Micaella Magallanes i can relate to her. i hv superior IQ n eidetic memory so i can memorize things easily. that is y my parents pushed me to become a physician and i had no choice but to do it cz my mom's dream was to become a physician. im a GP now but u know wat? i feel empty and tired.. gosh i wish she can achieve her own dream :')
wewantseokjin ! Aw, that's sound stressed full. I hope you'll find happiness, your happiness, someday. Hope that your parents will understand about your choice of life soon. hang in there!
Hes not going to change. Shes gonna continue getting pressured, I feel so bad for her, shes absolutely terrified of her father because she keeps doing everything that nervous people do, like she knows shes going to get yelled or beat when she goes home. I give props to her mom, but as a mother you should be more stern.
starlighteuu i agree with you but I also feel bad for the mum. You never know what goes on at home with there family and I honestly thought the mother looked really nervous at first when she was talking but that's just me. She probably feels absolutely terrible that her husband won't try and communicate to work things out for there daughter and no matter how hard she try's he won't listen.
U say it like u know for sure. U dont, its just ur opinion. How do u know he acc didnt change? He couldve changed, give him the benefit of the doubt, or at least say it like its what u think. I also doubt hes changed but none of us know for sure, so we cant criticise him for not changing
Zion Kim these kinds of behaviors take a LOT to got rid of, if it only takes a little appearance on a TV show to change his ways, that man is a goddamn miracle!
Zion Kim yea but it's pretty safe to assume here. Like I said, it would be a miracle if this man immediately fixed himself up. Not saying he isn't trying to change, just that it's very near impossible (maybe just straight up impossible) for him to snap out of it just like that.
I think Taejon was ready to jump into the audience and put the father in a headlock! I feel bad for the girl and hope she can be supported in whatever she wants.
I'm so pissed off at the dad. I can't even. Classic narcissist, and such a hypocrite! He refused to act in front of the MCs in the previous video, but he still keeps on acting like he's some kind of expert.
Some people would rather live without a father. It all has to do with how the dad is. If your that hits you and doesnt respect you, I MYSELF thinks its better off without
amirul aiman What does that have to do with his/her comment? She/he was glad her father wasn't like the father above. I'm sure that person is happy that she/he has a father otherwise she/he wouldn't have made such a comment...
I wish people in the comments would stop insulting her mother. Her nose is pretty, stop saying she's ugly. Even if it's surgery, it's completely fine to get surgery if you want to.
taehyungs gucci things lol same I think the mother is pretty but her skin looked a bit oily still. I don't think she had ps...she is pretty people need to stop being mean if people want to do ps to look better they should have the right to do it if they want I don't see the problem with wanting to look better
I'm worried that the father wasn't really sincere with his little speech at the end. From how he was stubbornly consistent about making his daughter become an actress, It takes more than this to really change his perspective. He looked like someone who really wanted to become an actor but failed and is now trying to get a second shot at it by having his daughter live the life he wanted to have.
Mary go Round yes exactly. That's what narcissistic tendency looks like. And by the look from the daughter, she knows that things wouldn't change. If you look carefully, she just held up her tears and smile out of frustration. That's what I get from her. Poor kid. This is the classic child abuse that's prevalent in asia.
When she hits puberty, I hope she wouldn't think about killing herself since South Korean are the most tendency that commits suicide. I really wish for her genuine happiness and becoming a good teacher in the future! As for her dad, he needs to go to mental asap
Whatever it is,it should not be happen but this kind of things affect ppl too.. But u have to know someone s choices cant be glorified sometimes... U said she has plastic surgery.. But u should also the reason by this episode too.. They have toxic beauty standards.. They dont let simple fatness on body.. They prefer to do plastic surgery for face but not being live with their natural ness.. In this same show.. Many women come who wanted to be themselves but bcoz of society they cant ve... If u see FX AMBER interview about herself and sulli.. U will know how hard for those who want to live with their natural ness, with confidence about themselves, with embracing themselves she wanted to be herself but she is constantly forced by ppl bcoz when they didn't get that aspects naturally they just do surgery and become fake and unnatural but this is also indirectly forceful on thise who don't want to do surgery..they are made to look ugly bcoz those who r doing surgery becomes beautiful.. Just because someone do choice.. Doesn't mean itnis something to be proud of always.. They aren't happy with themselves, it is a shame in this modern world that being modern and educated(so called) we even not letting ppl to live with their naturalness which they want to or should be embraced..
It was my Dad's dream to become a doctor but he didn't have the financial conditions to become one. So he mentioned that if I wanted to become one he would provide me with all the support. My dad passed away when I was 15 and I did give it a try by my own but when I couldn't keep up with the studies my mom allowed me to study whatever I wanted to and I'm sure my dad would have done that too. I'm really happy to have such a supportive family. They have always supported me and allowed me to do whatever I want to do with my life especially now when I'm old enough to understand the right and wrong. I don't think the father is helping in any way by forcing her to act and this is only going to make her hate it even more and I think it is also her mistake to not have hinted her father that she doesn't like acting at least once and bring the whole thing to national television.
ANAGHA BHASKARAN I can understand where you’re coming from about her mentioning it on national tv, but considering she’s 12, and the fact that she was scared to get yelled at over it (and 12 year olds don’t like to be yelled at, I don’t and I’m older than her by a few years) it’s understandable. Plus, you saw how her dad acted. I may be wrong, but the hints he gives of his personality make it seem like he wouldn’t have cared at all.
