With my son I used the refrigerator. It was a rule that while we are cleaning the fridge, he can tell me anything and I won't scream or have a heart attack. We covered many serious items and I got a clean fridge. Win/win.
I went for a walk with my 11 year old yesterday and the amount she spoke about and told me was incredible. Came away loving life even more and feeling more blessed for her.
I drove my kids to and from school across town every day. In the morning I heard about worries of the day and we talked about how to handle them. The afternoon conversation was of the days events. I drove my son until he was a sophomore and my daughter until she graduated. There were great conversations and well worth the time spent fighting traffic rather than them sitting on a bus.
I coach high school football. After the last game of the year I try to give every senior a hug and give them a personalized, encouraging word. I pick out certain traits of theirs that I highlight and try to give them vision for their future. I do that because one of my coaches did that to me after losing in the state championship game my sophomore year. As I was crying in the locker room he came and spoke words that after nearly 20 years still bring tears to my eyes.
My sons are 21 and 11. I think about them as babies every day. Treasure this age, even the stressful parts. When these years are gone, it’s forever. God bless your family.
You can! The best thing you can do to prepare is to heal your inner children and process and integrate anything unresolved inside of you with your relationships with your parents. Then when your children are born you will be fresh and present and not bogged down with past baggage. You won’t take your wounds out on your children. You are gonna be a great father.
Thank you Patrick, I consider myself a great father, but lately I've been drifting due to over working. This definitely help set me back on course. Had a great walk and conversation with daughter today.
@@YourFavDieselTechin the same situation here. Having a dad with the mentality of just “get a job, stay there as long as possible and retire” instead of pouring into me education wise, relationship wise, character wise I would be better off
The more quality time you spend with your kid(s), the better the outcome of your kid(s) future ❤ Taught my son to turn wrenches on beater cars at age 15. At age 20, he interned at Tesla. At age 28, he’s designing stuff at SpaceX. Never thought he’ll achieve so much so quickly.
Thank you for mentioning a drift! Fathers can stand next to them and help them not to drift away! Keep bringing the values that matter for human life and family, human flourishing !
Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill was written in 1938, but it remained unpublished for decades due to its controversial nature. The manuscript was considered too bold and provocative for its time, addressing topics like fear, control, and societal manipulation. It wasn’t until 2011, long after Hill’s death, that the book was finally published by the Napoleon Hill Foundation. It’s worth studying it
@ I can send you a copy or maybe a pdf format of this book. It’s a must read. If you have not read the think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. You should study that as well
"Outwitting The Devil" is, by far, the most excellent book ever written on human behavior. I was a mental health counselor, and there isn't a book I would more highly recommend, if a person truly wants to understand their own behavior and thought patterns.
Now you understand why AH eliminated porno once he took control of Germany!? And who today operates, controls, and pushes PornHub & OnlyFans?! You guessed it. Those people!
I desperately wish my parents would have had these conversations with me. I wanted and needed it more than anything. When no one did I jumped into the deep end. Took most of my adult life to fix those mistakes
With ONE caveat - whatever activity your kid gets involved in, have the grace as a parent to allow the kid to pick something THEY want to do, not something YOU push on them to do. Voice of experience here. Both my parents pulled that on me as a kid back 60 years ago. They wanted me involved in something but THEY decided what that something would be. Upshot was, I refused their demands. Mom, I loved ya, but I wanted to learn the guitar, not alto sax. Dad, I loved ya, but I wanted to take riding lessons, not flying lessons. So it all came to nothing.
PDB is the father most dream about. You squandered your parents love and support. Even if you would have become great at what they wanted, as an adult you could always go and learn what you want taking the lessons and work ethic from the other skills your parents pushed you towards. Do your best at the harmless things that people who love you ask you to do and you will be more than prepared to do amazing at the things you think are important and that you truly want to do.
Great to have regular discussions with your kids, parenting. Kids need you to be their parent, not just focusing on being their friend. Show love, make time - be intentional.
I told my daughter and son, what we had to do, both would go to college of their choice. Great high school grades and both graduated college. Both left with zero debt. Now make 10x what I did at 25. Perseverance, and the willing to work hard at it it takes a good family Patrick
This is very true every needs guidance its the most important thing in their life, just like when i was a kid there was so many quotes my dad would tell me and i never really got it but it stuck with me now that im a father im like wow the meaning to all of those quotes is deep so i reflect that onto my guides along with guidance in every step of the way.
