"We're not a cult." "We'd rather you no longer exist than lose weight and be healthier." "The outside world will never love and respect you like we do." "If you leave and come back, we're going to punish you." Cult is maybe a dramatic description, but also...............
if you gave these people 24 hours in a fit body they would never talk about health again. the only reason they can even breach the topic is because they obviously dont remember being physically healthy.
This! The human body is incredibly adaptable and you can be a ‘high functioning obese’ person for a long time. But like an abstinent alcoholic who suddenly experiences the sights/tastes/smells of life through sober eyes, when you lose weight you realise how dreadful life was. How you became a martyr to discomfort. How you needed something to grab on to to get up off the floor. How your feet swell and hurt after a long day. How you developed sores and rashes through sweating in the summer. How your acid reflux woke you up in the middle of the night. How you risked a blood clot every time you take a long flight. How you tell your friends you’re happy chillin’ by the lake while they go off on a magical hike to see a glacier in the mountains. Losing the weight is life changing.
So, people losing weight is something that she resents. She totally resents it. She calls it a power trip because she feels powerless over her own weight. A lot of us struggle, but there is zero reason to be hostile toward someone who is able to lose it and keep it off. Why the hell does she care if someone weighs themselves daily and counts their calories? She wants to eat how she wants without judgement but yet she's all too willing to judge someone else.
That's the word I was looking for, resentment, jealousy. Wouldn't be surprised if she lost weight and started preaching exactly what she si criticizing here.
The fact that this woman is a teacher kind of stresses me out like she seems like the exact kind of person to rip an 18 year old apart because they accidentally phrased something poorly during a seminar
Plus, she obviously thinks she's so funny and just a born entertainer. Some teachers were actually funny and entertaining; this is not what it looks like.
She is so emotionally immature you just know those kids are more grown than her and more stable also. What school would watch their teacher get into fights on tiktok and be ok with that person repping their school
This lady is a nutter, and it's disrespectful constantly using the thin privilege shit, feels disrespectful to people that are actually discriminated against.
After seeing this tiktok in several videos, why do I have a feeling that she's shading people like that one girl who started losing weight to fight her cancer, but can't say it directly because even she understands how unhinged that would sound.
I'm thinking perhaps Glitters and Lazers? I have mainly seen Jordyn in The cynical dude's reactions to WIEAD and don't and seem more like she ironise about fat stuff
@@johannas.l.brushane2518 maybe, though I think I've heard that Glitters and Lazers wasn't open about using medications to help her weight loss so she wouldn't fit the description this tiktoker provides. I may be mistaken, I don't follow GnL closely, only through YT channels like this one.
As someone who was in an MLM (multi-level marketing, aka commercial cult), I get this from people who are still in it as well. why do you have to speak out against it? Why do have to "spew hate"? I speak out because IT HARMED ME! And I don't want it to harm anyone else! I imagine people who leave fat acceptance feel the same way. They aren't "spewing anti-fat bias", they were harmed by this movement and now want to warn other people against getting sucked in.
Exactly! Fat acceptance harmed me. I spent four years trying to “love myself” by ignoring what I was eating and how much I ate, I gained 40lbs and ended up having back issues.
This!! I was fine letting myself decline in health because I believed I would never be healthy and that was okay. I'm so glad I had a wake up call before anything bad could happen.
Well,it's not fat acceptance's fault if you were misunderstanding basically everything. I am on an intentional weight loss journey and It just makes stringer my will to fight for fat acceptance. You just did not understand what the movement is about.
@@lemonadewithstrawberries I mean it is objectively true. Weight loss programs are advertised absolutely everywhere, medications, gym memberships, magazines....where have you been because it's been like that for decades lol
@@yallthought8444There’s also all the advertisements for soda, candy, snacks, and fast food. It’s ALL consumerism, baby, it sells you disease then sells you the cure, whoop whooooo.
As an academic/medical librarian I've been taught (unofficially and on the job) to not be a condescending twat when teaching things to others-- ESPECIALLY when you have to convince them of something. Even if they were correct, there's no way this would bring people to their side
I honestly feel like they don't care about convincing others. they just wanna rant to their echo chamber, then cry "oppression" when they're called out on their lies
That's another clue that they're in a cult: they have ZERO awareness of how they come across to others. I could swap them out for Moonies back in the day.
Losing weight will never be okay to them for any reason. They say there are exceptions to that rule, but there aren’t. They say you can lose weight as long as you aren’t fatphobic but simply losing weight is fatphobic to them.
I remember when Adele came out with her weight loss.. didn't say anything to anyone about why and they came for her and attacked her saying she's abandoning them for losing weight.
This. They're avoidant. The truth hurts and they're trying to live in an echo chamber where they don't have to hear it and do so by discrediting criticism as blind hate.
@@aliceluna702 she just is making little facial expressions and hiking up the volume of some of her letters. She acts like she thinks she's adding a little bit of cutesy personality to what she says to make it seem less ridiculous which it didn't (peep Amberlynn Reid she's acting just like her)
Can you believe how unhinged that whole "intentional weightloss" idea is? So if i do plan to lose weight in a healthy intentional way is super bad but if i lose weight because im sick and about to die without having control over it thats a good reasonable way of losing weight by their logic, thats the only "good weightloss"
@@lug358 exactly! It also kills me when they tout about their blood panels being normal. I understand that not every body is the same, but claiming that excess fat and body composition do not equate to health is the equivalent to driving your car with the check engine light on. Sure, you may be able to drive that vehicle with no issues for several thousand miles, but at some point you're gonna end up stranded on the side of the road and beating yourself up because you didn't take care of the issue sooner.
@@lug358look at the way she distorted intentional weight loss, too. To her, it’s weighing yourself every day, tracking every bite that goes in your mouth, etc. So to her, intentional weight loss is just disordered eating and nothing else. She can’t wrap her brain around the idea that intentional weight loss can be about simply improving your diet and moving more and doesn’t always involve tracking calories. That wouldn’t fit her narrative that intentional weight loss is more dangerous than bejng fat. It’s more convenient for her to vilify it completely.
@@ratulamorie5255 absolutely. But also, i dont think that tracking calories is disordered by itself. In fact, tracking calories helps me to keep myself on track, as we usually are not good estimating how much food we are consuming. For disordered behaviours to happen there must be a disordered mindset. Tracking your calories, weighting yourself etc does not have to be a disordered thing, neither physically or mentally. What i do think is disordered eating and behaviour is to be binging on junk food all day everyday and having no thoughts about your health or wellbeing at all. But thats the other side of the same coin that they dont want to admit to.
This started as “acceptance”, with an understanding that your ideal state would be a smaller you. It unfortunately went too far like everything else and became a rigid ideology with rules and regulations you MUST adhere to or you’re not part of the “community”.
I always thought it was just accepting different bodies and abilities, and not stigmatizing or harassing them because of said weight or disability. It has nothing to do with weight loss or lack of weight loss. At least, in my opinion it doesn't. 🤷 I think people can do what they want with their body. It has nothing to do with me how someone else looks.
