1 hour chatty body doubling cleaning (talking, real time)
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- Опубликовано: 1 мар 2023
- Body doubling is a great way to make challenging tasks easier whether you have ADHD, autism, chronic pain, or just need a buddy. Frequent talking and rest breaks are included and encouraged. You can do it!
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Thank you SO much for sharing your space with us in this way. Also, I tend to prefer wearing shoes on cleaning days because it helps me to have the “here to get stuff done” mindset. Like putting on armor, sort of. 💚
That's a great way of thinking of it! 💓
I'm thrilled this isn't just a me thing. 😂
Best tip from the F.L.Y. Lady that I picked up a decade ago: in the morning dress to receive visitors, including shoes. So the feet feel ‘yes, we’re going to do something!’ Preferably clean house shoes with laces which are only worn inside, to keep a distinction between clean inside and keeping the dirt out. This helps me so much to get moving.
I LOVE this. I've watched a couple body doubling cleaning videos and a lot of them have the extra edits and the classical music, with very little talking. I NEEEEEED to have someone talking too because it's more personal and like you said, it makes it feel like there is someone in the same room. I appreciate you sharing all of this raw with us - this is my new favorite, go-to video for Sunday resets. THANK YOU ALSO FOR THE WATER REMINDER!
I'm glad you liked it!! 💕
this kept me motivated to clean my room, i love seeing people who’s rooms/houses get as messy as mine does, because i always feel so shameful. i also don’t have any diagnosed mental illnesses (although i have my suspicions), so i feel like i have no reason to have a crazily messy bedroom, and i feel shameful a lot of the time. so thank you for being honest about your living space! makes me feel less awful
I literally shouted "HELL YEAH!" when you said you were listening to Ologies! Alie & friends keep me company all the time when I'm adulting, puttering, or driving!
My first time trying body doubling, hope it helps me lol
Edit: I loved it!!! This was so helpful to me! I realized I always want people to help me clean so I feel motivated to do it but if someone is actually around me cleaning I get frustrated lol
Same!! Glad it could help
I have discovered an unknown (to me) world of the internet! BODY DOUBLING videos! GENIUS! 🎉
I love love love your process. I told my partner about how you approach cleaning and he's now quoting stuff you said back to me.
Also I'm a big fan of function over moral judgement like you're discussing. If the Tupperware is yuck, just pitch it. It is a gift to yourself.
Ahh that means so much to me 😭 Thank you. We're in this together
Im really late to this, but thank you for sharing it. I have a really, really hard time keeping my space clean, and this made me feel less alone in the struggle and really helped me get my 2 month mess clean
cat cameos are great motivation
I love watching this video. I keep coming back to it whenever I’m overwhelmed with my space.
I appreciate this so much, cause I’m the one hand I wanna have someone over just to talk to me while I clean but when my mind gets bad my space gets bad and I’m too embarrassed for that, so these videos help me SO much so THANK YOU, YOU AMAZING HUMAN
before i watched this i honestly could not get out of bed. i don’t have a adhd diagnosis, but i find myself wanting to clean and do things but i’m unmotivated. my room was pretty rough, i couldn’t walk through it and there was just stuff everywhere, so this video made me feel more comfortable and motivated to clean! tysm! 💕🌿
Proud of you!
This is very humane. And comforting. As well as motivating and mentally organizing.
thank you so much for making & sharing this, having you chatting in the background while i do my own cleaning is so calming and makes it all seem less overwhelming. i really appreciate it ❤
I'm only about 10 minutes in and this is already helping me so much! As someone who struggles with executive dysfunction, body doubling is something I've wanted to try. I've got a friend who says he's willing to give it a shot with me, but our schedules don't tend to align perfectly for something like that. The fact I was able to get even a single piece of voiceover done without mental torture is exhilarating. Also, off topic, but seeing another woman with my body type just like anywhere is super cool and definitely makes me feel better about my body. A bit of a side effect I guess; I just don't tend to see many people who aren't either very thin or a more traditional "plus-size"
Really needed this video today.
Aaaand the cat instantly uplifted my mood. Thank you for being so real and helping other 🙏🏼❤️❤️❤️
Yayyy, so proud of you! It looks great. Definitely gave me some motivation to clean my own craft cave/bedroom 😊
Thank you!! You can do it!
I can relate. Feb was rough for me also. I have a severe anxiety disorder and ptsd. This month I am focusing on one day or hour of the day at a time. You got this!
