Kevin Samuels on Men Fixing Women
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The multi-hyphenate rapper, actor, entrepreneur, family man, philanthropist and activist, Tip “T.I.” Harris is bridging the gap and shedding light on important social topics and much more in an authentic, eyebrow-raising dialogue that might make you want to pull out your dictionary…Expeditiously.
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He’s correct. My husband had to go to work early in the morning. I went to the gym before he went to work. He doesn’t need to motivate me. If something needs to be done. I just get it done.
And that’s why you’re a wife great job goddess 💯
@@tonybaze calm down there buddy ain’t no goddes now y’all give to much credit
@@optic_1235 you’re a God bro she’s a Goddess stop letting the world oppress you
Jesus .lol what is up with the planet ?
What's wrong with motivating someone?
He wasn't afraid to say what most men were thinking .
Big facts
Oh hush. Tommy with a suit lol
@@AZITHEMLGPRO stay mad
As a woman, IM GLAD HE SAID IT. All of it. I admire this MAN. Enough with the bs.
Its not about he's not afraid it's about that he have the iq and intellectuality to phrase it in the most respectable way
I listened to other women's opinion of this man before he passed. After he passed I decided to look him up and see why the hate was so strong. I did myself a complete disservice by using the opinions of others as a justification to not listen. He pulled a few of my cards while I watched his first video but he let me realize that I needed to make some changes and the first was to stop listening to those type of women and find out what my man wanted from me.
This is good 👍🏾💞
Thissss
You three are heading somewhere nice
Profound!
The exact same thing happened to me. Always heard of him and stayed out of all of it because I really don’t like putting BM and BW against each other and the toxicity in the American culture now. I’m not American and I can no longer identify with the values that have creeped into the culture.. after he died I listened to his long form content and yes some stuff is hard to hear but we have to humble ourselves .. I couldn’t disagree with the premise of his arguments at all.
Women have standards & that’s ok men got em too tho don’t complain.
👏👏👏👏👏
True
True but it's not happening
FACTS
As they should… it’s a lot of bum bishes out here looking for hand outs
I’m a Latino men and this dude spoke truths. Rest In Peace Mr. Samuels thanks to his advice I’m living a better and healthier lifestyle. Still working on my life but after listening to his advice I got a new apartment, I’m building my money I’ve lost weight and currently in the gym 5 times a week. My next goal is to get a car.
Bless up brotha
Good luck brother I hope all works out in your favor peace brother!! One Love
Power to you brother
Awesome
Did you get that car yet????
He stood up for a man's side of th' argument....unapologetically!!!
Long live Kevin Samuels.
❤❤
Aww I'm glad you feel heard now brother. Note taken.
I mean, isn't this a case of talking when he could've listened? One of Kevin's favorite questions was "What couple do you look at that has a successful marriage that you consider a goal?" TI and Tiny have managed to have a successful marriage in spite of being in a crazy industry and in the spotlight.
The argument that men are either too cowardly or too incoherent to make.
Exactly, I was just telling my wife this today,, why do I have to motivate you to be your best version of yourself
What? That's not fair, I'm s wife, & your statement is unclear but biased .. what was the conversation about, she didn't just walk up to you & say I need you to motivate me to get better & go sit waiting for you to tell her what to do.. so was she asking for help with something or you weren't listening? Not trying to be rude, just curious since you put the info out there & all.... I think partners need to motivate each other & when one is slacking both are, when one is going through something both are, so what was the conversation about that you told her this? Again no disrespect just curious
I agree! You are responsible for yourself & your own happiness as well. With or without a relationship.
You don't have to be her only motivation but I think you should definitely play your part
Because everyone isn’t the same when your type a your more practical with the construct of time and time management a type be person may paint all night sleep all day but the painting is worth thousands… I’m said type b person
Trying to get this dude to gym
Is like pulling teeth
3 pak cig day
Oh well
KS helped elevate my consciousness. Too many women want a man to motivate & improve them. That "take me as I am" mantra is proof some women prefer mediocrity. Avoid anyone that says that.
