@Abe Garfield that doesn't work. You play into their gaslighting trap when you do that and it validates what they've been saying to people about you. Just walk away and never look back.
@@ЕвгенийПопов-м3ц9ю I think it's a bit more complex than could have been expressed by this one sentence. Taking the only example I have: I've been quite a good source for mine. Surely not perfect, but she had attention, love, money, ... basically a careless life. And yes, that was part of my mistake: I thought I had to help her heal, maybe even fix her, but I couldn't, probably made things worse by trying to. That's not meant like the usual "I'm the best that could ever happen to you!" which I admit the comment may sound like. But it's the somewhat objective observation that she had everything she craves for so much. And now that she broke up she lost it all and has to live a common life as a common human being - just like we all are. Don't want to minimize anything she can do and does do, it's been hard for both of us and still is. But seeing the world through the eyes of an energy vampire it's maybe better not to discard your reliable host and source. Personally I realised only after breakup that I've been giving way more than I could sustainably, found many a flaw in myself, learned quite a bit about myself and yes, now I'm glad i it worked out the way it did. I needed this hard lesson. Now I'm glad it's over but I'm also glad someone teached me, painful as it is. She could have gotten even more but it would have destroyed me. It was her choice to leave but she didn't realise that I'm able to get along without her and won't crouch back into my position. Her life on the other hand got only worse until now, albeit definitely not catastrophic, but ... profane, normal, average, like all us other mere mortals. I pity her for her struggles but the best way I can help is to not help at all and at least I know she's not ruined or something. It was a downfall, though. Just an observation. PS: I gave your comment a thumbs up as yes, it surely sounds a bit narcissistic. Don't think or hope it's meant that way, though.
@@ЕвгенийПопов-м3ц9ю they destroy their own familys.. that's the best relationship a person can have, but they destroy people who they are supposed to love, relationships with their own children
I just separated from a Narcissist, I have never seen a bitter, controlling and ungrateful person like him in my life. Constant gaslighting, cheating and insults. Embarrassing me publicly fuels his ego. May the universe not bring such a demon in human form my way again. I’m so free from depression and living happy now.
Soooo happy for you. I share very similar story...thank God I’m free Planning to live my REAL best life not some BS fake love, isolated, gas lit, never satisfied charade!!!
Narcissists develop relationships with people in order to take everything from them and eventually destroy them. They choose vulnerable people who are giving, loving, understanding and loyal, which, ironically, is what they need and want. The psychology of narcissists leads to their inevitable self-destruction in their pursuit of trying to destroy those people who would love them. You are right, they are their own worst enemies.
Yes I work with two of them both of them are real jackasses all they do is play silly mind games on other they try to play them with me but I'm not vulnerable I'm very aware of there they coming from
Sadly I’ve learned this after 20 years not knowing what was wrong finally understood that this narcissism. Thank you for very informative video God bless you!
No just a deep hole to bairy them in is all we need... O and amo don't forget the amo .. 22 s are cheap work well .when used correctly... Point blank shot to the head
Envy and pride...Yes! This is exactly what keeps them in their ever present karma. They meet people who are empathic and can help them but then they self sabotage...
@@aprilsteinford-radice-rash8143 it means when they have something good going on, they somehow destroy it. Relationship, friendships, job opportunities, promotions. They do something that stops it from happening or progressing and usually play victim or pass the blame.
The narc said to me after a party “I’m not like these people” Well that was true - the other people were good people and not a toxic narcissist! Great to be free of them.
They live inside a hamster wheel. They repeat their behaviour with every source. When the source figures them out, they move onto the next victim. Run, run around inside that wheel spinning and getting nowhere.
In an argument with my narc after I figured him out,I said he can take all the $hit he’s telling me and take it to the next victim. He acted like I was crazy for saying that. Told me won’t be another one and he doesn’t know where I come up with these crazy statements.
14 The wicked draw the sword and bend the bow to bring down the poor and needy, to slay those whose ways are upright. 15 But their swords will pierce their own hearts, and their bows will be broken. Psalm 37 , know it well. Thank you.
@@phoenixrising8007 Haha, if only the world was so fair. No, everybody who matters fawns over them and they never hang, you get the punishment that they deserved!
Sister , sister ! Yes you will be stronger , braver and assertive ! Once you stop the how's why's when's etc. Except the lessons taught put that slimy life sucking , happiness wrecker , LOVE MURDERING EVIL ENTITY on the back burner every time it creeps in your mind banish it to where ever you can think strong positive thoughts instead , self promoting affermations etc. Play happy music dance around your house . CHANGED MY THE STORIES in your head .. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG BUT I INVEST IN A FRAUD A FAKE , HE TWISTED RIGHT TO WRONG GOOD TO BAD LOVE TO CALLOUSES INDIFFERENCE WITH A SIDE OF SNIDE BELITTLING REMARKS FOR THAT EXTRA TWIST OF THE KNIFE ! Not you , him ! It ain't easy but it will get much better I promise ! My thoughts are with each and every good person who has been VICTIMIZED BY NARCISSISTIC LOVE ! XXX🙈🙉🙊❤️😎✌️
Me to iam going through the pain right now of what my soon to be ex has done to me, and he absolutely doesn't care about the pain he has caused me it sucks IAM so broken hearted 💔💔😢😢
Keep your head up and your eyes forward; NEVER look back! He's NOT the all-to-end-all; he's NOT your world; he's NOT your future, and he will NEVER be your happiness! He wasted enough of your love and life--DON'T give him even one more second!!! You've got this!
@@famidatoma5666 I was trapped by my monster for 17 years !!! It was boring as hell on Halloween ! Except when I'd try to get away from him then the real fireworks started ! I'd love to see that WASTE OF SPACE & tell him some crazy lies just to rattle his cage ! Do alittle payback of psychological WARFARE ! I think it would be soooo much fun to watch him squirm ! But it's probably bad KARMA to retaliate in that way ... BUMMER /DRAG !
To detroy a narc. Tell them, "MY LIFE DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU, I WILL LIVE MY LIFE AS I SEE FIT!!! This is what I said to my narcissistic brother and he hasn't spoken to me in over 25 years. No love lost.
@@khadijahkamara727 were they like this since childhood or only after growing up? I am confused what happens to their behaviour suddenly for no reason they disturb the whole family happiness for no obvious reasons.
I fell in love with a narcissist and let her hurt me and blamed myself for it. When she continued going for drama after the breakup, I simply ignored her. You have to walk away man. There’s no better thing than doing what’s best for you and letting them hurt on their own. You deserve better.
You did good by going no contact - otherwise she would have destroyed your soul and left you an empty shell of your former strong self. Takes time to heal but it’s so worth it to escape their evil claws.
Yes!!! Thank you, you couldn't have stated that more clearly!!! That is the best thing to do, is to just let them distroy themselves. Because they know what they are doing to us but they don't care and worst of all they don't want to change!!! They don't want to give up their lifestyle!! It is really gross!!! In the end they will be the ones hurting worse than we can ever imagine!! And worse than they ever hurt us. So in a way, we can feel pity for them.
Going ‘No Contact’ is going to save your sanity, trust me on that! You have to remove yourself from their line of sight. They crave to see you and hear you as it helps them figure out what to say or do in order to hurt you. If they have no clue about what’s happening in your life they can’t do a thing to undermine you.
They tear you down behind your back too. With their friends,coworkers etc. They make it look like their life sucks with you tell them flat out lies and cause ppl to hate you that never even met you. Just pay attention the next time they introduce you to someone you never met. If they have hate in their eyes that's probly why. I lived it
This has been my life, I had no idea what a narcissist was until I began digging into this on RUclips. What a wonderful community! I know I must divorce her to keep my sanity.
@@masterblogger1crucialtimes838 just beware bro. When you break it off with one they become extremely vidictive..they will try to sabotage you anyway they can cause they don't want you to succeed at anything..Mine did her best to destroy me..please watch what you eat and drink if she has had access to it ..after mine got bitter I developed sickness and health issues. I know she was responsible. Don't let your guard down man... God bless
This is my first night by myself after 10 years with a complete monster that almost drained the life out of me. I have a lot of healing to do and this video was a blessing to come across.
I'm so happy, and proud of you...don't beat yourself up...we've all been there. Being a naturally loving, giving person makes it hard to imagine how someone else can be capable of being such monsters. Take it one day at a time...forgive them, and forgive yourself for allowing yourself to be abused, and ignoring the truth of who and what they are, and from your experience Take with you the Lifelong lesson...GIVING YOURSELF the same love that you so freely give to others. Take it as a lesson, but don't let bitterness turn into one of them, and whatever you do, don't let them back into your life. Stay as far away from them as East is from West. Forgive, and get the ABSOLUTE BEST Revenge possible...live a healthy, happy life minus them in it...BEST WISHES.