That’s exactly what I said.😂 It’s very sad to admit that you have to stop doing something that is part of your daily life to respond to useless comments.
I find it funny that she's saying that people have no originality even though every singe person involved in the FA community say the same exact things.
When you get older your body feels it. I have always my whole life been either stick thin or overweight. The yo-yo diet has wrecked havoc on me. Im 44 and diabetic. I recently found out I have kidney disease. I would never look down upon fat or thin people. My point is, look after your health. Do not end up where I am.
the 'healthy at every size' crowd doesn't seem to factor in age. I got along fine being overweigh for most of my adult life. Then late 40's the blood pressure starts to go up, blood sugar keeps inching higher, cholesterol above normal, out of breath walking across a parking lot. I needed to lose weight or look forward to dealing with a bunch of disease, brought on by carrying excess weight. I lost 100+ lbs. It does matter. All those health markers are in the normal range. Losing and maintaining does not come easy or naturally for me. I work at it every day.
I'm not fat. I'm not skinny. Is there an average-size group I can be a part of that will threaten me and make me feel bad for changing myself if i decide to? Like come on people...people shouldn't care what size other people are!
When I was younger and dealing with a binge/restrict eating disorder, I found the body positive/fat acceptance community really helpful. Then as I began to recover, I started feeling less comfortable in those spaces. It felt like many of those people were still obsessed with their body, but in a different way. I think loving your body where it’s at is really important and I don’t see anything wrong with it. But for someone like me who was struggling with body image and obsessing over it, it was still putting focus on my body and wasn’t helping me. What finally pushed me out of those spaces was seeing a content creator who I had been following for years really fluctuate with the her wait extremely. She was very open about her mental health struggles and I feel for her, but I realized she was still in a disordered eating mindframe, just fluctuating between both ends of the spectrum. I hope she found peace but I didn’t want to take advice from someone in the middle of an intense struggle.
I actually remember when I was morbidly obese, I had a similar delusion about "thin" people. I sadly assumed life was easier, if you were a smaller size. I realize with age and having lost the weight, that this was delusional thinking. I understand now, that a large percentage of people, look at those who don't have the same struggles they do, and automatically assume that those people have an easier, better life. For example, if money is a constant struggle, those people may believe that those who have money have an easy life. This is, of course, not true. In reality everyone has their own struggles. Overcoming a struggle doesn't automatically absolve you of having struggles. Basically, grass is always greener on the other side. I keep reminding myself, that while their grass may be greener to me, my grass may seem greener to them.
My dad used to tell me “People won’t care about anything you have to say, until they know how much you care about them.” Idk what possessed this woman to think that speaking down to others will make her argument more persuasive 😂
Shaming people for trying to take better care of their health is so absurd and acting like being honest and public about choosing to lose weight is "sh**ing" on anyone is just delusional. I hope nobody working to lose weight and improve their health pays any mind to this patronizing mean girl!
@@LouieNJ like i get that they can relate to each other and bond on similar experiences on being fat, but that does not make it a community, specially when is something that can be changed whenever they decide to.
"Don't talk over the infinihair folks, you have short-hair privilege and don't know the tangling struggles" Damn this could work, we should start that 🤣
I lost a lot of weight and get comments like "oh you're so lucky though you're thin" I absolutely hate this thought process of fat people. It's like no girl I'm on a constant calorie and exercise control to stay this size because I don't want to die!
I have dealt with it too! When I saw friends I haven't seen in a couple years they would call me a "skinny b*tch" say I'm so lucky that I'm small and make jokes about fattening me up. It's not luck..I put in a ton of work daily, for years.
@@LifeAfterLosingthis is it right here! People have made similar comments or something like "ugh I wish I could do it like you but I can't, you make it look so easy" I FUCKING WISH IT WAS! When I explain to them that it is something I will have to keep working on every day for the rest of my life they get even more discouraged but it's the reality for us former fats. No it's not fun but it's worth all the work hard work. It gets *slightly* easier but it's certainly never *easy*.
@@bloodzilla. 100%. It is something I will have to be aware of for the rest of my life. When I am not aware, I can gain weight very fast and I’ll be damned if I give it up after all that work. No way!
It is very difficult to accommodate people who just keep getting fatter with no end in sight. They need to stop acting like victims when it comes to the consequences of things they have done to themselves.
What privilege? What power? Being able to sit in a chair made for the average person is not a privilege. In today's economy, being able to eat more that trice of calories that a body of an average person needs to survive, that it's a privilege. And don't get me that: fast food is cheaper than healthy food crap when, for the price of one burger, I can buy a 1kg of rice.
I have often wondered how they can afford to stuff their faces with...I just cannot call burgers, crisps, and cookies for food, so let's call it edible items...all day. It is one expensive addiction!!!
I've been losing weight again but at this point I really only share that information with my doctor - and maybe one reason I'm doing it is to fit on a plane, or walk around a zoo, or take care of medical issues. It doesn't matter, people just care too much about other people they don't even know.
That's awesome you're doing something to make you feel better! I totally agree it's nobody's business. Except maybe my physician for medicine dosing, or surgery risk, or to judge the risk of specific diseases too look out fir. Friends, family, boss, coworkers, strangers, etc, have no reason to care how much someone weighs.
luckily I didn't have many friends when I lost my 100lbs, so no one outside my family even really noticed.. and therefore couldn't pull something like this on me. If I make more friends in the future, I feel like I might have to keep my weightloss success history a secret 🤫
I feel like it entirely relies upon the character of your friends. Me and one of my other friends have started weight loss journeys and our two thin friends (A swimmer and a runner) have been super supportive. They've actually been surprisingly good about knowing when to hold us accountable when it comes to making excuses about what foods we're eating or avoiding exercise.
The whole "tiny taste of thin privilege" thing she keeps going on about isn't really what she's witnessing. It's simply people being excited about changing themselves and their lives. They aren't suddenly being treated like supermodels and feeling privileged, they're simply just stoked about taking control of their lives and feeling positive.
As someone who got a communications degree- yeah in-group and out-group exists, but it's not "one is good, one is bad". The in-group refers to whatever group you belong to, and the out-group is people who don't. It's not a heriarchy thing, it's about the different co-cultures we view ourselves to belong to. She's twisting it to fit her narrative
Their problem is 100% former fat people losing the weight and maintaining it. They preach being fat is a natural state, and 'new thin' people disprove that.
I don't understand what people like this want from those in fat acceptance who want to/need to lose weight. Are these people jus supposed to stay sick to not hurt the movement?
They want them to stay fat or just shut up about their weight loss so they don't feel like lazy slobs for not doing it themselves. Every person that leaves the fat acceptance arena and betters themselves is proving them wrong, and they don't want to hear any of that.
