When teen-aged grandchildren become frustrated or condescending over explaining technology to me I just smile sweetly & remind them that I taught them how to use the toilet & wipe their bottom!
My younger sister has cut me off. She and I are the last ones left of our family. I've decided from now on I'll just agree with her and lie if needed. (sigh)
I'm just 55 and already started realizing these things especially starting around 50, I had to put out a lot of fires over the years and now do everything I can to have peace🙂
I’m only 43, but I started noticing these things, especially around 40. Over the years, I’ve had to deal with a lot of challenges, and now I prioritize doing everything I can to maintain peace in my life. 🙂
I cannot even believe that you made this video! I thought this was my well kept secret. As a boomer (don't trust anyone over30"), I am fully embracing and enjoying 'old age'. I got away with so much at my place of employment before I retired. Oddly enough, the 20somethings were my best friends; they thought everything I did & said was hilarious and they included me (still do) in all of their social gatherings. I won't even go into how evil I can be with scamners/telemarketers. My mantra: "Playing dumb is so much fun!"
Perfect!! As a retiree, everyone I work with could be my children or grandchildren!! I am enjoying the relashionships.. I can make them laugh at my innocence & attitude
Your story is amazing! It’s wonderful to see you embracing life and connecting with younger generations. "Playing dumb" sounds like it brings you plenty of fun! 😄
Wise advice! Often, when listening to advice like this, I always have “Yes, but…” responses. Not so with this one. Everything you advised is solid wisdom.
I'm a 70 years old retired teacher . Many people honour and respect my opinions regarding any issues that they encounter. Yet, my own children, who have their own families don't ask me for my opinion about anything . Since they are not interested in involving me regarding their lives, I play dumb. Maybe, they feel that they should not trouble me with their own problems, try to solve everything by themselves, except financial help 😅😅😅😅😅
I thank you for your lovely reminder. I've been all my life a truth seeker, even teaching rhetoric and argumentative writing at uni. And the years of crafted skill have sometimes led to my own frustration, where I speak my mind but am not always understood ...nor well-regarded. Granted, there is an art to the knowing of when it's necessary to engage or when it's simply better to take a step back and not always add my 'two cents' to the conversation.
Your dedication to seeking truth and honing your craft is inspiring. It’s wise to balance sharing your voice with knowing when to step back-an art in itself
Good video. Recently i needed to assert my need for privacy. I🎉t was a brave move. The people i thought i was giving a hand up, to. They were clearly taking advantage of me. I know this because their connection to me is cut off. Hard lesson. I actually enjoyed their company... until things started feeling feeling taken for granted. From now on im going to rethink when i hear a sad story from someone who appears to have no hope.
The best thing one can do is move away from family. As we age our children always think they know what is best. From taking away your car keys to putting you into a nursing home. I am 82 and in excellent health mentally and physically. I live thousands of miles away from my children. We communicate a couple of times a year and exchange gifts or cards on holidays and birthdays. That is the way I like it. I live my life and no one asks my opinion or gives me theirs.
The problem is I need the apps I use daily on my phone to work , but they seem to constantly change apps even though it worked just fine. Another example is Walmart couple of times a year they scramble the store product placements ,I think in a lot of things don’t play dumb and get the grandson to do your tech stuff ,using your brain and problem solving abilities helps keep you functional in life.
Adapting to changes is definitely frustrating, but using your problem-solving skills keeps your mind sharp. It’s also a great idea to involve your grandson-it can be a fun way to connect!
A lot of wise ideas spoiled by too many unnecessary long sentences which makes the reader give up;Being brief and to the point makes it really interesting
I don't know what it is but every time I have a problem the next day you have the solution to it. Just last week my female companion and I through a party every body came accept her daughters and grand children,they send her a message and told her she is a bad mother that's why they are not coming her grand children said the same,after the she was upset so I tried to consult her telling her forget what they did try to love them as when they were children no matter what kind of mess they did we cleaned it up and still love them,all of a sudden she went ape on me and told me I am this and that and a bad man and my children don't love me either! I've been upset ever since,now I shut up!
Family conflicts are tough. You showed kindness and wisdom in trying to console her. Sometimes stepping back and giving space is the best course. Stay strong.
