“From a woman’s perspective” is so important when discussing these things. the amount of times a man believes it’s a 50/50 conversation exchange when in reality they text her good morning, how work was, how her weekend was, if she’s over her flu, to wish her grandma a happy birthday, a song on the radio made them think of her, a leaf on the side of the road looked like the dog she owned in 6th grade etc. as a psychology student it never stops surprising me just what we can fool ourselves into believing
Kudos to this woman from the first e-mail. Women usually reject men effortlessly for the slightest frivolous reason. Instead of just dumping him and screaming "next," she took the time to figure out what that guy was doing wrong and fortunately found the Coach's work on time.
Contacting women once a week (and waiting 3 days after a 1st date to contact them) is probably the single best advice I've gotten from Corey. The vast majority of men contact women daily and they not only chase them out of their lives but they take all the mystery out of the courtship and they make it IMPOSSIBLE for the women to chase them.
I agree with this 100% I told this to a woman I’ve known for a while and she Literally Freaked out and had the worst reaction to it that I’ve ever seen … basically saying that calling once a week was BS and that’s playing games and All this other crap
Thank you, Coach Corey. I experienced this recently, and I just ended it. I said I didn't want to be friends at this time and if it changes, I would contact him. Two days after breaking it off, he texted a long text, all in his emotions. He claimed we were still friends and ended the text as, "Your Friend, (his name)." Once again, he didn't listen or respect what I said, proving what I mentioned as one of the reasons it wasn't working out. I had the urge to respond and explain how his extreme over pursuit caused me to completely lose interest. I really wanted to share some links of your videos. But after some thought, I realized it isn't my job to "help" him understand. I also think that if I responded, I wouldn't be heard and rather, the contact would encourage him to keep trying and give him false hope. My hope moving forward is to recognize needy, overbearing behavior sooner. I was confused for a hot minute, so things went further and longer than they should have.
Men do the picking - but it’s the woman that does the choosing. When the woman feels heard, understood and is allowed to come at her pace, her legs will eventually open for you more than likely at her place. When she doesn’t, she’ll close you off, reject you and leave giving you the gift of your space. Hang out, have fun and hook up! Love is allowing, not controlling and being possessive. You must out-wait and outwit women. Dudes rocket ship is now out of her orbit for good.
No offense but women are just good at infatuation which means short term commitments. Men are better at love because we're honorable and will put our lives on the line for it. Women talk a good game but I think you know I'm telling the truth.
Coach I was doing really good playing it cool and keeping it light and making her comfortable and she was really interested but I think I may have showed my cards with one comment recently that she hasn’t responded to in a couple days.. sucks how women can change their mind over 1 little thing after so much good momentum! Ugh so hard to reminder all the methods.. it seems counter intuitive to us guys.. I need to read the book 10x more 😂
The issue is that what a woman says it not always what she needs, and if she loved someone else in the past, she always has conditions for the next one, while with the first in the past it was unconditionally. That is why I as a man hate, when I have to go through her conditions, because if I let, she runs over me like every women did till today and it just costs time of your life she in the end stole from you. It is a turn of for me, because I got put in a box, while I still try to give everything I can to her. To me it just shows she is still a child and has not grown up to just give love a chance. I therefore hate advice like this here. The only good advice is to be as you are and let this woman in her misery. One of the next woman will accept your style of approach and also accept you as you and then you know that you found the one where desire goes both ways and you can grow with each other.
Corey is right but it just really comes down to her interest level…cause all the things one woman complains about he’s doin another woman will say he’s not doing enough or complain a guy isn’t trying at all…that’s why dating multiple women makes it work…perception is reality to most ppl
What if a girl your dating intentionally avoids part of the text message when you ask when she’s free? Should you ask her again & be direct? Like she replies to the entire message but avoids the part you’ve asked when she’s free I feel this is game playing
@@Cee_Eff what’s your advice to sort it? Just cut the shit & ask when she is free again then cut contact if no response? also when coach Corey says in his book set dates when she reaches out what if she reaches out after you leave her place in the morning like she messages within 2 hours? Surely this is too soon to ask for another date even if your 2 months into dating?
Match her energy. If she ignored the part about asking if she's free, then ignore it, too. Give her a chance to reach out to you and see if you're available...when she's ready. I personally don't think it's an accident that she "missed" it.
