Splitting Things Evenly
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- The plaintiff claims his estranged wife filed their income taxes together and owes him half the money from the return, so the plaintiff is suing. The defendant received an inheritance that was included in her income, so she believes she doesn't owe her ex since most of the income recorded on their taxes came from her.
When she said he can only see them 4 hrs a weekend I knew
How does Judge Millán not get this, she’s been doing this for 30 plus years: domestic violence complaints are mishandled all the time. Often, the way the complaint is handled by the police who arrive at the scene is based on the ideas or misconceptions, or outright biases of the officers. She must have seen this a million times. I’ve never seen her react like this before.
You know, I'm 38 years old, and I grew up watching Judge Milian. I have great respect for her, but as I get older, I disagree with her more on a lot of things.
That’s why judge milian is acting like this. There’s holes in the story. She set him up and milian knows this. Doesn’t want to be on record she’s taking pills. Doesn’t want to make a ruling on something still battling out in divorce court. The man has issues but he didn’t hit her. If there were records of domestic violence, even once, this wouldn’t be his first offense. I believe she took the house from him and if she was administering his drugs for him then he can battle for his house
Yup
The judge was completely rude and unprofessional with the defendant. Most cases you can tell by the Plaintiff’s behavior and actions who are the abusers and nut cases and who aren’t. She was definitely abused! By the way he acted, his actions and the way he responded to the questions…..he was an abuser! He even admitted to being admitted to a psychiatric hospital on a few different occasions. The judge attacked the defendant for absolutely no reason. That was awful and she should be ashamed!
After dealing with that woman, I'm sure he did need a psychiatrist.
How? She was trying to decipher what this woman was saying as she is changing her story. She didn't attack anyone.
I'm happy her daddy left her money to leave him
I understand how each side can be a problem but I don’t like how JM dismissed her at the end! He sounds crazy in court so I can’t even imagine at home!
That and when the judge was pressing her for making him mad in the car with the kids. It doesn't take much thought to think of a possible reason like hoping he wouldn't be as abusive in front of his children
Why did they even bother to accept this case when there's no way the judge could make a ruling on it?
She did make a ruling. A dismissal is a ruling.
You do know this is an entertainment show first, right?
@@jamiemoyer2971. Dismissed with prejudice is a ruling, dismissed without prejudice is not.
@@taurussho86. I'm entertained by learning about laws, not juicy family details.
@@thomgage7083 then no judge show on TV will do that unfortunately. Like I said, this is for entertainment purposes first. If you want to learn real cases, look at real televised, recorded cases.
"She wanted me to hit her. She planned this." That's a CLASSIC abuser right there!!!
He didn’t say that he hit her. He said she wanted him to.
@@jayburris6252 He denies it, but OF COURSE he would!!!
Abusers don't talk like that. Try again. She was gaslighting him and he knew it, just didn't know how to articulate it.
You're buying her story? Her trying to set the record straight she wasn't on diet pills explains all you really need to know
I have been a witness to women setting men up. They will be poking and even hitting first and throwing things to antagonize the guy because the police will 99% side with the woman and once you have that charge against them.... women get whatever they want in court.
JM asked her why she brought the divorce up in the car knowing he was abusive. The defendant said HE brought it up not her. I hate when she chastises the victim for anything. It’s sickening.
Yeah she misunderstood, the better question would be “why would you tell him yes that you did still want the divorce?” But the truth is lying to him would have been even more dangerous. This beautiful lady did nothing wrong
Judge Milan’s response was so far off, this is a blemish on her career.
HE is the victim, not "her".
@@kyoto32001 how when he was physically abusing her?
she LIED and said he was. I do not believe her.@@justhereyeah1112
The judge should have listened further and not assumed that she’s heard it before, not all cases are the same. What would the harm be to just hear the lady out.
No one MAKES you hit them. He is a classic domestic violence abuser. He blames everyone but himself.
They do if they want to call the cops and show proof of abuse. She wanted the police to charge him with abuse which she will use in the divorce. Not rocket science. If he slapped her three times like she said. She would have marks on her face and more likely not go to the funeral.
"I wouldn't scream at you if you didn't make me mad" is where it starts ..then comes the physical
@@DetaFlowRight, it’s always if you didn’t say anything to me I wouldn’t have hit you.
Funny you say that because she blamed him for everything as well. Everyone seems to play the blame game. I really wonder how she actually got her name to be changed on the deed without his consent or refinancing? it just doesn't happen out of thin air and if he was so abusive, there was no way in he'll he would even give her that option, so something seems fishy in her story.