I'm fat. Even at my highest weight of over 370lbs never did I ever see being fat as a good thing. It's not healthy. I totally agree that we should be nice to each other and if someone wants to stay fat and unhealthy then it's up to them. I can say at 60 I regret not getting healthy earlier because the toll it's taken on my body and overall health is sad. We're just not designed to carry that much weight. I don't want to be in the in group if it means staying unhealthy and overweight. Two heart attacks, heart failure, diabetes, COPD, kidney disease is nothing to be proud of. Learn from my mistakes, get healthy before your body breaks beyond repair. It gets harder the sicker you get.
I'm all about loving your body doesn't matter how it looks like, but I don't understand feeling confortable in a size that is so big that you cannot do basic things as pick up things on the floor without almost having a heart attack.
I do think ex fats are pretty outspoken much of the time. However, I also think that’s a part of food addiction recovery. It’s like an alcoholic who comes clean to everyone they hurt. Accountability is the most important tool in the journey.
@@johannas.l.brushane2518 I don’t disagree with that. I do think most only do that around people who make comments or ask questions. I’ve lost 85 myself and I don’t bother talking to people who didn’t start the subject. I figure if they are interested, they will ask.
with the fat acceptance movement as crazy as it is i think we need more outspoken ex fats honestly. the fat acceptance ppl have been brainwashed into thinking that it's like impossible to lose weight and keep it off. they hate seeing that it's actually possible
No it's not. It's just counting calorie,it's not like I'm doing something important. Why do I have to talk about my weight loss journey? It gives me the ick when someone tells me I lost weight. Leave me alone,leave my body alone,I hate having a body and I don't wanna talk about It.
@@MikeEhrmantrautOfficialImpossible would be the wrong Word,but the probability of long time success are less than 5%,so It Is nearly impossible. My only hope to be consistent with weight loss Is getting depressed again,depression is the only thing that really helps me with weight loss.
This is why I’ve always said I don’t believe in the fat acceptance community. It’s a very scary community. As a big girl myself, I’m used to smaller people telling me to lose weight. Now I have to deal with other fat people getting mad that’s your losing weight. It’s weird.
I'm sorry you have to deal with other people telling you to lose weight. Being bullied into something doesn't encourage someone. A person should decide when to do things with their body.
Ah yes everyone who loses weight does it to have power and scoff at their less impressive fat counterparts, and not to…not be out of breath going up a flight of stairs, handle a medical issue that being obese directly affects, prevent looming medical issues, feel better on a day to day basis… I swear they have such main character syndrome
I don't really understand being in a community based around what you weigh in the first place. Tend to make friends based on hobbies and interests. While it can be frustrating feeling like the odd one out and judged for being the only fat one I'm less interested in being part of a group of people where the thing you have in common is that you're fat. But I guess it's not really part of my identity in the same way.
Her little entitled speech is not original in any way. She and for instance Splotchmaker sound as if they have the same scriptwriter. There is no "thin privilege", they suffer the negative consequence of the lifestyle they choose, i.e. their own actions. Whining every day about not fitting into chairs, worry about whether they fit by the table when friends invite you to dinner, being angry about not finding nice clothes is surely more devastating to health by the constant stresshormone release than the habitual mindful reflection about what you eat.
Thin privilege is definitely real, just not in the way the internet interprets it. It's the same thing as pretty privilege - people are more likely to treat you with kindness and give you the time of day if you look a certain way. As someone who's been obese and has now lost that weight the difference in how the world treats you is insane
I my opinion, this "belonging in a community" is taken to an extreme when it comes to america. It seems very hard to feel special and wanted over there. As a danish person, I NEVER grew up in a "I belong in this group and you are over there, so we don't like each other" with body types or color or anything like that. Everything in america seems to be like this. "the fat community" what does that even mean? So overweight people feels a sense of community over being overweight and therefor accepted? You can be a shitty person no matter your weight? no matter your color? your income? It's unhealthy to label label label in this way. I don't see weight, color og culture, I see your person, If I like you and your morals, we are cool. It must be so hard to constantly having to seek labels and drama like this.
Omg- I’m first, I can’t believe it. I love your channel. The fat acceptance community is stone cold a cult. I lose over 200 lbs, and I was shredded by some of them.
Also, may I mention, you have the 100% right to lose weight SOLELY FOR AESTHETIC PURPOSES. If you want to be hotter, and you believe that you will be if you lose weight and tone up, you can do that. It can have nothing to do with health at all.
Most of these folks are way younger. That's an easier position to be in than middle age and up. It will get harder. Trust. It's not about weight loss for optics. It's for survival.
Just because "you" are "healthy" now, it doesn't mean being fat isn't wrecking your health. It just hasn't shown up on a test and/or manifest it yet. Just like an underweight anorexic can be "healthy", or a smoker can be cancer free.
She sounds bitter and jealous that others are making positive changes for their health and she doesn’t try. This woman sounds condescending, entitled, smug, ignorant and hateful.
It's frustrating to see how unhappy they are about other people deliberately trying to change their body size. I don't think all people lose weight just to get thin privilege.
I have no problem with Fat Acceptance existing, I think people have found a community and a way to promote better treatment of plus size people and that's fine. What I have a problem with is simply inserting yourself into the business of people who are not aligned with you. Not even talking about like outwardly hostile, fatphobic people who take jabs at the fat community as a whole--those people have opened themselves up to criticism--but I mean why bother taking issue with random other people who are losing weight? They're not actively working against you. They're not the ones hurting the community.
Few things are more grating than a communications major with a background in postmodernism lecturing via TikTok on fatphobia. Like, "Honey, I promise that prof you're crushing on is not following your TikTok dissertation."
People like her who want to hold other people back or control the narrative are just avoiding taking responsibility for their own lack of ambition to make changes and avoid their own feelings of inadequacy. Focus on yourself and if you really believe in what you're saying then why does it matter what people outside think... Oh... Because they're right and that's triggering for people who would rather live in a delusion.
lmao her dogs "yes" sure looks like the same body language dogs use to show discomfort (ears pushed back, averted eyes, lowered head) but she only seems to care what she wants and thinks soo... of course shes breaking her dogs boundaries the dogs proby just an object to her
It's "Thin privilege" when you work hard to lose weight. It's "Thin benefits." You benefit so much from losing weight and keeping it off. More energy, better maneuverability, clothes that fit etc It's all benefits to al the hard work you've put in.
I am currently training as a counsellor. To be honest, I see a lot of the anger and the rhetoric of shitting on the fat community by losing weight for health reasons, seems to be more an embedded issue than people are willing to talk about? Why are they so so concerned with what others are doing with their health and body that they literally make it into a part of a personality P.s. this is coming from someone who was morbidly obese, lost weight put some weight back on etc etc
As someone who was bigger it shocks me to see people like this. These people do not hold themselves accountable. Whether its loosing weight on Ozempic or staying fat and 'happy' and yet these people seem miserable.. Then you get the people who loose weight for health or gain weight for health and these creators see this as an attack because they are stupid and dilulu.. Its almost scary the amount of people from both sides who have such toxic and cold views on people.
