Needy Men, Maybe Dates & Women Who Are Confused

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  • Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
  • Why acting needy leads to women being confused and maybe dates instead of hell yeah to dates.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss 2 different emails from 2 different viewers. The 1st email is from a viewer who expressed a lack of confidence when setting the 2nd date and she ghosted him, and then later said he was a hard maybe instead of a hell yeah for a date when he double texted her. The 2nd email is from a guy who hasn’t read 3% Man. He acted needy with a woman he was hooking up with a few years ago and got blown off. She got serious with another guy, but recently came back 2 years later after he cheated on her. Now he’s acting needy again after a few more months of dating, hasn’t read the book, is cherry picking videos, but claims he usually doesn’t have a problem with women. However, he asks what he should do because she doesn’t reach out and doesn’t show much interest in him. She admits that she is still hung up on her ex.
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Комментарии • 98

  • @mangoelvis1032
    @mangoelvis1032 Год назад +35

    “Im not a stalker” is probably one of the WORST things you can say to a woman. What she hears is “I AM a stalker!”

  • @terrodar19
    @terrodar19 Год назад +47

    One thing i truly know…. Is that the VAST majority of women have no idea what they truly want

    • @iddicted
      @iddicted Год назад +8

      They want money thats for sure. Maybe they won't admit it directly but they want what it brings. This i know 100% of the time

    • @terrodar19
      @terrodar19 Год назад +4

      @@iddicted so my ex wife is now dating a bum that makes a lot less than me… she cant even sustain herself with my child support and shes feeling it. I keep making fun of her ‘bf’ that he should help her pay the bills lol. i cant pay for the cow if im getting none of the milk

    • @Gamechanger100vibe
      @Gamechanger100vibe Год назад +2

      @@terrodar19 She might be dating him because the rich guys she wants doesn’t want her back. I suggest that respectfully.

  • @steve1714
    @steve1714 Год назад +15

    Learning the book doesn’t teach you emotional self control, but it gives you abundance with woman, which stops you being needy

    • @couchmayne4351
      @couchmayne4351 10 месяцев назад

      That’s cool af getting through my first read right now

  • @gersoncruz4570
    @gersoncruz4570 Год назад +16

    Corey, your book mastering yourself just came in the mail 🙌🏼 excited to read it

    • @danrodgers2742
      @danrodgers2742 Год назад +1

      I read it twice! That book is incredible!

    • @gersoncruz4570
      @gersoncruz4570 Год назад +2

      @@danrodgers2742 when I moved to Boston last year I bought the first book and went on countless dates, learned and got better. My dates always end up going great now. However, I think I’m past the dating lifestyle and want to focus on self improving myself. Definitely something I’m looking forward too. Not even interested in talking to girls anymore haha

    • @danrodgers2742
      @danrodgers2742 Год назад +2

      ​@@gersoncruz4570 I used to be the creepy guy that would beg girls for attention and I dug into 3% man and made a ridiculous number of mistakes but was committed to becoming a 3% man and I met my now wife about 4 years ago and we have had an absolute blast!

  • @REAGAN_1980
    @REAGAN_1980 Год назад +11

    Love when coach does the "girl" voice! 😅 you rock. I'm a midwestern girl and hope i can meet a man who has graduated from your school. ❤

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe Год назад +1

      @@GuitarJoe316
      Ohh man. Coach’s robot will be back. 😂

    • @hamza1517
      @hamza1517 Год назад

      Nice to hear from you. I would love to see you! When u r free to get together?

    • @ClassicShortChronicles
      @ClassicShortChronicles Год назад

      I’m Curious…How did You Find Corey’s Work?

  • @lee7561
    @lee7561 Год назад +9

    great video as always.i used to make those mistakes,but read your book 4 times and getting a lot more women now.only 10 more times to read your book

    • @pengy5340
      @pengy5340 Год назад

      Corey’s great for fundamental mindset and relationship management. There is other materials out there too yano bro

  • @yzwoody
    @yzwoody Год назад +18

    It was my email. She didn’t end it with because you’re a little boy. Good god man. She also told me my response was perfect. Now she’s liking pics of me racing on social media. Won’t be reaching out though. Still appreciate your honest feedback.

    • @yzwoody
      @yzwoody Год назад +4

      @@0ccam5Raz0r true. No chance of me reaching out. I have other options. But I did like this one. Which causes my screw ups.

