48 years old here...married 20+ years...with 3 GREAT kiddos!...Me and my wife struggle with issues like this....EVERY Day!...This song was what "County Music "...used to be!
Married 43 years and I am so thankful this song does not describe us. Just love each other as if you had just put those rings on each others fingers. Don't ever take each other for granted.
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Patty sings this song with so much emotion that if you don’t get a tear in your eye there is something wrong with you!! Very emotionally done by one of the best female country music singers of our time!! Beautiful sad love song!! I agree 100% that Patty Loveless belongs in the Country Music Hall of Fame as a singer!!
Just unbelievable that she's not yet been inducted. However, I haven't researched whether or not she resides in TN. I found out only lately that it is a stipulation of a CM artist. That is the only reason that George Strait has never been inducted. He's always decided to remain a resident of TX. I think this rule is just preposterous.
Listen to She Never Stopped Loving Him, that song makes me cry like a baby every time I listen to it even though I know how it ends. My throat gets a knot in it and it's so painfull.
"He called to tell her he was sorry, but couldn't remember what for..." One of the saddest lines of any song....I love this song...I always like to think that they get back together in the end, despite it all.
Agree. But I know a bunch of men who feel that way. It's like, what did I do now? We go to work every morning and come home to them every night. It's a tough thing to realize. I'm so thankful for my wife. She supports me, builds me up and doesn't walk around like a victim all the time. That's hard to find now days.
This woman , Never got the fame attention, she well Deserved ! Doesn't get any better than this... Thank You Patty Loveless................................
My wife told me she used to sing this about me and I deserve every ounce of it. When we were first together and then some I took her for granted and treated her like crap. She did stick around for me and I honestly can’t believe she did and it breaks my heart that I broke hers so much
I have loved this song for 20 years. The sad part is, when I left he finally came around to the man I fell in love with. I was already gone, I do miss him.
Still here in Nov of 2023. I'm 67 years old, all of the great music has been done in my lifetime. I'm blessed!!! Most everything I've heard on the radio as they were moving up the charts!
We are the same bro, I'm also listen country music like country pop, bluegrass, country rock But my favorite genre of music is Rock n' Roll like Black Sabbath, Led Zeppelin, Metallica, Aerosmith etc etc...
@@jbill2986 you are hilarious. I guess we don’t know if either side is telling the truth. It’s just a story being told in a song. It’s nice to have a song sung by a woman that doesn’t come off like a man hating song. In this case I’ll give Patty Loveless the benefit of the doubt.🤣🤣
Great Country Music with meaning. The crying sound of the Steel Guitar brings more life to the meaning of the song. This song ranks right up there with Sammy Kershaw Yard Sale. Love, Marriage, and Divorce.
married to the same woman for 64 years. She will tell you that this song tells it all. When we look at are family, we thank GOD that we made it together. This song brings it all HOME. Patty is timeless. Love her.
I used to like this song when I was in high school but now that I'm 47 and been through a divorce it just hits me a lot different. I listen to this the other day and I cried for the first time in a long time. But it was good to let those tears out. I needed that release.
You seem to be an amazing fan and my song has been a source of motivation, inspiration and strength to you. Your love for my songs gives me ideology of how amazing you're ! I'd love us to continue this conversation privately to know more about you and your thoughts on my personality and songs.
This beautiful woman refused to sell out to the music machine. Patty had everything going for her. God given good looks, crazy vocal range and a rare sense of self worth with no ego. At any other time she would be the benchmark that others would aspire to, but I guess that's the way it goes sometimes.
Let me tell you how powerful this woman and her vocals are and the message in this song im a 48 year old man who listens to Tool and alice in chains...this girl is country
Yes, and for once, the husband isn't portrayed as some sort of moron jerk. It really is a song about two decent people realizing they have nothing in common except their children.
Truth - and it wasn't just on the Country stations either... Nirvana, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, the list goes on. There's still good music in all genres today, but it seems that you have to look to places other than the radio to hear it.
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Been married 13 years with 3 kids and this song is to fucking real that it kills me on the inside. The truth is just like poetry...and everybody hates fucking poetry!
Amen!! So there now and the problem after you stay too long (26 years) you don't know how to physically check out even if you emotionally checked out a long time ago
@@rosaliewalker1655 I checked out twice. Once after 14 years, the next after ten. I've been alone for ten years but I'm never lonely like I was with them
@@realcanadiangirl64 I absolutely understand and very much appreciate your response. I've been married to a narcissistic bully for 26 years who also happens to be an alcoholic. But my youngest child just finished college so my next step is finding the courage to walk away. Alot of what kept me where I am (believe it or not) has to do with geography. I met him in the Army and moved to his hometown in Arkansas whereas my family is in Massachusetts which is 1,600 miles away
@@rosaliewalker1655 I walked away after 30 years with a narcissist. It's freeing & liberating and I'm finally happy with someone who is invested in me as I am them. Nothing toxic about this relationship. This is your life & your book. You have complete control of the ending. I pray you find the courage to close this chapter and finish your book with your own happy ending. Life is too short to love in misery, feeling broken and alone. May God bless you in whatever you choose to do. ❤️
Say it again 🙌 I think it's just a huge misconception that just because you've healed doesn't mean that wound or scar doesn't have a little burn now and again. Hopefully one day the little triggers, memories, thoughts that tend to escape, feelings that muddle in the middle... It's always just another thought away.