@@georgebenevides how do you know she didn't go to her fathers funeral with a red face?? maybe her fathers death was tipping point. It doesn't matter how angry your wife or a random stranger makes you the urge to hit may be in all of us but actually hitting full knowing the repercussions of your actions makes you an out of control abuser, 100%. The fact you said THEY (as in women in general?) sounds personal huh.
“She planned this” My ex abusive husband said the same thing. 😒😒
Same and so did his rotten family ugh
Same 😂
Narcissistic
Yes, it's that narcissistic partner. Smh such a miserable time. Lesson learned the hard way but I learned 💯 🙄
My abusive ex husband didn't say I planned it but he did say that it was my fault, which I find hilarious, but according to him it was my fault he cheated on me more often than he changed his boxers and got the last one pregnant with triplets. Not sure how it was my fault but sure😂😂
Phentermine DOES NOT make you abusive 🙄
He's a narcissists...but phentermine can cause psychosis and delirium...not abuse...the fact that even if he blames the meds his grown butt didn't have to take it...blaming it on her...I definitely agree with you no matter what the side effects abuse could've been avoided.
'She wanted me to hit her'. No one thinks that's what the other person's angling for and no spouse tries to encourage that unless that line's already been crossed.
Wow I'm pretty shocked that judge Milian admonished her about her broaching the divorce in the car 🙄😒 what was the purpose in even saying that to a victim of DV🤨⁉️ Then proceed to grill her about the action taken by law enforcement 😕. Total lack of sympathy 🤯Pretty darn sad to see... definitely lost some respect 😔
You have to understand, it's. Ot why she did it, Its how she did it.
A lot of DV victims try to talk things out in the car. If someone is driving, they seem less likely to hit you. I'm surprised the Judge didn't know that.
Why are they even discussing that in front of the kids.. she's wrong for telling that man she was gonna divorce him IN FRONT OF THE CHILDREN. who does that? smh
@@texasmadehoney1523HE ASKED HER and she simply said YES.
@@Black0bsidian she simply was dead wrong. She don't care about her kids enough to not have that conversation in front of them.
judge victim-blaming thrroouughout
Ikr, poor husband going thru crisis situation in which he created. Flat out LIAR blamed diet medication for his disgusting abusive behavior. She planned everything & made him do it. GTFOH 🥾 Rocks. Already found a potentially new (victim) spouse. Trying his best to cash in on her father's death.
What? No! More often than not, women lie.
@@Roy_Dudson Looser inadvertently told on his daum self.
Victim blaming? More like not believing anything someone says without proof.
i said what i said
The story about the abuse and everything she claimed made perfect sense. It's classic abuser behavior. "You cannot leave, you have no money. You can't leave, I'll kill myself. I never hit her." But, when trying to explain he blames his medication and brings up hurricanes. Classic abuser. The PRESCRIBING DOCTOR said don't take certain medications, but SHE made him take it(did she write and fill the prescription herself). He makes no sense. None.
Edit to add: She tried to clarify about the pills because HE SAID it was making her cause him to be violent. She wasn't focusing on only that, but trying to refute his non sense.
Exactly! 💯💯
True I guess she wanted the lady to lie n say no again until they got home. Just my guess either way she should not have chastised HER when like you said HE was the one who brought it up.
Everything is someone else’s fault. This plaintiff is so annoying and working hard to guarantee he’ll never grow because he can’t accept accountability.
Take a shot each time he says um
I'd definitely die. 😂
He definitely hit her, by his demeanor.
I haven’t finished the video, but if it was me, there is no way I would have taken her to court so my dirty laundry could be exposed. He’s a mess.
She's a liar.
I’m glad she got out.
Somebody is waiting for his divorce so he is free to remarry??? I would love to get a peek into her brain. 🙄
This is how the shows on the ID channel always starts! She needs to run far away! She may not make it out of the divorce! Sending prayers to her and the family
His big ass wasn’t throwing hisself out no car😂😂😂
It's amazing how the woman stood up for herself, and she got cross examined with her feet to the fire. Yet the man is there admitting he "wanted" to hit her, and she wanted him to hit her (which clearly you can see his lying by his body languag). All with a smirk on his face, but nothing is said to him. Then, when the woman gets killed, then everyone wants to feel sorry. I'm so sick of this!
