prince)
      But yeah, they weren't really together at the time

  • @ottobab
    @ottobab Год назад +120

    i did NOT expect tick tick boom to be in here. very good movie choices & chatacter choices

  • @SnailTrailJay
    @SnailTrailJay 11 месяцев назад +54

    In 8th grade, I really really wanted to be Rory Gilmore and get her grades. There were many nights spent on my floor with notebooks and flashcards all around me, when I did not need to study that hard. I succeeded at my goal and got no less than 98% in all my classes, but the second I got a B on a test or dropped to around a 91% as my overall grade, I broke. I was very proud of myself for those grades, but I’m not repeating that. Now I’m in 9th grade, and do half of what I did last year and still receive all A’s. Don’t be so hard on yourself.

  • @katherinehoward1884
    @katherinehoward1884 Год назад +197

    Idk why but I got a lot of Monica Geller energy from this song and honestly im stanning

    • @CJ-co7sz
      @CJ-co7sz Год назад +4

      The song is by marina and the diamonds i think because of the voice 🤔

    • @marivel-mercader
      @marivel-mercader Год назад

      @@CJ-co7sz yeah your right

  • @oldestdreamja
    @oldestdreamja Год назад +418

    my class is literally just filled with high achievers- the smart kids. including me.
    I think our class is a mistake. the high expectations placed on us led to us being stressed about grades, performances, teacher's expectations. I think our class should've never existed.
    guess that's the life of a special science class student and being asian. nothing but high expectations awaits you.

    • @cxffaye
      @cxffaye Год назад +42

      I'm in top set (what we call the higher class in England). Our class (who funnily enough happens to be majority asian) often stressed and worried about grades, marks and that kinda thing. Theres this one kid who takes this to the extreme and overworks to maintain his reputation as the top student and his grades, constantly needing to be perfect as he craves that validation from the teachers and classmates. He gets so upset when he gets lower marks than some of us.
      This class is often praised by the teachers but little do they know what's really going on. Here they try to solve problems when there was never a problem and the solution involves creating more problems. It's such a toxic environment

    • @irrelevanttroll3312
      @irrelevanttroll3312 Год назад

      as much as shit this is better than being popular which doesn't mean shit and you will regret it later on
      as long as u get good marks and pass ur grades and be successful thats enough lol

    • @Shhhhh2maGo
      @Shhhhh2maGo 11 месяцев назад +8

      I was in the regular science in 8th grade, got promoted to advance class in 9th grade. It is super hard to adjust. I feel like I’m behind in everything. I’ve also observed how very different I am now from back then. I was more active or I felt more fulfilled in 8th grade. Now, I don’t know. I hate this.

    • @moonhueee
      @moonhueee 8 месяцев назад +7

      But nothing feels worse than being just avergae. When u write smth wromg they are like thats soo easy. And u feel worse than u could ever feel. And when there r no expectations from u as u r just the avergae worst girl. And u look at the topper and every teacher is giving them importance. And u think to yourself, "whether i study or not, i never get good marks" and those toppers arr crying over 91% and 92% anf i am stuck at 81 and 83% and thinkinh if i can ever be them.

    • @florecoessens4001
      @florecoessens4001 8 месяцев назад +6

      In Elementary, I was in the star sections Fast Learners/Gifted and Talented.
      I was in the STE back in Junior High. And of course I would choose STEM once I reach Senior High but, once I entered the classroom and was moved to the back of the class. That's when I decided to transfer to HUMSS.
      And that's when I finally enjoyed learning. It's hard though that ppl kept on claiming "ppl go to humss to make it easy or because they're undecided." I'm still coming to terms with my decision, and is planning on taking law someday. One thing people often overlook about humss is that, it fosters our future politicians, government leaders, teachers, military personnel, police, jobs that prioritizes social order. As of now, I hope no strand suffers any discrimination; such as the saying "your body, you choice" we must also keep in mind "your life, your choice."