Good for you at least you don't wait for anybody to motivate you that's a blessing right there like you said I agree some women just want to think average and be common. 🤔🤔
Take me as I am can have different meanings. I say take me as I am meaning: I'm always on a path to better myself. I will never be satisfied because there is always room for improvement. Take me as I am meaning ...Take me at this stage in MY journey....already in process. Don't expect perfection.
agree wholeheartedly, for me personally any individual that has that, downtrotten attitude ,im surely gone have very shallow dealings with em.🤔🤔🤔
I think woman who are looking for men to fix them do because they aloud men to break them. 🤔
@@TrashellCrawford maybe. But like many (including Kevin) said. Heal first. Or you’re just gonna repeat the same mistakes
It took me 10 years after being married to finally shore up the courage to tell my housewife to stop dressing up like a homeless person and try to look good for me. Now she works out and wears makeup for me and she's no longer rude to me. Makes me feel so motivated to work even harder for her.
I’ve been married for 4 years and I just had this convo with my wife and it changed everything. Almost like we dating again. We dating for 5 years before we got married and it was totally different.
excellent
Make up naa
omg sad why women allow sich toxicity god was watching oh the demeaning this guy had his own secret demons know some similar he had hidden demons
@@patriciamorrison187 how old are you? Dress size? How many kids? 🧐
This dude was a truthful speaker. That is why I really used to have a huge respect for him. Rest in Power, brother.
A bullshit speaker. Anyone that stuck on his word are suckers
Used to? Still do!
Apparently he had to do your thinking for you. Y'all are a trip.
@@geoffreyballard631 that’s not how it works. Stop being negative. Fruitful information is just that. If u can pick up some of the things he speak on and apply it it’s cool. It’s not that serious.
So your looking up to a dead beat dad!! So he telling women that he shouldn't have to motivate a women but his lazy self didn't take care of his one child. That's nothing that you should repeat.
We’re going to miss you Mr Samuels. RIP
🙏🏾🖤🎉💯👑🤘🏾
We already miss him
The 🐐
Appreciate his motivation
His problem was he wanted women to overseers but it don't work like that
"...when you know that's what I want in the 1st place. " Makes sense to me.
Makes sense PERIOD
R.I.P The Godfather🕊💙, Much Love from Latin America🇲🇽
Wow I didn’t know the brother message reached that far
Im from philippines
To Brazil I go 🇺🇲🇧🇷
This guy was what the black community was missing
And he got the most resistance from black women.
@@marqueshayes2273 Amen to that 🙏
Nah man, this guy is what every every community needed
Lies
@@l.daniels why you mad
Nothing beats his lessons on Men’s HYGIENE.
Mr Samuels dropped bombs 💣 of truth and some of these women just couldn’t handle it which is why they hate him. Rest well 👑🙏🏾
But, they lined up 3-4 times a week to call in. I loved the SMOKE SHOWS. The Godfather was UNDEFEATED. DON'T TALK OVER ME! CLASSIC.
Black men all over rise in all Alpha forms. KS planted the seed and started the conversation. Let’s finish it. Long live Godfather
✊🏾
yes but drop the alpha bs
@@AzThaBeast u are the half and half dude right? Lol
@Scents w/Cedric you are right and we keep yall in line to pay all the bills like kevin said!
@Alexander uumm no..ATUM ATOM ADAM
I miss this man. He speaks nothing but truth
Shhhheeeew!!! This guy alway’s hitten “ GOD REST “
More reasons to why I know they offed that guy. Conversation to make things mature and sensible. They wanted to dumb people down but he didn't.
@@rahksayeed4837 y'all conspiracy 👀
Strange how people like Martin Luther King or MalcolmX die young guys they are congenient, nowadays it's so obvious so it has to be done as a heart attack or an accident or some made up health excuse, Kevin Samuels spoke too much truth and was growing too fast so he needed to go. Guys like TI are put there to promote the anti-Male mentality that plagues the community and prevalent in more communities now. Kevin Samuels came to smash those ideas to dust
Learned lots from this gentleman. Rest In Peace
Amen. This is why I rarely date and yet get criticized for it. At first I thought my friends felt sorry for me, now I realize they are jealous because when I tell them I already attract high quality women but can't keep them interested because I'm not making enough money to be on their level and in their social circle I would rather wait to do better for myself no matter the cost and enjoy the whole experience then be some guy making promised of how I will improve myself. I'm more than happy to step up my game and then go after better women because they do exist and I know I attract some of them. Not easy to say of do but worth it. You better believe belief in this regard, offends people...lazy people.
👏👏👏🔥 This is the way bro! I'm in the same place as you figuratively. Keep climbing my bother! 💙😁🔥 I'll see you at the top! 💪
If the better quality girls that you are attracting are gold diggers and care more about money, social status than who they are and what they are doing in this life, maybe you should rethink what you consider quality.