This I agree. I had a few talents as kid (writing, drawing, music) but both my parents either didn't know (they lived abroad) or didn't care so none of my potential talents are developed... Now I'm more like jack of many trades but master of none :/ If I had known what's best for me, I would've cared for my talents better even without my parents assisting me...
My dad was like that when I was a child. My brothers and I always had to perform in front of friends and family, and he nitpicked about my shyness and unwillingness to do stuff in front of people. For a long time, I felt like my primary purpose was to make him look good. If I didn't then I'd hear every bit of it from him. Narcissists tend to rely on their children to make them look better; I'm concerned at how intent he was on Ye Eun acting. Another thing I don't get about Hello Counselor is how unbelievably dense the defendants are about glaring issues. I'm so glad Youngja broke him off a piece.
This guy seriously!! He literally only says "bc shes good" "she is talented" blah blah!! Like this kid doesnt want to! And she wants to be a teacher! Usually parents would be happy about that
My mother is just like the father here. Someone else's refusal, discomfort, or "no" means absolutely nothing at all. All that exists for a parent like this is their own ambitions for their child. when the father was blustering about "not realizing she hated it", I kept getting bitter flashbacks to my mother always being blind to other people's discomfort, fear, or emotions in general. all they know is what they want, and everyone else is either a pawn or an obstruction. jesus, poor girl, nothing will change after this half-scripted episode.
Jisoo Lyrics my dad always says my skinny no matter if I'm chubby or not and I'm over here like....." Me: "Dad im not skinny" My dad: "yes you are , who told you that you weren't" Me: "my belly" My dad: "awww but your just skin and bone" Me: rises eyebrow and walks away Gets down to a average weight that's near my perfect weight: My dad: "your getting awfully skinny" Me: "for the 50th time I'm not skinny , I'm an average weight for teens my age that are my height , ok?" My dad: slides food across the table "you should eat more" Me: roles eyes and takes food
Jisoo Lyrics thats also abuse, as a kid a was force by my mother to eat everything on my plate even if i was full, she didnt allow me to move until that happen, i could spent 2 -3 hours slowly eating until finish cuz i was full... also this is a bit triggered i didnt like fruits And she force me to eat them by put them in my mounth And close my nose, so i have to eat it even if i was disgusted... she one day thought that the solution about that was making the fruits into a pure cuz wasnt even a freaking juice, NO Cuz that would make the fruit mess fruity ... i was FORCE to drink it, i used to vomit after that.... she EVEN GET MAD AT ME cuz i vomit , so yes, making you eat even if you dont want is psychological abuse .... Worse part now I'm a freaking obesse woman, since i get used to eat abnornal amounts of food... excelent 👌 ... now she tells me fat ... i understand now she hates me cuz when i was a skinny kid she force me to eat, now that I'M fat af she body shames me
i loved it when Choi Tae Joon said he wanted to just throw him down. I love him. I think he should give that young girl his cell number so she can get mental support from him. This isn't over yet. I think the show should pay for the father to see a psychiatrist.
Not sure if he really meant the words he says towards his child in a honest manner? like i swear her father has some misdemeanour, attitude issues by rashly forcing her to act in front a people who don't know in a Coffee or Restaurant is just embarrassing yet quite a waste of time a kid who has no such interests in doing at this as an profession. Have some conscience Mister! Ye-eun is only 12 who still may have dreams of her own and her future career doesn't had to belong in an acting entertainment path which differs the fact she does not want to be an superstar in spite of by her father's intractable harsh commands. Speaking of harsh commands this dad has zero knowledge about Children's rights not only as forcing his will on his way to his daughter her dad is egoistical, uncaring, domineering. So far he only seen her as a money-maker not his child is unpleasantly sickening thus, once others point out about of this issue he just makes an unclean excuse, insisting her that she's talented i mean how can you call this is a talent while you're the one who's pressuring her to drag into your grasp to follow up all of the over auditions in Seoul. Isn't just obnoxious and disgraceful to force a child to do on his way especially Ye-eun a middle-school student who wants to spend time with friends who unfortunately can't spent time because how impatient, short tempered his father is. Nonetheless, i'd wish her to spend her childhood happily of what she wants to do in her spare time by less having any severe-problems. Respect her decisions and be kind one another, listen her struggles, exhaustion, mental-illness deeply without giving such a burden and perceive/understand those thoughts that she is only human. Remember all we need is a long days and nights within years to choice our dreams on our own. it'll begin to grow, prosper if a father accepts this person's dream without a force neither sternly scolding to do better nor becoming the the top notch excellent #1 like how he's mistreating/controlling his child. Does he even realize he's violating his daughter's choices? ... Give Ye-eun some free space! let her live her life peacefully! and buy her a meal, warm clothes or a handful of presents in her daily-life rather than being aggressive. It is not your job to act like a manager towards your daughter. Thanks! EDIT (Also one thing! letting her lose weight is making her health even more unhealthy just the sake for this Korean Beauty Standards are all non-sense for a girl who hasn't reached out puberty yet. This guy is surely idiotic.)
When I first saw the title I was like 'Wow, I wish my dad was like that.' After I was 10 minutes into the video 'Wow, I'm glad my dad isn't like that.'
He's trying to live his dream through his daughter, it's difficult to live life by your own choice when you have parents like that. My dad seriously wanted me to become a doctor because he couldn't become one. And due to this I was forced to study long hours and give up things I wanted to do. Not to mention the fact that I didn't get to choose my own career.