Hello, this is a random message to a few of my lucky fans which you're also among...Thanks to you all my fans for the love and support I do appreciate y'all, I'm using this great opportunity to say a very big thank you🙏messge on pattylovelessfl@gmail.com I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤️❤️
Is this country music icon seriously still not inducted into the CM Hall of Fame? Her voice makes me cry with joy. And when paired with the likes of Vince Gill, the hair on the back of my neck stands up. She's just too real. I love you Patty. ** Edit and update!!!! So sorry, I googled after I posted this comment. Patty is scheduled to be inducted into the CM Hall of Fame (Finally!!) in October of this year. God bless you Patty for all of your hard work and payoffs, including giving your fans so much joy in hearing your God-given blessings of talent. We love you bunches!!!
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That's what each generation says as it drifts into history. The wish never comes true. Each new generation brings its own styles in to replace the old. At least in this digital age the older stuff we like most is preserved on the www where we can still listen to it as if it never went away. I wish the same could be done for all the hair I'e lost over the years, or the miles I used to run every week. Looks like those are gone forever.
Hello!!! How are you doing today, please pardon me for intruding into your privacy but I just wanted to know if you’re a fan ? Have a great day. Stay Safe
Ms.Miner, I pray that you see this....every single thing I've learned about love tells me I would not need any convincing to help my partner if they needed it. Even if I didn't want to I would still help. You broke my heart, but I would still help you. I never knew love, foster homes didn't teach it so I find it extremely odd that even with my life I still believe in true love. To all who are selfish and narrow minded........if you knew just how much that shit hurt, you'd probably still do it, so I'm wasting my breath. I STILL love you, even tho I don't want to.
Takes my breath away every single time. At the beginning, I’m always like “OH MY GOD, SHE GETS IT!”....and by the end I’m always sobbing and feeling so guilty. Marriage isn’t easy, and there’s nothing like 90s country to remind you of that while also making you so grateful for it. 😍😍😭😭
Love how this song covers both sides. No one is the bad guy, because both sides are broken. After 23yrs of marriage to the most beautiful woman on Earth, I can understand both sides. Whatever the choice. No one wins in the end.
“What we’ve got here is failure to communicate.” Don’t expect your partner of no matter how many days, weeks, months, years or decades to become a mind reader. Like all good things, one must continue to work and fight for a happy marriage. After three decades, and still going strong, we still work at it. And remember to be kind to one another, be forgiving, and ask for forgiveness when you’ve stepped off in it! But it takes two, so for some, unfortunately, reconciliation is not an option.
I would like to add that it important to be receptive to your spouse when they’re talking and try not to assume what they are feeling or saying. You can be the world’s best communicator but if your spouse is constantly tuning you out, what’s the point.
Someone said, “The reason you have two ears and one mouth is to listen twice as much as you talk.” I’m as guilty as most of thinking I know the answer before the question is asked. We are all a work in progress. Anyhow, if my partner is tuned out, I probably need to stop saying and start doing. Someone else told me, “Your actions speak so loudly I can’t hear the words you’re saying!” And sometimes it really is too late. There’s more life to live. Learn and move forward.
When you say your sorry and you can’t even remember what for, because you’re told your always in the wrong. Being married can hurt so bad. Years later a song can bring it all back. 😢
I'm not fond of too many female singers or songs...but this song by Patty is one of the most beautiful songs I have ever heard. It's so sad and heartbreaking...yet absolutely beautiful at the same time. Thank God for RUclips...cuz they don't make music like this anymore
He never knew how determined I was to live this life. How I own this path, how allowed someone to share in it as long as you don't destroy me while your finding your self. respect all God's children rights to develop and grow. Ups and downs... mistakes are for the learning...not to be beaten for.
Patty Loveless is my first female country singer with whom I instantly fell in love. She's got everything to be a country singer. In my mind, she exists as Patty Lovefull.
There is much truth to this song. We take people for granted and don't talk. You have to talk and show love and affection. Tell your spouse you love and appreciate them.