  • @terrence2542
    @terrence2542 Год назад +69

    Nina from "Black Swan" is the definition of this song

  • @damybooks
    @damybooks 2 года назад +372

    Ok, I am not a native English speaker, it is my second language so you will see mistakes, anyway I will tell my tragic story with the help of this song that made me feel so much and remember too much. It turns out that in my country there is something called a bachelor's degree, which would be like a high school or an academic study that goes before university, it lasts 4 or 5 years. The thing is that from the first year I found out that there was a board with the places of the people who got the best grades and I don't know why, that year there was always 2 left. Over time, and it wasn't until third that I got the acclaimed first place. Let's say that at that moment I found out that the girl who was always first, in fact, was the younger sister of a school employee, to complete the favorite of my Spanish teacher, you can't imagine how horrible it was that in front of the whole class "This teacher" discredited my first place and humiliated me in front of everyone, practically making no effort, saying that the other girl was better, and that the place did not matter, if not the average, when I had the average tallest in the whole school. Later I changed schools, and I discovered that in this one they gave small golden stickers to the first places. In 4th I tried very hard to be first, because my brain had not accepted the previous time in my school when I was first (Because of what happened with the teacher, I felt bad, and lowered myself and took effort) That's why, when I'm in 1st place. (During the pandemic, and although they didn't give me stickers, nor did they write me down on a board, I swear I was happy) Until they gave me the ballot or final grade,. and he said that he had been second, not first! Because of the covid I was never able to claim anything, but imagine my surprise when I started classes this year and discovered that, the supposed first place "And the most studious" That, I sincerely feel, she used me as a friend to improve her grades (Subject for another story) She is the daughter of the owners of a bakery. I was surprised when a teacher told her that a sweet was very good and she enjoyed it with her wife, blah, blah, blah. I broke my head studying and by God, how I tried, even so, when I was first in my 2nd period, this girl came and said "Where did you stay?" I answered first. I congratulated her when she told me that she did too, and my heart broke when she replied "Yes, I think there was a mistake. What was your first? God, I never suffered so much in my life. I swear that before I made an effort, I read, I studied but sincerely and if someone asks me, I lost motivation, I still have excellent grades, but it is not the same as before, at first I felt bad, as they have no idea, but when I received a call from a relative As it turns out, I was playing dominoes with my math teacher, I found out that this girl literally brought "sweets or bread from her beloved bakery" to the teachers. Now I understand that the effort often does not work at all, because, There are always external factors that somehow open your eyes and make you see that grades are not everything in this life.
    Sorry for My English...

    • @nithyaravi2084
      @nithyaravi2084 2 года назад +55

      No people discredited you because of covid but you were still 1st, if it is easy to get 1st place during covid then anyone could've gotten it. Your teachers behavior was wrong. There should be no external factor because you were ranked based on grades and you got the best grades. Your teacher behaved poorly. Don't worry you will get the credit you deserve one day

    • @damybooks
      @damybooks 2 года назад +10

      @@nithyaravi2084 Thank you very much!

    • @thecolorjune
      @thecolorjune Год назад +28

      Know that you are intelligent and capable even if you don’t get external validation. It’s hard but keep your self confidence even if others don’t see it.

    • @nikoniko_ni4456
      @nikoniko_ni4456 Год назад +17

      As someone who had a similar experience, I empathize with you. Unfortunately I let all teacher and classmates comments to hurt me deeply to the point I really wanted to abandoned college and low my grades. However, my mom keep trying to support me so I don’t give up my studies. It isn’t the same but I keep trying. I have been advancing and my grades are finally going up slowly. Just don’t listen to those, you are intelligent and worthy of anything good in life. Don’t discredit yourself from your own achievements because these do matter.