Finally...the last part was the best. I was so pissed with him throughout the video but when he said that he'll support what she wants, I'm so relieved :D
he sounds a lot like my dad. I like to sing since I was 2 years old, my mum sent me for piano and vocal lessons since I was 8, but she never pressured me to be a singer, instead she suggested me to be a doctor and singing can be my second career or just a hobby. But my dad on the other hand, he told me to keep on singing and just quit university. And whenever I'm out with my dad, he would ask me to sing in front of his friends, we would go to karaoke place and brag how I am going to be a singer one day and so on. Every time he called me he would keep telling me and giving me this "advices" to just focus on singing and play music instruments because I have the talents. I personally love singing and play music instruments, but I don't want to be pressured to sing in front of his friends just because he wants to be stand out and because he has nothing to show to them but me. And when I would fail one course at uni, he would put me down and tell me to quit. I can relate to this girl's situation
okay the mom looks like a gangnam unnie but at least she treats her daughter *as* a daughter unlike that garbage father looks don't matter in this situation, the mom has a good heart and thats good enough for me
My dad saw that I had a talent for singing and dancing and suggested that I try becoming an Idol. But I told him dancing and singing are my hobby not my dream my dream is to become a designer and he supported me he even bought me a sowing machine and for that I am grateful to him. I never knew your talent can be used against you. And I promise you one day this girl is going to be a great teacher and might even teach the next stars of the world.
Zion Kim the problem is that apparently everyone was focusing more on plastic surgery than THE FATHER THAT BASICALLY MADE HIS DAUGHTER A LITTLE ACTING SLAVE!!!
Because her father is so adamant in her becoming an actress or a star he forces her to do stuff that kids her age shouldn't be doing like losing weight, who knows maybe in the future the father will try to convince her to change her face or do double eyelid surgery to get a role
Some of my friends' parents are like that father too. Deciding already what their daughter should do and be once she grows up. But unlike this father, it's often just what they think of as a good career path(good in their definition is one that earns well). The most common being Doctor, Engineer, or Banker. Most of them don't know their children's real dreams because they don't *care* to know. I'm actually frustrated by this father but not really surprised. This behaviour creates resentment in the child towards their parent/s which creates a huge rift in their relationship. It even becomes a matter of contemplation for the child whether or not they actually love their parent/s. This makes me be extremely grateful for my father who supports my dreams and my goals, and encourages them.
Full Moon No Water i dont notice that too at first. but when i read comments about it then i realized. but i feel bad for her for people also only realizing to what's seen visually (esp her mom), not what the problem of the kid has.
Society, people all are weird.if we go some years behind in many Asian countries women were only told to raise children if a girl talked about her dream she would be considered shameless!! Then after those days parents wanted nothing more less doctors from their daughters and every other professions were considered lower class.but now days have come where the father is forcing his kid to ACT and not to study!!!!!! We live in a weird world 😒😒😒😵😵😵😵😵😰😰😰😰😰
Minori ruba, only deluded parents like the dad in this video forces their children to something like this and every country has them, not just Asian countries.
I think the dad will shut down on her and treat her coldly if she doesn't pursue acting. I wish the dad will audition and do things to pursue his own dream rather than forcing it on her.
I somehow can relate to the father because every single parent wants the best for for their child and for him acting is the best for the girl... He just don’t want her to take the wrong path for her future. And since she is still young, he felt like she wouldn’t understand what and how hard it is nowadays to have a successful career and life. That’s just the way he’s thinking.. But i also know that the girl should choose her own way instead of being controlled by the parents. Extra: what do you feel if you have a father like him and he really wants you to be a very successful actor / actress but suddenly he died and he told you to have your own way and he confessed that he just wants you to be happy in the future?
All the people out there I wish my dad would've drag me to it. I can totally understand what her father's dream is! It' s actually "blessing in disguise" when your parents try to show you the path. Acting is not bad I guess.
This kid has the right to decide what path of career she chooses!! Don't force her to be something she doesn't want to be!! I want come through the screen and slap that father so bad right now
i am a teenager too but my parents aren't this harsh to me about my dreams for my future... i do act too but they do not force me to do anything like that.. i am a dancer too but if i win any competition, they would congratulate me and it is up to myself if i want to continue dancing or not and they let me decide on that. they wouldn't force me to do anything they want me to be in the future
this girl remind me with someone I know in high school. He don't want to be a doctor at all. He is diligent but he can't really keep up. He failed 2years on university acceptance exam but his parent still want him to get in medical major in either 2 of the most prestigious university in my country. I really feel bad for him. I'm not that close with him but we ever took same course and cramp school for couple of months. He was so sweet, kind, and very friendly. He is such a hard working person as well. I feel bad when I met him after three years but he still can't seem to cope up with his parent's demand. Well, I don't know where and how is he now, but I wish for that friend and the kid on the show so they'll got the best for them. So they can choose and do the path they want instead of what their parent's want.
Her dad won't give up on his dream to make her become an actress. as u can see he still said she's talented ,she's good without listen or think about what other people tried to explain him.
Omfgg the mom rly be spilling the tea. But my heart aches for her and I hope she eventually gets to just enjoy her childhood instead of being stressed about stuff
I can so relate to this girl. My parents are also sometimes like that. "You are good at Maths, that's why you should be an engineer." They say that to me all the time. And it's specially my mom. She just keeps on telling me to do Maths. I hear it every second day. It was so much, that now I actually studying to become an engineer. I heard it from a young age, so I never actually got to dream about what I should become. It's like I never had a choice. Parents can become really harsh and completely ignore their kids. It's really frustrating to see parents being like this. After what has happened to me and a lot of other people, all I wanna do is become a really nice and supporting mother one day.