What a great parenting example. PBDs story is amazing and he is continuing to evolve into an incredible human. His boys are lucky to have such a positive male role model
My father would always take me aside for a walk. Martial Arts taught me to be positive, confident, to assess bad situations. I fought in full contact, loved it!
I’m a single Mother and my son is 23 I’m so proud of him he is Reginal Manager of West Coast for Legends for NFL, MLB etc. it’s so important to be aware of your children Thank You PBD♥️🙏🏻
For crying out loud PBD you are a natural at this stuff. Very profound! Really wish I had this insight when my kids were younger. Always feel like I could of done better.
I'm happy y'all brought this up. I always wonder about these things. When I say always, I mean always. It's good to hear the constructive criticism. My boys are young, but this is something we already do. I admit... I do think we could make it a little more one on one. What we do is wait, and find that perfect moment. So.. I think one area I can correct this, is by going on walks. Make it more of a designated thing, so they realize the weight it holds. Idk.. we'll figure it out. My husband was the one who started this and it worked so well I kept doing it.
PBD, your podcast is “Top End” for me. As a Canadian, I want quality information from south of the 49th. “Drifting” and young kids and the need to be there for them. I spent 15 years in the Canadian military, Cadet Instructor Cadre, working and mentoring young men and women, from age 12-19. That is a potential 7 years, or for as long as the kid stays in the Cadet Program. It was great to hear that you take your kids well being as seriously as I have with my own kids and thousands of other kids. Thank you.
I have spoken to my children since they were in their mom's belly, and throughout their griwing up I reminded them that they were special and angels of god, always telling them they they had a purpose and to always be the best ib everything they did. Two valedictorian daughters later and a hard working and going to college at the same time son make me 😁🙏
Our kids are 5 and 8 and this past week, for the first time, we took them on a date separately. They loved it! You never know how much that 1 on 1 time is needed with them until you do it They asked to do it again, but with the opposite parent. ❤
As a man who grew up lost as a kid.... PLEASE..BE INVOLVED, not an annoyance but build them up don't point out what they are doing wrong all the time. You have to build them up and point them to greatness.
My car is still considered “the bubble”-nothing is off limits, no questions are off the table & yep, you bet there’s that too: swear, laugh, yell, cry, laugh, boast & scream if needed. Anything & everything was “ok” in the bubble. It’s still a very sacred place for me & my teenage boys ❤️
Always told my kids what their cousins had done, then ask them what would cause them to do that. Reason was I wanted to know how they would react to that kind of problem. They never knew what I was doing until they were older. It told me of what kind of mind they had and reasons. Today, both are adults and we get along better than my sisters children. We know and understand each other. It was my teaching and learning moment.
My parent’s idea of dealing with my problems where I felt like a slave because I had to sit down, shut up, and do school work, was to make me do sports I had no interest in, and when I had an issue I had to tough it out just because they said so. “Parenting” to check the box is not the same as actually listening to understand. Parenting to check the box is parenting to shut your child’s complaints down as fast as possible. Then when the issue was me wanting to leave sports for the exact same reason they made me switch sports. And then when the same happened there they said “just one more year of soccer”. And when I blew off everything and started trouble they finally left me alone because they couldn’t handle a kid resentfully doing their own thing after being ignored for years.
@@foodforest012sounds sadistic. What is your problem? PBD admits parents get as sidetracked as their kids. My parents thought they had respect they had never earned. You just want an excuse to not care for your kids huh?
I’m in my 40s, East Indian very strict parent, especially my father. We never had a relationship because we always got scolded for EVERYTHING… even when I was just being silly as a child, I got hit or told I was being stupid. Now my father and mother wonder why I don’t share things with them and I don’t have a deep relationship with them… you can’t just forget how you were treated as a child… I can forgive but I can’t forget. It’s so sad. I feel jealous of people of have good relationships with their parents and people who actually had and felt love from their parents. Still to this day I don’t feel loved by them. They sort of care about me, because I have children, but not a love like I would assume from parents. Makes me cry still. Good for these men who are SHOWING their kids they love them with words and actions… tough love included. ❤
Parenting is a heroic job done properly and a the best reward seem them growing up with the heart of a lion and the brain of a genius with a humble expression of love and honesty with the moral integrity of a great person
Unfortunately western society has pushed the its all about ME and most American fathers just want to get away be left alone and focus on themselves. Patrick is a rare breed.