I don't want to spoil her worldview, but the idea of controlling every single thing you put in your mouth was one of the most important skills in hunter-gatherer times (diahrrea could kill you), and it still is.
The way some of these people act, you would think they are being kicked and stoned by skinny people every time they leave their houses. I'm not saying fat discrimination and bullying doesn't exist, but talk about drama! My goodness!!!
Everyone is not seeking “power”, she is definitely projecting. Companies and influencers used the BP movement for clout. Now that it’s not popular anymore, the BPM is unraveling. If they were truly happy with their body and lives they would not be constantly making videos shaming people for losing weight.
I'm so happy I started losing weight. I'm only 26, so no permanent damage done to my body most likely. Although I was a healthy weight growing up, it started to creep up when I was about 20. And yes, I'm fatphobic, and proud of it. Jeez, this TikTok cult is nuts.
I found this channel by accident, but something I love about this dude is that he's so real and neutral about things. He respectfully has an opinion that isn't necessarily radically pinting toward a single ideology. I think nowadays the internet needs less radicality. My guy's so chill lol
The projection is off the charts with this one. This girl is miserable and trapped in a mental hell of her own making having convinced herself she can't lose weight, when the reality is she just doesn't want to. Or rather, she doesn't want to put in the work that weight loss takes. So anybody attempting to better themselves is seen as a traitor. This is the craziest, most toxic kind of thinking I have ever seen.
This chick is the definition of tell me you’re miserable without telling me you’re miserable. If she actually liked herself and loved her life, she wouldn’t be on the internet spewing hate. That’s not what happy people do. ETA: I have yet to see a FA influencer/social media person come back after losing weight to shit on fat people. If anything, former fats I’ve seen (like myself) are hyper-aware NOT to do that, or they try to avoid talking about it at all. But we CAN call out bs when we see it because we’ve experienced both sides.
Also this rhetoric- “thins”( all of a sudden name-calling seems to be allowed ..,) hate us for existing. When we eat crappy food we are sticking it to them and they hate it. Reality - most of us, most of the time, are too busy with our own worries to be concerned about what ANYONE else looks like. When e we are concerned about fat people it is because we love our friend, husband, daughter and we actually want them to live for a long time. When fat people show videos of themselves literally stuffing low-quality food into their mouths, basically giving us the middle finger as they do it we are perplexed- how does that actually affect us?? Why would it make us angry that you are doing that??
Soooo a cult is a place the does it's best to tie positive feelings to the group, hoping to indoctrinate someone via those good feelings being given when they obey, and bad feelings given if they go against the group belief. If a person is overweight and wishes to join a group, but then wants to leave due to health reasons and needing to lose weight only to be shamed about it then that would be the cult. If a person gains weight after losing it and is shamed by those who inspired them to do it that would also fall into the same context. My feelings are that weight is a personal journey that you can invite people to join, or request people not depending on your needs/wants. It seems also that most people who are overweight feel the same way about weight loss that many people feel when we find out someone is vegan. It is almost like we feel judged by the circumstance if we aren't doing exactly what they are (personal opinion) so people lash out to try and justify not doing the same thing as someone else. Even if the other person isn't doing anything judgmental, people can feel judged via their own mental image being challenged about their place in the world. Least that is my theory on it.
im so confused. They say they dont care about what people say or think about them but then when they realize they have to lose weight they dont want to share or show that because...then people would say things to them, like "told you so" or criticize them like wheres the whole "i dont care" attitude gone?
IKR, ugh! Something so creepy about it. When she said "A little taste" with the lip-smacking... 😬🤒 Without being horrible, I highly doubt she knows what a little taste is.
The thing is in the same way that someone who has never been fat won’t fully understand the struggles so to someone who has never been thin will not understand what life is like as a thin person so OF COURSE they’ll think it’s all roses.
"We're not a cult."
"We'd rather you no longer exist than lose weight and be healthier."
"The outside world will never love and respect you like we do."
"If you leave and come back, we're going to punish you."
Cult is maybe a dramatic description, but also...............
Just need a pair of aviator glasses and to tell FA members to 'keep their emotions down' when they have a health scare and think they're dying.
You nailed it
Imma be honest, I tell my indoor cats similar things when they meow to go outside.....👀
*Cue Anti-Hero softly playing*
I can smell the crazy from behind my screen. Thank you, but no thank you!
@@DeadLkeMe 😂😂😂
She is so condescending and, ..it's like she finally has a space she can be a mean girl and she's so happy to do so.
These kind of people LIVE for moments like this.
THIS
She is a very unlucky and sad person…
Yes 😊
Yes, she comes across like a thoroughly unpleasant individual.
if you gave these people 24 hours in a fit body they would never talk about health again. the only reason they can even breach the topic is because they obviously dont remember being physically healthy.
This! The human body is incredibly adaptable and you can be a ‘high functioning obese’ person for a long time. But like an abstinent alcoholic who suddenly experiences the sights/tastes/smells of life through sober eyes, when you lose weight you realise how dreadful life was. How you became a martyr to discomfort. How you needed something to grab on to to get up off the floor. How your feet swell and hurt after a long day. How you developed sores and rashes through sweating in the summer. How your acid reflux woke you up in the middle of the night. How you risked a blood clot every time you take a long flight. How you tell your friends you’re happy chillin’ by the lake while they go off on a magical hike to see a glacier in the mountains. Losing the weight is life changing.
Truth! Excellent comment! 💯
So, people losing weight is something that she resents. She totally resents it. She calls it a power trip because she feels powerless over her own weight. A lot of us struggle, but there is zero reason to be hostile toward someone who is able to lose it and keep it off. Why the hell does she care if someone weighs themselves daily and counts their calories? She wants to eat how she wants without judgement but yet she's all too willing to judge someone else.
Nailed it 👍👍
That's the word I was looking for, resentment, jealousy. Wouldn't be surprised if she lost weight and started preaching exactly what she si criticizing here.
Hypocrisy
All I have to say is that when denying allegations that your group is a cult, it's probably best to avoid threatening people who want to leave.
👏👏😂
The fact that this woman is a teacher kind of stresses me out like she seems like the exact kind of person to rip an 18 year old apart because they accidentally phrased something poorly during a seminar
I mean we can see how rude and condescending she is to people who aggravate her can you imagine being one of the students she doesn't like?
Here's hoping the student has the balls to stand up to them. Expulsion may be a risk though.
Plus, she obviously thinks she's so funny and just a born entertainer. Some teachers were actually funny and entertaining; this is not what it looks like.
She is so emotionally immature you just know those kids are more grown than her and more stable also. What school would watch their teacher get into fights on tiktok and be ok with that person repping their school
This lady is a nutter, and it's disrespectful constantly using the thin privilege shit, feels disrespectful to people that are actually discriminated against.
After seeing this tiktok in several videos, why do I have a feeling that she's shading people like that one girl who started losing weight to fight her cancer, but can't say it directly because even she understands how unhinged that would sound.