Just because someone is good at something it doesn't mean that he/she likes it, Stress and pressure could make you accomplish a lot of things but it won't bring pure happiness... You'll only get the feeling of being satisfied instead of happiness. You'll think of it as a duty and not as a dream..
I think the part where she says she failed the audition and was told she wasn't any good but her dad offer her any comfort, really sums the problem with this situation.
Other children doesn't have opportunity to study and enter a school because of poverty,,but then he wanted her daughter to stop and just continue to act even if she don't love/like what she's doing😢.
Everything you do without passion is gonna be stressfull , you may be success but you not happy . the important of the living is you success and feel happy .
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The dad's train of thought is probably like this: "If I can't be an actor, then I sure as hell will be a father of one."
Micaella Magallanes
True!
Micaella Magallanes i can relate to her. i hv superior IQ n eidetic memory so i can memorize things easily. that is y my parents pushed me to become a physician and i had no choice but to do it cz my mom's dream was to become a physician. im a GP now but u know wat? i feel empty and tired.. gosh i wish she can achieve her own dream :')
*or three!!
wewantseokjin ! Aw, that's sound stressed full. I hope you'll find happiness, your happiness, someday. Hope that your parents will understand about your choice of life soon. hang in there!
He has 3 kids. I hope that one of them will actually want to be an actor so they can all be happy.
Hes not going to change. Shes gonna continue getting pressured, I feel so bad for her, shes absolutely terrified of her father because she keeps doing everything that nervous people do, like she knows shes going to get yelled or beat when she goes home. I give props to her mom, but as a mother you should be more stern.
starlighteuu i agree with you but I also feel bad for the mum. You never know what goes on at home with there family and I honestly thought the mother looked really nervous at first when she was talking but that's just me. She probably feels absolutely terrible that her husband won't try and communicate to work things out for there daughter and no matter how hard she try's he won't listen.
U say it like u know for sure.
U dont, its just ur opinion.
How do u know he acc didnt change?
He couldve changed, give him the benefit of the doubt, or at least say it like its what u think.
I also doubt hes changed but none of us know for sure, so we cant criticise him for not changing
Zion Kim these kinds of behaviors take a LOT to got rid of, if it only takes a little appearance on a TV show to change his ways, that man is a goddamn miracle!
LightishRedGummi yes but its still possible.
U cant start talking shit about the man before u know for sure
Zion Kim yea but it's pretty safe to assume here. Like I said, it would be a miracle if this man immediately fixed himself up. Not saying he isn't trying to change, just that it's very near impossible (maybe just straight up impossible) for him to snap out of it just like that.
I think Taejon was ready to jump into the audience and put the father in a headlock! I feel bad for the girl and hope she can be supported in whatever she wants.
AsianTankPilot Yeah. Hell. I WAS READY FOR HIM TO DO SO MYSELF! 😂
I'm always worried what happens when the guest gets home
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Elocin samee
Same
Same, I afraid that the father will yell at her after arrived at their home
I'm so pissed off at the dad. I can't even. Classic narcissist, and such a hypocrite! He refused to act in front of the MCs in the previous video, but he still keeps on acting like he's some kind of expert.
Revina Que That must be his greatest act of all. Acting the expert.
Sorry. I meant to like it. I'm so sorry.
"BuT SHe'S so TalEntED"
Stop my dude. Stop before i decide to swim from australia over to south korea to beat your ass
" ...But she is so talented! "
"bUt ShE Is So taLeNtEd"
fanisa tria xD
Yeah like literally so talented like truly 😂 I'm sorry ill leave
Alice in BangtanLand honestly, that's just his excuse for everything
I'm tired of hearing that over and over 😒
Yeah..the father is manager & the daughter is an actress. There are no connection between them as father & daughter.
its definitely her choice what path she choose. Dang, im lucky that i dont have that kind of father.
Jinsoul's Hair you comment so much😂
oh! i didnt notice that hahaha
Jinsoul's Hair You should be happy because you still got a father..... unlike others...
Some people would rather live without a father. It all has to do with how the dad is. If your that hits you and doesnt respect you, I MYSELF thinks its better off without
amirul aiman What does that have to do with his/her comment? She/he was glad her father wasn't like the father above. I'm sure that person is happy that she/he has a father otherwise she/he wouldn't have made such a comment...
I wish people in the comments would stop insulting her mother. Her nose is pretty, stop saying she's ugly. Even if it's surgery, it's completely fine to get surgery if you want to.
Mia P right? The dad is kinda good looking but his behavior is shitty. Who cares what the mom looks like as long as she's supportive of her daughter.
Donah Opande
Would you say that to her face if you met her? If so you really shouldn't be posting it online.
Donah Opande so rude....
Her daughter seems like she has the same nose as her mother so I don't really think that she had ps done....
taehyungs gucci things lol same I think the mother is pretty but her skin looked a bit oily still. I don't think she had ps...she is pretty people need to stop being mean if people want to do ps to look better they should have the right to do it if they want I don't see the problem with wanting to look better
I'm worried that the father wasn't really sincere with his little speech at the end. From how he was stubbornly consistent about making his daughter become an actress, It takes more than this to really change his perspective. He looked like someone who really wanted to become an actor but failed and is now trying to get a second shot at it by having his daughter live the life he wanted to have.