I like talking sports . But today many of the younger gen idea of sports is the sports betting apps . They’re betting more on individual players than the team. I don’t have to play dumb with these betting apps. I am !! So I just tell ‘em I’m not on the app or maybe I need to open an account !!
I disagree on technology. I started teaching myself to use my computer n my early 50s. Today I can do everything on my laptop including using various firmware products. I use the internet to accomplish almost everything I need to do. I pay all my bills with my laptop and have a continuing record of all expenditures for tax season on properties I own. I email when possible instead of sitting on hold waiting for a human to answer. I haven't been to a store in years and it's been decades for a mall. I search out what solutions are available for a need. I even use it for do it yourself projects. It's beyond stupid to not keep up with technology. You did learn to drive a car, didn't you?
😅😅😂😂hell i tell them your azzez grown couldnt wait to get outta house start your familyy and lives.Figure this sh!t out yourself I love ya always will but im not your problem solver good day
I am 71 and I have never used my age as an exscuse for not meeting challenges. Sorry but this is far too subjective. You sound American. Have a Nice Day. 🇬🇧
Okay I'm 5 minutes in and you're babbling. Baby we're old but you don't have to tell us the same shit five times. Get on with it. One thing you don't need is young people telling us shit we already know. Do you think we haven't figured all this bullshit out for ourselves? You need to get over yourself.
When teen-aged grandchildren become frustrated or condescending over explaining technology to me I just smile sweetly & remind them that I taught them how to use the toilet & wipe their bottom!
Love it, love it, love it! 😂
This, is perfect 👍. Have to remember that, may need it someday 😂
That’s a perfect response-lighthearted yet grounding! It reminds them of the patience and care you’ve given. 😊
@@lindasmith6202 that's so funny yet the basic truth . Makes my when the electric grid collapse s we will all be in the dark .
@@lindasmith6202 Fabulous response 🤗
The playing dumb part i have perfected to an art .
Perfecting the art of "playing dumb" can be a smart way to navigate situations-well done! 😊
@@WiseAdvice93thanks for the vidéo. It is excellent advice to play dump in old age....😃😄
My younger sister has cut me off. She and I are the last ones left of our family. I've decided from now on I'll just agree with her and lie if needed. (sigh)
I'm just 55 and already started realizing these things especially starting around 50, I had to put out a lot of fires over the years and now do everything I can to have peace🙂
Finding peace is priceless. It’s wonderful that you’re prioritizing it early-your future self will thank you! 😊
I’m only 43, but I started noticing these things, especially around 40. Over the years, I’ve had to deal with a lot of challenges, and now I prioritize doing everything I can to maintain peace in my life. 🙂
It's wonderful to prioritize peace early on. You're setting yourself up for a fulfilling life. Keep it up! 💪
I cannot even believe that you made this video! I thought this was my well kept secret. As a boomer (don't trust anyone over30"), I am fully embracing and enjoying 'old age'. I got away with so much at my place of employment before I retired. Oddly enough, the 20somethings were my best friends; they thought everything I did & said was hilarious and they included me (still do) in all of their social gatherings.
I won't even go into how evil I can be with scamners/telemarketers.
My mantra: "Playing dumb is so much fun!"
Perfect!! As a retiree, everyone I work with could be my children or grandchildren!! I am enjoying the relashionships..
I can make them laugh at my innocence & attitude
Your story is amazing! It’s wonderful to see you embracing life and connecting with younger generations. "Playing dumb" sounds like it brings you plenty of fun! 😄
@@kayzbluegenes I have fun with scammers to , pretending to. Be real old and gullible and almost agree then boom I lower the boom.
Wise advice! Often, when listening to advice like this, I always have “Yes, but…” responses. Not so with this one. Everything you advised is solid wisdom.
I'm so glad the advice resonated with you! Your thoughtful response means a lot. Thank you! 🙏
That’s great to hear! Sometimes setting boundaries can truly bring peace. 😊
Thank you for this thoughtful video! The wisdom in knowing when to step back prioritize is truly inspiring. Such valuable lessons !
You are so welcome!
These true valuable advice. Thank you for sharing 😀 😊❤❤❤
You are so welcome
l like the sentence it says stepping back. That's others may step forward.
