Greta, the example with guy being disrespectful and pushing you into discussion is gold! Can you please make a whole video about how to avoid getting involved into a fight by a guy who is deliberately provoking? For example he always says "woman have undiserved advantages in society" which makes me so angry, because this is so untrue. I also find he is very caring and gentlike, like he would "forget" about what he said about woman, when I'm withdrawn and distant. This is so exhousting. I would appreciate very much more real life examples how to dodge provocations and get away from a fight even when guy asks you sth you don't agree with and pushes you to respond.
My advice (and it’s not easy) is to stop caring. Focus on what matters. His wrong/sexist opinions are irrelevant! Don’t tell him that just think it in your head and smile. You give them so much importance when you get mad about them. Good luck
Learning to say yes and no correctly according to every situation makes life easier and keeps you away from unnecessary drama. Well said Queen 👑. I personally like the behaviour of him being alone when he is going through something or is tired, I would encourage him to give himself some alone time and eventually I see he gets through it and he's good again and I don't have to give any emotional effort to him.
I wonder - if an aggressive woman attracts a passive man and they decide to be together, would it work long term? Of course in any case there will be examples of exceptions, but I wonder would most such match ups feel happy.
As long as she can keep the same behaviour, woman get tired after sometime because this is not our nature, once she starts complaining about his passiveness, it’s going to be the end he cannot change who he truly is
@@sosoabdelrahman9252 Yeah, I think it also can be a coping mechanism ("I need to be the dominant one in every relationship or I'm not safe") and therefore she might grow out of it with self reflection. The complaining about the man... I know the exact type of person you're speaking of. Sad thing is, in the case I know of, I found her not only complaining but actively making sure the husband doesn't move up. I doubt they will solve this in this lifetime.
What does this even mean if a partner been silent all the time over calls and leaves you like a speaker? What does this even mean when your partner hears you 24 hours over call and expects you to speak like a speaker 24 hours, What does that mean that your partner doesn't talk as much as you do and never express his feelings as you do and never makes you feel special as you do because he's innocent and shy and silent person? What does that mean when you complains about the issues that you are experiencing with him because his silence is hurting you and he ignores issues and expect you to move on and then he blocks you because he says he has self respect. ( I think he was using manipulating me through his excuses and actions, He was a narcissistic I think (
What does that mean when a men says in relationship, He doesn't talk because he has a silent nature and he only speaks when he's responding to my questions, When he says - He speaks less and he doesn't speak much and he wants to listen me and he will listen me 24 hours and won't speak. Is it manipulation of a narcissistic ❤❤❤
@@GretaBereisaite He speaks when I ask questions, Otherwise he doesn't speak, he says - Wanna listen you more and more and he doesn't speak. And I said - You need to speak something, He said : I don't know what to talk, His silence disturbed me, I said - You are deliberately doing that He said - If you want to end this conversation, you can, I said : Okay bye.
@Golden Gate He tries to fool you into always initiating by giving you excuses. No grown up person is "too shy" or whatever to initiate conversation with people they respect and care about. You can say to him you see his games but it won't change his behaviour, he will only dissmiss your accusation. Do what Greta teaches instead - show him with your actions that it's not ok for you by not contacting him until he contact you first. At least 50% of the time. This is minimum. Do not send him questions, do not try to keep the conversation going. Talk to other guys, Focus on your life, stay busy. Update us how it's going!
@@hdshjs He always messages first and be always messages me over times, But neither texts on conversation, Just he shares some hearts ( Tagged hearts) And never texts and says - Doesn't know how to text like you and doesn't know how to express what I feel for you! On over phone, He speaks nothing, Just answers of my questions and asks some questions whatever he wants, I feel while speaking - I'm a speaking wall and there's no one to speak, I feel I'm a robot while speaking continuously and It makes me feel exhausted because I've to speak all the time and he says - I'll listen to you 24 hours without speaking and by speaking, I need to get a drink of water, I feel exhausted! Why men's do that most of tbe time, Their silence gives me hurtful things, And When I share my problems with them, They say - I don't know what to speak, I don't talk too much, I am a silent person, Bla Bla Bla!
I would have started dating a dating coach over personal communication through conversation and calling together, Then he extremely was into conversation meaning chatting! Then he stopped inviting me on calling preferences, He kept communicating randomly and replying after 24 hours, I kept replying shortly when he messaged, He sent me replies after 24 hours, He's replying surely but within hours actually, He's dating coach and life coach and relationship counsellor in real life, It's his own professional profession, And He adored me at first by saying that he's getting addictive with my beautiful voice, But Why he's not giving me the attention that he should 💛💙 Please help me with the confusion and conclusions because, I think ( He was a love bomber and playing mind games with me normally, He's not what I think he is actually 💙💛💙. Thankyou for reading this message, Wise people comment, I would learn many things from you thankyou.❤❤❤❤
If a guy lives by a rule "I only text back after 24 hours" to keep you wondering why he hasn't texted back then he is not only manipulative by using silly mind games fit a teenager but is also a prisoner to his own rules 😂 My unprofessional advice: move on and value yourself enough to stand above mind games and walk away
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Greta, the example with guy being disrespectful and pushing you into discussion is gold! Can you please make a whole video about how to avoid getting involved into a fight by a guy who is deliberately provoking? For example he always says "woman have undiserved advantages in society" which makes me so angry, because this is so untrue. I also find he is very caring and gentlike, like he would "forget" about what he said about woman, when I'm withdrawn and distant. This is so exhousting. I would appreciate very much more real life examples how to dodge provocations and get away from a fight even when guy asks you sth you don't agree with and pushes you to respond.
