Fat Acceptance's Most UNHINGED Influencer Worse Than Ever
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I’m a nurse and I was injured on the job by a 560 pound woman who expected me and another nurse to stop her from hitting the ground because she wouldn’t put any effort into walking to prevent blood clots. I was put on medical leave for 4 months and I now deal with chronic pain because of this incident. The woman that injured gave me a half assed apology and later said I shouldn’t be a nurse if I’m unable to help patients. I was fuming mad, like lady it’s not like I have to help 500+ pound patients walk everyday but I was trying to prevent you from getting blood clots.
They believe everyone should cater to them and they’re always complaining about something. As a nurse they make our jobs so much harder because they will not help themselves and are stuck believing the world should change for them. I love my job because I love helping people but I would be lying if I said I don’t hate to see obese patients come in time and time again over issues they’ve caused themselves.
Former lab scientist here and former 400lber who ran my ass off having to draw the other morbidly obese frequent flyers with no peripheral access. I saw the reality of it and it was a wake up call for me.
My aunt and my little sister both threw out their backs trying to help morbidly obese patients move around and both of them got yelled at for showing pain. So infuriating!
Comes as a risk with the job YOU chose
@@CorntwallLipstickQueen It shouldn’t and really doesn’t! I I signed up to help people who needed my help not have obese people fall back on me because they’re to sorry to help themselves. People like you are exactly why hospitals have staffing shortages. We are sick of entitled people when all we are trying to do is help.
@@CorntwallLipstickQueen I mean, if someone is making your job harder, then you'd be annoyed too. All jobs have this risk, but the risk is higher for jobs that require directly dealing with difficult people.
Gonna be honest, this is NOT a common problem for plus size people. A size 16 can still fit in a vehicle. You've just got to be cartoonishly big for this to be common. And they are really desensitizing the world to the fact that this size is unnaturally large
you’ve gotta be HUGE to need a seatbelt extender. this is not a prob for many fat people. she’s beyond delusional and entitled
☝🏽This. Jaebae and her associates just put themselves under the umbrella of “plus sized” and seem to be out of touch with how big they actually are. Most overweight people still fit in seats, find clothes in regular stores, and generally get by in standard infrastructure. Jaebae doesn’t even seem to realize how unreasonable it was to expect a normal sized person to push her up a ramp in a wheelchair let alone to create whole @ss bigger elevators!
Cartoonishly lmaooooooo 😩
I'm a size 18 and have never even pushed the limits with a seat belt in a vehicle. It's been a tight squeeze in movie theater seats and plane seats but it's pretty rare that that happens. The worst is restaurants with tiny metal chairs, the average person hardly fits on those 😂
Cartoonishly 😂😅😭
How is NOTHING ever a wake-up call? How can you exist with zero self-reflection?
I recently watched a Michelle McDaniel video where she read a comment that said something like, “being morbidly obese is an inconvenience until it’s too late,” or something. So, her problems may be largely “wah I can’t fit into an airplane seat!” for now; but sooner or later her problems are going to be … being immobile, being on the brink of death, etc. I don’t wish that for her, but unfortunately that seems to be the direction she’s going in 😕
For me. I look back thinking "how is this... or that not a wake up call?" For reference I was 674 lbs and bedbound. It wasn't the bedbound that was a wake up call. Wasn't the unable to wipe myself that was the wake up call. It wasn't un able to walk 20 ft. I can go on and on. It was a 911 call where 6 firefighters and 2 ambulances had to carry me out of my room on a tarp. Was embarrassing. I am now 419 living best life I can. Turned my life around 900° I did turn it around couple times. And now did another 180. So I tell people I Turned my life 900 degrees around.
@@native_saiyangood work man. That's a huge weight loss
Something I think about literally every single day. 🤦🏻♀️
one of my worst fears is being in a body cast/paralyzed/immobile, how are some people not terrified of that?
Pregnant women, after a certain point in their pregnancy, have to produce a note from their doctor proving that it is safe for them to fly. Perhaps that's the solution for people who cannot walk more than 10 feet without their lips turning blue. You're putting everyone at risk because you refuse to live in reality.
My father, after having one lung removed, a heart valve replaced, and a carotid artery completely blocked (many people die when this happens, he....just kept trucking and didn't even notice!) was told he could no longer fly or go anywhere with an altitude over 3,000 feet.
Rather than complain, he simply didn't fly and went to the beach instead.