Be here. My first marriage, it drained me. He didn't want the help he needed and stopped caring. Though it wasn't always like that. It wasn't even a year before it was all done. His drug use was more important (which is no surprise). I tried for months as a wife to help him. When that didn't work, I tried as a friend. Losing weight dramatically (bones showing), hair loss, paler skin, throwing up everytime I ate and more. He stole and put his youngest in danger. I told him to go and that was it. Now I've been with my current husband almost 10 years. We celebrated our 3 year marriage this past December with out beautiful 3 year old. At the end of the day as bad as that was, I'm glad I went through it. It taught me a lot. While we have our problems we work through it and become stronger for us and most importantly our son.
A beautiful Gretchen Peters composition. Patricia delivers this like a freight train going by @ 70 mph and you are standing less than a foot away. Great read by Patty here. The finest female voice alive. Oh and I can tell you what a woman is. Take a look who'se singing this.
This lady is one of the most powerful singers in country music 🎵. Have seen her live and she sounds exactly the same as her recordings. Keep singing pretty lady to the world 🌎. Please be safe both you and your family 🤣.
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Written by Gretchen Peters, and performed by American country music artist Patty Loveless. It was released on March 18, 1995, as the third single from the album "When Fallen Angels Fly" (1994). The music was directed by Jim Shea, and premiered on CMT on March 20, 1995.
Hey, thanks for that information. I was 22 yrs old back then. I was in the middle of having my heart broken. When I heard this song for the first time. The bottom of my heart fell out. Whatever, right ? Lol. I still love this song. Wish they still write songs like that. My birthday is in March. Kinda hit home even more. Thanks
I was six years old to the day. I remember my dad always had country on in the car and there's not a song from the early 90s I don't remember. Great music
I’ve heard several version of this song, I like them all. This one give me chills and makes me want to cry. I read a comment that said Patty Loveless is the best female country singer alive , I guess I pretty much have to agree. Not taking anything away from Chris Stapleton though, he really needs to be heard by everyone
True song. Thank You Patty loveless. Never cross my mind get married at all. Everyone meet been married or running back to there first wife. Hard find honest person now days
You are the top of the list of lady Country singers as far as I'm concerned. You are the best and I dearly love you ! You are not only beautiful, you have the voice of an angel. I pray that God will bless you and your family forever, love yah !
This. This right here. This is, in my humble opinion, the reason that country music had and can still have a resonant backbone. This song and many others are examples of country music at its finest, telling real stories of real people that we can all relate to. That my friends is what made country music universal. Kudos to Patty Loveless and Gretchen Peters for, simply put, bringing a masterpiece to life.
I love you and your music I'm fourtyfive now and been in Your fan club for a long antil They stop the fan club totally I'm a big time fan always Will be and I will always love you Your the best
This is one of those songs that sneaks up on you. I remember hearing it on the radio when it was new and I didn't like it the first few times I heard it. I had recently gone through a painful divorce and this song hit a lot of sore spots. Still, you couldn't deny that this song was speaking to millions of people in this country who were going through something similar to this. I also like how this song presents both sides, it's not just his fault, it's not just her fault. Sometimes things just happen and you just can't figure out how to fix them. I very quickly grew to love this song and I still think it's one of Patty's best. This song is a good companion song for another Loveless hit, "The Trouble With The Truth."
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I cried many of tears to this song back in 94. My divorce was final Nov 18th that year and my husband never seemed to know me. I was just his property.
A heavy gem in my heart. I miss music like this. Patty can sing the the caution on the back of rat poison package, and it would sound like a love song.
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When I was in high school I didn't have to go searching for good music, it was on the radio. I miss the 90's.
same
Peach 🙌🏻
Ron P 90’s we’re the last good era in Country Music before it went to hip hop
Damn right. Nobody knows what music is today. It's just getting drunk and jacked up trucks on repeat. There's no emotion anymore.
Me too
When you love a song growing up, and you listen to it at 40 with some life under your belt, and it makes you weep.
Yes,that comment hits home....
Indeed it does
40 lol you still a child. give it another 20 or.
48 years old here...married 20+ years...with 3 GREAT kiddos!...Me and my wife struggle with issues like this....EVERY Day!...This song was what "County Music "...used to be!
You have no idea,I've been with the same man for a long time and he still tells me that his ex is better than me!
@@gingerharris7583 wow I'm so very sorry to hear (read) this
Well Ginger tell him to go back to the ex and you get out of Dodge. No respect is worse than loneliness.
cut's tooooo the bone ..........
Oh but you feel this song , so I think you & yours will be ok.. this is also me & my husband, 37 yrs married now . 💓💔❤️
Sad story of two people who forgot why they loved each other and grew apart. Patty’s stylings are powerful.
One of the many great things about Patty is that you can understand almost every word of every song.
This song saved me once I wonder if 2 is to much to ask
Been there unfortunately and this song explains it all I miss the 90s
@@wesgreen8118 nope!! It's not brother!