    • @damybooks
      @damybooks Год назад +15

      @@nikoniko_ni4456 Thank you very much! Luckily I'm out of high school and into college, I'm finishing a little introductory course that I decided to start before classes start, but it's been fantastic. Being honest, I understand you and I hope you don't abandon classes for people who are not worth it.

  • @ddanikong
    @ddanikong Год назад +31

    i fkng love these videos so much as an average student even tho i can't relate to them cause whenever i feel like breaking down from stress and huge jealousy for the top students, it gives me comfort to think about them like this, how im not the only one who is struggling and having a hard time from school.

  • @bella-rb6xn
    @bella-rb6xn Год назад +40

    i don't get high expectations from my parents as i used to. they say they understand that what i study is difficult, and that i shouldn't put pressure on myself, that i shouldn't kill myself trying to be on top of the class like i used to. but it's been so long since i felt "free" from pressure that i'm so used to the intense anxious feeling of trying to be the best. though, i don't think i was ever the "best". so now to compensate for the expectations i don't believe i ever met, i work harder and harder and harder. it's so sickening how they tell me to chill out, how they tell me that i am doing good enough, when i, myself, don't even feel like i am good enough.

  • @engeneforever7231
    @engeneforever7231 Год назад +72

    I can relate to this song so much ever since childhood my parents expected me to be good at everything I was the part of debate club , a trained singer , trained dancer , an artist and the topper of my class but then as years went by this became so exhausting I always dreamt of being a doctor and I ended up being a med student but idk I think I have reached my limit....it's like I wanna have fun I wanna have a boyfriend I wanna travel and be just idk happy

    • @Ice.muffin
      @Ice.muffin Год назад +2

      That's the ensured path to misery. Change lifestyle while you still have it in you, afterwards might be too late.

  • @sporkslit2124
    @sporkslit2124 Год назад +55

    i dont know when why or how i put such high standards for myself academically, my family js wants me to try my best, and be happy w what i get. but i always feel the need to excel beyond my limits, and to be better than everyone else around me. and to add to the fact, i was always perceived as the smart kid, but now i’m a burned put “gifted kid”

  • @eshwarichandak4306
    @eshwarichandak4306 Месяц назад +2

    no , the way i automatically had tears in my eyes whle reading the lyrics.

  • @delhoumkamar248
    @delhoumkamar248 Год назад +76

    i've been the golden kid my whole life, always the first in the whole grade not just class, my mom keeps all my diplomas and projects and grades and shit hidden and really protected, when we see people outside the first thing she says about me is that i'm in med school, and I really feel like I'm not that golden anymore, and I don't want to be, I want to be average and make mistakes and not have people expecting a whole lotta shit from me. My dad is always asking if my grades are high, if I'm ahead of my lectures, if I wanna be a neuro surgeon or a cardio surgeon, are my grades enough to get me to the biggest hospitals.. I actually wanna quit and start traveling around the world.

    • @michellenguyen2960
      @michellenguyen2960 Год назад +2

      I hope you gain that freedom from everyone's expectations 🙏 do what you want to do

    • @anushkasalgaonkar7665
      @anushkasalgaonkar7665 Год назад +7

      It's the " quit and travel around the world" that really hit home

    • @un___kno___
      @un___kno___ 4 месяца назад

      Now what are you doing now?.just curiosity

    • @delhoumkamar248
      @delhoumkamar248 4 месяца назад +1

      @@un___kno___ still fighting for the golden ticket..I've got an exam tomorrow and I've procrastinated a lot.. still haven't gotten out of my bubble in any shape or form.. maybe I'm not that brave..

