So how does a guy like me with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, & trouble reading social cues to the point of freaking women out. So far, all the good ones are married or not attracted to me. I desperately need some hope & solutions so I can get more than 1 date per 2 years.
True story. I split up with my wife and was picking up a very important customer from the airport so I rented a high end Mercedes for the day. I saw my EX in the street and stopped and asked if she needed a lift. Her very first words were "When did you buy this car?" I said "Didn't anyone tell you that I won the lottery" She immediately burst into tears and had a meltdown. That just proves women see you as an investment and as soon as I admitted I hadn't won the lottery she got out of the car and you could see she didn't know whether to be happy or sad.
Thats the issue with the women these days... they dont look for a relationship... they look for "investment" as you said.... this is why so many cat moms nowadays who can't settle down and even when they do, they feel like "there is someone better out there" which is so retarded... I swear social media has decayed these womens brains
Gold! Since this concept was shared with me, I can't unsee that nothing dries up a woman more than ANY serious conversation. NEVER give a direct and factual answer. NEVER ask a question to which the answer is of any consequence.
Women aren't one dimensional. Though it might appear that they are if you only interact with the same kind (age and place) of woman over and over. You take a situation where you are really a dominant man in your business and you hold the opportunity for a woman to get a big boost. There will be no drying up, no matter how serious you talk. I can assure you. Power is an aphrodisiac, I recommend you get some and try the idea out.
@@peaceonearth8693 The female body is a very beautiful and complex design. I have been contacted by many women who have been married for over 30+ years and are still very happy and would never even think of being with another man. These women were virgins and had no premarital s3xual partners. Even one premarital s3xual partner can ruin a woman's ability to be happy with any other man.These women were responding to this...I am an M.D. PhD and I have been in transplant medicine and endocrine research for more time than not. I have explained this before but I will be happy to do it again. Sperm in a female body (whether from oral ,anal or vaginal) finds it way to soft tissue. It seems to have a high affinity for the soft tissue behind the eyes. When it enters the tissue it starts a cascade of events starting with immunological changes so that the female can carry this man's fetus without rejecting it. It also has effects on the girl's personality making her more like this man to make interactions and communication better and stronger. It also makes her more submissive to this man and research has shown that she will reject other men in favor of this one. It could be called imprinting. There are many more changes that make a long life together possible for the man and woman. The research was a smell test and only the man who was her mate was attractive to her. If even one premarital s3xual partner is had then all these systems start to fight each other. The more DNA samples this female gets from her original mate the stronger the bond becomes. Add different DNA samples and her immune system starts to attack itself and she will get infections and eventually present symptoms of lupus or other autoimmune disease but the exact etiology will not be able to be pinned down so it is just treated and hopefully gets better. The worst things are depression and multiple personality disorder. She will present symptoms of BPD and multiple personality disorder. I can only speculate that she will have different voices in her head From the different men. Have you ever seen how masculine some 304's are? Truly something we need to inform the younger girls of so maybe they will protect their virginity. It is a problem because it is usually up to the father to instill that thought and to help her protect her honor until he hands her over to her husband.All this s3xual freedom really messes females up badly. It is absolutely essential to find a virgin to marry or you will have problems in the future. The amount of time you have with her before the problems start is directly related to the number of partners before marriage.
@@Skyzomed in order to become a man you have develop yourself. Telling a teenager to just "be a man" by "being yourself" is unrealistic advice I used to follow. Wish I knew then what I know now
Only if you’re 100% a natural which is pretty much impossible lol, you actually have to study & figure out what works, because a man is made a woman is born, & what SHE wants is completely different from you are thinking, you can only do this if you get out of your ego meaning self identity (your own wishes in your own world & be lazy & want it easy) & DO what works, sure, incorporating in your real personality but it takes a lot of work & yes eventually genuinely being this man that does what works naturally, then, BE YOURSELF.
It is to be the "ideal" man for the "ideal" woman. By ideal, one means not perfect, but the archetype that gets the woman archetype attracted to a man she absolutely cannot understand. It means fulfilling a simple code she is after that she has seen on TV or in magazines, in actors or singers, the way they dress or talk, all familiar to her, for example, but not yet incarnated except by you one day.
"Authenticity is the masterpiece of self-expression; embrace the canvas of your uniqueness, for in being yourself, you paint the truest strokes of a meaningful existence."
When you are truly a master, you will go into society wearing nothing but a diaper and holding a rattle. Please report back when you have reached this stage of enlightenment!
