How Old Should My Daughter Date?

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  • Опубликовано: 31 дек 2024

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  • @beckiepatrick6900
    @beckiepatrick6900 29 дней назад +13

    London, so impressed by your poise and maturity! You have such a beautiful God centered heart and you are so smart!Thank you for coming on the podcast and sharing your thoughts and ideas with us. We are richer for it. Wishing you the best 13th year of your life! Keep having fun and loving God 🥰🙏

  • @annesnow7073
    @annesnow7073 29 дней назад +10

    Love London on the podcast!! Keep them coming 😁

  • @laurieleis2725
    @laurieleis2725 29 дней назад +4

    We appreciate you too Granger 😊 London you are growing up so much . I love the daddy daughter time you spent in this podcast . God bless all who watched this podcast. God's plan is perfect in HIS time 😊 have a great week 😊

  • @AprilRoses-3
    @AprilRoses-3 29 дней назад +3

    Aww I love to hear more of London’s thoughts about God and her love of Christ 💗

  • @redneck_welder
    @redneck_welder 29 дней назад +17

    I'd say around 17-18, as Christians we are called to serve and multiply, so safely we should be dating to find a life long partner. I'm an 18 year old boy, I've never been in a relationship before at all, and I've never had any stress in taking care of anyone else, and my heart isn't split up between several people due to past issues. It's easy to give your heart to someone when you're young, and loose sight of how marriage should work. Blessings to y'all, God bless

    • @Nicolas_0456
      @Nicolas_0456 29 дней назад +1

      Hello! Thank you for your comment! Please, wait to be at least 32 years old. Thank you! Don't worry, we'll pray for you. You'll be fine.

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 29 дней назад +2

      32 is later than I'd recommend to start dating, but given your comment, you seem to have a pretty good head on your shoulders. I'd say you're ready to start dating when you find a young lady that you feel is the right one to pursue.

  • @cindydowning5600
    @cindydowning5600 28 дней назад

    Great episode. I love it when London is on here with you.

  • @tammyfarrell8653
    @tammyfarrell8653 29 дней назад +2

    London is so pretty and sweet !💕 You and Amber are wonderful parents ! ♥️💙🦋🇨🇱🙏 It’s so wonderful Granger that you express how proud and grateful you are for London ! Daddy-Daughter relationships are so very important !💙🩷

  • @maryknittel1266
    @maryknittel1266 29 дней назад

    Wonderful to hear this discussion from London's point of view, too. It may touch a young heart and an older one, too.

  • @csmith9189
    @csmith9189 29 дней назад +2

    London is beautiful and it could be a challenge keeping the boys away. I say postpone dating as long as possible. Male friends can call and talk 15-16 years old no alone time or dates. Group dating at 16-17 years old. Be strict about dating Christian boys only. Values are very important and must align with your beliefs. My daughter had male friends at church and private church school, but no dating except with friends at youth church events. At 25 years old she married a friend from church after being friends and dating for 7 years. They just celebrated their 20th anniversary declaring that they are both married to their best friend. Great examples for their kids. ❤

  • @jennifergraham-oo6fr
    @jennifergraham-oo6fr 29 дней назад +1

    🙏🏻! London is adorable and she talks so grown up ❤

  • @adamfrommccleary3530
    @adamfrommccleary3530 29 дней назад

    I really didn’t expect to hear so much about coming to God. But I’m glad I tapped on this video.

  • @bowed305
    @bowed305 29 дней назад +1

    There is no magic age because people mature differently. A parent definitely knows when their child is ready, and a child needs to trust that a parent is looking out for their best interest.

  • @JulieKavanagh-x5o
    @JulieKavanagh-x5o 29 дней назад

    Your daughter is so beautiful and I just love how spiritual your whole family his. We need more families to be with God. Bless yours.

  • @jonesingaround3260
    @jonesingaround3260 29 дней назад +4

    On the dating aspect. I think no dating until marriage. Ive been watching your channel for a long time and feel as if ive watched them grow

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 29 дней назад +3

      No dating until marriage? How are you going to marry someone without dating them first?

    • @WinnieRoe
      @WinnieRoe 28 дней назад

      @@bowed305 they mean casual dating. Dating with no intention of finding a husband or wife

  • @Erinlogan-t4j
    @Erinlogan-t4j 29 дней назад

    London is absolutely beautiful just like her mama is. What a great podcast! Thank you Granger

  • @davidmcwilliams3814
    @davidmcwilliams3814 27 дней назад +1

    I know God is Sovereign, and there is nothing I can give him that doesn't already belong to him. One of my favorite verses is Luke 17:10 We are unprofitable servants.
    Sermon on the mount Blessed is the poor in Spirit (That's me)
    Blessed is the pure in heart. Pure is God's will, and unpure is to not do God's will.
    I know I can't work my way to heaven. Working my salvation through fear and trembling isn't from the fear of hell, but because I know who God is, and I have been given a desire to be like Khalib was, wholly for God. I'm a grown man and my mom says the ten commandments are not relevant. I told her they show us how low we sink but have no power to save us, but I have come to the conclusion. There is doing things that are not the will of God. Like what was said in the podcast that Jesus died for, we shouldn't want anything to do with those things. Thanks for sharing