    • @studygram_
      @studygram_ Месяц назад

      ​@@delhoumkamar248you ARE brave. ♡

  • @wonpuff.222
    @wonpuff.222 Год назад +30

    This song makes me motivated but also reminds me of the family pressure that I have on me to do well in school

  • @uphilldew
    @uphilldew 2 года назад +89

    THIS IS SOOO GOOD!!THANK U FOR MAKING THIS😭😭🙏

  • @iamsweetpotato2285
    @iamsweetpotato2285 6 месяцев назад +7

    "are you satisfied with an average life" this sentence attracts me so much because my biggest fear was what if i have an ordinary life and still is but i am slowly learning to let it go and adapting to changes and Things that will or might happen but am learning how to get through them We all are just humans who lives once so i want to make the best version of myself but also i wanna Nourish myself and love myself to the fullesr

  • @doitnowegeieb
    @doitnowegeieb Год назад +22

    I think what works for every overachiever is that he/she is doing what they like... and ik it gets stressful and suffocating sometimes and we can revolt against other people's expectations but what about our expectations towards our own self...like we've so much potential and still we're this slow, this unknown...but yk what we'll get past our fears, we'll work double hard and we'll acheive it. One day in distinct future, when we'll reflect back..we'll be proud of all choices we made today.

  • @Heyyydbksjhd
    @Heyyydbksjhd Год назад +13

    I'm so glad you added Rory Gilmore and Nina Sayers to this!! ✨ Literally this video is SO UNDERRATED

  • @petrzelka8321
    @petrzelka8321 Год назад +44

    Great video and a relatable song. I’d add Elle Woods and Monica Geller as well!

  • @reganw.9588
    @reganw.9588 9 месяцев назад +15

    I am never satisfied with anything. School bores me to death, I want something greater than that. I'm always finding something else worth my time. The idea of mediocrity revolts me. Now that I'll be competing for a chess tournament in a few weeks, my desire grows stronger. If anything, I'm an obsessed artist who will never be satisfied.

  • @user-dw5ey7wz4z
    @user-dw5ey7wz4z Год назад +16

    I had chills when I saw jonathan larson cuz i was def not expecting that but realized he really fits the character description

  • @withlovemaryz
    @withlovemaryz 7 месяцев назад +5

    I watch this video at least twice everyday. It keeps me motivated.

  • @dayanah222
    @dayanah222 2 года назад +51

    thank you so much for making this, I've been losing motivation to study (which i shouldn't at all) even though this is my final year 😕 this made me gained some motivation back 🤍

    • @malenaparnetti9792
      @malenaparnetti9792  2 года назад +3

      omg i'm so happy to hear that! just remember that it is normal not having motivation and that's okay, you're doing your best

  • @loralei8028
    @loralei8028 2 года назад +42

    BRB going to study rn

  • @hxnnxh77
    @hxnnxh77 10 месяцев назад +4

    Thank you for including Jo and Paris in this they’re amazing

  • @pricemutikisha
    @pricemutikisha Год назад +14

    My only question is how do all these characters work so hard and hardly ever face burn out.

    • @aishanisingh9004
      @aishanisingh9004 Год назад +13

      Beth and rory burned out rory especially

    • @jeb3180
      @jeb3180 Год назад +4

      they def burn out though

  • @rodrigoriveros7801
    @rodrigoriveros7801 2 года назад +32

    I was expecting for Spencer Hastings

  • @luluthesiren6222
    @luluthesiren6222 Год назад +169

    I love this video so much. I think it's important people understand the meaning of this song. It's about going for what you love. No matter how hard it is. Work hard for what you love. No matter what people say to you. Whether that's academics, hobbies, or anything in general. Leave the life that you never loved or a place you hate because you deserve a future you worked hard for. No matter what age and demographic.