A relationship with a *narcissist* is like building a house on quicksand, in a earthquake prone street. Whatever life you build with them, they will tear down. Put your faith in *God* and not some Jezebel!!! 👿 ☢️
Yep and they come in every gender n inbetween those Jezebels. They are demonically possessed persons who need absolution, complete spiritual deliverance... they harbour wicked spirits from the satanic clusters of the Jezebel, Ahab/Absalom and Narcissistic Spirits. BIND them from operating in your presence or in your life forever. Cut off the evil and unGodly soul ties. Cut off all forms of contact... Block, Delete, Unfollow. Remove all gifts and items they ever left or gave you from any of your properties and private spaces as much as you can or seriously consecrate and annoint them all to Jehovah God. Keep nothing of theirs unless its necessary evidence. Don't let them hinder your new life and relationships. Keep no ties to a toxic devil. Shut the evil doors and entry points they have into your life especially in your mind. Seal off every thought n emotion about them. Zero energy for the parasitic vamps. Tell them no information about you and yours or your future. Forgive... heal and forget them permanently. AMEN. If they do not repent they will self destruct! Their boss satan will use them n destroy them like they tried to do to everyone else. They surely reap what evil and iniquity they sew 7 fold back into themselves and even unto the 4th generation. They won't be able to withstand the recompense when God vindicates us. Trust in the Lord alone for vengeance. Drag them in prayer and in spiritual warfare into Heaven's Court. Place Jesus as the center & head of your life. Be obedient & loyal to God He will vindicate and justify you in this holy case you bring against the Narc. #GET FREE; STAY FREE #GET HEALED; STAY HEALED
Sure not, even all people and friends can recognize unhealthy changes in your personality and had become a total softy, and if you try to explain speak openly your feelings and problems the smallest fart is an earthquake for their ego and you feel more and more unsure and strange to yourself. Some kind of supergaslightning
Omg my ex narcissist was like this if I confronted him asked him a question he would get defensive call me selfish I didn’t understand how I was selfish when he acted selfish, they manipulate everything and turn it on you like your the bad one. He even made a indirect like I was bad for he’s soul when he was the one hurting me neglecting me it was draining.
I don’t know how to deal with a adult narcissism daughter it’s emotionally painful exhausting nothing seems to be good toward them! Blame, accuser, talk behind you the things Wich you didn’t meant it etc… 🥺😢
A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bones ~ Proverbs 14:30. Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall ~ Proverbs 16:18.
@@ebanymcclenan2014 Right on brother....my ex. Out of no where..told me once "you've been with 2 women at the same time haven't you " of coarse I had never done that. But I found out later she was at that time. I was even given names and where it happened..so yes absolutely true they tell on themselves. They are sick
That is the major problem with my relationship. He accuses me night and day. Constantly thinking I'm cheating and then he would put his hands on me for it but yet I'm totally innocent. if it was something I was doing, I could stop. but how does one stop doing something they were never doing to start with?
Jealousy makes you forget about your own good qualities. The way to shutdown jealousy is to remind yourself of your own good qualities. Which is why it is important to know yourself. A Narcissist does not have a Stable Sense of Self which keeps them incapable of Self Soothing the feeling of Jealousy.
Yes...as she said, highly delusional. Why I can’t help but hit them with the ugly truth of themselves between the eyes (those who have taken joy in trying to run me down)....and hard!!! 😂
Troopermax Guz they don’t have the capacity to be ‘normal’, as in normal human beings...period (but you’re totally right in that they do view themselves as so infinitely superior so as to not want to be a mere human being). God complex at it’s finest huh?!
Indeed! Even friends who poured compassion, advice, and money into them! You'll see how little they appreciate ALL of their friends when they start dating someone. Their new partner inflates their ego and suddenly they find their friends to be nothing but an inconvenience to be sneered at. How quickly they forget how fragile and vulnerable they were. It's disgusting!
My ex friend was a Narcissist ... He had LOADS more than I had yet he was the most miserable person I have EVER met in my life.. They are so SHAME based ... They will target your self-esteem and soul... TOXIC NASTY PEOPLE ... When he entered the room you could FEEL the energy level in the room change... So pleased he is no longer in my life after MANY "Hoover" attempts ..
Yes! I was dealing with a rich narcissist. With power and an executive title of a large organization and was so petty! Played many many minds games. Tried to make me crazy! I can’t understand how he was so successful in his career! Petty like a child.
I could absolutely cry after seeing this! I spent YEARS feeling like I was crazy because everybody said what a nice guy my ex husband is. I hate that anyone else has experienced this but THANK GOD I know I'm not imagining it. And now I can wash my hands of him and let karma do what it decides.
No it cannot stay. Break the evil soul tie renounce the person n every unGodly contract n covenant that ever came along with ever knowing that person. Go to God. Get delivered n healed from the trauma n narcissistic abuse (satanic ritual abuse). Cut the silver cords. This is all demonic u must bind them n cast them out. Every item, every picture, every gift, every memory, every energy supply n input (emotional responses) to them must be removed n cut off. They are not in your universe they just don't know that yet. Every evil PROJECTIONS (bad thoughts, evil wishes or wicked prayers/incantations sent or even demons n familiar or monitoring spirits astrally sent from altars, mirrors, waters n shrines from the person to harm) , INJECTIONS (sex, pictures or food or harmful agressive words or evil suggestions to the mind or into body of another or dream state of another) and ATTACHMENTS (unhealthy or toxic debris memories/emotions, left from being intermingled with them or soul cord bonds to the person from trauma, abuse, sex, demonic spirit transfers off of them that try enter you if spiritually unguarded) they all must go back to sender or be broken n voided out forever. All their evil actions are some of sacrifices they do to their god satan. We commit love from God they commit hate from their god. Use all of this as a miraculous life lesson learned for empowerment n love stronger n harder the right person. Call God into your situation now n learn to war for your salvation n for others. Your highly blessed n favoured about to recieve wonders and powers that is the time they send out these kinds of devils becuz they saw your bright light n tall Angels around you this is all a test. Soon to be testimony. Thru Christ u must overcome. It all starts with 1 prayer u can get God to break those sicknesses n sin off your life from those evil people n fly away happy. U never need someone who doesn't love you unless its only public business honey. #Heal Recover, Move on In Your Destiny in Christ 🤣🤣🤣
I was nearly there too. What help me a lot was understanding how a narcissist works. After that I slowly didn't let myself get emotionally wrapped up with her anymore.
Yes but the narc took over my 19yr and 26yr and while I beat my mother at her own game by not caring she used her authority went after my kids turned them completely against me. Now they disrespect me and have cut me off
I'm a somber and melancholy person. So I feel uncomfortable around extremely optimistic people. However, I don't desire to crush someone's light. Even if their optimism irritates me I can see when their simply trying to offer me encouragement. And I'll appreciate the gesture inspite of my irritation. But Narcissists are so disgusted by optimism that they'll try to tear the other person down simply because they enjoy it. And will justify it with no shame. Of course they don't see it as them being sadistic. It's sick! Even my morbid ass can't relate to that!
At Diane Matlock - Yes, it's so true. My ex would mimics the ways I express myself. Like when I do my happy tap dance, my funny face I make when I'm looking for something, when I pretend to sing opera when ever I get good news etc. My unique personality. Around his friends he's acting like me. I would shout him out to stop stealing my style. That his friends are going to think that I'm copying him. On serious note, come to think of it, omg, in the beginning of our relationship he told me he wanted to be me. I was confused. Thinking if he wanted to be a woman. I confronted him the next day. He got furious and said he didnt say that. That I'm crazy. I just forgot about it. I didnt know about narcissists back then. That was a red flag. Spooky.
The best way to deal with Narcissist is to kick them out of your life and don't give them any attention. meanwhile, you should improve your life, be happy and peace. If they see you are much better without them, it will distory them. They will do anything to try to get your attention, they will find a replacement to get even with you and wish you will crawl back and beg them.
@khoa ngo yes! And it makes it easy for demons to be transferred to you. Demons and diseases come more into your life through sex compared to other sins. Read your Bible.
