Tennessee principal resigns after family says school violated law with young daughter

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  • Опубликовано: 31 янв 2025

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  • @michaelccopelandsr7120
    @michaelccopelandsr7120 5 месяцев назад +624

    When you fear integrity and accountability, you are no longer the good guys.

    • @catherineyoung3889
      @catherineyoung3889 5 месяцев назад +5

      It could be as you say, but I suspect this principal just didn't understand IDEA and wasn't given the proper training, and feared the media barrage. If the family opted to bring an advocate without informing the principal in advance of the meeting, she was within her rights to reschedule. That's the law. I have two kids who were on IEPs and that's how its supposed to work. Full disclosure on BOTH sides.

    • @wesleyhempoli5548
      @wesleyhempoli5548 5 месяцев назад

      Not sure what "fear integrity" means, but ya...

    • @niyablake
      @niyablake 5 месяцев назад +5

      She never was the good guy

    • @julieproctor6039
      @julieproctor6039 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@michaelccopelandsr7120 yet an investigation by news reporters brought about a hasty resignation. 🎯

    • @BG-bx4ey
      @BG-bx4ey 4 месяца назад

      ​@@catherineyoung3889I think the resignation clears it right up. Also, it was cancelled multiple times. Also, even when is legal to reschedule, why would you do so upon hearing of an advocate? That's sleazy and shitty on a basic human level. It's legal for me to drive around town at 1mph with 'eat my butt' painted on every side of my car. Does that make ok?

  • @Chrystal_Hendrix
    @Chrystal_Hendrix 5 месяцев назад +146

    Bravo to this Mother for fiercely advocating for her child.

  • @StAlphonsusHasAPosse
    @StAlphonsusHasAPosse 5 месяцев назад +471

    In my experience, you are absolutely permitted to have an advocate in an IEP meeting--even if it's another special needs parent who has more experience with the system

    • @_S0urR0ses_
      @_S0urR0ses_ 5 месяцев назад +22

      Yes that’s what advocates are all about

    • @tiffanymjohnston8052
      @tiffanymjohnston8052 5 месяцев назад +20

      Or other family members. I have memory issues, and the one time my husband couldn't go to the meeting, I took his sister with me instead, and they had no problem with that.

    • @stoneymcneal2458
      @stoneymcneal2458 5 месяцев назад +3

      Most advocates are grifters.

    • @bluehippo5
      @bluehippo5 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@StAlphonsusHasAPosse you are absolutely correct! 👍

    • @catherineyoung3889
      @catherineyoung3889 5 месяцев назад +6

      True, but their presence is supposed to be disclosed at the time the meeting is arranged. There's a form that is sent out by the school district that states what the purpose of the meeting is, the date, and who is to attend. If the family didn't disclose that this advocate was planning to come, then the principal was within her rights to reschedule.

  • @kennethlemanski7399
    @kennethlemanski7399 5 месяцев назад +528

    The Mother is being an excellent Advocate for her child.

    • @PoolsideData
      @PoolsideData 5 месяцев назад +4

      there is an issue here that tax payers are paying the bill for the costs related to the specialized class requirements. Is that fair ?

    • @randall1959
      @randall1959 5 месяцев назад

      @@PoolsideData Just as fair as buying football uniforms for the 1% of students who actually play football.

    • @smartwatchonpluto
      @smartwatchonpluto 5 месяцев назад

      @user-zv7jq7hq1p you don't feel special needs or disabled children are entitled to an education? Do you feel they won't use it or take advantage of an education? Could you not say the same about most average kids? Do you think the inspiring inner city rappers are using theirs? 🤔 they can't even read/spell. Where is the line drawn for you? Just the disabled and not the lazy entitled?

    • @Lisa-ym1si
      @Lisa-ym1si 5 месяцев назад

      @@PoolsideData absolutely.

    • @Mudhooks
      @Mudhooks 5 месяцев назад +11

      @@PoolsideData Apparently, you are unaware of the law under the Act. It doesn’t matter the cost to the taxpayer because 1) it’s the law and 2) NOT receiving specialized education guarantees that the special needs students won’t receive the education that will allow them to learn and succeed.
      Of course, of it was YOUR kid you’d be just fine with their not being allowed to reach their full potential, right? You’d rather that they end up unable to get a job and not become independent, right?
      I’ll bet you don’t mind taxpayer’s money being spent on school athletes, right? Because it costs infinitely more to run sports programs and hire good coaches because you think that athletes deserve more that a few “special-needs” students.

  • @57msdeb
    @57msdeb 5 месяцев назад +250

    There is no reason to fear having an advocate at the meeting unless you are not following policy. The more ideas from experts the better for everyone all around.

    • @timdavis3733
      @timdavis3733 5 месяцев назад +1

      There are no experts.

    • @57msdeb
      @57msdeb 5 месяцев назад

      @@timdavis3733 I’ve seen some people who specialize in different therapies available, who are very good at what they do. I was a classroom teacher for 38 years and saw just about everything imaginable.

    • @DurkMcGerk
      @DurkMcGerk 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@timdavis3733 what are you, some kind of expert on the subject?

    • @jenscheibner792
      @jenscheibner792 5 месяцев назад

      100%

    • @mattstorey7256
      @mattstorey7256 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yeah, that's why. They knew something they were doing wrong or inadequately. Due to the litigious nature of our society, having that advocate, would mean discovery of their inadequacy and likely legal action to follow. That is why the principal didn't want to meet at all, but when forced to explain, being "uncomfortable" without legal council present. Why do you need a lawyer in a parent/advocate/educator conference....unless you NEED . a . lawyer?

  • @ericcartrette6118
    @ericcartrette6118 5 месяцев назад +124

    My son had an IEP for extreme ADD. His high school principal tried his best to get him out of the IEP. My wife and I were both in the meeting, as was the special ed teacher. The three of us stood up to the principal and made him back down. I feel like it was brave of the spec ed teacher to stand up to her principal for our son. The principal was only at the school for one year before he was replaced, and my son excelled there with his IEP.

    • @suedefringe
      @suedefringe 5 месяцев назад +6

      That's ashame. I am curious : What does the principal have to gain from it. (Removing a child from iep) You would think he would want all students to excel. And if that means remain in iep, then so be it.