  • @amaninbweda
    @amaninbweda Год назад +12

    This edit and this song are masterpieces

  • @deekshaargupta
    @deekshaargupta Год назад +5

    I LOVE YOU! I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU ADDED QATARA FROM AVATAR💘

  • @allyenfromthebottomofthesp8083
    @allyenfromthebottomofthesp8083 10 месяцев назад +4

    I... don't know how to explain it, but it just tires me out how people make anything a competition..
    I have one of the highest grades in my year, i am always told that i have a bright future, that i will be someone, that i am gifited, smart, intelligent, capable...
    And i get it, i am, i am not saying that i am not.
    But why should that difer me from others? Why is it that i will only be someone if i am a lawyer, a doctor, a scientist? I hate how everyone keeps acting like just because i am different in some areas that i need to follow a certain way, or that i am fated to, because when they say that, they imply i am better.
    But i have no friends, my classmates hate and isolate me.
    I feel like such a burden for not wanting to be gifted, but it makes people compare themselves to me and hate me in the process.
    I don't know what i want in life, and when you are so smart like me everyone starts to say things and suggest that you should take a high profile job as if you were better than a barista or a cashier, and you are not, just different.
    Everything feels like a burnden because they see me as my potential and not what i am today, i don't know exactly what, but something hurts, badly

    • @lananaote
      @lananaote 10 месяцев назад +1

      ohh my drl be fine 😞⭐️

    • @floralstain
      @floralstain 9 месяцев назад +2

      I relate sm to you and it honestly sucks

  • @kerenmayorga9115
    @kerenmayorga9115 2 года назад +29

    Amity from The Owl House would also fit with the song :')

  • @MagicalAnge
    @MagicalAnge 7 месяцев назад +5

    Some more characters are Amity Blight, Bronwyn Rojas, Adora, Catra, Annabeth Chase, Francis Janvier, Ishu dey, Sophie Foster, Rayla, Pearl.

  • @manvishah9968
    @manvishah9968 Год назад +8

    I relate to Jo alot, it actually makes me feel like im not the only one like that . This life is short and i want to achieve all that i could.

  • @Uneversawm333
    @Uneversawm333 Год назад +10

    1:25 1:28 i relate to this 100%, I'm not under pressure but I'm allergic to friends and poverty

  • @pixelzebra8440
    @pixelzebra8440 5 месяцев назад +5

    I love Katara in here. I never thought of her as a high achiever but that’s exactly what she is

  • @matchalover08
    @matchalover08 Год назад +9

    I'm not a high achiever (I thought I was one), but whatever I did was what a high achiever did. I need to do that in order to be average as people around me are very smart. But this constant grind is making me feeling exhausted and feeling always empty inside...

  • @Letsnotdothispls
    @Letsnotdothispls 2 года назад +7

    i am putting this to my study motivation

  • @deborahbrito900
    @deborahbrito900 Год назад +3

    I missed spencer hastings in this, Blair Waldorf too but its a great video

  • @katesinit
    @katesinit Год назад +4

    I was a top student in school but I didn’t get into my dream university, literally cried for like a week, had to go to a uni that I didn’t like. Now it’s been 3 years there, I hate it and I hate my major, I feel like we’re learning nothing, I think about it every day and wish I had made a different decision. Have 1.5 more years to go. And my mental and physical health has gotten worse, yay
    Trust your intuition, chose what you want to do and don’t major in something that will “supposedly” bring you a lot of money but you have no interest in

    • @a.r.7885
      @a.r.7885 Год назад

      I honestly wish I could follow this advice. But my parents are paying for uni, and they may disown me if I don't do as they wish. My father literally considers a law student to be a failed student, because only STEM matters.
      I don't even want to enjoy my major. I just want to succeed and graduate, go to a prestigious grad school, ultimately have a successful career and live comfortably... and take care of my parents. I want to be their pride. I want to be worthy of them. It doesn't help that my older sister (by 18 months) is brilliant and effortlessly successful. But of course, all my goals are easier said that done. In fact, I am barely getting by.

  • @Millicent_Malfoy
    @Millicent_Malfoy 11 месяцев назад +10

    I'm currently a high achiever, like I read books that are like 354 pages in 2 days and finish school work the day it was given yet I still worry if I got a 99% on my results.