@@mememarcia329 my child, i never said any of those things. Do not worship false gods if you want to enter heaven. I also never made hell cause that's fuckedup
I WAS " MERRIED " TO ONE OF THIS SICK DEMONIC CREATURES I SAW AND LIVED ALL THIS. THANX BE TO GOD AND VIDEOS LIKE THIS I AM A HAPPY SURVIVOR NOW. THE BEST THING IN MY LIFE IS TO DISENGAGED MY TRUE FEELING FROM A GARBAGE LIKE MY EX- DEMON
Listen to Bob Dylan's Idiot wind. Down the hiway, down the tracks down the road to ectasy, I followed u beneath the stars hounded by your memory and all your raging glory. I can't feel u anymore I can't even touch the books u read. everytime I crawl past ur door I'm wishin i was somewhere else instead.
Actually the narcs possess all the 7 deadly sins which are pride,list,anger,covetousness, envy,sloth and greed so beware they the narcs are really deadly. God bless,peace be with you all.
I'm not a tiny bit scared of Narc,I'm an Empath warrior but be smart and don't waste. I dare you to stare in the eyes Narc still swings on sight, they're coward.
My narcissistic ex boyfriend was French, and I’m Brazilian. When we went to one of his best friends’ house (don’t know how they can have one of them, but anyway) he used to humiliate me with things like: as soon as we were inside he would shout “hide your wallets, the Brazilian has arrived!”. This was one of the many embarrassing moments I had with him. I still remember how charming, and happy, and welcoming he was in front of his friends, but when we were alone he was quiet, evil-eyes, and unbearable.
How about the ones that are hoarders and they constantly need multiples of everything that's a whole new can of worms I deal with.... When they realize they'll never use the item they just move on to their next greedy purchase and try to drag me into the drama... I can see clearly what's going on but sometimes I still get dragged into it
@@lynngriffin3404 omg is that hoarding a thing they do? I know a narcissist who definitely hoards items. Then again their are supposed "regular" folks who hoard
I can't bare them, they suck the life out of your sole. I need to be a million miles away from them. No contact is the only way, not just for a while, but forever. Even if it is close family.
I’m a victim of narcissistic abuse I’m 7 years strong I always been a loyal and nice and friendly person it’s so sad how nice I been throughout the whole relationship till this day it still hurts but with God is getting me through the day even if people continue to treat me wrong I know God will not treat me like that
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Hi.. can you please tell me how to exposed a narc ? How did you do it? I wanna expose him as well... on social media and at his work and to all he is talking too.... please
OMG....YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY AND 1000% TRUE AND ACCURATE. HE USED TO STARE AT MY NOSE, LIKE HE WANTED TO FIT IT ON HIS FACE. NO NEED TO READ THE OTHER COMMENTS, THIS WAS ENOUGH
I’m finally free of my covert narcissist husband. It took me nine years to finally understand what I was dealing with. I convinced him to move back across the country last summer and he ended up with herpes! He thought he found his next victim but she gave him a STD instead and dumped him!
They sabotage everything and appreciate nothing. The Narcissist is a walking spiritual lesson in how not to live your life. The only thing you gain from being in a relationship with them is the realisation that unlike them you have a heart and soul. You can leave the misery and cruelty behind, while they carry it forever.
Pride made them feel like they are paragon of all virtues. So that's why there is no way you can communicate with them and resolve issues in relationships.
I had to endure four of the bastards while a young teenager. Two schoolmates and their narc parents. Sabotage, undermine, set you up with lies is their specialty. Sick people!
This has brought tears to my eyes. I've watched my proudful narc destroying himself so bad. His pride prevented him to admit and take responsibility and accountability for his bad choices and behaviors. I tried to make him aware of how self destructive and self sabotaging he was, that he needs help but instead he took it as an attack. I hope one day he will realize that he is his own biggest enemy.
Im 5 months no contact....getting my life back. Dont want to trash back in my life. 4 years of cheating with different lovers. Run dont walk. Toxic narcissistic.
Lots of truth in those proverbs, I can honestly tell you that. My son-in-law Hanns Andersen screwed me out of my inheritance, never once did he visit his Mom till her last few days. Then within a few months after getting a windfall, the prick up and died. proverb "An inheritance swiftly gotten shall not be blessed." Hey Jackie how does it feel? He told me if I did not give him his mother's wedding ring I'd get nothing. that hurt. and his wife Jackie out in Syracuse? well how does it feel to not have ur husband with you, He had NO real illness, not worth dying over, So Jackie was it worth it? Were it not for his mom, my wife, you would have never had the man you love so much, bet that thought never came to ur mind, yup, satan in drag. U got what ya wanted, u just never freakin asked what it would cost first.
I've had narcissists as friends for 4 years and i couldn't understand how they can seem like angels from time to time and at other times they would hurt me deeply to the point that I've had a seizure because of them and they still didn't care. I could never understand them until i watched your videos, you reassured my sanity and saved me from those people. I hope with these videos and all the good you have done with them that may Allah grant you all the palaces you want and deserve in heaven. Thank you so much.
This was a perfect description of my ex, and he repeatedly told me I am the one with this problem. So much, I almost believed him. Thank you, it was a great teaching.
This is the first time I felt that an opinion on narcissism had the real insight. It made me feel sad for the narcissist in my life who I really love...I don't want to see him destroyed, i want him to find the peace and love
This lady has a very,very sharp insight into what narcissists are all about. I enjoyed her lecture very much. These psychological studies on narcissists are so useful for defending oneself against emotional abusers.
This is so so true. My ex narc would have these crazy breakdowns and go into these inexplicable deep depressions after parties or social events where he would say he looked around and felt so different from everyone else. That he just wanted to be normal like them, that he hated being around groups of people because he looked around and knew there was something wrong with him compared to everyone else. I never understood what he meant until I started learning about narcissism.
This is absolutely spot on!!! Lived with a Narcissist for ten years. Thank f**k i'm free of the controlling woman. Everything here is absolutely true...
My ex-wife could not stand to see me comfortable or happy or content it drove her insane I could literally see the rage and the anger within her just boiling how dare I feel confident or feel any form of semblance of stability or happiness when she could not I could definitely see how something like that can destroy someone
This is spiritual in every way. Narcissists are souls that were once full of love and have been tarnished over time. All that trauma they carry with them will destroy them.
I live with an evil.narc who is so miserable and evil. The money that I pay this loser is not enough for this entitled minion. I am a woman of God who knows my blessings are coming to me now. And all curses he tried to give me are being returned to him 100 fold. The law of Karma. Thank you Ms. For your honest and helpful video. I am sending you love ❤️♥️💙 and light.
Sounds exactly how I feel because Im married to one but we’re separated but still under the same roof ... he’s tried several times to make me fail but got had me prevail each time even this recent time ... God sent an Angel to protect me and give me peace and a brand new job paying more money that narc of mine thought I was going to crumble when my job closed back in June I showed him the letter they gave us he had a smirk on his face like he wanted to laugh but guess what 2weeks later a job called me set up a video interview ... boom hired I’m so thankful so whatever he wishes on me will go back to him 100 fold !!!
Do feel u must disengage from your narcissist before God can release blessing ...I just woke up after 40 years of marriage to a covert narcissist Jezebel !!...devastated
Your explanation on how narcissist tick has been an eye opener!.I unfortunately have two siblings with these toxic traits and two parents who refuse to accept that their two wonderful children have any faults whatsoever.My parents say I'm the crazy one and ask why is it me who is causing trouble all of the time,and why can't I be just like them!.The little voice in my head has been right all along for all of these painful years,and you have just confirmed my suspicions.THANKYOU!
She " the Narcissist " was jealous of my contentment with with my life I could set back and just enjoy life and relax and she could never set still she was going and doing only stopping to sleep I would set and watch her chase her tail just to keep her mind from thinking about her trauma that she was constantly running from
I have seen this also and if they aren't running around like chickens with their heads cut off then the are drinking and drugging or some kinda attention seeking activity
Same... He would even boast about the few moments he would be feeling content usually in my presence and act really prideful of that without realizing it was my energy he was drawing it from. Pathetic really.
You hit the hammer right on the nail of my thoughts and feelings about the narky I was dating!!!! That's exactly how my relationship was with that toxic weirdo. My Lord I am so happy to be out of his presence!!!!! Praise God for His interruption!
True mine told me sitting at home with his family (me n his child ) was boring we r 41 he runs the streets like he is 21 and of course when I bring up how that makes me feel I'm stupid to feel like that, im not his momma, he a grown man, etc...glad I made the choice to leave
Your message was right on the money! I've experienced watching my husband if 30 year's self destructive these last few year's after I finally took back my control.