Mary go Round yes exactly. That's what narcissistic tendency looks like. And by the look from the daughter, she knows that things wouldn't change. If you look carefully, she just held up her tears and smile out of frustration. That's what I get from her. Poor kid. This is the classic child abuse that's prevalent in asia.
He's not doing that for her, he's doing that for himself
taejoon is so done with the father,his expression tells so at 5:48
When she hits puberty, I hope she wouldn't think about killing herself since South Korean are the most tendency that commits suicide. I really wish for her genuine happiness and becoming a good teacher in the future! As for her dad, he needs to go to mental asap
When she said I love you you can see in his eyes how much he doesn't care
It's right that he doesnt see her as his daughter but a product to make himself popular
I scrolled down to see more roast on the dad but instead i see ppl shaming the mum's face wtf
I scrolled down to look for people talking about the mom's "plastic surgery" and instead I see people roasting the dad😂
LOLLLL there's 2 kinds of ppl
Lily Seriously! I thought she was beautiful and looked young
@@Jiminexe-sd2sq same the mom and daughter is beautiful
Whatever it is,it should not be happen but this kind of things affect ppl too.. But u have to know someone s choices cant be glorified sometimes... U said she has plastic surgery.. But u should also the reason by this episode too.. They have toxic beauty standards.. They dont let simple fatness on body.. They prefer to do plastic surgery for face but not being live with their natural ness.. In this same show.. Many women come who wanted to be themselves but bcoz of society they cant ve... If u see FX AMBER interview about herself and sulli.. U will know how hard for those who want to live with their natural ness, with confidence about themselves, with embracing themselves she wanted to be herself but she is constantly forced by ppl bcoz when they didn't get that aspects naturally they just do surgery and become fake and unnatural but this is also indirectly forceful on thise who don't want to do surgery..they are made to look ugly bcoz those who r doing surgery becomes beautiful.. Just because someone do choice.. Doesn't mean itnis something to be proud of always.. They aren't happy with themselves, it is a shame in this modern world that being modern and educated(so called) we even not letting ppl to live with their naturalness which they want to or should be embraced..
It was my Dad's dream to become a doctor but he didn't have the financial conditions to become one. So he mentioned that if I wanted to become one he would provide me with all the support. My dad passed away when I was 15 and I did give it a try by my own but when I couldn't keep up with the studies my mom allowed me to study whatever I wanted to and I'm sure my dad would have done that too. I'm really happy to have such a supportive family. They have always supported me and allowed me to do whatever I want to do with my life especially now when I'm old enough to understand the right and wrong.
I don't think the father is helping in any way by forcing her to act and this is only going to make her hate it even more and I think it is also her mistake to not have hinted her father that she doesn't like acting at least once and bring the whole thing to national television.
ANAGHA BHASKARAN I can understand where you’re coming from about her mentioning it on national tv, but considering she’s 12, and the fact that she was scared to get yelled at over it (and 12 year olds don’t like to be yelled at, I don’t and I’m older than her by a few years) it’s understandable. Plus, you saw how her dad acted. I may be wrong, but the hints he gives of his personality make it seem like he wouldn’t have cared at all.
her smile with teeth showing is the prettiest, keep doing that! its great she didn't listen to her dad about smiling with her mouth closed
I agree💕💕
"Parents should support their children's talent."
but they should respect their wishes too.
parents should support their children period
parents should support their children's dream.
This I agree. I had a few talents as kid (writing, drawing, music) but both my parents either didn't know (they lived abroad) or didn't care so none of my potential talents are developed... Now I'm more like jack of many trades but master of none :/ If I had known what's best for me, I would've cared for my talents better even without my parents assisting me...
Dengkaidou dang what a life u had there
My dad was like that when I was a child. My brothers and I always had to perform in front of friends and family, and he nitpicked about my shyness and unwillingness to do stuff in front of people. For a long time, I felt like my primary purpose was to make him look good. If I didn't then I'd hear every bit of it from him. Narcissists tend to rely on their children to make them look better; I'm concerned at how intent he was on Ye Eun acting. Another thing I don't get about Hello Counselor is how unbelievably dense the defendants are about glaring issues. I'm so glad Youngja broke him off a piece.
poor Taejoon was getting so hyped up as he could relate to her so much, damn this is/was serious
"I just wish she'd just accept it as her fate" DAMN FLY ME TO KOREA RN I WANT TO PUNCH HIM OMGGG
@Park Jemin GET THREE TICKETS I'm COMING TOOOOOO!!!
ME too !!!!! I want a ticket too !
I'LL COME TOO! ILL BRING MY MUM'S FRYING PAN
Me too...I will bring Jong kook from running man with me ..to get back to his senses...
@Pip wait for me! i'm arriving at the boarding gate
He's literally laughing it off like he thinks of his daughter as a product for personal gain.
Ohh god I said "but she don't want to do it" like 20 times already
This guy seriously!! He literally only says "bc shes good" "she is talented" blah blah!! Like this kid doesnt want to! And she wants to be a teacher! Usually parents would be happy about that
My mother is just like the father here. Someone else's refusal, discomfort, or "no" means absolutely nothing at all. All that exists for a parent like this is their own ambitions for their child. when the father was blustering about "not realizing she hated it", I kept getting bitter flashbacks to my mother always being blind to other people's discomfort, fear, or emotions in general. all they know is what they want, and everyone else is either a pawn or an obstruction. jesus, poor girl, nothing will change after this half-scripted episode.
