@TR3WAY RED PILL GANG I'm single because I'm abstinent waiting on God for a husband. I don't have sex before marriage. I could have been married to my high school sweetheart but I'm waiting on sex and God for a man.
I don't know how I got here, I'm 63 and married over 25 yrs, extremely happy. I feel so scared for people searching for the one. But I enjoyed the video.
@@mimiyi3538 he will want to be in a relationship with you and he won’t string you along. If a man wants to be with you, he’ll take you off the market.
Wow. I spent over 2 years talking to a guy. We even started talking about a future. He seemed so crazy about me. But athe second one, he faded away and less than a month later he was exclusive with another girl. She got in 1 month what I tried to get for a year or longer. 💔 some guys are so messed up.
@@saffylew Well he worked out of state the first year we were talking. Then I got into a bad car wreck so it wasn't til a year ago that we really started talking again. We got sooo close and I ended up falling in love with him and I don't fall easily.... I have no doubt his feelings were genuine and he meant what he said. But he wanted an escape from his home life and this new girl lives closer and has her own place. I live an hour away and live with my mom. But it's been 6 months so I doubt he's coming back. :/ But I wouldn't take him back even if he did.
Hon you are making wayyyy too many excuses for this fool. He doesn't value you. If he did he wouldn't be entertaining some other girl and he would've made it official with you. You deserve so much better. But you need to realise that or you will keep letting people like him degrade and devalue your time and affections.
Narcissist are charming, loving, caring, take you out of the market, they call when they say they will, they are always available for you, 2 looks for thing on narcissist, they go really fast, they love you in the first 2 weeks or month of meeting you, and the honeymoon phase won't last long, they moment you are hooked they will change completely, that's the discard phase and it's when you walk away, never give a narcissist a second chance.
Agreed. I dated a guy and 2 weeks in he wanted to move in and told me he loved me. He got mad when I wouldn't tell him, I'm like I barely even know you!! He was crazy
I’m so sick of women calling everything a man does that they don’t like a NARCISSIST. Being a fuck boy or player doesn’t mean he’s a narcissist! Some men treat you like crap or take advantage of you because you allow him to, not because he’s a narcissist.
I did that and then I totally ghosted the guy, he started blowing me up, after 3 months I decided to contact him, he apologized on how he treated me, wanted another chance, it was too late by then. We are friends though.
@@wiocze89 haha well I the problem is that we are both seafarers and we met on the boat working together, now we work on two different boats that can end up anywhere 🤷🏻♀️ hahah It’s pretty bad situation 😒🙄
What do you mean exactly by "taking you off the market"? My ex bf gave me the feeling I was his gf, but it took me 7 months to realize that it was going nowhere. He wouldn't even introduce me to his family. So how do I know that he really wants me off the market? What are the signs?
I love this video short and sweet. Btw I left my ex lover going on 5 months and now he wants to get closer let’s see if is for all the right reasons.💯💯
I need your guys help!!!!!!!! So I’ve been off and on with my boyfriend since 2014, been thru a lot blah blah we both dated other people but we recently dated and it didn’t work cause there was past stuff coming into play and him not telling me the full truth. We’re hooking up again and now I just am lost I want to give up but I don’t cause I love him, he was my first love and I think we could make it work. What do I do if he hasn’t taken me off the market???? Give him a ultimatum? What would that be? Date me or don’t? I’ve already tried to have the talk to move on and we both left each other alone then he reached out, trying to communicate but I kinda ignored it then I reached out to him and we hooked up and hungout and it was good. I’m lost 😑
I know it is hard because you love him. He's your first love. So hard to let go. I held on for far far far far far too long. The sooner you let go, the better. It's gonna hurt. I know. It will be better to do it sooner than later.
Yes, I agree, but a Narcissist will take you off the market and play this "Future Fake" game too. Beware ladies!!
@@princessannabelle4524 Go to SheRaSeven1 channel. You’ll get real advice. This is a mans world and the double standards aren’t going anywhere.