And the reason that pregnant people in the late 3rd trimester have to do that is because of the higher risk of them turning into a medical emergency. This all tracks.
It's also interesting yet sad that if you are morbidly obese and there is an emergency with the aircraft, especially when you have to evacuate quickly, you can't save yourself.
I remember when my dad's wife had to show someone an ultrasound image in the airport because they didn't believe she was only 6 months pregnant. It was just twins. I thought it was hilarious but she definitely didn't. I was 12, so I don't remember the situation or why that was enough proof for them, but it all worked out other than her asking everyone how far along they thought she was for the rest of the trip.
@@soupsop2 From the entitlement shown by this woman, it is clear that she would expect others to risk their lives and others to save her.
She's the worst. No accountability, no self reflection, just pure victim complex.
I would bet my life savings I know who she voted for…
"no self reflection"
Because there are no mirrors that are big enough for her to see her self reflection
Her boyfriend is equally mentally ill
@@robcubed9557😂😂😂
"This woman assumed I could walk" Literally sees her walking.....
But if the woman assumed she couldn't walk, she'd have cried abelism.
@@canecorsomom2023 true. "Stop treating me like a child!" while proceeding to act like a giant toddler.
She seems to think that her obesity is a natural thing and the same as someone with a natural handicap. However on one hand she defends obesity as healthy and normal and then demands special treatment for having a “handicap”. Telling her that unlike someone who lost a leg to cancer, she did this to herself through gluttony and laziness would fall on deaf ears.
Mental illness and addiction is a "natural" thing tho. There aren't aliens coming down and making people fat, it's a natural issue when addictive food is easy to get but humans and most animals evolved for the opposite.
So is mur dering your children tho -- lots of animals kill their offspring in times of perceived stress, it's very natural and very very horrible and society and individuals should try and change to reduce natural but bad outcomes.
This. So which is it, is being obese "healthy" and has no effect on your quality of life, or is it a "disability" that must be catered to? You can't have it both ways, girlie.
She'd just say you're fat phobic.
@@krdiaz8026 I’d say you bet I am. I don’t want to die and I don’t want you sitting next to me on an airplane. And nothing says healthy better than needing an oxygen tube just to walk a few steps.
That's a dangerous route to take. One could have lost a leg becoming he was driving recklessly, and I still think he should get all the help available. However, humans can not grow a leg back, but they can lose enough weight to become more mobile
She has no sympathy for that woman who would have had to push her up the bridge. She could get hurt
She didn’t care if she would have rolled backwards and squashed her. She’s selfish asf.
That's immediately what I thought, too. I've always hated seeing 600lb life episodes seeing responders aiding someone so huge, and I think of their poor backs. She whined cause she had no help, suck it up, and carry the weight you collected yourself over the years, people can get hurt just helping.
man, I've been a big girl all my life (not Jae Bae sized, but I did hit the 300s at 5'8") and I work in healthcare. I have experienced how hard it can be to push a very large person around, or even provide care for them in general. More and more people are hitting 400, 500 lbs and obviously needing extensive assistance. And that was one of the biggest catalysts for my weight loss journey. I never want to be the person destroying someone else's back and joints.
They only care about themselves and don’t mind imposing on others. I’m a nurse and was injured by a 560 pound woman who expected me and another nurse to stop her from hitting the ground because she wouldn’t even try to walk. I was put on medical leave for 4 months and now deal with chronic pain because of this incident. They believe everyone should cater to them and they’re always complaining about something. As a nurse they make our jobs so much harder because they will not help themselves and are stuck believing the world should change for them
She shouldn't be allowed to travel, if you need more than one seat travel should be banned.. i don't even care how that sounds, its not discrimination its for health and other passengers safety
She's not healthy enough to travel if her tiktoks are true. It's unfair that she expects staff to cart her around while she doesn't even appreciate it or understand how difficult it can be pushing someone 500+ pounds.
I used to drive for Lyft. I stopped because you get treated like a medical transport. Every shift I did had me picking up some sort of disabled person that I was completely unqualified to assist. I've had people in wheelchairs who can't walk. Mentally stunted people who couldn't communicate. I even had a guy still on a damn iv hop into my car in his hospital gown. Her expecting a seat belt extender is ridiculous, but so is a lot of other aspects of that job.
ur area is crazyy 😭😭 americans suck ass
Oh God that's terrible lol I just took an Uber the other day and he said he's so sick and tired of dealing with the entitlement of people.