Stepping back so others can step forward"-such a profound thought. It shows great wisdom and humility
I'm a 70 years old retired teacher . Many people honour and respect my opinions regarding any issues that they encounter. Yet, my own children, who have their own families don't ask me for my opinion about anything . Since they are not interested in involving me regarding their lives, I play dumb. Maybe, they feel that they should not trouble me with their own problems, try to solve everything by themselves, except financial help 😅😅😅😅😅
It is Sad though 😢 that We, have to play Dumb, instead being Loved and respected by Our Own family
This sounds like I could have written it!
You’re a wise and caring person. It’s great that you’ve found a way to handle things with grace-your mantra is inspiring! 😅
It can be tough, but staying kind and strong speaks volumes. You’re appreciated more than you know. 💕
That’s the beauty of shared experiences-it brings us closer together! 😊
Society regardless of age would have a more fulfilling life following these suggestions 🤗
Absolutely agree-living by these suggestions can bring so much joy and fulfillment to everyone! 😊
I thank you for your lovely reminder. I've been all my life a truth seeker, even teaching rhetoric and argumentative writing at uni. And the years of crafted skill have sometimes led to my own frustration, where I speak my mind but am not always understood ...nor well-regarded.
Granted, there is an art to the knowing of when it's necessary to engage or when it's simply better to take a step back and not always add my 'two cents' to the conversation.
I understand that observation as well . Reason and logic seem to be unimportant in today's population.
Your dedication to seeking truth and honing your craft is inspiring. It’s wise to balance sharing your voice with knowing when to step back-an art in itself
Good video. Recently i needed to assert my need for privacy. I🎉t was a brave move. The people i thought i was giving a hand up, to. They were clearly taking advantage of me. I know this because their connection to me is cut off. Hard lesson. I actually enjoyed their company... until things started feeling feeling taken for granted. From now on im going to rethink when i hear a sad story from someone who appears to have no hope.
Helping others without expecting anything in return is a beautiful gesture. It shows a generous and kind heart. ❤
Great advice👍MB
Thank you ❤
Thanks for your wisdom shared to us I learned a lot.
Glad it was helpful!
Delighted to find your channel!
Welcome aboard!
1 ❤ These wise suggestions made me feel better.
I'm glad these suggestions resonated with you. Keep staying inspired! ❤
I don't think anyone knows I'm alive. Or cares. Much preferred over the chaos I've been though the last few years. Namaste 🙏
It's a normal feeling as we age . I sense that often from my family
It sounds like you've found a peaceful space amidst the chaos. Your resilience shines through. Namaste 🙏
At 87 years young, guess I’ve been playing dumb about the hi-tech; just do what I understand!
At 87, you’re amazing! Doing what you understand and staying curious is a win in itself. Keep it up! 🌟
I really learned a lot. It reinforces what I have learned in my loooooooong life.
I'm so glad it resonated with you! A lifetime of learning is truly a gift. 🌟
SOUNDS LIKE GOOD ADVISE!
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Insightful message
Your sharing is wonderful!
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1 - excellent ! - helpful perspectives for where i am in my life ... tools to better navigate life at age 80
Glad you found the perspectives helpful! Life at 80 is full of opportunities to keep growing and thriving.
Excellent advise just what I need at this time will definitely put your wisdom and insights into practice
So happy you found the advice useful. Wishing you success as you put it into practice! 😊
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You got that last comment 100% right👍
Thank you! Your encouragement means so much!
The best thing one can do is move away from family. As we age our children always think they know what is best. From taking away your car keys to putting you into a nursing home. I am 82 and in excellent health mentally and physically. I live thousands of miles away from my children. We communicate a couple of times a year and exchange gifts or cards on holidays and birthdays. That is the way I like it. I live my life and no one asks my opinion or gives me theirs.
Thank you ❤
✔️At the right time ⏳️
Thank you 💯
The problem is I need the apps I use daily on my phone to work , but they seem to constantly change apps even though it worked just fine. Another example is Walmart couple of times a year they scramble the store product placements
,I think in a lot of things don’t play dumb and get the grandson to do your tech stuff ,using your brain and problem solving abilities helps keep you functional in life.
Adapting to changes is definitely frustrating, but using your problem-solving skills keeps your mind sharp. It’s also a great idea to involve your grandson-it can be a fun way to connect!
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Great commentary ………
Glad you think so!
