The true male fantasy is when a man is loved for who he is and not what he does. That the crank he turns daily, can turn itself for a bit and nourish him in return. Men constantly have to perform because if he doesn't put in the work, he won't be loved. And more men are getting tired of that.
This should be the basis for anyone, regardless of gender. However, this is what patriarchy embraces and it’s what it promotes. Conditional love is never healthy for either sex. I hope you will experience true unconditional love during your lifetime. Take care.
Notes: What men truly desire: Genuine respect, affirmation & understanding everyday (not just on special occasions) 3 ways to show appreciation: 1. Take every opportunity to acknowlegde and affirm his character and qualities, that are unrelated to what he does for a living, but who he is as a human being. 2. Give him a gentle scalp massage when he’s asleep. (Rest is not a weakness but a restoration of strength). 3. Encourage open communication without trying to solve his problems. (He needs a listening ear, not a constructive tongue; quick to listen, slow to speak). 💯
Happy Father's Day to you! I just wanted to take a moment to thank you for not only being an amazing dad, but for always being there to brighten up our lives and make our internal light grow bigger and brighter. Your unconditional love and unwavering support mean everything to us, and we are so grateful for everything you do.
We aren't hard to figure out. Those of us who are well meaning and good communicators, we say or show exactly what we want and need. Most women these days don't listen and/or don't care.
The true male fantasy is when a man is loved for who he is and not what he does. That the crank he turns daily, can turn itself for a bit and nourish him in return. Men constantly have to perform because if he doesn't put in the work, he won't be loved. And more men are getting tired of that.
This should be the basis for anyone, regardless of gender. However, this is what patriarchy embraces and it’s what it promotes. Conditional love is never healthy for either sex. I hope you will experience true unconditional love during your lifetime. Take care.
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What men truly desire: Genuine respect, affirmation & understanding everyday (not just on special occasions)
3 ways to show appreciation: 1. Take every opportunity to acknowlegde and affirm his character and qualities, that are unrelated to what he does for a living, but who he is as a human being. 2. Give him a gentle scalp massage when he’s asleep. (Rest is not a weakness but a restoration of strength). 3. Encourage open communication without trying to solve his problems. (He needs a listening ear, not a constructive tongue; quick to listen, slow to speak). 💯
I don’t have a man but I’m taking notes! 😂Thank you for the insight and wisdom!!!
Why?
Everything he said is spot on, respect, friendship, and an understanding open minded perspective can go far with us as men…. Stay Up Queen👁️
@@harounben342 why what?
@@aaronantonio6539 thank you 🙏🏽
@@MsLoyal100 I just thought about it, it is because you don't settle for less.
Happy Father's Day to you! I just wanted to take a moment to thank you for not only being an amazing dad, but for always being there to brighten up our lives and make our internal light grow bigger and brighter. Your unconditional love and unwavering support mean everything to us, and we are so grateful for everything you do.
Scalp massage is so on point. My husband loves that. Amazing advice as always and totally on point. Salam.
The first two points - affirming our character and that scalp massage - those hit just right.
Your keen insight & inspired wisdom is both acknowledged & appreciated good sir, shalom/walakuum-salaam...
THIS IS REAL TALK 😇💪🏼💪🏼
Gratitude bless up
True words
These tips are quite gender neutral. And I’d also point out that no one can be “kept.”
Wisdom is great gain.. Shalom kING👁️
This is really strong.
shalom
Ase god and goddess 🙌
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I'd add a good home cooked meal every now and again as well...
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We aren't hard to figure out. Those of us who are well meaning and good communicators, we say or show exactly what we want and need. Most women these days don't listen and/or don't care.
Are you Jewish??