Men don’t ask when a girl is free. Your communicating you’ll work around her schedule which portrays you don’t have much going for yourself. Be more direct. Don’t contact her as much and find stuff to keep you busy. Never ask a girl when she’s free. I would phrase it like, “Hey, I have some time available on Saturday, I’m going to grab a bite to eat. How about you join me at 7pm?” If she says yes, “ Great! Wear that (such and such outfit) and I’ll pick you up at 6.” Don’t tell her where your going, don’t tell her any plans and just get back to being busy until then. If she says no just be like, “Great gotta get back to work, let me know if your plans change” and again get back to being busy and not texting her
It's so hard guys but stay the on the path Corey says. I blew it with one date too close to the 2nd. Poof. She's now distant and I moved on. Good practice for me. Plus. Dating flight attendants makes it hard not to try and make a date before they leave for a week. No one said this would be easy
THIS IS SUCH A VALUABLE VIDEO!!! SADLY YET HAPPILY (less guys know about this) THERE ARE ONLY 22k VIEWS, Gents who want to be 3% listen to this often as you can!
The girl who said she wanted to be my wife, live with me, have kids, etc. She had a change in behavior in the last week. my mistake was texting too much instead of going on dates, last sunday she said she´s not ready for a relationship yet because she is going through a lot of difficulties in her family (which is true). time to go no contact and work on myself even though it's been hard not to think about her and how I could have made things right earlier. Any other tips that might give me a chance to attract her again? should I ask for another chance?
A few tips: one, let her bring up future-speak but never be the one to initiate those kinds of convos - they feel pressuring to women when YOU bring it up. Two, never bring up being in a relationship - that's HER job. Until that happens, your only job is to set dates once a week until SHE starts suggesting more. Three, if you're going no contact, wait for HER to contact you first before engaging again; if she does, don't bring up any serious topics, just invite her to your place for fun times. Lastly, start dating other women - if she's leaving you this easily it means she knows you have no other offers, which makes her (a) question if she should desire you, and (b) doesn't give her any competition.
The same happened to me, it was devastating. You should have told her to slow down when she mentioned living together abd kids. It was just a test from her to see how weak you're , if you agree to kids and living togethee, , they break it off. Immediately. learned a lot about this topic. Women to do this cruel , ruthless maquiavelian test are not sane.
Love in such a way that she feels free.. also makes sure you give her attention, also make sure you don’t give her too much attention but also make sure you don’t stop loving her… just don’t chase them. This is ridiculous. Starting to lose interest in entertaining any sort of commitment towards women. No hate it just seems like too much.
Or, both have insecure attachment styles. One pursues when the other retracts. The inconsistency of connection causes the anxious person to do more, and the avoidant runs because emotional inconsistency is safe for them. Both are at fault. Just a bit tired of it all being pinned on one gender or the other.
Idk Corey, just sounds like an Anxious Avoidant trap. I love your work, but I’m not sure insecure attachment styles are entirely gender specific. Happy to discuss though
Coach- Read the book over a 100 times page 59 "from women by women"this gal is probably rationalizing the whole situation.. taking this VID WITH AND ABSOLUTE GRAIN OF SALT. Lady came out of a traumatic situation.. Screams red flag not emotionally available. Any high valve male would have slammed the BRAKES. Only problem was the guy didn't have abundance, and the gal knew it
I was half expecting Corey to read this whole email in the ‘woman’s voice’ 🤣 great video
So true if a man over pursues she will take him for granted and loose interest their has to be a balance there let her work for you as well
“From a woman’s perspective” is so important when discussing these things. the amount of times a man believes it’s a 50/50 conversation exchange when in reality they text her good morning, how work was, how her weekend was, if she’s over her flu, to wish her grandma a happy birthday, a song on the radio made them think of her, a leaf on the side of the road looked like the dog she owned in 6th grade etc. as a psychology student it never stops surprising me just what we can fool ourselves into believing
im sure that made sense in your head.
Right! This is what women should be doing if everything is going well, not us guys lol
DUDE READ THE BOOK
Kudos to this woman from the first e-mail. Women usually reject men effortlessly for the slightest frivolous reason. Instead of just dumping him and screaming "next," she took the time to figure out what that guy was doing wrong and fortunately found the Coach's work on time.
Contacting women once a week (and waiting 3 days after a 1st date to contact them) is probably the single best advice I've gotten from Corey. The vast majority of men contact women daily and they not only chase them out of their lives but they take all the mystery out of the courtship and they make it IMPOSSIBLE for the women to chase them.