    • @ericcartrette6118
      @ericcartrette6118 5 месяцев назад +4

      @@suedefringe I've never understood it myself. He wasn't a very good principal. My wife knew a lot of the teachers. With him as principal, many of them were considering leaving the school for employment elsewhere.

    • @julieproctor6039
      @julieproctor6039 5 месяцев назад

      Aww. So nice to read a good report.

    • @julieproctor6039
      @julieproctor6039 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@suedefringeallocation of limited funds throughout a county public school system. Choices have to be made.

    • @nan14397
      @nan14397 5 месяцев назад +2

      Uncaring Staff they don’t care for children

  • @crinklecut3790
    @crinklecut3790 5 месяцев назад +267

    My wife has been teaching for over 30 years. She has attended many meetings in which the parents brought their attorney with them to discuss the student’s IEP. It can sometimes feel awkward, but you do it anyway for the benefit of the child. If you’re really concerned, have an attorney for the school district there too. You’re already paying them on retainer.

    • @sunshineproductions4122
      @sunshineproductions4122 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@crinklecut3790 Why exactly did the principal resign?

    • @TheREALOC1972
      @TheREALOC1972 5 месяцев назад +30

      @@sunshineproductions4122 in short because she was on some bullshit thinking the parents were going to back down until a mamma bear got a hold of her ass and was going hold her accountable for her bullshit..... That's why.

    • @twentynineteen4687
      @twentynineteen4687 5 месяцев назад +3

      You are correct. Thank you.

    • @mariehampton740
      @mariehampton740 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@crinklecut3790 you are a very positive person in the educational community ❤️! My hat is off to you. I have a granddaughter with IEP education... my daughter is so involved and very proactive about her education!!!

    • @haannguyen4402
      @haannguyen4402 5 месяцев назад +7

      @@mariehampton740 That is how it should be! Knowledge is power. As a former IEP student myself, my parents hid my autism from me, even though I was diagnosed as a toddler. Now, as an incoming college freshman, I still need social skills support/coaching, which was sadly discontinued for me in 7th grade

  • @ls-kk4pq
    @ls-kk4pq 4 месяца назад +15

    I am a retired teacher. So many of the issues facing teachers is not from below, but from administration. Kudos to this mother for sticking up for a child.

  • @todddanforth8853
    @todddanforth8853 5 месяцев назад +237

    Why are school administrators so incompetent???????

    • @srezzy1326
      @srezzy1326 5 месяцев назад

      @@todddanforth8853 because they make 6 figures for doing nothing.

    • @Hannah82271
      @Hannah82271 5 месяцев назад +37

      The American education system

    • @lilolmecj
      @lilolmecj 5 месяцев назад +21

      Because they have largely been insulted from accountability throughout their career.

    • @TomC-fo5gx
      @TomC-fo5gx 5 месяцев назад +28

      DEI - just a guess

    • @db8658
      @db8658 5 месяцев назад +11

      ​@@TomC-fo5gxA rote, wildly paranoid guess.

  • @robertwildenberg2255
    @robertwildenberg2255 5 месяцев назад +40

    Good job to mom and hopefully your child gets the learning she deserves

  • @jodihouts6032
    @jodihouts6032 5 месяцев назад +102

    My grandson was on this and it is a joke. They kept citing my daughter for truancy on days the school had sent him home. He is being homeschooled now with connections, much better.

    • @kelleygreengrass
      @kelleygreengrass 5 месяцев назад

      @@jodihouts6032 you mean your son?

    • @jodihouts6032
      @jodihouts6032 5 месяцев назад +6

      @@kelleygreengrass My grandson, the son of my daughter.

    • @MelissaThompson432
      @MelissaThompson432 5 месяцев назад

      What does "on this" refer to?

    • @eepinwillow
      @eepinwillow 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@MelissaThompson432 Probably means on an IEP

    • @jodihouts6032
      @jodihouts6032 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@MelissaThompson432 IEP...individual education plan, it's 4 kids with disabilities.

  • @ernestconnell8087
    @ernestconnell8087 5 месяцев назад +372

    People take jobs, then don’t want to actually work.

    • @Hannah82271
      @Hannah82271 5 месяцев назад +14

      TRUTH

    • @DavoInMelbourne
      @DavoInMelbourne 5 месяцев назад +1

      So true man

    • @Rick-np9vz
      @Rick-np9vz 5 месяцев назад +3

      Maybe they are hiring unqualified teachers! Not saying that is exactly the case! But it should be a consideration!

    • @herchelleonwood7463
      @herchelleonwood7463 5 месяцев назад

      @@Rick-np9vz why would anyone want to teach these days with all the right wing maga attacks & threats of violence.

    • @herchelleonwood7463
      @herchelleonwood7463 5 месяцев назад

      most of them already work for the GQP.

  • @terrylewis_
    @terrylewis_ 5 месяцев назад +57

    Her resignation letter, she is leaving to "purse another opportunity".. purse? lol

  • @aprilthompson3863
    @aprilthompson3863 5 месяцев назад +30

    I had a special needs child and it’s very important for everyone to be on board with the child’s needs.

    • @Jesse12489
      @Jesse12489 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@aprilthompson3863 You had? Past tense.

  • @bswogger4656
    @bswogger4656 5 месяцев назад +150

    Refuse to let advocates. Bullying is common amongst these educators. Seems they get scared when people question.

    • @bswogger4656
      @bswogger4656 5 месяцев назад +3

      Thats great your Mom supported you all!
      College I still could not read but the college was trying to force weird stuff like my high school. I had sign myself out of their program at 12 years old with my mom’s permission, she could not take off work.
      When I drop out college, next time I just enrolled took same as freshman like anyone else, I got on presidents honors list 2 times! Oppression seem to come more from those that know I have dyslexia. I had multiple head injuries from accidents & attacks, knocked out and now at 57 years old I am struggling with technology. 24 years since first cell phone I had nothing but problems. Identity theft has down me again.
      I have been blessed to have been able to learn to read. Sign language really opened my understanding of language.
      Really hope you all can advocate effectively for yourself, glad your mom’s support is available many have no support!
      Thanks for sharing!
      Edited for spelling error.