This is life, it happens to the best of us. And man sometimes we just need that reminder.
God bless u my man.
@@tracylyn85 100%
Married 43 years and I am so thankful this song does not describe us. Just love each other as if you had just put those rings on each others fingers. Don't ever take each other for granted.
God bless you
Very lucky..cherish it all..marriage is a job...i learned the hard way
God bless yall!!!!!!!!!!
That's so awesome to hear!!!!
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Don't get too comfortable.. Shit happens 😳
Patty sings this song with so much emotion that if you don’t get a tear in your eye there is something wrong with you!! Very emotionally done by one of the best female country music singers of our time!! Beautiful sad love song!! I agree 100% that Patty Loveless belongs in the Country Music Hall of Fame as a singer!!
Just unbelievable that she's not yet been inducted. However, I haven't researched whether or not she resides in TN. I found out only lately that it is a stipulation of a CM artist. That is the only reason that George Strait has never been inducted. He's always decided to remain a resident of TX. I think this rule is just preposterous.
Come on now its a Song...
I MISS my wife….she left me for another man, left me and our 4 little children😢It’s been over 23 years since and I still 😔
@@sanctuspioxsorry to hear
@@sanctuspiox23 years? Maybe it’s time to move on
THE GREATEST FEMALE RECORDING ARTIST OF ALL TIME!
When someone asks for a sad song, I play this one. Absolutely heart wrenching stuff.
Listen to She Never Stopped Loving Him, that song makes me cry like a baby every time I listen to it even though I know how it ends. My throat gets a knot in it and it's so painfull.
Modern country should take note..this is country music at it's finest
U got that right
It's for city slickers too
Sturgill Simpson - I wonder
Yea, this new stuff sucks
Totally agree 👍
"He called to tell her he was sorry, but couldn't remember what for..." One of the saddest lines of any song....I love this song...I always like to think that they get back together in the end, despite it all.
Agree. But I know a bunch of men who feel that way. It's like, what did I do now? We go to work every morning and come home to them every night. It's a tough thing to realize. I'm so thankful for my wife. She supports me, builds me up and doesn't walk around like a victim all the time. That's hard to find now days.
This woman , Never got the fame attention, she well Deserved ! Doesn't get any better than this... Thank You Patty Loveless................................
Always my fave, and always will be !
Still sounds amazing almost 30 years later 💗💗💗
I agree! 🙂
@@wendysaslow8631 very beautiful
yea it does dear
That damn long?
Reverse the gender roles and you'll get closer to the truth.... what happens more often.
My wife told me she used to sing this about me and I deserve every ounce of it. When we were first together and then some I took her for granted and treated her like crap. She did stick around for me and I honestly can’t believe she did and it breaks my heart that I broke hers so much
I wish my husband would see it before it is too late.
I have loved this song for 20 years. The sad part is, when I left he finally came around to the man I fell in love with. I was already gone, I do miss him.
Patty Loveless sings it like she's lived it. You know she feels it.
She has lived it!❤
Still here in Nov of 2023. I'm 67 years old, all of the great music has been done in my lifetime. I'm blessed!!! Most everything I've heard on the radio as they were moving up the charts!
Mostly a metal head but when I need my country fix, Patty is where I start. Voice that will bring you to tears. There will never be another like her.
Yes . Country at it's best.
How strong is your arm for lovelee
We are the same bro, I'm also listen country music like country pop, bluegrass, country rock But my favorite genre of music is Rock n' Roll like Black Sabbath, Led Zeppelin, Metallica, Aerosmith etc etc...
I miss country music from the 90s. There wasn't a song you couldn't relate to somehow. Nowa days it's all about trucks and beer. Smh
Julia Hale I agree!!!💯💯💯💯
I miss the old tunes that started the real outlaw country like johny cash and friends look to the past to find real music
I do also
Exactly.. it's more pop than County now 🙄
Julia Hale Agree. I miss country music from the ‘80s and ‘90s, specifically, ‘84 to ‘95. RUclips is my time machine.
This song is all about communication and remembering your other half. We sometime get stuck in our routines and forget to charish eachother.
t takes two..Remember that.
Congrats on the Hall of Fame, Patty. So deserving!
Congratulations .
You deserve to be there with Loretta Lynn.
Patty you have an awesome voice.
Love you singing with Vince Gill .
I love how this song covers both sides of the relationship. Fair is fair.
"All is fair in love and war?"
@@jbill2986 No. It’s just refreshing to see both sides of a relationship being represented honestly.
@@azcactus2008 didnt understand it as that. How do we know both are telling the truth?
@@jbill2986 you are hilarious. I guess we don’t know if either side is telling the truth. It’s just a story being told in a song. It’s nice to have a song sung by a woman that doesn’t come off like a man hating song. In this case I’ll give Patty Loveless the benefit of the doubt.🤣🤣
@@azcactus2008 her story is important ;)
Heartbreaking to understand exactly what she's saying...