Baby steps! You got this too 💗
I realized I needed this when I was finally able to do my laundry while ignoring my Zoom training a couple weeks ago 😂 I'm here to clean other parts of my room.
Thank you so much for this video and especially the message in the outro. Decluttering and purging clothes I no longer wear has been on my to-do list for years. I finally was able to tackle piles I had been putting off with this video in the background. Thank you for your openness and hard work. You're a gem! 💛
Thankyou for helping me clean up my room, I was paralyzed all day until I found this video :)
I managed to finish an essay that I'd been putting off right as the video ended! Thank you for this, body doubling really helps me a lot
Good job!
Thank you! This really helped me stay focused while folding clothes and cleaning my room. You're very relatable.
Thank you for this. You have no idea how much this helped
I needed this so bad, I got 4 minutes in and it was enough motivation to go through six bags of stuff sitting in my second bedroom. I cannot wait to watch the rest of the video and fix my life lol. thanks
also the Nintendo music is so perfect
Thanks. In the meantime I cleaned as we went. Threw out garbage, placed objects in the area where they belonged, drank tea and coffee, and washed everything on my kitchen counter. 🙏🥳
Great job!
Thank you so much for making this video! Having an office that doubles as a bedroom means things get out of control pretty fast. I cleaned my entire floor and organized a few things I had been putting off for waaaaay too long. Having a body double helps a ton
I love the animal crossing music❤️
I've been saving this video for a day when I was ready for a long-forn cleaning instead of small bursts like I usually do. That day was today! Really loved this video. Thanks a bunch! I would actually love to see more "clean with me" videos from you, maybe in different lengths like a half hour one, a fifteen minute one, etc.
Noted! 💗
I was able to clean my kitchen and get started on dinner! New subscriber here!
Your videos brighten my day. I appreciate your authenticity and sincerity. Keep posting content. You've inspired me to clean off my desk this morning. 🙂
Thank you! So proud of you!!
I cleaned my depression pit of an office YESTERDAY.. I should have looked up body doubling because it really helps me. Will definitely use this next time it gets messy
Im so grateful for this. I also have invisible disabilities and it is so helpful to have company
You did great ❤ I really enjoyed cleaning with you, I live in a tiny room so I have very little space. It was nice to declutter together 😊
Also I love flying Miles at the end of the video 😂❤
Thank you for making this video and for sharing so honestly. I've been really overwhelmed for a while and was struggling to get started. I cleaned out my spice drawer while you were also cleaning & it really helped. I'm motivated to do at least one more hour today! Thank you!!
Proud of you!
I love the music you put in the background of this video 💕 The animal crossing nostalgia hits perfect
Yesss nintendo hits
thank you for the video! I got my room in order right along with you :)
Good job!
This is the first video I’ve seen from you and I love the real time body doubling! Also instant subscribe when you said you’re in Ohio 👏❤️
i really really appreciate this video. i didnt think these types of videos would help me that much but i decided to give yours a try. i honestly never realized how helpful and motivational it was to put on a video like this in the background of my own cleaning. it helped so much!! also i always wanted someone to help me clean but I'd be nervous about being judged about it. so this was really great for having company
SO glad I could help
I know its been a year, but ive been suffering from servere depression and this video helped me clean my entire room.
Proud of you!
"if you see food trash try not to assign moral value to it" that's actually so healing to hear. Maybe we have similar trauma? But yeah that really helped to hear especially just being able to throw your own stuff away too,
like it hit deep suddenly idk
Thank you SO MUCH for making this ❤ Your non judgmental, soothing voice was the motivation I needed to clean up with you today
this is SO NICE i just found an ant infestation in my room and it's made the idea of cleaning even more overwhelming (i despise ants) so im hoping this will help!
edit 1: you got me to clean for a whole hour without noticing
I went through the same thing in high school and now seeing even one ant in my house is triggering. GOOD JOB cleaning for an hour!! Def focus on trash and possible food crumbs so that the ants get out of there asap. Proud of you 💕
Thank you for uploading, it helped me empty, clean, reaarange and completely reorganise my huge shelf. Was my first body-doubling Video, I'll definetly try it again in the future!
You helped me declutter a tiny bit. Thanks :)
Fantastic Job Moth! I clicked on your video to try body doubling because you look like a beautiful friend of mine and this video really helped me 😁 Thank you 😊❤
Aw thank you!