    • @synnove1046
      @synnove1046 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@bswogger4656 Good for you for continuing to work on yourself snd learning to read! Sorry about the people who had a bias from knowing that you had dyslexia. And sorry about the identity theft also. And even though I don’t have any reading problems, I also can find technology to be difficult, more than most people our age.

    • @bswogger4656
      @bswogger4656 5 месяцев назад

      @@synnove1046 Right! Thanks for the encouragement!

    • @Telephonebill51
      @Telephonebill51 5 месяцев назад +1

      That's because these days the parents are smarter than they are.

    • @mitzloo1933
      @mitzloo1933 5 месяцев назад +1

      Not really. This parent came off as aggressive and is probably litigious. That principal should have had someone from the central office there to be involved in the meeting - which is why she probably cancelled so it could be rescheduled and have all the appropriate people in attendance. Schools don’t refuse advocates. They don’t refuse attorneys. What a blinkered view you have of public education.

  • @lateare
    @lateare 5 месяцев назад +90

    I love how the Principal’s resignation letter has a typo in the first sentence.

    • @SA-wb1jb
      @SA-wb1jb 5 месяцев назад +12

      I was looking for this comment!

    • @sterlingmatsui154
      @sterlingmatsui154 5 месяцев назад +9

      Yep, I caught that, lol☆:)

    • @petarticinovic2710
      @petarticinovic2710 5 месяцев назад +1

      "Principal's" shouldn't be capitalized.😆

    • @lateare
      @lateare 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@petarticinovic2710 - Actually, when used as a title, it is.

    • @justaservant8120
      @justaservant8120 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@petarticinovic2710I think they’re referring to where it says “to purse another opportunity” instead of pursue at 1:40

  • @ToddLigon-s4b
    @ToddLigon-s4b 5 месяцев назад +45

    Same thing happened to my daughter it was the teacher last year of teaching she just didnt care

  • @johninsalisbury2010
    @johninsalisbury2010 5 месяцев назад +103

    Special Education programs need more funding

    • @Terry-v7p
      @Terry-v7p 5 месяцев назад +8

      @@johninsalisbury2010 you can't buy your way out of problems

    • @Himmiefan
      @Himmiefan 5 месяцев назад +14

      @@Terry-v7p But you can pay for more teachers because these programs are usually vastly under-staffed.

    • @kittenpawsbb
      @kittenpawsbb 5 месяцев назад +4

      We need a President who Advocates for Americans First. Only one President said “American Children are Dreamers too” and supports School Choice. Trump / Vance 2024 😌🙏🏽❤️🇺🇸🌟🕊️

    • @Terry-v7p
      @Terry-v7p 5 месяцев назад +8

      @@kittenpawsbb Vance said trump was Hitler, and trump is a life long Dem. A few catch phrases and you dropped your panties

    • @kittenpawsbb
      @kittenpawsbb 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@Terry-v7p #TDS 🤪

  • @JG-lm9fd
    @JG-lm9fd 5 месяцев назад +32

    Public servants should not be allowed to hide anything from taxpayers. All information should be open at all times.

    • @bill3641
      @bill3641 5 месяцев назад +4

      And lessen their Power. Surely you jest............

  • @baronhyatt6729
    @baronhyatt6729 5 месяцев назад +17

    Sue the school district and the principal and do not back down

  • @Michael-um5pd
    @Michael-um5pd 5 месяцев назад +53

    What the hell is happening to our country

    • @kittenpawsbb
      @kittenpawsbb 5 месяцев назад

      It’s being run down by Democrats (Communist). In one breath they say we don’t have the tax dollars to fund programs to help Americans, in the next they are giving billions of tax dollars to foreigners. Only one President advocates for Americans First. Trump/Vance 2024 😌🙏🏽❤️🇺🇸🌟🕊️

    • @fedupamerican296
      @fedupamerican296 5 месяцев назад +5

      dims.

    • @yolyV-hg3uc
      @yolyV-hg3uc 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@fedupamerican296
      No it was the last admin who deregulated a lot of shit smfh

    • @fedupamerican296
      @fedupamerican296 5 месяцев назад

      @yolyV-hg3uc yep and that was good. Less regulation means less gov involvement. The dims stopped oil drilling and the pipeline in the US and raised prices on EVERYTHING. And their many new regulations have to do with accepting the world's garbage, illegals, pdf's, gay marriage and adoption and stifling freedoms of us Americans.
      Maybe next time get a clue before you type , you prove your a dim when you do stupid shite like that.

    • @fedupamerican296
      @fedupamerican296 5 месяцев назад

      @yolyV-hg3uc first fuck yt.
      Second no duh. Deregulation is good.
      We have less government involvement.
      Every time you guys get into office, we have less freedoms and less money.
      Get a clue before you speak, please.
      smfh

  • @jimchoate6912
    @jimchoate6912 5 месяцев назад +4

    Its Tennessee, good luck with that education from those that want to destroy the Dept of Education.

    • @helen5118
      @helen5118 4 месяца назад

      @jimchoate6912 thanks,I was thinking the same thing!

  • @lindatshappat4973
    @lindatshappat4973 5 месяцев назад +47

    The principals resignation letter had a spelling error. She used the word "purse" when I believe she meant "pursue ".

    • @markbarkley3790
      @markbarkley3790 5 месяцев назад +7

      @@lindatshappat4973 more of a typo, I would think.

    • @nadinevalent4436
      @nadinevalent4436 5 месяцев назад +1

      pleasure vs honor?

    • @morelanmn
      @morelanmn 5 месяцев назад +2

      Fear typing.

    • @michaels.starnes194
      @michaels.starnes194 5 месяцев назад +4

      Well just more proof that after years and years of schooling the schools fail to even be able to teach basic skills like reading and writing.

  • @DivergentMoon
    @DivergentMoon 4 месяца назад +1

    Or maybe she resigned because she is sick of being treated by the enemy by the parents?

  • @Radmountainbiking59
    @Radmountainbiking59 5 месяцев назад +7

    Being a principal you are always in the hot seat. You cannot please all these parents all the time.

    • @larry-kp9sp
      @larry-kp9sp 4 месяца назад

      Listening to the audio was a red flag to me. The parent sounded demanding and confrontational.