Just laugh and say this so ridiculous 🤣🤣, it will disarm him. Or step back… I personally would actually ask for him to give me an example…
My advice (and it’s not easy) is to stop caring. Focus on what matters. His wrong/sexist opinions are irrelevant! Don’t tell him that just think it in your head and smile. You give them so much importance when you get mad about them.
Good luck
Everbody has some unearned advantages in society 🙂 If he said only women had, then he would be wrong
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Learning to say yes and no correctly according to every situation makes life easier and keeps you away from unnecessary drama. Well said Queen 👑. I personally like the behaviour of him being alone when he is going through something or is tired, I would encourage him to give himself some alone time and eventually I see he gets through it and he's good again and I don't have to give any emotional effort to him.
Love this, great video Greta :)
ahh love this very inspiring x
I wonder - if an aggressive woman attracts a passive man and they decide to be together, would it work long term? Of course in any case there will be examples of exceptions, but I wonder would most such match ups feel happy.
As long as she can keep the same behaviour, woman get tired after sometime because this is not our nature, once she starts complaining about his passiveness, it’s going to be the end he cannot change who he truly is
@@sosoabdelrahman9252 Yeah, I think it also can be a coping mechanism ("I need to be the dominant one in every relationship or I'm not safe") and therefore she might grow out of it with self reflection.
The complaining about the man... I know the exact type of person you're speaking of. Sad thing is, in the case I know of, I found her not only complaining but actively making sure the husband doesn't move up. I doubt they will solve this in this lifetime.
@@magicalspacegiraffe exactly 💯 👏
What does this even mean if a partner been silent all the time over calls and leaves you like a speaker?
What does this even mean when your partner hears you 24 hours over call and expects you to speak like a speaker 24 hours,
What does that mean that your partner doesn't talk as much as you do and never express his feelings as you do and never makes you feel special as you do because he's innocent and shy and silent person?
What does that mean when you complains about the issues that you are experiencing with him because his silence is hurting you and he ignores issues and expect you to move on and then he blocks you because he says he has self respect.
( I think he was using manipulating me through his excuses and actions, He was a narcissistic I think (
High quality man is there any left ?
What does that mean when a men says in relationship, He doesn't talk because he has a silent nature and he only speaks when he's responding to my questions, When he says - He speaks less and he doesn't speak much and he wants to listen me and he will listen me 24 hours and won't speak. Is it manipulation of a narcissistic ❤❤❤
Sounds like a man 😁 just don’t speak either and see will he speak more .
@@GretaBereisaite
He speaks when I ask questions, Otherwise he doesn't speak, he says - Wanna listen you more and more and he doesn't speak.
And I said - You need to speak something,
He said : I don't know what to talk,
His silence disturbed me, I said - You are deliberately doing that
He said - If you want to end this conversation, you can,
I said : Okay bye.
Some men are not very good at conversation. I don't think it means he is doing anything wrong.
@Golden Gate He tries to fool you into always initiating by giving you excuses. No grown up person is "too shy" or whatever to initiate conversation with people they respect and care about. You can say to him you see his games but it won't change his behaviour, he will only dissmiss your accusation. Do what Greta teaches instead - show him with your actions that it's not ok for you by not contacting him until he contact you first. At least 50% of the time. This is minimum. Do not send him questions, do not try to keep the conversation going. Talk to other guys, Focus on your life, stay busy. Update us how it's going!
@@hdshjs He always messages first and be always messages me over times, But neither texts on conversation, Just he shares some hearts ( Tagged hearts) And never texts and says - Doesn't know how to text like you and doesn't know how to express what I feel for you!
On over phone, He speaks nothing, Just answers of my questions and asks some questions whatever he wants, I feel while speaking - I'm a speaking wall and there's no one to speak, I feel I'm a robot while speaking continuously and It makes me feel exhausted because I've to speak all the time and he says - I'll listen to you 24 hours without speaking and by speaking, I need to get a drink of water, I feel exhausted! Why men's do that most of tbe time, Their silence gives me hurtful things, And When I share my problems with them, They say - I don't know what to speak, I don't talk too much, I am a silent person, Bla Bla Bla!
I would have started dating a dating coach over personal communication through conversation and calling together,
Then he extremely was into conversation meaning chatting!
Then he stopped inviting me on calling preferences,
He kept communicating randomly and replying after 24 hours,
I kept replying shortly when he messaged,
He sent me replies after 24 hours,
He's replying surely but within hours actually,
He's dating coach and life coach and relationship counsellor in real life, It's his own professional profession,
And He adored me at first by saying that he's getting addictive with my beautiful voice, But Why he's not giving me the attention that he should 💛💙
Please help me with the confusion and conclusions because, I think ( He was a love bomber and playing mind games with me normally, He's not what I think he is actually 💙💛💙.
Thankyou for reading this message, Wise people comment, I would learn many things from you thankyou.❤❤❤❤
If a guy lives by a rule "I only text back after 24 hours" to keep you wondering why he hasn't texted back then he is not only manipulative by using silly mind games fit a teenager but is also a prisoner to his own rules 😂 My unprofessional advice: move on and value yourself enough to stand above mind games and walk away