Omg Shelly, my sp was feeding me crumbs. I watched this video earlier today and made some changes within myself and repeated those statements that you mentioned in this video. I'm super shocked right now that my sp asked me to go boating with him and meet his family. Wow, I was not expecting this to work so fast.
I've experienced it, but it was my own fault. I think it gave me too much hope and then I got lazy. Or assumed the rest was on the way. Either way, I should stop believing in it too.
My father always gave me crumbs and never held his word when he promised to be there for me. 30 years later EVERY MALE HAS GIVEN ME CRUMBS. IT IS ENOUGH. I'm valuable, I deserve to be chosen and I will only accept 100%!
I know your response is from a year ago but I had to comment because this resonated with me. In fact I had a conversation with my father a year ago telling him because of the way he showed up in my life are reasons I’ve accepted men who showed up as such. At that moment I had to change what I was accepting.
Don't allow BETTER THAN NOTHING contact-- and boom, there's the ton of bricks. Shelly, you are absolutely on point with this video. Obviously we are creating our reality, but when we get a little bit of contact and run with it (because maybe this is all he's going to give me, so I'll take it), the result is disappointment. We have to do a lot of SELF LOVE practice as well in order to get the total package that we ordered from the universe. And that sucks for some, because they think it sets them back-- maybe it will, depending on your self awareness. But you can do self love practices and manifest an SP at the same time. You'll do it a lot easier after you have done that deep soul searching and recognize your own worth, but whatever works for each person. Thanks for this!!
If you become a person who's not available for crumbs, you are gonna start responding to differently to them, and they're gonna start responding to you differently!💖love this!
This is very important info, especially those who are fond of manifesting text messages from their SP. Crumbs you want, so crumbs you're gonna get. I don't want just text messages from my SP. I want us to be together in the 3D reality. It's all or nothing. And so I saturate myself in the inner experience of us already in a relationship :)
arvj123 absolutely- same for me. I don’t want texts and I don’t want an apology. I want us together and that’s what I shall have. He knew from the beginning that I do don’t crumbs so the contact is very sporadic but never ‘crumby’
If i want to manifest our marriage, but i don't want to get married till 3years. But i am now friends with my sp. So what should i do, shall i manifest relationship also? Or it will happen eventually? Please tell me
I'm shaking my head as I listen to this because YES -- this is so true and I have definitely done this in the past. "Take your attention off their pattern and construct a new imaginal reality of who they are and how they're being with you." Brilliant! I especially appreciate the practical suggestions in this video.
I’ve not only been accepting crumbs, but have been grateful for them too. This has got to change, and I’d like to do that in a quiet non dramatic way so that ties aren’t cut. Thank you Shelley for your ongoing work, I view a lot of your video’s and can take something useful from all of them.🙏
Yes, non-dramatic... that's exactly how this should be handled. Just work on it from the inside and let the other party come to you. I agree that stirring a pot and telling them you're demanding more out of them probably isn't the best way to go about it.
How to go about it when they text once in a day but not showing up fully as I want I have told him to talk to me when he wants me fully or not text me at all he still texts once in a day
How would you do that? For me it's either I continue answering him or not at all! How to make him feel I don't accept breadcrumbs if I am still replying him?
My SP came back but the same pattern happened. He showed up, then he is gone. He messaged me, then he left it hanging. But then he actively messaging other people at night, while leaving my messages hanging. I always wonder why the same pattern happened. Now I understand the reason. My imaginal experience and self concept. I must work on my self concept. That really needs consistent work.
Yes!! I have decided that I am only receiving daily conversations and seeing eachother daily.. we are building an commitment, passionate, faithful and fun relationship only! Thank you hun
This is so true... I only had success in my love life when I was fully confident in what I was bringing to the table and I wouldn't settle for less than I truly wanted. Once I lost than, I lost the relationship too... I really need to get back on track!
Shelly, I watched this video this morning because I was frustrated with my SP. I wanted to confront him but I kept telling myself that everyone is me pushed out. Tonight I liked how we talked. We have so much connection and I know that he is starting to realize that I am special and irreplaceable.
I wish I had a love icon for loving this video, this is the actual ultimate thing I needed, to start slow and live in the end of that they're coming towards us and if they don't meet up to your standards, then it's nothing. All or nothing! Period! Love you Shelly ❤️❤️🌹🌹🙈🙈💞💞🤞🏻🤞🏻
OMG! I saw you on one of Matthew Coast’s videos. And I truly believe that I was divinely guided to you. You have blessed me with this video! I look forward to diving deeper into your work. Thank you for this loving guidance. We are beautiful beings, and we can manifest anything that we desire! When we believe in and love ourselves first! I’m learning! Thank you. 💖🥰💖
this is exactly the missing link I was looking for. for a long time now I couldn't understand how to focus on both the manifesting process (mostly with imaginal acts and feeling the experience inside me, my favourite methods) and the "3d approach" of intentionally behaving a certain way, that I still value and I think might be the "path of least resistance" sometimes, for example asserting my boundaries and be respected and valued as a natural consequence of it. thanks to your video I've just realized that making the effort to not accept crumbs means that I show myself what kind of woman I am, and makes creating my new self-concept much easier. I mean, I have just showed the world, and myself, that I'm rare and valuable! it also means that I simply refuse the realities that I don't want, for example a reality where he never calls me, a reality where he's half friend/half boyfriend, etc, and allowing only THE reality that I want. this is a huge breakthrough for me Shelly, thank you so much. You keep changing my life and I'm forever grateful.