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Renaee plll
I get it Sometimes we just grow apart but stay together for fear of being alone? I guess help me out jachary’s mama
@@phillipgeorge4278, I've never been afraid of being alone. Tbh, I'm not sure what the answer to that question is...
This is Country Music. It makes you feel real emotion.
Great Country Music with meaning. The crying sound of the Steel Guitar brings more life to the meaning of the song. This song ranks right up there with Sammy Kershaw Yard Sale. Love, Marriage, and Divorce.
married to the same woman for 64 years. She will tell you that this song tells it all. When we look at are family, we thank GOD that we made it together. This song brings it all HOME. Patty is timeless. Love her.
Why she is not in the country music hall of fame is a travesty. Truly a heart and soul singer. I love her
I used to like this song when I was in high school but now that I'm 47 and been through a divorce it just hits me a lot different. I listen to this the other day and I cried for the first time in a long time. But it was good to let those tears out. I needed that release.
You seem to be an amazing fan and my song has been a source of motivation, inspiration and strength to you. Your love for my songs gives me ideology of how amazing you're !
I'd love us to continue this conversation privately to know more about you and your thoughts on my personality and songs.
This beautiful woman refused to sell out to the music machine. Patty had everything going for her. God given good looks, crazy vocal range and a rare sense of self worth with no ego. At any other time she would be the benchmark that others would aspire to, but I guess that's the way it goes sometimes.
Let me tell you how powerful this woman and her vocals are and the message in this song im a 48 year old man who listens to Tool and alice in chains...this girl is country
So true!!!!! 💕
True that bro
People are always understanding of the woman's perspective I like this song because it shows both perspectives
Yes, and for once, the husband isn't portrayed as some sort of moron jerk. It really is a song about two decent people realizing they have nothing in common except their children.
Truth - and it wasn't just on the Country stations either... Nirvana, Soundgarden, Pearl Jam, the list goes on. There's still good music in all genres today, but it seems that you have to look to places other than the radio to hear it.
Perfect 👌
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If you seen a video of her in concert when she sings this song she says right at the start she sees the other perspective
Been married 13 years with 3 kids and this song is to fucking real that it kills me on the inside. The truth is just like poetry...and everybody hates fucking poetry!
That’s how u know it’s real
Amen!! So there now and the problem after you stay too long (26 years) you don't know how to physically check out even if you emotionally checked out a long time ago
@@rosaliewalker1655 I checked out twice. Once after 14 years, the next after ten. I've been alone for ten years but I'm never lonely like I was with them
@@realcanadiangirl64 I absolutely understand and very much appreciate your response. I've been married to a narcissistic bully for 26 years who also happens to be an alcoholic. But my youngest child just finished college so my next step is finding the courage to walk away. Alot of what kept me where I am (believe it or not) has to do with geography. I met him in the Army and moved to his hometown in Arkansas whereas my family is in Massachusetts which is 1,600 miles away
@@rosaliewalker1655 I walked away after 30 years with a narcissist. It's freeing & liberating and I'm finally happy with someone who is invested in me as I am them. Nothing toxic about this relationship. This is your life & your book. You have complete control of the ending. I pray you find the courage to close this chapter and finish your book with your own happy ending. Life is too short to love in misery, feeling broken and alone. May God bless you in whatever you choose to do. ❤️
I have lived this song for many years , time heals but doesn't let you ever forget.
Time hasn’t healed me!
Say it again 🙌 I think it's just a huge misconception that just because you've healed doesn't mean that wound or scar doesn't have a little burn now and again. Hopefully one day the little triggers, memories, thoughts that tend to escape, feelings that muddle in the middle... It's always just another thought away.
@@abrahudnall5744 yes I sure hope so the little trigger things that happen hopefully will not be as bad as time goes
Thank you
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@@pattyloveless6093 Thank you very much for your kind words 👍
Is this country music icon seriously still not inducted into the CM Hall of Fame? Her voice makes me cry with joy. And when paired with the likes of Vince Gill, the hair on the back of my neck stands up. She's just too real. I love you Patty. ** Edit and update!!!! So sorry, I googled after I posted this comment. Patty is scheduled to be inducted into the CM Hall of Fame (Finally!!) in October of this year. God bless you Patty for all of your hard work and payoffs, including giving your fans so much joy in hearing your God-given blessings of talent. We love you bunches!!!
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@@davidmoore2924 N FL, you?
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They need to bring this true country back
That's what each generation says as it drifts into history. The wish never comes true. Each new generation brings its own styles in to replace the old.
At least in this digital age the older stuff we like most is preserved on the www where we can still listen to it as if it never went away. I wish the same could be done for all the hair I'e lost over the years, or the miles I used to run every week. Looks like those are gone forever.