    • @davidmcwilliams3814
      @davidmcwilliams3814 27 дней назад

      The ability to bare evil and to do good.
      Puritan prayer Spoken by Granger 3day fast in a desert
      Bout sumed it up

    • @davidmcwilliams3814
      @davidmcwilliams3814 27 дней назад

      I also remember sharing
      Blessed is the peace maker
      We first and foremost make peace with God.
      Jesus said he did not come to make peace but brought a sword to separate, but through him we have his peace.

    • @davidmcwilliams3814
      @davidmcwilliams3814 27 дней назад

      Antman èncouraged comments during the last podcast. You know how easy it is to find others faults and not your own? I'm thinking the same is true with someone's light shining for Christ. I watch Granger and it helps me see how my light is shining by watching his. My momma's light shines too. She's a beautiful child of God.

  • @sandraphilips5120
    @sandraphilips5120 29 дней назад +1

    Do y'all still film the Smiths? I haven't seen it for a good while. Is it still on RUclips?

  • @melanih2621
    @melanih2621 20 дней назад

    Courtship dating with parents at 16 than dating at 17 would be ok. I've seen more courtship with parents these days then back in the 80's. I started dating at 20 cause church, college and work keep me focused and grounded.

  • @wordsthatfeedthesoul
    @wordsthatfeedthesoul 29 дней назад

    I can’t wait for ambers new book!📕

  • @kenwillis8487
    @kenwillis8487 29 дней назад +1

    My oldest daughter is 20 a junior at maranatha bible college and is single! She is focused on completing college. If God chooses to send a young man into her life and he is willing to call me and video chat about his interest in dating to marry her then we will see where that goes! I’ve raised her to be independent first! I want her to be able to fully support herself with a good career path in the event of her being alone at a later time! That said my plans or hers and gods road map for her are totally different plans! Gods trumps all our plans !

  • @viniceduring1402
    @viniceduring1402 28 дней назад

    London you beautiful, strong and smart. Granger great job. I also would like to know what ppl say about your tattoos? Im older and drew mine, my daughters are married and also drew their tats. Some ppl think its marking you body. It doesnt mark your soul. 😊

  • @mattyblue1997
    @mattyblue1997 24 дня назад

    Listen man…. I’m gonna have a child soon. A daughter? I hope I’m blessed enough. But God bless me when it comes to her meeting a boy. God bless him actually. Pray for him. I’m worried for him.

  • @marcos7761
    @marcos7761 29 дней назад +1

    Gooood mornin!!!! 🤠☕️

  • @bgrateful453
    @bgrateful453 29 дней назад

    I thought Amber's book will come out in April 2025?
    ❤❤❤Ms. London Ava Smith. She is a bright light for Jesus. ❤this Daddy-Daughter duo.

  • @DemaisLucas120
    @DemaisLucas120 29 дней назад +4

    She's very cute ❤ congratulations

  • @viniceduring1402
    @viniceduring1402 28 дней назад

    Granger i am divorced and been with my bf for 10 yrs. He wants marriage but i dont fill hes a provider for me. Im also disabled do to medical issues.

  • @jackibrown5215
    @jackibrown5215 29 дней назад +1

    Enjoy your childhood London. You will become an adult very soon. ❤

  • @thomascaldwell463
    @thomascaldwell463 29 дней назад

    Great job London. Yee Yee

  • @lisachambers7543
    @lisachambers7543 29 дней назад +5

    17 would be an age that I think they can handle a dating relationship. Just need to know who they are, have them at your house multiple times. GPS tracker on phone! Drivers license name, number, address! Never let your child go out with "Joe!" Know the parents as well. Your daughter is very important, and you need to research all you need because at her age, we all know the giddy feeling with no brain involved. In this day and age, be very careful.

    • @kenwillis8487
      @kenwillis8487 29 дней назад +3

      I fully agree! Meeting the parents is definitely a must as at that age they are also very impressionable! The prospective dates parents must hold the beliefs and expectations of their young adult and their behavior. If the prospective dates is not willing to be patient and take things slow in order to facilitate meeting parents and supervision on first few encounters then it only speaks to their true intentions!

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 29 дней назад +3

      A lot of folks would consider your ideas old fashioned, but given things these days, I fully support going back to the older ways.

  • @Corinnajudd
    @Corinnajudd 29 дней назад

    I was 16 when I was allowed to date. I'm 54 now,and my daughter is fixing to be 15,and she is not allowed to date till she is 16.