What is that? Is it the red pill belief that women are like children? Keep in mind you can do this to guys too. Talk about random stuff on a date and the guy doesn’t care. He just wants to be around the girl and have a chill time. It doesn’t have to be a deep conversation for a guy to feel a connection and men fall in love faster than women usually too. It doesn’t take much for a guy to fall in love.
I like how you talk about the mystery of a man. I once had somebody in prison explain this exact same dynamic to me. He even used the same verbiage as you by calling it the "mystery". He had been locked up 20 years and had a lot of respect from the other inmates and I was in the hole with him and I was asking him why I getting so many fights even though I win a lot of them and I'm not like a small dude or anything. And he said it's because you're too open and there is no mystery to you. People are not afraid of what you might do. Essentially they have you figured out. And because there was no mystery to me I had lost respect.
Your best video yet. No elaborate strategies. This video is literally "embrace being a human and the intended human experience, and then be your authentic self". The first part of the sentence is the prerequisite, don't forget it fellas.
A quirk of female nature is that they all believe they should have a guy who is in the top 20%, and they are blind to all other guys. So, if guys are their authentic selves, than 80% of guys are going to wonder what happened to the women? Where are they? Therefore, you better make your authentic self to in the top tier of men, in something.
Man, when I was younger I was great with talking nonsense and I hooked up a lot. After being in the corporate world for 4 years - fucking numbers, charts, stats, analysis, business plan, strategy, presentation, close the sale, percentages, growth....blah blah blah fucking blah. I've gotten so in my head, and it's painful because I'm aware of it. I can see how I am now, in contrast to how fun and playful I used to be. I used to be like a cool popular abercrombie and fitch lookin football player party boi, and now I'm a fucking robot (still very handsome but a robot nonetheless). This was a nice wakeup call. Thanks
7:44 I knew this but needed to hear it from someone else.. 100% a good advice I always got hanged up on thinking logically that I forgot to dumb myself down and talk about things that don't improve my life in any way shape or form. Never understood the small talk concept now I do and we as men on our purpose tend to forget about how simple living is..
I fucking love you mate! I’m a 29 year old Australian Airline pilot, i’ve travel around a fair bit and i have applied what you preach. Let me tell you that it works, my dating game went up a whole different level since i started thinking like you. Cheers to you Legend!
I remember Rsd Tyler saying to speak like everything you say is interesting purely because it comes from you and to lower the bar for how interesting the things you say have to be. Good advice
Casey really hit the nail on the head with this one., direct straight to the point. NGL before discovering casey i was rigid as a board thinking that i was "masculine" and it really affected my ability to be myself and express myself and be the most authentic version of myself. After letting go and not taking things so seriously with women i was able to express and present myself more authentically, which resulted in tremendous success with females without actually trying . Thanks again casey Never take a woman seriously and always strive to have as much fun as possible for YOURSELF, the woman will naturally follow your lead and enjoy herself too.
I've stopped watching other coaches like fix fearless and coach Kyle because of you brother , you are full package bro , you talk all the shit I needed to know before , you've changed my life bro , you've become very important in my life than my own parents , live long bro , I'm in Tanzania 🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿
Man this is so true. You'd think most girls are interested in philosophical and existential jargon, when all they really want to hear is stuff that first of all, makes them feel, as well as stuff that brings them to the present moment, namely matters of the sensory. The less abstract the better. If you want to have deep and intellectually stimulating conversations, have them with like-minded bros.
thank you so much, Zander. Your training has made a huge impact gaining the attraction. My wife had toward me that she had lost over the years while I was busy building my career and traveling and creating multiple six figure income in order to take care of her and our kids…. I have completely removed all the luxuries she was enjoying and simply saying it’s no longer in the budget even though I’m now making more than I ever have. She is regaining respect and appreciation built, but nonetheless, I know I’m going to have to let the crazy bird fly away very soon because they are never yours it’s always just “your turn .” Because of hypergamy and all the broken homes, most of these women have grown up under. But I’m still having fun, enjoying life, setting myself up to protect my assets after I file
This is fantastic and something I will work on. Sometimes I’m in that nonchalant frame and those are the moments where I’ve felt most in the zone flirting. I’ve just never been able to articulate it like you did here.
I've watched pretty much all of your videos for the last year, and this one by FAR is the best and simplest video on your channel! Post more like this!!!
this might be the best piece of dating advice i´ve ever heard. in past dates when there were no topics left to talk about i always tried to talk about school, job etc. and realized that the vibe went straight downhill. now everything adds up
One of your best! Thank you. Many of your videos are about what women hate, how guys screw it up. Not that those are bad, this one - different in a good way.