Do not allow the grande excuse of " society", as the blame for lack of looking at or into one-self. Learn to adapt, or get passed by and blaming other's for your lack of pursuits.
What I love about the RUclips channel Outdoor Boys is the way the father learning his children drive machines, learning how to survive,get hart, reparing machines, etc…
Such truth, find a way to involve them to build confidence, in themselves, not in looking for a reward from anyone else or compliments from anyone, but themselves. It needs to make them feel good when it's accomplished, but it also needs to be a personal challenge to better themselves. Teach self goals, they don't need to tell anyone about their goal, this teaches them self reflection, willpower and sticking to their goals on their own without looking for outside confirmation. It's ok to look for outside confirmation, but they need to realize who they are and where they are going with their goals first. Make your kids strong in mind and body!! This world is crazy, keep walking and communicating with your kids to help them when they go drifting!
8:10 - A traditional Persian drink that uses lemon water as a base is **Sekanjabin Sharbat**. It's a refreshing and ancient Iranian beverage made from a sweet-and-sour syrup of vinegar (often white vinegar or apple cider vinegar) and honey or sugar. Lemon or lime juice can be added for extra tanginess, making it a delightful cooling drink for hot days. To serve, the syrup is mixed with cold water (often lemon-infused water), and sometimes grated cucumber or mint leaves are added for more flavor. It’s a popular accompaniment for summer gatherings in Persian culture.
My adult boys have drifted and we no longer have strong father - son relationships. I have one more son who is 10 yo and I'm in constant communication with him hoping and praying that he's the one who takes the responsibility to carry the family name over and be the leader to the next generation.
So true my dad told me no son you won’t work with me you will be a business owner when you work you will be a CEO you have the talent and I never forgot that when I was 13 years old: he didn’t talk to me all the time or much but I’ll never forget that and it drove me to this day he also told me after i was finished he said you were the best qb to come through this city and he meant it I could tell it’s incredible the words how impactful they are as parents
As a parent, you need to spend time with your children. Make that a priority. Pray for them and pray with them. Share their dreams and burdens. Most of all, love them, unconditionally! It takes work, but it’s all worth it!
Always appreciate pbd and team in giving every parent a nudge to be better and not just cruise/drift in life. Our kids futures are dependent on it. And a small conversation about confidence, right vs. Wrong and honesty is what will separate the kids with a bright future vs. Troubled and lost kids. Thank you for thinking about the current parents and our next generation. Continue on your fight the liberal woke left ideology.
If that many kids were really missing you’d see their parents all over the news. 1 girl went missing in my hometown and it was on the news every day until they found her dead. My hometown has higher crime than 96% of similar sized cities.
320,000 of those kids are from a report from homeland security. It’s all illegal immigrant minors. So, no parents screaming their heads off. PBD should have clarified that.
When my kids were young, my objective was NOT to be their friend, but to prevent them from being entitled and spoiled. They did not like me until after high school. Now they are very successful college educated tech people and they are grateful for the tough love and the success that I promised would happen if they stayed the course. I didn’t not fall into the trap of boomer parents spoiling their kids because of their corporal punishment of upbringing and feeling sorry for their kids. I know many of our friends that did the ‘feeling sorry’ method and they have issue lets minimally say. We are talking even very wealth friends with massive resources with the same outcomes as the middle class. Unfortunately, this approach for boomers bring up the next gen is more an exception than the majority and the attitudes of millennials and gen Z prove this fact.
Teaching wisdom to your children is probably the most important, but being the example is what they really watch , have a foundation built on a relationship with your maker is most important, that is the rock , you build your foundation on , this life is short, you can’t take a penny with you , what’s eternal is what your focus should be on
I always told my son that he could do anything, get anything, be anything he want in life, up. Up to being the president, if he was wiling to work hard enough to get it. He makes six figures now. His boss hired him because he asked my son what was one thing his parents told him that he still remembered. My son told him what I said to him repeatedly, and he hired olhim on the spot. His boss toss told him that represented good work ethic. The boss is the owner of the co. And I still stop and talk to him in his office sometimes.