I said the same and got there and you look at what you get for all that grinding and realize it's not worth the risk of losing it all.
Exactly
@@apriltherealmccoy8414 gold digger and having a standard is not the same reread what he said
One of the realist things I've heard! 🔥
That’s sad.
Damn straight!!!!
@@cwillie1492 and you being mad is sad! Oh well!
Damn, I'm gonna miss him. RIP.
Thank you Kevin, for saying what I couldn’t say.
RIP MAY YOU REST WELL!
In hell
The planet was never the same since he came and will never be the same again since he left 🙏💕🎶💯 #SALUTE The Godfathuh!
Is he Christ or something?,save my soul,my life I'll handle
@@othamiller4615 No he is not Jesus but you do know there were many Christs, right?
Respect to you for understanding what he was trying to do 🙌
Hey I'm a man, I've worked over a 100 hours and I never asky lady to do anything,I am blessed enough to do things myself,i worked in climate weather conditions and more,and come home and take care of my responsibilities at homes,I never complained It's really an honor, These amazing days,be blessed everyday!enjoy😊
I NEED TO SEE THE COMMENTS ON THIS ONE
Kevin was my alter ego every time my girl piss me off 🤣🤣🤣💪🏾 rip
Lol
Lol 😆 🤣 😂 automatic switch
Miss him so much!! 😢
Facts. Goodbye Kevin samuels
This man was essential
Very vital!!
Yes, essentially coddled for far too damn long!! It's something seriously wrong with our ppl.. Both sexes!! The Willie Lynch concept sure did work numbers on us.. We're the ONLY race that has such a disdain for our woman, no other race, and we're the only race that refuse to come together collectively because of ego, we got coons, etc.. Like the late and great, Mr. Dick Gregory, said : "Black ppl we're far too late!!"
And this is why they killed him. It was the fact that he had the ability to lead.
The man was a fake therapist.He was an image consultant pretending to be a therapist. Very comical and sad.
@@kennethwilliams8240 who would waste time on this poor excuse of a man.
The system has taught/program Alot of Yall to be sensitive towards the truth. RIP👑Unc Samuels
Socially engineered to be woke and a snowflake on top of that LOL
So why didn't he blow up when he was just directing his message towards men? If you truly valued his message, why didn't you spread the word then? Why wait until he's addressing women? Maybe men don't like to be corrected either smh.
The truth shall set you free.
Kevin Samuels is a GENIUS 🤷🏿♂️💪🏿💜🤞🏿
I’m still trying to figure out wtf did he say wrong, why so many felt he was mean and cruel when he was just saying look this is what it is slim? RIP KS….❤️
His bullshit did not contemplate a situation where the woman out earns the man. If you don’t think a man should motivate his wife or woman, then the woman should have no problems leaving the man when he’s no longer of any use to her.
KS is a great pimp instructor. He knows nothing about marital or romantic relationships.
Shooting the messenger
Black women in general don’t take criticism or critique very well. Also, Black women have been conditioned to reject any constructive criticism or direction from black male authority. Conversely, they have been taught that white Zaddy has the answers for everything. ANY QUESTIONS?
They want scammers & rappers disrespecting them thats why
@@tonybaze you aint never lie
SPIT IT..... AND this is why Vivica was mad bc he was preaching and preaching to her and women like her
Hit dogs 🐶 will holla......🤣
Many black men couldn’t reach her level anyway, financially.
@@ladyj5682 Is there an explanation for why the men on her level don't want her?
@@mariodouglas7591 Is there an explanation why 50 cents (her ex) hasn't found true love either.
They're broken people, and money n fame won't cover up for that, it's a soul condition.
Where's 50s wife? Arm candy n part time girlfriends are excluded
@@shaunimarie730 I'm gonna have to slightly disagree with you on that due to the fact that 50 has been in a relationship for quite a while now with a younger, more attractive and less bitter sister.
His honesty is still very much needed and appreciated ❤️ #RIP
When a man dies, his words become more clearer
Unfortunately this is true
How do a dead man's words become more clear? He is dead. He is not talking. Hello?
@@mlb556 People fear what they don't understand and hate what they conquer Nas= Hate Me Now.
I am glad that I understood him and gave him 🌹 on
IG Viewer truly will be missed.
@@mlb556 You are too slow 🐌 to catch on, it means when a wise and intelligent man dies, people tends to appreciate his messages, because they can see and feel the manifestation of his messages, in other words, his words lives on, even after he's dead.