Casey, this could potentially be your last video if you wanted. This is the best information you’ve ever given. I used this info and I just lined up 3 dates for the weekend and I didn’t even initiate it.
Bro.... Yday...I've seen video that was posted 2yrs ago.... U have developed into more charismatic speaker..... It's always inspiring to hear you. It is that only your words help me get back on track....whenever I feel comfused
The girl I'm with right now kept saying "you're ridiculous" after I was joking around and teasing. Thought she wasn't feeling it until she said it again just before she straddled me lol.
He’s not wrong I have adhd and when I just let my inner mind free and just talk nonesense and have fun with the convos, I get people to fall in love When I’m trying to hard, it never goes well
Exactly. I have the same thing. Since I'm taking medication on a regular basis, it just goes shitty. I always knew there was something wrong with me taking medication, but I didn't know what
Summary 00:02 Using nonsensical storytelling to create emotional connection 01:12 Learn to speak nonsense to create attraction 02:24 Master the art of building intrigue and curiosity through conversation. 03:27 Speak nonsensically to keep attraction and mystery. 04:36 Speaking slower and with verbal nonsense can create emotional connection with women. 05:49 Speak with simplicity and centeredness to create an emotional vibe 07:00 Build emotional connection by speaking about natural, personal topics 08:12 Connecting with women emotionally through speaking nonsense
Brother, Pure Gold is not enough to describe this video, this is Palladium. Your best video yet, you were able to say everything, everything, in a bit over 9 minutes. Freaking eye opening.
Awesome video, one the best. The confidence, cigar, glasses, beard, the background scenery...Casey is speaking to us like the mafia boss of the dating world.
Honestly I think this is one of the better videos of this channel. There’s a lot of conflicting messages from many different videos within this channel but this one in particular was very concise and the message was simple. Most importantly it can be implemented immediately
Wait wait wait wait wait a minute here. The second the video started & heard oatmeal story I instantly liked the video because that story has been in my head ever since I heard it from casey. I’m glad I wasn’t the only one!
Great advice. SLOW down, be spontaneous and intentional with your engagement of the world around you. If you really want to turn her on learn how to move your body like you are in water.
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😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣💯!!! Casey Zander!!! I'm really starting to Realize that women seriously don't know what the F#!k they want! And when you give them what they claim they want! They wind up not wanting what they want!!!😳🤦🏽♂️🤷🏾♂️ Keep Up The Great Work!💪🏽✊🏽
Looking back there were several beautiful women I messed it up with bc of this. I enjoy having “logical” conversations and when I would talk to women I would find a lot of awkward silence bc apparently I’ve been using the wrong approach
2:25 it's not just a movie, it's a soft tone picture of women's fantasy. That is why they read the book. However, it won't teach how to talk in the way you are saying here about oatmeal. What it can do is teach about remaining a mystery, let the female mind wonder and imagine things and being direct with her with what you want. But that is outside of the regular day to day interaction with women where "oatmeal convo" would be necessary, the lighter the situation with women the better, it makes them relax and look at you as a guy that is flexible.
Casey says a lot of stuff, and it is often contradictory and often wrong. But this video is pure genius. What he is talking about here is a totally different way of looking at life, a Zen-like outlook. Friggin brilliant.
You made a great case for not being educated. African tribes have no anxiety. They live wonderfully with with each other, nature and animals. Research says such tribes are some of the happiest people in the world.
And again Casey, how about women I want to them to stick forever? I usually talk about life and switch it back to emotional stuffs. Speak about the balance of the conversations to have with women. Especially the ones we want to keep
@@fernmoss-456 well I’ve come to not blame them. It’s their nature. It’s like expecting a fish to survive on land. Now I know the masculine frame should be put on till eternity.
This actually works, best try this to hard to those hard-to-get women, you do not need this if a woman likes you sure you can still use it but if she likes you, you can easily get her, watch the movie Your Name you can see this technique in there
The stupider you are when you talk to her, the more she'll like you. Dude. Spot on. Don't take yourself or the conversation seriously. Ever! Biggest secret.
He is right just imagine what you talked about as a child when holding conversations with your peers or how you say things or how much you used to describe your feelings. Just talk without an agenda as if you have no knowledge of the current world like a child so that you can easily timelessly vibe with others. You are not trying to impress anyone. Remember when you were outside as a child with others and you had nothing to do so out of boredom you were just talking about nonsense just to kill time until the parents got home to pick you up. Those times were nice because y’all were vibing all the stress, pressure and problems of the world were melted away in those conversations. That feeling of carelessness where you for a moment don’t think about your current shitty life/job is what women crave on dates. That type of distraction from her day to day boring/serious/hard life. If you can’t imagine this think about when you and your homies are chilling at a park bench or on the sidewalk in the evening. Y’all are talking about jack shit staying/vibing in the moment but y’all had an amazing time to the point y’all still reminisce about it years later when y’all moved apart from eachother.