I was homeless,did drugs,went into prison,where I got to know God.He changed my life. Now I have a home,a wife and a lovely year old daughter (Zoe), and a stream of income that gets me $47,000 weekly. Plus a new identity -a child of God, Hallelujah 🇺🇸❣️❤️❤️
@@RicArmstronghe has 3 sons, i think they are still in elementary to middle school. They definitely can’t drive lol Patrick has posted them many times online
With my son I used the refrigerator. It was a rule that while we are cleaning the fridge, he can tell me anything and I won't scream or have a heart attack. We covered many serious items and I got a clean fridge. Win/win.
Damn that’s really good .
Wow!
Creative parenting!
Luther Van Dross said, Find one Hundred Ways.
Wow genius. Love it.
Great idea!
I went for a walk with my 11 year old yesterday and the amount she spoke about and told me was incredible. Came away loving life even more and feeling more blessed for her.
I miss my daughter being young so much . She’s 16 and drifting hard
@@techdeathhippie6319 i hope you can find the way to show her the good way 💪🏽
This struck me to the heart. My son is now 41, a heavy drinker. This whole idea of a conversation with your child. I have no words.
Its not too late. Today.
Son you are going to be a leader one day because you are not afraid of the truth.... powerful
The pressure on the kid. This could go one of two ways.
Inspiration and confidence- not pressure.
@f3penang287 every kid could go one of two ways. Jeez.
@@ER-pc3dx of course, don’t state the obvious. Pat is however improving the odds of his boys going in the wrong direction.
"Everyone one of them counts!" That is so true. Each and everyone of those kids matter very very much.
I drove my kids to and from school across town every day. In the morning I heard about worries of the day and we talked about how to handle them. The afternoon conversation was of the days events. I drove my son until he was a sophomore and my daughter until she graduated. There were great conversations and well worth the time spent fighting traffic rather than them sitting on a bus.
I coach high school football. After the last game of the year I try to give every senior a hug and give them a personalized, encouraging word. I pick out certain traits of theirs that I highlight and try to give them vision for their future. I do that because one of my coaches did that to me after losing in the state championship game my sophomore year. As I was crying in the locker room he came and spoke words that after nearly 20 years still bring tears to my eyes.
My son just turned 2 and I have a daughter on the way. I love videos like this. I can't wait to have these conversations with my kids one day.
Get them to watch animated movie "King of Glory "also superbook cartoons .
God bless ,keep and protect you and your family
My sons are 21 and 11. I think about them as babies every day. Treasure this age, even the stressful parts. When these years are gone, it’s forever. God bless your family.
@@Sacaratand those years literally fly by..
Thank you PBD! I lost my father last year and I always listen how you are with your kids . Hope I can be a good father like you one day
Lost my father this year to Cancer & found out a couple months after that i have a Son on the way, these videos help me a lot as well.
Sending warm hugs
You will!!
Check out Nick Freitas and learn more how to deal with your own children. He’s a classic.
You can! The best thing you can do to prepare is to heal your inner children and process and integrate anything unresolved inside of you with your relationships with your parents. Then when your children are born you will be fresh and present and not bogged down with past baggage. You won’t take your wounds out on your children. You are gonna be a great father.
Thank you Patrick, I consider myself a great father, but lately I've been drifting due to over working. This definitely help set me back on course. Had a great walk and conversation with daughter today.
Self awareness is a great attribute to have.
Man imagine having a father like this growing up…..
Menendez bros
I wish. It would’ve given me the head start I needed vs having to learn all this on my own.
Lol I wish I had a dad.
I doubt he is home that often
@@YourFavDieselTechin the same situation here. Having a dad with the mentality of just “get a job, stay there as long as possible and retire” instead of pouring into me education wise, relationship wise, character wise I would be better off
The more quality time you spend with your kid(s), the better the outcome of your kid(s) future ❤
Taught my son to turn wrenches on beater cars at age 15. At age 20, he interned at Tesla. At age 28, he’s designing stuff at SpaceX. Never thought he’ll achieve so much so quickly.