  • @leftsharkc
    @leftsharkc Год назад +2

    Thank you for this video I get so motivated when I see other people doing things I want I hate when people from t.v or even real life do better than me this gives me so much motivation to do good and push myself harder :)))

  • @alex_into_deep
    @alex_into_deep 11 месяцев назад +2

    This song with the characters 👌

  • @avery6704
    @avery6704 Год назад +2

    ilysm for all these picks but ESPECIALLY tick tick boom

  • @mountsinai_
    @mountsinai_ Год назад +9

    people in the comments saying they’re motivated (?) the song is so sad

  • @candelabenedetti8226
    @candelabenedetti8226 Год назад +6

    Rory Gilmore is the real study motivation for me

  • @anomalytm05
    @anomalytm05 Месяц назад +1

    I also was kinda like that. But, I have come to like the chase. I finally made peace with failure, and I not only love to reach the final product regardless of success but also the process in between. I love the adrenaline rush I vet once in a while. Though, my main goal isn't really success but my passion. I'd be fine even if I made average living in some small town(that would actually be ideal).
    I honestly don't even care if I die doing what I love even though I'm scared of death. Reaching this stage feels so liberating. I'm flying on cloud nine for some years now.

  • @sachsoup
    @sachsoup Год назад +8

    I love this song so much, Marina my beloved

  • @RidhiRajGoswami
    @RidhiRajGoswami Месяц назад +5

    I can't believe that you didn't put a clip of Alex Dunphy from modern family

  • @KevySTUDY
    @KevySTUDY Год назад +3

    This video got me addicted to gilmore girls. I watched this video in dec of 2022 and instantly got addicted to "who care if im pretty if i fails my finals" and im grateful that i got addicted to this show becusse this show has been my partner through my ups and downs
    Now as i proceed towards the end of this show it remninds me how far i have come and there are so many things outthere for me to conquer

  • @killuazoldyck5425
    @killuazoldyck5425 4 месяца назад +3

    Tbh it's always better to be a overachiever than being under no matter what anyone says the overachiever will atleast have something with them even if one part is lost like yk preferring to cry in Lamborghini with lots of money is better than crying on bus so let's take it as something which we do normally no offense just my thoughts 💭😅😅😅

  • @nutterbutter865
    @nutterbutter865 Год назад +2

    Pushed myself past my limit and got ridiculous burnout. Never EVER place your self worth in achievements. It will never lead to happiness, lesson learned

    • @mxka-b5m
      @mxka-b5m 11 месяцев назад

      YES 🗣️

  • @shivanijhavats
    @shivanijhavats Год назад +2

    I am seeing many comments about how they feel pressurized by their family,
    however don't we like studying? Don't we ourselves love it achieving every goal we have?
    in my family I am one of the smart kids, but they don't pressurize me because when I let them see how much I am trying myself then they don't, and I kinda of like it that they know i am trying and it hasn't been like they never pressurized me or said anything, I have been there felt that and overcame it and now i feel lucky i got pressurized, of course not till a stage where i feel burnt out, but i see students around me struggling for even basic concepts and not knowing many things and i find it really good that i was pressurized and prepared be out in this world,
    to all the girls and boys
    YOU GOT THIS, YOU HAVE DONE IT BEFORE,YOU WILL DO IT AGAIN, AND NOT FOR ANYONE ELSE THIS TIME BUT FOR YOURSELF!

  • @SophiaEzraN.Guerrero-tl3bk
    @SophiaEzraN.Guerrero-tl3bk 9 месяцев назад +2

    0:00-0:02 my mom always says this to me, and my family don't see why I am not glowing up because I study hard.

  • @zeira954
    @zeira954 5 месяцев назад +3

    Its a crime that Alex from Modern Family isnt here

  • @adrianaargandona7852
    @adrianaargandona7852 2 года назад +33

    Me encantó!