"Number one, that is a movie" fucking killed me, i don't know if you are trying to portray the "idiot" that women like o you really don"t know there is a book, but that was so funny.
Man I understand so much of what you say. It makes sense. But sometimes I’m left wondering how this all translates into a long term relationship. Not even exactly monogamous but even long term dating the same people. It seems like a lot of what you say can be summarized as making it smooth and easy on women. Lift the burden of life off of them in a sense. That’s what masculinity and congruency provides. But how do you get a woman to not become complacent with the general responsibilities of her own life, or the ones she can help me with in my own life as a partner if you make everything so fun, easy and seamless all the time.
Watch a soap opera. Women are drawn to these shows. You'll notice that soap-operas are all about going on a slow roller-coaster ride that cycles through all of the emotions. Almost like each emotional state is a stop on a train station, then the ride continues. So, supply that experience in a measured pace, to the women in your relationships. Also modulate or vary the intensity of the drama or emotional stimulation. They'll keep wanting to feed off your emotional supply.
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finally u giving some real advices. good job. but still that doesnt address the real problem.
So how does a guy like me with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, Anxiety, Depression, & trouble reading social cues to the point of freaking women out. So far, all the good ones are married or not attracted to me. I desperately need some hope & solutions so I can get more than 1 date per 2 years.
And you will develop mouth cancer if you continue to smoke cigars. Won't be so cool looking then.
This is my main flaw. I'm way too logical. All I talk about are goals, plans, and work. I can't seem to break that habit
Try some ganja
Yes, strategically dumbing yourself down is an important skill. Logic dries up the pussy.
It's a habit. Begin somewhere my friend
Like the boss says. Talk about her nail polish to show that you have depth and character.
Read Dale Carnegie's how to win friends book.
True story.
I split up with my wife and was picking up a very important customer from the airport so I rented a high end Mercedes for the day.
I saw my EX in the street and stopped and asked if she needed a lift.
Her very first words were "When did you buy this car?"
I said "Didn't anyone tell you that I won the lottery"
She immediately burst into tears and had a meltdown.
That just proves women see you as an investment and as soon as I admitted I hadn't won the lottery she got out of the car and you could see she didn't know whether to be happy or sad.
that was cool FBGM
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Thats the issue with the women these days... they dont look for a relationship... they look for "investment" as you said.... this is why so many cat moms nowadays who can't settle down and even when they do, they feel like "there is someone better out there" which is so retarded... I swear social media has decayed these womens brains
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@@Honorio-nz4ts man is sharing wisdom through a story
Gold!
Since this concept was shared with me, I can't unsee that nothing dries up a woman more than ANY serious conversation.
NEVER give a direct and factual answer. NEVER ask a question to which the answer is of any consequence.
So true!!
Definitely got into the friendzone with someone i had the best personality chemistry with due to serious convos
That's how it is when you go for low IQ women
Women aren't one dimensional. Though it might appear that they are if you only interact with the same kind (age and place) of woman over and over.
You take a situation where you are really a dominant man in your business and you hold the opportunity for a woman to get a big boost. There will be no drying up, no matter how serious you talk. I can assure you. Power is an aphrodisiac, I recommend you get some and try the idea out.
@@peaceonearth8693 The female body is a very beautiful and complex design. I have been contacted by many women who have been married for over 30+ years and are still very happy and would never even think of being with another man. These women were virgins and had no premarital s3xual partners. Even one premarital s3xual partner can ruin a woman's ability to be happy with any other man.These women were responding to this...I am an M.D. PhD and I have been in transplant medicine and endocrine research for more time than not. I have explained this before but I will be happy to do it again. Sperm in a female body (whether from oral ,anal or vaginal) finds it way to soft tissue. It seems to have a high affinity for the soft tissue behind the eyes. When it enters the tissue it starts a cascade of events starting with immunological changes so that the female can carry this man's fetus without rejecting it. It also has effects on the girl's personality making her more like this man to make interactions and communication better and stronger. It also makes her more submissive to this man and research has shown that she will reject other men in favor of this one. It could be called imprinting. There are many more changes that make a long life together possible for the man and woman. The research was a smell test and only the man who was her mate was attractive to her. If even one premarital s3xual partner is had then all these systems start to fight each other. The more DNA samples this female gets from her original mate the stronger the bond becomes. Add different DNA samples and her immune system starts to attack itself and she will get infections and eventually present symptoms of lupus or other autoimmune disease but the exact etiology will not be able to be pinned down so it is just treated and hopefully gets better. The worst things are depression and multiple personality disorder. She will present symptoms of BPD and multiple personality disorder. I can only speculate that she will have different voices in her head From the different men. Have you ever seen how masculine some 304's are? Truly something we need to inform the younger girls of so maybe they will protect their virginity. It is a problem because it is usually up to the father to instill that thought and to help her protect her honor until he hands her over to her husband.All this s3xual freedom really messes females up badly. It is absolutely essential to find a virgin to marry or you will have problems in the future. The amount of time you have with her before the problems start is directly related to the number of partners before marriage.