I'm thinking perhaps Glitters and Lazers? I have mainly seen Jordyn in The cynical dude's reactions to WIEAD and don't and seem more like she ironise about fat stuff
That was my exact thought too
@@johannas.l.brushane2518 maybe, though I think I've heard that Glitters and Lazers wasn't open about using medications to help her weight loss so she wouldn't fit the description this tiktoker provides. I may be mistaken, I don't follow GnL closely, only through YT channels like this one.
As someone who was in an MLM (multi-level marketing, aka commercial cult), I get this from people who are still in it as well. why do you have to speak out against it? Why do have to "spew hate"? I speak out because IT HARMED ME! And I don't want it to harm anyone else! I imagine people who leave fat acceptance feel the same way. They aren't "spewing anti-fat bias", they were harmed by this movement and now want to warn other people against getting sucked in.
Exactly! Fat acceptance harmed me. I spent four years trying to “love myself” by ignoring what I was eating and how much I ate, I gained 40lbs and ended up having back issues.
This!! I was fine letting myself decline in health because I believed I would never be healthy and that was okay. I'm so glad I had a wake up call before anything bad could happen.
Well,it's not fat acceptance's fault if you were misunderstanding basically everything.
I am on an intentional weight loss journey and It just makes stringer my will to fight for fat acceptance.
You just did not understand what the movement is about.
I've just never gotten a good answer when I ask people why they care about another person losing weight.
Our whole society is wired around it
@@Amyjwasherewired around caring about other people losing weight? not even close to true
@@lemonadewithstrawberries I mean it is objectively true. Weight loss programs are advertised absolutely everywhere, medications, gym memberships, magazines....where have you been because it's been like that for decades lol
@@yallthought8444There’s also all the advertisements for soda, candy, snacks, and fast food. It’s ALL consumerism, baby, it sells you disease then sells you the cure, whoop whooooo.
@yallthought8444 no it isn't. that's for yourself losing weight. not paying attention to others
As an academic/medical librarian I've been taught (unofficially and on the job) to not be a condescending twat when teaching things to others-- ESPECIALLY when you have to convince them of something. Even if they were correct, there's no way this would bring people to their side
A condescending twat😂 couldn't have said it better!
I honestly feel like they don't care about convincing others. they just wanna rant to their echo chamber, then cry "oppression" when they're called out on their lies
She's too bitter to care about actually spreading her message. She just wants to attack others
That's another clue that they're in a cult: they have ZERO awareness of how they come across to others. I could swap them out for Moonies back in the day.
100%
It will never not amuse me that they think small people are comfortable in airline seats.
Losing weight will never be okay to them for any reason. They say there are exceptions to that rule, but there aren’t. They say you can lose weight as long as you aren’t fatphobic but simply losing weight is fatphobic to them.
I remember when Adele came out with her weight loss.. didn't say anything to anyone about why and they came for her and attacked her saying she's abandoning them for losing weight.
You are so right about the "just dont do it in front of me" comment. They don't want the truth in their faces cause it makes their beliefs seem wrong
Exactly. Every person that is a success only proves to them how unsuccessful they are because of their own laziness.
This. They're avoidant. The truth hurts and they're trying to live in an echo chamber where they don't have to hear it and do so by discrediting criticism as blind hate.
She’s so immature, the way she has to make her “quirky” little faces and sounds. She thinks she’s so cute but she’s literally acting like a child
This comment is so weird,what are you talking about?
@@aliceluna702 she just is making little facial expressions and hiking up the volume of some of her letters. She acts like she thinks she's adding a little bit of cutesy personality to what she says to make it seem less ridiculous which it didn't (peep Amberlynn Reid she's acting just like her)
@@GabbyBeyer this is just an assumption and again,weird af. She Is cutesy anyway
I agree. I found all her little isms really obnoxious.
I just find it ridiculous that the same people who preach about body autonomy will rant and rave over someone intentionally losing excess body fat.
Can you believe how unhinged that whole "intentional weightloss" idea is?
So if i do plan to lose weight in a healthy intentional way is super bad but if i lose weight because im sick and about to die without having control over it thats a good reasonable way of losing weight by their logic, thats the only "good weightloss"
@@lug358 exactly! It also kills me when they tout about their blood panels being normal. I understand that not every body is the same, but claiming that excess fat and body composition do not equate to health is the equivalent to driving your car with the check engine light on. Sure, you may be able to drive that vehicle with no issues for several thousand miles, but at some point you're gonna end up stranded on the side of the road and beating yourself up because you didn't take care of the issue sooner.
Yeah it’s giving very anti-choice movement
@@lug358look at the way she distorted intentional weight loss, too. To her, it’s weighing yourself every day, tracking every bite that goes in your mouth, etc. So to her, intentional weight loss is just disordered eating and nothing else. She can’t wrap her brain around the idea that intentional weight loss can be about simply improving your diet and moving more and doesn’t always involve tracking calories. That wouldn’t fit her narrative that intentional weight loss is more dangerous than bejng fat. It’s more convenient for her to vilify it completely.
@@ratulamorie5255 absolutely. But also, i dont think that tracking calories is disordered by itself. In fact, tracking calories helps me to keep myself on track, as we usually are not good estimating how much food we are consuming. For disordered behaviours to happen there must be a disordered mindset. Tracking your calories, weighting yourself etc does not have to be a disordered thing, neither physically or mentally.
What i do think is disordered eating and behaviour is to be binging on junk food all day everyday and having no thoughts about your health or wellbeing at all. But thats the other side of the same coin that they dont want to admit to.
This started as “acceptance”, with an understanding that your ideal state would be a smaller you. It unfortunately went too far like everything else and became a rigid ideology with rules and regulations you MUST adhere to or you’re not part of the “community”.
I always thought it was just accepting different bodies and abilities, and not stigmatizing or harassing them because of said weight or disability. It has nothing to do with weight loss or lack of weight loss. At least, in my opinion it doesn't. 🤷
I think people can do what they want with their body. It has nothing to do with me how someone else looks.
@@applegal3058You are talking about body positivity, they seem to be talking specifically about fat acceptance.
@@notimportant123 ohhh pk
Imagine being so chronically online that you have to rush and respond to something, and it can't wait until after you finish doing your hair.
That’s exactly what I said.😂 It’s very sad to admit that you have to stop doing something that is part of your daily life to respond to useless comments.
I find it funny that she's saying that people have no originality even though every singe person involved in the FA community say the same exact things.
Literally word for word.
They even speak with the same inflections. Especially when they're trying to imitate their critics in their over the top, condescending manner.
@@jd5368 yes! 😂
She projecting without realizing it. She’s too busy being self-righteous to listen to herself.
When you get older your body feels it. I have always my whole life been either stick thin or overweight. The yo-yo diet has wrecked havoc on me. Im 44 and diabetic. I recently found out I have kidney disease. I would never look down upon fat or thin people. My point is, look after your health. Do not end up where I am.