You should be very proud, fantastic!
Wow. Wow! :)
More kids need dads like you.
Nice!!!!
So very many kids need a dad like you. Being a parent is the hardest but most important job and it sounds like you get an a+❤
Sound of Freedom Movie needs to be watched by Everyone ❤
100%
Watch the movie Trade!!!!
@@dorothypuntarich784 what's it about
Please make more parenting videos. This is what our society needs. The future looks bright!
Amen, the future is indeed very bright!😊
Absolutely ❤
Yes! Those are my favorites
Thank you for mentioning a drift! Fathers can stand next to them and help them not to drift away! Keep bringing the values that matter for human life and family, human flourishing !
It's ALL connected to Scripture and defining our lives as God intended. Even if we deny this truth.
Man please more of this. PDB sounds like an amazing father, would love to learn more for my future kids
Watch "Iron Works" with pastor brett from Athey creek ,for men .God bless
Outwitting the Devil by Napoleon Hill was written in 1938, but it remained unpublished for decades due to its controversial nature. The manuscript was considered too bold and provocative for its time, addressing topics like fear, control, and societal manipulation. It wasn’t until 2011, long after Hill’s death, that the book was finally published by the Napoleon Hill Foundation. It’s worth studying it
Thank you for this.
can you summarise what the book is about?
@ I can send you a copy or maybe a pdf format of this book. It’s a must read. If you have not read the think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. You should study that as well
@@aslanlela excellent
Thank you
It’s the most amazing book. My mentor made me read it. I love it. It was life changing.
"Outwitting The Devil" is, by far, the most excellent book ever written on human behavior. I was a mental health counselor, and there isn't a book I would more highly recommend, if a person truly wants to understand their own behavior and thought patterns.
can you summarise what the book is about?
I’m not shocked because porn is absolutely evil to the core 😢these kids need our prayers and so do the parents.
Now you understand why AH eliminated porno once he took control of Germany!? And who today operates, controls, and pushes PornHub & OnlyFans?! You guessed it. Those people!
I desperately wish my parents would have had these conversations with me. I wanted and needed it more than anything. When no one did I jumped into the deep end. Took most of my adult life to fix those mistakes
How gratifying to be the owner of your own accomplishments.
You should be so proud of yourself!
If not careful, you can spend the second half of your life fixing the mistakes made in your first half!!!
With ONE caveat - whatever activity your kid gets involved in, have the grace as a parent to allow the kid to pick something THEY want to do, not something YOU push on them to do.
Voice of experience here. Both my parents pulled that on me as a kid back 60 years ago. They wanted me involved in something but THEY decided what that something would be. Upshot was, I refused their demands. Mom, I loved ya, but I wanted to learn the guitar, not alto sax. Dad, I loved ya, but I wanted to take riding lessons, not flying lessons. So it all came to nothing.
Yea he seems kinda of pushy. Kid's are gonna need therapy later. He is clueless on kids.....stick to selling insurance!
Nah, you learned what not to do.
PDB is the father most dream about. You squandered your parents love and support. Even if you would have become great at what they wanted, as an adult you could always go and learn what you want taking the lessons and work ethic from the other skills your parents pushed you towards. Do your best at the harmless things that people who love you ask you to do and you will be more than prepared to do amazing at the things you think are important and that you truly want to do.
Solid advice Pat. More people need to hear this.
Great to have regular discussions with your kids, parenting. Kids need you to be their parent, not just focusing on being their friend. Show love, make time - be intentional.
I told my daughter and son, what we had to do, both would go to college of their choice. Great high school grades and both graduated college. Both left with zero debt. Now make 10x what I did at 25.
Perseverance, and the willing to work hard at it it takes a good family Patrick
But what are their MORALS like? How is their MENTAL HEALTH?! Money means nothing if they don’t work on those two above. Money comes and goes.
This is very true every needs guidance its the most important thing in their life, just like when i was a kid there was so many quotes my dad would tell me and i never really got it but it stuck with me now that im a father im like wow the meaning to all of those quotes is deep so i reflect that onto my guides along with guidance in every step of the way.