This is a good reminder to keep it light. Don't burden her with your burdens.
Being a man is just being yourself not trying too hard or not trying to change who you are to be someone else!
Incorrect.
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@@Skyzomed in order to become a man you have develop yourself. Telling a teenager to just "be a man" by "being yourself" is unrealistic advice I used to follow. Wish I knew then what I know now
Only if you’re 100% a natural which is pretty much impossible lol, you actually have to study & figure out what works, because a man is made a woman is born, & what SHE wants is completely different from you are thinking, you can only do this if you get out of your ego meaning self identity (your own wishes in your own world & be lazy & want it easy) & DO what works, sure, incorporating in your real personality but it takes a lot of work & yes eventually genuinely being this man that does what works naturally, then, BE YOURSELF.
It is to be the "ideal" man for the "ideal" woman. By ideal, one means not perfect, but the archetype that gets the woman archetype attracted to a man she absolutely cannot understand. It means fulfilling a simple code she is after that she has seen on TV or in magazines, in actors or singers, the way they dress or talk, all familiar to her, for example, but not yet incarnated except by you one day.
"Authenticity is the masterpiece of self-expression; embrace the canvas of your uniqueness, for in being yourself, you paint the truest strokes of a meaningful existence."
He’s had a shift lately - come right back into his body and less in his mind. Content improved dramatically since. Game is real life. Live it.
"I want you to imagine you're a child again"
Casey getting closer and closer to the biggest red pill of all
When you are truly a master, you will go into society wearing nothing but a diaper and holding a rattle. Please report back when you have reached this stage of enlightenment!
Friedrich Nietzsche would agree with Casey on that one
What is that? Is it the red pill belief that women are like children?
Keep in mind you can do this to guys too. Talk about random stuff on a date and the guy doesn’t care. He just wants to be around the girl and have a chill time. It doesn’t have to be a deep conversation for a guy to feel a connection and men fall in love faster than women usually too. It doesn’t take much for a guy to fall in love.
@@halwo9363 women are children, yes
Watch Jordan Peterson,, so different than what this guy speaks. Seriously bro this guy is dating a set of women who won't last at all.
I like how you talk about the mystery of a man. I once had somebody in prison explain this exact same dynamic to me. He even used the same verbiage as you by calling it the "mystery". He had been locked up 20 years and had a lot of respect from the other inmates and I was in the hole with him and I was asking him why I getting so many fights even though I win a lot of them and I'm not like a small dude or anything. And he said it's because you're too open and there is no mystery to you. People are not afraid of what you might do. Essentially they have you figured out. And because there was no mystery to me I had lost respect.
Moral of the story: say nothing about yourself.
Your best video yet. No elaborate strategies. This video is literally "embrace being a human and the intended human experience, and then be your authentic self". The first part of the sentence is the prerequisite, don't forget it fellas.
A quirk of female nature is that they all believe they should have a guy who is in the top 20%, and they are blind to all other guys. So, if guys are their authentic selves, than 80% of guys are going to wonder what happened to the women? Where are they?
Therefore, you better make your authentic self to in the top tier of men, in something.
Man, when I was younger I was great with talking nonsense and I hooked up a lot. After being in the corporate world for 4 years - fucking numbers, charts, stats, analysis, business plan, strategy, presentation, close the sale, percentages, growth....blah blah blah fucking blah. I've gotten so in my head, and it's painful because I'm aware of it. I can see how I am now, in contrast to how fun and playful I used to be. I used to be like a cool popular abercrombie and fitch lookin football player party boi, and now I'm a fucking robot (still very handsome but a robot nonetheless). This was a nice wakeup call. Thanks
Well u got self awareness thats a win
7:44 I knew this but needed to hear it from someone else.. 100% a good advice I always got hanged up on thinking logically that I forgot to dumb myself down and talk about things that don't improve my life in any way shape or form. Never understood the small talk concept now I do and we as men on our purpose tend to forget about how simple living is..