My sister told me I should drive for Uber and asked what my excuse was. I told her I don't like strangers in my car. Now I have another 'excuse'. Thanks.
I drove for uber a short time, late night fri and sat. Once they poured this pss face drunk dude in my back seat and told me to take him home. He got way too drunk and was acting up apparently.
If he started to get beligerant. Or thres up, I was gonna dump him on the side of the rode. I was barely deciding to keep the job, so didn't care if they fired me
Unless it’s recently changed, Lyft had an option where you could request a driver that could handle someone handicapped.
However, I hope that you refused rides when you didn’t feel that you could safely accommodate the rider. There’s no shame in that.
That is like saying every ride share driver should have an infant car seat, child seat, and booster seat for any one who has to travel with a child. Also make sure you can fit my luggage. It is unreasonable and you are responsible to carry what you need to keep you safe.
And enough space that really tall people(like 7 feet) fit comfortably and they have enough space to carry a wheelchair or a buggy and your 6 head family 😂
I was thinking the same thing. After all, the law mandates car seats for kids under a certain size.
Seriously! So well put! Pretty sure she could fit an extender in a bag when she’s riding in a car 😂
Also, in my opinion it's much more sane to think that the Ryde share person has a sitter for children. The world should accomodate people with children more.
@@ThatWeirdFinn which age? There are so many different seats for different ages. Expecting ride shares to provide one or even two or three of each is not realistic
I'm already annoyed. Uber drivers use their OWN CAR!! Geezus
The entitlement and total lack of self reflection is astounding
She is disabled by her own actions. She put herself in this situation and expects the world to cater to the damage she's done to her body. It infuriates me. My father was truly disabled due to polio and was in a wheelchair from age 10. How dare she think she's the same as my father. No one should be disrespected, including her, BUT ALSO INCLUDING the people she's abusing by demanding they cater to her. She can pound sand.
It's ironic because I've found that people with disabilities they can't control don't tend to act this entitled. They just expect and plan for the world to be not easily accessible to them and just want things like a parking spot to be able to actually get their mobility devices out of a car.
Pound sand is a good one. Haven’t heard it in a while. Sorry about your dad. Polio is rough and sadly we will see it return due to anti-vaxers.
@@wallhagens2001 thank you and agreed. I'm worried about it returning in force because of anti-vaxers.
I have a son with cerebral Palsy who can't sit up, walk, talk, pretty much quadriplegic. My handicap broke down. In a late hour. Called a tow truck but the lyft voucher that AAA gave me I could not use. I made do by calling a family member which we did our best 2 get his wheelchair and carrying this heavy 1001b boy in the backseat. We make do. If it was not a weekend or night I would of called a med ride. If this selfish girl wants everyone 2 accommodate her and claims 2 b DISABLED....call a med ride not an uber.
Your a amazing parent
1001 lb boy?
Look, I was mortified when at my biggest, I had to ask for a seatbelt extender on an airplane. What did it do? motivated me to change ME, not demand the airline change. I was the exception, not the rule. Most people don't need extenders. Now I don't need one anymore, problem fixed! Also don't need an extender in a car, wider hallways, bigger towels, bigger robes etc.
Know the feeling same thing happened to me
I'm so glad you made the change! Congratulations!!
Good for you! ❤
Good for you! Way to go!
I have lost 💯 lbs! Still like bigger towels, though. Who doesn't?
This is like if a paralyzed person signed up for a football team and demanded they change the rules of the game to fit them. But unlike someone who’s paralyzed, jae bae’s problems are fixable
She needs to look into a mirror to see what the actual problem is.
🎯🎯
They make mirrors that big???
I'm sorry but I have to disagree with you. I don't think that there's a mirror for her to fit into.
Great Jae Bae. Force thousands of Uber drivers to buy seat belt extenders costing tens of thousands of dollars instead on ONE PERSON losing weight.
Why isn't she buying a set of seatbelt extenders for the most common rideshare vehicles? Why should the burden of expense be on the drivers instead of the PERSON WHO IS THE PROBLEM?
The drivers should refuse her a ride if she can’t wear a seatbelt. That’s very dangerous for them to have that much weight slam into them if there was an accident.
Ummm, I'd be more concerned about the shocks and struts. And the tires and the suspension , and.....