They have no concept of forgiveness, they only understand punishment for even a compliment. They misunderstand a kindness. That is the key for me. If they get upset at a weird time and don't want to understand what you meant to be a thoughtful gift or sentiment, leave.
How weird you brought up there negativity, covetness affecting there health, I've known loads of narcissists in my life(starting with my own mum lol), and one thing I've noticed about ALLLLLLL of them, without exception is that they age so much faster than "normal" people, this is it yknow, its all that toxic poison circulating constantly through there bodies and it eventually shows up on the outside, in the same way "You are what you eat" whatever is going on on the inside ultimately shows up on the outside!
This is so beyond helpful, I always knew my so called mother was mentally gone but as I got older she was meanest human being I had ever met. Jealous and so much envy, I am so grateful to be here today she was very much capable of taking my life literally so I am so grateful God 🙏 got me away from that monster. She is the most evil person I have ever known. If you know one please RUN!
they are such horrendous beings, they will get whats coming for them. They may be winning right now but i believe in the Almighty's justice. I wish everyone a happy, healed and beautiful life post narc. Hang in there
Bingo! I guess you hit the bullseye with that one. I was married to one for 12 years. I finally just couldn’t take it anymore. I love him still. I just couldn’t take the blame anymore. I didn’t even really know what a narcissist was.. then I started reading up on it and I was blown away.
Ugh same situation w my gf… and i keep gettinf back with her. My situation is where she discards me and i keep wanting to make it right!! Its sickening isnt it..
A light bulb just went off in my head when you said possession taking something that isn’t there’s like good spirit good hearts and souls stirring up chaos and confusion devouring everything good in their path
A Narcissist tries to destroy others with lies when their lives can be destroyed with the TRUTH
Had it done to me.
Agree.
Good one!
@@randijones3952 YES IT IS!!!!!!!
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The only way to be free of a narcissist is to walk away. There is no cure for them.
Totally True
Absolutely
@Abe Garfield that doesn't work. You play into their gaslighting trap when you do that and it validates what they've been saying to people about you. Just walk away and never look back.
Abe G . Lie down, you're not making sense.
🙂 correct The Reprobate of Humanity
They destroy the best relationships they could ever have
That sounded quite narcissistic on your behalf, tbh.
@@ЕвгенийПопов-м3ц9ю not really just an observation
Yep....
@@ЕвгенийПопов-м3ц9ю I think it's a bit more complex than could have been expressed by this one sentence.
Taking the only example I have: I've been quite a good source for mine. Surely not perfect, but she had attention, love, money, ... basically a careless life. And yes, that was part of my mistake: I thought I had to help her heal, maybe even fix her, but I couldn't, probably made things worse by trying to. That's not meant like the usual "I'm the best that could ever happen to you!" which I admit the comment may sound like. But it's the somewhat objective observation that she had everything she craves for so much. And now that she broke up she lost it all and has to live a common life as a common human being - just like we all are.
Don't want to minimize anything she can do and does do, it's been hard for both of us and still is. But seeing the world through the eyes of an energy vampire it's maybe better not to discard your reliable host and source.
Personally I realised only after breakup that I've been giving way more than I could sustainably, found many a flaw in myself, learned quite a bit about myself and yes, now I'm glad i it worked out the way it did. I needed this hard lesson. Now I'm glad it's over but I'm also glad someone teached me, painful as it is. She could have gotten even more but it would have destroyed me. It was her choice to leave but she didn't realise that I'm able to get along without her and won't crouch back into my position. Her life on the other hand got only worse until now, albeit definitely not catastrophic, but ... profane, normal, average, like all us other mere mortals.
I pity her for her struggles but the best way I can help is to not help at all and at least I know she's not ruined or something. It was a downfall, though. Just an observation.
PS: I gave your comment a thumbs up as yes, it surely sounds a bit narcissistic. Don't think or hope it's meant that way, though.
@@ЕвгенийПопов-м3ц9ю they destroy their own familys.. that's the best relationship a person can have, but they destroy people who they are supposed to love, relationships with their own children
Just left a narcissist. Nothing was good enough for him. It was always something wrong. Never appreciative or grateful for nothing.
Amen
Very true.. They are never appreciative, butovertly critical and materialistic, thankless ppl.
My gosh this is true, I use to tell her that she would even find something wrong with Jesus
@@jonesfredrick94 Bingo
@@sunshinerays8960 Lol I think that all empaths male and female should just hang out and encourage one another
I just separated from a Narcissist, I have never seen a bitter, controlling and ungrateful person like him in my life. Constant gaslighting, cheating and insults. Embarrassing me publicly fuels his ego. May the universe not bring such a demon in human form my way again. I’m so free from depression and living happy now.
Hello, how are you doing
Good for you! I wish you every happinesa!
I'm glad to hear that keep it that way.
My gosh, sounds exactly like my ex, he loved embarrassing me in public in front of his his loser friends
Soooo happy for you. I share very similar story...thank God I’m free
Planning to live my REAL best life not some BS fake love, isolated, gas lit, never satisfied charade!!!
Narcissists develop relationships with people in order to take everything from them and eventually destroy them. They choose vulnerable people who are giving, loving, understanding and loyal, which, ironically, is what they need and want. The psychology of narcissists leads to their inevitable self-destruction in their pursuit of trying to destroy those people who would love them. You are right, they are their own worst enemies.
Take take take!
I couldn't have said that better myself. You are so on point. Thank you for being a voice of Truth. Have a blessed life.🙏🏾
Yes I work with two of them both of them are real jackasses all they do is play silly mind games on other they try to play them with me but I'm not vulnerable I'm very aware of there they coming from
Sadly I’ve learned this after 20 years not knowing what was wrong finally understood that this narcissism. Thank you for very informative video God bless you!
Thank you God for opening my eyes.
They can dish it out but they can't take it
Period!!!
They get outraged if you don't ALWAYS agree with them 100% on EVERYTHING.
You got that right you don't even have do any thing to them but say no and they get all in their feeling an much as they do.got the nerves 🤷
That's ABSOLUTELY true... it's frustrating...
Always..
These people need a planet for themselves
They have one.. it's called HELL!
No just a deep hole to bairy them in is all we need... O and amo don't forget the amo .. 22 s are cheap work well .when used correctly...
Point blank shot to the head
Yessssssssssssss
They'd just ruin that too...
Well said
Envy and pride...Yes! This is exactly what keeps them in their ever present karma. They meet people who are empathic and can help them but then they self sabotage...
As it is written, For where envying and strife is, there is confusion and every evil work ~ James 3:16!
@@hepzibahbeulah8961 amen
@@hepzibahbeulah8961 Yes 🙏🙏🙏
What does self sabatoge mean? This is SO TRUE!
@@aprilsteinford-radice-rash8143 it means when they have something good going on, they somehow destroy it. Relationship, friendships, job opportunities, promotions. They do something that stops it from happening or progressing and usually play victim or pass the blame.
When a narcissist decides to spend their whole life crapping on others, stealing or
cheating or lies, they SO deserve what they get.
They’ll get their karma. Their karma in this life is living in misery and envy. Their karma in the next life is burning for all eternity.
They are created by God for a reason. Only He in his mercy and compassion will judge.
Facts.
@@jaydenpaulmartine698 🎯🎯🎯
Everyone: shoot narcissist and send them to hell
God: wtf 😒 o.o
Me: yeet em to therapy
The narc said to me after a party “I’m not like these people” Well that was true - the other people were good people and not a toxic narcissist! Great to be free of them.
And thats A fact
Mine also
Same 😂
Great, saw it early
❤️
Every narcissistic person who I grew up with,who sadistically tortured me emotionally and physically,ended up dying. They're dead.
KARMA HITS THEM WHEN THEY THINK THEIR LIFE IS GRAND .
Would you mind elaborating?
@@EasyBriizy just when they think EVERYTHING is Perfect in their life ,,Boom 💥
@@williamheinsinger7390 And why do you think that happens?
@@EasyBriizy Because they NEVER see it coming.
That is totally true
They live inside a hamster wheel.
They repeat their behaviour with every source. When the source figures them out, they move onto the next victim.
Run, run around inside that wheel spinning and getting nowhere.
In an argument with my narc after I figured him out,I said he can take all the $hit he’s telling me and take it to the next victim. He acted like I was crazy for saying that. Told me won’t be another one and he doesn’t know where I come up with these crazy statements.
What if they stalk you and interfere in your life against your will? Go to police? Any advice?
