Good morning Greta! ✨️ Thank you for all the good advices which I was following religiously. Inside of me, I always knew what was the right thing to do and what was not. You just confirmed all of it with your content and examples. 😊 I know all of it works, because I just got engaged 💍 this weekend. It happened in Paris, my boyfriend proposed on the top of the Eifel tower.❤ I never knew he was that romantic and full of surprises. I really did not expect that. We were together for two years and he wanted to move in together and get the house. I said right away that I love him and want to do that, but I do not want to live together without being married. He got the message and started to plan when and where the proposal would happen. He is an old-fashioned guy with good values, so he asked my mom's blessing first. 🙌 My mom always liked him from day one, so that was not an issue.😊 It's not true that women at a certain age don't have a chance to get married. If you are a high value woman, you will always have that chance. I am 51, and my boyfriend is 56. We both were married before, and we both got separated from our spouses because we both knew that we deserved to be treated better. And here we are planning our wedding. ❤❤❤ Thank you Greta, you are the best! 🎉
The last point was GOLD!!“Because you are showing him that I don’t respect or value myself and in order to keep you I’ll put away my dignity. I’ll put away my moral values and I will chase you” Wheeew!!! Greta this video was GOLDEN! Per usual giving great advice flawlessly! I’ll never forget you saying “Set healthy boundaries through ACTION and not words!! ❤❤❤
The last one is so common and there is also a way to have the upper hand, when you criticized him. There are guys who would set up a provocations, then not admitting to what they said or did even a few minute ago. Of course this is gaslighting and can make you go crazy, but you can't show it. As soon as you rise your voice or get impatient or even slightly rude he will walk out on you/or even say he wants to dump you. The key is to control your voice, stop talking all together. Do not answers his provoking questions, you can say: "I already said what was not ok/not fair. Why are you asking again" very calmly and shut down on him. Wait if he cools down a bit, then get on your phone/to the toilet/busy with whatever. If he is rude or walks out - let him. Stay silent and distant but you must be gentle/polite. You can't get angry no matter what. The goal is to make him look stupid for overreacting when you only calmly raised a complaint/set a boundry. He will come back and apologize. Believe me, I tested this "shutting down" when he provokes you and it always works.
Hi Greta, another great video! Would you be able to make a video all about what to watch for with guy friends? You made one in the past about when you have feelings, but I mean like red flags to look for. It seems like a lot of "male friends" are very sneaky/cunning about their real intentions. Thank you!
If a guy seriously says that one of my friends is "ugly," shouldn't that be a dealbreaker in the relationship? I mean should you even stay with a guy like that?!
1. Have standards what you allow and not allow 2. Do not be naive. Men do not respect women who behave naive 3. Do the wrong thing 4. Don t let him disrespect Stand up for yourself 5. Stand up for others 6. Be kind = feminine energy 7. Stick to your goals (focus on your priorities) 8. Don t sleep with him to soon 9. Do not apologise if you not do something wrong
if youre dating someone you have to be this on guard with, thats not only a huge red flag but a deep personal failure on your ability to judge people. Stop dating completely
Depends, if he seems concerned and give options and opinions on how to make your finances good then nothing is wrong with that but I also think that if he is the one that bad in finances and you are better position, I think you will think twice as the relationship progresses because if he has a bad finance and you get married with him, you will also be affected by his bad financial decision. ❤❤✌🏼 sorry for my bad english.