True! Good advice.
If I don't have a ring I'm still on the market.
Streets* 😂
@TR3WAY RED PILL GANG I'm single because I'm abstinent waiting on God for a husband. I don't have sex before marriage. I could have been married to my high school sweetheart but I'm waiting on sex and God for a man.
Bro ignore the haters , your perspective is dope❤
@@fatimahazahra6664 ♥️
The Christian Psychologer good for you same here.
He asked me to be exclusive on the second date BUT he quickly got lazy about spending time with me... almost immediately. He stopped “chasing”
1.5 months and he is hot and cold. Does not follow through with plans, gaslights....I blocked him.
I don't know how I got here, I'm 63 and married over 25 yrs, extremely happy. I feel so scared for people searching for the one. But I enjoyed the video.
You have no idea what’s it like to be single in this dating era.
“If I guy really likes you he would put himself in the position to lose you!”
What do you mean by that?
@@mimiyi3538 it means that if a guy likes you, he will make sure that you’re his only option.
@@ateensmindvlogs2324 thankies so muches
@@ateensmindvlogs2324 how will l know if I'm the only one?
@@mimiyi3538 he will want to be in a relationship with you and he won’t string you along. If a man wants to be with you, he’ll take you off the market.
Wow. I spent over 2 years talking to a guy. We even started talking about a future. He seemed so crazy about me. But athe second one, he faded away and less than a month later he was exclusive with another girl. She got in 1 month what I tried to get for a year or longer. 💔 some guys are so messed up.
Girl 2 years talking to a guy? That’s where you messed up. On to the next. No allowing guys to waste your time
@@saffylew Well he worked out of state the first year we were talking. Then I got into a bad car wreck so it wasn't til a year ago that we really started talking again. We got sooo close and I ended up falling in love with him and I don't fall easily.... I have no doubt his feelings were genuine and he meant what he said. But he wanted an escape from his home life and this new girl lives closer and has her own place. I live an hour away and live with my mom. But it's been 6 months so I doubt he's coming back. :/ But I wouldn't take him back even if he did.
Sis it wasn’t you it was him! He just needs a place to stay if he locked down a girl in the first month.
Hon you are making wayyyy too many excuses for this fool. He doesn't value you. If he did he wouldn't be entertaining some other girl and he would've made it official with you. You deserve so much better. But you need to realise that or you will keep letting people like him degrade and devalue your time and affections.
You’re so good at what you do
Narcissist are charming, loving, caring, take you out of the market, they call when they say they will, they are always available for you, 2 looks for thing on narcissist, they go really fast, they love you in the first 2 weeks or month of meeting you, and the honeymoon phase won't last long, they moment you are hooked they will change completely, that's the discard phase and it's when you walk away, never give a narcissist a second chance.
FACTS!
That's exactly like my ex did to me.
Agreed. I dated a guy and 2 weeks in he wanted to move in and told me he loved me. He got mad when I wouldn't tell him, I'm like I barely even know you!! He was crazy
I’m so sick of women calling everything a man does that they don’t like a NARCISSIST. Being a fuck boy or player doesn’t mean he’s a narcissist! Some men treat you like crap or take advantage of you because you allow him to, not because he’s a narcissist.
Say it louder for the people in the back! That term is so annoyingly overused.
Speak more about long distance dating / relationships please
So you said “if it’s long distance that’s another story”. Do tell!
No don’t stop the cursing Elliot I like it! 😂 it emphasises your point 😉
Keep on cursing bratha
Can you do a video or post on how tips for online dating profiles? Thank you for all of your amazing videos!
I couldn’t agree more. This is gold. Thanks for the reminder. Love your videos.
You are so welcome!
If he takes you off the market means he lost his market....his heart said “Hell Nooooo” 🤣😁👻
Hi can you do videos on long distance relationship?
I needed to hear this. Thank you so much. ❤
Thank you so much. And peace and love back to you ❤️
So true. Women love security.
