you talking about lists feels so refreshing for me to know I am not the only one. I have probably about 12 lists and it put me into paralysis. Normally with my lovely Virgo ascendant, lists help me get stuff done, but this time around it put me into this future looking overwhelmed with possibilities of what to do and where to go, that I was stuck. Now I am trying to take a slower approach, be more in the present, and take things day by day. I try to watch every one of your videos, whether I listen in on the podcast or watch it, and this one has been in my watch later since you posted it and now I know why. I wasn't ready for this message 7 days ago, I was ready today after a much needed dream about a snail LOL. Anywho I hope you're having the best day, and thank you for doing the work that you do, even on the days you may doubt the reasoning, I hope you remember that you are helping and guiding so many people through life, all while inspiring them to be better, and accept themselves as they are all at the same time. Sending you so much love xox
Sensitivity is a superpower, not a weakness ❤ So grateful for the sensitive beings on this planet 🌍 and hope that one day, society will see sensitive people in a better light too. 💕
I had an egotistical moment. My father told me that he would like to get me a house keeper for my birthday. I immediately thought he was taking a stab at how unkept I am. I had a baby around the same time as you. Just two weeks earlier. So I've also been struggling to get to every spring cleaning task on my lists, being that it's challenging to balance everything going on, especially with a baby. I took offense to it because I wanted to do it myself, to prove to myself that I am doing okay, I can handle everything, I can be a great stay at home mom and maintain a house. But, he was being intrusive. After the cleaning lady cleaned my house, I felt a big sense of relief. And felt stupid for being egotistical. Everyone could use a little help. So if you're stressed and things are not going smoothly this season, I would recommend either a house keeper, or a nice dad. Have a good one ❤️🥰
I remember this EXACT feeling after my first baby. I was trying SO hard to do everything the way I did before he was here and it just ended in frustration and usually tears. I feel this so deeply! It gets much much easier to move from your feminine and intuition. I promise! I run my business from home too, and it’s been a frickin JOURNEY, girl. 😂🤍 Thank you for sharing this, and thank you for being you.
I’m so sorry Im not aware of your business or the ins and outs of what’s happened but I just wanted to say what an amazing role model for young ladies you are. You have a sincerity that can not be faked, you are such an incredible lady with your approach to life.. you will 1000% continue to thrive and succeed… the universe rewards kind, thoughtful and strong people like you and to do all this as a new mum you should be so proud of yourself. Xx
me: watching this with bronchitis, after getting officially out of an abusive relationship, getting my life together & being the happiest i’ve been in forever (even while coughing up a lung). needed this so much. i’ve been trying so hard to balance my masculine, racing energy of trying to be the best I can possibly be, while still trying to be softer on myself as I allow myself to feel the healing and sadness of leaving a bad relationship for good & being sick at the same time. I dont have to rush every single day to get to the place I think I need to be if it means coasting through my day to day🤍
Thank your for sharing this. I needed this reminder that I can have my rebirth eara as you put it and not feel guilty about it. I quit my job at the end of last year to go on journey to put my health my first. I am in the process of doing just that now. In the mean time I have started my own business. The rebirth process is still happening and I could not be more greatful and thankful that I underwent this journey. I highly recommend anyone to go on a rebirth journey.
It is such a blessing to start my weekend morning while sipping a cup of coffee and watching your coffee talks is the highlight of my weekend. Ty Kalyn ❤ -your listener from Myanmar >
I felt this so hard today!! What I’m learning is that when I lay out plans and find myself resisting them for some reason it’s worth sitting with that and figuring out why. I think sometimes it can be your intuition speaking up and saying maybe we’ve evolved past needing that list, or maybe our needs have shifted. I feel out of alignment not because I need to push myself back to that logic driven list but because for some reason that logic driven list isn’t actually right for me for some reason my gut understand but I don’t. Thanks for putting yourself out there. Love, a long time follower ❤❤
I love the Oliver Jeffers stories, we love the story about the lost penguin! So sweet. As an illustrator I’m working hard on my skills to illustrate childrens books one day. I often grab these from the library for my two girls. (My youngest has been replaying a song on the tv while I have been watching this and actually I thought it’s quite fitting to this coffee talk! It’s called I’m only human by rag and bone man. She is five and she absolutely loves singing it!)
I can struggle with this that you are explaining and I just went self employed as a single mum to my girls 9 and 5 still in school. My Apple Pencil just stopped working and my work is on pause quite literally until I can afford a replacement (my car needed repairs this month) 😅 so I’m sat here very frustrated! Under pressure to launch my Etsy shop but I can’t make anything currently 🙇🏻♀️ I’m also learning software. Wish me luck! The grieving part, I think I am being reminded to slow down, I just lost my grandad and my stepdad in two months and helping my nan once a week. We juggle a lot 🩷 keep going mumma
Your coffee talks always seem to keep me grounded. Thank you so much for your captivating words that I couldn’t find for myself. ❤ you’re so inspiring and I’ve been following your journey for a while now.