  • @e7fell
    @e7fell Год назад +2

    i made a lousy mistake in a test, now it costed me my mental health. I'm very upset, it should have been right. if I wasn't stupid enough

  • @lilimonarch8494
    @lilimonarch8494 Год назад +5

    The fact that even distant people will go asking my parents if I am mentally okay after finding out my class roster speaks MILES lmao

  • @mayarrajesh
    @mayarrajesh Год назад +3

    youtube recommends me this and its like a personal attack.

  • @cora5534
    @cora5534 Год назад +2

    this is really a masterpiece.

  • @emperorliz
    @emperorliz 2 года назад +8

    Omg I love this.

  • @starsandbeyond8947
    @starsandbeyond8947 Год назад +3

    My anthem

  • @anwar2317
    @anwar2317 Год назад +39

    I wish Alex dunphy and Blair are included

  • @EiKyarPhyu-sy1vi
    @EiKyarPhyu-sy1vi 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ngl i used to be a high achiever but i never felt good enough about myself.Now that i let myself go and start to burn out,I begin to fall apart and lose myself

  • @casca109
    @casca109 Год назад +2

    Being hardworking to be successful for me can be as draining as being hardworking for others

  • @Unknownwriter7890
    @Unknownwriter7890 11 месяцев назад +3

    i am trying my best and studying alot if i don't get good marks this time i would dieeee

    • @Unknownwriter7890
      @Unknownwriter7890 9 месяцев назад

      I did got the highest but did it satisfied me a big no I wanna die god

  • @Bia-starlight
    @Bia-starlight Год назад +8

    "Do I need to lie to make my way in life?"
    Dude, that hits me hard.

  • @katemanyahina
    @katemanyahina Год назад

    goshh this is my favourite song from the family jewels album and I'm in shock this video exists

  • @baladevi6894
    @baladevi6894 Год назад +2

    I relate to this song because I have been THAT STUDENT who gets straight A's and is the Topper and is perfect since I was born and I know I would do whatever it takes to be THE BEST and yet there's always an emptiness.

  • @adrianaargandona7852
    @adrianaargandona7852 2 года назад +17

    El video va exactamente con los personajes

  • @tzucherry
    @tzucherry Год назад +2

    i got excited every time hermione granger appeared

  • @kuyomixd
    @kuyomixd Год назад +4

    + alex of moderm family

  • @wkshs2700
    @wkshs2700 Год назад +2

    I'm obsessed!.

  • @thevintageplaylist7191
    @thevintageplaylist7191 Год назад +2

    Also Leonardo da Vinci from the show Leonardo, my fave show ever and Aidan Turner was AMAZING

  • @vaibhaviagale7904
    @vaibhaviagale7904 6 месяцев назад +1

    I was once a High Achiever later on I realised that i hated myself through that process...Its great if you want it but when this type of success becomes yours you realise....".Huh? its all over, now what?" The burnout is not worth it (atleast for me)

  • @VentiWhoreshipper
    @VentiWhoreshipper Год назад +8

    Funny how I seemed to work eagerly when I see that I have achieved what I want or got what I want for whatever reasons
    It's just that I finally have a reason to push harder than my limits
    It's true that I sacrificed my social life for that matter, but now that I have the results in front of me, I finally seem to have a valid reason to go on
    Idk man weird logic

  • @thebookdragon8670
    @thebookdragon8670 Год назад +1

    Love your vids>>>>>>
    Thanks for making us stronger!!!

  • @mehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh1
    @mehhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh1 2 года назад +23

    Liza Weil (Paris Geller in Gilmore Girls) looks like Burgess Abernethy. Search his name, it is very likely that you will agree.

  • @casiree
    @casiree Год назад +9

    i can't relate bc the only subject that im not good at, is math 😭😭😭

    • @MaraXipe
      @MaraXipe Год назад +1

      Me

    • @deertears5997
      @deertears5997 Год назад +2

      Which grade are you in though- If you're still young it's gonna become harder later on.