I stopped listening to the new stuff like 20 years ago!
The closest ive heard was Joey and Rory. Unfortunately Joey passed.
Sad that it never will be back the garbage 🗑️ is in now sad but at least we can keep it alive by playing the daylights lol out of it
Reminds me of my marriage. Two souls that was once perfect for each other. After kids and life we’ve forgotten who we was together.
You hit the nail on the head for a lot of us.
90’s country… the BEST country. Can we go back?
Hello there Amber nice meeting you here
@@Kimyungharrison1111 hello Justice! Nice meeting you as well. 🙂
@@amberhall9182 how are you doing today?
Most definitely belongs in hall of Fame u can't help but feel this song in your heart and soul
Hello!!! How are you doing today, please pardon me for intruding into your privacy but I just wanted to know if you’re a fan ? Have a great day. Stay Safe
🎉Best Country / Western song, ever written.
Things like this happen when 2 people really don't know each other at all, sadness, boredom, lonely, no love, and then indifference
Reba, Trisha, and Patty were the last of the true female country singers. I miss true country music. Especially a powerful female vocal.
Ladies and Gentleman.....the best female Country vocalist ever...........
Amen to that
"You don't even know who I am, so why do you care if I go". Jeezzzz, this hits home, like a punch in the gut.
Hello Momma how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family
Got you in the feels too? Story of him and I 😢😢
@@joypaul995 It sure does 😢
Always called to say you're sorry, I stopped believing it long before I left
two sides to the story.....
I've loved this song since I was a kid. I never thought I'd experience it at 40.
I'm so sorry. Hugs to you John Wayne. Hope things are better today than the day you typed it.
Thank you for caring and for the kind message but no, it's not better, just finished now.
Ms.Miner, I pray that you see this....every single thing I've learned about love tells me I would not need any convincing to help my partner if they needed it. Even if I didn't want to I would still help. You broke my heart, but I would still help you.
I never knew love, foster homes didn't teach it so I find it extremely odd that even with my life I still believe in true love. To all who are selfish and narrow minded........if you knew just how much that shit hurt, you'd probably still do it, so I'm wasting my breath. I STILL love you, even tho I don't want to.
Me either.
@@blainekristin odd how things turn out, or don’t. Im slowly learning to stop asking why. Hope this finds you well.
WOW, WOW,
I am here again 2024.
Love you patty 🙂🙂
Takes my breath away every single time. At the beginning, I’m always like “OH MY GOD, SHE GETS IT!”....and by the end I’m always sobbing and feeling so guilty. Marriage isn’t easy, and there’s nothing like 90s country to remind you of that while also making you so grateful for it. 😍😍😭😭
God bless you
I get it. I dunno what brought me here but 42 years and we left eachother a long time ago😢💔🕊
Patti has one of the best voices in country music !
Her and Vince Gill duets are amazing !
Patty Loveless angelic golden voice
@Debbie Lawson Absolutely 🤗
How's the pandemic over there with you Debbie 🤔
When they do go rest high on that mountain together at possums funeral that hits me right in the heart everytime
Loveless and George Jones,
Loveless and Dwight Yoakum
Loveless and Vince Gill
Loveless and Chris Stapleton,
she makes everybody look good
Best female country singer hands down!!
I love the passion in this song from both sides and as you get older you understand more and more how easy this can happen.
Love how this song covers both sides.
No one is the bad guy, because both sides are broken.
After 23yrs of marriage to the most beautiful woman on Earth, I can understand both sides.
Whatever the choice. No one wins in the end.
“What we’ve got here is failure to communicate.” Don’t expect your partner of no matter how many days, weeks, months, years or decades to become a mind reader. Like all good things, one must continue to work and fight for a happy marriage. After three decades, and still going strong, we still work at it. And remember to be kind to one another, be forgiving, and ask for forgiveness when you’ve stepped off in it! But it takes two, so for some, unfortunately, reconciliation is not an option.
Civil war, Guns N’ Roses. I have always loved the intro to that song.
@@ambercourtney2029 its from (cool hand luke movie). Its a classic. Paul Newman is in it
Somethings can’t be forgiven or forgotten! Especially when they say it didn’t mean anything. When no sorry was ever spoken.
I would like to add that it important to be receptive to your spouse when they’re talking and try not to assume what they are feeling or saying. You can be the world’s best communicator but if your spouse is constantly tuning you out, what’s the point.
Someone said, “The reason you have two ears and one mouth is to listen twice as much as you talk.” I’m as guilty as most of thinking I know the answer before the question is asked. We are all a work in progress. Anyhow, if my partner is tuned out, I probably need to stop saying and start doing. Someone else told me, “Your actions speak so loudly I can’t hear the words you’re saying!” And sometimes it really is too late. There’s more life to live. Learn and move forward.
