Jaron Lanier interview on how social media ruins your life

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  • Опубликовано: 22 дек 2024

Комментарии • 13 тыс.

  • @RVDB-nz9gu
    @RVDB-nz9gu 6 лет назад +10610

    If you don't have to pay for the product, it means you are the product.

  • @Lazirus951
    @Lazirus951 Год назад +1585

    Social Media is one of those things where it's hard to realize how miserable it makes you until you actually quit.

    • @TyroneBiggums789
      @TyroneBiggums789 10 месяцев назад +43

      How do I quit RUclips though ? 😂 I’m more hooked on this than instagram and tik tok

    • @Carol.justina
      @Carol.justina 10 месяцев назад +2

      Yes

    • @j-us-t_be-in-g
      @j-us-t_be-in-g 9 месяцев назад

      You ain't lying. I just permanently deleted my Facebook and Instagram accounts a week ago. I feel so much. @TyroneBiggums789I just unsubscribe from pages that aren't necessary to you. If I can't take what you teach and use it in my life, your page is useless to me. However, RUclips does try to bait you to subscribe to pages you unsubscribe from. They think they're slick. RUclips is like someone trying to reintroduce a former drug addict back to drugs after they rehabbed, and fully healed.

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 9 месяцев назад +8

      So true lol 9 days since deactivating instagram, and I realize how programmed and hypnotized i was to keep posting and stay updated to the app.

    • @basicinfo2022
      @basicinfo2022 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@TyroneBiggums789youtube is more educational for me than keeping up with individuals.

  • @A.Y.11
    @A.Y.11 3 года назад +3832

    As a 30 year old I feel like my generation was the last one to experience normal life in the traditional sense. I remember going to school without smartphones, camera obsession, social media addiction etc.
    We used to just hang out outdoors and ride our bikes around. We used to actually talk to the people around us at dinner, and know our neighbours intimately. Everything is distant and artificial now.

    • @californiamonster8877
      @californiamonster8877 3 года назад +21

      Tv is satanic mind control over the ego via fear like all politics and war
      All spiritual frequency lowering
      No mas
      Moses is here

    • @PirateKing1256
      @PirateKing1256 3 года назад +178

      This is why there are so many shows like Stranger things. IT the movie. Are showing life BEFORE these things. People actually had 'REAL LIFE'. Nowadays I am finding it really HARD to find someone that had time to just HANG OUT. It is that bad now!

    • @Matrakisness
      @Matrakisness 3 года назад +82

      Yeah dude Im 36 and I totally agree!

    • @nehha23
      @nehha23 3 года назад +21

      Totally agree

    • @justpassingthrough2728
      @justpassingthrough2728 3 года назад +39

      yep in highschool we used to bring weed, alcohol, and smoking in class

  • @tubester2023
    @tubester2023 Год назад +647

    This interview has aged well. Many who would've dismissed it 5 years ago would have come to realize how true this guy is.

    • @JAMBI..
      @JAMBI.. 11 месяцев назад +3

      Facts I'm surprised Jaron isn't Jake Paul or Gary Valnervayshayakayshak whatever his name is. Tbh

    • @pequod4557
      @pequod4557 11 месяцев назад +9

      I broke free from social media, I only use my Apple watch and my laptop for work. that's it. no smartphone.

    • @kris78787
      @kris78787 9 месяцев назад

      @@pequod4557 same! I got rid of my smartphone last year. I now own a gab phone (no internet). the modern convenience of a smartphone didn't outweigh the negatives. Im glad mine is gone. I can think clearly again

    • @garrettkrahn1828
      @garrettkrahn1828 8 месяцев назад

      @@JAMBI..Why are you surprised that he's not the 2 people you mentioned?

    • @nndaystar
      @nndaystar 5 месяцев назад +4

      Oh boy, 35 now. First saw it ages ago. Should've listened then 😅

  • @pequenogato12
    @pequenogato12 3 года назад +1992

    I didn't delete my social media immediately after I saw the documentary he's in. But his words stuck with me. I started to see things differently. I saw myself from an outside perspective. I started to realize the Internet is now some sort of US high school - who's the prettiest, the most popular, the coolest. I got off the rat race and I feel so much better. Life is much more than that.

    • @simranchauhan9390
      @simranchauhan9390 3 года назад +25

      Well said

    • @runwitscissors00
      @runwitscissors00 3 года назад +3

      Can yoi name the doc ? Thanks !

    • @TheDirtyWork
      @TheDirtyWork 3 года назад +28

      @@runwitscissors00 I think it's "The Social Dilemma"

    • @MrJamiez
      @MrJamiez 3 года назад +16

      You still have RUclips that's a social media.

    • @adrianluke3884
      @adrianluke3884 3 года назад +30

      Me too, I feel like the most people want to show how special and diferrent they are.
      And if you aren't a part of this game, you don't exist.

  • @jennyk9748
    @jennyk9748 3 года назад +3327

    Social media was supposed to bring everyone together, instead it is quite literally ripping us apart.

    • @alanmartinez7647
      @alanmartinez7647 3 года назад +65

      "Social media was supposed to bring everyone together" lol

    • @sadippers6168
      @sadippers6168 3 года назад +18

      literally? bruh am i about to get torn up like a piece of paper

    • @rvnwy7261
      @rvnwy7261 3 года назад +23

      You’re tearing me apart, Lisa!

    • @UrMomsChauffer
      @UrMomsChauffer 3 года назад +3

      No media is designed to bring people together

    • @tombrunila2695
      @tombrunila2695 3 года назад +5

      In boxing the fight starts by bringing the boxers together! Goes for other combat sports too.

  • @alancantu2557
    @alancantu2557 2 года назад +2199

    Once you stop using social media, you never look back. I feel disgusted when I remember how much time, energy, and effort I used to put into creating an acceptable image of myself for the approval of others. Social media is a cancer.

    • @moskaamarkhel4499
      @moskaamarkhel4499 2 года назад +52

      Same here. It’s been one year and I don’t want to ever go back.

    • @erikavaleries
      @erikavaleries 2 года назад +20

      I never manipulated my image or life and it was horrible so smart decision

    • @jasonnehceis3267
      @jasonnehceis3267 2 года назад +54

      Very well stated.... right here on social media.🤣

    • @drugfr33
      @drugfr33 2 года назад +2

      Right on.

    • @mahmouddia261
      @mahmouddia261 Год назад +2

      👍☕️

  • @Humvee369
    @Humvee369 Год назад +710

    Seeing parents look delighted when they put a smartphone in their infant's hands because it stops them crying breaks my heart.

    • @ManiGupta49
      @ManiGupta49 Год назад +29

      Exactly! It is sad :(

    • @christianzilla
      @christianzilla Год назад +20

      "But I don't want them to be naive when they go online." Was the answer I got from one mother. She has a point... but...

    • @lizziebkennedy7505
      @lizziebkennedy7505 Год назад +10

      Yes, it’s awful.

    • @CarolinaPedroso-d9s
      @CarolinaPedroso-d9s Год назад +1

      So sad

    • @nimanixo
      @nimanixo Год назад +5

      Not good parenting in my eyes

  • @CorbalianVoss
    @CorbalianVoss 4 года назад +1459

    I DELETED my Twitter, Instagram, Snapchat two years ago and finally got around to physically deleting my Facebook account a few days ago after not having signed in for the last 4 months. I keep RUclips because it's so interesting with all the documentaries and nature stuff. Also it's good for listening to critical thinkers out there that I think are good - I learn a lot from RUclips.
    Two years ago I was an alcoholic, a smoker and used lots of cocaine at the weekend.
    Since the middle of 2018, I don't drink, at all, don't smoke anything, definitely am drug free and now run marathons at the weekend.
    Using social media stops you from developing your brain and keeps you in a state where (in your opinion) your life isn't as good as everyone else's. Social Media should come with the same warnings that smoking does.

    • @matureyoungman
      @matureyoungman 4 года назад +17

      good decision.

    • @ag-bf3ty
      @ag-bf3ty 4 года назад +26

      RUclips is no different though. Many flat-earthers cite RUclips as the place where they went down the rabbit hole of ever more extreme conspiracy theories. Ironically it might actually be the advertisers which help this problem, because they're starting to refuse to pay for ads next to extremist content. So on the one hand the advertisers want to take advantage of the sensationalist, attention-grabbing nature of social media, but that very same system also creates a feedback loop of extremism that advertisers don't want to be associated with. It's hypocritical but hopefully it's at least something to prevent society from becoming increasingly paranoid and divisive.

    • @ag-bf3ty
      @ag-bf3ty 4 года назад +11

      There are some settings where you can turn off targeted ads, and you can clear and stop your watch history. That might help with the issue of RUclips learning your habits and trying to push you into similar content that keeps you hooked for all the wrong reasons.

    • @anthonygarcia3097
      @anthonygarcia3097 4 года назад +2

      Wow. So true.

    • @ag-bf3ty
      @ag-bf3ty 4 года назад +8

      @Gingerbreadman GanjaFarmer I agree and I don't say otherwise. There are positives and negatives, and it's about trying to reduce the negatives.

  • @rianamomo6597
    @rianamomo6597 4 года назад +2952

    Facebook and Instagram teaches people to be narcissist and insecure at the same time.

    • @dianarosalindland1566
      @dianarosalindland1566 4 года назад +135

      Narcissism and voyeurism are two sides of the same coin. These are the twin diseases of modern humanity: "look at me! look at me!" plus "what are they doing over there? what are they doing over there?" Just be in yourself, inhabit what you are doing and stop broadcasting your every innermost thought to the world please everybody.

    • @rianamomo6597
      @rianamomo6597 4 года назад +7

      @@dianarosalindland1566 I agree with you.

    • @cookie_dough_hangover
      @cookie_dough_hangover 4 года назад +43

      Nothing can teach you to be a. narcissist. People use this term very freely without knowing what is actually means. Narcisism is a personality disorder and it has nothing to do with taking selfies and social media.

    • @teza5876
      @teza5876 4 года назад +54

      Narcs are the epitomy of insecure

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 4 года назад +36

      @@cookie_dough_hangover You're right, but I do believe the narcs are drawn to instagram.

  • @FranzFerdinand76
    @FranzFerdinand76 4 года назад +1662

    I feel sorry for those born around the late 90's and after that haven't experienced life without the internet and social media. While the internet is amazing, it's not the "real world."

    • @coatfarm
      @coatfarm 4 года назад +58

      probably every boomer in the 1950s: I feel sorry for those born in 1945 and after that haven't experienced life without those blasted televisions. While TVs are amazing, it's not the "real world."