I’m in your exact position
i’m 27 and have been stuck in the yo-yo cycle since age 18…thank you for the wake up call
the 'healthy at every size' crowd doesn't seem to factor in age. I got along fine being overweigh for most of my adult life. Then late 40's the blood pressure starts to go up, blood sugar keeps inching higher, cholesterol above normal, out of breath walking across a parking lot. I needed to lose weight or look forward to dealing with a bunch of disease, brought on by carrying excess weight. I lost 100+ lbs. It does matter. All those health markers are in the normal range. Losing and maintaining does not come easy or naturally for me. I work at it every day.
I'm not fat. I'm not skinny. Is there an average-size group I can be a part of that will threaten me and make me feel bad for changing myself if i decide to? Like come on people...people shouldn't care what size other people are!
When I was younger and dealing with a binge/restrict eating disorder, I found the body positive/fat acceptance community really helpful.
Then as I began to recover, I started feeling less comfortable in those spaces. It felt like many of those people were still obsessed with their body, but in a different way. I think loving your body where it’s at is really important and I don’t see anything wrong with it. But for someone like me who was struggling with body image and obsessing over it, it was still putting focus on my body and wasn’t helping me.
What finally pushed me out of those spaces was seeing a content creator who I had been following for years really fluctuate with the her wait extremely. She was very open about her mental health struggles and I feel for her, but I realized she was still in a disordered eating mindframe, just fluctuating between both ends of the spectrum. I hope she found peace but I didn’t want to take advice from someone in the middle of an intense struggle.
I actually remember when I was morbidly obese, I had a similar delusion about "thin" people. I sadly assumed life was easier, if you were a smaller size. I realize with age and having lost the weight, that this was delusional thinking. I understand now, that a large percentage of people, look at those who don't have the same struggles they do, and automatically assume that those people have an easier, better life. For example, if money is a constant struggle, those people may believe that those who have money have an easy life. This is, of course, not true. In reality everyone has their own struggles. Overcoming a struggle doesn't automatically absolve you of having struggles. Basically, grass is always greener on the other side. I keep reminding myself, that while their grass may be greener to me, my grass may seem greener to them.
Very well stated!!
Preach!
Are you serious? I lived in a small and in a fat body,and the difference Is Crazy. Of course being thin Is literally Easy mode.
My dad used to tell me “People won’t care about anything you have to say, until they know how much you care about them.” Idk what possessed this woman to think that speaking down to others will make her argument more persuasive 😂
“Shut up Max” 😂 I don’t know why it was just so off the cuff and had me rolling. Lol
Same! 😂
I think he said "shout out max"
@@paulukee 😂🤣 went back and listened.. I think he did say “shout out Max” lol I thought he said “shut up Max” too 🤣😂
It was "Shout out Max" but it did sound like Shut up😅
@@Solitaire427damn 😂 I thought he said shut up
Welcome to the All You Can Eat buffet at the Hotel California
Shaming people for trying to take better care of their health is so absurd and acting like being honest and public about choosing to lose weight is "sh**ing" on anyone is just delusional. I hope nobody working to lose weight and improve their health pays any mind to this patronizing mean girl!
The fact that being fat is what makes it a community like gurl. Shout out to my long hair community! Thats how ridiculous it sounds.
👏👏👏🤭
Shout out to the scarf community! Love me a nice scarf when it's cold and anyone who doesn't is scarfphobic.
@@LouieNJ like i get that they can relate to each other and bond on similar experiences on being fat, but that does not make it a community, specially when is something that can be changed whenever they decide to.
"Don't talk over the infinihair folks, you have short-hair privilege and don't know the tangling struggles"
Damn this could work, we should start that 🤣
I lost a lot of weight and get comments like "oh you're so lucky though you're thin" I absolutely hate this thought process of fat people.
It's like no girl I'm on a constant calorie and exercise control to stay this size because I don't want to die!
I have dealt with it too! When I saw friends I haven't seen in a couple years they would call me a "skinny b*tch" say I'm so lucky that I'm small and make jokes about fattening me up. It's not luck..I put in a ton of work daily, for years.
Exactly. It is that mindset that keeps people fat. There is no finish line. I have to work at it every single day.
@@LifeAfterLosingthis is it right here! People have made similar comments or something like "ugh I wish I could do it like you but I can't, you make it look so easy" I FUCKING WISH IT WAS! When I explain to them that it is something I will have to keep working on every day for the rest of my life they get even more discouraged but it's the reality for us former fats. No it's not fun but it's worth all the work hard work. It gets *slightly* easier but it's certainly never *easy*.
@@bloodzilla. 100%. It is something I will have to be aware of for the rest of my life. When I am not aware, I can gain weight very fast and I’ll be damned if I give it up after all that work. No way!
@@LifeAfterLosing damn right! Congrats on your weight loss btw, proud of you for getting it done 💪 We did it and we got this, we're NEVER going back!
It is very difficult to accommodate people who just keep getting fatter with no end in sight. They need to stop acting like victims when it comes to the consequences of things they have done to themselves.
What privilege? What power?
Being able to sit in a chair made for the average person is not a privilege. In today's economy, being able to eat more that trice of calories that a body of an average person needs to survive, that it's a privilege.
And don't get me that: fast food is cheaper than healthy food crap when, for the price of one burger, I can buy a 1kg of rice.
I have often wondered how they can afford to stuff their faces with...I just cannot call burgers, crisps, and cookies for food, so let's call it edible items...all day. It is one expensive addiction!!!
As a person who loves to watch cult documentaries… this is a cult.
They just don’t have the cult leader. They are all try to lead it though 😂
I've been losing weight again but at this point I really only share that information with my doctor - and maybe one reason I'm doing it is to fit on a plane, or walk around a zoo, or take care of medical issues. It doesn't matter, people just care too much about other people they don't even know.
That's awesome you're doing something to make you feel better!
I totally agree it's nobody's business. Except maybe my physician for medicine dosing, or surgery risk, or to judge the risk of specific diseases too look out fir.
Friends, family, boss, coworkers, strangers, etc, have no reason to care how much someone weighs.
luckily I didn't have many friends when I lost my 100lbs, so no one outside my family even really noticed.. and therefore couldn't pull something like this on me.
If I make more friends in the future, I feel like I might have to keep my weightloss success history a secret 🤫
I feel like it entirely relies upon the character of your friends. Me and one of my other friends have started weight loss journeys and our two thin friends (A swimmer and a runner) have been super supportive. They've actually been surprisingly good about knowing when to hold us accountable when it comes to making excuses about what foods we're eating or avoiding exercise.
So much bitterness from this woman, never seen jealousy like this on a person.
She and my stepmom would be best friends 😭
Agree. Ooof it must be hellish in her head 😬
Basically you’re not allowed to change your mind on the internet lmao 🤣
😂 No. Never. LOL
I will say, when i lost weight and got a taste of not being 500 lbs, it felt really good and i plan to keep that feeling.