@@9Blackcat Thank you for your response. His first language is not English so he may have meant to just show concern, but the way he said it kind of hurt me! But he hasn't said anything like that recently and is seeming to make an effort since I talked to him about it :)
Good morning Greta! ✨️ Thank you for all the good advices which I was following religiously. Inside of me, I always knew what was the right thing to do and what was not. You just confirmed all of it with your content and examples. 😊
I know all of it works, because I just got engaged 💍 this weekend. It happened in Paris, my boyfriend proposed on the top of the Eifel tower.❤ I never knew he was that romantic and full of surprises. I really did not expect that. We were together for two years and he wanted to move in together and get the house. I said right away that I love him and want to do that, but I do not want to live together without being married. He got the message and started to plan when and where the proposal would happen. He is an old-fashioned guy with good values, so he asked my mom's blessing first. 🙌 My mom always liked him from day one, so that was not an issue.😊 It's not true that women at a certain age don't have a chance to get married. If you are a high value woman, you will always have that chance. I am 51, and my boyfriend is 56. We both were married before, and we both got separated from our spouses because we both knew that we deserved to be treated better. And here we are planning our wedding. ❤❤❤ Thank you Greta, you are the best! 🎉
So happy to hear that!! Huge congratulations 🥳 ❤️❤️❤️ that’s fantastic 🥳🥳🥳
Thank you so much! 🎉💖
Wow what an inspiring story! I’m 42 and just met a guy I like. Also trying to apply Greta’s tips
The last point was GOLD!!“Because you are showing him that I don’t respect or value myself and in order to keep you I’ll put away my dignity. I’ll put away my moral values and I will chase you” Wheeew!!! Greta this video was GOLDEN! Per usual giving great advice flawlessly! I’ll never forget you saying “Set healthy boundaries through ACTION and not words!! ❤❤❤
I love your voice and manner of speaking. Its so soothing 🥰 and the info is so reassuring to me.
The last one is so common and there is also a way to have the upper hand, when you criticized him. There are guys who would set up a provocations, then not admitting to what they said or did even a few minute ago. Of course this is gaslighting and can make you go crazy, but you can't show it. As soon as you rise your voice or get impatient or even slightly rude he will walk out on you/or even say he wants to dump you. The key is to control your voice, stop talking all together. Do not answers his provoking questions, you can say: "I already said what was not ok/not fair. Why are you asking again" very calmly and shut down on him. Wait if he cools down a bit, then get on your phone/to the toilet/busy with whatever. If he is rude or walks out - let him. Stay silent and distant but you must be gentle/polite. You can't get angry no matter what. The goal is to make him look stupid for overreacting when you only calmly raised a complaint/set a boundry. He will come back and apologize. Believe me, I tested this "shutting down" when he provokes you and it always works.
Great video as usual :)
Love this blouse on you, Greta !
And love your content as well, as always
Hi Greta, another great video! Would you be able to make a video all about what to watch for with guy friends? You made one in the past about when you have feelings, but I mean like red flags to look for. It seems like a lot of "male friends" are very sneaky/cunning about their real intentions. Thank you!
Loved this one! Thank you goddess
If a guy seriously says that one of my friends is "ugly," shouldn't that be a dealbreaker in the relationship? I mean should you even stay with a guy like that?!
Hey greta,can you make a video about how to communicate my emotional needs to men?
1. Have standards what you allow and not allow
2. Do not be naive. Men do not respect women who behave naive
3. Do the wrong thing
4. Don t let him disrespect
Stand up for yourself
5. Stand up for others
6. Be kind = feminine energy
7. Stick to your goals (focus on your priorities)
8. Don t sleep with him to soon
9. Do not apologise if you not do something wrong
if youre dating someone you have to be this on guard with, thats not only a huge red flag but a deep personal failure on your ability to judge people. Stop dating completely
3. Do the wrong thing? 🤣🤣
9.10 - Id never be with a guy who acts like that in the first place…
If a man told me that I have "bad finances," is that disrespectful?
Depends, if he seems concerned and give options and opinions on how to make your finances good then nothing is wrong with that but I also think that if he is the one that bad in finances and you are better position, I think you will think twice as the relationship progresses because if he has a bad finance and you get married with him, you will also be affected by his bad financial decision. ❤❤✌🏼 sorry for my bad english.
@@9Blackcat Thank you for your response. His first language is not English so he may have meant to just show concern, but the way he said it kind of hurt me! But he hasn't said anything like that recently and is seeming to make an effort since I talked to him about it :)
Are you guys saying your partner shouldn’t talk about your bad habits? Nah stop!
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