I agree with this 100%
I told this to a woman I’ve known for a while and she Literally Freaked out and had the worst reaction to it that I’ve ever seen … basically saying that calling once a week was BS and that’s playing games and All this other crap
@@ClassicShortChronicles its crazy they say it's BS yet it's what they respond best to. It's really for their own good 😂
@@renofheavens2 of course , And What they say they want and what they actually respond to are two completely different things
@@JJ-xf8xgwait a week and read coreys book
@@JJ-xf8xg so you texted 1 day after the date?
Mr Coach Corey Wayne. You changed my life & I am very grateful for you. I wish you the best in life. Much love, Bob.
In my opinion, Corey's the best dating coach on the market. Apply his knowledge, and you will believe it!
Thank you, Coach Corey. I experienced this recently, and I just ended it. I said I didn't want to be friends at this time and if it changes, I would contact him. Two days after breaking it off, he texted a long text, all in his emotions. He claimed we were still friends and ended the text as, "Your Friend, (his name)."
Once again, he didn't listen or respect what I said, proving what I mentioned as one of the reasons it wasn't working out. I had the urge to respond and explain how his extreme over pursuit caused me to completely lose interest. I really wanted to share some links of your videos. But after some thought, I realized it isn't my job to "help" him understand. I also think that if I responded, I wouldn't be heard and rather, the contact would encourage him to keep trying and give him false hope.
My hope moving forward is to recognize needy, overbearing behavior sooner. I was confused for a hot minute, so things went further and longer than they should have.
Men do the picking - but it’s the woman that does the choosing. When the woman feels heard, understood and is allowed to come at her pace, her legs will eventually open for you more than likely at her place. When she doesn’t, she’ll close you off, reject you and leave giving you the gift of your space. Hang out, have fun and hook up! Love is allowing, not controlling and being possessive. You must out-wait and outwit women. Dudes rocket ship is now out of her orbit for good.
No offense but women are just good at infatuation which means short term commitments. Men are better at love because we're honorable and will put our lives on the line for it. Women talk a good game but I think you know I'm telling the truth.
in other words, woman are full of shit and liars because their decisions are dictated by their emotions which are ever changing and fleeting
Coach I was doing really good playing it cool and keeping it light and making her comfortable and she was really interested but I think I may have showed my cards with one comment recently that she hasn’t responded to in a couple days.. sucks how women can change their mind over 1 little thing after so much good momentum! Ugh so hard to reminder all the methods.. it seems counter intuitive to us guys.. I need to read the book 10x more 😂
That's why they're ending up single and alone in older ages lol
Jessica and Coach. Thank you both for the content and many blessings Jessica with your future
Corey I have not checked out your vids in a minute man, glad to be back on the side of the light.
Thank you for this email and deepest heartfelt condolences on the passing of your husband ar dheis go reibh Anam from Sligo Ireland..
agree 100% more you give and pursue, the less they care
The issue is that what a woman says it not always what she needs, and if she loved someone else in the past, she always has conditions for the next one, while with the first in the past it was unconditionally.
That is why I as a man hate, when I have to go through her conditions, because if I let, she runs over me like every women did till today and it just costs time of your life she in the end stole from you. It is a turn of for me, because I got put in a box, while I still try to give everything I can to her. To me it just shows she is still a child and has not grown up to just give love a chance. I therefore hate advice like this here.
The only good advice is to be as you are and let this woman in her misery. One of the next woman will accept your style of approach and also accept you as you and then you know that you found the one where desire goes both ways and you can grow with each other.
I wish you'd read more emails from women.
Yes I learn a lot more hearing from the 'other side'
Corey is right but it just really comes down to her interest level…cause all the things one woman complains about he’s doin another woman will say he’s not doing enough or complain a guy isn’t trying at all…that’s why dating multiple women makes it work…perception is reality to most ppl
More like this! Women don't believe that they are erratic, haha.
If you over pursue they start to think of you as a potential stalker.
What if a girl your dating intentionally avoids part of the text message when you ask when she’s free? Should you ask her again & be direct? Like she replies to the entire message but avoids the part you’ve asked when she’s free I feel this is game playing
Read the book 10-15 times man. Her actions tell you everything
@@Cee_Eff what’s your advice to sort it? Just cut the shit & ask when she is free again then cut contact if no response? also when coach Corey says in his book set dates when she reaches out what if she reaches out after you leave her place in the morning like she messages within 2 hours? Surely this is too soon to ask for another date even if your 2 months into dating?