This is perfect, I was starting to think about how to be at this stage, so we need to keep positive, continue with self love, continue imagining how we want them to be with us, imagining that our meetings with them are successful ( imagining our time spent with them to end successfully, and in relation to Living in the end) . Thank you Shelly Bullard, excellent advice as always. 💕💕💕👌🙂
there are no coincidences, this video came up at the perfect time lol. I've been doing really well yet didn't even realize I was still assuming I'd get such long waited for scattered responses till you said all that. Going to work on it! thanks for this
I've been trying to manifest my sp for going on 5 months. I haven't seen any signs but I do feel an energetic connection. I am new to Manifesting but I've been manifesting virtually everything that I want except for my sp. But I have been seriously focused on it. I have put everything I have into it. But the past few days I'm feeling more at ease. I've been doing that guided meditation you made multiple times a day every day. I had a lot of doubts and fears about whether there was a third party or not for months. But I have been changing my thinking and if any of that comes up I change it to. No she's faithful to me and has eyes only for me. So I am doing everything I'm supposed too. Now I feel more at peace and I try to maintain the feeling that we are partnered constantly. Sometimes I feel very connected. Usually I do when I visualize that our minds, bodies and souls are melded together as one. If anyone has any pointers I'd love that. I really love this woman but also I kind of think that the reason it hasn't been manifested yet is because I have chased and I've been working on not doing that and I always have it on my wind because I want her with me. So it's probably because I just focus on it too much and need to think of other things so the universe can work.
I can't believe I've only just found you! You have helped me realize and actually see what I've been doing wrong and you make everything so clear and calm. (I just binge watched on all of your vídeos ...where have you been all my life)!!😊😇🙏
I agree. She popped up in my suggested and I needed it. I have leaned back with the love of my life and working on me and doing all of her suggestions.
Hi! I’m a new subscriber and I love your channel!! I’ve been going through old videos and I came across this one last night. I tried this and I eventually fell asleep. Well, an incoming good night text from my SP woke me up! So this morning as I was getting ready for work, my SP called me… he said I sent you a text 5 minutes ago but you didn’t respond. Lol. 🤦🏾♀️ So this absolutely works. We are also supposed to meet up for lunch today! I’m going to continue to focus on myself and going within. Thank you.
Once he started giving me breadcrumbs, I tried to see if it could be solved first, and once I understood there was nothing I could do, (since that isn’t what I want), I let this relationship go and went away.. I’m so proud of myself for not accepting it and not holding on to something that wasn’t making me happy anymore ❤️
What to do if your specific person is in your life right now but they are not fully showing up the way you want, they are there but they are not really giving you what you want. What To Do In This Situation? * In some case this could be a partial manifestation * However the whole world is you pushed out * You might have predominately identifed of them showing up that way * You are focused on 3rd reality of them showing up partially and you belive that to be true * To change this kind of situation you just change what's going on inside of you. The 2 crucial things you must do to no longer recieve crumbs 1.) Is to changing what you belive they are doing. * you don't have to convince your linear mind that your sp is showing up different way * You must create imaginal act about your sp, showing up the way you want * They are can be half way there or not fully there, They are present and absent sometimes * You must take off your attention from this pattern and you just go deep within your own inner world, your imaginal world. * Construct the reality of who they are and how they are being with you * - Start feeling your sp showing up more and more. - start feeling they coming towrds you. - feel that they are texting you. - feel that they are thinking about you. * Do this over and over again to make your belief strong❤ * You dont have to go all the way to be in relationship jusy feel them cominng to you this is a great end result to start with. * Just convince yourself that something different is happening. 2.) You must change your self concept. * Self concept is that you think feel and belive about yourself * You are the person who doesnot recieve crumbs must be your belief about yourself. * I am not avaible to someone to show up partially * the thing when you desire for you sp so much when they show up to you partially your eniterly avaible to recive them that way * Hence you get caught up this cycle of crumbs * Cause you feel its better then nothing. * if you want them to fully be there for you must create a self concept *That's what your really going to accept * Either they show up fully or nothing. * It's like your training your sp on how to show up. * Your new self concept must be its all or nothing I only recive all attention * You dont have to tell your sp about this. About him showing up in a certain way you want them to *You must change how you think and feel about yourself. * Don't take actions From still trying to manipulate your situtaions with specific person. * You dont have to change yourself to tried and be something so your sp will respond to you. * Your self concept is what needs to be changed - look i will only accept soemone fully showing up for me thats just who i am and how this is gonna work * This is only between you and you. This is it ❤ Thank you so much Shelly❤
Hey Shelly! It’s funny how recently all your videos are about things I have been wondering about and this video just made it clear. Eg to change my subconscious mind/limiting beliefs I’d wonder do I need to say things like “i know he wants me” or “he wants me” or “I am the woman he wants”, “I know he wants to go back into a relationship”, “he wants a relationship again” “I am the only woman he wants” 🤯. I think a lot of times many of us “allow” or sp’s to breadcrumb us because we are worried if we say/act out that we won’t accept crumbs then we’ll lose them completely even if it’s just crumbs we’d be losing. Without fully recognizing that the crumbs we’re not happy with yet clinging onto are created by us in the first place! And we can change that! Thanks again, Shelly. ❤️
I love this video it came at a perfect time! I have a person I'm interested in and we are talking but latetly i only get a text back at a certain time every day. This was starting to piss me off, because conversations like these are frustrating. Anyway I have been thinking about this a lot these days and decided that I wasn't going to take that. Either you talk to me and engage or you don't but I'm not going to sit all day and wait for answers. I know that I was accepting these crubs because I would get excited to recieved that one text. But I'm done I'm worth so much more than that. I'm aware of the assumptions that I created so I'm just going to work on that. I know this stuff works. Plus I know he likes me just it's just me needing to work on the my self beliefs Thank you Shelly, your words confirmed what has been going on in my head!!!👍❤😊
I believe imagining the wedding ring and staying there while imagining, was a bit of an obstacle.... or not?! There is definitely an improvement between non communication to being communicating in an intense way every single day for a month now. But we were stuck there... I felt unhappy with accepting that situation... After telling him this, I feel relieved...I hope something changes now!
I have been listening to your videos for a about a month then on one you said don't accept crumbs .I thought deeply about that realizing that what I have been doing .So then I was like Im just going to be open to anyone ,not just my specific person . Then I got the self love course ,which is phenomenal . It really helped me . About 2 days after that I met someone online and they are all the things that I was wanting from my specific person . Exactly like I wrote down and thought about .Including their age and body type . .Its so Amazing . !!! Thank you !