What a great parenting example. PBDs story is amazing and he is continuing to evolve into an incredible human. His boys are lucky to have such a positive male role model
My father would always take me aside for a walk. Martial Arts taught me to be positive, confident, to assess bad situations. I fought in full contact, loved it!
Shoutout to PBD for recognizing Rob, been thinking the same thing myself. He really adds great value to the pod and is very funny on Unusual
I’m a single Mother and my son is 23 I’m so proud of him he is Reginal Manager of West Coast for Legends for NFL, MLB etc. it’s so important to be aware of your children Thank You PBD♥️🙏🏻
For crying out loud PBD you are a natural at this stuff. Very profound! Really wish I had this insight when my kids were younger. Always feel like I could of done better.
I'm happy y'all brought this up. I always wonder about these things. When I say always, I mean always. It's good to hear the constructive criticism.
My boys are young, but this is something we already do. I admit... I do think we could make it a little more one on one. What we do is wait, and find that perfect moment. So.. I think one area I can correct this, is by going on walks. Make it more of a designated thing, so they realize the weight it holds. Idk.. we'll figure it out. My husband was the one who started this and it worked so well I kept doing it.
PBD, your podcast is “Top End” for me. As a Canadian, I want quality information from south of the 49th. “Drifting” and young kids and the need to be there for them. I spent 15 years in the Canadian military, Cadet Instructor Cadre, working and mentoring young men and women, from age 12-19. That is a potential 7 years, or for as long as the kid stays in the Cadet Program. It was great to hear that you take your kids well being as seriously as I have with my own kids and thousands of other kids. Thank you.
I have spoken to my children since they were in their mom's belly, and throughout their griwing up I reminded them that they were special and angels of god, always telling them they they had a purpose and to always be the best ib everything they did. Two valedictorian daughters later and a hard working and going to college at the same time son make me 😁🙏
I had this conversation with my 10yo son. Happy to see my alignment on this good approach.
Our kids are 5 and 8 and this past week, for the first time, we took them on a date separately. They loved it! You never know how much that 1 on 1 time is needed with them until you do it They asked to do it again, but with the opposite parent. ❤
Such IMPT advice! My dad always said the most impt thing to teach your kids is to have confidence. It has to be built into them.
God Bless! ❤️🔥
As a man who grew up lost as a kid.... PLEASE..BE INVOLVED, not an annoyance but build them up don't point out what they are doing wrong all the time. You have to build them up and point them to greatness.
I love PBD. He is one of my HEROS! I've said this many times. ❤❤❤ one day I hope to meet you PBD.
My car is still considered “the bubble”-nothing is off limits, no questions are off the table & yep, you bet there’s that too: swear, laugh, yell, cry, laugh, boast & scream if needed. Anything & everything was “ok” in the bubble. It’s still a very sacred place for me & my teenage boys ❤️
Always told my kids what their cousins had done, then ask them what would cause them to do that. Reason was I wanted to know how they would react to that kind of problem. They never knew what I was doing until they were older. It told me of what kind of mind they had and reasons. Today, both are adults and we get along better than my sisters children. We know and understand each other. It was my teaching and learning moment.
Confidence + Attention = Influence 🇦🇲🇺🇸🙏
So powerful. Thank you for bringing attention to this. The children, the adult site, building strong families. Thank you 🧡🧡🧡
My parent’s idea of dealing with my problems where I felt like a slave because I had to sit down, shut up, and do school work, was to make me do sports I had no interest in, and when I had an issue I had to tough it out just because they said so.
“Parenting” to check the box is not the same as actually listening to understand.
Parenting to check the box is parenting to shut your child’s complaints down as fast as possible.
Then when the issue was me wanting to leave sports for the exact same reason they made me switch sports.
And then when the same happened there they said “just one more year of soccer”.
And when I blew off everything and started trouble they finally left me alone because they couldn’t handle a kid resentfully doing their own thing after being ignored for years.
@ sounds like you’re a sadistic dictator. You don’t know much but want to judge. Bet my food forest is better than yours 😂 bum
@@foodforest012sounds sadistic. What is your problem? PBD admits parents get as sidetracked as their kids. My parents thought they had respect they had never earned. You just want an excuse to not care for your kids huh?
I’m in my 40s, East Indian very strict parent, especially my father. We never had a relationship because we always got scolded for EVERYTHING… even when I was just being silly as a child, I got hit or told I was being stupid.