When you say your sorry and you can’t even remember what for, because you’re told your always in the wrong. Being married can hurt so bad. Years later a song can bring it all back. 😢
Totally understand
This comment!
I'm not fond of too many female singers or songs...but this song by Patty is one of the most beautiful songs I have ever heard. It's so sad and heartbreaking...yet absolutely beautiful at the same time. Thank God for RUclips...cuz they don't make music like this anymore
Thanks for your kind words....
I am blessed to have such a fan following keep calm and stay country 🤠
Bet you're truly a fan of me ?
He never knew how determined I was to live this life. How I own this path, how allowed someone to share in it as long as you don't destroy me while your finding your self. respect all God's children rights to develop and grow. Ups and downs... mistakes are for the learning...not to be beaten for.
😢
Patty Loveless is my first female country singer with whom I instantly fell in love. She's got everything to be a country singer. In my mind, she exists as Patty Lovefull.
I see what you did there. 👍♥️🙏
Patty is the queen of country and bluegrass music. She is so beautiful to me. red hair and emerald green eyes. WOW what a woman.
There is much truth to this song. We take people for granted and don't talk. You have to talk and show love and affection. Tell your spouse you love and appreciate them.
Best female country song period!
Just discovered this song with her duet with Chris Stapleton, and it was incredible. Patty's voice is still in tact and sang beautifully.
Thanks for kind word... I am blessed to have such a fan following keep calm and stay country 🤠
Bet you're truly a fan of me ? If yes mail me directly
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You listen to voices like Patty's and folks wonder why we want more country sounding artists
Be here. My first marriage, it drained me. He didn't want the help he needed and stopped caring. Though it wasn't always like that. It wasn't even a year before it was all done. His drug use was more important (which is no surprise). I tried for months as a wife to help him. When that didn't work, I tried as a friend. Losing weight dramatically (bones showing), hair loss, paler skin, throwing up everytime I ate and more. He stole and put his youngest in danger. I told him to go and that was it. Now I've been with my current husband almost 10 years. We celebrated our 3 year marriage this past December with out beautiful 3 year old. At the end of the day as bad as that was, I'm glad I went through it. It taught me a lot. While we have our problems we work through it and become stronger for us and most importantly our son.
Hello Cory..
Glad you got a good man now.
A beautiful Gretchen Peters composition. Patricia delivers this like a freight train going by @ 70 mph and you are standing less than a foot away. Great read by Patty here. The finest female voice alive. Oh and I can tell you what a woman is. Take a look who'se singing this.
How are you? So sorry for the infringe on your privacy. Beautiful song
Patty is such a powerful woman. Bring the 90s and earlier country music back. Mama, they make them like that anymore. 😓
Hello Rekkless how are you doing hope you’re having a great time with your family may God bless you and your family
This lady is one of the most powerful singers in country music 🎵. Have seen her live and she sounds exactly the same as her recordings. Keep singing pretty lady to the world 🌎. Please be safe both you and your family 🤣.
Didn't realize how long it's been since I last heard this song. Love it just as much now as I did then.
Hi!!! I kind of , sort of , well, pretty much think you seem amazing. Want to chat sometime? How are you 🌹
Kindly Drop a note / email address and I'll reply instantly. Just if you may wish to email too!!
Haven't been married three years and this was us after one year. Not even sure why I'm still here
Hi!!! I kind of , sort of , well, pretty much think you seem amazing. Want to chat sometime? How are you 🌹
Kindly Drop a note / email address and I'll reply instantly. Just if you may wish to email too!!
Remember this vividly. Little did I know at the time.
PATTY IS GREATLY UNDERATED ( IMO ) I`VE BEEN A FAN FOR YRS.~~SHE POURS HER HEART & SOUL INTO HER MUSIC...
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Shes a good ole southern ⛰ mountain girl
@@shannongallagher2382 YOU GOT THAT RIGHT
She had a good teacher
I always thought she was underappreciated I seen her in concert in 2000 best concert I've ever been to
Written by Gretchen Peters, and performed by American country music artist Patty Loveless. It was released on March 18, 1995, as the third single from the album "When Fallen Angels Fly" (1994). The music was directed by Jim Shea, and premiered on CMT on March 20, 1995.
Hey, thanks for that information. I was 22 yrs old back then. I was in the middle of having my heart broken. When I heard this song for the first time. The bottom of my heart fell out. Whatever, right ? Lol. I still love this song. Wish they still write songs like that. My birthday is in March. Kinda hit home even more. Thanks
I was six years old to the day. I remember my dad always had country on in the car and there's not a song from the early 90s I don't remember. Great music
That is still one of my favorite albums of all time!
Not only, is she the n most beautiful woman I have ever seen , her voice is just as beautiful!