11:11 I think i am sort of decoding this thing by myself.. i am someone who's been receiving crumbs since lockdown.. and i was happy until now.. however.. I have now made a book for affirmations and visualisations (i can imagine better when writing and paint a picture that way) and in this book i myself wrote some sequences where we are talking/ chatting constantly, receiving more attention and priority. And today i see this.. so I feel im on the right track..
Love it!!! ✨ You are queen Shelly👑 each time I watch your video I always learn something new. I'm already living my dream life. Thank you for choosing me as winner 😉❤
I do this actually very strongly from the first phone call or date.. don’t have patients for nothing less. Thanks for this beautiful video!! Great as always😋😋
Thank you so much sister 🖤 for always reminding me that my life is in my control and settling for anything less than I want is not a option in my life.
Hi Shelly! This really does work I started manifesting someone to text me when he was only giving me crumbs by pretending he loves texting to to only get more and more attention :)
I appreciate this video. I believe you may be the only person who has addressed getting "some" attention but not sufficient attention. Thanks for not assuming that it is all or nothing with an SP.
Oh Shelly...thank you for this video.... This video nailed it ... I have been very frustrated these last days. We had no contact for almost two months. He blocked me... then he decided to contact me and we have been talking every single day on the phone. We are very close to each other BUT he says he wants me only as a FRIEND. This is painful! As you've well said, I accepted that but made me unhappy. I definitely want him as my partner for the rest of my life. To be his friend is not really an option for me. I have been imagining, scripting, trying my best to pick the right thoughts....but the situation is not changing. I feel frustrated and tired. I would like to give up because I don't see what to do! After watching your video, decided to call him and did it! I told him this time I will be the one who wants to decide what to do I informed him that I will block him for a while to gain some clarity. I also said that do not want a "half-backed "relationship. I want a full commitment in a relationship and don't want to be friends with him. Everything or nothing! He replied: ok! What made me even more crazy. I feel he has all the power....so I need to see how to change my beliefs... And understand that I am the one who is in charge of what's happening in my reality. It seems to be difficult though to revert this.... I have a strong belief that he is the one who decides ... And he doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with me. What can I do?!!! Thank you!!
Thank you so much shelly,this is it(the video).i stopped texting my sp(whom i attracted to be my husband) 3 weeks ago because i was the only who text first and i some how believed i should stop and let him make the move now.and this video gave me courage.Thank you again and i believe that he is missing me and will contact me very soon❤
I'm really glad you made a video on this subject, I remember asking you about this. It just confirms that I'm on a right path because that's the same mindset I had. I've refused to accept crumbs.
We are worth more than crumbs! It's actually insulting for someone to treat you like this. Thinking they can sprinkle their attention and keep you interested... Just like the term bread crumbing states, give them a little and they'll still stay around. Screw that, I'm going to find myself a meal!
funnily enough, this is super relevant (I mean more than usual, lol) So the person I'm hoping to become friends with, actually faved one of my comments on twitter last night, and I was honestly overjoyed JUST to have gotten that. I've been focusing on getting a full blown message, but that alone to me was extremely encouraging, as they rarely fav anyones comments or responses (and I'd actually made this comment like 2 months ago and forgot about it). I mean it was a big deal to me just for that, it's like 'yes, I'm on my way!', and aside from that there's constantly the repetitive numbers lately. I mean it's crazy, it's gotten to the point where every time I see 1111 or 444 I'm like 'okay universe, I hear you, I'm ready already!' so yea, but this coming up right after that to remind me of what I need to keep doing to get the full blown manifestation, just awesome. Love the universe, and your vids as always.
Well I just manifested this video 😊 I was looking for it yesterday, I couldn’t find it. Put out an intention I will find it when I have to see it. I opened up my RUclips and here you are! 😊🌈
Thank you, Shelly 💙 I went to close things off in the 3d with my SP about 3 weeks ago (break our lease, organise belongings, etc.) and he asked if we could sleep together casually. I said no to this, that I need some degree of commitment, planning in advance, etc. & later said actually, before anyone asks anything of anyone, we should just catch up and see if the vibe is still there. We agreed to stay open to revisiting this down the line, as the timing has been awful and we've had stuff to work through independently We were going to catch up on the weekend and he ended up getting tested for covid. He thanked me for my offer of going to pick food up for him and said he hopes I'm well. I sent a couple of texts (that weren't opened) in response and one today saying I hope he's feeling better. He still hasn't read any of them and I started to spiral and caught myself (this always ends up in me "talking things out" and getting anxious). I started affirming because I know i'm the damn prize and got busy in my own life and I'm about to head to bed & feel pretty great 😁 I won't accept crumbs and I won't make excuses for other people, either
Woah. I think this video set off a major epiphany for me! Haha so funny I clicked on this video, cuz it has nothing to do with my situation 😂 Thanks, Shelly - you are a rockstar!!😘😘😘
Thank you for this video ❤️❤️ I pulled away my energy completely and will only accept the changed version of him in the 3D😊 and after watching this video I'll starting believing a new pattern 😊😊🌼
I've been frustrated with this recently, so I feel like I manifested this video into my reality. 😆 Listened a few times already. I love your channel, thanks so much!
This subject I’ve had in my mind since yesterday 😁 even though I’m still struggling with a lot of anger and even hate because of this behavior 😁❤️ thanks a lot Shelly
I am going on a binge of all your videos , You are my new favorite !!! This video is EXACTLY what I needed to watch . Thank you for the video darlin !!!
Omg thank you so much for this video! Now I really know what to work on, I need to believe I deserve full attention and commitment and a great partner, not just breadcrumbs! I've already prepared some affirmations to repeat, I wasn't even aware that I accepted much less than I deserve! Working on my beliefs from now on, no contact with SP, I want to have him fully or not at all 🥳🥰
I will manifest my soulmate I haven’t met her yet but I know I’ve met her already I will thank you shelly! Thank you universe thank you universe thank you universe l!!!