I would say, "sounds like you're busy, if you want to meet up let me know when you get all that figured out" then go no contact
Match her energy. If she ignored the part about asking if she's free, then ignore it, too. Give her a chance to reach out to you and see if you're available...when she's ready. I personally don't think it's an accident that she "missed" it.
Men don’t ask when a girl is free. Your communicating you’ll work around her schedule which portrays you don’t have much going for yourself. Be more direct. Don’t contact her as much and find stuff to keep you busy. Never ask a girl when she’s free. I would phrase it like, “Hey, I have some time available on Saturday, I’m going to grab a bite to eat. How about you join me at 7pm?” If she says yes, “ Great! Wear that (such and such outfit) and I’ll pick you up at 6.” Don’t tell her where your going, don’t tell her any plans and just get back to being busy until then. If she says no just be like, “Great gotta get back to work, let me know if your plans change” and again get back to being busy and not texting her
It's so hard guys but stay the on the path Corey says. I blew it with one date too close to the 2nd. Poof. She's now distant and I moved on. Good practice for me.
Plus. Dating flight attendants makes it hard not to try and make a date before they leave for a week. No one said this would be easy
THIS IS SUCH A VALUABLE VIDEO!!! SADLY YET HAPPILY (less guys know about this) THERE ARE ONLY 22k VIEWS, Gents who want to be 3% listen to this often as you can!
The girl who said she wanted to be my wife, live with me, have kids, etc. She had a change in behavior in the last week. my mistake was texting too much instead of going on dates, last sunday she said she´s not ready for a relationship yet because she is going through a lot of difficulties in her family (which is true). time to go no contact and work on myself even though it's been hard not to think about her and how I could have made things right earlier. Any other tips that might give me a chance to attract her again? should I ask for another chance?
A few tips: one, let her bring up future-speak but never be the one to initiate those kinds of convos - they feel pressuring to women when YOU bring it up. Two, never bring up being in a relationship - that's HER job. Until that happens, your only job is to set dates once a week until SHE starts suggesting more. Three, if you're going no contact, wait for HER to contact you first before engaging again; if she does, don't bring up any serious topics, just invite her to your place for fun times. Lastly, start dating other women - if she's leaving you this easily it means she knows you have no other offers, which makes her (a) question if she should desire you, and (b) doesn't give her any competition.
@@HarryWilmingtono
The same happened to me, it was devastating. You should have told her to slow down when she mentioned living together abd kids. It was just a test from her to see how weak you're , if you agree to kids and living togethee, , they break it off. Immediately. learned a lot about this topic. Women to do this cruel , ruthless maquiavelian test are not sane.
How much have you been seeing each others?
Thanks Coach insightful video
From her perspective
Controlling and forceful?? I imagine that didn't make her feel safe or free...
Im eternally grateful mr Wayne
Love in such a way that she feels free.. also makes sure you give her attention, also make sure you don’t give her too much attention but also make sure you don’t stop loving her… just don’t chase them.
This is ridiculous.
Starting to lose interest in entertaining any sort of commitment towards women. No hate it just seems like too much.
Ive been curious about this for a long time
He's just lovebombing and doesn't really know the woman.
Or, both have insecure attachment styles. One pursues when the other retracts. The inconsistency of connection causes the anxious person to do more, and the avoidant runs because emotional inconsistency is safe for them. Both are at fault.
Just a bit tired of it all being pinned on one gender or the other.
She perhaps might be a wounded bird from her loss, and he might be a coo coo bird. Who knows.
That's how I took it, too, that the guy was love bombing.
Your videos are number one ☝️. ❤
Idk Corey, just sounds like an Anxious Avoidant trap. I love your work, but I’m not sure insecure attachment styles are entirely gender specific. Happy to discuss though
sounds like NPD TO ME seriously ive dated 3 with this same behaviour but they where women .
That guy has to be dominican.. I mean most dominican men think they can buy their way into a women s heart
Ah yes, I hecking love generelization
If My wife moved on after one year I would haunt the house 😂
Attachments attachments I have heard this word before
Corey Wayne for life
Coach-
Read the book over a 100 times page 59 "from women by women"this gal is probably rationalizing the whole situation.. taking this VID WITH AND ABSOLUTE GRAIN OF SALT.
Lady came out of a traumatic situation.. Screams red flag not emotionally available. Any high valve male would have slammed the BRAKES.
Only problem was the guy didn't have abundance, and the gal knew it
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LMFAO yea if women would be a little more honest and less about appearance than we'd all be betta for it.
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You are not the first bro