They are rude, unhappy people who judge others and this rings true with someone I know sadly
I said it before and I'll say it again ... they are their own demise. Just let them be they'll destroy themselves.
But don't let down your guard, they'll still try to take you down with them.
Aa.. Psalms 37. Luke 10:19. 2 Timothy 1:7 Psalms 27:1 Deuteronomy 28:13 Isaiah 54-17 Philippians 4:13. They can try.
14
The wicked draw the sword
and bend the bow
to bring down the poor and needy,
to slay those whose ways are upright.
15
But their swords will pierce their own hearts,
and their bows will be broken.
Psalm 37 , know it well.
Thank you.
@@phoenixrising8007 Haha, if only the world was so fair. No, everybody who matters fawns over them and they never hang, you get the punishment that they deserved!
Born to destroy, if not another surely myself.
I love when you said "they are programmed to do everything evil" 100% true
He hurt me so bad. Nothing can heal this wound but prayers and grace. I don’t know how someone can be so cruel
Sister , sister ! Yes you will be stronger , braver and assertive ! Once you stop the how's why's when's etc. Except the lessons taught put that slimy life sucking , happiness wrecker , LOVE MURDERING EVIL ENTITY on the back burner every time it creeps in your mind banish it to where ever you can think strong positive thoughts instead , self promoting affermations etc. Play happy music dance around your house . CHANGED MY THE STORIES in your head .. YOU DID NOTHING WRONG BUT I INVEST IN A FRAUD A FAKE , HE TWISTED RIGHT TO WRONG GOOD TO BAD LOVE TO CALLOUSES INDIFFERENCE WITH A SIDE OF SNIDE BELITTLING REMARKS FOR THAT EXTRA TWIST OF THE KNIFE ! Not you , him ! It ain't easy but it will get much better I promise ! My thoughts are with each and every good person who has been VICTIMIZED BY NARCISSISTIC LOVE ! XXX🙈🙉🙊❤️😎✌️
Me to iam going through the pain right now of what my soon to be ex has done to me, and he absolutely doesn't care about the pain he has caused me it sucks IAM so broken hearted 💔💔😢😢
Keep your head up and your eyes forward; NEVER look back! He's NOT the all-to-end-all; he's NOT your world; he's NOT your future, and he will NEVER be your happiness! He wasted enough of your love and life--DON'T give him even one more second!!! You've got this!
@@famidatoma5666 I was trapped by my monster for 17 years !!! It was boring as hell on Halloween ! Except when I'd try to get away from him then the real fireworks started !
I'd love to see that WASTE OF SPACE & tell him some crazy lies just to rattle his cage ! Do alittle payback of psychological WARFARE ! I think it would be soooo much fun to watch him squirm ! But it's probably bad KARMA to retaliate in that way ... BUMMER /DRAG !
I said the same thing. I never knew a human could be so evil to another. Especially their wife
To detroy a narc. Tell them, "MY LIFE DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU, I WILL LIVE MY LIFE AS I SEE FIT!!!
This is what I said to my narcissistic brother and he hasn't spoken to me in over 25 years. No love lost.
Same gone no contact from my two Narcissistic brothers. I am healing day by day. These people are evil
@@khadijahkamara727
Good for you! ☺
I did this to my narc mother she went after hung adult kids I had no clue they don't speak to me only my mother
@@khadijahkamara727 were they like this since childhood or only after growing up?
I am confused what happens to their behaviour suddenly for no reason they disturb the whole family happiness for no obvious reasons.
Does a Narc have Narc parents
They destroy them selfes every day, this is their karma.
Dolly Bow,your beauty can make the news!
Yes. Their karma is their daily misery.
I fell in love with a narcissist and let her hurt me and blamed myself for it. When she continued going for drama after the breakup, I simply ignored her. You have to walk away man. There’s no better thing than doing what’s best for you and letting them hurt on their own. You deserve better.
You did good by going no contact - otherwise she would have destroyed your soul and left you an empty shell of your former strong self. Takes time to heal but it’s so worth it to escape their evil claws.
@@Rumorhasit-777 always go no contact, I do it out of pride but it’s bound to work.
True
Yes!!! Thank you, you couldn't have stated that more clearly!!! That is the best thing to do, is to just let them distroy themselves. Because they know what they are doing to us but they don't care and worst of all they don't want to change!!! They don't want to give up their lifestyle!! It is really gross!!! In the end they will be the ones hurting worse than we can ever imagine!! And worse than they ever hurt us. So in a way, we can feel pity for them.
@@Rumorhasit-777
I've been there,,and letting go is hard..
But once you do and they realize it man if we could only put that feeling in a pill
Going ‘No Contact’ is going to save your sanity, trust me on that! You have to remove yourself from their line of sight. They crave to see you and hear you as it helps them figure out what to say or do in order to hurt you. If they have no clue about what’s happening in your life they can’t do a thing to undermine you.
Not exactly for narcassist that into black magic and hire sorcerer to take my soul for many years even after Ieft
This is factual ✔️✔️
Actually, no contact isn't the only solution, you have to cleanse your self spiritually to be able to move on
Exactly DON'T ENGAGE with ANY conversation
Correct
They slowly tare your heart out by insulting every move or word you say... They love to laugh at your pain they have no feelings
THANK YOU AND YOU CAN SAY THAT AGAIN SEVERAL TIMES HALLELUIYAH
I consider them demons. Demons can’t love no can they be happy.
They tear you down behind your back too. With their friends,coworkers etc. They make it look like their life sucks with you tell them flat out lies and cause ppl to hate you that never even met you. Just pay attention the next time they introduce you to someone you never met. If they have hate in their eyes that's probly why. I lived it
This has been my life, I had no idea what a narcissist was until I began digging into this on RUclips. What a wonderful community! I know I must divorce her to keep my sanity.
@@masterblogger1crucialtimes838 just beware bro. When you break it off with one they become extremely vidictive..they will try to sabotage you anyway they can cause they don't want you to succeed at anything..Mine did her best to destroy me..please watch what you eat and drink if she has had access to it ..after mine got bitter I developed sickness and health issues. I know she was responsible. Don't let your guard down man... God bless
This is my first night by myself after 10 years with a complete monster that almost drained the life out of me. I have a lot of healing to do and this video was a blessing to come across.
Good luck😀u deserve better. U r so brave, u took that step and its gonna be worth it. I hope u will heal and happy👍
Grateful withdrawals....YEA!
I'm so happy, and proud of you...don't beat yourself up...we've all been there. Being a naturally loving, giving person makes it hard to imagine how someone else can be capable of being such monsters. Take it one day at a time...forgive them, and forgive yourself for allowing yourself to be abused, and ignoring the truth of who and what they are, and from your experience Take with you the Lifelong lesson...GIVING YOURSELF the same love that you so freely give to others. Take it as a lesson, but don't let bitterness turn into one of them, and whatever you do, don't let them back into your life. Stay as far away from them as East is from West. Forgive, and get the ABSOLUTE BEST Revenge possible...live a healthy, happy life minus them in it...BEST WISHES.
Blessings to you ♥️
I hope your life is going well, nothing could be worse then staying with them.
A relationship with a *narcissist* is like building a house on quicksand, in a earthquake prone street. Whatever life you build with them, they will tear down. Put your faith in *God* and not some Jezebel!!! 👿 ☢️
Exactly!💖
Or Warlord.
And thats A fact
John, I believe male narcs are the Absalom spirit. I was looking into that recently. So yes Jezebel and Absalom are the same breed
Yep and they come in every gender n inbetween those Jezebels. They are demonically possessed persons who need absolution, complete spiritual deliverance... they harbour wicked spirits from the satanic clusters of the Jezebel, Ahab/Absalom and Narcissistic Spirits. BIND them from operating in your presence or in your life forever. Cut off the evil and unGodly soul ties. Cut off all forms of contact... Block, Delete, Unfollow. Remove all gifts and items they ever left or gave you from any of your properties and private spaces as much as you can or seriously consecrate and annoint them all to Jehovah God. Keep nothing of theirs unless its necessary evidence. Don't let them hinder your new life and relationships. Keep no ties to a toxic devil. Shut the evil doors and entry points they have into your life especially in your mind. Seal off every thought n emotion about them. Zero energy for the parasitic vamps. Tell them no information about you and yours or your future. Forgive... heal and forget them permanently. AMEN. If they do not repent they will self destruct! Their boss satan will use them n destroy them like they tried to do to everyone else. They surely reap what evil and iniquity they sew 7 fold back into themselves and even unto the 4th generation. They won't be able to withstand the recompense when God vindicates us. Trust in the Lord alone for vengeance. Drag them in prayer and in spiritual warfare into Heaven's Court. Place Jesus as the center & head of your life. Be obedient & loyal to God He will vindicate and justify you in this holy case you bring against the Narc. #GET FREE; STAY FREE #GET HEALED; STAY HEALED
They are so judgmental never see there faults 🙁
Sure not, even all people and friends can recognize unhealthy changes in your personality and had become a total softy, and if you try to explain speak openly your feelings and problems the smallest fart is an earthquake for their ego and you feel more and more unsure and strange to yourself. Some kind of supergaslightning
Everytime I tried to point out something that bothered me (like him forgetting to lock the doors) and it's "well you do ____" always deflecting
Omg my ex narcissist was like this if I confronted him asked him a question he would get defensive call me selfish I didn’t understand how I was selfish when he acted selfish, they manipulate everything and turn it on you like your the bad one. He even made a indirect like I was bad for he’s soul when he was the one hurting me neglecting me it was draining.