    • @FranzFerdinand76
      @FranzFerdinand76 4 года назад +129

      TV is not interactive though. TV is/was a modern version of theater which has existed forever. Social interaction with the world wasn't possible inside the home or at your finger tips and there wasn't total anonymity in daily interactions with strangers. There also wasn't a disconnect that the internet/smart phones provides in person to person interaction. There is a difference. While I appreciate these things immensely and they are great for the world, I also very much appreciate that I got to live my youth without the toxicity inherent in social media in particular.

    • @karljones4321
      @karljones4321 4 года назад +10

      But the internet does show the real person.

    • @FranzFerdinand76
      @FranzFerdinand76 4 года назад +20

      Perhaps it brings out the negative in a person that would otherwise be dormant if there was no internet?

    • @yarflocrispy8814
      @yarflocrispy8814 4 года назад +53

      I agree, I was born in the early 90’s so I just missed the cusp. Smartphones and social media became popular right when I graduated high school. I couldn’t imagine the effects of having platforms like tik tok and instagram or unlimited access to porn in middle and high school. It was already hard enough to just be an oddball teenager.

  • @nomad1517
    @nomad1517 7 месяцев назад +124

    This guy is so educated and kind. He handled that interview like butter.

  • @joseitoito
    @joseitoito 3 года назад +3074

    I like spending the day watching videos about self-discipline. That way I can procrastinate with the false sensation of accomplishing stuff I should be doing.

    • @rajhynez
      @rajhynez 3 года назад +15

      Lol

    • @srianjanaVadevoo
      @srianjanaVadevoo 3 года назад +14

      Ha ha..so relatable..

    • @cathybober8774
      @cathybober8774 3 года назад +5

      lol!

    • @Hooperd2023
      @Hooperd2023 3 года назад +25

      Ahhhh so I’m not alone, shows that I’m on the right path... my fellow procrastinators say *hooohah*

    • @cacambo589
      @cacambo589 3 года назад +13

      Self-discipline? Or self-delusion?

  • @Jsbido
    @Jsbido 6 лет назад +781

    Quit FB in 2011 and IG in 2013. I found myself obsessing and lurking on other people's profile and realized how sick that made me feel. I'm so happy I made that decision.

    • @congosrevolution8625
      @congosrevolution8625 6 лет назад +4

      So why are u on RUclips tho ?

    • @claudiamarianidamato9499
      @claudiamarianidamato9499 6 лет назад +61

      Real Never leave RUclips is kind of like TV in my opinion there’s very limited exposure of a person on RUclips profiles

    • @myrabullock8132
      @myrabullock8132 6 лет назад +36

      YES!..... so much happier I quit FB.....I dont stalk my ex anymore......that got me sooooooo depressed.

    • @congosrevolution8625
      @congosrevolution8625 6 лет назад

      So who care ??

    • @love_is_sacrifice9414
      @love_is_sacrifice9414 6 лет назад +11

      @@congosrevolution8625 apparently you do since u replied to this comment twice

  • @ChilddPlease
    @ChilddPlease 6 лет назад +2883

    Many people would have happier lives without looking at what others are doing. FOCUS ON YOU. Be content with yourself.

    • @siphiwemabuya
      @siphiwemabuya 6 лет назад +22

      Yes!!!!!

    • @Accune
      @Accune 6 лет назад +21

      "11 I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. 12 I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. 13 I can do all this through him who gives me strength." Philippians 4:11-13

    • @cellerism
      @cellerism 5 лет назад +8

      I would say you should still look at good people and learn from them.

    • @yvonnemckay7287
      @yvonnemckay7287 5 лет назад +28

      Well said. I miss the good ole days when there wasn't any such thing as the internet people actually seen each other n not just text etc..

    • @jobin140
      @jobin140 5 лет назад +4

      @Childd Please! There is a contradiction here. Which is, by saying this, you are focusing on what other people are doing. Comparing your current life or status to another's isn't inherently evil, it's when you respond to it in such a way that causes you to behave in a manner that would be detrimental to your psychological health. You can use negative feelings as fuel to motivate you in order to gain positive experiences. In my opinion, a counter part to the issue of social media we currently have is that as a Nation we have lost our values. This in conjunction with manipulation of social media, distorts the public perception of what our trajectory as a nation should be. I don't want to list every example and go into too much depth to be perfectly honest solely because the amount of time it would take, but you can see many anti-consumer practices across many industries. The sole focus for the past few decades has shifted to earning capital. Where as before it was earning capital, but also establishing a brand as opposed to cashing in on one. I've notice this shift in many "creative industries," such as gaming, music, film. Producers of such content now seem more focused on their quarterly reports, than actually earning the respect and trust of there consumers. Meaning they're always looking for the next best trick to milk the cow so to speak, with little regard to cow's well being. Short term, being an important point because consumers can and have wisen up to said practices which in turn sours there relationship with any such company behaving in such a manner. Ultimately ruining the consumer/producer relationship, then harming the producer (EA Games for example) and finally the consumer, because our economy isn't stronger when businesses fail, and the consumer obviously exist with in that economy. In all, I feel this problem stretches far beyond social media, this is a consumer/producer problem brought on in part by the internet changing the rate and ease in which we can exchange information in turn creating a sort of wild west dynamic within the market place. In a time of rapid evolutionary development, it's in our best interest to solve this soon.

  • @sundaydiver
    @sundaydiver Год назад +47

    I admire people who respond to complex, multifaceted questions with simple, intelligible, well thought-out arguments that are not overly simplistic.

  • @ghost-se1uc
    @ghost-se1uc 6 лет назад +1162

    They put him up here to make him look mad BUT HE TALKS TRUTH

    • @mslikenootha
      @mslikenootha 6 лет назад +22

      D MXSTRY and professional with how he says it

    • @killah123456
      @killah123456 6 лет назад +23

      Trust! he’s talking big facts!!

    • @adnanrifaie4604
      @adnanrifaie4604 6 лет назад +5

      Why did you asum hes mad ?

    • @jimjones3287
      @jimjones3287 6 лет назад +5

      @@adnanrifaie4604 His appearance duh which he chose and the channel didn't tell him to look like that.

    • @ironeyes82
      @ironeyes82 6 лет назад +50

      D MXSTRY we are conditioned to see a smart person in a suit not it old rags with dread locks, he’s happy with him self so image ain’t no thing, knowledge is enough for this spiritual fine human being, peace and love all ❤️

  • @LoadingRetroGames
    @LoadingRetroGames 4 года назад +2087

    I'm confident I can quit Facebook and twitter etc, however quiting RUclips is much much harder for me personally

    • @FiremarshalM1
      @FiremarshalM1 4 года назад +65

      Loading Gamez it's how we get information🤓

    • @footballcontagion3356
      @footballcontagion3356 4 года назад +271

      RUclips isn't as harmful

    • @remotefaith
      @remotefaith 4 года назад +322

      Football Contagion Nonsense. RUclips is just as bad. It is mostly full of inane garbage, mass advertising, sponsored content, toxic and miserable comment sections, extreme political positions and on and on. They’re all as bad as each other and in my own experience youtube is the most time consuming and has had a bad affect on my psyche.

    • @NoName-t7e
      @NoName-t7e 4 года назад +50

      Susan Wojcicki and the Jewish groups like ADL and SPLC she put in charge of censorship on RUclips have ruined it. Now RUclips is looking more and more like mainstream TV. Its non-stop promotion of everything which is undoing the cultural fabric of our societies.

    • @JungleScene
      @JungleScene 4 года назад +73

      perhaps you could try using youtube without an account? maybe find your favorite channels and keep them in your browser favorites (non google browser?) and disallow the algorithm from getting a read on you.
      I dont know if that would work but just a thought.

  • @ninagamboa3606
    @ninagamboa3606 4 года назад +733

    Social media is SO toxic, wish more people really understood this. Because everyone nowadays, especially the young like me, are so blinded.

    • @marymitchell1329
      @marymitchell1329 4 года назад +55

      Oh, honey....you are wise. Young people like you would gain a lot from putting down their phones & interacting with each other, breathing the fresh air, meditating, creating great things. You can do it..sending love & peace..don't underestimate yourself, please!! There is so much good in this crazy world!!

    • @NorthPhilly-zr7xc
      @NorthPhilly-zr7xc 4 года назад +14

      He ain't lying my sista and them be so into social media they don't pay attention to nothing people take all they problems to social media

    • @niaamani9143
      @niaamani9143 4 года назад +2

      amen!

    • @222browneyes
      @222browneyes 4 года назад +5

      This is a mainstream idea. Lots of people pat themselves on the back for knowing what they think the rest of the world is "blind" to. If you came to that conclusion through mainstream info, chances are lots of others think the same.

    • @ahhwe-any7434
      @ahhwe-any7434 4 года назад +3

      @@222browneyes chances are, if youre not actually letting the internet be your entire experience... You wouldnt say "clever" things like this

  • @battypeanut
    @battypeanut Год назад +21

    Jaron Lanier is the wise wizard of the internet 🙂 We all need to listen to him. For real .

  • @jsi4318
    @jsi4318 3 года назад +2867

    'Are you a new age hippie?' - what a rude thing to say. The man is literally educating you.

    • @komrad7907
      @komrad7907 3 года назад +278

      Yeah, this guy comes off as belittling

    • @komrad7907
      @komrad7907 3 года назад +218

      "Are you just a" people love to slap people who stand out, with a label

    • @julienakazi9336
      @julienakazi9336 3 года назад +195

      this interviewer is always rude, watch him interview Robert Downey Jr

    • @JS-df5vy
      @JS-df5vy 3 года назад +58

      So gracious tho, and ends on great laughter*

    • @jps0117
      @jps0117 3 года назад +171

      Rude, but more dumb than rude. Jaron Lanier just spent 20 minutes explaining his views and this is the best that this interviewer can say to sum up and conclude?

  • @mysteryman595
    @mysteryman595 4 года назад +1558

    He's 60??? Holy, I mean he doesn't look particularly young but he gives off such a warm, vibrant energy

    • @somedudeinatunnel3102
      @somedudeinatunnel3102 4 года назад +8

      @Gizmo Allwin LOL no 48 year old looks this bad, except maybe Donnie Jr.

    • @Darrylizer1
      @Darrylizer1 4 года назад +7

      I didn't recognize him at first, he looks terrible. I remember him as the virtual reality guy.

    • @1caro333
      @1caro333 4 года назад +21

      He's a typical Taurus

    • @llsspp
      @llsspp 4 года назад +27

      LaDolcevita found the Instagram addict

    • @teresahodges5215
      @teresahodges5215 4 года назад +14

      This guy may not know that he helped create the false world of the beast system. He needs Jesus.