    • @yzwoody
      @yzwoody Год назад +6

      @@ronnywouters7037 I get plenty of interest and attention. My problem is when it’s a really hot one that checks most of the boxes. I lose my cool and everything I think I’ve learned goes flying out the window. Lol. Still a work in progress lol

    • @buzzcountry1178
      @buzzcountry1178 Год назад

      Its not a insult...Corey is trying to help you.

    • @yzwoody
      @yzwoody Год назад

      @@buzzcountry1178 didn’t take it as one.

    • @theguenterFB
      @theguenterFB Год назад +1

      @@yzwoody the losing your cool thing isn’t a big problem when you date a girl which thinks highly of your character. Just get back on track fast, so her attraction won’t drop. Try flipping the script in your head so you ask yourself while beeing on a date with her, if she is as good of a person for you as you are for her. It gives you chill and more swagger 🫡 dating a few more hot women simultaneously helps too I guess haha

  • @chrisfreund1524
    @chrisfreund1524 Год назад +1

    I actually listen to the Audiobook myself but I listen over and over again and when I'm not doing much so I can really have the information sync in. So yeah Corey's got a point, don't just put it as background noise, its like don't read distracted as well. Really acknowledge it and pause and reflect

  • @joaofelish
    @joaofelish Год назад +8

    Ain‘t no way he read the book 15 times and double texted🤣

  • @REAGAN_1980
    @REAGAN_1980 Год назад +7

    Love the "confidence and competence" idea. I live by that statement. Also did you know that the John Paul Jones symbol (zeppelin) means confidence and competence? I'm a chick and have that symbol tattooed on my arm that's how important those qualities are to me. Love your shows, coach!

  • @BloodyHeck
    @BloodyHeck Год назад +3

    I agree where he mentions that money and looks might get your foot in the door, but if you don’t have anything more than that, it won’t last. The problem is that most men don’t have the money, looks, (or height), to even get their foot in the door.

    • @ClassicShortChronicles
      @ClassicShortChronicles Год назад

      It’s How You Carry Yourself

    • @BloodyHeck
      @BloodyHeck Год назад

      @@ClassicShortChronicles Yes, I know, be a bad boy. Sorry but I've had enough experience with them to know I don't want to be one of them.

  • @OakJex
    @OakJex 3 месяца назад +1

    The 3% book won’t get you a date… attraction Isn’t a choice… the book teaches you how to not talk her out of liking you

  • @manup999
    @manup999 Год назад +3

    That girl voice impression cracks me up always 😂😂😂

  • @CurryCurves
    @CurryCurves Год назад +2

    Coach, after reading your book so many times I feel I m gonna end up calling every girl Jessica! 😂😅

  • @imperialmusicentertainment9581
    @imperialmusicentertainment9581 6 месяцев назад +1

    If she ignore you or wont give you play give them the big FU and keep it moving

  • @topdog5252
    @topdog5252 Год назад +1

    It’s great to correct a mistake. So I listened to the audiobook once and I wasn’t doing anything else most of the time so I was focussed but now I will only listen as I read the ebook on my phone at the same time.

  • @ethanarabia116
    @ethanarabia116 Год назад +3

    Can't win for losing lol. We read the book ten to fifteen times and then it's we didn't really listen lmao. I took notes! Well you didn't really write down everything you could've. Lmao

  • @TheADRIANOVALENTINO
    @TheADRIANOVALENTINO Год назад +2

    Fuck its funny when Corey impersonates a robot and the chicks reactions with sarcasm..🤣🤣🤣

  • @supersaiyangrl3
    @supersaiyangrl3 Год назад +2

    Ok if you are going to listen to audio. Don't just have it in the background when you are busy. Sit down with a note, over a coffee or whatever and actively listen and take nits as you listen. I did this and worked like a dream💪🏿

  • @earthpart3
    @earthpart3 Год назад +2

    "i'm not ghosting you at all!" lol, yeah ok. do people really believe that?

  • @shaharmoskovich4794
    @shaharmoskovich4794 4 месяца назад

    "Let the roasting begin"😂❤

  • @anthonyjacksonjr4812
    @anthonyjacksonjr4812 Год назад +1

    Good advice, Coach. 👌🏾

  • @bobwils10
    @bobwils10 Год назад +2

    You gain more knowledge by reading how to be a 3% man or any book 10-15 times while focusing only on reading and taking notes.