@@jameswillett2403 Haha!! Ya, those too!
So which is it Jae Bae, is being obese "healthy" and has no effect on your quality of life, or is it a "disability" that must be catered to? You can't have it both ways, girlie.
You nailed it!🎉
hey! finally early. i’ve lost 70 lbs through weightlifting and eating better. you’ve been a great creator to watch that can relate, and is also nice and mature to others who don’t agree with you or even are rude to you! i lost a lot of friends due to losing weight… so it just means a lot to see you on here! please never stop 😊
YASSSS great work 👏
Good job.
Yes the best
Congratulations on your weight loss fam! 👏👏👏 That is so awesome!
@@curlyhairblacklilacs thank you!! 😄
My dad was 400-450 at his largest and needed seatbelt extenders in cars and planes. He BOUGHT HIS OWN, and traveled with them.
I guess that never crossed her mind?!?
Best comment.
It's brought up multiple times in the video, she claims to but that they don't work for most cars. Other comments in the video are verifying this is the case.
@@hefoxed This is true, they're model-specific. However, she can buy a set of about eight that would cover her in about 75% of vehicles.
But that would require her to be a responsible person.
Apparently, others are obligated to spend their money and risk their health to accommodate her, while doing something about it herself is apparently not even an option.
This woman is ridiculous. Not trying to be mean by saying this. I'm just appalled by her lack of personal accountability. I feel bad that she's become so blinded by her "fame," or whatever it is, that causes her to blind herself to any sense of responsibility for her own actions.
I'm trying to be mean , mean as possible she is an insufferable obese evil most oblivious person ive ever seen
She’s obnoxious, and obviously sharing custody of her last brain cell.
There’s a real common theme of 1. Lack of accountability 2. Narcissism 3. Main character syndrome
I know actual disabled people who get around without being nasty. They use car/taxi services that will not only accommodate them, but also know how to assist.
Her saying its "not safe" to not have an extender is correct, but her willful ignorance to the fact that being morbidly obese is unsafe is actually hilarious !!
As a former Uber driver, she A. Wouldn't even fit in my car and B. Who is paying for this seat belt extender? Is it Uber or is it me?
She should carry her own. It’s a her problem. Just like, I should make sure I have what I need when I go out. It’s no one else’s responsibility.
I would refuse her service
@@marias7848Right.
Volvo used to give them out for free at dealers , not sure if they still do
As someone who was born with an ankle deformity that needed multiple corrective surgeries, lifelong medical treatment & will cause me pain/issues for the rest of my life I WISH diet and exercise could cure it. It’s an insult to anyone with any actual disability or medical issue they have 0 control over when obese people try to equate themselves with actual disabled people.
I had a rough night last night and totally blew my calorie deficit because I was emotional about some things going on in my life right now. This video being posted is the sign I needed to get back on it this morning!
These are the types of videos I work out for health and fitness motivation, too. & I’m PMSing so I toooootally get the emotional eating … The next thing you do is more important than the last thing you did 🙂
Hey dude that's awesome! It's not whether you slip up that matters, it's whether or not you get back up and keep going. Progress isn't linear. You're doing great 💜
One night is not a major slip, just get back on the horse tomorrow and ride. I slipped a little tonight myself by 500 calories after a perfectly grueling week at work. I'll make it up over the weekend, no biggie.
Does she believe that every rideshare vehicle must been wheelchair accessible?
The answer to unhinged demands is, “Please take personal responsibility for yourself and your needs.”
I was an Uber/Lyft driver for about 2 years. I never once had someone who actually needed a seatbelt extender, even the VERY overweight riders fit just fine. Don’t get me wrong, was all sorts of other craziness that comes along with having strangers in your car (especially as a woman), but if someone really expected me to have a seatbelt extender available for them, that’s a joke. Uber and Lyft are barely even worth the time/gas $/wear and tear/psychological damage from spending time in San Francisco traffic. Ain’t no way in hell I’m buying a seatbelt extender to be prepared for the 1 in 6,937,608 chance that I’ll be picking up JaeBae. This chick is ridiculous.
Disabled people can't simply make a better eating habit and do some exercise and then not be disabled anymore, but she can.
I work as a wheelchair attendant supervisor in the airport - I have agents that get INJURED from pushing passengers who are so morbidly obese and refuse to help.