  • @daveydudely9954
    @daveydudely9954 5 месяцев назад +6

    kid shouldn't even be in a regular school, teachers have to be too many things to too many people anymore

  • @JBigjake
    @JBigjake 5 месяцев назад +5

    How much is the district paying for this one child? I’ve seen reports that some districts pay 10x the average for all students on a single Special Ed child. The parents still aren’t satisfied.

  • @lindabeaman9779
    @lindabeaman9779 5 месяцев назад +2

    I am so glad I live in California. Where all children, regardless of their disabilities, receive quality education. This would be unheard of in California!

  • @lynn2574
    @lynn2574 4 месяца назад +1

    Bravo to this mama! In my experience, even GETTING an IEP meeting scheduled has been a small miracle. Getting accommodations acknowledged and followed a daily battle.

  • @wvp07
    @wvp07 5 месяцев назад +42

    Anyone else notice that every time an institution…be it schools, police, hospitals….are caught pulling some shady shite, their subsequent statement frames all their violations as things they absolutely do. not. do. 😂 “We know you have tons of evidence of us being trash to your kid but ignore all that and only believe this boilerplate statement claiming the exact opposite!!”
    The insults to our intelligence are the real crime.

    • @yellowblanka6058
      @yellowblanka6058 5 месяцев назад +2

      Ditto corporations. Standard PR BS....translation: "We were doing these things, and were confident that we'd never get called on it, but now that it's been brought to light we'll feign ignorance and just copy/paste this boilerplate"

  • @μακάριος7
    @μακάριος7 5 месяцев назад +9

    Why are people allowed to resign instead of being fired. The next department will hire them. Sounds just like the criminal cops

  • @alanmorneau7622
    @alanmorneau7622 5 месяцев назад +26

    Thanks for standing up for the disabled

    • @jasonhas7456
      @jasonhas7456 5 месяцев назад

      Not our problem Abort abort abort

  • @carolynkuzio5649
    @carolynkuzio5649 5 месяцев назад +4

    How many teachers do they have that they can give individual teaching for each student?

  • @mpat100
    @mpat100 5 месяцев назад +3

    Blessings for Tess that she gets all the support she needs.

  • @annamarielewis7078
    @annamarielewis7078 5 месяцев назад +7

    Appalling to exclude an advocate‼️If advocates were not essential, there wouldn’t be any.‼️

  • @michaelvanderweide8032
    @michaelvanderweide8032 5 месяцев назад +9

    Please do just the tiniest bit of research. My wife is a special ed teacher and she told me this is a standard practice at most schools around the country. If a parent wants to bring an “advocate” to an IEP meeting, the principal is required to have their own IEP expert at the meeting. Additionally, in most school districts, the parents are required to notify the school ahead of time if they are bringing an advocate to a meeting. Seems pretty reasonable to me in today’s litigious society where schools get sued for giving someone a bad grade.
    In this case it looks like the parents showed up with an unannounced advocate, the principal notified them of the policy, and then they went crying to the news claiming that the principal refused to meet with them. No mention of what the policy says or whether the school offered to reschedule when someone from central office was available.
    The principal probably resigned because the school district caved into this parent and scolded the principal for trying to enforce their own policy. In today’s society, where parents scream and yell and even sue teachers for giving their kids a bad test score, I don’t blame the principal at all for wanting someone from central office there.

    • @gad-hp6xm
      @gad-hp6xm 4 месяца назад

      Parents should develop the children and can work with others toward the goals they have with their child! 👍

  • @erikabutler6893
    @erikabutler6893 5 месяцев назад +4

    In our district, a parent generally needs to give us notice of an advocate or lawyer attending so we can be prepared on our end.

  • @gmcconcord
    @gmcconcord 4 месяца назад +1

    Another reason not to send your children to public school

  • @TheTravAbides
    @TheTravAbides 5 месяцев назад +49

    Government employees, especially teachers and cops, need to realize who they work for.

    • @towritemichelle210
      @towritemichelle210 5 месяцев назад +3

      Teacher and administrator are two different things

    • @TheTravAbides
      @TheTravAbides 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@towritemichelle210 how does that change what I said?

    • @towritemichelle210
      @towritemichelle210 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@TheTravAbides Teachers didn't do anything wrong in this video.

    • @TheTravAbides
      @TheTravAbides 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@towritemichelle210 that’s your opinion. Everyone’s got one. Yours is ethically void and reprehensible.

    • @towritemichelle210
      @towritemichelle210 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@TheTravAbides how about instead of insulting me, you tell me where I'm wrong? The administrator (the Principal) was rightly let go but what did the teacher do wrong here?

  • @doreen3715
    @doreen3715 4 месяца назад +1

    How cruel for the little one. They knew that when she was going to school hope they find someone for her

  • @TravisDoesKayakFishing
    @TravisDoesKayakFishing 5 месяцев назад +30

    Sending kids to Tennessee public schools is asking for failure.

    • @stuckgrenadepin.225
      @stuckgrenadepin.225 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@TravisDoesKayakFishing adding Tennessee into that sentence was entirely unnecessary. Homeschooling is the only answer.

    • @OneStepBeyondu
      @OneStepBeyondu 5 месяцев назад

      @@stuckgrenadepin.225 The correct word is superfluous and if you were home schooled you know that :)

    • @stuckgrenadepin.225
      @stuckgrenadepin.225 5 месяцев назад

      @@OneStepBeyondu I know the word. But just because you know a word and it is applicable, it doesn’t mean that you have to use it when it could be construed as snobbish or condescending. The message is what matter and mine was perfectly understandable.

  • @mikeveis6393
    @mikeveis6393 4 месяца назад +1

    The educational system in the US is pathetic.

  • @ThatsMrAwesomesauce
    @ThatsMrAwesomesauce 5 месяцев назад +1

    I highly appreciated the b-roll of the reporter typing on a computer

  • @RobertDalimonte-ew7rl
    @RobertDalimonte-ew7rl 3 месяца назад

    That precious little girl deserves an education, just like any other child does! That's a good mother, fighting for her child's rights to a proper education!