I have really been struggling with balancing my soft feminine and aggressive masculine energies. I feel all of my emotions can be very deep and intense. When multiple emotions start to compete I can’t accomplish having a compassionate or thoughtful conversation, because I’m so focused on calming myself down and trying to think clearly. It’s hard. I want to be better and I feel like this makes me the problem in all my relationships
I relate to this so deeply! I had to set my to do list aside and let myself fall out of my routines a bit. It’s been so refreshing! I feel ready to slowly move into the spring and my rebirth era! Thank you for sharing! I’d love to see more of what your rebirth era looks like! ❤️
I find myself almost rebelling against my list when I make it really structured. 😂 I don’t know why I’m like that. I find that I am more productive when I simply do what I feel in the moment.
I'm on my one year maternity leave and I'm always putting too much pressure on myself to do the most while my boyfriend is at work. I also get overwhelmed with my To Do lists. I started this last week and it really helped me ; everything that takes under 2 min, I do it right away as soon as I think about it. Less more stressful than my To Do list! And the book you talked about at the end 😍 I'll try to find it in french for my sweet Evelyne 🤗
I have a Playlist titled: A good cry you little baby its every song that stirs me to tears. These songs make me cry every single time I hear them. Sometimes if you feel like you wish you could just cry, just do it. Some may choose to watch a sad movie, read a sad book, listen to a sad podcast anything that triggers it. just do it.
I've been feeling that spring renewal vibe too (and I am a fall/winter gal) Also you're so right about the hopeful part. I've been reading the Bible lately so that's helping to find some light in the darkness
I’ve been binge watching your videos lately. I moved from Toronto to Lanark (inspired by you) last year. Recently going through a breakup from a 6 year relationship. Being in a new city, not knowing many people around has been difficult since we moved here together. Hoping for some strength to move forward 😢❤
❤❤ sending you lots of love, good energy and support, sister. That situation isn’t easy! Went through a breakup from a 6 year relationship back in June last year which im still healing from eventhough ive come really far. You are strong and brave - it gets better, you will feel happy again❤
@@RikkeGade Thanks so much. It’s definitely difficult from envisioning a life with someone and moving someplace new to not having that anymore. It’s like losing your best friend, partner and everything which has been difficult to cope with. Wishing you the strength and courage as well 💓
Do you know? 😅 - I KNOW 😏😏😏 It's a constant, trying to list & prep all the steps so I know what I'm doing when I'm ready and have time to do it, then getting overwhelmed and wanting to do something totally new because of that overwhelm or just as a new idea 😂😂😂
How that looks changes over time, maybe it just doesn’t resonate with you or others right now, and is meant for other people at this time who it does resonate with. Plus she’s literally just had a child, so maybe she isn’t going to go hiking or whatever. It’s a coffee talk.
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The last time I was here were the video about how you manifested your surfer boyfriend and today your a momma, Ive been here 5-6 years and seeikg you evelop throught the years has always giving me trust about my own yourney too. Never understood why I liked your creative side a bit digferent from the others I followed and I realised you spoke to me pisces moon very much. Thank you, keep being you, your always our safe place, my inner teenage self always thrives and feels that everything will solve out. Being in my early twenties trying to adulting wouldnt be the same without you🫶🏼
you talking about lists feels so refreshing for me to know I am not the only one. I have probably about 12 lists and it put me into paralysis. Normally with my lovely Virgo ascendant, lists help me get stuff done, but this time around it put me into this future looking overwhelmed with possibilities of what to do and where to go, that I was stuck. Now I am trying to take a slower approach, be more in the present, and take things day by day. I try to watch every one of your videos, whether I listen in on the podcast or watch it, and this one has been in my watch later since you posted it and now I know why. I wasn't ready for this message 7 days ago, I was ready today after a much needed dream about a snail LOL. Anywho I hope you're having the best day, and thank you for doing the work that you do, even on the days you may doubt the reasoning, I hope you remember that you are helping and guiding so many people through life, all while inspiring them to be better, and accept themselves as they are all at the same time. Sending you so much love xox
Sensitivity is a superpower, not a weakness ❤ So grateful for the sensitive beings on this planet 🌍 and hope that one day, society will see sensitive people in a better light too. 💕
I had an egotistical moment. My father told me that he would like to get me a house keeper for my birthday. I immediately thought he was taking a stab at how unkept I am. I had a baby around the same time as you. Just two weeks earlier. So I've also been struggling to get to every spring cleaning task on my lists, being that it's challenging to balance everything going on, especially with a baby. I took offense to it because I wanted to do it myself, to prove to myself that I am doing okay, I can handle everything, I can be a great stay at home mom and maintain a house. But, he was being intrusive. After the cleaning lady cleaned my house, I felt a big sense of relief. And felt stupid for being egotistical. Everyone could use a little help. So if you're stressed and things are not going smoothly this season, I would recommend either a house keeper, or a nice dad. Have a good one ❤️🥰
I remember this EXACT feeling after my first baby. I was trying SO hard to do everything the way I did before he was here and it just ended in frustration and usually tears. I feel this so deeply! It gets much much easier to move from your feminine and intuition. I promise! I run my business from home too, and it’s been a frickin JOURNEY, girl. 😂🤍 Thank you for sharing this, and thank you for being you.