I lift, and still struggle days 😂 but it inspires me to train ever more ALSO making sure myself and my agents are sensitive to all passengers; is so incredibly important. Of course there will be bad apples but it is PER POLICY (at least with my company) that if a passenger is too large for an agent to push through TSA and the airport; they are to communicate this to their managers so that another agent can come to assist. This story is just…. Grrr! She needs to bring these items and come prepared instead of expecting the world of others. Especially others that are already there to assist you and make life easier!
She says it’s unsafe to ride without a seatbelt. It’s also unsafe to walk around with 150lbs of extra body weight because you could trip and fall down on a kid causing serious bodily injury or death.
More like 150 kg
A person with zero discipline and zero accountability making a list of demands about how other people should conduct themselves. She just drips entitlement…..and honey mustard.
If I was the Uber driver you can bet I would keep right on driving once I saw her
"Decline ride. Reason: Shocks can't take that crap."
Ride share. Heck, I would not let anyone her size in my car. New suspensions and tires are too expensive.
As a former fat person obesity is an addiction not a disease or a disability it has all the same traits the dependence the soothing of trauma the withdrawals.
And with addiction you help the addict quit compassionately you don’t place vomit buckets in the street for alcoholics or give drunk drivers drunk driving lanes you give them help.
Facilitating her addiction and allowing her to make it her life is beyond dangerous her whole career is toxic activism fuelling her decline so instead off dealing with her issues society numbs her perception off it from oxygen because she’s to fat to breathe to massive seats so she can forget she ways as much as 2 grown men.
What's scary is if the plane had and emergency would u want this person in front of ur family from exiting the plane in a hurry? Is she able 2 slide down the inflatable emergency slides?
@@teresaporter3339 she would be ok on the slide the issue is in a mad panic she’s an oxygen dependent barely movable rock if you have the choice between saving say 5 kids or one very heavy woman unfortunately people aren’t gonna prioritise her.
My partner is in a wheelchair with a major disability but there also very skinny and do have some minor mobility so in a worse case scenario I could carry them Jay weighs as much as an actual vending machine so imagine deadlifting a vending machine down an aisle
Addiction is a disease and can become a disability.
One of the most common disabilities is depression -- disability and disease covers a lot.
Someone can cut off their leg -- they caused it but it's still a disability.
@@hefoxed F THAT!!! Alcoholics lost that addiction narrative decades ago. Don't think they didn't try, though. It took away accountability. Addiction is the result of action--totally preventable. Obesity does NOT magically turn into a real disability.
@@justartandmusic9553 Yeah, bad news, it works that way in fires as well. Mobile children and people before...her. Your partner long before her as thin people in wheelchairs would have been a priority in any hospital I used to work at.
Nobody discusses it, but yes, that's the plan. Hit the numbers you can get out first, then the ones who require some work, then the ones you have to struggle with, if there's still time.
Im flying today. I better not have ass spillage in my seat or im demanding my flight to be free for the inconvenience
I fly back and forth from east coast to west every 2 weeks. I'm a very small person. I'd LOSE.MY.$HIT. if someones body was in MY seat. Also why I fly first class more often than not. I dont need a bigger seat, but it IS nice, and there is literally a ... center console thing dividing the seats. Kind of like in a car? Cant spill through that. I dont... think? LOL
Eeeeeeveryone's a victim these days.
And self responsibility is a thing of the past.
If it wasn't her weight, she would find some other excuse to play the victim. That's what these people do. They're allergic to accountability.
The extreme level of entitlement is astonishing. She choses to be obese, she should realize that it is 100% on her not anyone else or any companies responsibility to go out of their way for her.
If she has her own wheelchair then why didn't she use it? Also if her fiancee I believe he is, always accompanies her why doesn't he push her instead of the airline worker who most likely wasn't strong enough to push her 600+ self. If this and the incident where she got stuck in the door happened where is the video? Oh and the one where the flight attendants were in a group and openly mocked her. Always filming but doesn't record the 'incidents' because yeah I'm pretty sure its b.s.
Hard to believe she's turning 28 this year, and I doubt she is ever going to try and lose weight. I'll be surprised if she is still around in 10 years with all the damage she is doing to her body.
Order a special vehicle, Princess
If you need a seat belt extender that is your responsibility to carry one on you, for the same reason you can't get in an Uber with a child under a certain age without a car seat. That is not on the responsibility of the Uber driver.