Ingroup-outgroup hostility is a scientific term that she’s not even using correctly…
"Shut up Max" threw me off lolol 😂
The whole "tiny taste of thin privilege" thing she keeps going on about isn't really what she's witnessing. It's simply people being excited about changing themselves and their lives. They aren't suddenly being treated like supermodels and feeling privileged, they're simply just stoked about taking control of their lives and feeling positive.
Its giving hotel California- once you check in you can never leave.. I’m scared 😭😭😂😂😂
As someone who got a communications degree- yeah in-group and out-group exists, but it's not "one is good, one is bad". The in-group refers to whatever group you belong to, and the out-group is people who don't. It's not a heriarchy thing, it's about the different co-cultures we view ourselves to belong to. She's twisting it to fit her narrative
Their problem is 100% former fat people losing the weight and maintaining it. They preach being fat is a natural state, and 'new thin' people disprove that.
I don't understand what people like this want from those in fat acceptance who want to/need to lose weight. Are these people jus supposed to stay sick to not hurt the movement?
They want them to stay fat or just shut up about their weight loss so they don't feel like lazy slobs for not doing it themselves. Every person that leaves the fat acceptance arena and betters themselves is proving them wrong, and they don't want to hear any of that.
They want them to just take it and die but blame everything but their weight related complications
I'm fat. Even at my highest weight of over 370lbs never did I ever see being fat as a good thing. It's not healthy. I totally agree that we should be nice to each other and if someone wants to stay fat and unhealthy then it's up to them. I can say at 60 I regret not getting healthy earlier because the toll it's taken on my body and overall health is sad. We're just not designed to carry that much weight. I don't want to be in the in group if it means staying unhealthy and overweight. Two heart attacks, heart failure, diabetes, COPD, kidney disease is nothing to be proud of. Learn from my mistakes, get healthy before your body breaks beyond repair. It gets harder the sicker you get.
I'm all about loving your body doesn't matter how it looks like, but I don't understand feeling confortable in a size that is so big that you cannot do basic things as pick up things on the floor without almost having a heart attack.
“No one will ever accept you like we accept you” is such a cult tactic. Anyways, she sounds so bitter.
Crabs in the bucket mentality is strong with this one.
Is she okay? I don't think she's okay...😂
I do think ex fats are pretty outspoken much of the time. However, I also think that’s a part of food addiction recovery. It’s like an alcoholic who comes clean to everyone they hurt. Accountability is the most important tool in the journey.
Plus people who quit any destructive behaviour also tend to be a bit "evangelical" when they notice the positive effect of the changed approach.
@@johannas.l.brushane2518 I don’t disagree with that. I do think most only do that around people who make comments or ask questions. I’ve lost 85 myself and I don’t bother talking to people who didn’t start the subject. I figure if they are interested, they will ask.
with the fat acceptance movement as crazy as it is i think we need more outspoken ex fats honestly. the fat acceptance ppl have been brainwashed into thinking that it's like impossible to lose weight and keep it off. they hate seeing that it's actually possible
No it's not. It's just counting calorie,it's not like I'm doing something important. Why do I have to talk about my weight loss journey? It gives me the ick when someone tells me I lost weight. Leave me alone,leave my body alone,I hate having a body and I don't wanna talk about It.
@@MikeEhrmantrautOfficialImpossible would be the wrong Word,but the probability of long time success are less than 5%,so It Is nearly impossible. My only hope to be consistent with weight loss Is getting depressed again,depression is the only thing that really helps me with weight loss.
This is why I’ve always said I don’t believe in the fat acceptance community. It’s a very scary community. As a big girl myself, I’m used to smaller people telling me to lose weight. Now I have to deal with other fat people getting mad that’s your losing weight. It’s weird.
I'm sorry you have to deal with other people telling you to lose weight. Being bullied into something doesn't encourage someone. A person should decide when to do things with their body.
Ah yes everyone who loses weight does it to have power and scoff at their less impressive fat counterparts, and not to…not be out of breath going up a flight of stairs, handle a medical issue that being obese directly affects, prevent looming medical issues, feel better on a day to day basis… I swear they have such main character syndrome
I don't really understand being in a community based around what you weigh in the first place. Tend to make friends based on hobbies and interests. While it can be frustrating feeling like the odd one out and judged for being the only fat one I'm less interested in being part of a group of people where the thing you have in common is that you're fat. But I guess it's not really part of my identity in the same way.
Thats like people saying they are from the alcohol community
Her little entitled speech is not original in any way. She and for instance Splotchmaker sound as if they have the same scriptwriter.
There is no "thin privilege", they suffer the negative consequence of the lifestyle they choose, i.e. their own actions. Whining every day about not fitting into chairs, worry about whether they fit by the table when friends invite you to dinner, being angry about not finding nice clothes is surely more devastating to health by the constant stresshormone release than the habitual mindful reflection about what you eat.
Thin privilege is definitely real, just not in the way the internet interprets it. It's the same thing as pretty privilege - people are more likely to treat you with kindness and give you the time of day if you look a certain way. As someone who's been obese and has now lost that weight the difference in how the world treats you is insane
The message I get is that don’t even try because nothing will ever change. Man that’s cruel.
I my opinion, this "belonging in a community" is taken to an extreme when it comes to america. It seems very hard to feel special and wanted over there. As a danish person, I NEVER grew up in a "I belong in this group and you are over there, so we don't like each other" with body types or color or anything like that. Everything in america seems to be like this. "the fat community" what does that even mean? So overweight people feels a sense of community over being overweight and therefor accepted?
You can be a shitty person no matter your weight? no matter your color? your income? It's unhealthy to label label label in this way. I don't see weight, color og culture, I see your person, If I like you and your morals, we are cool. It must be so hard to constantly having to seek labels and drama like this.
Omg- I’m first, I can’t believe it. I love your channel. The fat acceptance community is stone cold a cult. I lose over 200 lbs, and I was shredded by some of them.
does she have to be so condescending?
That’s something I’ve noticed about all of the fat activists. Is how condescending and rude they are.
Also, may I mention, you have the 100% right to lose weight SOLELY FOR AESTHETIC PURPOSES. If you want to be hotter, and you believe that you will be if you lose weight and tone up, you can do that. It can have nothing to do with health at all.
Most of these folks are way younger. That's an easier position to be in than middle age and up. It will get harder. Trust. It's not about weight loss for optics. It's for survival.
Just because "you" are "healthy" now, it doesn't mean being fat isn't wrecking your health. It just hasn't shown up on a test and/or manifest it yet.
Just like an underweight anorexic can be "healthy", or a smoker can be cancer free.
She sounds bitter and jealous that others are making positive changes for their health and she doesn’t try. This woman sounds condescending, entitled, smug, ignorant and hateful.
It's frustrating to see how unhappy they are about other people deliberately trying to change their body size. I don't think all people lose weight just to get thin privilege.