  • @themanman165
    @themanman165 Год назад +1

    Cory is on one today boy😂

  • @jacobkennedy6127
    @jacobkennedy6127 Год назад +1

    If it isn't reciprocated, it isn't worth it. I let little girls go play games with little boys, it's not my problem.

  • @yzwoody
    @yzwoody 3 месяца назад

    Update. Showed up at our show last night. Super attentive. Made out again. She messaged later saying she wished the kissing lasted longer. lol. We will see how it goes. Too many options to worry about it. Too busy trying o focus on just her.

  • @jameszbierski391
    @jameszbierski391 Год назад

    Cracks me up when you impersonate the chicks 😂👍🏻

  • @VoiceOfThe
    @VoiceOfThe Год назад +1

    Welcome pitch change to the girl voice, Coach.
    Good job, dude.

  • @alammendung
    @alammendung Год назад +3

    If you dissagree then u blame Corey, that is the sign that you are a weak man. Real man can take what advice he believe and didn't take what advice he not believe, without blame the coach. And I often see some people walk around to all comments and said something bad about Coach only for seeking approval. Did you think seeking approval is confident and masculine? Haha.
    To be honest, many of red pill guy (not all) are bitter and desperate man who never want to learn. They have strong victim mentality. And many red pill content creator (not all) very like to show their muscle and talk bad about woman. Muscle is good for a man, but they also forget, attitude is one of many important thing you should have as man.
    Thanks, Coach Corey Wayne

  • @ruelfunelas9389
    @ruelfunelas9389 Год назад +1

    Coach!…ur savage!!👏👏

  • @howtosnatch
    @howtosnatch 6 месяцев назад

    19:00 straight roasting lol

  • @KUFanFromNJ
    @KUFanFromNJ Год назад +3

    Corey do you think he went wrong with a baseball game as a first date? I do - it's almost like a movie. There's no interaction. You're both just looking at the field

  • @brodywooddell1904
    @brodywooddell1904 Год назад +2

    Would loe to see you speak on having a relationship with highly coveted and visible women. Also known as woman who have to put themselves out there for their jobs. For example strippers and models. Not how to get with them, but what is different when actually seeing them regularly. I have read the book once.

  • @roscobear6143
    @roscobear6143 Год назад +1

    @ 27:27 I'm dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bennyjohnson9427
    @bennyjohnson9427 Год назад

    The subconscious mind picks up information way more than the conscious mind. So I'm questioning why he's saying that listening to it as background noise won't work. All this info is more powerful coming from within instead of robotically trying to do it. Listen to it 15 times while awake and while asleep

  • @rynojohnson6084
    @rynojohnson6084 4 месяца назад

    I asked my ex on a date, and she said we'll see and maybe, I told her she sounded unsure and ro let me know when she's availbe, and she for mad that I said that.. what do I do?

  • @femijoel5010
    @femijoel5010 3 месяца назад

    So I met a lady yesterday on a date, it was nice, we had lots of laugh and she said she’s interested in a relationship when i asked her about what she wants at the moment, but after the date when I asked if she wanted a second date, she said maybe with a smile, I know ladies tend to play mind games as well but I wanted to know what that meant? I gave her a hug and a peck on the cheek and we went our separate ways
    What does that actually mean? “Maybe” after the date went pretty well?

  • @LulaRoberts
    @LulaRoberts Год назад +1

    There is a lot of videl information in this one.

  • @ryanj357
    @ryanj357 Год назад +1

    The fact that this guy can't tell the difference between hooking up and kissing when he's in his 50's is disturbing. I can see how this chick picked up on his energy.

    • @yzwoody
      @yzwoody Год назад

      Several times he said himself that kissing was a form of hooking up at the end of a date. I’m in a band with several options so I know the difference. I was just going off of what he has said on more than one occasion. Personally I consider hooking up pants off dance off.

    • @ryanj357
      @ryanj357 Год назад

      @@yzwoody I don't think Corey ever said kissing was a form of hooking up lol

    • @yzwoody
      @yzwoody Год назад

      @@ryanj357 yeah he did. I remember thinking it was odd but it happened.