Hi Elliot! Great Video and you have yourself a good day. Hope you find the right lady someday.
You just saved me
What does being on the market mean?
*stares in 2 years of talking*
😂
Jeeeez. Dump his ass
I did that and then I totally ghosted the guy, he started blowing me up, after 3 months I decided to contact him, he apologized on how he treated me, wanted another chance, it was too late by then. We are friends though.
Yeah but what if we live in a different country’s!? 😳😏🤷🏻♀️
@@wiocze89 haha well I the problem is that we are both seafarers and we met on the boat working together, now we work on two different boats that can end up anywhere 🤷🏻♀️ hahah It’s pretty bad situation 😒🙄
MOVE ON. FIND SOMEONE LOCAL. WHY ARE YOU LIVING IN DIFFERENT COUNTRIES?
It’s a relationship of 4. Run
Hi Elliot! Are you still doing one on one coaching? I’m in a weird predicament with my ex and could really use your knowledge.
What do you mean exactly by "taking you off the market"? My ex bf gave me the feeling I was his gf, but it took me 7 months to realize that it was going nowhere. He wouldn't even introduce me to his family. So how do I know that he really wants me off the market? What are the signs?
I just love you...🤣you make my day better!!
I love this video short and sweet. Btw I left my ex lover going on 5 months and now he wants to get closer let’s see if is for all the right reasons.💯💯
Thanks for becoming a member today
@@ElliotScottDating lol definitely I been watching you for almost 2 years now I
Don’t usually comment on here tho 👍🏼
How long should you be in long distance relationship before you meet ?
What about long distance relationship when should you meet in person
what if he texts you but doesnt suggest getting back together?
I wouldn't text back as quickly like you used to in a relationship. Give it a couple of days and respond nonchalantly
How long do you think it should be before he takes you off the market? Even if things are moving fast?
I don’t understand why there are single men pursue married women especially if they found out the woman is childless 🤷🏼♀️
Mt favorite ❤
Is it normal if he won’t commit in his 20s? He is very career focused.
So right. No one likes me yet. Lol.
I like you
2 YEARS?
What if y’all have been talking for 7 weeks and you’ve brought up exclusivity?
Then you should either be in a relationship or done talking.
𝙳𝚘𝚗'𝚝 𝚜𝚝𝚘𝚙 𝚌𝚞𝚛𝚜𝚒𝚗𝚐, 𝙸 𝚔𝚗𝚘𝚠 𝙸'𝚖 𝚠𝚑𝚎𝚛𝚎 𝙸 𝚋𝚎𝚕𝚘𝚗𝚐 𝚠𝚑𝚎𝚗 𝚢𝚘𝚞 𝚍𝚘!
I need your guys help!!!!!!!!
So I’ve been off and on with my boyfriend since 2014, been thru a lot blah blah we both dated other people but we recently dated and it didn’t work cause there was past stuff coming into play and him not telling me the full truth.
We’re hooking up again and now I just am lost I want to give up but I don’t cause I love him, he was my first love and I think we could make it work. What do I do if he hasn’t taken me off the market???? Give him a ultimatum? What would that be? Date me or don’t? I’ve already tried to have the talk to move on and we both left each other alone then he reached out, trying to communicate but I kinda ignored it then I reached out to him and we hooked up and hungout and it was good. I’m lost 😑
Any advice or outsiders opinion I’ll take lmao
He just says we will see in the future about dating. He is obviously taking me for granted :/
ultimatum's never work. That's a no no. You will only end up single.
@@hannahlifexo1286 MOVE ON.
I know it is hard because you love him. He's your first love. So hard to let go. I held on for far far far far far too long. The sooner you let go, the better. It's gonna hurt. I know. It will be better to do it sooner than later.
Elliot you are the very best. Why are you single? I’ll take you .
I have a friend that could be a good match for you Mr. Elliot Scott.. If you're looking ?
Sure! IG me
There is no such thing as the right guy
First
you always say the same thing in every video lol
Consistency 👌
agreed lol