Truth has been spoken.
I'm so sorry for his passing and I hope, I sincerely hope that one of these young fellows stand up and pick this torch.
This man right here. He opened the eyes of many. R.I.P
Being proactive and not reactive in a relationship goes both ways
Facts.. you want a finished product
Undefeated
Women think they're entitled. That's what it comes down to. Their man is expected to provide okay.. do your part girls. It's a small part
YESSS! They are super entitled , you could be living your best life and she feel entitle to BE ,ACT,SMELL like slobs
Pretty much brother
Women don’t even know what their part is. But the know what men should do.
Women gonna be gunning for u, LoL
I was about to elaborate specifically to your comment but you know what... it's not even worth it. Your level of thinking is small. Maybe it applies to the type women you used to...that you choose.
I didn't always agree with him, but he was honest and mostly spot on. This is one of those spot on moments.
Where is he wrong at tho…. Nowhere! KS Spitting facts💯
Only the delusional ones couldn’t see his message
Loved this brother. I need to watch this whole interview.
It was good talking, t.i didn't understand some things but Kevin put it out there 👏
So simple .. TI got put in his Simp place without being rude or a call out !! I miss Kevin so much !! A man’s Man !!
Facts, the majority of the women who called into his show wanted unconditional love from the man all the while giving conditional love and that's not always how it works.
Nah thts not how it works period
@@richardclarke8323 fuck no
Where is the lie 🔥🔥🙏🏾🙏🏾
Ain one 💯
Yes.. GOD BLESS MR SAMUELS. He is Expressing the absolute TRUTH. Thank you❤️
He’s right & not only that women don’t wanna do it. I had a woman tell me women aren’t “rehabilitation centers for men” so why should we have to “take you as you are” do better the same way you ask us to.
I’ve NEVER need any man to motivate me to do anything. I’ve always been motivated to do what I need to do
It's about you being motivated to do what HE needs/wants you to do. That's the difference.
Always one sided. Always about the men needs.
@@7475thomasHas to be reciprocated tho
Astounding!
👏
Kevin Samuels!
Damn, I miss this good brotha.
Say that again 😔
Me too
He was bringing cool back
Facts
tell me where he's wrong. An influential man taken to soon once his influence and reach began to change some minds for the better.
They can never tell you that he was wrong only that they didn’t like his delivery
@@basilwaheed6055 You are correct. Kevin Samuels was a master manipulator in the truest sense of the word. Men are currently dealing with challenges identical to those he discussed with women. Men and women, on the other hand, face different challenges, and neither is superior to the other. The world would be a better place if men and women spent more time understanding one other's challenges.
@@cslaton921 I wish I could like this a thousand times
@@cslaton921 what I'm seeing today is men are willing to understand but most women are too busy trying to compete and show everybody how much of a man they can be just because they're making their own money now. The further away we get away from our natural roles the worst it's gone get.
SIH Mr. Samuels your words will continue to live on.💐
RIP Kevin Samuels, you are definitely missed 🥹
THE GOAT 🐐 THE REAL LEGEND, A REAL
BIG SPEAKER.
Kevin was so amazing!! Thank you my brother for all you’ve done for men.
Absolutely, I’m expected to work to get what I want and work just as hard to get and keep the woman I want. Why can’t a woman? Lose the weight stop getting BBLs
What is “BBL”?
@@adolforobles1346 Brazilian butt lift.
And wear they're natural hair
Seems all men are just asking for one common thing - lose the damn weight 🤷
Dude they need to bring more than their body. Losing weight is the bare minimum
Our big brother 😂 was a straight shooter ✅
Glad we are able to still see his videos till this day. Thank you kevin foe expressing how most of use felt for so many years. You are truely missed r.i.p 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Time and time again the community misses the opportunity to learn from the real teachers/leaders and follow their philosophy.
We missed it again with this guy. We deserve every bad outcomes
He's right. No one would buy a used car when they can get a new one for the same price (usually less) as time effort frustration etc = time = money
Lol, wife thought I was watching a fight when I went “wooooooo”
Whoooww!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
All Hail 👑 Samuels
I wish u a peaceful journey KS and so much true of life u spoke
Kevin brought sense back to the world..when everyone was tolerating being average and making it a norm. RIP to this man. He was a powerful figure. Still is...and his message will be forever relevant.