I’m legit sat outside in my garden, on the grass, in the sun and listening to this while I sip my iced latte - cheers
I’m so sorry Im not aware of your business or the ins and outs of what’s happened but I just wanted to say what an amazing role model for young ladies you are. You have a sincerity that can not be faked, you are such an incredible lady with your approach to life.. you will 1000% continue to thrive and succeed… the universe rewards kind, thoughtful and strong people like you and to do all this as a new mum you should be so proud of yourself. Xx
Thank you! These talks are so beneficial to me, I appreciate your work a lot! 💓
The sensitive beings, are the ones changing the world in POSITIVE ways 🥰 the dominant ones often destroy it for their own gain
I cannot describe to you how much I needed this today. Thank you.
me: watching this with bronchitis, after getting officially out of an abusive relationship, getting my life together & being the happiest i’ve been in forever (even while coughing up a lung).
needed this so much. i’ve been trying so hard to balance my masculine, racing energy of trying to be the best I can possibly be, while still trying to be softer on myself as I allow myself to feel the healing and sadness of leaving a bad relationship for good & being sick at the same time.
I dont have to rush every single day to get to the place I think I need to be if it means coasting through my day to day🤍
Thank you so much for being such a calm & positive space. 💛
Thank your for sharing this. I needed this reminder that I can have my rebirth eara as you put it and not feel guilty about it. I quit my job at the end of last year to go on journey to put my health my first. I am in the process of doing just that now. In the mean time I have started my own business. The rebirth process is still happening and I could not be more greatful and thankful that I underwent this journey. I highly recommend anyone to go on a rebirth journey.
HERE WE ARE is a great picture book indeed. Definitely recommend!
It is such a blessing to start my weekend morning while sipping a cup of coffee and watching your coffee talks is the highlight of my weekend. Ty Kalyn ❤ -your listener from Myanmar >
I felt this so hard today!! What I’m learning is that when I lay out plans and find myself resisting them for some reason it’s worth sitting with that and figuring out why. I think sometimes it can be your intuition speaking up and saying maybe we’ve evolved past needing that list, or maybe our needs have shifted. I feel out of alignment not because I need to push myself back to that logic driven list but because for some reason that logic driven list isn’t actually right for me for some reason my gut understand but I don’t.
Thanks for putting yourself out there. Love, a long time follower ❤❤
I love the Oliver Jeffers stories, we love the story about the lost penguin! So sweet. As an illustrator I’m working hard on my skills to illustrate childrens books one day. I often grab these from the library for my two girls. (My youngest has been replaying a song on the tv while I have been watching this and actually I thought it’s quite fitting to this coffee talk! It’s called I’m only human by rag and bone man. She is five and she absolutely loves singing it!)
I can struggle with this that you are explaining and I just went self employed as a single mum to my girls 9 and 5 still in school. My Apple Pencil just stopped working and my work is on pause quite literally until I can afford a replacement (my car needed repairs this month) 😅 so I’m sat here very frustrated! Under pressure to launch my Etsy shop but I can’t make anything currently 🙇🏻♀️ I’m also learning software. Wish me luck! The grieving part, I think I am being reminded to slow down, I just lost my grandad and my stepdad in two months and helping my nan once a week. We juggle a lot 🩷 keep going mumma
Your coffee talks always seem to keep me grounded. Thank you so much for your captivating words that I couldn’t find for myself. ❤ you’re so inspiring and I’ve been following your journey for a while now.
I have really been struggling with balancing my soft feminine and aggressive masculine energies. I feel all of my emotions can be very deep and intense. When multiple emotions start to compete I can’t accomplish having a compassionate or thoughtful conversation, because I’m so focused on calming myself down and trying to think clearly. It’s hard. I want to be better and I feel like this makes me the problem in all my relationships
So relatable
You’ve articulated this so well. I think I feel the same but have never quite understood what it was!