  • @karltanninen
    @karltanninen 29 дней назад

    i have been raised only start at age 18

  • @sheliawisner811
    @sheliawisner811 28 дней назад

    I think the way sex is today,,most kids are active at 12,,13,,14,, and after that it is mostly everybody,,it's just general.. I am grand mother,, Christian,, I think 14 to 16 have a friend over or go where there always other people,church, family events, never alone.. 16 to 18 maybe alone parent guidance,,don't just let go like most parents do. A lot of talking about sex and waiting till marriage.. doing things God's way for your own personal self and life. I raised 2 sons and 3 granddaughters and they were all sexually active 13,14,15 ,could not control this after sex education at school ..

  • @JohnWolfPizza
    @JohnWolfPizza 29 дней назад

    I started dating after high school

  • @Weirdo677
    @Weirdo677 29 дней назад

    I have a a song idea I was wondering if I could take kind of the concept but instead of buy a boy be small it’s gonna be like buy a boy truck

  • @09rockboy61
    @09rockboy61 29 дней назад +1

    Morning

  • @countryfriedent
    @countryfriedent 29 дней назад +2

    40 is a good starting age

    • @fayeteater4644
      @fayeteater4644 29 дней назад +1

      What about having kids then her life is half way gone I would say she could be 18 that a good age

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 29 дней назад

      Not sure if this was supposed to be serious or not, but I'd say 40 is quite a bit beyond an age I'd recommend.

    • @Weirdo677
      @Weirdo677 29 дней назад

      40. Are you nuts like 15 or 14?

  • @fayeteater4644
    @fayeteater4644 29 дней назад

    I would say 16

  • @Nicolas_0456
    @Nicolas_0456 29 дней назад

    Hello! Thank you for this video! Do you want a sincere answer to that question? I'd say 32 years old is the perfect age for your daughter to date. Can she wait? She'll have to. We're going to pray for her 😄

    • @fayeteater4644
      @fayeteater4644 29 дней назад

      She would be to old then she would be to old because she would want kids .

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 29 дней назад

      @@fayeteater4644 Not too old. A 32 year old can definitely have kids, even a few kids, but I'm pretty sure this individual wasn't serious with that age.

  • @reecereid8764
    @reecereid8764 15 дней назад

    14-15

  • @shariarkema243
    @shariarkema243 29 дней назад

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @sandraitnyre5515
    @sandraitnyre5515 29 дней назад +2

    Group dating about 17, one on one dating about 18 anNot until SHE HAS GONE THROUGH SOME TYPE OF FEMALE SELF DEFENSE class and learned how to protect herself from predators.

  • @davidmcwilliams3814
    @davidmcwilliams3814 25 дней назад

    Am I a masterpiece, are you a masterpiece? I can't see what God sees. I tell him I am unworthy and still I worship him. I ask him how I can repay him and he tells me I am his own. I hold out my hand and in it is a possession. I am to invest myself into what he has given me. I am not to be like the slothful servant that placed his in a napkin and buried it in the backyard. I open my hand and I am a husband, a dad and now a grandpa. We have what God has given to us to give back to him where no rust or moth will harm. My son had a heart problem couple years back. How quickly I remind God that I dedicated him to him. I was praying to Jesus to care of your baby (18 still his baby, 80 still his baby not mine). ( his masterpiece) how quickly Was I begging for crumbs to fall off his table.

    • @davidmcwilliams3814
      @davidmcwilliams3814 23 дня назад

      This podcast really helped me. My church Bible study asked me to take on today's leason on Jesus Genealogy. When looking up Isaiah I asked " I asked what does Isaiah stand for?" His name stands for Salvation of the Lord. Saul changed his name to Paul. He no longer stood for what he once stood for.

  • @cgweiand6061
    @cgweiand6061 16 дней назад

    Mmmmmmmmmm mount

  • @DANEgerus
    @DANEgerus 29 дней назад +1

    '30'... tell her 30.

  • @frosty7154
    @frosty7154 29 дней назад

    Not everyone post to get married It is not biblical. God has a different purpose for everyone. Paul was not married. 1 Corinthians 7:7-8 For I wish that all men were even as I myself. But each one has his own gift from God, one in this manner and another in that.
    But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them if they remain even as I am

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 29 дней назад +1

      Remember that Paul said all of that given a present distress those folks in Corinth were experiencing. Not necessarily the same advice for all times.

    • @frosty7154
      @frosty7154 29 дней назад

      @@bowed305 that makes sense what you're saying in God's word never changes

    • @savannah1449
      @savannah1449 28 дней назад

      You forgot the next verse:
      8But I say to the unmarried and to the widows: It is good for them if they remain even as I am; 9but if they cannot exercise self-control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
      Marriage is a good thing.

    • @bowed305
      @bowed305 28 дней назад

      @ Yes

    • @Hotshot1989
      @Hotshot1989 28 дней назад

      Based on acts 26:10 Paul casting his vote to kill Christians likely implies he was a judge which would make him one of the 70 members of the Sanhedrin which to be a Sanhedrin you had to be married.