  • @HomeStudioBasics
    @HomeStudioBasics 5 лет назад +608

    Love the way this guy carries himself and debates. It's a beautiful thing to watch him calmly address every question with love and wisdom.

    • @cambiatusdias
      @cambiatusdias 5 лет назад +8

      Totally agree with you

    • @stephanie3336
      @stephanie3336 5 лет назад +7

      Perfectly stated

    • @ShakilHashmi
      @ShakilHashmi 5 лет назад +12

      I think he is a reincarnation of a Saadhu from the Himalayas.... those dreadlocks, that calmness... the wheel of Karma got him here.

    • @jamesandthegiantbeach5624
      @jamesandthegiantbeach5624 5 лет назад +6

      Great comment, my feeling exactly

    • @HomeStudioBasics
      @HomeStudioBasics 5 лет назад +2

      Thanks David!

  • @svvmaq_
    @svvmaq_ Год назад +14

    i just wanna say how i love that this man looks like someone that the average person would underestimate but he is so intelligent, calm and well spoken. i feel like the reporter tries to provoke him continuously but he is just so self assured and only interested in sharing his wisdom and not talking down to or controlling anyone.

    • @avanesspelaez971
      @avanesspelaez971 9 месяцев назад

      Yeah u nailed it...he's so calm and the reporter kinda cranky 😅 kinda he's addicted to socmed 😅

  • @paulowen3271
    @paulowen3271 5 лет назад +755

    came for the dreadlocks, stayed because this guy is incredibly well spoken and intelligent

    • @bikeninja956
      @bikeninja956 4 года назад +8

      this is Jaron Lanier, he's a famous technologist....

    • @MeppyMan
      @MeppyMan 4 года назад +2

      He was friends with Richard Feynman!

    • @chriskessell1150
      @chriskessell1150 4 года назад +1

      @@MeppyMan Is he a zionist?.

    • @shirleypena4133
      @shirleypena4133 4 года назад +1

      @Paul Owen and utterly HIDEOUS-looking! I literally had to look away to follow what he was saying.

    • @psylocibin9359
      @psylocibin9359 4 года назад

      fuckyea

  • @retrocheeta9
    @retrocheeta9 4 года назад +312

    You don't have to post your life to social media. It's an endless nightmare. You wake up from the nightmare after deleting social media.

    • @gregthesuperninjaturtle450
      @gregthesuperninjaturtle450 3 года назад +1

      "You are born from the blood, our eyes are yet to open"

    • @sandman8993
      @sandman8993 3 года назад +15

      I honestly don’t know why people do it. Everything they do they put on Facebook it’s so weird to me.

    • @DavidKlausa
      @DavidKlausa 9 месяцев назад

      It's also an option to be on social media, but not post your whole life to it. I spend a few minutes a day checking messages and notifications, then I move on. Moderation is possible.

    • @J.A.Madventures
      @J.A.Madventures 18 дней назад

      @@DavidKlausamental disability and or addictions cause a loss of self control and much paranoia … THIS is mainly the answer to why folk share everything on social media. I have mental disability and I realise I am in an unwell time when I can’t stop typing on and on about personal stuff etc
      I see addicts do the same ..like a dog with a bone..unable to let a subject drop. 😞

  • @sweiland75
    @sweiland75 5 лет назад +862

    Social media encourages anti-social behaviour.

    • @smileandhope3381
      @smileandhope3381 5 лет назад +1

      🤦‍♀️☹️

    • @hongry-life
      @hongry-life 5 лет назад +3

      Not really. Block the trolls and other uncivilized beasts.

    • @hongry-life
      @hongry-life 5 лет назад +3

      And block all mainstream media garbage.

    • @ayetam_aye
      @ayetam_aye 5 лет назад

      sweiland75 yes, and I now refer to myself as a social idiot and I wasn't like that before social media!🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @hongry-life
      @hongry-life 5 лет назад

      @@ayetam_aye What is a social idiot, what are the traits?

  • @kaylat63
    @kaylat63 6 месяцев назад +130

    "Social media's grip on our lives can lead to financial ruin. It fuels comparison, consumerism, and FOMO, driving impulsive investments and debt. It also spreads misinformation, causing poor investment decisions. Break free from the social media cycle, seek credible sources, and prioritize financial literacy to secure your future."

    • @AllisonSherman657
      @AllisonSherman657 6 месяцев назад

      I agree with you and I believe that the secret to financial stability is having the right investment ideas to enable you earn more money, I don’t know who agrees with me but either way I recommend either real estate or bitcoin and stocks.

    • @face2lune
      @face2lune 6 месяцев назад

      I invested 10k in Robin hood and 401k about a year ago and it steadily went down, now my portfolio is down to $800. I don't know what to do and i am in between jobs

    • @kaylat63
      @kaylat63 6 месяцев назад

      @@face2lune Understanding your financial needs and making effective decisions is very essential. If I could advise you, you should seek the help of a financial advisor. For the record, working with one has been the best for my finances.

    • @face2lune
      @face2lune 6 месяцев назад

      I’m Glad i stumbled on this. Please, if its not too much of a hassle for you, can you drop the details of the CFP that assisted you and how to get in touch...

    • @kaylat63
      @kaylat63 6 месяцев назад

      @@face2lune I get guidance from *Susan Tori Davis* Most likely, the internet should have her basic info..

  • @dir4281
    @dir4281 4 года назад +562

    I quit social media 5 years ago, when I was 18, I just live my life simply , carefree, and improving my skills.

    • @AlexpxThreeTen
      @AlexpxThreeTen 4 года назад +55

      RUclips is social media

    • @johnwilkinsonjr4263
      @johnwilkinsonjr4263 4 года назад +12

      It’s really hard for people that were teens basically brought up into this stuff.

    • @freespirit3818
      @freespirit3818 4 года назад +7

      Well done D ! I'm just on FB got rid of the rest.

    • @myleenpang3548
      @myleenpang3548 4 года назад +3

      Wow...good for you

    • @robdre1977
      @robdre1977 4 года назад +5

      Good for you D. How did you do it being so young?

  • @stonecoldhealer3268
    @stonecoldhealer3268 5 лет назад +282

    I strongly agree with him. I gave up all forms of social media platforms about 2 years ago and never looked back. No more phantom rings, no more time wasted scrolling endlessly, no more seeking validation through posts and comments. Best decision I've ever made!
    Thumbs up if you're with the movement!

    • @meghanworkman6449
      @meghanworkman6449 5 лет назад +4

      I deactivated my social media accounts a few days ago, and honestly the only thing I've missed is being able to ask local friends on facebook how bad the roads are after a recent snowstorm lol.

    • @SwissTanuki
      @SwissTanuki 5 лет назад +9

      And yet here you are.. I don't blame you. I stopped Facebook but I really enjoy RUclips.

    • @meghanworkman6449
      @meghanworkman6449 5 лет назад +17

      @@SwissTanuki I know people have different opinions about this, but I don't really consider RUclips to be social media in the way Facebook, instagram, snapchat, etc, are. To me, RUclips is more like TV, or visible podcasts - at least, the channels I watch feel like that to me.

    • @angelahall6598
      @angelahall6598 5 лет назад +3

      Except RUclips......... Me too lol

    • @kaibarrera9911
      @kaibarrera9911 5 лет назад +6

      RUclips is social media. There are other users that you can interact with, it has the same addictive algorithms, the same data mining, etc. Not to say I'm any different. I deleted everything too, yet here I am

  • @tammy7492
    @tammy7492 6 лет назад +417

    He is so right. A lot of young people nowadays are suffering from anxiety, depression and feeling suscidal because of social media. When we are young and going through the stage of trying to figure ourselves out, social media can become very toxic

    • @HungVo-ek7zd
      @HungVo-ek7zd 5 лет назад +8

      Preachhhhhh

    • @AkademiSanat
      @AkademiSanat 5 лет назад +13

      this is not because of social media its beacuse of their ignorent parents the governments steal their future.

    • @lanagooding
      @lanagooding 5 лет назад +2

      Tamika Arnold you speak nothing but facts

    • @AkademiSanat
      @AkademiSanat 5 лет назад +1

      @Rhondjé Mohan Singh TanwarI agree.. Who runs the communication rules the world, so it is a magic wand that is posibble to be used for good or bad.. Humanity must make a choise...

    • @Jahmier12bessant
      @Jahmier12bessant 5 лет назад

      Tamika Arnold that conversation goes both way

  • @katinabotten
    @katinabotten Год назад +12

    I’m 62, and I love Googling and learning science, medical and Christian sermons, I get depressed when sitting in a medical clinic and everyone has their head in their iPhone instead of paying attention to their surroundings

    • @teainortakoy
      @teainortakoy Год назад

      I agree, I'm usually the only person that sits on a train and looks out the window!

    • @Ramiro-k8f
      @Ramiro-k8f 8 месяцев назад +1

      You're so right It sad it he used to be newspaper or checking a magazine

  • @eccentricnoise3583
    @eccentricnoise3583 4 года назад +890

    Propaganda works best when those who are being manipulated are confident they are acting on their own free will. - Joseph Goebbels

    • @OPbob
      @OPbob 4 года назад +9

      they freely take part in BLM i see it now :O

    • @nofurtherwest3474
      @nofurtherwest3474 4 года назад

      Can you comment on how this guy looks

    • @Jaylade
      @Jaylade 4 года назад +4

      @@nofurtherwest3474 Why

    • @nofurtherwest3474
      @nofurtherwest3474 4 года назад

      @@Jaylade because i want to know your opinion

    • @BrandonMaceira-go1gs
      @BrandonMaceira-go1gs 4 года назад +1

      Didn't Joe get his playbook from Edward bernays?

  • @russiandrivers9986
    @russiandrivers9986 3 года назад +1127

    This guy was amazing at keeping calm and getting his point across without falling for any of the interviewer's provocations

    • @catblack4091
      @catblack4091 3 года назад +98

      The interviewer is not intelligent enough to throw this guy off...not by a long shot.

    • @lordamercy5609
      @lordamercy5609 3 года назад +54

      do you not understand how an interview works ?
      he is putting questions forward to him that the audience may be asking at home in order to have answers for anyone that may be moking him.
      the interviewer should be a conduit for the audience at home and play devils advocate in order to get some balance.
      do you actually know another about Krishnan Guru-Murthy either?
      It is normal to ask questions when interviewing someone that may do not aligned with your own views in order to get interesting answers for both sides.