  • @gilwood7530
    @gilwood7530 5 месяцев назад +1

    Almost the same situation happened to my sister battling for my nephew ...she fought so hard against the school board ...my nephew is an amazing bright guy but they put him in a school where the children were basically just plopped at a table and given a toy ...the whole family noticed his "growth" basically stop ...she fought to get him into a better school and later he went to the "regular" high school and graduated with his class ...he is someone I am so proud of ...KEEP FIGHT YOU GUYS ...This was 30 years ago ...My nephew has been employed with the same grocery store chain since before graduating !

  • @EllieHoyt
    @EllieHoyt 5 месяцев назад +3

    The elementary school I went to tried to label me as MMR. My parents knew better and had me tested by a child psychologist at Riley Children’s Hospital. On the day of the meeting with the school principal and teacher my parents brought the child psychologist with them. From her testing she told them I was advanced with reading, writing and spelling which was at a high school level. I was in second or third grade at the time of this testing. The only problem I had was how I was able to learn. I had to have a combination of seeing and hearing. Just listening to a teacher lecture didn’t work, I needed visuals. Another argument my parents and the child psychologist had was the fact that I always passed the state mandatory ISTEP testing every year. The only reason the school wanted to label me and put me in the classroom in the basement was because they would get extra money for every student who was in that class. However I was given the IEP that I needed and stayed in regular classes.

  • @ellew4573
    @ellew4573 4 месяца назад +1

    Kudos to the mother!

  • @AprilFriday-de6vm
    @AprilFriday-de6vm 5 месяцев назад +1

    Y’all realize if Project 2025 is brought to life, this child won’t have an IEP because they won’t exist if you dismantle the Department of Education and defund IDEA- right??

  • @patty4349
    @patty4349 5 месяцев назад +4

    Schools can definitely adjourne meetings and reconvene later in order to have an attorney present. This seems to be what the school was trying to do, but they had issues communicating it. If you intend to bring an advocate to the meeting then it is best if you tell the case manager or director of SPED in advance so they can arrange to have their attorney present if this is what the school district requires.

  • @viccruikshank2441
    @viccruikshank2441 5 месяцев назад +1

    When your primary interest is your salary and further promotion, you really don’t care about the people you’re there to help. This principal will just somewhere else and do the same thing.

    • @Luvtahoe
      @Luvtahoe 4 месяца назад

      Sadly, in a Capitalist society, the only thing that is valued is money. I will never vote Republican for this exact reason, and I work in Finance. Money vs morals.

  • @JG-po3ip
    @JG-po3ip 5 месяцев назад +39

    They are proud? The teachers sound like they don’t care.

    • @Jeffrey-c2z
      @Jeffrey-c2z 5 месяцев назад +5

      The district's claim they are proud of their special ed teachers,etc., is a typical cover-up response from a district.

    • @Glum1964
      @Glum1964 5 месяцев назад +2

      Well, I don’t know any specifics of this case, but my wife is a first grade teacher.
      One year she had a special needs child in her class. The mother was a lawyer and a zealot. If her daughter wasn’t keeping up- even with a (taxpayer-funded) nurse/assistant- then my wife was to blame. Yet my wife (a County teacher of the year a few years previous) was spending half her time assisting the nurse with this child.
      Basically the child was severely mentally and physically handicapped. But the mother had bullied and threatened the entire school district to keep her child in a regular class (I don’t know the law on this). My wife also had to work at least 2 hours- sometimes double that- at home in the evenings- on lesson plans, because she was unable to get a break during the day. After 18 years of teaching, my wife was ready to just quit. By November!. Our marriage was affected because of the stress. So I really won’t judge a Principal for quitting. There are two sides to everything.

    • @Faretheewell608
      @Faretheewell608 4 месяца назад

      @@Glum1964that, too is true. I had a student in class who could not read nor write. And I taught an elective course on writing.

  • @MelissaThompson432
    @MelissaThompson432 5 месяцев назад +13

    If I schedule a meeting and the other person brings a lawyer and I wasn't told to expect them, I am definitely rescheduling the meeting so that I also have a lawyer. Not because I think the other party can't be trusted, but because I don't want it to be about what I think. Other people's lives are affected by the choices I make.

  • @Tiffany-Rose
    @Tiffany-Rose 5 месяцев назад +4

    it's Tennessee, is she really surprised? They are doing everything they can NOT to take care of kids in school. I'm glad she stood up for her child and had a rep with her.

    • @itchysheets1222
      @itchysheets1222 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@Tiffany-Rose they don’t look very hard for missing kids either

    • @Tiffany-Rose
      @Tiffany-Rose 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@itchysheets1222 I'm sure they don't. The cops there are just as bad as the government officials. It's sad and infuriating

    • @michellereyn
      @michellereyn 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yep this

    • @katsphere-Isee
      @katsphere-Isee 4 месяца назад +1

      Had I known that the City of Tullahoma doesn't even provide buses or sidewalks, and they can choose not to close down even when most every school around has closed due to weather, I would have bought my house in a different district. Also being in the "bible belt" my grandkids get treated differently because 1 has 2 mothers. Tullahoma is one City you don't want your child at unless you are willing to kiss the school's a$$.

  • @Trund27
    @Trund27 5 месяцев назад +1

    What a coward that principal is.

  • @judithmiller7308
    @judithmiller7308 5 месяцев назад +7

    The mother can file a formal complaint with the US DEPT OF EDUCATION/OFFICE OF CIVIL RIGHTS. DO NOT AGREE TO MEDIATION, LEAVING OPEN the possibility to file a lawsuit.
    I am a longtime parent advocate for students. This situation is all kinds of wrong.

