Can men and women be friends? w/Sarah and Dr. Andrew Swafford.
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- Опубликовано: 28 июн 2024
- In today's episode, Jason interviews Sarah and Dr. Andrew Swafford on their latest book, Gift & Grit, about developing meaningful and joy-filled relationships through a life of virtue.
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0:00 Intro
01:09 Pilgrimage to Italy
01:59 Patreon
02:28 Introducing The Swaffords
03:18 What is the Book Gift & Grit About?
05:56 Origins of the Book Emotional Virtue
07:20 What Does Gift & Grit Mean?
09:56 Can Men & Women Be Friends?
11:18 Friendships That Are Not A Good Idea
12:29 Friends in Motion
13:15 Just Friends?
18:53 Pitfalls of Male/Female Relationships
23:09 Woundedness Awareness
29:39 Settling vs Being Too Picky - Where's The Balance?
37:45 The Non-Negotiability Of Faith
43:53 Grit Infusing Life Into Dating/Marriage Life
50:15 Things To Watch Out For While Dating
51:05 Abuse in Relationships
55:15 Consequences Shape Future Behavior
55:57 Chastity: Friend or Foe?
1:03:38 Wrap Up
The "bowling night" group thing is a great example of what we lose in the fast pace of modern life where people may be very busy, but very isolated. Growing up, you do get to know families, see people in all kinds of social situations so that's a great time to find the right person who you know enough to at least have a foundation. As we get older and life is no longer in the "home town" and moving around a lot, the town events, church functions, backyard BBQ's all change to very "put on" superficial club life, etc.. So getting to really know a person is a forced thing were you have to go on a date to figure that out, which puts very artificial pressure on being "on" and best behavior rather than seeing someone in the group being themselves.
And for adults, this is even more complicated. It is an uncomfortable category for this podcast, but divorced, annulled, widowed have an even harder time figuring this out. Growing up in a small town or neighborhood is clearly one of the best times to find someone, but after that trying to find or create social gatherings (NO or very limited Alcohol!) with no or low pressure for relationships and just easy, relaxed interaction seems like a great idea.
Great video, but the audio was too quiet!
Love all your videos, Jason! God bless! My prayers are with you and your family.
Always love anything from the Swaffords!
Yes they can. One is not restricted to only friends of one's own gender.
Does anyone else struggle with the sound in this video? Even at maximum volume on my laptop, the Swaffords speak softly.
yes the volume is very low, and when the commercials would come on it was so loud I had to press mute :/
I do better with men when we're just friends.
No! 😂😂 easy answer
Ikr why complicate things lol
First.