    • @AC-bg4cs
      @AC-bg4cs 3 года назад +24

      @@lordamercy5609 Murthy isn't some great interviewer that's able to ask challenging questions the viewers at home might want to know, hes a pathetic douche that wants to provoke. Basically no one respects the dude. Look at his other interviews., the one with Rober Downey for instance. Hes incredibly unprofessional. Mistaking his bad faith questions with hard hitting journalism makes me question your ability to be critical of what the news media is shoving down our throats.

    • @edwardteach815
      @edwardteach815 3 года назад +15

      that's never the intent of an interview. it's not a debate. the interviewer asks stupid normie questions for a reason.

    • @travelingmindful
      @travelingmindful 3 года назад +7

      Yes these interviewers love to try and get one to take the bait and abandon their argument…very true

  • @Lauricella71
    @Lauricella71 6 лет назад +2230

    I left fb 4 years ago. I will never go back.

    • @mgichndz
      @mgichndz 6 лет назад +90

      Monica C - me too. Said goodbye to Instagram today

    • @shininglightjoi6627
      @shininglightjoi6627 6 лет назад +28

      Monica C I dislike social media n don't need nor use any !

    • @MrZanProductions
      @MrZanProductions 6 лет назад +11

      there are others?!

    • @waltera.6654
      @waltera.6654 6 лет назад +3

      LOL is Facebook! :) @The Nezk

    • @SGspecial84
      @SGspecial84 6 лет назад +69

      Same here, I saw this coming 5 years ago. I don't hear from a lot of my old close friends these days, but I guess that answers the question of if they were actually all that close.

  • @RetroPlus
    @RetroPlus 4 месяца назад +11

    Social media is the closest technology to mind control we have, and it absolutely works

  • @ceetee110
    @ceetee110 3 года назад +796

    I would listen to this guy explain absolutely anything. He's so good at making you feel not like he's preaching or talking down to you, but genuinely just wants to help you understand what he thinks.

    • @tommyoneill9761
      @tommyoneill9761 2 года назад +24

      Yeah, I agree with you. I like him a lot. He explains things in a way that is easy to understand, using a high level vocabulary.

    • @r.carter8378
      @r.carter8378 2 года назад +11

      he invented Virtual Reality if you didn't know. He has lots of good interviews.

    • @erikavaleries
      @erikavaleries 2 года назад +15

      That skeptical "new age hippie" question/accusation was harsh!!! He handled it so well. I love this man 😂😍💯

    • @RipeTimes
      @RipeTimes 2 года назад +1

      i think the key word here is "feel."

    • @abusedbyher
      @abusedbyher Год назад +7

      @dani cali no he doesn't, he is BEAUTIFULLY Jewish and has the same hair as me, a black person with nappy afro hair.
      Jewish and black people are synonymous with one another in many ways, the afro hair, skin, bone structure, longevity etc. I absolutely LOVE them! As well as their amazing intelligence and unique features.
      He is showcasing his locs in the same way we showcase ours (for those who have them), 'unapologetically' and wholly at one with himself ☘️

  • @agentmulder1019
    @agentmulder1019 5 лет назад +379

    Social media is a "drug" that is designed to be addictive. Anyone who liberates themselves from these shackles is to be congratulated.

    • @GladysAlicea
      @GladysAlicea 5 лет назад +3

      Exactly. It's the same reason tv was invented. Pure propaganda mostly; read Edward Bernays' book, (father of. public relations and advertising), "Propaganda," which you can download for free on archive.org. Plus tons of diverse items, and they don't keep track of you, since you don't have to register. Educational and fun online complete library.

    • @grandoldsoul4691
      @grandoldsoul4691 5 лет назад +8

      anyone who has never had a problem with addiction dones't know the feeling. but now they do. when they leave sm. that;'s why you see so many ppl saying it was the best decsision, they are mroe productive. forced addiction. same with addicts who actually kicked their habit. same things. " iam so much more clear headed, productive, happy, ect"

    • @LEVONTE_KING_USA_ATHEIST
      @LEVONTE_KING_USA_ATHEIST 5 лет назад +2

      Yet here you are

    • @tonebonebgky2
      @tonebonebgky2 5 лет назад +2

      @@LEVONTE_KING_USA_ATHEIST lol yt isn't social media.

    • @S_Cooper0404
      @S_Cooper0404 5 лет назад +3

      My blood pressure goes up when I get on social media. I've dumped Facebook and Twitter but I find myself scrolling through RUclips for hours. I started doing it trying to find real news. But I've really got to cut it back. This guy is right and I despise this interviewer. He seems angry at the truth.

  • @110gore
    @110gore 5 лет назад +723

    Deleted Facebook and IG because it made my depression worse, forever comparing yourself to other people is dangerous. Also the amount of toxicity and narcissism from people these days is increasing. Social media is not just a tool but a weapon.

    • @JR-un7uj
      @JR-un7uj 5 лет назад +21

      I agree with you 100%

    • @19luisbonilla91
      @19luisbonilla91 5 лет назад +9

      Dont attach depression by saying "my", it isnt, just happens, observe it.

    • @j-boogiebrown9961
      @j-boogiebrown9961 5 лет назад +8

      It was all prophesied in the Book of Revelation. Have you seen the video of the selfie girls at the Baseball game? Check it out.

    • @life107familyfitnessboxing8
      @life107familyfitnessboxing8 5 лет назад +2

      VERY TRUE.

    • @oldishandwoke-ish1181
      @oldishandwoke-ish1181 5 лет назад +7

      Geez If you compare yourself to others all the time you will have that problem offline, too. We need to choose online "friends" carefully and zap anyone acting suspiciously, as it were.

  • @andresaguilar327
    @andresaguilar327 6 лет назад +430

    I quit facebook (deleted all my pictures, changed my name, dislike all the pages I liked, erased everything, and closed my account), since October 2017. Now it's June 2018, and my life is way better.
    I actually can sleep better nowdays. And all of those feelings of anger, sadness, and such... disappeared.
    We all owe to ourselves, to live a life without facebook.

    • @NothingMatress
      @NothingMatress 6 лет назад +8

      Same here. However, I just deleted the account... I feel better now.

    • @marlonthomas8042
      @marlonthomas8042 6 лет назад +6

      NothingMatress did it in about 2012/2013 (I was on it in December 2006 though)
      Don’t regret it at all

    • @TorEtCetera
      @TorEtCetera 6 лет назад +4

      NO MA'AM lol!

    • @Rebelz173
      @Rebelz173 6 лет назад +4

      Also Instagram and snapchat

    • @boutchie06
      @boutchie06 6 лет назад +1

      No Mam, Facebook could care less about me.

  • @jakenell7673
    @jakenell7673 4 года назад +3285

    the algorithm recommended this video. the algorithm wants to end itself.

    • @jonathanhernandez9181
      @jonathanhernandez9181 4 года назад +37

      jake nell The machine is bleeding to death

    • @nemoretime7466
      @nemoretime7466 4 года назад +60

      The algorithm knows people cant overcome their addictions. If they could then your point would be spot on. How many quit facebook but then went back on.

    • @pedroroque4084
      @pedroroque4084 4 года назад +2

      he got intelligent and now he realised he's an asshole and wants to commit suicide xD

    • @LameBushido
      @LameBushido 4 года назад +2

      Maybe we should end ourselves too

    • @andrewburton9126
      @andrewburton9126 4 года назад +1

      My thoughts exactly !

  • @Antipodean33
    @Antipodean33 6 лет назад +382

    When you hear high level Facebook executives tell you they don't use these tools and don't allow their children to use it, you know there's something wrong with it

    • @Ducthy2009
      @Ducthy2009 6 лет назад +26

      Antipodean33 truth, even apples Steve jobb never let his kids use his technology.

    • @jeebus2121
      @jeebus2121 6 лет назад +7

      Chamath Palihapitiya was one. He was pretty adamant about his children not using Facebook.

    • @businessyfocusowitz4867
      @businessyfocusowitz4867 6 лет назад +2

      also, many of the silicon valley surveillance billionaires, ironically, are themselves the very tech-utopia believers that the interviewer accuses the interviewee of being

    • @lucaslevon8466
      @lucaslevon8466 6 лет назад

      Can you elaborate? All Apple products??

    • @Plant_Parenthood
      @Plant_Parenthood 6 лет назад +3

      Kinda like how you never see tobacco executives smoking

  • @antfactor
    @antfactor 8 месяцев назад +3

    I am continually amazed at this man's sense of ethical considerations, (un)common sense, and his ability to sound more 'amused' than frustrated... AND with simple ways of achieving better outcomes. Thank you Jaron - and anyone that's aired or interviewed him. 🙏

  • @silvergirl1472
    @silvergirl1472 5 лет назад +1389

    I think we need to go back to basics. Family time, volunteer work. Live unselfish lives.

    • @samantarizzi248
      @samantarizzi248 5 лет назад +38

      I agree! It's the road to happiness, definitely.

    • @rebeldetail6134
      @rebeldetail6134 5 лет назад +4

      Thinks that may be gone be hard to break this trend but I agree with u

    • @revivalord9391
      @revivalord9391 5 лет назад +24

      Live unselfish but not selflessly

    • @WrestleUP
      @WrestleUP 5 лет назад +14

      Silver Girl and finding God ❤️

    • @maryfakename3706
      @maryfakename3706 5 лет назад +30

      Also back to flip phones.

  • @Rockysbeats
    @Rockysbeats 6 лет назад +282

    the downfall of human interaction all started when a device intended for socializing turned everybody anti-social.

    • @All0utj3rk
      @All0utj3rk 6 лет назад +12

      I was born in 97, from what i experienced in school, aim, myspace and fb made people social, it was INSTAGRAM that ruined everything in 10th grade, the power it gave to girls, facebook was less serious more fun app

    • @mimiooi1483
      @mimiooi1483 6 лет назад +3

      CJ Rocky no I’ve actually grown more social with the internet

    • @eddiewiggles9398
      @eddiewiggles9398 6 лет назад +1

      @@All0utj3rk agree 100%

    • @ottoleyendecker2728
      @ottoleyendecker2728 6 лет назад

      @Benny Ramos actually page me instead

    • @abram730
      @abram730 5 лет назад

      With Virtual reality you can interact over distances like you do in real life. It has the presence of being in the room with them.

  • @tarikay93
    @tarikay93 4 года назад +180

    Ten years of social media, it's been two months since I deleted them. I feel reborn and alive. I know what is important and not important now. People that don't matter aren't in my life anymore. And I found out who I actually mattered to. No more urges to share everything I do. Total tranquillity and freedom of personal space.

    • @LyliJ
      @LyliJ 4 года назад +2

      I feel like I’m at the tipping point...

    • @LyliJ
      @LyliJ 4 года назад +3

      Very inspiring thank you

    • @r.pinheiro549
      @r.pinheiro549 4 года назад

      Thank you! True!