My husband and I just flew recently and one of our stops was Chicago O’Hare airport. We were exiting the plane and on the jet bridge to get back in to the airport. We were waiting for our luggage in the jet bridge and a worker showed up with a wheelchair. She was a woman in I would say her 60s. She was there to pick up a rather obese older woman. I would say the passenger was close to 400 pounds. The worker was having a difficult time pushing the woman up the incline of the jet bridge, and especially at a spot where there was a bit of the bump connecting the one ramp to the Jetbridge. We tried helping the worker push the wheelchair with the woman in it over that bump and we were struggling. The worker then asked/told my husband to take over for her since he’s a man 🙄 my husband is very much a person that wants to help people no matter what, so I’m left scrambling to grab our luggage while he’s trying to push this obese older woman over the bump and the worker is pushing my husband on his back to try and “help” get the woman over the bump. I was trying to tell my husband we should probably just have the worker contact another worker to help because one of my first thoughts went to if the worker got injured they might at least be somewhat covered by their company/short/long term disability. My husband would not. And the part that really irked me was he has a bad back to begin with where he’ll go weeks at a time with his muscles spasming. He did something to his back Mother’s Day weekend planting flowers in his mother’s yard and after almost 2 months it was finally feeling better on that trip. And then he got roped in to pushing this obese woman.
I’m not trying to sound rude about it and of course I’m glad my husband was able to help the woman, however, it was taking 3 adults to push this woman up the dang ramp. It irritates me when other people have to cater to the needs of others when they put themselves in that position. And I’ll add that the passenger never even said thank you to us/my husband as fellow passengers to help push her. It’s not like we were workers. Of course I want to help out fellow humans and I do very often without expecting a thank you. But this situation rubbed me the wrong way because I imagined my husband injuring his back that had just started to feel better that freaking day after being in pain for almost 2 months.
If she can afford plane rides and ride shares, then she can afford her own seat belt extender.
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The thing that always gets me about her that I've never seen people mention is that her demands are always to include to "at least" her size. It's always "make this so that it can fit a size 6x." What about people bigger than her, does she not care about them? She was a 4x two years ago, so even if they follow her demands and change everything, what happens when she inevitably gets up to 7x or 8x? It just doesn't make sense.
These people make me sick
We need to make personal responsibility cool again. 😉
I’d be pissed if I was a taxi and had to pick her up.
It's not only a liability, but it's very hard on the car, too.
I strongly feel that people should not get disability benefits for being obese.
It’s just so entitled that they made a choice and want everyone else to take responsibility for it. Legitimate disabled people do not complain as much as her. I would know I’m a disabled person and part of living is figuring out how to adapt to your environment not how your environment adapts to you cause that’s not how that works.
I have a lot of food allergies and can have reactions from just smelling things like fish. Restaurants should all be banned from serving fish!
I also have a medical condition where if I stand too long, I faint. Every public place should have a special chair for me every 40 feet!
The world needs to specifically revolve around every single person or else it's discrimination! 😂😂
Pots and MCAS? Me too 😢 (also EDS)
It annoys me how she automatically expects the. world to stop for her. And John love your videos
You can buy seat belt extenders at minimal cost. Why doesn't she just buy one and use that in ubers???
She... Does, or at least claims to. They're just not actually universal. It's brought up multiple times in the video.
@@hefoxed there are ones that fit the majority of cars on the first page of amazon shopping, I've looked
Because then she wouldn't have a reason to complain.
@@dd42101 You give a lot of trust to sellers on amazon.
Sellers claiming their product works well doesn't make it so, and amazon reviews are notoriously sus.
Various comments on this video verify the issue. Ubers are not standardized. Tho, that brings how hard it'd be for uber to implement this -- finding the right seat extender for every can would likely be a expensive headache, vs disabled focus vehicle services are likely bit more standardized and able to provide such.
She stated her fiance had trouble pushing her at one at another airport. She didn't refuse to push you she just waited to get on level ground. She can't push 400+ uphill
I used to bring an extender with me for airplanes a few years ago but those aren't even universal anymore, they don't work for Southwest for example. I imagine it's just too difficult to make a universal one for a vehicle too. If I couldn't ride with a seatbelt I think that would be just one additional reason to want to change things, it's just not safe. I don't even go anywhere until everyone's buckled up in my car, if I were a rideshare driver I would feel really uncomfortable with the fact that my passenger couldn't buckle up, not just that they wouldn't.