I don’t know how to deal with a adult narcissism daughter it’s emotionally painful exhausting nothing seems to be good toward them! Blame, accuser, talk behind you the things Wich you didn’t meant it etc… 🥺😢
Well guess what that's on nobody else but them
The sweetest revenge is to show them you can be happy without them.....
"Fake smiles and bogus laughter" -- That's she.
Omg the LAUGHTER IS SO LOUD AND OBNOXIOUS AND THEY KEEP DOING UNTIL YOU RESPOND.
Mines use to like to laugh at me after she has confused me and made me mad
Mine does a weird Loud extended fake laugh... it makes me cringe every time.
@@2010cmarie Whenever I hear that over the top cackling it makes me want to vomit.
They also talk loud to get peoples attention it's embarrassing especially when your with them ,they are bloody sickos 😒
The origin of
1) ENVY from greedy,
2) PRIDE from inferiority.
Right...
In other words 1, Envy from scarcity..2,Pride from insecurity.
@Chlarie Peace God blesses u and take good care of yourself.
True
The devil traits
A sound heart is the life of the flesh: but envy the rottenness of the bones ~ Proverbs 14:30. Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall ~ Proverbs 16:18.
When they get home and say "who did you screw last night" they're telling you what they just did...
Absolutely
Exactly
They always expose themselves. What they out of the blue say what they aren't doing, you can bank on it they are! They are sick individuals.
@@ebanymcclenan2014 Right on brother....my ex. Out of no where..told me once "you've been with 2 women at the same time haven't you " of coarse I had never done that. But I found out later she was at that time. I was even given names and where it happened..so yes absolutely true they tell on themselves. They are sick
That is the major problem with my relationship. He accuses me night and day. Constantly thinking I'm cheating and then he would put his hands on me for it but yet I'm totally innocent. if it was something I was doing, I could stop. but how does one stop doing something they were never doing to start with?
Put 100 empaths on an island and they will thrive helping each other. Put 100 narcissists on an island and the one left holding the knife will starve.
Very funny but true😂😂😂👍🤣
😂😂
Interesting analogy Lisa...
Exactly!
Man I dead
Jealousy makes you forget about your own good qualities. The way to shutdown jealousy is to remind yourself of your own good qualities. Which is why it is important to know yourself. A Narcissist does not have a Stable Sense of Self which keeps them incapable of Self Soothing the feeling of Jealousy.
Ignore them but remember to smile they hate that.
They think everyone is below them. Great video, thank you 😊
Yes...as she said, highly delusional. Why I can’t help but hit them with the ugly truth of themselves between the eyes (those who have taken joy in trying to run me down)....and hard!!! 😂
@@rpalmer0011 or highly above them even though they're just the same, they can't stand being normal.
Trust me am involved presently with one trust me hes no walk in the park am definitely leaving is ass hes heartless
Troopermax Guz they don’t have the capacity to be ‘normal’, as in normal human beings...period (but you’re totally right in that they do view themselves as so infinitely superior so as to not want to be a mere human being). God complex at it’s finest huh?!
Indeed! Even friends who poured compassion, advice, and money into them! You'll see how little they appreciate ALL of their friends when they start dating someone. Their new partner inflates their ego and suddenly they find their friends to be nothing but an inconvenience to be sneered at. How quickly they forget how fragile and vulnerable they were. It's disgusting!
My ex friend was a Narcissist ... He had LOADS more than I had yet he was the most miserable person I have EVER met in my life..
They are so SHAME based ... They will target your self-esteem and soul...
TOXIC NASTY PEOPLE ...
When he entered the room you could FEEL the energy level in the room change...
So pleased he is no longer in my life after MANY "Hoover" attempts ..
Same!! He was rich & would hate on me and everything I have. He tried to destroy me when I stopped being friends.
@@katalynbabe Trying to make a Narcissist happy is like trying to fill a bucket with a hole in the bottom... SUCKS to be them.
Hoover attempts? Please give example
Your message was very helpful thank you 🙏 GOD bless you
Yes! I was dealing with a rich narcissist. With power and an executive title of a large organization and was so petty! Played many many minds games. Tried to make me crazy! I can’t understand how he was so successful in his career! Petty like a child.
I could absolutely cry after seeing this! I spent YEARS feeling like I was crazy because everybody said what a nice guy my ex husband is. I hate that anyone else has experienced this but THANK GOD I know I'm not imagining it. And now I can wash my hands of him and let karma do what it decides.
Yes mines called me crazy and slow cause I no things wasn't right with him..
I've dated one of these creatures. I ended up in hospital. Diagnosed with clinical depression and severe anxiety. The treatment of a narcissist stays
I believe you
No it cannot stay. Break the evil soul tie renounce the person n every unGodly contract n covenant that ever came along with ever knowing that person. Go to God. Get delivered n healed from the trauma n narcissistic abuse (satanic ritual abuse). Cut the silver cords. This is all demonic u must bind them n cast them out. Every item, every picture, every gift, every memory, every energy supply n input (emotional responses) to them must be removed n cut off. They are not in your universe they just don't know that yet. Every evil PROJECTIONS (bad thoughts, evil wishes or wicked prayers/incantations sent or even demons n familiar or monitoring spirits astrally sent from altars, mirrors, waters n shrines from the person to harm) , INJECTIONS (sex, pictures or food or harmful agressive words or evil suggestions to the mind or into body of another or dream state of another) and ATTACHMENTS (unhealthy or toxic debris memories/emotions, left from being intermingled with them or soul cord bonds to the person from trauma, abuse, sex, demonic spirit transfers off of them that try enter you if spiritually unguarded) they all must go back to sender or be broken n voided out forever. All their evil actions are some of sacrifices they do to their god satan. We commit love from God they commit hate from their god. Use all of this as a miraculous life lesson learned for empowerment n love stronger n harder the right person. Call God into your situation now n learn to war for your salvation n for others. Your highly blessed n favoured about to recieve wonders and powers that is the time they send out these kinds of devils becuz they saw your bright light n tall Angels around you this is all a test. Soon to be testimony. Thru Christ u must overcome. It all starts with 1 prayer u can get God to break those sicknesses n sin off your life from those evil people n fly away happy. U never need someone who doesn't love you unless its only public business honey. #Heal Recover, Move on In Your Destiny in Christ 🤣🤣🤣
@@sophiachin1262 I will definitely overcome. Thank you❤
Sophia Chin Amen!
I was nearly there too. What help me a lot was understanding how a narcissist works. After that I slowly didn't let myself get emotionally wrapped up with her anymore.
Perfect they don't give respect they see everyone beneath
Narcissists plan and plot to destroy others but end up destroying their own lives. That’s real karma.
The word " Whatever" kind of shuts them down. Indifference is their kryptonite.
Yes it's because they Need a reaction, they want others to care so when we don't it really annoys them and make them question their significance.
Yes but the narc took over my 19yr and 26yr and while I beat my mother at her own game by not caring she used her authority went after my kids turned them completely against me. Now they disrespect me and have cut me off
I said to him "it is what it is" - he didn't like that 😂
They want to be you...EVERY THING YOU ARE, THEY WANNABE YOU
And CAN'T, YOUR SPIRIT IRRITATES
THE demons IN THEM, THEIR
CONSTANT COMPANION...
Dellusions of Grandeur = NPD...Group 4 Cluster B.....cover up!!
NPD = Dellusional Gratification of Admiration!!