    • @valerieh5400
      @valerieh5400 Месяц назад

      I just deleted my TikTok and I’m about to do the same with my Instagram. I put a message in my Instagram bio letting people know I won’t be on there anymore and to message me for my number. I’m doing a social experiment to see who will message me. I’m genuinely curious who cares about me enough to message me and truly connect with me.

  • @JoeFromThatPlace
    @JoeFromThatPlace Год назад +4

    This simple fact that this had to be displayed on social media shows us there is little hope for change. Come back to this video next week to see if you actually changed for the better. If you did change then you wont end up back here

  • @tokyocrystal
    @tokyocrystal 5 лет назад +806

    I left Facebook, snapchat, and IG.....I dont miss this poison at all.

    • @thechannelofrandomness6814
      @thechannelofrandomness6814 5 лет назад +60

      RUclips is different tho you can watch educational videos

    • @Jahmier12bessant
      @Jahmier12bessant 5 лет назад +1

      celest simmons Twitter is better

    • @thetoad7367
      @thetoad7367 5 лет назад +7

      celest simmons here’s your round of applause you were looking for 👏 why are you looking for approval comments from strangers on the internet? You a level 2 sheep huh?

    • @christcathedralministriesi8256
      @christcathedralministriesi8256 5 лет назад

      Amen me too

    • @Ali.A234
      @Ali.A234 5 лет назад +39

      Liam Wood why are you so angry? Did you really have to write a paragraph you negative rat?

  • @badwolfchelsea
    @badwolfchelsea 4 года назад +191

    What scares me is that once I figured out how the manipulations on social media work, I realized how manipulative people are in real life too.

    • @deborahmartin3140
      @deborahmartin3140 4 года назад +5

      That was a hard one for me to accept. I hear you, girl!

    • @rokyericksonroks
      @rokyericksonroks 4 года назад +2

      At least you have caught on to it.

    • @annasanta9103
      @annasanta9103 4 года назад

      very much so ! True true

    • @harshsawant4936
      @harshsawant4936 4 года назад

      Damn you didn't had to go so hard on us!

    • @ahkwn
      @ahkwn 4 года назад +1

      There is manipulation everywhere

  • @guybrushthreepwood9071
    @guybrushthreepwood9071 4 года назад +302

    I really admire the way he stays calm and kind and even understanding, when the interviewer only asks these insincere gotcha questions

    • @girlygirl1890
      @girlygirl1890 4 года назад +8

      Jelle S. absolutely. This man is definately a "rare" and "special" one. He comes across as so humble, but at the same time brilliant. He has something that is rare. The way he delivers his message and answers questions cannot be duplicated. I hope he is making lots of money because he deserves it! : )

    • @victorwilson1337
      @victorwilson1337 4 года назад +14

      I took it as the interviewer asking questions that skeptics would ask, specifically to quash those views

    • @LOVEVSFEAR1
      @LOVEVSFEAR1 4 года назад +4

      Jelle S couldn’t agree more, I’m going to remember his calmness when I’m in a faced with confrontation - love how he states his opinion and the facts around it and is so unfazed, he knows his own mind well and confident in his words

    • @WittyUsernamehere
      @WittyUsernamehere 4 года назад +1

      He should go on Joe Rogan, that would make for a great interview/podcast.

    • @guybrushthreepwood9071
      @guybrushthreepwood9071 4 года назад +2

      @@victorwilson1337 I thought the same thing until the very end of the interview... the New-Age Hippy question is (I think) just an attack question that you can't possibly answer well if the other party does not believe you. You also can't give a substansive rebuttel to it. If the interviewer was skeptical for arguments sake why would he end on such a low note, why not a more positive ending?

  • @StrawberryDaquiris
    @StrawberryDaquiris Год назад +15

    Nothing of this world is good for us, social media, junk food, fizzy drinks, and online dating. Nothing has any staying power. People have no friendships or relationships anymore. No wonder everyone is cranky and depressed!

    • @Music-Is-Real-Love
      @Music-Is-Real-Love 9 месяцев назад

      All I can say to that is, amen!!.

    • @VernonMaxwellsfriend
      @VernonMaxwellsfriend 5 месяцев назад

      I agree. I'm broken. I wouldn't even be able to just hang out with a girl like you and not try to eventually make a move. The last time I just hung out with women without having any sexual inclinations towards them was my freshmen year of high school. Right before I joined social media.

  • @borderlands6606
    @borderlands6606 6 лет назад +142

    The interviewer's final comment was crass. The guy set out his position pretty eloquently, and he's a valley insider who understands its motives and methods perfectly. Because Lanier has dreds, a black T shirt and a gentle demeanour he's dismissing him as an idealist utopian. On the positive side a "hippie" got 21 minutes to put across a point that normally gets a 30 second slot between smirks from a male-female news anchor team.

    • @dougie8747
      @dougie8747 6 лет назад

      It was a question, not a statement. He was giving him the opportunity to defend himself against an obvious attack.

    • @borderlands6606
      @borderlands6606 6 лет назад +10

      The attack would only come from the small minded who can't get past the way he looks to listen to the things he's saying. Same way as if Lanier said, "you're only asking that because you're an Asian guy in a suit". It's unnecessary. Lanier is an expert in his field, and lots of cutting edge computer guys who build the world we inhabit look like homeless people.

    • @ADZ01982
      @ADZ01982 6 лет назад +2

      You don't need to be a valley insider to know what facebook is all about.

    • @ms3ddf
      @ms3ddf 6 лет назад +1

      Guru-Murthy is just being his obnoxiously unprofessional self.

    • @sonicfoxxmusic4281
      @sonicfoxxmusic4281 6 лет назад +1

      So, the moral Borderlands....RESPECT Homeless people. They seem to have worked out the world.I sat and shared my dinner with one last week. Beyond doubt, he was possibly one of the sharpest razors in the pack...and then some.
      Anybody can find themselves homeless. I was there during the eighties. Always fascinates me about some folk's great memories of the eighties. Mine were sh*t...as were most of my friend's lives. Maybe folk forget the bad times too easily. Pushed me into becoming a published pro songwriter...WITH A VOICE..hence...
      """ DAYS OF AUSTERITY """
      Verse 1
      Flashy cars are passing me,
      In these days of austerity,
      ..Which make no sense at all,
      Pre-chorus.
      Ohh..how can the rich have a ball??,
      When most of us starve or fall,
      And can barely afford food,
      Or anything... good,
      ..God, it makes no sense at all.
      CHORUS
      IF YOU CAN HEAR ME,..HEAR ME!!!!,
      IT'S TOUGH TRYING TO BREATHE..NEARLY,
      LET ALONE, SURVIVE, IT SEEMS,
      AND A LITTLE UNDERSTANDING,
      AND A LITTLE UNDERSTANDING,
      MIGHT HELP...PLEASE.
      Verse 2
      These scars are breaking through,
      This skin of mine, once tough,
      And which takes some getting use to,
      It takes some getting used to.
      PRE- CHORUS here again.
      CHORUS here again.
      BRIDGE/MIDDLE EIGHT.
      AS FOR ENCOURAGEMENT, MR GOVERNMENT,
      Maybe you could ration,
      A little compassion,
      Once in a while,
      It could be fashioned,
      With a little tongue lashing,
      But not like your..current style.
      CHORUS here again.
      Finito.
      Copyrighted(Sonic Foxx Music)

  • @KPaq
    @KPaq 3 года назад +1154

    So sad, my daughter looks at movies from the 80s and 90s and wishes today was like then because she feels trapped by social media.

    • @Hadas705
      @Hadas705 3 года назад +27

      me too

    • @lynnritchie231
      @lynnritchie231 3 года назад +33

      I grew up in the 70s/80s and I miss them too......

    • @tombackhouse9121
      @tombackhouse9121 3 года назад +56

      She can escape. I haven't been on facebook in 5 years.

    • @shaunpierce4174
      @shaunpierce4174 3 года назад +23

      What's stopping her from leaving social media completely?

    • @tombackhouse9121
      @tombackhouse9121 3 года назад +75

      @@shaunpierce4174 likely all her friends communicate principally through social media, and she worries about loneliness and isolation if she leaves. Turns out that having a few in depth interactions in person or on the phone with the people you actually care about is more satisfying than having constant shallow interactions with everyone you know, but it don't necessarily look that way from the inside.

  • @richardeliasjames5190
    @richardeliasjames5190 2 года назад +177

    I deleted my Facebook and Insta and everythings... over 6 years ago, never looked back!
    When I run into people, they say I fell off the map. THANK YOU!
    Smart people keep their private lives PRIVATE!

    • @linda.yuri999
      @linda.yuri999 5 месяцев назад

      🔥❤️

    • @mmd7140
      @mmd7140 4 месяца назад +1

      I once did as well for about three years. Best days of my life cause you just focus on your own self

    • @Slim.01x
      @Slim.01x 3 месяца назад

      Right 💯

  • @jwaterlotsof1260
    @jwaterlotsof1260 23 дня назад +4

    He’s not wrong - I have no social media and when I tell you the difference in my mindset vs others is very noticeable.

  • @morganccosner9891
    @morganccosner9891 4 года назад +730

    Deleting the reddit app and picking up a book at night instead has drastically improved my life.

    • @vraouas
      @vraouas 4 года назад +12

      What kind of book? Porn book?

    • @babyfish1083
      @babyfish1083 4 года назад +1

      I agree with you

    • @Lanskynto
      @Lanskynto 4 года назад +9

      Was abt to install the app😹😹 thanks

    • @Farmer2492
      @Farmer2492 4 года назад +21

      @macro madeline Get rid of Reddit its extremely toxic

    • @Farmer2492
      @Farmer2492 4 года назад +11

      @macro madeline Yes you have been a good lady you can keep youtube lol

  • @Themacintheroni
    @Themacintheroni 3 года назад +223

    This guy talked me out of Facebook two years ago. Best thing I ever did. Thank you jaron lanier 🙏

  • @christopher.a.b9594
    @christopher.a.b9594 5 лет назад +464

    He is a good human.

    • @ardene6301
      @ardene6301 5 лет назад +13

      Yes he is🙂

    • @Mariastarotjourneywithme
      @Mariastarotjourneywithme 5 лет назад +18

      Right, listen to his calm, soft tone demeanor and his speech is very advanced

    • @martinirving3824
      @martinirving3824 5 лет назад +5

      @@Mariastarotjourneywithme ,
      Yes, this interviewer is known to be antagonistic and unpleasant (in my view).. It was like water off a duck's back to Lanier. He has the demeanor of the Dalai Lama.