She expects the WORLD to change for her, yet she changes nothing about her own self. If she put in the same amount of effort into learning about diet and exercise, she wouldn't be near death after walking 50 feet. This lady is absolutely ridiculous.😂
Why doesn’t she bring her own fucking seatbelt extender??? us Uber drivers don’t make shit, the entitlement is insane
And who is filming her walking to the car. She literally just creates drama for content.
It seems like a health risk to fly at that size and no harm to her at all it's more of a care for people to me. If her lips were getting blue the travel isn't worth it
Is she going to also pay more to the drivers due to her size requiring more fuel for the vehicle to operate properly? I assume not. This woman is so entitled it drives me bonkers!
I have some friends that are like what you mentioned. "You wouldnt ask a person in a wheelchair to change. Why should you ask me to change?" For me. I have a lot pain from being obese. I think of it this way. When i lose weight. I will lose some of the pain i am in. Might not get rid of all pain because the punishment i put my body through. But if i can get rid of half my pains. I would be happy.
Ride share drivers make horrible wages in a lot of towns, I hope she isn’t expecting them to buy accessories. There are people whose disabilities prevent them from using ride share at all (if they receive disability benefits, there are alternatives for necessary transport but not easily for fun), they understand that the accommodations needed would be “unreasonable” accommodations to request.
At my heaviest at bmi 42, I still never needed a seatbelt extender, even on an airplane. Not every plus size person needs this, Jae Bae, just “infinifats”.
All of these travel complaints are honestly just her personal red flags … I wish she would allow herself envision the life she COULD have if she was not as heavy. Even 100 pounds lighter would probably improve her life!
Love your content! You are always kind in these videos … even when the videos you comment on are eye roll worthy 🩵😂
My wake up call was that my knees would start hurting when I walked up the stairs. Idk how you can get to the point of your lips turning white and nearly fainted from walking a short distance.
I mean people who have diabetes or celiac have to be prepared to travel, I have to pack gluten free food literally every time I go anywhere long enough that I’ll need to eat, it doesn’t make me angry that not every restaurant serves it. For heaven’s sake I have a cousin who was born with CP, and has used a walker and braces his entire life and he doesn’t behave like this.
Imagine thinking that jet airplanes, need to be small enough, when you want them to be larger to accommodate you, so you don't have to walk to your seat as far. ....oh wait..We don't have to imagine it.
2:57 why does SHE buy a seat belt extender if it's such a big deal? Instead of requiring any car that may carry her to buy one. Logic and planning are a thing of the past.
It took me three seperate times travelling to realise and accept I am a problem. It was when I started crying in fear of the seat belt not fitting. That’s when I knew. It’s not a life to live.
Recently I flew again and could actually tighten the belt. It was a moment 😭
They take up an inordinate amount of firefighter/EMS time on obesity related calls.
I’m an ambulatory wheelchair user (I can stand/walk just not long) due to degenerative neurological disorders, arthritis, and more… This creator you’re talking about infuriates me. I really appreciate you calling this stuff out!
Also I wanted to mention that there are not a lot, or even any kind of ride service for us that are like Uber. Ride shares for people with disabilities don’t really exist except for the Access-a-ride which is for medical appointments only and super unreliable or expensive private transportation services. This is my experience at least and I live in a big city. The world is really not accessible for wheelchair users, it’s part of why you don’t see us often. Pay attention to entry ways and bathrooms in public places and you will be surprised at how much is inaccessible to us. It’s very frustrating!
I'm disabled and this makes me want to scream. I figure out MY personal way in the world, I don't ask the world to change for me. This main character syndrome stuff is so selfish and short-sighted I have not the words.
Disabled people don't choose to be disabled , she does
I've been on a weight loss journey since the end of January of this year. I lost 25 pounds, and recently had a backslide where I traveled for two weeks and just completely indulged in whatever I wanted and hardly moved my body. I feel absolutely awful. My body is so uncomfortable and in pain that I can't imagine that I lived like this for so long. Even walking through the airport to get home felt notably different than when we left. I cannot begin to fathom the way her existence feels. I'm around 60 pounds overweight now, and the difference in losing just 25 pounds is night and day.
I get motion sick in vehicles, but I don’t expect my rideshare drivers to be equipped with Dramamine when I get in. I bring it for myself cuz that’s a me problem. So delusional
none of this is a red flag to her, eh?! she is absurd
God, does this woman ever stop complaining? I can't understand how a person can make demands of every single thing she encounters in life and not consider the option of making some personal changes. It's just tiresome.