Now my father and mother wonder why I don’t share things with them and I don’t have a deep relationship with them… you can’t just forget how you were treated as a child… I can forgive but I can’t forget.
It’s so sad. I feel jealous of people of have good relationships with their parents and people who actually had and felt love from their parents.
Still to this day I don’t feel loved by them. They sort of care about me, because I have children, but not a love like I would assume from parents.
Makes me cry still.
Good for these men who are SHOWING their kids they love them with words and actions… tough love included. ❤
God BLESS you, PBD!! You are an Encouragement and an Inspiration!! THANK YOU!!
Parenting is a heroic job done properly and a the best reward seem them growing up with the heart of a lion and the brain of a genius with a humble expression of love and honesty with the moral integrity of a great person
Absolutely Correct, Amen and Amen, Thank You for sharing this Incredible and informative story.. From Australia
Shout-out to all the great dad's out there
Aww rob went bright red .. he’s so humble!!❤❤❤
Love seeing Rob get his flowers 🥹
Unfortunately western society has pushed the its all about ME and most American fathers just want to get away be left alone and focus on themselves. Patrick is a rare breed.
That is very good to read
Do not allow the grande excuse of " society", as the blame for lack of looking at or into one-self. Learn to adapt, or get passed by and blaming other's for your lack of pursuits.
@@nicks.901 lol not talking about me. Nice try
PBD thanks for all you do.
God bless you Patrick and the great message here. Future looks bright
I wish there was a “heart “ button on this episode. I’m going to look for that book this week.
What I love about the RUclips channel Outdoor Boys is the way the father learning his children drive machines, learning how to survive,get hart, reparing machines, etc…
Thank you for the advice ! 💕🙏
Such truth, find a way to involve them to build confidence, in themselves, not in looking for a reward from anyone else or compliments from anyone, but themselves. It needs to make them feel good when it's accomplished, but it also needs to be a personal challenge to better themselves. Teach self goals, they don't need to tell anyone about their goal, this teaches them self reflection, willpower and sticking to their goals on their own without looking for outside confirmation. It's ok to look for outside confirmation, but they need to realize who they are and where they are going with their goals first. Make your kids strong in mind and body!! This world is crazy, keep walking and communicating with your kids to help them when they go drifting!
8:10 - A traditional Persian drink that uses lemon water as a base is **Sekanjabin Sharbat**. It's a refreshing and ancient Iranian beverage made from a sweet-and-sour syrup of vinegar (often white vinegar or apple cider vinegar) and honey or sugar. Lemon or lime juice can be added for extra tanginess, making it a delightful cooling drink for hot days.
To serve, the syrup is mixed with cold water (often lemon-infused water), and sometimes grated cucumber or mint leaves are added for more flavor. It’s a popular accompaniment for summer gatherings in Persian culture.
My adult boys have drifted and we no longer have strong father - son relationships. I have one more son who is 10 yo and I'm in constant communication with him hoping and praying that he's the one who takes the responsibility to carry the family name over and be the leader to the next generation.
So true my dad told me no son you won’t work with me you will be a business owner when you work you will be a CEO you have the talent and I never forgot that when I was 13 years old: he didn’t talk to me all the time or much but I’ll never forget that and it drove me to this day he also told me after i was finished he said you were the best qb to come through this city and he meant it I could tell it’s incredible the words how impactful they are as parents
Fantastic book. I give it as a gift often
My grandson in hockey changed him team work happy outgoing and nice to people
Thank you for doing this episode.
Thanks to 10:20 PBD and the entire Valuetainment team.
Thank you for this powerful life's/parenting advice.
Love what you guys do.
From Nigeria.
2:01 there are differences not only in confidence
It's so very important to bring up a child in the ways of God so they know the correct way to go
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Pat, you are the man
One of my favorite books
This was my nudge! Thank you ❤️
Thank you so much for acknowledging Rob. If only all employers would pay attention.
💯 on building confidence !
Great dad
Surely I'm not the only one wishing PBD was my Father instead of the guy that should've been there.
Powerful 💯❤️🙏
As a parent, you need to spend time with your children. Make that a priority. Pray for them and pray with them. Share their dreams and burdens. Most of all, love them, unconditionally! It takes work, but it’s all worth it!