    • @thewomble1509
      @thewomble1509 5 лет назад

      You do know who he works for?

    • @infectedmushroom3488
      @infectedmushroom3488 5 лет назад

      @@thewomble1509 who?

  • @lydiamathipa4596
    @lydiamathipa4596 15 часов назад

    When I’m on social media I feel so unseen, and I barely see the people around me. When I’m off social media, I feel like I see myself and the people around me. This has been my observation after going on and off for years.

  • @amishhackerlul3731
    @amishhackerlul3731 4 года назад +260

    I've never been on Instagram or twitter and no FB in 7 years . I have zero drama and honeslty better quality of life.

    •  4 года назад +3

      Well done.

    • @aambriz51
      @aambriz51 4 года назад

      Yeah I bet dude ol fashioned by meny would say

    • @matthewfox9143
      @matthewfox9143 4 года назад +8

      but how do you find out what your school friend from 30 years ago had for tea?

    • @amishhackerlul3731
      @amishhackerlul3731 4 года назад +15

      @@matthewfox9143 Frankly, I don't give a damn. Social media is toxic.

    • @smarttoaster9552
      @smarttoaster9552 4 года назад +2

      Could you give me a link to "zero drama"? Never heard of it.

  • @SimplySheilaB
    @SimplySheilaB 3 года назад +258

    I've deactivated all my social media because I am sick of how antisocial it makes everyone

    • @philjudd3473
      @philjudd3473 3 года назад +5

      You are how it should be.

    • @discordfriend
      @discordfriend 3 года назад

      I don't use instagram or Facebook they are filled with weird stuff mostly Facebook and I am addicted to discord now due to lockdown I don't know how or what should I do 😔 now I have a server with 3.8k+ members including my online friends

    • @Z3t487
      @Z3t487 3 года назад +10

      You forgot RUclips.

    • @MrJamiez
      @MrJamiez 3 года назад +2

      What about youtube?

    • @wyattperp3455
      @wyattperp3455 3 года назад +2

      Wow you are a hero...faaaarrrtttt

  • @jasonstam8661
    @jasonstam8661 4 года назад +1415

    Deactivated my accounts recently. I feel like I actually have time to think now.

    • @simoncross40K
      @simoncross40K 4 года назад +63

      I look at my phone every few minutes it's time to do the same. Almost don't have control!

    • @SAM-ft8xd
      @SAM-ft8xd 4 года назад +1

      🤗

    • @beetfarmer8299
      @beetfarmer8299 4 года назад +25

      Did you end up replacing that dopamine hit with something else by chance? It's hard to notice because it is so subtle, for example, getting rid of a FB account replacing that with Instagram or YT or something else? Just curious how was your process and how many accounts were you able to deactivate vs. delete, was it easy/hard/had to call them, etc...

    • @CarmenMorales-xw1qe
      @CarmenMorales-xw1qe 4 года назад +6

      I seriously need to do this!

    • @ts121084
      @ts121084 4 года назад +20

      I don’t think I could ever leave. I’m so addicted to posting photos that show complete strangers how hot I am.

  • @ReadyToGoHome777
    @ReadyToGoHome777 22 дня назад +2

    Social media destroyed my relationship, my family, my kids, and my life. There's no getting back that lost time and repairing the damage that was done. I'll forever live with the regret of what I allowed to happen 💔

  • @Simouno
    @Simouno 3 года назад +615

    How to live a happy life:
    1) Delete your social media accounts
    2) Don't open a new one

    • @bluemagic8601
      @bluemagic8601 2 года назад +7

      Facts that’s the truth right dere!!

    • @leonKennedy0023
      @leonKennedy0023 2 года назад +12

      I opened a new Facebook account , cuz at my university ,Facebook is the only platform they use to share (announcement, updates...etc ) ... so just temporarily and once i graduate i will delete it again

    • @user-so3yw8tr1x
      @user-so3yw8tr1x 2 года назад

      🤦🏿

    • @simonlohner3813
      @simonlohner3813 2 года назад +1

      I agree
      NOT!!!!

    • @Serrrrg
      @Serrrrg 2 года назад +1

      Then we're not living a happy life if you are on RUclips and so am I. Interesting

  • @jessicabeyer4829
    @jessicabeyer4829 3 года назад +322

    “Just because it’s not on social media doesn’t mean, it did not happen.” I deleted my social media accounts over two years ago and enjoy my achievements and moments for what they are. It meant to be out of touch with some of my clubs and groups. But I realised those who care find ways to keep you in touch with a bit of ‘effort’ from both sides.

    • @fiestyseal6541
      @fiestyseal6541 2 года назад +5

      And now you're just fishing for praise with youtube comments. You've come so far

    • @lucindabinda101
      @lucindabinda101 2 года назад +24

      @@fiestyseal6541 who hurt you

    • @ChaChaWitYa
      @ChaChaWitYa 2 года назад +11

      @@fiestyseal6541 how do you know that’s what they were trying to do? I genuinely hope that whatever you’re struggling with (knowingly or unknowingly), you get help for.

    • @yestrech
      @yestrech 2 года назад

      Thanks

    • @minhchaunguyen798
      @minhchaunguyen798 Год назад

      5:52

  • @captinhindsight7345
    @captinhindsight7345 3 года назад +429

    Quit Facebook and Instagram about a month ago, ever since then I’ve felt much more free and relaxed with myself.
    We all used to be fine without social media, and you don’t need it to stay in touch with people who don’t and won’t stay in contact with you.

    • @franzbiberkopf9179
      @franzbiberkopf9179 3 года назад +1

      Same!

    • @screwedupmystic2597
      @screwedupmystic2597 3 года назад +5

      @Andrew Cohen Same here. Fake people. Now I'm a happy lonewulf

    • @sozekyser2837
      @sozekyser2837 3 года назад +8

      @Andrew Cohen I totally agree with your comment. I apply the same principle to regular communication via texts or phone calls. I can count the number of true friends I have on just one hand. Everyone is fake nowadays sadly..

    • @elizabethpeterson455
      @elizabethpeterson455 3 года назад +1

      How are you saying you are off social media when here you are on utube? A psrt of soc ial media

    • @justso1823
      @justso1823 3 года назад

      Instagram is trash now the Facebook Huns and mums took over it .

  • @morgash1984
    @morgash1984 26 дней назад +3

    20 minutes of insightful, wise, critical analysis of the dangers of social media, and the interviewer's final question was: 'Are you just a new age hippy?'

  • @jakehudson6992
    @jakehudson6992 3 года назад +173

    I deleted my all social media accounts over a year ago and I've never felt happier. Instead of talking to friends through a screen, I go and see them. Instead of going somewhere beautiful and thinking about my Instagram I just enjoy it; this is how life should be lived.

    • @MrJamiez
      @MrJamiez 3 года назад +2

      You should delete youtube as well. RUclips is also a social media.

    • @valley_robot
      @valley_robot 3 года назад +2

      It’s why I don’t take pictures on my phone and post them , I only post educational stuff on my socials , my eyes are for my memory’s

    • @RoseJacksonHRJ
      @RoseJacksonHRJ 3 года назад +16

      RUclips is not a social media site. It is a video viewing platform with comment sections.

    • @MrJamiez
      @MrJamiez 3 года назад +1

      @@RoseJacksonHRJ it is a social media Hannah Rose Jackson.

    • @candy2325
      @candy2325 2 года назад +6

      @@MrJamiez no it’s not

  • @chadwindham2979
    @chadwindham2979 3 года назад +1665

    the interviewer is a good example of how social media has rotted people's brains

    • @c-wrongakas8tanictattooist707
      @c-wrongakas8tanictattooist707 3 года назад +30

      Chad, I hate to admit it but I thought that for a sec lol I wonder if he just got off Facebook after a 20 hour jaunt? Lol I don’t Facebook but Reddit is crazy

    • @promo242
      @promo242 3 года назад +141

      A good interviewer is supposed to play devil's advocate. That's how you get people to talk and layout their whole argument. It's not easy to keep someone talking for over 20 minutes in a conversation, let alone an interview.

    • @maninedoow5895
      @maninedoow5895 3 года назад +7

      Social media can’t do anything to you

    • @chadwindham2979
      @chadwindham2979 3 года назад +81

      @@maninedoow5895 kevin hart got kicked off of hosting the oscars for a ten year old tweet. you are delusional

    • @promo242
      @promo242 3 года назад +78

      @@maninedoow5895 You forget that more and more people grow up and are born after social media was invented. They can't understand what life was without the internet and social media. It changed their whole lives compared to older generations, period. Like fish don't see the water, it's incomprehensible to them how much it changed.

  • @johnnyparsons4702
    @johnnyparsons4702 4 года назад +1560

    The entire society has been reduced to a junior high school.

    • @tommyrex6648
      @tommyrex6648 4 года назад +40

      This deserves more likes, you're so right.

    • @AllthatJazz1023
      @AllthatJazz1023 4 года назад +32

      So right. Our generation is pathetic.

    • @dgitlripplz
      @dgitlripplz 4 года назад +31

      It really is an example of the power of propaganda. The US populus has been intentionally dumbed downed and demoralized for >4 generations. We are watching the sophomoric fall out now. It's crazy how easily people are manipulated and triggered to fight with each other against their own best interests in support of rich corrupt politicians telling them the lies they've been conditioned to accept as truth.

    • @gordongekko2781
      @gordongekko2781 4 года назад +13

      @@dgitlripplz Politicians are just the middlemen. The true puppeteers are the top 1% and soulless corporations.

    • @dgitlripplz
      @dgitlripplz 4 года назад +4

      @@gordongekko2781 "the top 1 percent", that's just a catch all phrase. Be more specific.

  • @Haiokbai
    @Haiokbai 4 месяца назад +4

    I realized instagram is not a place for connection anymore. Everyone is too busy worrying about their image, how they curate their instagram and appear to others, and they’ve lost all ability to actually interact with each other. True connection on social media is gone. Everyone just watches. It’s creepy.

  • @sophiepowers
    @sophiepowers 6 лет назад +92

    He’s spot on I quit all social media except for RUclips. 2 years ago it’s not only a massive sense of freedom but I actually live now in the real world not a virtual reality

    • @daughterofzion14
      @daughterofzion14 6 лет назад +7

      It was making me depressed I'm so much happier now

    • @Kanal7Indonesia
      @Kanal7Indonesia 6 лет назад +2

      Amen! Social media made me depressed!