I'm a somber and melancholy person. So I feel uncomfortable around extremely optimistic people. However, I don't desire to crush someone's light. Even if their optimism irritates me I can see when their simply trying to offer me encouragement. And I'll appreciate the gesture inspite of my irritation. But Narcissists are so disgusted by optimism that they'll try to tear the other person down simply because they enjoy it. And will justify it with no shame. Of course they don't see it as them being sadistic. It's sick! Even my morbid ass can't relate to that!
One of the fakest people.
At Diane Matlock - Yes, it's so true. My ex would mimics the ways I express myself. Like when I do my happy tap dance, my funny face I make when I'm looking for something, when I pretend to sing opera when ever I get good news etc. My unique personality. Around his friends he's acting like me. I would shout him out to stop stealing my style. That his friends are going to think that I'm copying him. On serious note, come to think of it, omg, in the beginning of our relationship he told me he wanted to be me. I was confused. Thinking if he wanted to be a woman. I confronted him the next day. He got furious and said he didnt say that. That I'm crazy. I just forgot about it. I didnt know about narcissists back then. That was a red flag. Spooky.
The best way to deal with Narcissist is to kick them out of your life and don't give them any attention. meanwhile, you should improve your life, be happy and peace. If they see you are much better without them, it will distory them. They will do anything to try to get your attention, they will find a replacement to get even with you and wish you will crawl back and beg them.
I told my narc neighbors to keep their narc 5hit on their property and I wasn't playing their narc 5hit games
their core are UNCLEAN SPIRITS. THIS IS SPIRITUAL
Very spiritual.
Really how?
@@missindie4199 They are posessed by evil spirits.
@khoa ngo what do you consider as many?
@khoa ngo yes! And it makes it easy for demons to be transferred to you. Demons and diseases come more into your life through sex compared to other sins. Read your Bible.
Proverbs 16:18
Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.
Amen amen
That is the Word of God!👏🏽
@@mememarcia329 my child, i never said any of those things.
Do not worship false gods if you want to enter heaven.
I also never made hell cause that's fuckedup
AMEN ❤️
Amen 🙌🏽
They wake up every day to start a problem
Yes
I WAS " MERRIED " TO ONE OF THIS SICK DEMONIC CREATURES
I SAW AND LIVED ALL THIS. THANX BE TO GOD AND VIDEOS LIKE THIS I AM A HAPPY SURVIVOR NOW. THE BEST THING IN MY LIFE IS TO DISENGAGED MY TRUE FEELING FROM A GARBAGE LIKE MY EX- DEMON
Listen to Bob Dylan's Idiot wind.
Down the hiway, down the tracks
down the road to ectasy,
I followed u beneath the stars
hounded by your memory
and all your raging glory.
I can't feel u anymore
I can't even touch the books u read.
everytime I crawl past ur door
I'm wishin i was somewhere else instead.
YES ! Demons they are !
Actually the narcs possess all the 7 deadly sins which are pride,list,anger,covetousness, envy,sloth and greed so beware they the narcs are really deadly. God bless,peace be with you all.
God bless you and peace be with you also and all the good people of the world 🙏❤️
Gosh.. this is so true
@Pynk Pycasso mb
I'm not a tiny bit scared of Narc,I'm an Empath warrior but be smart and don't waste. I dare you to stare in the eyes Narc still swings on sight, they're coward.
Yes, they are Satan's children
My narcissistic ex boyfriend was French, and I’m Brazilian. When we went to one of his best friends’ house (don’t know how they can have one of them, but anyway) he used to humiliate me with things like: as soon as we were inside he would shout “hide your wallets, the Brazilian has arrived!”. This was one of the many embarrassing moments I had with him. I still remember how charming, and happy, and welcoming he was in front of his friends, but when we were alone he was quiet, evil-eyes, and unbearable.
Covert nassicists are the worse because others can't see it
Even when they screw up, it's someone else's fault, and they always looking to blame someone for something (pointing the finger)
@DONT KNOW so true. you'll never hear someone throw around the term narcissist anytime anyone does anything they disagree with
...more than a narcissist. I sometimes forget what I'm doing, because I start thinking of something else. I'm so Adhd it's funny.
Literally like always.
They try and find innocent unsuspecting scapegoats . Once the scapegoat exits they are stuck with their own reality .
@@PRETTYGIRLSWAGG918
Amen, I feel what you saying
The truth hurts them the most, the brutal honest truth.
The ENTITLEMENT! That has literally been the biggest toxic part of having a boss with narcissistic traits.
They are the Jezebel demon.
How about the ones that are hoarders and they constantly need multiples of everything that's a whole new can of worms I deal with.... When they realize they'll never use the item they just move on to their next greedy purchase and try to drag me into the drama... I can see clearly what's going on but sometimes I still get dragged into it
@@lynngriffin3404 omg is that hoarding a thing they do? I know a narcissist who definitely hoards items. Then again their are supposed "regular" folks who hoard
YES!! 🎯
Jezebel Demons both female & male!!
I can't bare them, they suck the life out of your sole.
I need to be a million miles away from them.
No contact is the only way, not just for a while, but forever.
Even if it is close family.
sole 🤭👌🏼
Especially "family".
✔💯
Exactly! Let them self destruct with their pride n envy. Its self inflicted.
Ruby Taylor,You got a lovely smile 😊
My husband was an addict before I met him and,god have remove this monster from my life,because he see what is coming 🙏
You are truly blessed
Amen sister, the scripture says that whatever bitter envy and strife is they will be confusion and every evil work.
Yes exactly. That is one of the main verses that depicts narcissism to a T.
Scripture has no place on this channel.
I am relieved to know that his downfall is not on me. No need to be guilty leaving or abandoning him
I’m a victim of narcissistic abuse I’m 7 years strong I always been a loyal and nice and friendly person it’s so sad how nice I been throughout the whole relationship till this day it still hurts but with God is getting me through the day even if people continue to treat me wrong I know God will not treat me like that
U are so strong,much power to u
Envy will drive the narcissist to destroy those that they are especially envious of, and those they are unable to control.
They have a problem for every solution...
I exposed him on social media praying who ever considers dating these swamp creatures they do their research if not they too will suffer..
The Devil's Mules.
Sic dark energy is all they have. Serial killers of everything!
The light shall prevail the evilness of the darkness.
My husband had been cheating on me for years now I saw this gifted hacker been recommended so I tried him out he helped me hacked into my husbands phone and I discovered he has been cheating on me I recommend 'giftedhacker' to any one you is suspecting his/spouse
WhatsApp:+1 4 0 5 8 9 6 0 0 1 4.
Please elaborate a bit on how you did this? Like just on your own fb or...? 🤔
I do the same here too.
Hi.. can you please tell me how to exposed a narc ? How did you do it? I wanna expose him as well... on social media and at his work and to all he is talking too.... please
They might even envy the fact that your nose is smaller than theirs.
OMG....YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY AND 1000% TRUE AND ACCURATE. HE USED TO STARE AT MY NOSE, LIKE HE WANTED TO FIT IT ON HIS FACE. NO NEED TO READ THE OTHER COMMENTS, THIS WAS ENOUGH
Even after they've cut their nose off to spite their face.
@@Aa-ls4kd ain't dat some shyt???...smh
I believe he was about my one 😂 and I wasn’t crazy
So true
I’m finally free of my covert narcissist husband. It took me nine years to finally understand what I was dealing with. I convinced him to move back across the country last summer and he ended up with herpes! He thought he found his next victim but she gave him a STD instead and dumped him!
They sabotage everything and appreciate nothing. The Narcissist is a walking spiritual lesson in how not to live your life. The only thing you gain from being in a relationship with them is the realisation that unlike them you have a heart and soul. You can leave the misery and cruelty behind, while they carry it forever.
You just described my brother perfectly
He was just like that he made me feel worthless and hopeless robbed my energy and I resented him for all the hurt he did to me
Perfectly said, without going into too much detail!! Karma is Queen!!
Pride made them feel like they are paragon of all virtues. So that's why there is no way you can communicate with them and resolve issues in relationships.
So true! God, please protect me as I divorce this demon.
Moving on giving them 0 supply and succeeding
September Rose,You look stunning 🌹🌷🌷 dear
I had to endure four of the bastards while a young teenager. Two schoolmates and their narc parents. Sabotage, undermine, set you up with lies is their specialty. Sick people!
Correct and true. Avoid at all cost.