This brother has always been so on point rip Kevin Samuels we miss you
"DAMN!" 🤓🤓🤓
I remember telling my daughters some of these things and getting push backs, years later they came back and told me I was right all along, the problem was being married to a woman who told them the opposite of my message, of course they would side with the "easier" parent, but it was good to hear they agreed, the difference is that now one of my daughter is a parent, they see now the advices I gave them was old school, but old values are timeless, there is a reason our grandparents were raised right.
Nothing but facts 💯
I learned a lot from him. Thank you Samuel...R.I.P
No what's missing from this is love and compassion. Saying you don't have time of any sort means you don't love/have patience or compassion. Motivation means to uplift. To say "when you know that's what I want in the first place" says I don't care about you its all about me. That such a selfish form of understanding. When you love, you have compassion and uplift. No matter the time. It's just like faith..all you need is the amount of a mustard seed. If you can't even give that to a person that you say you love especially if you feel that they are "lacking" in??? then you've got way more growth in understanding to go.
So should that man stop working and providing to coddle his wife?
@@nunyabizness9544 how does compassion and uplifting one another equate to discontinuing your job? I think you missed the understanding in love that was given here. I didn't know words of encouragement or gestures of endearments towards motivation are considered "coddling" your wife??🤔😬 Just like these words were once said..."a grown male generally looks to be serviced..when a MAN looks to be OF SERVICE" ...
So when a person truly loves..uplifting your significant other and encouraging them would never be considered as coddling especially if you see and are aware in your relationship that they need it..i mean why would you let them starve love works no ill remember/isn't spiteful.... from both of you🙏❤
Kevin saved my marriage. Thank Mr. Samuels. I will never divorce my wife, and I hope I made her feel the same.
Wow yes 💗👏🏾
How did he save your marriage?
There are times where motivation is good, the key is you both must be happy with yourself for the relationship to grow. Ijs
Miss Kevin. So straight in his communication.
With love: I’ve heard women say they don’t want another child to take care of when they see a man who won’t self-motivate and have the discipline to be the provider he needs to be. Well the same is true that men don’t want to have another child that they have to motivate and discipline when they see a woman who won’t take responsibility for her fitness and health. Giving an adult support and encouragement is good and should be done, but to constantly drag someone into doing what should be automatic is an entirely different thing.
Man I miss him so 😔
UNDEFEATED💯
PREACH!
He's absolutely correct.👏🏾
Facts.
Love him or hate him he NEVER lied once💯
Are u for real?
Never once?
I like Kevin but I guess someone exposed him for lying about his degree. Which still doesn’t matter because that’s not relevant to what he was saying.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
No words! GoAT !
He's my favorite person on RUclips, because he's true on everything he says and women don't like the truth they like getting their way
A Bentley is a depreciating asset.
I’m sorry but I ain’t never seen T.I. So silent! 😂 I know they cut the clip but still ❤
Facts! No matter what you think. He’s right on this one.
Lls..... HILARIOUSLY PATHETIC THAT WE EVEN NEEDED THIS MAN.... POLITICS HAVE BECOME REALITY
I mean
Guys do it all the time
Especially with OLD classics.
You know ..the ones worth it..with unseen value ..
TI point. Appearances versus true value
@@ladyj5682 alot of older cars have more value than these newer ones.
Been thinking like that from day 1! Kevin is just reiterating for me!
Real spill 101
A females perspective. The title of this video is very misleading. Kevin Samuels is not teaching men to fix women at all. Get out of your feelings and take the truth for what it is. Watch this in it's entirety. It was amazing and eye opening even for T.I.
The title is "Kevin Samuels on men fixing women". The title is misleading only to those who make the assumption on what his opinion is in regards to men fixing women. I'm not sure if the title was intended to mislead.
If women can have standards. So can men that’s what he’s saying
@@jkkennedy8919 I agree with Kevin Samuels. My response was for the women who did not understand what KS was talking about and was talking trash in the comments..
@@blessedbetit665 I agree with Kevin Samuels. I'm was addressing the women who didn't understand and was talking trash about KS in the comments.
I respect TI bc he never backed down for how he viewed things either. This man isn’t a god
This was said perfectly. We want our women to understand this simple process!
You are right Mr. Kelvin Samuels. Women just could not accept your frankness. Women get it together.
Said your piece... Left the stage as a G
Straight facts 💯
I Told My Old Friends That & Now We Aint Cool Anymore. If We Want A Full Package We Need To Be The Full Package If We Dont Wanna Work Through The Men’s Problems Make Sure You Aint Got Problems Of Ya Own