🌸 I had the most amazing mom, so I didn’t have issues from a child, however I was bullied and ill treated as child and teen via others It made me not see a happy life for myself and I probably always expected things to go awry and not my way What I’m trying to say I was expecting negativity Sadly I manifested this for most of my life and what’s sad is that I can remember my mom always telling me to be optimistic about things and the outcome, to always look at positives etc. She said never feel sorry for yourself because there is always someone out there with worst problems and actually fighting through it to live. She also encouraged me to pray & tell God (source), my problems & ask for guidance & help to gain the solution & to remove any obstacles. Years later I stumbled upon Shelley’s channel & combined with what my mom taught me, I haven’t had issues yet manifesting & it’s amazing just how much you can accomplish with source as you can’t manifest without his help. You have nothing to lose but so much to gain. Remember don’t stop improving yourself. You want to meditate, stuff for free on RUclips, Shelly has amazing stuff also You need to exercise, how about also eating right too, speeds up process. Want to earn more, enrole on a course & study. Try to go out for walks in Mother Nature and be good to others. Volunteer to help the poor this will change your chakra energy instantly, but don’t help to gain stuff do it from your heart & because you love & care for others. Good luck 🙏🏼✨
Thank you for posting this video. This gave me more clarity and deeper sense as to why I should stop receiving crumbs from my SP or anyone. This just heightened my self esteem and will definitely do this. I’m only available for someone who’s showing up fully to me. 😘😘😘
Thanks Shelly. Such a nice video. I was thinking on same line. I just woke up and saw this, definitely I have manifested this video. Thanks for shifting my focus.. looking forward for more videos
So True from what you said shelly. And its also important to stand close with your innerself. Knowing who you are on this earth. It happend to me that i lost myself. And it took time to find myself in that peace and love agian...self love. Thanks to you shelly i learn to and got back to stand close to my innerself. And been 1 with myself agian. That is not all the time about the other person who is bread crumming me. Automatic things and my sp Will Come to me by time. It start with the inner self and energy what you show into this world. 🥰🌈
Great video! I realize my mental diet is good but I'm not creating new visions or having a new story running in my head as how I'd like them to be. Now, I know what to work on. Thanks!!
Shelly, your videos come to me at the right time each time. I just started talking to someone new for over a month and so far we only hung out with other people our friends, never really alone. I am trying to manifest more because thats just “crumbs”. I want a relationship with them and to see him alone! I hope i get this soon. Im trying my best!
i do not receive crumbs. i receive all the attention from my sp and all of his desires for me. i will not let him show up unless he is here to give me his all
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Omg Shelly, my sp was feeding me crumbs. I watched this video earlier today and made some changes within myself and repeated those statements that you mentioned in this video. I'm super shocked right now that my sp asked me to go boating with him and meet his family. Wow, I was not expecting this to work so fast.
Loooove this!
Can you just share the statements you used?
Hi dear can you share that statements you used
Congratulations sis🤗🤗❤❤🙋♀️
Awesome!!
I don't believe in "partial manifestation" anymore. The universe always knows what you want delivers even better than you imagined
it just shows how aligned you are
I've experienced it, but it was my own fault. I think it gave me too much hope and then I got lazy. Or assumed the rest was on the way. Either way, I should stop believing in it too.
You go 👍
Nice
Great video. Very helpful
Crumbs don’t satisfy me, I am manifesting the 5 course meal! 🥰
Ha! Love this!
Same here!!!
I love this
Yesssss
Whoa!!!
Yessssss.... I AM NOT AVAILABLE FOR CRUMBS! I only accept the whole damn loaf! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥
Wendy❤😘
Yess!
Yaara Haim Hi!!! ♥️🥰
It does work
I only accept someone fully for comment me too I do not accept crumbs
My father always gave me crumbs and never held his word when he promised to be there for me. 30 years later EVERY MALE HAS GIVEN ME CRUMBS. IT IS ENOUGH. I'm valuable, I deserve to be chosen and I will only accept 100%!
I know your response is from a year ago but I had to comment because this resonated with me. In fact I had a conversation with my father a year ago telling him because of the way he showed up in my life are reasons I’ve accepted men who showed up as such. At that moment I had to change what I was accepting.
@@Capeverdeprc omg same girl. Im so sick of this. Im gonna choose me everyday and forever.
@@crunchybunbun yes choose YOU every single day!! We got this!!
@@Capeverdeprc omg same!! It’s so wrong that we are like this, but it starts NOW! We are loved and worthy of great love 💗
@@BrooklynBaby100 yes, we deserve the very best and nothing less! No more crumbs 🙌🏽💛
Don't allow BETTER THAN NOTHING contact-- and boom, there's the ton of bricks. Shelly, you are absolutely on point with this video. Obviously we are creating our reality, but when we get a little bit of contact and run with it (because maybe this is all he's going to give me, so I'll take it), the result is disappointment. We have to do a lot of SELF LOVE practice as well in order to get the total package that we ordered from the universe. And that sucks for some, because they think it sets them back-- maybe it will, depending on your self awareness. But you can do self love practices and manifest an SP at the same time. You'll do it a lot easier after you have done that deep soul searching and recognize your own worth, but whatever works for each person. Thanks for this!!
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If you become a person who's not available for crumbs, you are gonna start responding to differently to them, and they're gonna start responding to you differently!💖love this!
Yes!
@@ShellyBullard thank you Shelly♥️
But, will he not mistake my not responding to crumbs as being arrogant or being not available?😅
This is very important info, especially those who are fond of manifesting text messages from their SP. Crumbs you want, so crumbs you're gonna get.
I don't want just text messages from my SP. I want us to be together in the 3D reality. It's all or nothing. And so I saturate myself in the inner experience of us already in a relationship :)
arvj123 absolutely- same for me. I don’t want texts and I don’t want an apology. I want us together and that’s what I shall have. He knew from the beginning that I do don’t crumbs so the contact is very sporadic but never ‘crumby’
Love it!
Yes me too 😭 sometimes i feel like its best for me to stop responding to text messages so they worry about me and wants to ask to see me in the 3D
If i want to manifest our marriage, but i don't want to get married till 3years. But i am now friends with my sp. So what should i do, shall i manifest relationship also? Or it will happen eventually? Please tell me
Wow dear & how do you do that?