My Dad : Eat Less Get Skinny
* Gets Skinny *
My Dad : Eat More Get Fat
Me : OMG
Jisoo Lyrics saaaaaaaaame
Jisoo Lyrics SAME
Jisoo Lyrics my dad always says my skinny no matter if I'm chubby or not and I'm over here like....."
Me: "Dad im not skinny"
My dad: "yes you are , who told you that you weren't"
Me: "my belly"
My dad: "awww but your just skin and bone"
Me: rises eyebrow and walks away
Gets down to a average weight that's near my perfect weight:
My dad: "your getting awfully skinny"
Me: "for the 50th time I'm not skinny , I'm an average weight for teens my age that are my height , ok?"
My dad: slides food across the table "you should eat more"
Me: roles eyes and takes food
how to be asian 101
Jisoo Lyrics thats also abuse, as a kid a was force by my mother to eat everything on my plate even if i was full, she didnt allow me to move until that happen, i could spent 2 -3 hours slowly eating until finish cuz i was full... also this is a bit triggered i didnt like fruits And she force me to eat them by put them in my mounth And close my nose, so i have to eat it even if i was disgusted... she one day thought that the solution about that was making the fruits into a pure cuz wasnt even a freaking juice, NO Cuz that would make the fruit mess fruity ... i was FORCE to drink it, i used to vomit after that.... she EVEN GET MAD AT ME cuz i vomit , so yes, making you eat even if you dont want is psychological abuse ....
Worse part now I'm a freaking obesse woman, since i get used to eat abnornal amounts of food... excelent 👌 ... now she tells me fat ... i understand now she hates me cuz when i was a skinny kid she force me to eat, now that I'M fat af she body shames me
Funny how some people point out to the mother's surgery when the main point here is the father and the daughter
i loved it when Choi Tae Joon said he wanted to just throw him down. I love him. I think he should give that young girl his cell number so she can get mental support from him. This isn't over yet. I think the show should pay for the father to see a psychiatrist.
OMG the smile that she broke into after her dad said he’ll support her SO ADORABLE
The father is like a circus master training a lion to perform acts. Forcing his daughter to do things she dont like.
First child gave up and then the second child will be the next target LOL ....
baekfanboy _ lol hhahahahaha
Not sure if he really meant the words he says towards his child in a honest manner? like i swear her father has some misdemeanour, attitude issues by rashly forcing her to act in front a people who don't know in a Coffee or Restaurant is just embarrassing yet quite a waste of time a kid who has no such interests in doing at this as an profession. Have some conscience Mister! Ye-eun is only 12 who still may have dreams of her own and her future career doesn't had to belong in an acting entertainment path which differs the fact she does not want to be an superstar in spite of by her father's intractable harsh commands.
Speaking of harsh commands this dad has zero knowledge about Children's rights not only as forcing his will on his way to his daughter her dad is egoistical, uncaring, domineering. So far he only seen her as a money-maker not his child is unpleasantly sickening thus, once others point out about of this issue he just makes an unclean excuse, insisting her that she's talented i mean how can you call this is a talent while you're the one who's pressuring her to drag into your grasp to follow up all of the over auditions in Seoul. Isn't just obnoxious and disgraceful to force a child to do on his way especially Ye-eun a middle-school student who wants to spend time with friends who unfortunately can't spent time because how impatient, short tempered his father is. Nonetheless, i'd wish her to spend her childhood happily of what she wants to do in her spare time by less having any severe-problems. Respect her decisions and be kind one another, listen her struggles, exhaustion, mental-illness deeply without giving such a burden and perceive/understand those thoughts that she is only human. Remember all we need is a long days and nights within years to choice our dreams on our own. it'll begin to grow, prosper if a father accepts this person's dream without a force neither sternly scolding to do better nor becoming the the top notch excellent #1 like how he's mistreating/controlling his child. Does he even realize he's violating his daughter's choices?
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Give Ye-eun some free space! let her live her life peacefully! and buy her a meal, warm clothes or a handful of presents in her daily-life rather than being aggressive. It is not your job to act like a manager towards your daughter. Thanks!
EDIT
(Also one thing! letting her lose weight is making her health even more unhealthy just the sake for this Korean Beauty Standards are all non-sense for a girl who hasn't reached out puberty yet. This guy is surely idiotic.)
Билгүүн .Э u literally wrote a whole essay, not that I'm judging or anything
Tae Joon looks like he feels the most cos he understands the girl point of view
i would like him as a dad. he seems like a nice person and great dad. i would like someone being that persistent to me about becoming successful.
When I first saw the title I was like 'Wow, I wish my dad was like that.'
After I was 10 minutes into the video
'Wow, I'm glad my dad isn't like that.'
Why does the dad look like Stingy from Lazy Town?
On Demand Exit i hate you for this
OMG HAHAHAHAH 😂😂😂
I SNORTED READING THIS HAHAHA
I FREAKING LOVED WATCHING THAT SHOW 😂
I WAS THINKING "omg he looks like someone from a show.. BUT I CAN'T REMEMBER WHO." THANK YOU FOR REMINDING ME WHO IT IS.
You should NOT support your childs talents, you should support your child DREAMS and AMBITIONS.
Gabriel but realizing ur child's talents is also very important bc there is a bigger chance of success
correct, but dreams>talents
of course if both of them math to the same future, that is the best
Istg I felt like slapping him through the screen
He's trying to live his dream through his daughter, it's difficult to live life by your own choice when you have parents like that. My dad seriously wanted me to become a doctor because he couldn't become one. And due to this I was forced to study long hours and give up things I wanted to do. Not to mention the fact that I didn't get to choose my own career.
