WHAT IS LOVE - Have We Got It All Wrong?
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- Do we really understand what LOVE is? Could we be mistaken? Do we confuse love with other emotions that are actually selfish in nature? Is love something we can acquire from others, something we can possess, something we can lose? Let's explore this word 'Love' and how we use it, and see if we can deepen our understanding.
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#love #relationships #unconditionallove
Genuine love has no expectations of any kind. Love is not a business! Thank you!
Yes! i love you! no expectations
I'm finding and learning how to love me and I'm getting there. It has taken years. Thank you for this video You cant really love anyone unless you love and learn about yourself. Sad so many of us dont know how to love
i dont know how to love myself. its very sad to me.
@@rickki6 I too was where you are now. In one of my tearful prayers to Spirit I asked it to be shown, to be taught how to love others and myself. I did not love anything much less myself. In time Spirit answered my prayer...be patient, ask to be taught, to be shown How To Love Yourself... loving others will come Namaste
@@deborahbarry9421 thanks for replying . Be well.
That box story you shared at 11:34 is so so big. Eckhart Tolle shares the same story at the begin of The Power of Now. I’ll never forget it.
I appreciate you . Your videos are helping me to finally begin to discover and understand my heart, soul and my thought life. Thank you for sharing this wisdom that you have found along your journey with us... 💖
I am a strong believer of unconditional love . I have loved and lost in life expecting love - but I found solace when I learnt to love unconditionally. One loves the self first and then sees the reflection in the person they love )
Beautiful meditation on love. For a moment Nada seemed to turn into Jesus.
"No reason for Love, No season for Love"...Sai.
Hmmmn. Another good meal of ponderites. Your menu includes a nice variety of Insights and Awarenesses. Very delightful!
My heart is full of love. Your message was so profound. Thank you 💜
Love is a word. It is nothing other than a word.
It is the realization of the non-dual.
I greatly appreciate this message. Your an angel in disguise.👌
I also appreciate this message . Trinidad
Baby don’t hurt me, don’t hurt me... no more 😉
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Had goosebumps while hearing about the beggar story sitting on the box!
Find it easier to understand what love is not your videos are very helpful thank you
Thank you for sharing and motivating.
the ancient greeks had 7 words for love
The unsuspected inner resource!!!
I'm happy I found this posting and your channel too. I liked and subscribed to you.
I am afraid that human love is not unconditional. Love is not always a good thing. It can be a very life damaging emotion.
Two hungry beggars begging each other for a gourmet meal, well said.
There is no one love. The problem is we have multiple concepts and we all use the term love for it, even though they different things. There are so many different types of 'love'. In English it's more confusing since you use 'love' for more things then we do in my native language. Different languages make different distinctions.
Love don’t hurt ❤️
Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more....
Du du du DuDu
I value the message, but just couldn't stop myself 😅
Thank you....
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To me unconditional love always sounds like a lack of self love and self respect. Loving someone that treats you poorly or makes you feel unsafe is a trauma bond, not love. If to love you first must love yourself, unconditional love can not exist if it comes to the detriment of said self love.
/I have been thinking about these things pretty much my whole life. Most of my life I have wanted English to have more than one word ****/`1for love. The Greeks had many for what we use the word love for. We do occasionally have other words that also mean love yet they are all things that fall in the eros category. Christianity because of the NT being written in Greek does go into the others a bit, especially agape (divine/unfathomable/esoteric/love for strangers or enemies). I think all the forms of love, in the Greek sense, are valid and can happen concurrently. We need to learn to separate them. Even I, who knows about the multiple kinds of love, confuse these at times. I think that using that one word in English for such a complex thing has really messed things up. If it can for me who understands these things, it must be really muddled or even opaque for those who don't even consider these issues. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. It actually made me realize that I have embedded that enculturation of love = feeling good. More than I want to admit. You should look into the concept of agape. The Buddhists refer to it as Buddha heart. How we treat all humans and really all living things should be approached with this kind of love. So this means that other loves like eros or philia or storge (the big three) should always be combined with that. To me the ideal for romantic love is philia, eros, and agape. Some pragma eventually is good too, especially for long lasting dedicated and/or live together kinds of relationships. Ludus is helpful but not necessary. That's where my mental journey has been. Lately I've had to use agape to achieve philautia, well strive for. I'm not good at loving myself, yet it is essential if we are going to be able to fully love others. Really philautia without agape leads to narcissism which is why one needs to balance all love with agape, it can lead to unhealthy places mentally and emotionally.
Problem is we use one word for many different things. I believe I've mentioned this on another of your videos and you probably know but for the peanut gallery, the Greeks did a great job at separating the kinds of love. The love you are talking about is mostly agape. Romantic love that will last and good familial love and friendship love will have agape with it.
Love is completely beyond understanding
Seem to be watching lot's of your video's and you are of deep service
Thank You
Gratitude🌼
Thank you very much. Great vidéo ❤️
beautiful video!!!
Beautiful message!!!
Thank you for another profound video ❤️
sick video
What is love? Baby don’t hurt me. Don’t hurt me no more.
Love your content thank you
Thank you. 😌
Blessings
How do you balance l8ve with someone who expects you to give your all but they can pick and use you as they like. I believe i had a narcissistic partner and trying to heal and improve. I was expected/judged to give my all and take emotional scraps (imo)..how do you discern
My giving unconditionally and being used because of it? Insight will be appreciated
What is looking outside is actually inside.
Listen Morty, I hate to break it to you, but what people calls “love” is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, Morty, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. - Rick Sanchez
I guess thats falling in love, another words for for that chemical reaction
There are many types of love....love for your kids,your animals,siblings,parents,friends,mentors,ancestors,nature,a higher power,yourself,spouses,etc. Some would say you havent truly experienced real love in your situation.
That’s lust or sexual attraction I think. The best love I’ve experienced is ‘unconditional positive regard’ in psychotherapy. Very different to sexual attraction.
Aha moment)))
Why do people say they love animals and then eat their bodies? If that’s love I hope those people never love me x
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How very true these words are, we must release the ideas of love
And deal with reality
Why am I so unsatisfied with this idea that I have all the love I need inside me? It just seems so empty to me, bland and boring and lacking.
Not in my case.