  • @Nopenonuhuh1
    @Nopenonuhuh1 5 месяцев назад +10

    Do they name the advocacy agency? I know a TN family in desperate need of an advocate for their children with disabilities

    • @StAlphonsusHasAPosse
      @StAlphonsusHasAPosse 5 месяцев назад +4

      @CP-xm4gg
      If they know another parent who is knowledgeable about IEPs and is a great advocate for their child, then they can ask that parent to come to the meeting and assist them
      Also
      I think if they look up Educational lawyers or ADA lawyers they might find someone to help

    • @itchysheets1222
      @itchysheets1222 5 месяцев назад +3

      I watch the videos on the RUclips channel called: Special Education Attorney, it was amazingly helpful

  • @Had2Listen
    @Had2Listen 5 месяцев назад

    Those with disability are often the most vulnerable. We all need to stand up for all in need whenever possible

  • @hollandsemum1
    @hollandsemum1 5 месяцев назад +1

    I once substituted in a high school special ed class (different state) and that particular day there were only two girls with Down Syndrome. I was kind of horrified to find that the girls were simply given 'educational' games to play. They were designed for neurotypical preschoolers, and the girls never succeeded at any of the activities, because the didn't understand the subject or the way questions were asked. They did recognize the answer page and would randomly click on answers. So no knowledge being learned and no sense of achievement. The particular level that day was seasons, which the girls clearly didn't understand, or understand that each answer was to match the season name to a season picture. So I asked the teacher if she had a hard copy page showing the seasons and what they looked like. So I spent the time with them explaining just that and guiding them through correctly coloring in the picture for each season.
    It was clearly going to need repetition, but throwing them on standard software that assumes there is already familiarity with a topic and expecting connection and extrapolation in the thinking was appalling and not condusive of learning for the girls.

  • @dawnanewday9671
    @dawnanewday9671 5 месяцев назад +4

    Cancelled a meeting because the principal was unsure about the regulations. Hardly something to get your panties in a wad. I find this entire thing ridiculous. Schedule another meeting with administration involved. Good grief. Doesn't anyone have any brains anymore?

    • @emergencyfood3568
      @emergencyfood3568 5 месяцев назад +4

      Exactly. The amount of knee-jerk, judgmental comments here is ridiculous. It was clearly explained by the assistant superintendent that the principal was allowed, under the IDEA, to decline the meeting, which could simply have been rescheduled. Yet, for some odd reason, that fact is being ignored and people are raking her over the coals.
      It seems they prefer that the principal be dragged against her will to the meeting, chained to a chair that's bolted to the floor, and locked in the room, all because the parents "say so." The lack of impulse control and critical thinking skills displayed by hordes of commenters is an atrocity.

  • @jolynmcteigue8371
    @jolynmcteigue8371 5 месяцев назад +2

    Principal had right to have another school representative there also. Parents seem full of themselves and lacking understanding, IMO. They should have let the principal know ahead of the meeting that they were bringing in a third party with them to the meeting.

  • @minervagalvez5937
    @minervagalvez5937 5 месяцев назад +3

    HOMESCHOOL HER!!! PUT HER IN A PRIVATE SCHOOL!!! NOT THE JOB OF A PUBLIC HIGH SCHOOL TO FOLLOW SUCH SPECIFIC EDUCATIONAL NEEDS TO THE PARENTS SPECIFICATIONS!!!

    • @debsnyder8437
      @debsnyder8437 5 месяцев назад

      @@minervagalvez5937 Got news for you. Most parents don’t have the money for Private Schools, and it’s kind of hard to Home School when you’re working full time to feed and clothe them and keep a roof over their head. According to the law it is the job of the Public Schools to meet that child’s special needs.

    • @ComplexityUnveiled
      @ComplexityUnveiled 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@debsnyder8437 The law was apparently a knee jerk reaction with no thought given as to how to implement it. I'm so glad I'm not a teacher. What a thankless job. Everyone seems to have a ‘special’ circumstance.

    • @minervagalvez5937
      @minervagalvez5937 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@debsnyder8437 MY SISTER WITH DOWN SYNDROME WAS HOMESCHOOLED. SHE EARNED A HS DIPLOMA, HAS HAD HER JOB FOR 5+ YEARS AND IS NOW LIVING INDEPENDENTLY BECAUSE MY MOM KNEW SHE HAD SPECIAL NEEDS THAT NEEDED ONE ONE FOCUS.

  • @edithkreyer6154
    @edithkreyer6154 5 месяцев назад +1

    Got my kids in Williamson Co. schools and one of them with learning issues. While going through IEP they have been wonderful and help my child old the way. Don’t understand why will they refuse to meet when it is done all the time! This case must be unique and should be investigated. Sadly is brings a shadow in the amazing schools and dedicated teachers 😢

  • @ShatteredPulsar
    @ShatteredPulsar 4 месяца назад +1

    This principal is an embarrassment

  • @dhenier4652
    @dhenier4652 5 месяцев назад +9

    The parents should have informed the school they were bringing a lawyer to any meeting. The school was justified in wanting to reschedule to insure the principal had proper legal representation. Principal education does not train you how to avoid seemingly innocent legalese when meeting with a family lawyer. And, in TN, that meeting can be recorded without two party consent and it appears that is what the family did. Advocate can = lawyer, for those who don't know.

    • @TheREALOC1972
      @TheREALOC1972 5 месяцев назад

      Only they don't have to according to the law, The Superientendant should have been there, My cousins wife is the superintendent of our School district and everytime a teacher or principal has a meeting with a parent ther parent teacher conferences, the Teacher, Vice-principal, Principal and the Superintendent are all there and they video tape the meeting and are being told that it's being videotaped, it cuts down on the "He-Said She Sad" shit because, well lets go to the video tape and see what they said and also lawyers tend to not want to be on videotape.

    • @dhenier4652
      @dhenier4652 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@TheREALOC1972 A school system the size of Williamson might have 500-600 parent teacher conferences per school year. Each one lasting 1 to 2 hours. Not sure how a superintendent could be at every single one. As for recording, I'm sure the school would let them know, but that is not sop for most parent teacher conferences. However, the parents don't have to inform anyone, at least not in TN. And while the law does not explicitly require a lot of things doesn't make it ethical. That principal cancelled a meeting so it could be rescheduled because the parents showed up with a lawyer/advocate. There is nothing illegal about rescheduling. The advocate was going to be welcome at the rescheduled meeting along with legal representation for the school system. That is to protect us the common citizens of the district so we don't have to fund unnecessary lawsuits through higher taxes. I believe it's important for taxpayers to be protected too. I don't know the details, if the parents actually have a case, none of us will ever know because those kinds of details are protected by privacy laws for the child involved. What this case highlights is that principal was not prepared by the district in how to handle this situation.