I know many people who've been in these type of situations and some of them were friends of mine and I'm a person who would tell you what to do and if you can't do it after all the trees that I'm trying to help you then I no longer care like in this situation I don't care if that happens to her because she hasn't out she has a way of getting out and cool when you're coming to court so if you could come to court and talk about it then you could go to the police officer you could go online and find a way to there's nothing that you can't find nowadays there's no way that you can't get out of a place nowadays you have to understand that a lot of people is not going to care when they have people who did the same thing and they told him how to get help and how to escape and try to probably helped them escape and they always came back because they feel like that person was sorry or they loved them so no sometimes you got to let them feel it themselves instead of helping them
This isn't the first time I've seen JM chastise domestic violence victim
@@natecharleston64I don't think she believed her. It was too many holes in the story.
She's no victim! She used him until she no longer needed him, then she stole his house and children. I don't believe her. She comes across as someone who would off their husband for life insurance. He's no killer. Poor guy.
I personally take that medication, I haven't had any of those symptoms. I've lost 30 lbs on 5 months so far 😊.
Riiiight. Same here. Phentermine doesn’t affect personality. It sounds like he said she switched the drugs to amphetamine but idk cause he was pronouncing it weird.
Cool
Right
@@BeccasaurousRex270he was announcing it weirdly. And yes it does make you crazy depending on the person. Weight loss medication is pretty much a of a legal form of meth.
It sounds like the plaintiff was on other medication. It could be a poor drug interaction. There are some mental illnesses/disorders that are affected by stimulants too. If he has bipolar disorder, a stimulant like that could cause him to slip into a manic state or rapid cycle.
Fighting over the doughnuts by the looks of it
He doesn’t need to get married again no way …
Right??!!!! 😬
Who, in their right mind would want him after seeing this?! 🤮
This is an old case, i remember this on from a long time ago. Hope all are doing better these days. 😊
I remember it too. Sad case
😒 the show is cancelled of course they reupload everytime
@@sarahrean7174uhh thanks for the news flash?? and i didnt watch this show on an upload, i watched it on TV, you know that thing called cable no one uses anymore? i was merely making a statement that i remember this case… is that such a big deal?
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Just pointing out here, no one drops a DV case becauseit's"a first time offense". Especially when it's allegedly. They can reduce the charges, use probation, etc. You don't drop it unless you have nothing. This whole situation is a mess.
JM needs to understand the makings, and after effects, of abuse. SMDH. Additionally, the justice system is not always just. I've known women who were abused and the cops asked THEM to leave the home. Our system is blind and broken.
The Plaintiff is full of crap!
There is a reason his visitation is the way he is
He can't roll his abusive eyes any harder
Sounds like David is crazy , they need to evaluate the kids cuz it may be genetic on David’s side of the family
This man is not mentally stable. She may be with him out of pity. The gaze on his face says a lot
The judge behaved shitty towards the defendant and was victim blaming.
Plaintiff may need psych help but there is no excuse to hit his wife. I wish the best for their kids.
When they said they were still married I knew this case was over.
The "I'm gonna kill myself" routine is classic mental abuse and manipulation.
Judge Milian does a lot of victim blaming but I do understand this was in 2015 when she took the case but still the women shouldn’t have to wait to say she wants a divorce he should’ve never put her in that situation
And even though there’s a restraining order, people still get killed by that person who has the restraining order on them. Restraining orders are just a piece of paper as far as I’m concerned.
Dude is MENTAL! Stay away ladies!
They both sound like they're slow.
N she focused on the diet pills because he was using that to excuse his behavior not because she didn’t want ppl to know she was on them 🤦🏽♀
Ray Charles could see that lady wasn't on diet pills.. wtf
I’ll tell you what, phentermine can make you WILD. It is true.
Someone said she didn't need to state the obvious and anger the judge 💀
Prescription drug dealers are Evil.
Sounds like a Requiem of a Dream 🤨
He’s absolutely unstable . This is so so sad . How could Doug treat this woman like that at the end . It doesn’t look good for anyone on either side ?! wtf
I do not believe this man…
He probably got some kind of deal in exchange for him getting psychiatric help
Is it a love tap. Or a big upper cut. Lmaon😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
What the hell is he talking about?
Plaintiff looks like Oliver Platt,
Until he talks. Wow! Not a good man!
He is only suing her for the taxes because the new girl is telling him too.
Before I even watch this, this should have been straightened out in divorce court
That make no sense, you have to pay tax on an inheritance,
If they have filed jointly and still married, plaintiff is the loser and a complainer. He deserves nothing.