  • @jerkface38
    @jerkface38 Год назад

    Hey Corey, I usually don't watch content like this but I believe I messed up with a girl at work or perhaps she just lost attraction and decided I'm not for her. I sent her more messages than I wanted to afterwards. Looking back I know it's on me. She works at one of the stores in a shopping center I work at. She actually approached me a couple times before i got her number. We were supposed to go out last Monday but i didn’t set the place to meet. She ended up telling me she could meet me about 20 mins after our meet time. I saw the text 30 mins later and responded that i was almost finished with what i was doing. It was a rough week for me honestly and i didnt get much sleep the night before. So how can I recover from this or is this toast? I sent her a "hey" text the other day and today i sent her asking if she'd like to try again. I saw her at work today and we were cordial and short with eachother. I have nothing against her and tbh i wouldn't have messaged her today if i thought it was error on her part. But at the same time i wish i didn’t. If you see this let me know your thoughts. Right now im just chalking it up to bad logistics on my part that probably turned her off but there could be another guy now. She's really attractive imo

  • @martinmayfield1932
    @martinmayfield1932 Год назад

    I would assume she’s not that into me. And that’s find. Next

  • @RespectMyAuthoritha
    @RespectMyAuthoritha Год назад +1

    How come you dont have a wife and kid/s ?

    • @jerkface38
      @jerkface38 Год назад +1

      Marriage is a scam but we don't know if he has kids or not

    • @jerkface38
      @jerkface38 Год назад

      Okay so it turns out he does not have kids as per his own video and he is divorced as he said he doesn't plan to get married again. So that's probably why he isn't married and doesn't have kids

  • @mncskateboardsofficial
    @mncskateboardsofficial Год назад

    I have a girl I was doing chase she left she came back now she's chasing me we went on dated everything was good then I saw her instagram her wishing someone happy bday 3 hearts then I saw he sent her hearts on fee things I texted her screen shots she went crazy I kept my cool no longer chasing she's been calling texting and I've been avoiding her what should I do couch

    • @ShamanMcLamie
      @ShamanMcLamie Год назад

      I think you're going to need to clarify what happened. To me it just sounds like she was sending a friendly message to someone and then you got butt hurt about it and called her out over nothing.
      You're going to need to offer more details here, cause as far as I can tell you're acting weak and insecure. More importantly were you guys boyfriend and girl friend exclusive and if yes, what makes you think that is the case?

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS Год назад

    Less than 40% of men earn 6 figures, per bureau of labor and statistics

  • @Paul1Braun
    @Paul1Braun 3 месяца назад

    Freaking comedy 😂

  • @buzzcountry1178
    @buzzcountry1178 Год назад +1

    You were just dinner and drinks bro....Harsh but true. She has tons of orbiters and you didn't make the cut. Move on and lessoned learned. You deserve better.

  • @nongpaul3795
    @nongpaul3795 Год назад

    13:00 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @secondsof-ym9di
    @secondsof-ym9di Год назад

    Question, so i have seen my girlfriend this week 5 times znd yesterday i was in the gym and she approached me and we talked for a bit and then i continued working out and after a while she approached again to get a sip of my water... Then little bit later i left then when i got home she texted me "are you still in the gym" i said no,why? Then she responded "okey ripp" i responded "why" then she responded "just to know" then i responded "allready missing me huh" then she responded "sad" then i left it at that btw we have already set a definite date for Wednesday so why did she text? Someone explain?

    • @terrodar19
      @terrodar19 Год назад +4

      Dont overthink things

    • @pauldomfree
      @pauldomfree Год назад +3

      Read the book mate.

    • @nongpaul3795
      @nongpaul3795 Год назад +3

      Scarcity creates value

    • @bennyjohnson9427
      @bennyjohnson9427 Год назад +1

      She's testing how excited you are to get a text from her. She's feeling you out. She's trying to disqualify you by detecting weakness. She's trying to justify leaving you. She will try harder to disqualify you on the date. A few slips and she'll start acting confused

    • @secondsof-ym9di
      @secondsof-ym9di Год назад

      @@nongpaul3795 so nothing wrong here?

  • @themanman165
    @themanman165 Год назад

    Did she really call him a little boy? Or were you making a joke

    • @davidquiroz7264
      @davidquiroz7264 Год назад +2

      Came to see the comments for the same reason… If she did, that was very low and with no class

  • @alexjohnston2397
    @alexjohnston2397 Год назад

    Corey leave our girls alone and date women your own age

  • @slashdash5279
    @slashdash5279 Год назад +1

    Arrogant manginas. Lol