    • @mandawood9756
      @mandawood9756 5 месяцев назад +2

      My son is a principal. He can’t be at every teacher/parent meeting or he’d live at the school and have to clone himself. I do think it’s wise for the principal, the teacher, and someone from the district office to be in scheduled meetings that are for things other than a kid getting low grades or not turning in homework. There needs to be a dedicated conference room and days of the month and times when the meetings can be scheduled and a list of people attending no later than 48 hours before unless it’s an emergency.
      There was a cheating scandal my junior year of high school. Only three parents were called. Two for the ones who started it and one for a friend of the cheaters who didn’t know anything about the test because her mom would have made her life miserable with every chore imaginable and anything else she could come up with. Which was a lot. I was amazed that they even tried. One of the cheaters parent had called and someone in another class saw them with the test and narced.

    • @TheREALOC1972
      @TheREALOC1972 5 месяцев назад

      @@mandawood9756 Being in meetings with parents is a part of a Principals job, the Vice Principal can do whatever the principal was supposed to do while they are in the meeting. There also needs to be a time set aside for meetings, 30 minutes before school and 30 minutes after school, But a Principal should be in EVERY meeting, they are ultimately responsible for every kid, teacher, TA, Sectratary, and janitor in that school. I'm a retired Army 1st sgt and I was in EVERY military related meeting of my soldiers and my soldiers wives ever had without exception because I am ultimately responsible for them and their family while they are under my command, period.

    • @larihileman2806
      @larihileman2806 5 месяцев назад

      An advocate and a lawyer are two different types of representatives. An advocate is not a lawyer.

  • @Amaryllis-4U
    @Amaryllis-4U 5 месяцев назад +8

    I am a retired teacher. Special Ed needs more funding especially for para educators (1:1 aides). I remember in a meeting the discussion was regarding children who had 1:1 aides as part of the needs specified on their IEP. The administrator just kept saying we don’t have the funding so we try to make do. I brought up a case regarding a former student of mine that seemed to be regressing at the next grade level. They were having the custodian help out as a 1:1 aide when he could. I told her this is unacceptable. Granted the custodian is a really nice man, basically the child needs a dedicated regular 1:1 aide familiar with his or her IEP to provide consistent and effective support. The administrator turned to me and haughtily said, “Why do you care so much? You aren’t a principal!” I calmly replied, “With all due respect ma’am - why don’t YOU care?”

    • @abprairiegurl
      @abprairiegurl 5 месяцев назад +1

      My school board does not provide 1:1 EA's. Ultimately I blame the government where I live for not properly funding public education. For not mandating smaller classes. For not providing resources.

  • @BargainBarons
    @BargainBarons 5 месяцев назад

    Disgraceful behavior on the part of school officials whose wages are paid thru public funds. 😖😖

  • @JoeRies-i2t
    @JoeRies-i2t 4 месяца назад +1

    this is a gop problem

  • @sallylamore7443
    @sallylamore7443 5 месяцев назад +1

    I raised a daughter in this system it’s a mtg with all her care plans , there has to be at least 3 of her teachers there like speech therapist, hearing , Ortho and a doctor sometimes ,health will decline . So you reschedule and continue original plans . If she hasn’t had one then that’s a problem . But something is missing in this narrative? Parents are her advocate like Social Workers it won’t come to you , you have to find the help.

  • @thatslife208
    @thatslife208 4 месяца назад

    Great reporting!

  • @minervagalvez5937
    @minervagalvez5937 5 месяцев назад +3

    MY SISTER WITH DOWN SYNDROME WAS HOMESCHOOLED. SHE EARNED A HS DIPLOMA, HAS HAD HER JOB FOR 5+ YEARS AND IS NOW LIVING INDEPENDENTLY BECAUSE MY MOM KNEW SHE HAD SPECIAL NEEDS THAT NEEDED ONE ONE FOCUS.

    • @abprairiegurl
      @abprairiegurl 5 месяцев назад

      Why are you yelling?

    • @gad-hp6xm
      @gad-hp6xm 4 месяца назад +1

      Wow, amazing mother you have!
      Family!

    • @minervagalvez5937
      @minervagalvez5937 4 месяца назад +1

      @@abprairiegurl THIS IS YELLLLLIIIIINNNNNGGGGG!!!!! YELLING!!! AND MORE YELLLLLLLIIIIINNNNGGGGG!!!!!!!

    • @minervagalvez5937
      @minervagalvez5937 4 месяца назад

      @@gad-hp6xm Thank you, we all pitched in to help my sister get her schooling because we loved her and we wanted her to be successful.

  • @JoyPeace-ej2uv
    @JoyPeace-ej2uv 4 месяца назад

    I was a teacher and the parent of a child with an IEP for years. I am appalled at the principal and the district. Move your child elsewhere. even after you win the fight. Unless you win it with more resignations. The control vibes are way too strong, there will be retaliations. My son has an amazing job that pays very well at 40. You are amazing parents to stand with your child. I spent a lot of time with both my kids in their classrooms while I still worked in hospitals. Once I became a teacher I was honored to teach each of them once in a science class.

  • @mamatrain100
    @mamatrain100 5 месяцев назад +3

    There's a lot not being said here. By either party.

  • @mindysuarez1699
    @mindysuarez1699 5 месяцев назад +3

    The superintendent should alo resign

  • @kjdnyhmghfvb
    @kjdnyhmghfvb 5 месяцев назад

    Now it can't "be appropriate under the IDEA," if it "violates the IDEA..." now come on now.

  • @Sophiecjp
    @Sophiecjp 5 месяцев назад +7

    Williamson county is great for “covering things up” they are all about a reputation they do not deserve.

    • @toryknotts8026
      @toryknotts8026 5 месяцев назад

      Oh yes, this isn't new. Trinity Elementary was the worst. Kindergarten, first grade and fifth grade were all hell for me. The level of physical and emotional abuse I went through still has effects on Me almost 20 years later. My parents took it all the way to the school board, and still nothing came from it

  • @junesgemini8586
    @junesgemini8586 5 месяцев назад +2

    The parent can bring who they’d like to the meeting.

  • @Hello-rn4sc
    @Hello-rn4sc 5 месяцев назад +7

    Good she needs to be FIRED, NOT LEFT TO RESIGN, SHE DOES, NOT NEED TO BE AROUND ANY CHILD , END OF STORY !!