Finally...the last part was the best. I was so pissed with him throughout the video but when he said that he'll support what she wants, I'm so relieved :D
Oml I love tae joon soooo much ...he is so relatable...when he asked do they make u do that in front of of guests lol and his reaction 👏👏👏👏💯🤣🤗😍
he sounds a lot like my dad. I like to sing since I was 2 years old, my mum sent me for piano and vocal lessons since I was 8, but she never pressured me to be a singer, instead she suggested me to be a doctor and singing can be my second career or just a hobby. But my dad on the other hand, he told me to keep on singing and just quit university. And whenever I'm out with my dad, he would ask me to sing in front of his friends, we would go to karaoke place and brag how I am going to be a singer one day and so on. Every time he called me he would keep telling me and giving me this "advices" to just focus on singing and play music instruments because I have the talents. I personally love singing and play music instruments, but I don't want to be pressured to sing in front of his friends just because he wants to be stand out and because he has nothing to show to them but me. And when I would fail one course at uni, he would put me down and tell me to quit. I can relate to this girl's situation
everyone be commenting about how everyone is insuting the mother's nose when i don't see any comments on it lmao
leeminsho hahaha yes
LeeMinsHoe IKR LIKE I WANT TO KNOW WAT IS THE FUSS IS ABOUT SMH
Ikr lmao
ShugarGlider haha niceee you read True beauty too😍
This is the first time the hosts are so pissed
Her mother is so gorgeous woah
okay the mom looks like a gangnam unnie but at least she treats her daughter *as* a daughter unlike that garbage father
looks don't matter in this situation, the mom has a good heart and thats good enough for me
What is a gangnam unnie?
Rafiq google it and you'll understand from pictures
ikr especially her nose
Rafiq women that had done a lot of plastic surgery which make their face seems so plasty/fake i guess
ahh right those kind... thanks thanks
SHE IS SO PRETTY OMGG !!
I wish they would do a show where they do an aftermath on their stories so we'll know what happened
instead of getting angry at him I am always laughing because of his line "jalhaeyo/she's really talented" HAHAHAHA! omg.
im really lucky to have a father who supports me in whatever i do. call it my dreams or my goals, he would give me endless support and love.
DUDE YOU GOTTA STOP talent without passion has no longevity, I srsly hope he doesn't force his dreams on his daughter anymore!
“I never knew that before but my daughter repeats it a billion times” ok sure
My dad saw that I had a talent for singing and dancing and suggested that I try becoming an Idol.
But I told him dancing and singing are my hobby not my dream my dream is to become a designer and he supported me he even bought me a sowing machine and for that I am grateful to him.
I never knew your talent can be used against you.
And I promise you one day this girl is going to be a great teacher and might even teach the next stars of the world.
all of the MCs are going crazy because of him 😅
Can everyone stop talking about the mother's plastic surgery??? Seriously its getting annoying
Kpop has ruined me I agree what's wrong with plastic surgery? If people want to do it they shoul there is nothing wrong with wanting to look pretty
Whats wrong with talking about plastic surgery?
If ur annoyed, then dont read them. Easy
Zion Kim the problem is that apparently everyone was focusing more on plastic surgery than THE FATHER THAT BASICALLY MADE HIS DAUGHTER A LITTLE ACTING SLAVE!!!
@@lightishredgummi TRUE!
the daughter is a cutie pie i hope she dont do any surgery when she gets older..
josh lee Why mention surgery when that has nothing to do with the daughter's concern?
Because her father is so adamant in her becoming an actress or a star he forces her to do stuff that kids her age shouldn't be doing like losing weight, who knows maybe in the future the father will try to convince her to change her face or do double eyelid surgery to get a role
She need eye lid surgery
pomm pamm she doesn't need any surgery. She's very pretty so stfu.
pomm pamm she has monolids but she is goddamn pretty
Some of my friends' parents are like that father too. Deciding already what their daughter should do and be once she grows up. But unlike this father, it's often just what they think of as a good career path(good in their definition is one that earns well). The most common being Doctor, Engineer, or Banker. Most of them don't know their children's real dreams because they don't *care* to know. I'm actually frustrated by this father but not really surprised. This behaviour creates resentment in the child towards their parent/s which creates a huge rift in their relationship. It even becomes a matter of contemplation for the child whether or not they actually love their parent/s.
This makes me be extremely grateful for my father who supports my dreams and my goals, and encourages them.
Am I the only one who didn't notice the moms surgery
Full Moon No Water i dont notice that too at first. but when i read comments about it then i realized. but i feel bad for her for people also only realizing to what's seen visually (esp her mom), not what the problem of the kid has.
what kind of disease she haS?
Syahid Hadi exactly it's as if they care more about the moms visuals then the daughters concern
Full Moon No Water is that a problem to u?
Duhh
faezah mastupin yes it is. the daughter obviously has a serious concern but all ppl can talk about is the mothers surgery
Society, people all are weird.if we go some years behind in many Asian countries women were only told to raise children if a girl talked about her dream she would be considered shameless!! Then after those days parents wanted nothing more less doctors from their daughters and every other professions were considered lower class.but now days have come where the father is forcing his kid to ACT and not to study!!!!!! We live in a weird world 😒😒😒😵😵😵😵😵😰😰😰😰😰
Minori ruba, only deluded parents like the dad in this video forces their children to something like this and every country has them, not just Asian countries.