This has brought tears to my eyes. I've watched my proudful narc destroying himself so bad. His pride prevented him to admit and take responsibility and accountability for his bad choices and behaviors. I tried to make him aware of how self destructive and self sabotaging he was, that he needs help but instead he took it as an attack. I hope one day he will realize that he is his own biggest enemy.
HE NEVER WILL. U BE WAITING FOR ever THE devil will repent b4 that happens.
He won’t
Absolutely 💯
True ❤️
Go no contact works miracles..🕶🎥
Im 5 months no contact....getting my life back. Dont want to trash back in my life. 4 years of cheating with different lovers. Run dont walk. Toxic narcissistic.
Thank you! 4 years no contact and I'm happier than ever
I am 6 months no contact!
2 yrs for me, they are relentless in trying to reinstate contact.
Absolutely! 3 months no contact, & he’s now in the stalking phase.
THEIR PRIDE WILL BE THEIR DOWNFALL. TRUE AS EVER.
That famous quote “pride comes before a fall” comes from The Bible in a book called Proverbs 16:18
I tell the Narc all the time..."Pride comes before crash"...he blows it off...then I watch him crash each time...
If you know that. Then you know their end is coming. Or otherwise you know it's your time to exit.
Lots of truth in those proverbs, I can honestly tell you that. My son-in-law Hanns
Andersen screwed me out of my inheritance, never once did he visit his Mom till
her last few days. Then within a few months after getting a windfall, the prick up
and died. proverb "An inheritance swiftly gotten shall not be blessed." Hey Jackie
how does it feel? He told me if I did not give him his mother's wedding ring I'd get
nothing. that hurt. and his wife Jackie out in Syracuse? well how does it feel to not
have ur husband with you, He had NO real illness, not worth dying over, So Jackie
was it worth it? Were it not for his mom, my wife, you would have never had the man
you love so much, bet that thought never came to ur mind, yup, satan in drag. U
got what ya wanted, u just never freakin asked what it would cost first.
@@2010cmarie right!!! Narcs are so stupid🤣
@@raymondgarafano8604 😂 you gave his whole government
I've had narcissists as friends for 4 years and i couldn't understand how they can seem like angels from time to time and at other times they would hurt me deeply to the point that I've had a seizure because of them and they still didn't care. I could never understand them until i watched your videos, you reassured my sanity and saved me from those people. I hope with these videos and all the good you have done with them that may Allah grant you all the palaces you want and deserve in heaven. Thank you so much.
You are very welcome. Happy to know you have benefited so much.
This was a perfect description of my ex, and he repeatedly told me I am the one with this problem. So much, I almost believed him. Thank you, it was a great teaching.
Dealt with one, horrible person.
Christine Wilmer, Really!
Christine Wimer,hope you are not with a narcissist cause you are too precious!
This is the first time I felt that an opinion on narcissism had the real insight. It made me feel sad for the narcissist in my life who I really love...I don't want to see him destroyed, i want him to find the peace and love
This is an Extremely Sad way to continue living your life. That's there Karma !!
This lady has a very,very sharp insight into what narcissists are all about. I enjoyed her lecture very much. These psychological studies on narcissists are so useful for defending oneself against emotional abusers.
This is so so true. My ex narc would have these crazy breakdowns and go into these inexplicable deep depressions after parties or social events where he would say he looked around and felt so different from everyone else. That he just wanted to be normal like them, that he hated being around groups of people because he looked around and knew there was something wrong with him compared to everyone else. I never understood what he meant until I started learning about narcissism.
Whatever u spoke was the utter truth
This is absolutely spot on!!! Lived with a Narcissist for ten years. Thank f**k i'm free of the controlling woman. Everything here is absolutely true...
My ex-wife could not stand to see me comfortable or happy or content it drove her insane I could literally see the rage and the anger within her just boiling how dare I feel confident or feel any form of semblance of stability or happiness when she could not I could definitely see how something like that can destroy someone
The narcissist will eventually destroy itself . They are never happy or satisfied with anything or anyone but themselves .
This is spiritual in every way. Narcissists are souls that were once full of love and have been tarnished over time. All that trauma they carry with them will destroy them.
I dont think they had souls to start with
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I agree, no contact is peace…!
We like to say that they are a legend in their own mind. This says it all.
I live with an evil.narc who is so miserable and evil. The money that I pay this loser is not enough for this entitled minion. I am a woman of God who knows my blessings are coming to me now. And all curses he tried to give me are being returned to him 100 fold. The law of Karma. Thank you Ms. For your honest and helpful video. I am sending you love ❤️♥️💙 and light.
Why in God's holy name are you still with him?
@Mary Lane Lord knows why. That's why I asked
Sounds exactly how I feel because Im married to one but we’re separated but still under the same roof ... he’s tried several times to make me fail but got had me prevail each time even this recent time ... God sent an Angel to protect me and give me peace and a brand new job paying more money that narc of mine thought I was going to crumble when my job closed back in June I showed him the letter they gave us he had a smirk on his face like he wanted to laugh but guess what 2weeks later a job called me set up a video interview ... boom hired I’m so thankful so whatever he wishes on me will go back to him 100 fold !!!
Lisa Robinson Boland I was about to write the same thing 🤷♀️
Do feel u must disengage from your narcissist before God can release blessing ...I just woke up after 40 years of marriage to a covert narcissist Jezebel !!...devastated
Your explanation on how narcissist tick has been an eye opener!.I unfortunately have two siblings with these toxic traits and two parents who refuse to accept that their two wonderful children have any faults whatsoever.My parents say I'm the crazy one and ask why is it me who is causing trouble all of the time,and why can't I be just like them!.The little voice in my head has been right all along for all of these painful years,and you have just confirmed my suspicions.THANKYOU!
Cheating, blaming, etc. I cant handle it anymore
She " the Narcissist " was jealous of my contentment with with my life I could set back and just enjoy life and relax and she could never set still she was going and doing only stopping to sleep I would set and watch her chase her tail just to keep her mind from thinking about her trauma that she was constantly running from
I have seen this also and if they aren't running around like chickens with their heads cut off then the are drinking and drugging or some kinda attention seeking activity
Same... He would even boast about the few moments he would be feeling content usually in my presence and act really prideful of that without realizing it was my energy he was drawing it from. Pathetic really.
Narcissists cannot sit and be alone with their feelings......they don't want to have to think about what they've done and who they really are.
You hit the hammer right on the nail of my thoughts and feelings about the narky I was dating!!!!
That's exactly how my relationship was with that toxic weirdo.
My Lord I am so happy to be out of his presence!!!!! Praise God for His interruption!
True mine told me sitting at home with his family (me n his child ) was boring we r 41 he runs the streets like he is 21 and of course when I bring up how that makes me feel I'm stupid to feel like that, im not his momma, he a grown man, etc...glad I made the choice to leave
Your message was right on the money! I've experienced watching my husband if 30 year's self destructive these last few year's after I finally took back my control.
They have no concept of forgiveness, they only understand punishment for even a compliment. They misunderstand a kindness. That is the key for me. If they get upset at a weird time and don't want to understand what you meant to be a thoughtful gift or sentiment, leave.
Right..
This is sprinkled with a lot of scripture!
How weird you brought up there negativity, covetness affecting there health, I've known loads of narcissists in my life(starting with my own mum lol), and one thing I've noticed about ALLLLLLL of them, without exception is that they age so much faster than "normal" people, this is it yknow, its all that toxic poison circulating constantly through there bodies and it eventually shows up on the outside, in the same way "You are what you eat" whatever is going on on the inside ultimately shows up on the outside!
This is so beyond helpful, I always knew my so called mother was mentally gone but as I got older she was meanest human being I had ever met. Jealous and so much envy, I am so grateful to be here today she was very much capable of taking my life literally so I am so grateful God 🙏 got me away from that monster. She is the most evil person I have ever known. If you know one please RUN!
It's like the devil took control of them
they are such horrendous beings, they will get whats coming for them. They may be winning right now but i believe in the Almighty's justice. I wish everyone a happy, healed and beautiful life post narc. Hang in there
Bingo! I guess you hit the bullseye with that one. I was married to one for 12 years. I finally just couldn’t take it anymore. I love him still. I just couldn’t take the blame anymore. I didn’t even really know what a narcissist was.. then I started reading up on it and I was blown away.
Ugh same situation w my gf… and i keep gettinf back with her. My situation is where she discards me and i keep wanting to make it right!! Its sickening isnt it..
"They are programmed to do evil" You got that right,for sure!
A light bulb just went off in my head when you said possession taking something that isn’t there’s like good spirit good hearts and souls stirring up chaos and confusion devouring everything good in their path