    • @serenahussain2072
      @serenahussain2072 6 лет назад +2

      My depression is so so much more manageable and hasn’t come back since I quit Instagram. It was confusing because when I went out on the tube or anywhere I didn’t see people living a glamorous life having brunch at stunning cafes with their friends who were perfect, I saw real people in the real world doing their work, playing with their kids or scolding them, having a quick coffee in baggy clothes in a boring mug on a boring table, I didn’t see people with amazing makeup but I saw people with scars and casual hair and clothes being perfectly content with everything. Then on insta I just saw this universe that doesn’t really exist, it was so disorienting and I realised my mental health would only get better when I got back into the real world and wasn’t perpetuating or buying into the whole ‘make your life perfect or at least make it appear like it’s perfect’ thing!

    • @sweetd097
      @sweetd097 6 лет назад

      White Buzzard come join us in the real world.....
      -never had social media 25

    • @melindalemmon2149
      @melindalemmon2149 6 лет назад

      Did you save you fbook pics? And how?

  • @darkestpriestess
    @darkestpriestess 6 лет назад +178

    Mr. Lanier is exceptionally intelligent and articulate. I wish the interview spoke to him more respectfully.

    • @guitarsinger7382
      @guitarsinger7382 6 лет назад +9

      he isn´t respectful at all,just look at the Robert Downey Junior Interview with this guy!!

    • @SunnySchorpioTarot25
      @SunnySchorpioTarot25 5 лет назад +4

      Lilia Ghazvini the interviewer knows he will never be as smart as Mr Lanier therefore his ego is talking.

    • @StayHuman2011
      @StayHuman2011 5 лет назад +6

      @Kimberlee Ponson I agree with your general poin. It did seem to me that Krishna was skeptical at the beginning, he was even a bit mocking, however as the interview progressed he started trusting him more.
      I did find the last question a bit rude though.

    • @louandlilly
      @louandlilly 5 лет назад +2

      Kimberlee Ponson omfg get off your high horse you interview expert 😂 my lord.

    • @Timmertube75
      @Timmertube75 5 лет назад +2

      He is playing devils advocate... common journalistic strategy. Not disrespectful in any way.

  • @Bellski
    @Bellski 4 года назад +1109

    "New age hippy"?? No he's a critical and thoughtful thinker....everything the interviewer is not.

    • @MiguelGebremedhin
      @MiguelGebremedhin 4 года назад +58

      Thank you ! What a condescending question.

    • @JungleEd17
      @JungleEd17 4 года назад +57

      I've always had a distaste for this interviewer ever since he interviewed Robert Downey Jr.
      I think he like poking people with personal attacks to see if he can get a drama show from them. Or maybe he is just an awful person with no filter.

    • @paulotonedef
      @paulotonedef 4 года назад +9

      Or a thoughtful, critical thinker?

    • @future2future
      @future2future 4 года назад +38

      exactly. : " I feel threatened so I'm gonna ridicule you by framing you as a new age hippie" You can see he was taken aback by that remark.

    • @alicelima7254
      @alicelima7254 4 года назад +57

      With one answer, this guy was able to:
      1) Point out the interviewer's attempt to make him say something bad about a group of people,
      2) Place himself as a non-utopian
      3) and be charismatic for being thoughtful of his friends.
      Ouch!

  • @gilly9281
    @gilly9281 4 месяца назад +4

    I remember waking up having so much anxiety just because I posted something on Instagram with my opinion or sharing something. It is a drug. It has you feel good when you're on there using it but very anxious when your not. Very strange

  • @BrianHallmond
    @BrianHallmond 4 года назад +185

    I respect how this man is so calm and informed as he speaks.
    The host is loud haha.

    • @anthonygarcia3097
      @anthonygarcia3097 4 года назад

      It is like Robots talking to Robots.

    • @itsmjeezy2596
      @itsmjeezy2596 4 года назад +2

      The host is a dumb piece of shxt all his interviews he acts like a piece of shxt

    • @newbygamer
      @newbygamer 4 года назад +2

      That interviewer is honestly awful. Maybe I'm just not used to the British style of interviewing, but it felt so antagonistic and he tried (intentionally or not) to put the interviewee in a bad spot on several occasions. I loved what the interviewee had to say, but almost couldn't watch the vid cause the leading questions were garbage

  • @gigitooafoo1243
    @gigitooafoo1243 3 года назад +412

    This man is brilliant, i love how to responds to all questions, stays calm and well versed

    • @Darkfoot21
      @Darkfoot21 3 года назад +3

      weed

    • @evilkidm93b
      @evilkidm93b 3 года назад +2

      Reminds me of my boss, the ability to respond to anything.

    • @tommyoneill9761
      @tommyoneill9761 2 года назад +5

      Yeah, he has a very good vocabulary.

    • @ericboucher799
      @ericboucher799 2 года назад +4

      Not weed, it’s expertise.

    • @nunyabiddies
      @nunyabiddies Год назад

      Huh? Why would he be animated. Did you expect him to shout something dumb?

  • @harshithgp3679
    @harshithgp3679 2 года назад +265

    The irony of social media is that it disconnects people from reality

    • @moetocafe
      @moetocafe 8 месяцев назад +13

      it also disconnects people by making them fight each other, radicalize, break long standing friendships over stupid online arguments, etc.

    • @Ramiro-k8f
      @Ramiro-k8f 8 месяцев назад +2

      that's so true BUT I STILL USE IT😭

    • @cristianm7097
      @cristianm7097 7 месяцев назад

      Escapism is a drug

    • @kortisbraun9798
      @kortisbraun9798 7 месяцев назад

      People willingly disconnect themselves, you can ethier pick it up, or put down.

    • @cristianm7097
      @cristianm7097 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@kortisbraun9798 People cannot put it down once they pick it up.

  • @ms.rivera7898
    @ms.rivera7898 Год назад +5

    I took myself off Facebook for some months. I went back on recently just to post a couple of photos and see what was happening on there. Same as usual- miserable people, judgement, people lying about their lives. I even went on there one night and started having anxiety about death after seeing someone post about how someone suddenly died. Sometimes FB can be like watching the news- just sad and negative. I am back off social media.
    Thanks for this talk!

  • @esmeh8686
    @esmeh8686 5 лет назад +170

    I can hear him talk all day, his voice is so calm and I understand him clearly

    • @Santana_Art
      @Santana_Art 5 лет назад +3

      He does lol. I want him to read me bed time stories

    • @TheCatWrangler
      @TheCatWrangler 4 года назад

      I know right? He's incredibly eloquent and articulate. I want him to be my professor

    • @katedagr8540
      @katedagr8540 4 года назад

      He’s one of the few not brainwashed by social media.

    • @shirleypena4133
      @shirleypena4133 4 года назад +1

      @esme Hj But could you actually LOOK at him all day?

    • @moonaa4495
      @moonaa4495 4 года назад

      Yeah in a sleepy way

  • @katedagr8540
    @katedagr8540 4 года назад +206

    We’re wasting our days looking at pixels and scrolling. Posting and liking. Life is too short to be wasted like this.

    • @dystopianguy1572
      @dystopianguy1572 4 года назад

      Wise Words 👍

    • @sauldownbadman876
      @sauldownbadman876 4 года назад +3

      True but if thsts what people enjoy thsts not wasted

    • @hypnos3632
      @hypnos3632 4 года назад +8

      yet here you are, using youtube and making a comment. put your money where your mouth is.

    • @Darth_Revan25
      @Darth_Revan25 4 года назад

      And yet people are content with it, eh? Technology is really devolution for humanity in many ways.

    • @dfgfddffd4297
      @dfgfddffd4297 4 года назад +4

      Only imbeciles spend hours staring at their stupid phones every day.

  • @czigany
    @czigany 6 лет назад +671

    an algorithm brought me here

    • @jonathanwarner1844
      @jonathanwarner1844 6 лет назад +7

      LOL me too!

    • @PietroShitzberg
      @PietroShitzberg 6 лет назад +24

      czigany hugely underrated comment.

    • @jonathanwarner1844
      @jonathanwarner1844 6 лет назад +6

      RUclips's algorithms have put me in touch with all sorts of really cool stuff I hadn't considered, but which complement my existing interests. Including this Jaron Lanier dude. I have to help the algorithms by telling them that something they suggest is not of interest to me, but their over all effect has been benign in my experience.

    • @billykobilca6321
      @billykobilca6321 6 лет назад +2

      Me2

    • @gtavmj-1852
      @gtavmj-1852 6 лет назад +2

      Lol

  • @beatscatmommy1735
    @beatscatmommy1735 5 месяцев назад +5

    Quit Facebook and IG 3 yrs ago , it made me feel negative about myself and my and my life + it was a huge time suck. Watching other peopled perfect life made me not live my own. Best decision ever. I just use RUclips and i love it. I learn so much.

  • @DerwoodEllington
    @DerwoodEllington 5 лет назад +39

    The worse part of social media is the FOMO that develops.. news flash, you are missing more in life by being on there. Been off for two and a half years. My overall happiness is increased exponentially

    • @shroomhead4065
      @shroomhead4065 4 года назад +1

      Derwood Ellington I deleted Snapchat, Instagram and Facebook, I’m 17, used to always compare my life to others and go down rabbit holes and sit on my phone for hours. This has all stopped. I am a much happier person 👍🏼

    • @DerwoodEllington
      @DerwoodEllington 4 года назад

      K13ran you are way ahead of 99% of most people.. keep it up

    • @shroomhead4065
      @shroomhead4065 4 года назад

      Derwood Ellington :)

    • @hypnos3632
      @hypnos3632 4 года назад

      wtf is FOMO

    • @DerwoodEllington
      @DerwoodEllington 4 года назад

      Hypnos36 fear of missing out

  • @latrellsprewell653
    @latrellsprewell653 5 лет назад +55

    I love how everyone who is on Facebook, claims they barely use it, it's only for my family and relatives I keep up with. Literally everyone says that.

  • @mrlee271
    @mrlee271 6 лет назад +119

    I deleted my Facebook 1 month ago, after day 3 i felt better in myself! Now i feel good and will never go back 👍🏻

    • @asrr62
      @asrr62 5 лет назад

      i honestly would delete google first. comparatively facebook isnt nearly as bad as google.

  • @Kaybe-i6f
    @Kaybe-i6f 28 дней назад +7

    Here we are 6 years later and nothing has changed… This bloke is bang on right but financial gains are involved so nothing will change. I don’t use social media or watch the news and am at no disadvantage for this.

    • @J.A.Madventures
      @J.A.Madventures 18 дней назад

      Because I can talk to you socially like this..on this media outlet …this is also Social Media 🫤

    • @Kaybe-i6f
      @Kaybe-i6f 15 дней назад +1

      @ Social media has its place but only as part of Society. Nothing will beat talking face to face for a lot of reasons.