I have no problem with Fat Acceptance existing, I think people have found a community and a way to promote better treatment of plus size people and that's fine. What I have a problem with is simply inserting yourself into the business of people who are not aligned with you. Not even talking about like outwardly hostile, fatphobic people who take jabs at the fat community as a whole--those people have opened themselves up to criticism--but I mean why bother taking issue with random other people who are losing weight? They're not actively working against you. They're not the ones hurting the community.
Few things are more grating than a communications major with a background in postmodernism lecturing via TikTok on fatphobia. Like, "Honey, I promise that prof you're crushing on is not following your TikTok dissertation."
People like her who want to hold other people back or control the narrative are just avoiding taking responsibility for their own lack of ambition to make changes and avoid their own feelings of inadequacy. Focus on yourself and if you really believe in what you're saying then why does it matter what people outside think... Oh... Because they're right and that's triggering for people who would rather live in a delusion.
lmao her dogs "yes" sure looks like the same body language dogs use to show discomfort (ears pushed back, averted eyes, lowered head)
but she only seems to care what she wants and thinks soo... of course shes breaking her dogs boundaries the dogs proby just an object to her
#MaxBlinkForHelp
It's "Thin privilege" when you work hard to lose weight. It's "Thin benefits." You benefit so much from losing weight and keeping it off. More energy, better maneuverability, clothes that fit etc It's all benefits to al the hard work you've put in.
No leaving the squooshy cult!
Perfect word you used "BITTER" sad
The body you want, is the one you’ll work hard for.
I am currently training as a counsellor. To be honest, I see a lot of the anger and the rhetoric of shitting on the fat community by losing weight for health reasons, seems to be more an embedded issue than people are willing to talk about? Why are they so so concerned with what others are doing with their health and body that they literally make it into a part of a personality
P.s. this is coming from someone who was morbidly obese, lost weight put some weight back on etc etc
So.... You CAN'T change your mind, EVER! Crazy
The vocal fry is frying my brain
Gluttony, Sloth and now Envy…only four more to go girl.
As someone who was bigger it shocks me to see people like this. These people do not hold themselves accountable. Whether its loosing weight on Ozempic or staying fat and 'happy' and yet these people seem miserable.. Then you get the people who loose weight for health or gain weight for health and these creators see this as an attack because they are stupid and dilulu.. Its almost scary the amount of people from both sides who have such toxic and cold views on people.
I don't want to spoil her worldview, but the idea of controlling every single thing you put in your mouth was one of the most important skills in hunter-gatherer times (diahrrea could kill you), and it still is.
Still waiting on this power I’m supposed to have being “thin”
This lady thinks she’s much cuter than she actually is. She should take care of her own yard before criticising the neighbours.
The way some of these people act, you would think they are being kicked and stoned by skinny people every time they leave their houses. I'm not saying fat discrimination and bullying doesn't exist, but talk about drama! My goodness!!!
Everyone is not seeking “power”, she is definitely projecting. Companies and influencers used the BP movement for clout. Now that it’s not popular anymore, the BPM is unraveling. If they were truly happy with their body and lives they would not be constantly making videos shaming people for losing weight.
Thank you for your work!
I'm so happy I started losing weight. I'm only 26, so no permanent damage done to my body most likely. Although I was a healthy weight growing up, it started to creep up when I was about 20. And yes, I'm fatphobic, and proud of it. Jeez, this TikTok cult is nuts.
I found this channel by accident, but something I love about this dude is that he's so real and neutral about things. He respectfully has an opinion that isn't necessarily radically pinting toward a single ideology. I think nowadays the internet needs less radicality. My guy's so chill lol
I just don’t understand people who have issues with former FA losing weight if they are just sharing their experience
The projection is off the charts with this one. This girl is miserable and trapped in a mental hell of her own making having convinced herself she can't lose weight, when the reality is she just doesn't want to. Or rather, she doesn't want to put in the work that weight loss takes. So anybody attempting to better themselves is seen as a traitor. This is the craziest, most toxic kind of thinking I have ever seen.
I have lost weight from obese to a healthy BMI. I haven't noticed an uptick in privilege. I'm doing it wrong!
Oof- it really is a cult nowadays… thanks for sharing, appreciate what you do 🤙🏽
The pause at 17:42. The poster child for a cult 😅
This chick is the definition of tell me you’re miserable without telling me you’re miserable. If she actually liked herself and loved her life, she wouldn’t be on the internet spewing hate. That’s not what happy people do. ETA: I have yet to see a FA influencer/social media person come back after losing weight to shit on fat people. If anything, former fats I’ve seen (like myself) are hyper-aware NOT to do that, or they try to avoid talking about it at all. But we CAN call out bs when we see it because we’ve experienced both sides.
Not the fat dog to, that dog is innocent.😭😭
Also this rhetoric- “thins”( all of a sudden name-calling seems to be allowed ..,) hate us for existing. When we eat crappy food we are sticking it to them and they hate it. Reality - most of us, most of the time, are too busy with our own worries to be concerned about what ANYONE else looks like. When e we are concerned about fat people it is because we love our friend, husband, daughter and we actually want them to live for a long time. When fat people show videos of themselves literally stuffing low-quality food into their mouths, basically giving us the middle finger as they do it we are perplexed- how does that actually affect us?? Why would it make us angry that you are doing that??
I'm just here for Max. ❤
She just young and invincible right now. It's a shame because she's got pretty good genetics but she'll start feeling it when she gets older
Soooo a cult is a place the does it's best to tie positive feelings to the group, hoping to indoctrinate someone via those good feelings being given when they obey, and bad feelings given if they go against the group belief. If a person is overweight and wishes to join a group, but then wants to leave due to health reasons and needing to lose weight only to be shamed about it then that would be the cult. If a person gains weight after losing it and is shamed by those who inspired them to do it that would also fall into the same context. My feelings are that weight is a personal journey that you can invite people to join, or request people not depending on your needs/wants. It seems also that most people who are overweight feel the same way about weight loss that many people feel when we find out someone is vegan. It is almost like we feel judged by the circumstance if we aren't doing exactly what they are (personal opinion) so people lash out to try and justify not doing the same thing as someone else. Even if the other person isn't doing anything judgmental, people can feel judged via their own mental image being challenged about their place in the world. Least that is my theory on it.
im so confused. They say they dont care about what people say or think about them but then when they realize they have to lose weight they dont want to share or show that because...then people would say things to them, like "told you so" or criticize them like wheres the whole "i dont care" attitude gone?
She acts like when you lose weight you can’t be mentally struggling and still see your self as a plus size this women she is weird .
If I have to listen to this women say 'Taste' ONE more time, Im gonna lose my dam mind!!
IKR, ugh! Something so creepy about it. When she said "A little taste" with the lip-smacking... 😬🤒
Without being horrible, I highly doubt she knows what a little taste is.
The thing is in the same way that someone who has never been fat won’t fully understand the struggles so to someone who has never been thin will not understand what life is like as a thin person so OF COURSE they’ll think it’s all roses.
Just like Hannah Montana says.... HAHAHA cracked me up
Can someone explain to me how it is thin privilege if you have to keep working to stay that way like what 😂