Minori ruba not all Asian does😑
I think it is the same. It is just parents shoving their ideals unto children without communicating a middle ground.
I think the dad will shut down on her and treat her coldly if she doesn't pursue acting. I wish the dad will audition and do things to pursue his own dream rather than forcing it on her.
She’s really beautiful and that may be why the father feels she should be a actor but he should let her chose her path and support her no matter what
I somehow can relate to the father because every single parent wants the best for for their child and for him acting is the best for the girl... He just don’t want her to take the wrong path for her future. And since she is still young, he felt like she wouldn’t understand what and how hard it is nowadays to have a successful career and life. That’s just the way he’s thinking.. But i also know that the girl should choose her own way instead of being controlled by the parents.
Extra: what do you feel if you have a father like him and he really wants you to be a very successful actor / actress but suddenly he died and he told you to have your own way and he confessed that he just wants you to be happy in the future?
All the people out there I wish my dad would've drag me to it. I can totally understand what her father's dream is! It' s actually "blessing in disguise" when your parents try to show you the path. Acting is not bad I guess.
" i really want to throw him down" 😂😂 same my dear same!
These excuses are worse than the ones I hear from school like I forgot my homework .-.
She reminds me of Sulli :") they both so beautiful.
R.I.P Sulli
She's so pretty! I'm cyinggg
6:12 Taejoon ah calm down😂😂
Her dad is so stubborn...
They have *SO MUCH* patience.
This kid has the right to decide what path of career she chooses!! Don't force her to be something she doesn't want to be!! I want come through the screen and slap that father so bad right now
her father is so stubborn 😂 he always denied the fact and wanted to make a good impression
what if the dad made her daughter appear on the show as a way to get her on tv and make her famous
what a twist. then, this will confirm that the whole family can act awesomely.
i am a teenager too but my parents aren't this harsh to me about my dreams for my future... i do act too but they do not force me to do anything like that.. i am a dancer too but if i win any competition, they would congratulate me and it is up to myself if i want to continue dancing or not and they let me decide on that. they wouldn't force me to do anything they want me to be in the future
I can tell that her father in acting mode...please save this kid...im crying right now
this guy is not answering the MC's questioms omg
this girl remind me with someone I know in high school. He don't want to be a doctor at all. He is diligent but he can't really keep up. He failed 2years on university acceptance exam but his parent still want him to get in medical major in either 2 of the most prestigious university in my country. I really feel bad for him. I'm not that close with him but we ever took same course and cramp school for couple of months. He was so sweet, kind, and very friendly. He is such a hard working person as well. I feel bad when I met him after three years but he still can't seem to cope up with his parent's demand.
Well, I don't know where and how is he now, but I wish for that friend and the kid on the show so they'll got the best for them. So they can choose and do the path they want instead of what their parent's want.
Her dad won't give up on his dream to make her become an actress. as u can see he still said she's talented ,she's good without listen or think about what other people tried to explain him.
the way he talked was like he's never going to change anymore in future.
Omfgg the mom rly be spilling the tea. But my heart aches for her and I hope she eventually gets to just enjoy her childhood instead of being stressed about stuff
MCs:- how many times are u gonna say that she is talented!!!???
Her father:- YES!
I can so relate to this girl. My parents are also sometimes like that. "You are good at Maths, that's why you should be an engineer." They say that to me all the time. And it's specially my mom. She just keeps on telling me to do Maths. I hear it every second day. It was so much, that now I actually studying to become an engineer. I heard it from a young age, so I never actually got to dream about what I should become. It's like I never had a choice. Parents can become really harsh and completely ignore their kids. It's really frustrating to see parents being like this. After what has happened to me and a lot of other people, all I wanna do is become a really nice and supporting mother one day.
*Ladies and gentlemen, this father is what they called delusional grandeur.*
If he used different tactics and wasn't so strict she probably wouldnt be so opposed to it
Just because someone is good at something it doesn't mean that he/she likes it, Stress and pressure could make you accomplish a lot of things but it won't bring pure happiness... You'll only get the feeling of being satisfied instead of happiness. You'll think of it as a duty and not as a dream..
Everyone in the comment section:"Stop hating on the mom's nose!"
Me: *Scrolls down way too far looking for some and never finds anything*
Me:🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
ohemaa peprah-asante
me too.
i thought i was the only one
Same 🥲
I swear watching this show makes me stressed out. These people need to see real Theropist's
I think the part where she says she failed the audition and was told she wasn't any good but her dad offer her any comfort, really sums the problem with this situation.
its kinda obvious that he said he'll let whatever his daughter wants to do just to get the show over and done with. What a selfish person.
Oww, she should follow her own dream instead and refuse no matter what happens
Dad : IGnore school and study Acting
Me: Oh yes,No school thank you dad.
That Dad *REALLY* pissed me off
6:11 i really feel the anger from the MC
Other children doesn't have opportunity to study and enter a school because of poverty,,but then he wanted her daughter to stop and just continue to act even if she don't love/like what she's doing😢.
Taejoon really looks so done, omg. I'm pretty sure if this is not a TV program, he will knock some sense to her dad
I wish there was a show like this in America
I cried a lot because of this
Everything you do without passion is gonna be stressfull , you may be success but you not happy .
the important of the living is you success and feel happy .
I feel so sad, because I know parents like this don't change. They constantly push their dreams on their children.
looks like he still want her to do acting but i hope this girl could fight for her real dream
I am the only one who thinks that she looks like the goblin's wife of the Kdrama Guardian:The Lonely and Great God (Goblin)