  • @Shinyred-921
    @Shinyred-921 5 месяцев назад +2

    The parent absolutely has right to bring in someone on their child’s behalf. Regarding CSE meetings, you do need to inform the chairperson that an advocate will be attending meeting in advance. That way both school district and parent will have representation. If all else fails, then if parent is in disagreement with IEP, it goes to an Impartial Hearing.

  • @wallychambe1587
    @wallychambe1587 4 месяца назад

    Like cops that principal will just move to a different school!🤬🤬🤬

  • @toryknotts8026
    @toryknotts8026 5 месяцев назад +1

    Kinda pissed off that my STORY OF ABUSE in the Williamson county school district didn't get this level of attention or action! 20 years later I'm still messed up.

  • @poorthing
    @poorthing 4 месяца назад +1

    I think its hilarious FOX has a decency guideline that posters have to agree with before leaving comments....
    ARE YOU FOR REAL

  • @wisdomsleuth77777
    @wisdomsleuth77777 5 месяцев назад +2

    I also noticed that there seems to be three missing teenagers over the last couple days is anybody looking into the seemingly overlapping similarity

  • @thefourhorsemen91
    @thefourhorsemen91 3 месяца назад

    Once again, public schools are failing our kids. Disgusting.

  • @elissaanne1953
    @elissaanne1953 4 месяца назад

    What the school did is illegal. Absolutely have a right to have an advocate present.

  • @stephenrioux6821
    @stephenrioux6821 5 месяцев назад +1

    People with Down's are incredibly sweet. It may be a profile, but it's true.
    There is a special place in Hell for those that abuse them.

  • @tiffanymjohnston8052
    @tiffanymjohnston8052 5 месяцев назад +9

    That's crazy! Every single time we ever went to an IEP meeting, we were presented with a booklet of papers stating our rights either before or at the meeting. We were then asked at the meeting if we received the packet and if we felt like we were prevented from bringing a representative or other persons with us to the meeting. I'm glad the principal resigned and that this child might actually get the education she deserves now.

  • @johnlundgren5085
    @johnlundgren5085 5 месяцев назад

    File a Federal civil rights Violations lawsuit against the school for A.D.A Violations in the amount of millions of dollars for STUPIDITY

  • @SueStrech-xi7xf
    @SueStrech-xi7xf 4 месяца назад

    Not only she should be let go but also others responsible

  • @BobbyLoo-jr8ys
    @BobbyLoo-jr8ys 4 месяца назад +1

    SImple, the prinicipal doesn't care and is lazy!

  • @KST-321
    @KST-321 5 месяцев назад

    very common in all public schools in US to ignore the IDEA and IEP laws.

  • @jrmaddog
    @jrmaddog 5 месяцев назад +2

    PROJECT 2025 would end a lot of programs such as IEPs. The book doesn't state that specifically but it would have all federal money just dumped into the states via block grants without any strings attached. So, any current federally funded programs could be dropped if the state so chose. 🤮

    • @RidgeWalker-jw1rr
      @RidgeWalker-jw1rr 5 месяцев назад

      Yes. That is exactly the plan. Remember Kevin McCarthy's bull crap about if a program is worth it, then it should be reauthorized every year? Yeah, that's so that way the Republicans can continue to cut Social programs and education so they can tell their voters black people benefited from slavery. At the end of the Civil war, slavery ended in America was never racist again

  • @mikemorgan5015
    @mikemorgan5015 5 месяцев назад +2

    Looks to me like the Principle felt blind sided by the parents bring representation, recording the meeting, and feared a hit job or simply needed to consult with the district superintendents office on how to proceed with a potentially hostile interaction alone. Seems there is more back story here, as a cancelled meeting under these circumstances looks pretty innocuous to me. Principles aren't politicians. I hope we don't make them become them.
    When one side shows up with tape recorders and backup representation, I think most people would feel like, "Oh, this looks like a lawsuit in the making, we need to reschedule after I consult with the district."
    Her resignation must have been from more than just this cancelled meeting.

    • @abprairiegurl
      @abprairiegurl 5 месяцев назад +1

      Maybe she'd had enough of all the bs.

    • @mikemorgan5015
      @mikemorgan5015 5 месяцев назад

      @@abprairiegurl Very likely, indeed.

  • @StefaniClowdis
    @StefaniClowdis 5 месяцев назад +10

    I think it’s ok to have the advocate, but I AM SURE there’s a back story.

  • @mrsk619
    @mrsk619 5 месяцев назад +2

    My daughter has an IEP.. I am very vocal and strong with my daughters school and IEP case mgr, OT, speech therapist and teacher. I DO NOT play when it comes to my child. I took them to task last school yr cos her teacher wasnt aware of the IEP guidelines and her math was struggling. NOPE.. not ok.

    • @abprairiegurl
      @abprairiegurl 5 месяцев назад

      Of course it must be the teacher. It couldn't possibly be that, despite the teachers best efforts, your child still couldn't learn what was being taught. Your child is not the only child in the class nor can teachers make miracles happen

  • @thea_therian
    @thea_therian 5 месяцев назад +2

    Talk to special ed kids, people you know who had IEPS and they’ll tell you they weren’t used despite being required, special ed teachers will tell you the same thing and yet schools don’t do anything about it and the majority of parents are unbothered…really really frustrating, getting an IEP to begin with is no small task and takes a LOT of effort…only for it not to be honored…. Waste of everyone’s time and money, special ed kids deserve better

  • @erikaamerica4546
    @erikaamerica4546 5 месяцев назад

    Excellent reporting.

  • @FarmerRiddick
    @FarmerRiddick 5 месяцев назад

    Nothing like apathy and government walls of bureaucracy, especially at the local and state levels that we deal with so often.

  • @oneeyeopen5044
    @oneeyeopen5044 4 месяца назад

    Resigned? She should’ve been fired without any questions asked

  • @Polyglot-Thought
    @Polyglot-Thought 4 месяца назад

    Even though it's illegal, violating IEPs are way more common than you think.

  • @Dulcimertunes
    @Dulcimertunes 5 месяцев назад

    This is also the case in central IL.