I'm shaking my head as I listen to this because YES -- this is so true and I have definitely done this in the past. "Take your attention off their pattern and construct a new imaginal reality of who they are and how they're being with you." Brilliant! I especially appreciate the practical suggestions in this video.
So glad you liked it!
I am absolutely blown away by the simplicity of what she's sharing. We create from the inside out. Our feelings tip the scale in our favor!
I’ve not only been accepting crumbs, but have been grateful for them too. This has got to change, and I’d like to do that in a quiet non dramatic way so that ties aren’t cut. Thank you Shelley for your ongoing work, I view a lot of your video’s and can take something useful from all of them.🙏
So glad you like them❤️
Yes, non-dramatic... that's exactly how this should be handled. Just work on it from the inside and let the other party come to you. I agree that stirring a pot and telling them you're demanding more out of them probably isn't the best way to go about it.
How to go about it when they text once in a day but not showing up fully as I want I have told him to talk to me when he wants me fully or not text me at all he still texts once in a day
How would you do that? For me it's either I continue answering him or not at all! How to make him feel I don't accept breadcrumbs if I am still replying him?
And if I don’t reply he gets so mad like we need to know how to reply to this the Shelley way lol
Wow, did I manifest this topic? I genuinely was thinking on this as it’s my situation lol. Thank you Shelly
Same!! ha!
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LOVE THIS VIDEO! My SP has been initiating contact all week after implementing some of these practices.
John DeOca hi will you share some of your practices? I love to hear what others do
Amazing!!
Same! Would love to hear more
My SP came back but the same pattern happened. He showed up, then he is gone. He messaged me, then he left it hanging. But then he actively messaging other people at night, while leaving my messages hanging. I always wonder why the same pattern happened. Now I understand the reason. My imaginal experience and self concept. I must work on my self concept. That really needs consistent work.
Yes!! I have decided that I am only receiving daily conversations and seeing eachother daily.. we are building an commitment, passionate, faithful and fun relationship only! Thank you hun
Love it✨
This is so true... I only had success in my love life when I was fully confident in what I was bringing to the table and I wouldn't settle for less than I truly wanted. Once I lost than, I lost the relationship too... I really need to get back on track!
Yes
I got a text from SP today. It's been months since we broke up.We are talking respectfully and friendly to each other right now.
If it’s okay, are you willing to share an update?
I think it’s important to realize that manifestation is mainly about yourself. We give our own power to others. Thank you for this video.
You’re welcome!
Shelly, I watched this video this morning because I was frustrated with my SP. I wanted to confront him but I kept telling myself that everyone is me pushed out. Tonight I liked how we talked. We have so much connection and I know that he is starting to realize that I am special and irreplaceable.
Wonderful!
At one time this WAS the case...not anymore I changed my mindset and accept nothing less than what I give..
I don’t accept crumbs! I only accept someone fully showing up for me fully coming in and fully ready for commitment nothing less 😊
Yes!!
I love those powerful declarations! “I only accept someone is fully shows up for me!” ❤️👍🏻
Yes!❤️
I agree totally !
I wish I had a love icon for loving this video, this is the actual ultimate thing I needed, to start slow and live in the end of that they're coming towards us and if they don't meet up to your standards, then it's nothing. All or nothing! Period! Love you Shelly ❤️❤️🌹🌹🙈🙈💞💞🤞🏻🤞🏻
Wonderful! Glad you liked it ❤️❤️
OMG! I saw you on one of Matthew Coast’s videos. And I truly believe that I was divinely guided to you. You have blessed me with this video! I look forward to diving deeper into your work. Thank you for this loving guidance. We are beautiful beings, and we can manifest anything that we desire! When we believe in and love ourselves first! I’m learning! Thank you.
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I’m so happy you’re here
Yes yes yes... and with each passing day I am feeling like the wish fulfilled already...easy breezy..💞💞💞💞💞
this is exactly the missing link I was looking for. for a long time now I couldn't understand how to focus on both the manifesting process (mostly with imaginal acts and feeling the experience inside me, my favourite methods) and the "3d approach" of intentionally behaving a certain way, that I still value and I think might be the "path of least resistance" sometimes, for example asserting my boundaries and be respected and valued as a natural consequence of it. thanks to your video I've just realized that making the effort to not accept crumbs means that I show myself what kind of woman I am, and makes creating my new self-concept much easier. I mean, I have just showed the world, and myself, that I'm rare and valuable! it also means that I simply refuse the realities that I don't want, for example a reality where he never calls me, a reality where he's half friend/half boyfriend, etc, and allowing only THE reality that I want.
this is a huge breakthrough for me Shelly, thank you so much. You keep changing my life and I'm forever grateful.
Beautiful! So glad you’re here❤️❤️
I like the concept 💡 of "training" them how to show up. Somehow that clicked.
Practicing the imaginal concept is fun and takes the focus off what u don't want. Love it!
This is perfect, I was starting to think about how to be at this stage, so we need to keep positive, continue with self love, continue imagining how we want them to be with us, imagining that our meetings with them are successful ( imagining our time spent with them to end successfully, and in relation to Living in the end) .
Thank you Shelly Bullard, excellent advice as always.
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Amazing! So glad you’re here ❤️
there are no coincidences, this video came up at the perfect time lol. I've been doing really well yet didn't even realize I was still assuming I'd get such long waited for scattered responses till you said all that. Going to work on it! thanks for this
So glad you liked it ❤️
Yes... He only shows up Fully for me.❤❤🔥 Thank you!🥰
You’re welcome!
No more crumbs! 🍞 Not this lady. Lol 😂
Yes!!
I've been trying to manifest my sp for going on 5 months.
I haven't seen any signs but I do feel an energetic connection.
I am new to Manifesting but I've been manifesting virtually everything that I want except for my sp.
But I have been seriously focused on it. I have put everything I have into it.
But the past few days I'm feeling more at ease.
I've been doing that guided meditation you made multiple times a day every day.
I had a lot of doubts and fears about whether there was a third party or not for months.
But I have been changing my thinking and if any of that comes up I change it to. No she's faithful to me and has eyes only for me.