Musk awarded a guy in Michigan a million dollars because he signed was opening a homeschool to teach trades. Yea.
Always appreciate pbd and team in giving every parent a nudge to be better and not just cruise/drift in life. Our kids futures are dependent on it. And a small conversation about confidence, right vs. Wrong and honesty is what will separate the kids with a bright future vs. Troubled and lost kids. Thank you for thinking about the current parents and our next generation. Continue on your fight the liberal woke left ideology.
Alemio Network's presale got me hooked - the coolest way to be part of a groundbreaking project. Let's go!
Thank you PBD , can we have more videos on kids education .
These number of kids are missing, i understand. I need to pray more.
Confidence and Character building. Discipline Strict.
Respect… All of these things will be What Stays With Them for a Lifetime.
From Martial Arts
The dmv in nj was playing so many missing children adds it was mind blowing this was 6 or 7 possibly 8 years ago tho at the time.
I love how he says he had a 1 hour meeting with his kid like damn dude not everything is a job…. Says a lot.
What is life but a neverending source of small/large jobs???
@ yah don’t use the word meeting when your talking about just what a regular parent does everyday it’s called raising your kids…
@@BetterThenThearpy which is a job.......
Amazing advice man. I'll take it. Love this podcast.
PBD's podcast is entertaining, educative, and above all objective. You guys are gaining more momentum for the credibility of your podcast. #GODSEAGLE
As a child find a sport or activity you excel at. Competitive swimming shaped me into the competitive businessman I am.
Powerful…. PBD
PBD, my favorite is Nepoleon Hill. Thank you for mentioning. 🙏👍❤
Like PBD , Napoleon Hill was also a proven grifter/con artist!!!
Duuuumbb fkkkkkk!!
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If that many kids were really missing you’d see their parents all over the news. 1 girl went missing in my hometown and it was on the news every day until they found her dead. My hometown has higher crime than 96% of similar sized cities.
320,000 of those kids are from a report from homeland security. It’s all illegal immigrant minors. So, no parents screaming their heads off. PBD should have clarified that.
@@mR-dc4oqI thought I read somewhere it was 500k but I might be wrong
Outwitting the devil is an Amazing book
Good ideas!
When my kids were young, my objective was NOT to be their friend, but to prevent them from being entitled and spoiled. They did not like me until after high school. Now they are very successful college educated tech people and they are grateful for the tough love and the success that I promised would happen if they stayed the course. I didn’t not fall into the trap of boomer parents spoiling their kids because of their corporal punishment of upbringing and feeling sorry for their kids. I know many of our friends that did the ‘feeling sorry’ method and they have issue lets minimally say. We are talking even very wealth friends with massive resources with the same outcomes as the middle class. Unfortunately, this approach for boomers bring up the next gen is more an exception than the majority and the attitudes of millennials and gen Z prove this fact.
Wow i been reading this book
moral of the story: be connected to your kids
so many parents miss that
Teaching wisdom to your children is probably the most important, but being the example is what they really watch , have a foundation built on a relationship with your maker is most important, that is the rock , you build your foundation on , this life is short, you can’t take a penny with you , what’s eternal is what your focus should be on
Please do a parent advice videos!
I always told my son that he could do anything, get anything, be anything he want in life, up. Up to being the president, if he was wiling to work hard enough to get it.
He makes six figures now. His boss hired him because he asked my son what was one thing his parents told him that he still remembered. My son told him what I said to him repeatedly, and he hired olhim on the spot. His boss toss told him that represented good work ethic.
The boss is the owner of the co. And I still stop and talk to him in his office sometimes.
I was homeless,did drugs,went into prison,where I got to know God.He changed my life. Now I have a home,a wife and a lovely year old daughter (Zoe), and a stream of income that gets me $47,000 weekly. Plus a new identity -a child of God, Hallelujah 🇺🇸❣️❤️❤️
Drifting has a totally different meaning to me
I thought his son was driving erratically
@@RicArmstronghe has 3 sons, i think they are still in elementary to middle school. They definitely can’t drive lol Patrick has posted them many times online
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Oh OK.
I don't really keep tabs on his family situation.