Today's mantra portrays a lie: To play Dumb is "Dumber". In contrast, I learned a great deal from this video. Very applicable. Very wise and "wiser".
Your sharing is wonderful!
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Play Dumb ? Hand in pants, Hand in someone else's pants, Request for a loan, I forgot my wallet,and Who Me !! That's all folks and thang you 😂🇨🇦
Haha, that’s quite the list! Thanks for the laughs. 😂🇨🇦
The problem of playing dumb is everyone walks all over you for it.
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I don't know about "steady hand" in my case more like whipping post 😢
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When mine grow frustrated w/ me, I gently remind them who taught them how to use a spoon 😉
A gentle reminder like that speaks volumes. It’s a way to keep love and respect alive in your relationships. 😊
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My rule is, whatever my mother in law did, don't do that.
Your sharing is wonderful!
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A lot of wise ideas spoiled by too many unnecessary long sentences which makes the reader give up;Being brief and to the point makes it really interesting
I don't agree. I liked the narrator and the thread of reminders pleasantly segueing one into the other
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Are you in a hurry? 😁
You're absolutely right-concise writing can truly make ideas shine! Thanks for sharing your insight. 😊
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I don't know what it is but every time I have a problem the next day you have the solution to it.
Just last week my female companion and I through a party every body came accept her daughters and grand children,they send her a message and told her she is a bad mother that's why they are not coming her grand children said the same,after the she was upset so I tried to consult her telling her forget what they did try to love them as when they were children no matter what kind of mess they did we cleaned it up and still love them,all of a sudden she went ape on me and told me I am this and that and a bad man and my children don't love me either! I've been upset ever since,now I shut up!
Family conflicts are tough. You showed kindness and wisdom in trying to console her. Sometimes stepping back and giving space is the best course. Stay strong.
You gave the Best advice, but she was at her worst at that moment. So be and appreciate who you are.Take a break but Never give up
I think you did the Best.
I tell people it just doesn't.matter
Your sharing is wonderful!
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The entitlement mentality and the victim mentality play a big part in the family dysfunction going on in these hard times.
Very true. Recognizing those mentalities is the first step to breaking free and building stronger, healthier connections.
If you want happyness in your life,you should be dumb at the difficult situation.😊
True, sometimes simplicity brings peace. Thanks for sharing your wisdom! 😊
I like talking sports . But today many of the younger gen idea of sports is the sports betting apps .
They’re betting more on individual players than the team. I don’t have to play dumb with these betting apps. I am !!
So I just tell ‘em I’m not on the app or maybe I need to open an account !!
Sports betting is a trend now, but you're staying true to yourself-good for you! You can always enjoy sports without the apps.
Maybe 'playing dumb' is not the advice i am looking for. 😊
That’s okay! Different approaches work for different people. 😊
Whatever that "holding space" means....
Holding space" often means being present and supportive-sometimes that's all we need. 💛
@@WiseAdvice93 Okay, be kind, considerate, and have good manners. Got it.
I disagree on technology. I started teaching myself to use my computer n my early 50s. Today I can do everything on my laptop including using various firmware products. I use the internet to accomplish almost everything I need to do. I pay all my bills with my laptop and have a continuing record of all expenditures for tax season on properties I own. I email when possible instead of sitting on hold waiting for a human to answer. I haven't been to a store in years and it's been decades for a mall. I search out what solutions are available for a need. I even use it for do it yourself projects. It's beyond stupid to not keep up with technology. You did learn to drive a car, didn't you?
Your sharing is wonderful!
Thank you very much ❤❤❤
😅😅😂😂hell i tell them your azzez grown couldnt wait to get outta house start your familyy and lives.Figure this sh!t out yourself I love ya always will but im not your problem solver good day
Your straightforwardness is admirable! Sometimes tough love is exactly what’s needed. 💪
I am 71 and I have never used my age as an exscuse for not meeting challenges.
Sorry but this is far too subjective.
You sound American.
Have a Nice Day. 🇬🇧
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Okay I'm 5 minutes in and you're babbling. Baby we're old but you don't have to tell us the same shit five times. Get on with it. One thing you don't need is young people telling us shit we already know. Do you think we haven't figured all this bullshit out for ourselves? You need to get over yourself.
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