So I am doing everything I'm supposed too.
Now I feel more at peace and I try to maintain the feeling that we are partnered constantly.
Sometimes I feel very connected. Usually I do when I visualize that our minds, bodies and souls are melded together as one.
If anyone has any pointers I'd love that.
I really love this woman but also I kind of think that the reason it hasn't been manifested yet is because I have chased and I've been working on not doing that and I always have it on my wind because I want her with me.
So it's probably because I just focus on it too much and need to think of other things so the universe can work.
U r a wonderful person and u deserve what u want
Going to try that right away, I intend to update with positive results soon
This video is right on time. I am not available for crumbs and half assness. I am a queen and should be treated as such. It is all or nothing!
Yes!! I love it❤️
I can't believe I've only just found you! You have helped me realize and actually see what I've been doing wrong and you make everything so clear and calm.
(I just binge watched on all of your vídeos ...where have you been all my life)!!😊😇🙏
So glad you’re here 🤍✨🙏
I agree. She popped up in my suggested and I needed it. I have leaned back with the love of my life and working on me and doing all of her suggestions.
I actually love this video. It was very helpful. I am going to revisit the claimed and cherished exercise
Beautiful.
Hi! I’m a new subscriber and I love your channel!! I’ve been going through old videos and I came across this one last night. I tried this and I eventually fell asleep. Well, an incoming good night text from my SP woke me up! So this morning as I was getting ready for work, my SP called me… he said I sent you a text 5 minutes ago but you didn’t respond. Lol. 🤦🏾♀️ So this absolutely works. We are also supposed to meet up for lunch today! I’m going to continue to focus on myself and going within. Thank you.
Once he started giving me breadcrumbs, I tried to see if it could be solved first, and once I understood there was nothing I could do, (since that isn’t what I want), I let this relationship go and went away.. I’m so proud of myself for not accepting it and not holding on to something that wasn’t making me happy anymore ❤️
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
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Hello it's work I can't believe
Wh@tspp him
I am also receiving crumbs right now...universe is showing me the way...thank you Shelly ❤️
You’re welcome 💙
Your explanation regarding the acceptance of crumbs really makes us identify the level of value and self worth we have even further. Thank you x
You’re welcome! Glad you liked it ✨
What to do if your specific person is in your life right now but they are not fully showing up the way you want, they are there but they are not really giving you what you want.
What To Do In This Situation?
* In some case this could be a partial manifestation
* However the whole world is you pushed out
* You might have predominately identifed of them showing up that way
* You are focused on 3rd reality of them showing up partially and you belive that to be true
* To change this kind of situation you just change what's going on inside of you.
The 2 crucial things you must do to no longer recieve crumbs
1.) Is to changing what you belive they are doing.
* you don't have to convince your linear mind that your sp is showing up different way
* You must create imaginal act about your sp, showing up the way you want
* They are can be half way there or not fully there, They are present and absent sometimes
* You must take off your attention from this pattern and you just go deep within your own inner world, your imaginal world.
* Construct the reality of who they are and how they are being with you
* - Start feeling your sp showing up more and more.
- start feeling they coming towrds you.
- feel that they are texting you.
- feel that they are thinking about you.
* Do this over and over again to make your belief strong❤
* You dont have to go all the way to be in relationship jusy feel them cominng to you this is a great end result to start with.
* Just convince yourself that something different is happening.
2.) You must change your self concept.
* Self concept is that you think feel and belive about yourself
* You are the person who doesnot recieve crumbs must be your belief about yourself.
* I am not avaible to someone to show up partially
* the thing when you desire for you sp so much when they show
up to you partially your eniterly avaible to recive them that way
* Hence you get caught up this cycle of crumbs
* Cause you feel its better then nothing.
* if you want them to fully be there for you must create a self concept
*That's what your really going to accept
* Either they show up fully or nothing.
* It's like your training your sp on how to show up.
* Your new self concept must be its all or nothing I only recive all attention
* You dont have to tell your sp about this. About him showing up in a certain way you want them to
*You must change how you think and feel about yourself.
* Don't take actions From still trying to manipulate your situtaions with specific person.
* You dont have to change yourself to tried and be something so your sp will respond to you.
* Your self concept is what needs to be changed
- look i will only accept soemone fully showing up for me thats just who i am and how this is gonna work
* This is only between you and you.
This is it ❤
Thank you so much Shelly❤
Beautiful❤️✨ thank you!
Shelly Bullard your welcome ❤️
uuuh great topic Shelly!
Thank you!
Hey Shelly! It’s funny how recently all your videos are about things I have been wondering about and this video just made it clear. Eg to change my subconscious mind/limiting beliefs I’d wonder do I need to say things like “i know he wants me” or “he wants me” or “I am the woman he wants”, “I know he wants to go back into a relationship”, “he wants a relationship again” “I am the only woman he wants” 🤯. I think a lot of times many of us “allow” or sp’s to breadcrumb us because we are worried if we say/act out that we won’t accept crumbs then we’ll lose them completely even if it’s just crumbs we’d be losing. Without fully recognizing that the crumbs we’re not happy with yet clinging onto are created by us in the first place! And we can change that! Thanks again, Shelly. ❤️
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Hi Shelly. Its Samantha from Cape Town. I love your videos and find it really helpfull. Thank you
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Self love, self esteem...the keys for everything. Thank you so much Shelly. Take care💜
You’re welcome ❤️
yes! i needed this reminder. i don’t accept crumbs!
Yes!
Amazing video Shelly ( i typed this before watching plus this is the 111th comment, that's a great sign lol)
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Thank you universe, perfect timing for this reminder 🤗
So glad I found you! This was extremely helpful!
I love this video it came at a perfect time! I have a person I'm interested in and we are talking but latetly i only get a text back at a certain time every day. This was starting to piss me off, because conversations like these are frustrating. Anyway I have been thinking about this a lot these days and decided that I wasn't going to take that. Either you talk to me and engage or you don't but I'm not going to sit all day and wait for answers. I know that I was accepting these crubs because I would get excited to recieved that one text. But I'm done I'm worth so much more than that. I'm aware of the assumptions that I created so I'm just going to work on that. I know this stuff works. Plus I know he likes me just it's just me needing to work on the my self beliefs Thank you Shelly, your words confirmed what has been going on in my head!!!👍❤😊
So glad you loved it✨
I believe imagining the wedding ring and staying there while imagining, was a bit of an obstacle.... or not?!