    • @kimmayo2165
      @kimmayo2165 Год назад +1

      @@deertears5997 heyyy🤣🤣🤣

  • @s1mply_isalimyt
    @s1mply_isalimyt Год назад +7

    I am suprised to see paris geller here. It is always about rory who over achieves. When people think about the people who study hard in glimore girls, it's always rory.
    PARIS GELLER>>>>>

  • @itsrumple2544
    @itsrumple2544 2 года назад +7

    i wanted to see Spencer Hastings here..

  • @masumi7392
    @masumi7392 Год назад +3

    I always was a good student, the best in class, and now I'm not that anymore, because another girl is better than me, I've been feeling low and that's why my notes went down :c

    • @danielleeleazar5450
      @danielleeleazar5450 Год назад +1

      Hey you're still a good student regardless if she's better okay? I understand this feeling so much since I'm the dumbest one now and I haven't figured out my life.. great hahahahaaa it feels good to die but I'm just kidding.

    • @masumi7392
      @masumi7392 Год назад +1

      @@danielleeleazar5450 well I understand that there's more than being the best in something but still feel a little bad, you know? And yeah, I don't know what to do with my life either, it's just complicated

    • @danielleeleazar5450
      @danielleeleazar5450 Год назад +1

      @@masumi7392 I hope we get to figure it out somehow regardless how bleak the situation is. I've tried going to school again but I had a hard time with everything. Still I hope it's okay if I won't be able to handle everything life has thrown into me. Maybe this time. I'll be kinder to myself.

    • @a.r.7885
      @a.r.7885 Год назад

      That is how I've always felt. I study subjects four years in advance (e.g. doing university-level calculus at 14), but it doesn't matter... because my older sister will always be more advanced and more brilliant. And she will always be there for comparison.

  • @datbishded435
    @datbishded435 2 месяца назад +1

    Katara being shown i love it

  • @user-fo4lf8zu7r
    @user-fo4lf8zu7r Год назад +5

    Are you satisfied? of Marina+ Daenerys + Katara + Rory + Hermonie = ✡Masterpiece✡

  • @IsabelleMukombachoto
    @IsabelleMukombachoto 3 месяца назад

    This song is literally me everyday of my life since i was twelve . Over achiever who never was pressured but pressured their self

  • @guness6.
    @guness6. Год назад +5

    I'm so tired of working 10 hours and more a day. But that's not enough, I have to work harder. It would be FOOLISH to leave it while you've come this far. I'll make it and I'll come here and smile at the comment ☀️
    (8 ocak pes etme 💪)

    • @danielleeleazar5450
      @danielleeleazar5450 Год назад +1

      Wish I was so hardworking as you as well.. My depression made me quit everything and now I don't know how to bounce back from it. Still you're amazing.

    • @guness6.
      @guness6. Год назад

      @@danielleeleazar5450 You can turn your depression into an opportunity. Once upon a time I was in your situation, but now my depression is my best friend... Sometimes bad situations move us further. Think about it...

    • @danielleeleazar5450
      @danielleeleazar5450 Год назад +1

      @@guness6. I hope so, I just kept crying these days. I've been terrified of how things will work out.

    • @guness6.
      @guness6. Год назад

      @@danielleeleazar5450 ruclips.net/video/PppkNH3bKV4/видео.html As if it were written to You 🤜

    • @danielleeleazar5450
      @danielleeleazar5450 Год назад

      @@guness6. thank youuuuuuuu...it's been a lot harder to hold on these days.

  • @pezaczbekitny21
    @pezaczbekitny21 Год назад +3

    Honestly this song gives me trauma, i was like them, i was suffering so much, rn i'm trying to recovery from over working do yeah, it's a different type of bread for me :/

  • @z0y4._
    @z0y4._ 10 месяцев назад

    the way these are my fav characters

  • @chandlerbing3891
    @chandlerbing3891 Год назад +5

    is it a coincidence that almost all high-achieving characters in fiction are women?