I fucking love you mate! I’m a 29 year old Australian Airline pilot, i’ve travel around a fair bit and i have applied what you preach. Let me tell you that it works, my dating game went up a whole different level since i started thinking like you. Cheers to you Legend!
Let the losers eye roll over Casey’s content while you win because of it. Proud of you, brother
I remember Rsd Tyler saying to speak like everything you say is interesting purely because it comes from you and to lower the bar for how interesting the things you say have to be. Good advice
This is one of Casey’s best videos in a while. A lot of this resonated with me.
I do appreciate the variety in background scenery too
Casey really hit the nail on the head with this one., direct straight to the point.
NGL before discovering casey i was rigid as a board thinking that i was "masculine" and it really affected my ability to be myself and express myself and be the most authentic version of myself.
After letting go and not taking things so seriously with women i was able to express and present myself more authentically, which resulted in tremendous success with females without actually trying .
Thanks again casey
Never take a woman seriously and always strive to have as much fun as possible for YOURSELF, the woman will naturally follow your lead and enjoy herself too.
Talking to them like they're children seems to work.
I've stopped watching other coaches like fix fearless and coach Kyle because of you brother , you are full package bro , you talk all the shit I needed to know before , you've changed my life bro , you've become very important in my life than my own parents , live long bro , I'm in Tanzania 🇹🇿🇹🇿🇹🇿
You should watch a Mexican Guy called "El Temach" for my opinion he also talksn about things that we needed to know before
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nah, Casey only teaches you how to act once you already have her. Coach Kyle teaches you how to get her in the first place.
Same bro
Probably the most helpful one yet.. and one I heard from George Bruno.. " come from a place of joy and abundance" be contagious
Man this is so true. You'd think most girls are interested in philosophical and existential jargon, when all they really want to hear is stuff that first of all, makes them feel, as well as stuff that brings them to the present moment, namely matters of the sensory. The less abstract the better. If you want to have deep and intellectually stimulating conversations, have them with like-minded bros.
"You'd think most girls are interested in philosophical and existential jargon" LOL
thank you so much, Zander. Your training has made a huge impact gaining the attraction. My wife had toward me that she had lost over the years while I was busy building my career and traveling and creating multiple six figure income in order to take care of her and our kids….
I have completely removed all the luxuries she was enjoying and simply saying it’s no longer in the budget even though I’m now making more than I ever have. She is regaining respect and appreciation built, but nonetheless, I know I’m going to have to let the crazy bird fly away very soon because they are never yours it’s always just “your turn .” Because of hypergamy and all the broken homes, most of these women have grown up under.
But I’m still having fun, enjoying life, setting myself up to protect my assets after I file
This is fantastic and something I will work on. Sometimes I’m in that nonchalant frame and those are the moments where I’ve felt most in the zone flirting. I’ve just never been able to articulate it like you did here.
Uncle Casey has changed my life always dropping game
This is actually probably one of the best videos you made tbh
I've watched pretty much all of your videos for the last year, and this one by FAR is the best and simplest video on your channel! Post more like this!!!
As a black man from the streets of USA I love your videos and they are accurate. You have great delivery like Kevin Samuel’s RIP
this might be the best piece of dating advice i´ve ever heard. in past dates when there were no topics left to talk about i always tried to talk about school, job etc. and realized that the vibe went straight downhill. now everything adds up
One of your best! Thank you. Many of your videos are about what women hate, how guys screw it up. Not that those are bad, this one - different in a good way.
Most iconic to ever say on a date in that specific scenario "Too Many Words" SMOOTHHH
This is the exact content I need rn.. Got way too much redpilled these years.. Need to open up the fun side of mine a bit
This actually may be the most important video made
Casey, this could potentially be your last video if you wanted. This is the best information you’ve ever given. I used this info and I just lined up 3 dates for the weekend and I didn’t even initiate it.
really appreciated this... a day before my date with a literal hungarian supermodel. A goddess. I am free and this helped a ton.
Did you bang her?
Bro....
Yday...I've seen video that was posted 2yrs ago....
U have developed into more charismatic speaker.....
It's always inspiring to hear you.
It is that only your words help me get back on track....whenever I feel comfused
The girl I'm with right now kept saying "you're ridiculous" after I was joking around and teasing. Thought she wasn't feeling it until she said it again just before she straddled me lol.
leave her away right now
@riteshkumarsah7828 what why?
Your're on a roll Casey, and you're going to WIN!
It’s about being a captivating story teller. I make everybody laugh and smile without fail.