There is definitely an improvement between non communication to being communicating in an intense way every single day for a month now. But we were stuck there... I felt unhappy with accepting that situation...
After telling him this, I feel relieved...I hope something changes now!
I have been listening to your videos for a about a month then on one you said don't accept crumbs .I thought deeply about that realizing that what I have been doing .So then I was like Im just going to be open to anyone ,not just my specific person . Then I got the self love course ,which is phenomenal . It really helped me . About 2 days after that I met someone online and they are all the things that I was wanting from my specific person . Exactly like I wrote down and thought about .Including their age and body type . .Its so Amazing . !!! Thank you !
Wonderful!✨
Can u plzz help with what is there in the free self love course
Your videos relax me. You are so wise and graceful, sending me beautiful vibes. Sending you love and positivity! Xo
Aww thank you! Glad you enjoy them❤️
This is simply good relationship advice - whether it’s metaphysics or not. 👍🏻
11:11 I think i am sort of decoding this thing by myself.. i am someone who's been receiving crumbs since lockdown.. and i was happy until now.. however.. I have now made a book for affirmations and visualisations (i can imagine better when writing and paint a picture that way) and in this book i myself wrote some sequences where we are talking/ chatting constantly, receiving more attention and priority.
And today i see this.. so I feel im on the right track..
Love it!!! ✨ You are queen Shelly👑
each time I watch your video I always learn something new.
I'm already living my dream life.
Thank you for choosing me as winner 😉❤
You’re welcome! So glad you’re here❤️
My comments going to be number 333. Definitely i am going to apply this concept that you mentioned. I love this and i am sure i will succeed
Yes!!
I do this actually very strongly from the first phone call or date.. don’t have patients for nothing less.
Thanks for this beautiful video!!
Great as always😋😋
Glad you liked it!
Thank you so much sister 🖤 for always reminding me that my life is in my control and settling for anything less than I want is not a option in my life.
Yes!!❤️
But I still don’t get HOW you not tell the SP
that you will not tolerate the crumbs. 🤔
Actually very crucial explanation for those who are suffering from depression. Lot of Thanks for encouragement and how to be happy with ourselves. 😊
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Hi Shelly! This really does work I started manifesting someone to text me when he was only giving me crumbs by pretending he loves texting to to only get more and more attention :)
Amazing!
Very important it really isn't about the other person it's about us and loving ourselves ❤️
You're awesome,💛💚💜
Thank you❤️
You are so insightful. You have quickly become my favorite guidance for Loa
I appreciate this video. I believe you may be the only person who has addressed getting "some" attention but not sufficient attention. Thanks for not assuming that it is all or nothing with an SP.
Oh Shelly...thank you for this video.... This video nailed it ... I have been very frustrated these last days. We had no contact for almost two months. He blocked me... then he decided to contact me and we have been talking every single day on the phone. We are very close to each other BUT he says he wants me only as a FRIEND. This is painful! As you've well said, I accepted that but made me unhappy. I definitely want him as my partner for the rest of my life.
To be his friend is not really an option for me.
I have been imagining, scripting, trying my best to pick the right thoughts....but the situation is not changing.
I feel frustrated and tired. I would like to give up because I don't see what to do!
After watching your video, decided to call him and did it!
I told him this time I will be the one who wants to decide what to do I informed him that I will block him for a while to gain some clarity. I also said that do not want a "half-backed "relationship. I want a full commitment in a relationship and don't want to be friends with him. Everything or nothing!
He replied: ok!
What made me even more crazy.
I feel he has all the power....so I need to see how to change my beliefs... And understand that I am the one who is in charge of what's happening in my reality. It seems to be difficult though to revert this.... I have a strong belief that he is the one who decides ... And he doesn't want to be in a romantic relationship with me.
What can I do?!!!
Thank you!!
He said very clear, only FRIENDS, you can't force someone to love you.
Thank you so much shelly,this is it(the video).i stopped texting my sp(whom i attracted to be my husband) 3 weeks ago because i was the only who text first and i some how believed i should stop and let him make the move now.and this video gave me courage.Thank you again and i believe that he is missing me and will contact me very soon❤
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I'm really glad you made a video on this subject, I remember asking you about this. It just confirms that I'm on a right path because that's the same mindset I had. I've refused to accept crumbs.
Amazing!
We are worth more than crumbs! It's actually insulting for someone to treat you like this. Thinking they can sprinkle their attention and keep you interested... Just like the term bread crumbing states, give them a little and they'll still stay around. Screw that, I'm going to find myself a meal!
Love it!
Can’t wait to watch this!
Awesome!
funnily enough, this is super relevant (I mean more than usual, lol) So the person I'm hoping to become friends with, actually faved one of my comments on twitter last night, and I was honestly overjoyed JUST to have gotten that. I've been focusing on getting a full blown message, but that alone to me was extremely encouraging, as they rarely fav anyones comments or responses (and I'd actually made this comment like 2 months ago and forgot about it). I mean it was a big deal to me just for that, it's like 'yes, I'm on my way!', and aside from that there's constantly the repetitive numbers lately. I mean it's crazy, it's gotten to the point where every time I see 1111 or 444 I'm like 'okay universe, I hear you, I'm ready already!' so yea, but this coming up right after that to remind me of what I need to keep doing to get the full blown manifestation, just awesome. Love the universe, and your vids as always.
Love it❤️
I definitely needed this video..
I only receive all the attention.
Thank you Shelly for creating one
You’re welcome! Glad you liked it ✨
Thanks for being here to teach us
❤️Shelly!❤️ No crumbs from you!👍
You’re welcome!