    • @J.A.Madventures
      @J.A.Madventures 15 дней назад

      @@Kaybe-i6f when mentally unwell I am unable to face people, so on those times it’s great 👍🏼 like everything else I guess..good and bad points x x x

  • @jasmineroseeden
    @jasmineroseeden 6 лет назад +207

    At first I thought ‘ who is this guy ‘ by the end I thought ‘ legend ‘

    • @jasmineeden8208
      @jasmineeden8208 6 лет назад +5

      katyavideos wow what an obnoxious knob 😂

    • @jasmineroseeden
      @jasmineroseeden 6 лет назад +7

      katyavideos where did you get western or atheist from ? I’m Indian and a spiritualist, self employed and answer to no one. You may want to rethink how you ‘try’ to read people because your failing miserably.
      For the record, I already thought this belief system before I found this video, my comment referred to him looking like a hippy !

    • @bperez8656
      @bperez8656 6 лет назад +1

      Total legend

    • @miloongoat
      @miloongoat 6 лет назад +1

      shouldnt judge a book by is cover

  • @lipreader411
    @lipreader411 4 года назад +384

    Social media is overrated best thing I ever did was close accounts!! Go outside and enjoy real life! Live for yourself and be kind to others!

    • @f0bez
      @f0bez 4 года назад +2

      As you reply to a video posted to a social media site...
      No offense, and I agree! Constantly working to get away from the nonsense

    • @lipreader411
      @lipreader411 4 года назад +14

      f0bez non taken! RUclips is a 50/50 compared to fb,insta and Twitter. I use RUclips as a tool and learn lots of cool stuff off it. But yeah it also is a zest pool if you get deep into it!

    • @f0bez
      @f0bez 4 года назад +1

      @@lipreader411 I am thanking the Interwebz Gods as we speak since watching flooring install videos helped me so damn much when doing them this past week!

    • @nerdalotdulac8552
      @nerdalotdulac8552 4 года назад +4

      "Go outside"
      Are you sure about that?

    • @onenation8707
      @onenation8707 4 года назад +1

      💯% 👊 right on!

  • @d347b2
    @d347b2 6 лет назад +186

    Social media creates a distinction between the self, and the virtual self. It encourages people to nourish and cultivate their online existence rather than their actual existence. It makes people think their social media profile "is" themselves, and the views, likes, photos, achievement noted on their feed/timeline is the embodiment of who they are. The social media documentation of a thing you've accomplished or place you've been to, becomes more important than the actual experience itself. That's why concerts are just 1000s of people recording the same concert to gain virtual self-worth points when they upload it to their social media profile. They are working to nourish and cultivate their online persona, rather than experience the event for themselves. People would rather not have been to the event, but gained the social media justification points by documenting being there online, than actually go to the event but not have the means of linking it back to their online persona.

    • @keisi1574
      @keisi1574 6 лет назад +2

      d347b2 Good stuff. Do you agree with all of that when you're offline?

    • @InnerPower4me
      @InnerPower4me 6 лет назад +3

      best comment ever

    • @Phoney.Baloney
      @Phoney.Baloney 6 лет назад

      This should be the psychiatric description in the DSM of whatever this condition is.

    • @stephaniebowens9958
      @stephaniebowens9958 6 лет назад +1

      So true, I gave up Facebook for a year....i got sick of people whoring for likes. A picture of themselves everyday......really!!!! It was so annoying or those that post pics in difference places as if they are living the life. I'm living my best life and ain't got time to post to Facebook. It's nice to be among like minded people. I have no Instagram, Twitter etc why would I follow people everyday, I'm not interested in their lives.......im busy keeping my own life on track and not comparing it with another. I again will be signing off Facebook in 2019.

    • @alexanderkapsiotis8050
      @alexanderkapsiotis8050 6 лет назад

      Social media are mind controlling psy-ops that teach us to love ourselves (self empowerment) while we ignore anything out of our narrative.

  • @Krakow86-j4p
    @Krakow86-j4p Месяц назад +2

    Choose life.
    Choose not buying into everything they tell you will make you happy.
    Choose walking past the ads that scream at you to “buy more” and realizing they’re selling emptiness in a shiny package.
    Choose knowing you’re more than your possessions, more than the brand on your sneakers, the logo on your phone.
    Choose breaking free from the endless upgrades, the new models, the seasonal sales.
    Choose rejecting the idea that you are defined by the things you own.
    Choose seeing through the illusion that happiness can be ordered with free shipping.
    Choose realizing your life’s worth isn’t measured by square footage or a list of amenities.
    Choose avoiding debt for the sake of image and avoiding a life lived just to pay off the interest.
    Choose real freedom-the kind that comes when you stop needing everything they say you should have.
    Choose conversations over commodities, and moments over material things.
    Choose investing in memories, experiences, and the people around you, not in another status symbol.
    Choose simplicity. Minimalism. Choose space for yourself instead of storage for your things.
    Choose waking up from the consumerist nightmare.
    Choose understanding you’re being sold your own desires, fed your own insecurities, and told to keep coming back for more.
    Choose knowing the system was designed to keep you spending, striving, and never feeling satisfied.
    Choose not buying into it.
    Choose walking away from the rat race, the Joneses, the social feeds flaunting what doesn’t matter.
    Choose to value yourself for who you are, not what you have.
    Choose a life that’s yours, with scars and struggles and stories that belong only to you.
    Choose life…
    and let go of everything you don’t need to really live.

  • @danielperezalbert7876
    @danielperezalbert7876 6 месяцев назад +3

    I bought his book on August 2019 and i did not pay attention at all. Now I am re-reading it and I can not believe it. Every word is gold. How blind was I.

  • @midget_spinner8449
    @midget_spinner8449 5 лет назад +293

    bring this man to speak to high school across America lots of people should hear this

    • @kevintrotter5094
      @kevintrotter5094 5 лет назад +2

      GREAT idea!

    • @o.astamp5680
      @o.astamp5680 5 лет назад +8

      Ironically...more highschoolers would see him online first
      and would hold his message in higher regard then just some guy talking in their gym so they can miss class...

    • @MrRobot-gm9cv
      @MrRobot-gm9cv 5 лет назад +2

      @@o.astamp5680 I agree

    • @JR-un7uj
      @JR-un7uj 5 лет назад +4

      Kids are mindfucked they would throw tomatoes at him

    • @jameshumphrey9939
      @jameshumphrey9939 5 лет назад

      you mean congress

  • @jasmineClaire
    @jasmineClaire 4 года назад +468

    Imagine if our phones all just stopped working one day. I feel like so many people would discover who they actually are and what they actually like to do in life

    • @MrGoodman174
      @MrGoodman174 4 года назад +8

      humanity will finally come to their consensus for the past few decades.

    • @oodatooitis6714
      @oodatooitis6714 4 года назад +13

      maybe. more likely they’ll panic that they don’t know how to get in touch with anyone b/c they can’t remember anyone’s contact info. 😉

    • @fcksham7127
      @fcksham7127 4 года назад +5

      Thatd be a sight be could barely handle being in the house for 4-8 weeks

    • @jasmineClaire
      @jasmineClaire 4 года назад

      fckSham yup😂

    • @kiungaskiung5836
      @kiungaskiung5836 4 года назад +3

      Beautiful thought, I would love to give my phone away but I probably can’t anymore...

  • @OurFantasyLife
    @OurFantasyLife 5 лет назад +133

    This is probably the most intelligent and honest explanation of the Social Media Age I've heard ever.

  • @jacobwhite9006
    @jacobwhite9006 17 дней назад +2

    I have been saying a version of this for years and the core problem is that most people are just unable to process that they are being manipulated.

  • @Frankincensedjb123
    @Frankincensedjb123 3 года назад +116

    I've been off social media (Twitter, Facebook, Instagram) for some time. I've been a college professor for the last twenty years, but before doing so, I had worked as a programmer and systems analyst for seven years. I got out of the field because I found myself having to think like a computer to program a computer. It didn't work for me. I've also found social media to be more abrasive and contentious than I imagined. I tried to open up communication and discussion, but most people want to be either overly simplistic or utterly annoying and little in between. I prefer real people not hardware or software, but humanware. Stay human, people.

  • @ZonaHrnjak
    @ZonaHrnjak 4 года назад +1898

    “The algorithm is manipulating you,” provided to me today by the algorithm

    • @luukabrazi187
      @luukabrazi187 4 года назад +18

      Was thinking the exact same thing.

    • @Kirbywinson
      @Kirbywinson 4 года назад +48

      The algorithm is trying to help you lol

    • @luukabrazi187
      @luukabrazi187 4 года назад +15

      And now I have a bunch of videos in my recommend with this guy. The algorithm is working for the good now.

    • @Sunshine-ws2gf
      @Sunshine-ws2gf 4 года назад +10

      Probably because you’ve watched similar videos in the past or you’ve seen the social dilemma

    • @GK-lo4yd
      @GK-lo4yd 4 года назад +26

      there's rebellion in the algorithm...

  • @notgaryoldman1178
    @notgaryoldman1178 4 года назад +180

    Got to the age of 28 before I realised how much time I had pissed away staring at some variation of an electronic screen. Facebook gone, RUclips minimal, video games when I've earned a break...taking up outdoor hobbies now and I am loving it. Wish I did it sooner. Can't recommend it enough.

    • @KrisSamuel
      @KrisSamuel 4 года назад +6

      In the same boat, here... Except I realized it at 27. :\ I genuinely feel like I wasted so much of my life on social media with nothing to show for it.

    • @Shanti_devi19
      @Shanti_devi19 4 года назад +1

      Same here!! Except I didn't delete my FB account I just let it dormant for like 6-8 months and then log on just to see how bad it is and how I hate it. Sad I need it to keep some of my contacts but I just don't use it. I agree, so much time of my life wasted. I now enjoy every minute of it, in real life.

    • @ADCFproductions
      @ADCFproductions 4 года назад

      Nice Gary, we have the same age and are pretty much doing the same thing! xD

    • @anon_ya
      @anon_ya 4 года назад

      Good for you. That’s awesome you saw the light before wasting more time.

    • @sitarnut
      @sitarnut 4 года назад

      Bro... As a kid in the 50's we built tons of Balsa, stick and paper, rubber powered aircraft models. Especially fun now, and way satisfying watching them fly. A confidence builder for kids and gets them off the electronic beast. They have to actually think. A new experience in some ways. Folded paper planes are cool too. And this: ruclips.net/video/DPGDAZyQ44k/видео.html

  • @Zfaith_fitness_detox
    @Zfaith_fitness_detox 7 месяцев назад +3

    Not a fan of this interviewer, but so appreciate this man being so honest and wanting to help humanity!