She was my absolute favorite country vocal artist in the 90’s ! So underrated
Crazy how what you think could never end does the long and winding road. Patty loveless voice of a angel
Lovely comment, Hello kaylaaa how are you doing 👋👋👋👋
2023, and this song popped in my head. I miss the old country music.
Gosh I miss this country music. Not the crap they put out today.
Lovely comment terry how are you doing 👋👋👋👋
Hi Terry hope you’re okay?
I’ve heard several version of this song, I like them all. This one give me chills and makes me want to cry. I read a comment that said Patty Loveless is the best female country singer alive , I guess I pretty much have to agree. Not taking anything away from Chris Stapleton though, he really needs to be heard by everyone
This song makes even a man cry still!!
My favorite female country singer. Love all her songs....
True song. Thank You Patty loveless. Never cross my mind get married at all. Everyone meet been married or running back to there first wife. Hard find honest person now days
Hello there Julie nice meeting you here
Such an amazing voice. Wish more singers today sounded as good as she does. Makes me miss the 90's even more
I FELT that for real!! 😢
You are the top of the list of lady Country singers as far as I'm concerned. You are the best and I dearly love you ! You are not only beautiful, you have the voice of an angel. I pray that God will bless you and your family forever, love yah !
Perfect example of what happens when you both quit trying to communicate
Yes you make a good point in your comment,Hello Sharon how are you doing 👋👋👋👋
This. This right here. This is, in my humble opinion, the reason that country music had and can still have a resonant backbone. This song and many others are examples of country music at its finest, telling real stories of real people that we can all relate to. That my friends is what made country music universal. Kudos to Patty Loveless and Gretchen Peters for, simply put, bringing a masterpiece to life.
I love Patty Loveless, her voice is pure! Would love to hear back on the charts or touring
Was married 12 year went to Iraq and Afghan came home and this song was the seen but life goes on
Hi Debbie you're okay?
Patty Loveless has the perfect voice to bring back Ole Country Music, I also know another Lady that could, who lives in Nashville
I love you and your music
I'm fourtyfive now and been in
Your fan club for a long antil
They stop the fan club totally
I'm a big time fan always
Will be and I will always love you
Your the best
I always crank patty up in the truck everyday!! Absolutely!!!❤
This song is so powerful and with a truly deep meaning 😢
I have been into Country music since the 60's and SHE is my favorite female Country singer.
Yes she is a hall of famer that voice is special song sends chills
If Patty only knew how much we love her songs
One of the most honest country songs I've ever heard X There are aways two sides to a relationship x very clever words x
Hello Carol, Good morning. The song is amazing and heart touching for real. Love it ❤
Hi Carol hope you're okay?
This is one of those songs that sneaks up on you. I remember hearing it on the radio when it was new and I didn't like it the first few times I heard it. I had recently gone through a painful divorce and this song hit a lot of sore spots. Still, you couldn't deny that this song was speaking to millions of people in this country who were going through something similar to this. I also like how this song presents both sides, it's not just his fault, it's not just her fault. Sometimes things just happen and you just can't figure out how to fix them. I very quickly grew to love this song and I still think it's one of Patty's best. This song is a good companion song for another Loveless hit, "The Trouble With The Truth."
This is probably the sadest song about a mattiagr ever. Try not to let it be you.
I'm not leaning out of the window when I say the greatest queen singer of all time.
WOW......this song definitely hits that nerve when you have lived this
this song came out when i was going through it
Hello, this is a random message to a few of my lucky fans which you're also among...Thanks to you all my fans for the love and support I do appreciate y'all, I'm using this great opportunity to say a very big thank you🙏messge on pattylovelessfl@gmail.com
I LOVE YOU SO MUCH❤️❤️
This is so sad, they weren't cheating on each other. They just....fell out of love.
Most cases peeps are not really in luv...just star struck..it will last a lil..then get old n boring..bang u divorced
It happens and it sucks
in love with ideal of being in love...stupid!!
Yep
Married 34.years.dont say it cant happen. You can fall out.as easy as you fell in.
I cried many of tears to this song back in 94. My divorce was final Nov 18th that year and my husband never seemed to know me. I was just his property.
Hi Nindy 💐💐
This song makes me cry. I think about those relationships that ended wrong, Where we didnt Even know eachother. 😢
A heavy gem in my heart. I miss music like this. Patty can sing the the caution on the back of rat poison package, and it would sound like a love song.
There has always been country songs about beer and trucks, its just that the 90's crushed it with heartbreak songs and deep love songs.
I've been a fan from the first time I seen Patty preform. Like wine she gets better with time. You get up stage perfection.
One of the greatest country musicians. ❤
How are you doing today! I hope it been a beautiful day today?
It has been said she has a pure mountain voice and l love when she sings with other artists
Hello, How are you doing?
Hi Lynn hope you're okay?