Learned something new today! 😳 Thank you! 🥰
So glad you liked it!🥰
Well I just manifested this video 😊 I was looking for it yesterday, I couldn’t find it. Put out an intention I will find it when I have to see it. I opened up my RUclips and here you are! 😊🌈
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Thank you, Shelly 💙 I went to close things off in the 3d with my SP about 3 weeks ago (break our lease, organise belongings, etc.) and he asked if we could sleep together casually. I said no to this, that I need some degree of commitment, planning in advance, etc. & later said actually, before anyone asks anything of anyone, we should just catch up and see if the vibe is still there. We agreed to stay open to revisiting this down the line, as the timing has been awful and we've had stuff to work through independently
We were going to catch up on the weekend and he ended up getting tested for covid. He thanked me for my offer of going to pick food up for him and said he hopes I'm well. I sent a couple of texts (that weren't opened) in response and one today saying I hope he's feeling better.
He still hasn't read any of them and I started to spiral and caught myself (this always ends up in me "talking things out" and getting anxious). I started affirming because I know i'm the damn prize and got busy in my own life and I'm about to head to bed & feel pretty great 😁 I won't accept crumbs and I won't make excuses for other people, either
Wonderful!
This is so important! Definitely applies to friendships as well!
Yes!
Woah. I think this video set off a major epiphany for me! Haha so funny I clicked on this video, cuz it has nothing to do with my situation 😂 Thanks, Shelly - you are a rockstar!!😘😘😘
Glad you liked it!
I think I manifested this video since I was thinking about this very topic only a few hours ago! Thank you so much Shelly, for all your guidance. x
So glad you liked it✨❤️
Thank you for this video ❤️❤️
I pulled away my energy completely and will only accept the changed version of him in the 3D😊 and after watching this video I'll starting believing a new pattern 😊😊🌼
Yes!! I love it❤️
I've been frustrated with this recently, so I feel like I manifested this video into my reality. 😆 Listened a few times already. I love your channel, thanks so much!
Amazing! Glad you liked it✨
Shelly you have some of the cutest earrings!
Thank you!
This subject I’ve had in my mind since yesterday 😁 even though I’m still struggling with a lot of anger and even hate because of this behavior 😁❤️ thanks a lot Shelly
You’re welcome!
I want to thank you for all your videos . I should of sought out this type of advice a long time ago.
You’re welcome 🙏
I am going on a binge of all your videos , You are my new favorite !!! This video is EXACTLY what I needed to watch . Thank you for the video darlin !!!
So glad you’re here!❤️
Omg thank you so much for this video! Now I really know what to work on, I need to believe I deserve full attention and commitment and a great partner, not just breadcrumbs! I've already prepared some affirmations to repeat, I wasn't even aware that I accepted much less than I deserve! Working on my beliefs from now on, no contact with SP, I want to have him fully or not at all 🥳🥰
Girl I am just gobbling up your videos. This shit is gooooold.
Your voice is so cheerful! Thanks for the video 😙
Thank you!
I will manifest my soulmate I haven’t met her yet but I know I’ve met her already I will thank you shelly! Thank you universe thank you universe thank you universe l!!!
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🌸 I had the most amazing mom, so I didn’t have issues from a child, however I was bullied and ill treated as child and teen via others
It made me not see a happy life for myself and I probably always expected things to go awry and not my way
What I’m trying to say I was expecting negativity
Sadly I manifested this for most of my life and what’s sad is that I can remember my mom always telling me to be optimistic about things and the outcome, to always look at positives etc. She said never feel sorry for yourself because there is always someone out there with worst problems and actually fighting through it to live. She also encouraged me to pray & tell God (source), my problems & ask for guidance & help to gain the solution & to remove any obstacles.
Years later I stumbled upon Shelley’s channel & combined with what my mom taught me, I haven’t had issues yet manifesting & it’s amazing just how much you can accomplish with source as you can’t manifest without his help. You have nothing to lose but so much to gain. Remember don’t stop improving yourself. You want to meditate, stuff for free on RUclips, Shelly has amazing stuff also
You need to exercise, how about also eating right too, speeds up process. Want to earn more, enrole on a course & study. Try to go out for walks in Mother Nature and be good to others. Volunteer to help the poor this will change your chakra energy instantly, but don’t help to gain stuff do it from your heart & because you love & care for others. Good luck 🙏🏼✨
Thank you for posting this video. This gave me more clarity and deeper sense as to why I should stop receiving crumbs from my SP or anyone. This just heightened my self esteem and will definitely do this. I’m only available for someone who’s showing up fully to me. 😘😘😘
Yes!!❤️
Thanks Shelly. Such a nice video. I was thinking on same line. I just woke up and saw this, definitely I have manifested this video. Thanks for shifting my focus.. looking forward for more videos
Glad you enjoyed it!
So True from what you said shelly. And its also important to stand close with your innerself. Knowing who you are on this earth. It happend to me that i lost myself. And it took time to find myself in that peace and love agian...self love. Thanks to you shelly i learn to and got back to stand close to my innerself. And been 1 with myself agian. That is not all the time about the other person who is bread crumming me. Automatic things and my sp Will Come to me by time. It start with the inner self and energy what you show into this world. 🥰🌈
Hi my relationship is fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together
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Hello it's work I can't believe
Wh@tspp him
Great video! I realize my mental diet is good but I'm not creating new visions or having a new story running in my head as how I'd like them to be. Now, I know what to work on. Thanks!!
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@@ShellyBullard There's so much to remember and think about!!
thank you soo much Shelly means a lot..................much love Keerthna
Im glad you liked it ❤️
watching this over and over
I will be back within 7 days with my success story!
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As you haven't, do we conclude it didn't work?
Ooooo, so excited for this one! Amazing, thank you for everything you do!
Lauren Michelle 🙏🏼♥️
Shelly, your videos come to me at the right time each time. I just started talking to someone new for over a month and so far we only hung out with other people our friends, never really alone. I am trying to manifest more because thats just “crumbs”. I want a relationship with them and to see him alone! I hope i get this soon. Im trying my best!
Yes!!
i do not receive crumbs. i receive all the attention from my sp and all of his desires for me. i will not let him show up unless he is here to give me his all
Love it✨