I relate to this so deeply! I had to set my to do list aside and let myself fall out of my routines a bit. It’s been so refreshing! I feel ready to slowly move into the spring and my rebirth era! Thank you for sharing! I’d love to see more of what your rebirth era looks like! ❤️
I find myself almost rebelling against my list when I make it really structured. 😂 I don’t know why I’m like that. I find that I am more productive when I simply do what I feel in the moment.
I'm on my one year maternity leave and I'm always putting too much pressure on myself to do the most while my boyfriend is at work. I also get overwhelmed with my To Do lists. I started this last week and it really helped me ; everything that takes under 2 min, I do it right away as soon as I think about it. Less more stressful than my To Do list! And the book you talked about at the end 😍 I'll try to find it in french for my sweet Evelyne 🤗
Inspiring as always :,)
I do hope we can create a softer world and I think women and moms will a big part of it
I have a Playlist titled: A good cry you little baby
its every song that stirs me to tears. These songs make me cry every single time I hear them. Sometimes if you feel like you wish you could just cry, just do it. Some may choose to watch a sad movie, read a sad book, listen to a sad podcast anything that triggers it. just do it.
I've been feeling that spring renewal vibe too (and I am a fall/winter gal)
Also you're so right about the hopeful part. I've been reading the Bible lately so that's helping to find some light in the darkness
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Been following you for a while and love the progress :) Feels like i have been living you for years now. Lots of looove for you and your fam
every word makes a lot of sense...thanks❤
I’ve been binge watching your videos lately. I moved from Toronto to Lanark (inspired by you) last year. Recently going through a breakup from a 6 year relationship. Being in a new city, not knowing many people around has been difficult since we moved here together. Hoping for some strength to move forward 😢❤
❤❤ sending you lots of love, good energy and support, sister. That situation isn’t easy! Went through a breakup from a 6 year relationship back in June last year which im still healing from eventhough ive come really far. You are strong and brave - it gets better, you will feel happy again❤
@@RikkeGade Thanks so much. It’s definitely difficult from envisioning a life with someone and moving someplace new to not having that anymore. It’s like losing your best friend, partner and everything which has been difficult to cope with. Wishing you the strength and courage as well 💓
❤Kalyn a very sweet person with always great advice! ❤
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I FEEL LIKE THE BADDie vibes is perfect its like badasss but we are actually living a soft life lowkey. you are a baddie🎉
What money can't buy:
a Fit Body,
a Calm Mind,
a House Full of Love.
Totally understand when you overworked, your brain feels like it's on auto-pilot lol
Every time she says "fresh", we drink a sip of water ! GET HYDRATED
Do you know? 😅 - I KNOW 😏😏😏 It's a constant, trying to list & prep all the steps so I know what I'm doing when I'm ready and have time to do it, then getting overwhelmed and wanting to do something totally new because of that overwhelm or just as a new idea 😂😂😂
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I don't like the masculine vs feminine energy divide. I think it's natural to be looking for a rebirth this time of year!
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Wtf happened to this podcast!?! She's LITERALLY talking about memes!?! 😭 Bro, where's the content!?! 🥲
How that looks changes over time, maybe it just doesn’t resonate with you or others right now, and is meant for other people at this time who it does resonate with. Plus she’s literally just had a child, so maybe she isn’t going to go hiking or whatever. It’s a coffee talk.
I found so much inspiration and comfort in this video 🤍✨ I feel seen as a sensitive being who also has ambition.
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Crafted from a high-quality blend of 78% Nylon and 22% Spandex, this dress offers a comfortable and flattering fit that accentuates your curves. It also features a beaded hip detail and cascade ruffle skirt detail that adds a bit of sparkle and glam to your overall look ✨.
The dress is made with our best-selling stretch compression fabric, ensuring that it conforms to your body for a flattering silhouette. It also features a zipper closure and a center back length of 32 1/2 inches, making it easy to slip on and off 👗.
So whether you're looking for a little black dress that's perfect for any occasion, or simply want to add a touch of sophistication to your wardrobe, the Alex Evenings Women's Slimming Short Sheath Dress is the perfect choice 👌. Hand wash only for best results 🧼. Don't miss out on this must-have addition to your formal wear collection! 💃
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The last time I was here were the video about how you manifested your surfer boyfriend and today your a momma, Ive been here 5-6 years and seeikg you evelop throught the years has always giving me trust about my own yourney too. Never understood why I liked your creative side a bit digferent from the others I followed and I realised you spoke to me pisces moon very much. Thank you, keep being you, your always our safe place, my inner teenage self always thrives and feels that everything will solve out. Being in my early twenties trying to adulting wouldnt be the same without you🫶🏼