I would give anything to have my own office for my crochet business
I'm very grateful#
Im going to come back to this I think bc I work in chunks, but this is helpful to get me started and cleaning!
Your videos have been helping me SO MUCH. Thank you so so much. Thank you for sharing your space and being vulnerable in that way. I want you to know it's making a huge impact on me and probably everyone else watching!!!❤
I'm so glad!
dude this video singlehandedly got me to get up and organize my whole room. thanks so much for doing this and i love the lofi nintendo musics :D
Thank you so much for creating this video
Gonna try this! Really need to clean my room and ive heard body doubling is helpful, so im gonna put this on in a bit once i start cleaning
this helped me so much❤️ thank you.
Ooooo this is a good one, I can’t wait to use this❤❤ thank you!!!
My second time using this video to help me clean. Thank you for understanding the neurodivergent mind so well! The right amount of busy chatter, fun Nintendo music and words of kindness and understanding. I’ve just learned as an almost 40-year-old I have ADHD and assigning my issues as a moral failing has been hard to shake. Thanks for the reminder it’s not moral; it’s just my adhd.
Just found this a year later and just wanted to say hi, nice video and show some love
Thank you so much ❤
I need this!
I greatly enjoyed and deeply appreciated the realness of your video. Paired with the nostalgic background music, this was chef’s kiss ✨👌 I struggle deeply with consistency and the lengthiness of the video helped me pace myself. Also some other creator’s “messes” don’t look as bad as mine 😅 and to see you very open about yours and how it was similar to mine made me feel both motivated and comforted. Will definitely return for more, thank you for sharing and having me along! 💗
Thanks for making this! Unfortunately, most of my house looks like the 'before' condition of your office. I resell things on Ebay and have collected way too many things to sell without sufficient space to store it in. As the clutter has piled up, it has also affected my motivation to do regular cleaning. I've considered inviting a friend to be a body double, but I'm too embarrassed to do that until thing are a little more decluttered. Sooo, although it's my bedtime now, I hope to revisit this video soon and clean along with you! Thank you for being so transparent and showing me that I'm not alone in my struggle with letting things pile up.
Also, you have beautiful skin! :)
I believe in you!
hey! thank you for cleaning with me!! i cleaned my room!! i just have to do prolly like 10 rounds of loundry but it's a start!!!
miles looks JUST like my cat bonkers he’s so cuuuttteee 💗💗 thank you for this video
only difference is bonkers doesn’t have the white patches but miles’ lil meow is just melting my heart 😭💗
Aww omg say hi to bonkers for me
When the Wii music started playing twice I knew I was on the right side of RUclips. :)
This is so good :) thank you for making this!!! So destigmatizing and relatable. Also YARN! And CATS!!
This gives me motivation to clean my room! I'll probably do that while watching the video later :D
Yay! You can do it :D
Thanks!!
I have a tabby cat just like you! My tabby is named Daisy, she's 3 years old
I was thinking it would be so great if I could find someone to body double me who chats on a video!
Thanks!
Thank you!!
Me before video: ok I have adhd but there’s NO WAY body doubling actually works…it’s not possible. But I have zero motivation to get this house clean so why the hell not.
After video: house is sparkling, I’m energized and motivated to keep going, and have dopamine OFF THE CHARTS from being so productive. Huh, well I’ll be damned; it does work. 😅
i wanted to see if this type of video would help me bc i’m having a hard time initiating bc i’m sad packing up my apartment and it already has helped me feel more motivated so thank you.
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Bestie love ur vids please post a yarn clean up/organizing video if u can my soul needs it thank u!!
Working on it! ;)
your cats are so cute
using this to do assignements ivpe been procrastinating
I've just done a sink load of dishes!!!! 13 minutes! Then when you said about not assigning moral value to food rubbish being around and why to not do that, it helped me throw away a lunch box containing mouldy food that I couldn't deal with that was also part of the trainwreck that added to the disaster in my house. We are recovering from Covid.
Great job!
ohh, I love -ologies
I got my bathroom deep cleaned
What’s the music? It reminds me of Mario Kart! around 8:00
It probably is Mario Kart! I was just using a Nintendo mix
What music is in the background?
Random Nintendo music! Mostly Mario Kart, Donkey Kong, Kirby, and Yoshis Island
Thank you with all my heart for showing us your actual mess. 🥺🥲 My little apartment looks JUST like that.
Uy you likes clean very much