In the event of an accident, a passenger without a seat belt is dangerous to the other people in the car, regardless of weight. It is unsafe for her to be without a seat belt, not just for her but for the other person(s) in the car. I don't think it's up to the ride share driver though...it's up to her to take responsibility and accommodate her size and disability by using a medical transport or something able to accommodate her.
As a big feller i dont expect anything to be modofied for my convenience. Especially belt extenders, that's on me to have if i need it.
I'm hearing impaired. I feel discriminated against because I can't always understand what the ride share driver is saying, therefore I demand every ride share driver have a Bluetooth wireless microphone that pairs with my hearing aids, they can wear when I'm in their car. It only costs about $350, batteries not included, needs to be stored within certain parameters, and needs to be checked every day for wear and tear and cleanliness. It's a safety issue if I can't hear every word of the driver. This needs to enacted as law immediately. I'm sure JaeBae will agree with me.
1:33 1st time she did cardio for 3 mins.
It’s not the workers fault they can’t push 600 pounds uphill
She 5'6 when she's standing 6'5 when she sits.
There was a woman named Elizabeth Morris Fisher, affiliated with the fat acceptance movement and NAAFA/Dmensions, who was on crusade for all vehicles to make seatbelts big enough for people of all sizes. She lost the ability to walk in her late 40s and died suddenly age 55.
If you're healthy regardless of size, and obesity doesn't effect you negatively; why is she comparing herself to disabled people and makes it a point to tell us that she doesn't need oxygen anymore?
Im struggling with an ED, and these people sounds just like my ED; oh, it's not a problem, im still healthy, I'll stop after this time... it sounds exactly like every addict ever when they're trying to defend their addiction
If she was smart, she would be recommending seat belt extenders and putting an affiliate link in her descriptions to make some extra cash. Such a missed opportunity. Imagine how different the vibe would be if she was reviewing belts for people to bring with them instead of demanding (futilely) that all ride shares do the work for her? Chaching!
She likely doesn't know (I didn't until Adam Conover picketed with airline workers), but flight attendants don't get paid for time spent not in flight even though they're working. Refusing to push an obese person uphill in a wheelchair protects the flight attendant from injury that wouldn't be covered by workers' comp. It's not fat shaming or discriminatory. Until airlines pay their flight attendants fairly, that's gonna be a no go
She can’t carry her own weight to walk but someone, more than likely half her size, is supposed to be able to push all that weight? Best of luck to her because I’d feel silly taking her seriously
JBay is not disabled, thank you. I am and have been for 30 years. 😊"It is time to make it mandatory for Uber drivers to post whether they are willing to accept large person body odor all over their seats or not." Just being honest. She has significant Candita infections that cause an unpleasant odor. Can she bring a towel and Fabreeze for us then???
Lmao the final boss 😂
Its wild to see people even having this kind of problem, where im from (scandinavia) we really don’t have many people that are super obese, overweight yes but not to the point of needing special acommodations because of their size😅😮 i myself am considered obese by my bmi, had lost almost 80 lbs by working out and watching my diet and got down to 180, and even had abs, but i got pregnant and am now in my third trimester and have gained some back, because of extreme fatigue i can’t workout as before and i van say that i don’t understand that a person can rather want to be big and not being able to move properly than to put in a little work to be healthy, i can’t wait to be able to train again when baby comes🤷♀️😅
I have disabilities I was born with. I don’t necessarily get “offended” when she calls herself disabled because she is disabled. She did do this to herself but she’s still disabled. I do think her expecting every single Uber cab to have extenders for this specifically is pretty entitled though.
This person is just fundamentally misinformed about the rideshare business plan. They aren't gonna reimburse anybody for anything.
Al Bundy, where are you when we need you the most??
The problem with "healthy at every size" is they do not define healthy. If you can't walk around a grocery store or down an airplane ramp without serious repercussions, you are not heatlhy. Period.
Here's my question... if someone knows they need a seatbelt extender, why couldn't they just buy one themselves and make sure they bring it along whenever they need a ride??? Why are we forcing every single rideshare person (usually people working extremely part time and making pittance) to have one on hand in the off chance that they pick up a passenger who needs it, rather than expecting the passenger to carry one themselves? 🙄