I hate these cases.. the judge knows there’s nothing she can do but let’s hear all their business just to be told to go somewhere else.. I know it’s for TV but still why ask them all this just to say sorry nothing I can do
They get paid they choose to be here
Was all that story time even necessary. JM just wanted the tea .
They weren’t even here for that
'She wanted it'. NOOOOOOO
Her husband abused her did all those insane things but she should be concerned for him? Foh.
poor kids…what a mess
One or three things happens when you give the person that's being evicted notice. The first is, they believe it. The second they will packed and leave. Mostly like the third one is to go back to court to file some BS motion to buy more time.
I remember this case. Yikes.
Major yikes. He's scary
Judge is very short sighted in this one. The defendant was defending against diet pills allegations so it doesn't effect her in family court etc.
Diet pills and phentermine won’t affect you in family court. It doesn’t even have mental side affects. They’re stupid. Something else is going on with them and it ain’t phentermine. It’s a legal and fda approved medication.
lol no, the defendant was definitely also taking his medication, that's why she pretended to care so much about it, they're both bad people
Also because he said they make you violent. If she’s not taking them, then he can’t claim they made her violent. Sometimes JM doesn’t listen or let people finish their thoughts. She’s a loudmouth.
Typical solution. Going through a divorce, so the solution is to get into another relationship, and you're not even divorced yet.
People are s DUMB and codependent!
He looks like Jerry Krause's brother from the bulls with a cold cut eating self.
Sorry but the guy out in the streets had me 😂😂😂😂
It’s scary how someone can love you and next day they want to PHYSICALLY hurt you 😢
wtf is the judges problem? shes hounding the defendant while saying the literal abuser is "falling to pieces" ??? shes insane...boomer mentality to not believe the victim. shame on her.
They both are a bit off.
I assume she was mentioning the diet pills at the end because he accused her of acting crazy on them too but she claims she didn’t take them. Probably was just wanting to clear that since the divorce isn’t finalized, there’s kids involved and this is televised. The judge constantly cuts people off, assumes what they’re going to say or why they’re bringing it up with no opportunity to explain. Sometimes she’s right, but.. not always and then there’s cases like these where we will never know. lol
I definitely don't like how the judge handled this one in the end. She didn't hear out the defendant. This lady got abused and wanted address his bullsh*t excuse for hitting her. & the judge didnt let her speak. That wasn't right at all. 👎🏽👎🏽
Sir even the audience doesn't believe u. The faces they are making as he gives his testimony is hilarious.
90% of women would be in prison if small hits were just as bad as a giant uppercut. So yes the amount of damage and intention matters. I bet that most of the women watching this would be in prison now if they were to be judged by how they think a man should be judged.
This marriage was toxic with domestic violence included throughout unfortunately with children all caught up in the middle. I would love to hear an update about these two litigants.
Best I could find by doing a google search on "geralyn abel versus david abel" was a 2020 Divorce Case in Nassau County Supreme Court.
Why? You hate white people?
Why does ALL their business needs to be aired? This didn't have anything to do with the money. I'm disappointed with this case. I also don't believe her. They don't DROP cases for him going to the hospital. They stablize him and continue the charges.
Classic abuser , blaming her for the abuse. Once she trys to leave they threaten suicide and violence. Narcissists all behave the same.
He only sees them for 4 hrs, every other weekend? And a dinner sometimes? Trash
Poor kids!
Honestly Judge Milian should have allowed her to finish and she absolutely should have called out his narcissism when he lied and then attempted to victim blame his wife saying "she wanted me to" !!! All the different therapists, counselors and psychiatrists this dude's seen yet he's still this mentally unstable?? I think it's time for a reputable psychologist to begin weekly seesions with him and immediately sending him to inpatient care to figure out a medication that will actually work for him and help him!!! Just sayin...
They're both crazy
Y'all were fighting over a Twinkie
David throughout her story:🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
Domestic violence is the worst thing that can happen to anyone 😔😔😔😔😔😔
It’s some shady stuff going on…
He's a wild boy
The diet pills… they both need them. 💊
Anytime someone, whatever their gender is, the most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is the time you decide to leave. Never tell your partner you are leaving. Just prepare a go-bag and leave when they are not around.
The judge sounds so stupid, my gosh.
The more I binge.. the more I notice. Saaaaaaaame thing happened when I was bored at work and binged dr phil. lol.
I hope her story doesn't become a movie.
He's scary..
She needs to pay him some money.
Yo is he talking about amphetamine? My man just taking a shit ton of Adderall.
Norm!
They both fuckin crazy
Seriously, it's the faults of the medicine?????