I’m one of the first five people here and thanks to this channel I’m now a beast in the dating game
He’s not wrong
I have adhd and when I just let my inner mind free and just talk nonesense and have fun with the convos, I get people to fall in love
When I’m trying to hard, it never goes well
Exactly. I have the same thing. Since I'm taking medication on a regular basis, it just goes shitty. I always knew there was something wrong with me taking medication, but I didn't know what
Summary
00:02 Using nonsensical storytelling to create emotional connection
01:12 Learn to speak nonsense to create attraction
02:24 Master the art of building intrigue and curiosity through conversation.
03:27 Speak nonsensically to keep attraction and mystery.
04:36 Speaking slower and with verbal nonsense can create emotional connection with women.
05:49 Speak with simplicity and centeredness to create an emotional vibe
07:00 Build emotional connection by speaking about natural, personal topics
08:12 Connecting with women emotionally through speaking nonsense
Tldr: talk to them like r3t4rd
One of the few American men whose dating expenses are legitimately tax deductable.
Brother, Pure Gold is not enough to describe this video, this is Palladium. Your best video yet, you were able to say everything, everything, in a bit over 9 minutes. Freaking eye opening.
I think you mean Platinum. Palladium is much cheaper.
@@SIMARJEETMEHTA I researched before I made that comment. But you're wasting your time. The focus is the outstanding video we've just witnessed.
Awesome video, one the best. The confidence, cigar, glasses, beard, the background scenery...Casey is speaking to us like the mafia boss of the dating world.
Last 5 mins of this video is golden. Thanks 🙏
Amazing, I'm just starting to get better at socializing, social skills, and speaking to women, and this is valuable insight and teachings
Honestly I think this is one of the better videos of this channel. There’s a lot of conflicting messages from many different videos within this channel but this one in particular was very concise and the message was simple. Most importantly it can be implemented immediately
Very powerful……… being our natural chill self is the winning edge…..!!
You’re a legend casey!
Wait wait wait wait wait a minute here. The second the video started & heard oatmeal story I instantly liked the video because that story has been in my head ever since I heard it from casey. I’m glad I wasn’t the only one!
I’m more of a kimchi noodles kind of guy
Great advice. SLOW down, be spontaneous and intentional with your engagement of the world around you. If you really want to turn her on learn how to move your body like you are in water.
This is an absolute Banger from no other person than Casey Zander!😆👍🏻
This was great. Definitely watching more of your content
I love Casey dude, I really do, hes probs the best big bro u can get out there
I always drop deliberate typos in my texts, which makes her wonder how I managed to evade the autocorrect.
Casey gettin yoked. Lookin good bro. His advice is the only youtube channel that gets down to brass tacks. No bs just straight facts.
Casey Zander I’ll follow you till the very end
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Too many words
Aannnnnndddd that’s how you lost the women 😂
Casey is low-key brilliant.
You nailed it man! Back to the basics. Being rooted in the here and now
This is profound. Thank you Casey 🎉
😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣💯!!! Casey Zander!!!
I'm really starting to Realize that women seriously don't know what the F#!k they want!
And when you give them what they claim they want!
They wind up not wanting what they want!!!😳🤦🏽♂️🤷🏾♂️
Keep Up The Great Work!💪🏽✊🏽
Bro, all you gotta do is ask them where and what they wanna eat. That’s enlightening enough
@@mat7083 Real Talk Bro! Keep it simple and don't drain yourself! What's on the Menu this Evening..😅👍🏼
Never take them seriously . That simple 😂
Uncle C, spreading the truth! Keep up brother!
Looking back there were several beautiful women I messed it up with bc of this. I enjoy having “logical” conversations and when I would talk to women I would find a lot of awkward silence bc apparently I’ve been using the wrong approach
2:25 it's not just a movie, it's a soft tone picture of women's fantasy. That is why they read the book. However, it won't teach how to talk in the way you are saying here about oatmeal. What it can do is teach about remaining a mystery, let the female mind wonder and imagine things and being direct with her with what you want. But that is outside of the regular day to day interaction with women where "oatmeal convo" would be necessary, the lighter the situation with women the better, it makes them relax and look at you as a guy that is flexible.
Tbh everyone in the bdsm community hates that book, there about a billion red flags in it, and it's just not.
It is like god bring me to this clip. Thank god someone talks about this !
I know a date is going well.. when about 1 hour into the date.. the girl says "I feel like I know nothing about you."
Casey says a lot of stuff, and it is often contradictory and often wrong. But this video is pure genius. What he is talking about here is a totally different way of looking at life, a Zen-like outlook. Friggin brilliant.
Simple and easy talk but Excellent One.
You made a great case for not being educated. African tribes have no anxiety. They live wonderfully with with each other, nature and animals. Research says such tribes are some of the happiest people in the world.
Being very low IQ makes for a peaceful, full fulling life.
Thanks, Casey! You’re right, that is a good one.
Bro, solid gold. Your best video. Thank you.
This is a very very great set up! Would recommend you to use this more number of times in your videosss.. It's very calm and soothing.
This video is gold.....
Great video buddy explain more about daily conversation via phone calls and face to face speaking without boring and make her speak non stop
Instructions unclear: I brought a peanut butter on our first date and talked about it nonstop till she left us clueless. 😢
😂
And again Casey, how about women I want to them to stick forever? I usually talk about life and switch it back to emotional stuffs. Speak about the balance of the conversations to have with women. Especially the ones we want to keep
You don't want to stick to them forever
@@fernmoss-456 well I’ve come to not blame them. It’s their nature. It’s like expecting a fish to survive on land. Now I know the masculine frame should be put on till eternity.
Casey, you're a badass. Thank you for all your free lessons 🙏 You help men worldwide 🌐 in ways you may never know...
seriously!!!, im watching his videos here in peru 🇵🇪 🦙
This actually works, best try this to hard to those hard-to-get women, you do not need this if a woman likes you sure you can still use it but if she likes you, you can easily get her, watch the movie Your Name you can see this technique in there
The stupider you are when you talk to her, the more she'll like you. Dude. Spot on. Don't take yourself or the conversation seriously. Ever! Biggest secret.
Not the intellectual women I can assure you thst.
@@chrislong8559and who says this A dude who can't wrtie that properly😂😂😂
Casey you got the life!
"qualifiers, adverbs." made me laugh. This guy has a long way to go when it comes to dumbing things down.
Casey you are brilliant thanks for the help
The sun and the stars ✨
Thanks bro 😎
He is right just imagine what you talked about as a child when holding conversations with your peers or how you say things or how much you used to describe your feelings. Just talk without an agenda as if you have no knowledge of the current world like a child so that you can easily timelessly vibe with others. You are not trying to impress anyone. Remember when you were outside as a child with others and you had nothing to do so out of boredom you were just talking about nonsense just to kill time until the parents got home to pick you up. Those times were nice because y’all were vibing all the stress, pressure and problems of the world were melted away in those conversations. That feeling of carelessness where you for a moment don’t think about your current shitty life/job is what women crave on dates. That type of distraction from her day to day boring/serious/hard life. If you can’t imagine this think about when you and your homies are chilling at a park bench or on the sidewalk in the evening. Y’all are talking about jack shit staying/vibing in the moment but y’all had an amazing time to the point y’all still reminisce about it years later when y’all moved apart from eachother.
Loving this format.
These concepts are very deep.
Casey’s always on point 🔥
I apply your teaching not just to women but generally in life as well. Please also do such non-sensical talks. They too add value to life.
"Number one, that is a movie" fucking killed me, i don't know if you are trying to portray the "idiot" that women like o you really don"t know there is a book, but that was so funny.
I would bet he doesn't know there is a book. As he says, he often doesn't care.
Man I understand so much of what you say. It makes sense. But sometimes I’m left wondering how this all translates into a long term relationship. Not even exactly monogamous but even long term dating the same people. It seems like a lot of what you say can be summarized as making it smooth and easy on women. Lift the burden of life off of them in a sense. That’s what masculinity and congruency provides. But how do you get a woman to not become complacent with the general responsibilities of her own life, or the ones she can help me with in my own life as a partner if you make everything so fun, easy and seamless all the time.
Watch a soap opera. Women are drawn to these shows. You'll notice that soap-operas are all about going on a slow roller-coaster ride that cycles through all of the emotions. Almost like each emotional state is a stop on a train station, then the ride continues. So, supply that experience in a measured pace, to the women in your relationships. Also modulate or vary the intensity of the drama or emotional stimulation. They'll keep wanting to feed off your emotional supply.
Thank you. This is really helpful.
Bro you got good vids man. Thanks!
Good job on explaining to be in the moment thnx bro
The thumbnail made me think you were trying to be like Andrew Tate, but this message is on point. Talk about the sun and keep it fun 💯
Youre smart mr zander thanks a lot.
Excellent question here: what is the best way to get a girl that is your type without her catching on that she is your type?
Great vid!
Solid. Way too many guys just treat women as another dude, and they hate it
Great subject 👌...ur new look is 👍
Dude this is great